Preacher Voddie Baucham speaking on womanhood. Very profitable message to listen to. His website: www.voddiebauch... Listen to more here: www.sermonindex...
I listen to this Many times and never gets old. Reason I keep coming back is to REMIND me so that I won't forget my role as a wife. We need reminder cos sometimes we tend to forget, especially we are surrounded by ungodly things and people.
Wow, this was fantastic! Really appreciated how Mr. Baucham explained what "reverent in behavior" means. We so need godly preachers to tell us these things that our culture completely goes against. Not just a message for ladies either, as he is also directing it towards what young men should look for in a godly wife. Thank you brother!
I thank the Lord for this Brother in Christ and for his desire to share what a true Biblical woman is and what a Biblical woman looks like. May we as women always take heed to this message.
aahhh we are still learning... grown women are not girls... I am Woman! Isn't it beautifully how God created a man and a woman. I do appreciate the message... shout out to you, Brother Voddie!
Whew!!! This is GOOD teaching. Hallelujah for the HOLY SPIRIT and the sanctification process HE does in us, women, to be able to receive this. Truth is, if we want to be like CHRIST, we must learn and grow to walk in Biblical womanhood. It is a process, a daily process. It is not oppressive nor is it archaic. It is a good and perfect gift from our FATHER!
I agree, I am a bit uncomfortable about the older man seeking relationships with younger women because they don't get the attention from their daughters. Still processing that one.😬😬
Great message! I also thought that the illustration at the end was great. It really brings into view how twisted or perspective on submission is and how we have our priorities twisted as well. Thanks for this!
There is so much truth here. I would love to hear some teaching on abusive relationships and where the line is. I was released from one decades ago and still have occasional nightmares.
Sorry sister… I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for any comments, any concerns or any application of his theology to your question. And that's because your concerns about abuse, the nature of Biblical authority, always being rational authority rather than traditional authority do not, and cannot fit into this theological framework which is rooted in the traditions of men for doctrine, rather than the word of God. It's so sad that these men reject a high view of the scriptures, and exchange them for the traditions of men.
55:34 Just had a major brain moment. I keep thinking what is wrong with wanting your husband? However, when he repeated it I finally got it. The result of the curse was for us women to WANT to be the headship and to refuse our husband's leadership. Now I get it. Love Voddie Bacdum and the way he explains the bible teachings.
Great message of encouragement for those stay at home wives and moms. Doesn’t work for all women though. Whether Christian or not. Some women cannot afford to quit their jobs they and their children would suffer.
Still a little confused about the purity portion of that talk. I feel like there's a disconnect in my mind and how it all connects together. If anyone wants to take a shot at explaining further I'm all ears
While I appreciate so many of Pastor Voddie's points, the first principle of Biblical womanhood is to believe in the Lord Jesus. Reverent behaviour is indeed importrant, but behaviour is not as important as love of the Lord. It is to be the fruit of the spriti, not the whole point of womanhood.
I'm looking for a particular bit where Voddie criticizes the old stereotype of a father cleaning their gun when someone comes to pick up their daughter for a date. Anyone know where to find that?
Read the Word of God and pray that's the only way you will know and if confirms it by the word of God than you shouldn't be confused unless your stuck on worldly thoughts and wisdom, you have to chose to believe in Christ or the world simple...GBU
Good thing is I wear the same uniform for work everyday and dudes still try to flirt with me..smh even when I dress in sweats and have my hair in a ponytail guys still bother me. I dont think its about attention mainly...the heart of man is inclined toward sin.
Not all Christians believe a woman has to be submissive. I have seen marriages end, because the husband got bored with the very monster he created, that being a submissive wife. The women become resentful, because, they really don't have control over their lives. When people have an equal relationship, they have balance.
That stems from a misunderstanding of submission. Jesus was submissive to the Holy Spirit's leading. It is not about losing a sense of self. It is not about not having a voice. It is about meekness. The woman is an individual and no part of her should be being "created." I just pray for you to receive a true understanding of complementarianism.
The scripture says to submit to one another... and thank God for the three contrasts. The husband's submission comes in the form of "husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church." That is heavy-duty...we pray the husband can fulfill that mandate. Wives, we serve our husband as unto the Lord Jesus Christ.... and the Lord will bless you real good. (Prayer is vital.) As the couple grows together with Christ as the Head, the Holy Spirit will make the two, one.
The Anti Atheist Thank you for this explaination. However, I still have some reservations if you or anyone else would kindly direct with biblical answers please. 1) Does this mean EVERY decision to be made must wait for husband to initiate then wife quietly follows? 2) Does this place husband between wife's submission to Christ - like a mediator? This concerns me because I fell for that ideology in Catholic religion years ago, before becoming truly saved. 3) My husband has been abusive and immoral for many years, I have been angry and resentful before coming to accept Christ. He claims repentance and is making some effort to turn from his sins, incuding commitment to marriage counseling with our pastor. He's working on rebuilding my trust, I'm working to forgive and offer kindness, respect and affirmation to him. However, in my heart I submit to Christ over everything and everyone. I have been advised to basically let go of the past and restart our marriage together. What happens if he leads with selfish or harmful motives, just say no thanks in Jesus name? 4) If biblical metaphor says husband is to model Christ headship over church body, does that mean husband is to rule over wife with Christ appointed authority over judgement and discipline? Or just the servant model of Christ headship? To love, protect, provide, cherish, die for? 5) I don't consider myself a feminist..which my church pastor seems to keep bringing up in marriage counseling sessions as arguments elgaterians use to oppose this scripture, but I do work outside my home on a casual basis as needed, around my husband's schedule, if I had a choice I'd rather focus on family needs at home full time. I apologize if my thoughts are all over the map here. I am confused and concerned about abuse amd losing my voice and basic human rights. Christians used this type of doctrine to justify slavery not too long ago. Therefore, I'm having a hard time buying into this without concerns for my well being. Christ owns me, he paid my debt in full, not my husband or anyone else. Wasn't I made woman, in God's image? His daughter in Christ? Or just the weaker vessel to be controlled by a husband, afraid to speak up for fear of offending him and/or the Lord?
i wish he would address woman who became saved and their husbands didnt. i agree with everything but its hard to be submissive if the husband has no plan for your family. i know the bible teachs im still to be submissive but im just saying what do u do when u go to work everyday and your boss doesnt do his role at all. its very hard and some woman dont choose to unend in those places. also i think u should always follow your husband unless hes inviting u into sin with him because then u must be submissive to the high authority God.
1 Peter 3 addresses this: 1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
I love this!! I do have one honest question though. At 41:56, he says that going to the daughter first then to the dad is saying to her: "I've chosen you, and I'm going to your father." I might not understand what his point is, but is there something inherently wrong with that?
Check brother Baucham's teachings against scripture. Even Apostle Paul's audience checked his words against the Scriptures as he spoke to see if he was true
asdfbobbyasdf--Okay. You like your theology better than ours. You're free to follow it. Choose this day whom you will serve, but as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.
meek propriety reverent and Godly behavior conducting self to bring honor to God do not draw attention to yourself in clothing or in behavior irreverent don't be loud and obnoxious 3 contrast 3 commands 3 contexts Ephesians Chapter 5: Verse 15-21 22-24
i am not saying my god is perfect to justify his brutality i am saying that the people of sodom and gomorrah were destroyed and killed because they did not listen to god and were unrighteous. you see, god does not owe us life, in reality all who sinned do not deserve to live, and none of us do. you want to know what sodom and gomorrah was. it was only god exacting justice upon them, and he doesnt do that for the unbelievers today because of his great mercy.
they are evil for us to do because it is not our revenge to take. but god does it because they have commited sin so terrible that it is the only thing he could have done.
Okkaaayyy but I would like some Biblical scripture of this before I believe what some pastor is saying. I still don't really agree with this at all. It's kind of rude of you to assume that.
Somebody needs to lecture you. Things are moral because God is where morality comes from. You talk about Abraham being told to sacrifice Issac, but you neglected to acknowledge the idea of sacrifice as being a moral thing. A man jumps in front of a bus to push a child out of the way. He sacrificed his life. Is that immoral? A child sacrifices his life to save a million people from death. Is that immoral? You are misunderstanding the idea of sacrifice completely.
No, I believe in ONE talking snake and a universe created in SIX days. What are "real results" if you don't have a context to understand your results? Why do you believe the Bible to be an unreliable source of knowledge?
I listen to this Many times and never gets old.
Reason I keep coming back is to REMIND me so that I won't forget my role as a wife. We need reminder cos sometimes we tend to forget, especially we are surrounded by ungodly things and people.
Wow, this was fantastic! Really appreciated how Mr. Baucham explained what "reverent in behavior" means. We so need godly preachers to tell us these things that our culture completely goes against. Not just a message for ladies either, as he is also directing it towards what young men should look for in a godly wife. Thank you brother!
Praise God for Voodie I learn so much through these sermons! Lord Jesus help me become that woman I am called to be, Amen!
How is it going?
Same 😭
There are so many fake preachers that I dont go to church in any building....But I would go to hear him preach!! He's very good!!
I appreciate the teaching and preaching of Voddie.
I thank the Lord for this Brother in Christ and for his desire to share what a true Biblical woman is and what a Biblical woman looks like. May we as women always take heed to this message.
aahhh we are still learning... grown women are not girls... I am Woman! Isn't it beautifully how God created a man and a woman. I do appreciate the message... shout out to you, Brother Voddie!
Can't wait to have a daughter ❤
Great biblical teaching by Dr. Voddie...we have been lied to by the church. Lord continue to bring biblical literacy to this generation.
Whew!!! This is GOOD teaching. Hallelujah for the HOLY SPIRIT and the sanctification process HE does in us, women, to be able to receive this. Truth is, if we want to be like CHRIST, we must learn and grow to walk in Biblical womanhood. It is a process, a daily process. It is not oppressive nor is it archaic. It is a good and perfect gift from our FATHER!
Ouch. Very uncomfortable, but I know the Word is true. Voddie Baucham was faithful to the Scriptures in this sermon.
I agree, I am a bit uncomfortable about the older man seeking relationships with younger women because they don't get the attention from their daughters. Still processing that one.😬😬
@@Kinabus2 Ya that's just creepy. I haven't read that in the Bible, even though I have read many disturbing things in it.
I loved the concluding example!!!! How true is that statement. I can't wait to share this with my homeschooling wife of 4.
Great message! I also thought that the illustration at the end was great. It really brings into view how twisted or perspective on submission is and how we have our priorities twisted as well. Thanks for this!
There is so much truth here. I would love to hear some teaching on abusive relationships and where the line is.
I was released from one decades ago and still have occasional nightmares.
Sorry sister… I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for any comments, any concerns or any application of his theology to your question. And that's because your concerns about abuse, the nature of Biblical authority, always being rational authority rather than traditional authority do not, and cannot fit into this theological framework which is rooted in the traditions of men for doctrine, rather than the word of God. It's so sad that these men reject a high view of the scriptures, and exchange them for the traditions of men.
This is SOOOOO good! He NAILS it!
IKR :D
Amen.
There is no priority that supersedes the woman's priority in her home.
55:34 Just had a major brain moment. I keep thinking what is wrong with wanting your husband? However, when he repeated it I finally got it. The result of the curse was for us women to WANT to be the headship and to refuse our husband's leadership. Now I get it. Love Voddie Bacdum and the way he explains the bible teachings.
Great message of encouragement for those stay at home wives and moms. Doesn’t work for all women though. Whether Christian or not. Some women cannot afford to quit their jobs they and their children would suffer.
you should watch this guys thing on why he believes the bible, i think it will change your outlook on the bible's credibility
Raising fishers of men for the Lord. 🙏✝️
Where can we find this kind of woman in our society nowdays?
31:00 - 33:30: Fathers love your daughters.
Some woman DON'T want to be looked at. Being looked at brings fear....its a threat.
AMEN!
I would like fatherly love, but i'm 23 and my dad has another family and i would not sit on the lap of my step father.
Still a little confused about the purity portion of that talk. I feel like there's a disconnect in my mind and how it all connects together. If anyone wants to take a shot at explaining further I'm all ears
While I appreciate so many of Pastor Voddie's points, the first principle of Biblical womanhood is to believe in the Lord Jesus. Reverent behaviour is indeed importrant, but behaviour is not as important as love of the Lord. It is to be the fruit of the spriti, not the whole point of womanhood.
He is addressing Christians that have the indwelling Spirit. When VB addresses the lost he starts with you point.
"Amen, lights!"
I'm looking for a particular bit where Voddie criticizes the old stereotype of a father cleaning their gun when someone comes to pick up their daughter for a date. Anyone know where to find that?
Read the Word of God and pray that's the only way you will know and if confirms it by the word of God than you shouldn't be confused unless your stuck on worldly thoughts and wisdom, you have to chose to believe in Christ or the world simple...GBU
Wow
Good thing is I wear the same uniform for work everyday and dudes still try to flirt with me..smh even when I dress in sweats and have my hair in a ponytail guys still bother me. I dont think its about attention mainly...the heart of man is inclined toward sin.
54:00 - 105:55: Christian "feminist" view of submission destroyed!
The only thing l disagree with Voddie on is having *as many children as possible*
Not all Christians believe a woman has to be submissive. I have seen marriages end, because the husband got bored with the very monster he created, that being a submissive wife. The women become resentful, because, they really don't have control over their lives. When people have an equal relationship, they have balance.
That stems from a misunderstanding of submission. Jesus was submissive to the Holy Spirit's leading. It is not about losing a sense of self. It is not about not having a voice. It is about meekness. The woman is an individual and no part of her should be being "created." I just pray for you to receive a true understanding of complementarianism.
The scripture says to submit to one another... and thank God for the three contrasts. The husband's submission comes in the form of "husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church." That is heavy-duty...we pray the husband can fulfill that mandate. Wives, we serve our husband as unto the Lord Jesus Christ.... and the Lord will bless you real good. (Prayer is vital.) As the couple grows together with Christ as the Head, the Holy Spirit will make the two, one.
The Anti Atheist Thank you for this explaination. However, I still have some reservations if you or anyone else would kindly direct with biblical answers please. 1) Does this mean EVERY decision to be made must wait for husband to initiate then wife quietly follows? 2) Does this place husband between wife's submission to Christ - like a mediator? This concerns me because I fell for that ideology in Catholic religion years ago, before becoming truly saved. 3) My husband has been abusive and immoral for many years, I have been angry and resentful before coming to accept Christ. He claims repentance and is making some effort to turn from his sins, incuding commitment to marriage counseling with our pastor. He's working on rebuilding my trust, I'm working to forgive and offer kindness, respect and affirmation to him. However, in my heart I submit to Christ over everything and everyone. I have been advised to basically let go of the past and restart our marriage together. What happens if he leads with selfish or harmful motives, just say no thanks in Jesus name? 4) If biblical metaphor says husband is to model Christ headship over church body, does that mean husband is to rule over wife with Christ appointed authority over judgement and discipline? Or just the servant model of Christ headship? To love, protect, provide, cherish, die for? 5) I don't consider myself a feminist..which my church pastor seems to keep bringing up in marriage counseling sessions as arguments elgaterians use to oppose this scripture, but I do work outside my home on a casual basis as needed, around my husband's schedule, if I had a choice I'd rather focus on family needs at home full time. I apologize if my thoughts are all over the map here. I am confused and concerned about abuse amd losing my voice and basic human rights. Christians used this type of doctrine to justify slavery not too long ago. Therefore, I'm having a hard time buying into this without concerns for my well being. Christ owns me, he paid my debt in full, not my husband or anyone else. Wasn't I made woman, in God's image? His daughter in Christ? Or just the weaker vessel to be controlled by a husband, afraid to speak up for fear of offending him and/or the Lord?
The Anti Atheist
Amen
Balance is an esoteric concept. No thanks. I'll stick with the bible.
awesome!
Can someone please tell me more about what this "male neck exercise" thing is?
i wish he would address woman who became saved and their husbands didnt. i agree with everything but its hard to be submissive if the husband has no plan for your family. i know the bible teachs im still to be submissive but im just saying what do u do when u go to work everyday and your boss doesnt do his role at all. its very hard and some woman dont choose to unend in those places. also i think u should always follow your husband unless hes inviting u into sin with him because then u must be submissive to the high authority God.
1 Peter 3 addresses this:
1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear.
3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
when he said Amen Lights lol
I love it. She leaves, go come with her...
I love this!! I do have one honest question though. At 41:56, he says that going to the daughter first then to the dad is saying to her: "I've chosen you, and I'm going to your father." I might not understand what his point is, but is there something inherently wrong with that?
I just don't know how to really feel about this. I don't feel like it's right or know it's right.
Check brother Baucham's teachings against scripture. Even Apostle Paul's audience checked his words against the Scriptures as he spoke to see if he was true
Wow he ended it so well. By the way nowhere in the bible does it say the earth is flat. And the bible is no myth just read it for yourself
asdfbobbyasdf--Okay. You like your theology better than ours. You're free to follow it. Choose this day whom you will serve, but as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.
meek
propriety
reverent and Godly behavior
conducting self to bring honor to God
do not draw attention to yourself in clothing or in behavior
irreverent
don't be loud and obnoxious
3 contrast
3 commands
3 contexts
Ephesians Chapter 5: Verse 15-21 22-24
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Where do I find a girl like this?
mhmm :)
I guess being a wife and mother is not for me.
i am not saying my god is perfect to justify his brutality i am saying that the people of sodom and gomorrah were destroyed and killed because they did not listen to god and were unrighteous. you see, god does not owe us life, in reality all who sinned do not deserve to live, and none of us do. you want to know what sodom and gomorrah was. it was only god exacting justice upon them, and he doesnt do that for the unbelievers today because of his great mercy.
they are evil for us to do because it is not our revenge to take. but god does it because they have commited sin so terrible that it is the only thing he could have done.
Okkaaayyy but I would like some Biblical scripture of this before I believe what some pastor is saying. I still don't really agree with this at all. It's kind of rude of you to assume that.
ButterflyFrosting he has quoted scripture multiple times
Somebody needs to lecture you. Things are moral because God is where morality comes from. You talk about Abraham being told to sacrifice Issac, but you neglected to acknowledge the idea of sacrifice as being a moral thing. A man jumps in front of a bus to push a child out of the way. He sacrificed his life. Is that immoral? A child sacrifices his life to save a million people from death. Is that immoral? You are misunderstanding the idea of sacrifice completely.
No, I believe in ONE talking snake and a universe created in SIX days. What are "real results" if you don't have a context to understand your results? Why do you believe the Bible to be an unreliable source of knowledge?