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@@johanssonb hi love, could you please try and translate and send it to me through email (kat [at] napiorkowska.net). Possibly one sentence in ENG next to the translated one so that I know how to place it, I'll have to add it manually since youtube turned that feature off.
@@CasssETS hi love, could you please try and translate and send it to me through email (kat [at] napiorkowska.net). Possibly one sentence in ENG next to the translated one so that I know how to place it, I'll have to add it manually since youtube turned that feature off.
Never imagined that I would be this lonely in my twenties. I really do feel that i'm missing out on life everyday. And no matter how hard I try to make friends, i'm never able to make a deeper connection. And it gets even harder by each year into adulthood... You really miss being a child.
Probably you have set your boundaries and not letting yourself open up. I am not saying this is going to be easy, but you have to let go off your mental restrictions.
You know, this is gonna sound like some gorilla marketing. But check the video "Nodus Tollens" by "dictionary of obscure sorrows". Has the same energy as this one, just that it offers a more "positive" end. The two work well in tandem though. Her work is more introspective, His work is more general with a positive twist. They should collab, tbh.
@@skunko1871 More like the lack of experience. Grief is harder than death, I reckon. I feel as if loneliness is grieving for the people you've never lost, and people you've never had a chance to grow close with.
talked to my therapist about this actually, that pandemic or not for me not much has changed. I'm not even unattractive or some kind of horrible person to justify it. Yet, I have no friends, no family, no significant other. Didn't manage to make lasting friendships at school and then, being almost 30, I'm all alone. My cat, whom i feel so grateful to have is my closest person who is there every single day. I just can't relate to most people, tried making friends so many times, always felt much worse than being alone. I find people on YT, in podcasts, books, or musicians way more relatable than people I've met in my life. It feels like it will just never change and spending time with just one person who likes me and i like them back seems like an impossible mission. And every new year reminds me of that. Cause nothing changes.
omg. This video spoke to my soul. “When i was younger i thought id be at my happiest right now, instead i cant help but that ive been cheated out of life” had me in tears. Because this thought crosses my mind at least 10 times every single day. I dont know what’s happening to me. Im siting here watching my life slowly fall apart wondering if this is part of transitioning to adulthood?
Check out Sadghuru (he is Indian guru) on youtube💕 He has some films about loneliness and stuff. I can really tell u what he says helps a lot! I wish you all the best in life 🍀
All my cousins are much older or younger than me. I used to get that feeling but as I got older, it felt better. I still have a sister who I talk to and my younger cousins like to play Minecraft with us
Loneliness and feeling isolated is one of the main reasons to get depression I'm in it for several years now, the pandemic changed nearly nothing for me but it's interesting to see how even healthy people suffering under these conditions make me realize social distancing is really a threat and maybe depression and other illness could be cured if people would have a sense of community not feeling they against the world
It's like seeing familiar faces every single day but not knowing their personalities. It's like waiting for someone to genuinely talk with you, but you can't find one. It's like waking up to zero notifications, even on your birthday. It's like having a constant fear of not having anyone to care about you. It's a lot more...
yeah, days like birthdays are the worst, because literally no one cares/remembers or even knows. When I started my own business, I thought for a short second to get another sim card, for the company purposes. But then i remembered that i have no social life anyway, so what's the point
All people in this comment section, feel this way. We will find each other. Keep being strong, you are not alone, we are everywhere, it just takes times to find each other.
I have Autism. I've always felt like the spectator watching everyone else connect with each other easily. I've always felt alone. The times I have tried I'm just treated like I'm retarded and not worth talking to. Just ask me anything and I will answer back.. Every birthday, Christmas or any other special day is a reminder that I'm alone and never part of anyone's memory or happiness. And it just gets worse each year. I actually talk to animals more than people.
Diagnosed with autism recently and can totally relate to this . One thing life has taught me , is that no matter how hard life is, and no matter how long we have to endure painful circumstances, there is always always ALWAYS hope and there’s always a possibility that things can change. And when they do, you appreciate them so much more than if you’ve always had them. Remember, “if you’re going through hell, dig deeper and keep going “ because you really never know when the tide will turn.
I think us people who feel this way, should have a community and just talk about these things that are more important to us than anything. There are some who don't even have family relatives to share anything with. We have to do this and support each other to keep going and preventing to waste our energy just waiting for the right time!
if I didn’t have your channel I would actually believe that I am literally the only person that is so lonely, thank you a lot for contributing to society and giving all those lonely souls sympathy, you are making a difference)
i don't know why i am so emotional. it's the same as you described i waste my time and after the whole day when it's finally night time i cry and it's the same cycle goes on everyday. it's so hard to do stuff i'm so tired all the time i lost my motivation. noone even checks up on me cuz noone cares! even if i die noone will even care
HxtedBarbie No. You're wrong. I care. I don't know you but I really do care. And every human life, when gone, hurts everyone. So, reach out to another and help that person. Guaranteed, you will feel great. Every living thing on the face of this earth is terribly important.
I did not expect to see you here, but I'm kind of not surprised. I'm sorry to hear you are going through the same. One day, we'll break the invisible wall and the chains that prevent us from moving on, finding our purpose in life and actually have some genuine fun! Be blessed!
Feels like we’re living in a bubble that we can’t get out of. A bubble that keeps us isolated from the real world. No matter what you do, who you’re around, where you go, who you love, that bubble of loneliness never seems to burst.
If you're feeling lonely, instead of looking for someone who will listen to you, be the one who listens to someone. Instead of waiting for help, help someone and see how quick the feeling of loneliness passes.
being 21 seeing this really hurts. i see everyone complains how this pandemic is awful and stressing, yet for me, it feels just the same as before. no friends to build deep connection with. or even someone to talk to daily. my life doesn’t change. yet everyone around me is growing, here im spend time at my room doing nothing.
"There's 7 billion people in this planet surely you'll find someone" That line never helped me That line made me feel so unwanted by the whole world I highly doubt this ever helped anyone maybe they used it as an excuse 7 billion people in this planet and yet half of them are feeling extremely lonely "FOR ONCE I WANT SOMEONE TO BE AFRAID OF LOOSING ME"
Addressing loneliness is, like you have already stated, probably one of the most pressing issues in our modern day society. I think you highlighted many people's perception of life and, perhaps more importantly, their awareness of despairing solitude. Your videos always make me reflect and I think that is a sign of a truly well communicated premise. A Goldilocks dramaturgy artform; giving not too much or too little information, but just the right amount for the viewer to both relate and think.
Twój film wypełnia każdą komórkę mojego ciała, mówi o wszystkim, czego doświadczyłam i co czuję każdego dnia. Ten rok był trudny pod względem relacji, ale wcale nie był inny. Bo samotności doświadczam od bardzo dawna, bez względu na pandemię czy dystans społeczny. Dziękuję za Twoją twórczość, mówi za mnie to, co mi samej trudno powiedzieć na głos.
I am glad this covid epidemic happened. Normal people are forced to experience a tiny bit of loneliness and depression I've been feeling my entire adult life.
@@matea3026 it was funny seeing them literally riot because their coffee shops, night clubs, gyms and whatever else were closed because of the epidemic.
@@matea3026 I am too, I only ever go outside for work. Also, social anxiety and a severe stuttering problem. Needless to say I never had any friends or girlfriends. If I wasn't forced to wage slave to feed myself I wouldn't even go outside, there is no point.
"they only wait for their time to speak" how accurate and saddening this is... I actually feel this with most of the people,only not with my mom and brother... Most of people can't even listen, they don't need meaningful talk...
This is so beautiful. "Each Christmas reminds me that I'm in the same spot I was 12months ago" so true. This type of video is exactly what inspired me to finally share my storytelling on my channel! I felt everything said in this video, and thank you for this 🙏
Beautifully expressed. I do feel the The issue is not really loneliness. The issue is such widespread inability for people to connect, to be genuinely open to each other, to be present with each other. And the system we live in, more so than ever, maintains the conditions for such poor connection. It favours life quantity over life quality. Nothing more apparent to demonstrate this than the average age of a Covid death as measured against the mental health and social impacts on millions of people all over the world due to lockdowns and restrictions.
Od dobrych kilku minut zastanawiam się co napisać w tym komentarzy, a bardzo bym chciała to zrobić. Mimo, że ten film nie rozwiąże moich problemów, to dobrze wiedzieć, że człowiek nie jest sam i inni też się z tym borykają. Dobrze było go teraz zobaczyć. Uderzył w czuły punkt, wzruszył, ale też jakoś pokrzepił. Dziękuję.
The shots in your short films always are so mesmerizing.. I could watch them and listen to your voice for hours and hours. I feel really lucky to have wonderfull people around me. To all of you lonely souls, I wish you to find a person who will really care for you and cherish you for who you really are. I'm sure you are all awsome people! Sending all of you virual hugs
I really ... truly ... weirdly.. cant beleive how much id been touched by this video. No exageration... but i feel like my heart is gonna get out of my chest and my tears just dropped out. The script and your voice are .. undescribebal ❤❤😞
Wow. Such a beautiful expression. That's the magic of language - not everyone has to be a poet, or a writer, because theres always someone, somewhere, that can translate your own emotion for you when you fall short of the words. Loneliness truly is the biggest, most untouched epidemic - and you've conveyed it perfectly. Thank you for this.
I used to watch your videos in the past, when my dark nights was something new for me, now, I'm not better at all but I wanna thank you from my heart for saying everything I'm hiding inside my soul and can't tell to anyone without hearing their judgments. Thanks Kat 💕
"Wish I could give you a hug and was there for you just to listen to you... or talk about anything and everything you wanted to share..."from J I have this person that I don't want to lose... sometimes he doesn't feel as same as with me .. but I have so much love and feelings for him that I barely showed ... :(
Omg that was a powerful speech. And that’s me down to a tee. Every time you mention your lonely to people they don’t grasp it. Keep smiling we will get through this together
Kat, I just came across your video, you have communicated powerfully what so many people are feeling today. Thank you for this. I think we have forgotten what love really is, our culture has taught us that it is just a passing feeling and that the goal of relationships is self-fulfilment when real love is about sacrifice, commitment and giving our lives for each other. True love is divine in its origin. Another thing our culture has done is teach us that the ideal is to be strong in ourselves, independent and individualistic (we call it being ourselves and being unique), when in fact we were made for community, commitment to each other and to our maker. In this sense, we are our own enemies. You worded it so well when you talked about the paradox of wanting to be alone out of comfort or habit while feeling desperately lonely inside. I am from the UK, but live here in Wroclaw, Poland :-) Hope we could meet someday. Be blessed!
It is unbelievable how well this video describes how I have been feeling for a long time. The last sentence it me so hard that I’m barely holding my tears now. “And just once, I want someone to be afraid of losing me.” I am 30 now and I have no real friends or a significant other and it is gradually feeling more impossible to have any.
Absolutely beautiful and haunting. This almost reminds me of a Terence Malick (Tree of Life, Days of Heaven) or Charlie Kaufman movie, that introspective voiceover that feels like the inside of your own head . Any other channels like this you'd recommend?
so many people are feeling this way, but the problem still exists. makes me sad, hopeless. I never thought it would happen so quickly, all the sudden im alone, and i dont know why
So many people out there, but there isn’t anyone who truly listens and understands, but at the same time it feels like that this sadness and loneliness is getting more and more addicting.
You just explained in ~4 minutes how I felt for years, I couldnt be able to explain it myself, or just was afraid of people misunderstanding what I meant. I still feel this way... Thank you, now I'm actually glad these words are out there, so through you, my voice can be heard too.
This hit hard. Even if I have someone. But just yesterday I thought about all those I lost in the last seven years. All those I will not be able to see after this pandemic, because I fucked it up. By a lot. Anyway, this video was amazing. I loved it, even if the theme is not this kind to you and all the others suffering by. Thank you for sharing 💕
I work with a lot of this. I do shamanic but I too was classified a habitual suicide un my 20s meaning I got dangerously close more than once ..then I fell in love with life and got an illness then when I was at my healthiest I began my climb up the mountain living with chronic pain every second of every day .also isolating me ..and I went deep into my path and well there is solitude but am not lonely. There is less but there is quality and I have the perfect mother as do we all .mother Earth and I well....life takes more courage than we could ever dream of having. But if you are here reading this ..you are Unbelievably courageous and we need that courage during these times. You are needed. You are loved and I will be cheering you on in silence forever.
Thank you Kat. You have put into words my feelings I really did not know there were others who felt the same emotionally I often go for walks just as you described 😔 the rain too for some reason comforts me
How lucky are those who found this pandemic changing their lives in any way. I have been alone all of my life, though I feel for the people affected by it, I on the other hand stayed the same. You guys are lucky, no need to cry its going to be fine and you'll find people but I'll stay like this and it's okay.
I love this video with my entire being, every single second of it, I feel like you've literally been in my head. After a year of therapy I reached the conclusion that this feeling of loneliness and despair in general is not going anywhere, it will always be there in the corner of my mind.
Every time when I watch your videos, I not only watch but also feel them. Incredible video full of feelings. Very sad because I known these feelings every day for the last 10 years. So for me some a pandemic / epidemic and lockdown is nothing because I am trained to be alone. When this all ends in the world, it's great, but for me it just goes on. And every time when I watch these videos, I'm sadder than before, but at least I know that I'm not the only one who has these feelings. But anyway.... great video Kat like always :) P.S. And thanks to Google Translate. It was hard to write what I felt and wanted. :-P :-D
Thank you so much. I can relate a 100%. I feel so painfully lonely, especially around lots of people. You summarized so perfectly, what is going in inside me. If you come to Germany, I would give you a hug. Love,Melanie
When the pandemic started, i heard from my work colleages how much has changed their lifes from quarentine, stop seeing friends, stop going to clubs and all of that... For me i felt i had still had the same life as before covid, nothing changed... Even now that pandemic is more calm, covid is another excuse for my social anxiety... But in the end as 2020 was the worst year for milliona of people, for me it was another year
wow. I am totally speechless- For the past few years i have been trying desperately to understand myself and the way i’ve been feeling but no words or description helped. This video is such an important video because it gives words to us, people suffering horribly because of our minds. Thank you so very much for giving description and actual words to the very issue that has been tormenting me, you don’t understand how much your videos have helped me.
The way this speaks to me. Just yesterday I had a terrible breakdown because I feel like no one's ever going to love me. It feels like no matter what, I always end up alone. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate some time by myself, but sometimes it gets too lonely. It's just me and my thoughts (most of the time really sad and bad ones).
Deep inside I feel lonely but because I have no real problem to be alone, I have find ways to stay happy and sane. I am an real introvert and have a light version of autism. I know I need a real social life and not only my work and family. Still I stay positive.🙂
I think this will be me in a few years. I'm already lonely, the lockdown changed nothing. But I had hoped it would get better. Now I'm not so sure anymore..
as humans, we’ll all experience pain, maybe someone will have more, maybe someone will have less but we can’t live without it. in my personal experience the past pain has always been hunting me even tough i knew it was already gone. this was the main reason of me, not willing to enjoy relationships and stay by myself. there is a proverb which says: live in the past and you’ll be depressed, live in the future and you’ll be anxious, happiness is only in the present. and i just wanted to tell you guys that pain is not only negative. for example, it takes a lot of pain to get your body in shape as it takes a lot of pain to live with a body you’re not satisfied with. one is pain for discipline, one is pain of regret. realize we actually have a choice is only the first step obviously but with very little steps you really can rise. take your time, the world doesn’t know they need you until you’ll show up, one day
Piękny film, kompletnie nie rozumiem, dlaczego nie ma co najmniej 10 razy tyle wyświetleń, bo zdecydowanie na to zasługuje. Dziękuję za to, co robisz Kat
I been waiting for this video, i knew you just will speak out my feelings , it’s such a nice feeling when you see and hear your feelings , it’s such a relief, so thankful for you I really appreciate it. It’s been 2 years of loneliness . Yeah, No one understand, it’s just you did .... that’s me you talk about in the video. Thank you, you just made my night
I love your voice. I feel it deeply. I feel like, you are talking my disoriented and scattered thoughts in sentences. It's really soothing. I don't want to get up from the bed. Just want to be wrapped up like this......
after Being lonely for years... i started enjoying my loneliness. i feel like you reading my mind. u arranged my thoughts into Words. sending lots of hugsss..💕💕
32 and alone and trying to make terms now with the idea that it's all futile. Even when restrictions are lifted, even if I recover from my traumas, it's all gonna be the same.
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Kat if you need anyone to translate to Portuguese I can help you. I just want your videos to reach more people :)
@@julliesoares6475 Great idea! I could try to do the same with spanish.
@@johanssonb And I would be glad to help with translating to Hungarian, if that'd be needed!
@@johanssonb hi love, could you please try and translate and send it to me through email (kat [at] napiorkowska.net). Possibly one sentence in ENG next to the translated one so that I know how to place it, I'll have to add it manually since youtube turned that feature off.
@@CasssETS hi love, could you please try and translate and send it to me through email (kat [at] napiorkowska.net). Possibly one sentence in ENG next to the translated one so that I know how to place it, I'll have to add it manually since youtube turned that feature off.
I never thought how someone that I don’t know could translate exactly what I’m thinking in such a beautiful way. Thank you, Kat.
+1
Absolutely. Every single word..
Exactly, i just couldn't say it myself
True
While I was watching the movie, I thought exactly the same.
I want someone to be afraid of losing me'
Hit close to home.
NO one will , just be that one
And i want to be afraid of someone's lose
My heart tightened
I don’t know you, but I am afraid of losing you. And I care about you.
When I read these comments, I really want to have a big meeting with everyone who saw and liked this video.
right¡ me too
Never imagined that I would be this lonely in my twenties.
I really do feel that i'm missing out on life everyday. And no matter how hard I try to make friends, i'm never able to make a deeper connection. And it gets even harder by each year into adulthood... You really miss being a child.
exactly what I feel right now....
I feel you! 💜
i feel the same way
Probably you have set your boundaries and not letting yourself open up. I am not saying this is going to be easy, but you have to let go off your mental restrictions.
You know, this is gonna sound like some gorilla marketing. But check the video "Nodus Tollens" by "dictionary of obscure sorrows".
Has the same energy as this one, just that it offers a more "positive" end.
The two work well in tandem though. Her work is more introspective, His work is more general with a positive twist.
They should collab, tbh.
That feeling when you want to be forgotten by everyone but what you really want is to be found.
“I find myself in a room full of faces feeling more alone than in my bed alone at midnight.”
couldn’t have said it better
Yep! Loneliness is one of the most difficult experiences to deal with in life.
@@skunko1871 More like the lack of experience. Grief is harder than death, I reckon. I feel as if loneliness is grieving for the people you've never lost, and people you've never had a chance to grow close with.
@@Adelaideanegg 😢
Welp getting bullied is even worse trust me
this video is literally my life. why is it so hard to make friends and so hard to be loved
Tell me about it 😒
@@Sirdzani
I thought they're asking us a question? lol.
talked to my therapist about this actually, that pandemic or not for me not much has changed. I'm not even unattractive or some kind of horrible person to justify it. Yet, I have no friends, no family, no significant other. Didn't manage to make lasting friendships at school and then, being almost 30, I'm all alone. My cat, whom i feel so grateful to have is my closest person who is there every single day. I just can't relate to most people, tried making friends so many times, always felt much worse than being alone. I find people on YT, in podcasts, books, or musicians way more relatable than people I've met in my life. It feels like it will just never change and spending time with just one person who likes me and i like them back seems like an impossible mission. And every new year reminds me of that. Cause nothing changes.
Keep tyring, I try it too. I hope we will find someone...
@@z.8605 You will 💕
@@Mindful-Her I wish you the best!:))
I feel exactly the same !
I try too but people don't need to have a friends or I dont know... I m 20
I am 28, and I am genuinely fearful of how much more time I have to spend on this world.
I know exactly how that feels
How are you doing now?
Your not alone in that friend
Im 19 and this is how I feel almost everyday. It comes and goes but when the feeling comes back I feel so cold and unloved.... I hate it
me too man. I thought after i left high school a couple years ago it might get better but it hasn't
I’m 16 been battling depression since I was six it’s really hard
Sending hugs 💕
ooo witam panią
I wanted it so badly now😞
@@jittugeorge3454 😘😘😘 have these all.
I read it as sending thugs, u know Skyrim thugs
omg. This video spoke to my soul. “When i was younger i thought id be at my happiest right now, instead i cant help but that ive been cheated out of life” had me in tears. Because this thought crosses my mind at least 10 times every single day. I dont know what’s happening to me. Im siting here watching my life slowly fall apart wondering if this is part of transitioning to adulthood?
Adulthood seems like a trap we've running towards it without knowing what it is... why no one told me?..
Gosh i feel everything this, too 😩
Check out Sadghuru (he is Indian guru) on youtube💕 He has some films about loneliness and stuff. I can really tell u what he says helps a lot! I wish you all the best in life 🍀
Anyone else sometimes feels alone amongst their families?
All my cousins are much older or younger than me. I used to get that feeling but as I got older, it felt better. I still have a sister who I talk to and my younger cousins like to play Minecraft with us
Loneliness and feeling isolated is one of the main reasons to get depression
I'm in it for several years now, the pandemic changed nearly nothing for me but it's interesting to see how even healthy people suffering under these conditions make me realize social distancing is really a threat and maybe depression and other illness could be cured if people would have a sense of community not feeling they against the world
It's like seeing familiar faces every single day but not knowing their personalities.
It's like waiting for someone to genuinely talk with you, but you can't find one.
It's like waking up to zero notifications, even on your birthday.
It's like having a constant fear of not having anyone to care about you.
It's a lot more...
yeah, days like birthdays are the worst, because literally no one cares/remembers or even knows. When I started my own business, I thought for a short second to get another sim card, for the company purposes. But then i remembered that i have no social life anyway, so what's the point
All people in this comment section, feel this way. We will find each other. Keep being strong, you are not alone, we are everywhere, it just takes times to find each other.
It's the "it felt like everyone silently faded from my life" for me
I have Autism. I've always felt like the spectator watching everyone else connect with each other easily. I've always felt alone. The times I have tried I'm just treated like I'm retarded and not worth talking to. Just ask me anything and I will answer back.. Every birthday, Christmas or any other special day is a reminder that I'm alone and never part of anyone's memory or happiness.
And it just gets worse each year. I actually talk to animals more than people.
I'm sorry to hear that... some people are so cruel and indeed animals are way better than them... I hope u find ur peace in life ❤🙏
If you want I can chat with you :) I am sensitive and empathetic and I will hear about your story with pleasure
Diagnosed with autism recently and can totally relate to this . One thing life has taught me , is that no matter how hard life is, and no matter how long we have to endure painful circumstances, there is always always ALWAYS hope and there’s always a possibility that things can change. And when they do, you appreciate them so much more than if you’ve always had them.
Remember, “if you’re going through hell, dig deeper and keep going “ because you really never know when the tide will turn.
Hi you can talk to me if you want
funny coincidence my name is sarah too and u wrote it just the way i like to write it (with h ) i would be so happy if we talked together
I went from a small town to a big city. Never have I felt more alone.
Ironic that there’s more people in the city
I think us people who feel this way, should have a community and just talk about these things that are more important to us than anything. There are some who don't even have family relatives to share anything with. We have to do this and support each other to keep going and preventing to waste our energy just waiting for the right time!
Hi you can talk to me if you want
i agree
Hey friend !
yes, I agree, i mean, that´s actually a really good idea, but how?
if I didn’t have your channel I would actually believe that I am literally the only person that is so lonely, thank you a lot for contributing to society and giving all those lonely souls sympathy, you are making a difference)
i don't know why i am so emotional. it's the same as you described i waste my time and after the whole day when it's finally night time i cry and it's the same cycle goes on everyday. it's so hard to do stuff i'm so tired all the time i lost my motivation. noone even checks up on me cuz noone cares! even if i die noone will even care
HxtedBarbie No. You're wrong. I care. I don't know you but I really do care. And every human life, when gone, hurts everyone. So, reach out to another and help that person. Guaranteed, you will feel great. Every living thing on the face of this earth is terribly important.
I did not expect to see you here, but I'm kind of not surprised. I'm sorry to hear you are going through the same. One day, we'll break the invisible wall and the chains that prevent us from moving on, finding our purpose in life and actually have some genuine fun! Be blessed!
Hi you can talk to me if you want
Sending love ❤
Feels like we’re living in a bubble that we can’t get out of. A bubble that keeps us isolated from the real world. No matter what you do, who you’re around, where you go, who you love, that bubble of loneliness never seems to burst.
While watching this video, I felt as if I was hearing myself, because that is exactly the way I feel each day of my life.
If you're feeling lonely, instead of looking for someone who will listen to you, be the one who listens to someone. Instead of waiting for help, help someone and see how quick the feeling of loneliness passes.
I relate to this so much...being alone is one of the worst feelings..😞
being 21 seeing this really hurts. i see everyone complains how this pandemic is awful and stressing, yet for me, it feels just the same as before. no friends to build deep connection with. or even someone to talk to daily. my life doesn’t change. yet everyone around me is growing, here im spend time at my room doing nothing.
This video is a summary of my last few years. Thank you for realizing that I am not alone with this.
You just put words on my feelings. When this pandemic is over I'm still here lonely like I always been.
"There's 7 billion people in this planet surely you'll find someone"
That line never helped me
That line made me feel so unwanted by the whole world
I highly doubt this ever helped anyone maybe they used it as an excuse
7 billion people in this planet and yet half of them are feeling extremely lonely
"FOR ONCE I WANT SOMEONE TO BE AFRAID OF LOOSING ME"
Addressing loneliness is, like you have already stated, probably one of the most pressing issues in our modern day society. I think you highlighted many people's perception of life and, perhaps more importantly, their awareness of despairing solitude. Your videos always make me reflect and I think that is a sign of a truly well communicated premise. A Goldilocks dramaturgy artform; giving not too much or too little information, but just the right amount for the viewer to both relate and think.
I wonder why - why lately our society is so so lonely?
this hit me hard , i always feel like im the only one in the world that feels like this
Twój film wypełnia każdą komórkę mojego ciała, mówi o wszystkim, czego doświadczyłam i co czuję każdego dnia. Ten rok był trudny pod względem relacji, ale wcale nie był inny. Bo samotności doświadczam od bardzo dawna, bez względu na pandemię czy dystans społeczny. Dziękuję za Twoją twórczość, mówi za mnie to, co mi samej trudno powiedzieć na głos.
I am glad this covid epidemic happened. Normal people are forced to experience a tiny bit of loneliness and depression I've been feeling my entire adult life.
That's exactly what I thought and how I feel..
@@matea3026 it was funny seeing them literally riot because their coffee shops, night clubs, gyms and whatever else were closed because of the epidemic.
@@nikolapetrovic4814 exactlyy! In this case, I'm glad that I'm an introvert so it wasn't a problem for me at all to deal with the covid rules
@@matea3026 I am too, I only ever go outside for work. Also, social anxiety and a severe stuttering problem. Needless to say I never had any friends or girlfriends. If I wasn't forced to wage slave to feed myself I wouldn't even go outside, there is no point.
I relate so badly
same
"I felt the same way before this started and I will feel the same way after it ends" 😔... and for once I want someone to be afraid of losing me.
"I want a hug" made me tear up. I was holding out but that really hit me hard.
"they only wait for their time to speak" how accurate and saddening this is... I actually feel this with most of the people,only not with my mom and brother... Most of people can't even listen, they don't need meaningful talk...
ive never heard something that puts the way i feel into words like this. this is exactly how my life is. kind of sad how many people can relate.
This is so beautiful. "Each Christmas reminds me that I'm in the same spot I was 12months ago" so true. This type of video is exactly what inspired me to finally share my storytelling on my channel!
I felt everything said in this video, and thank you for this 🙏
Currently going thru this but I refuse to stay in that place for too long
Beautifully expressed. I do feel the The issue is not really loneliness. The issue is such widespread inability for people to connect, to be genuinely open to each other, to be present with each other. And the system we live in, more so than ever, maintains the conditions for such poor connection. It favours life quantity over life quality. Nothing more apparent to demonstrate this than the average age of a Covid death as measured against the mental health and social impacts on millions of people all over the world due to lockdowns and restrictions.
Od dobrych kilku minut zastanawiam się co napisać w tym komentarzy, a bardzo bym chciała to zrobić. Mimo, że ten film nie rozwiąże moich problemów, to dobrze wiedzieć, że człowiek nie jest sam i inni też się z tym borykają. Dobrze było go teraz zobaczyć. Uderzył w czuły punkt, wzruszył, ale też jakoś pokrzepił. Dziękuję.
I m 16 nd I nvr thought some1 would ever be able to express my inner feelings in such an exact way. Lots of love from India. 💕
The shots in your short films always are so mesmerizing.. I could watch them and listen to your voice for hours and hours. I feel really lucky to have wonderfull people around me. To all of you lonely souls, I wish you to find a person who will really care for you and cherish you for who you really are. I'm sure you are all awsome people! Sending all of you virual hugs
I really ... truly ... weirdly.. cant beleive how much id been touched by this video. No exageration... but i feel like my heart is gonna get out of my chest and my tears just dropped out. The script and your voice are .. undescribebal ❤❤😞
Wow. Such a beautiful expression. That's the magic of language - not everyone has to be a poet, or a writer, because theres always someone, somewhere, that can translate your own emotion for you when you fall short of the words. Loneliness truly is the biggest, most untouched epidemic - and you've conveyed it perfectly. Thank you for this.
I used to watch your videos in the past, when my dark nights was something new for me, now, I'm not better at all but I wanna thank you from my heart for saying everything I'm hiding inside my soul and can't tell to anyone without hearing their judgments.
Thanks Kat 💕
I came so early, you make me feel that ı'm not alone, so thank you for that A LOT
I'm 25 years old and i rarely cry, and here i found myself having tears in my eyes while listening to this. it really touched something inside me.
For 2021 I want a hug and for just once I want someone to be afraid of losing me 🙏🏾
"Wish I could give you a hug and was there for you just to listen to you... or talk about anything and everything you wanted to share..."from J
I have this person that I don't want to lose... sometimes he doesn't feel as same as with me .. but I have so much love and feelings for him that I barely showed ... :(
If this keeps up, all going to lose will to live. This is an actual hellish nightmare that needs to end
Ogladajac mialam lzy w oczach. Dotknelas tym filmem mojego serca.
I don’t know if I should ignore this feeling and keep pushing myself to find friends, or acknowledge its existence and deal with the crushing pain.
This touched me and made me cry, you just touched exactly the wounds in me
For the first time, I felt understood about my loneliness through this video
This is the most relatable thing ever ! The last line literally filled me with tears
This is how I feel in my singleness. I do, however, have friends and family.
Omg that was a powerful speech. And that’s me down to a tee. Every time you mention your lonely to people they don’t grasp it. Keep smiling we will get through this together
Blimey I needed to hear someone else saying this, especially now. I never anticipated loneliness so soon either. Thanks for making this art :)
Kat, I just came across your video, you have communicated powerfully what so many people are feeling today. Thank you for this. I think we have forgotten what love really is, our culture has taught us that it is just a passing feeling and that the goal of relationships is self-fulfilment when real love is about sacrifice, commitment and giving our lives for each other. True love is divine in its origin. Another thing our culture has done is teach us that the ideal is to be strong in ourselves, independent and individualistic (we call it being ourselves and being unique), when in fact we were made for community, commitment to each other and to our maker. In this sense, we are our own enemies. You worded it so well when you talked about the paradox of wanting to be alone out of comfort or habit while feeling desperately lonely inside. I am from the UK, but live here in Wroclaw, Poland :-) Hope we could meet someday. Be blessed!
just wow, incredibly put together where I could not find the proper words for
It is unbelievable how well this video describes how I have been feeling for a long time. The last sentence it me so hard that I’m barely holding my tears now.
“And just once, I want someone to be afraid of losing me.”
I am 30 now and I have no real friends or a significant other and it is gradually feeling more impossible to have any.
The story of my life.
Sending hugs. Thank you for understanding.
Absolutely beautiful and haunting. This almost reminds me of a Terence Malick (Tree of Life, Days of Heaven) or Charlie Kaufman movie, that introspective voiceover that feels like the inside of your own head
. Any other channels like this you'd recommend?
I can’t stop sobbing
You said the words out loud I thought but couldn’t put in words for years! Thank you🤍🙄
ur video is awesome as always and makes me cry. thank u for understanding all the lonely people.
so many people are feeling this way, but the problem still exists. makes me sad, hopeless. I never thought it would happen so quickly, all the sudden im alone, and i dont know why
Yess, maybe we can make the group on Facebook f. ex.?
@@ainahey6925 or instagram?
Just do it!
So many people out there, but there isn’t anyone who truly listens and understands, but at the same time it feels like that this sadness and loneliness is getting more and more addicting.
That last phrase hit me on another level…
You just explained in ~4 minutes how I felt for years, I couldnt be able to explain it myself, or just was afraid of people misunderstanding what I meant. I still feel this way...
Thank you, now I'm actually glad these words are out there, so through you, my voice can be heard too.
This hit hard. Even if I have someone. But just yesterday I thought about all those I lost in the last seven years. All those I will not be able to see after this pandemic, because I fucked it up. By a lot.
Anyway, this video was amazing. I loved it, even if the theme is not this kind to you and all the others suffering by.
Thank you for sharing 💕
I work with a lot of this. I do shamanic but I too was classified a habitual suicide un my 20s meaning I got dangerously close more than once ..then I fell in love with life and got an illness then when I was at my healthiest I began my climb up the mountain living with chronic pain every second of every day .also isolating me ..and I went deep into my path and well there is solitude but am not lonely. There is less but there is quality and I have the perfect mother as do we all .mother Earth and I well....life takes more courage than we could ever dream of having. But if you are here reading this ..you are Unbelievably courageous and we need that courage during these times. You are needed. You are loved and I will be cheering you on in silence forever.
Thank you Kat. You have put into words my feelings I really did not know there were others who felt the same emotionally I often go for walks just as you described 😔 the rain too for some reason comforts me
This is the most powerful video ive ever seen... Great job as always Kat
It feels so realistic and calming at the same time
How lucky are those who found this pandemic changing their lives in any way. I have been alone all of my life, though I feel for the people affected by it, I on the other hand stayed the same. You guys are lucky, no need to cry its going to be fine and you'll find people but I'll stay like this and it's okay.
I love this video with my entire being, every single second of it, I feel like you've literally been in my head. After a year of therapy I reached the conclusion that this feeling of loneliness and despair in general is not going anywhere, it will always be there in the corner of my mind.
Every time when I watch your videos, I not only watch but also feel them. Incredible video full of feelings. Very sad because I known these feelings every day for the last 10 years. So for me some a pandemic / epidemic and lockdown is nothing because I am trained to be alone. When this all ends in the world, it's great, but for me it just goes on. And every time when I watch these videos, I'm sadder than before, but at least I know that I'm not the only one who has these feelings. But anyway.... great video Kat like always :)
P.S. And thanks to Google Translate. It was hard to write what I felt and wanted. :-P :-D
Thank you so much. I can relate a 100%. I feel so painfully lonely, especially around lots of people.
You summarized so perfectly, what is going in inside me.
If you come to Germany, I would give you a hug.
Love,Melanie
When the pandemic started, i heard from my work colleages how much has changed their lifes from quarentine, stop seeing friends, stop going to clubs and all of that... For me i felt i had still had the same life as before covid, nothing changed... Even now that pandemic is more calm, covid is another excuse for my social anxiety... But in the end as 2020 was the worst year for milliona of people, for me it was another year
wow. I am totally speechless- For the past few years i have been trying desperately to understand myself and the way i’ve been feeling but no words or description helped. This video is such an important video because it gives words to us, people suffering horribly because of our minds. Thank you so very much for giving description and actual words to the very issue that has been tormenting me, you don’t understand how much your videos have helped me.
The way this speaks to me. Just yesterday I had a terrible breakdown because I feel like no one's ever going to love me. It feels like no matter what, I always end up alone. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate some time by myself, but sometimes it gets too lonely. It's just me and my thoughts (most of the time really sad and bad ones).
I felt like you were talking about my life, sending hugs!
I've never felt more understood thank u beautiful soul
Deep inside I feel lonely but because I have no real problem to be alone, I have find ways to stay happy and sane.
I am an real introvert and have a light version of autism. I know I need a real social life and not only my work and family.
Still I stay positive.🙂
I think this will be me in a few years. I'm already lonely, the lockdown changed nothing. But I had hoped it would get better. Now I'm not so sure anymore..
I've never clicked on a video this fast.
Keep up the amazing work and I hope you'll get that hug, Kat.
“Years goes by and nothing changes”
That’s deep! Exactly what happening to me!
I am the same - i often Walk outside and look into people windows, actually since I was a kid.
as humans, we’ll all experience pain, maybe someone will have more, maybe someone will have less but we can’t live without it. in my personal experience the past pain has always been hunting me even tough i knew it was already gone. this was the main reason of me, not willing to enjoy relationships and stay by myself. there is a proverb which says: live in the past and you’ll be depressed, live in the future and you’ll be anxious, happiness is only in the present. and i just wanted to tell you guys that pain is not only negative. for example, it takes a lot of pain to get your body in shape as it takes a lot of pain to live with a body you’re not satisfied with. one is pain for discipline, one is pain of regret. realize we actually have a choice is only the first step obviously but with very little steps you really can rise. take your time, the world doesn’t know they need you until you’ll show up, one day
Piękny film, kompletnie nie rozumiem, dlaczego nie ma co najmniej 10 razy tyle wyświetleń, bo zdecydowanie na to zasługuje. Dziękuję za to, co robisz Kat
Nie spodziewałem się tutaj pani
I been waiting for this video, i knew you just will speak out my feelings , it’s such a nice feeling when you see and hear your feelings , it’s such a relief, so thankful for you I really appreciate it. It’s been 2 years of loneliness . Yeah, No one understand, it’s just you did .... that’s me you talk about in the video. Thank you, you just made my night
I love your voice. I feel it deeply. I feel like, you are talking my disoriented and scattered thoughts in sentences. It's really soothing. I don't want to get up from the bed. Just want to be wrapped up like this......
after Being lonely for years... i started enjoying my loneliness.
i feel like you reading my mind. u arranged my thoughts into Words. sending lots of hugsss..💕💕
32 and alone and trying to make terms now with the idea that it's all futile. Even when restrictions are lifted, even if I recover from my traumas, it's all gonna be the same.