Sista Feels Sad After Realizing Brothas Are Giving Up Dating Because Of Materialistic Women

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Brothas are giving up because they're being priced out of dating. They have realized that they should no longer allow broke women to pressure them to spend money.

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  • @andre1987eph
    @andre1987eph 4 месяца назад +604

    The internet allowed men to share notes.

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 4 месяца назад +289

    "Women can't function when You don't care."
    ~PATRICE O'NEAL

    • @blkafrocentricusa8429
      @blkafrocentricusa8429 4 месяца назад

      That's the rule of the game which is to STOP CARING for these ungrateful heifers.

    • @jaylove9484
      @jaylove9484 4 месяца назад +21

      Absolutely factual

    • @ray1amuro350
      @ray1amuro350 3 месяца назад +5

      Facts. RIP Patrice.

    • @wtfsamusidk7574
      @wtfsamusidk7574 3 месяца назад +3

      My happiness is paramount

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 4 месяца назад +325

    Fellas protect your sanity and your wallet in these current times

    • @blkafrocentricusa8429
      @blkafrocentricusa8429 4 месяца назад +12

      .. and if we don't do that, then, that's on us.

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 4 месяца назад +10

      Yesirsky facts 💯

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 4 месяца назад

      @@blkafrocentricusa8429 we can do this brotha all we have to do is keep on grinding for that paper

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 4 месяца назад +6

      Exactly 💯 stay focus

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 4 месяца назад

      @@keeppressing1760 and stay frosty too

  • @TCR2025
    @TCR2025 4 месяца назад +317

    Yep we stopped wasting our time. And it’s always these below average ones who are the most demanding too.

    • @cecilfletcher4404
      @cecilfletcher4404 4 месяца назад +28

      The sprinkle sprinkle chick comes to mind

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 4 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂facts

    • @vernardc7579
      @vernardc7579 4 месяца назад +5

      Facts 💯💯💯💯💯👊👊👊👊

    • @kyrkwalters964
      @kyrkwalters964 4 месяца назад +6

      Yep the 3s

  • @Buckshott_54
    @Buckshott_54 4 месяца назад +532

    BM don’t fear ANYTHING! We just don’t give a DAMN !

    • @abovebeyondandforever6571
      @abovebeyondandforever6571 4 месяца назад +47

      Facts!

    • @bossplayermfs5972
      @bossplayermfs5972 4 месяца назад +53

      Say it louder the people in the back didn't hear you.

    • @royalillness
      @royalillness 4 месяца назад +56

      This is the part that they pretend that they dont get.
      Its Not Fear and Never Was.....It used to be Concern But Now It's Indifference.(Aka WE DONT CARE Anymore)
      The last stage of grieving from Death is Acceptance and I think collectively thats what Stage The BM finds himself in regarding "Black Love".

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад

      Blk women are truly clueless, it's sad.

    • @richardwilson6976
      @richardwilson6976 4 месяца назад +34

      Frankly my dear idont give a damm.

  • @joeo8215
    @joeo8215 4 месяца назад +284

    Me, I cannot tolerate a materialistic person because that person will leave you broke

    • @kaze7521
      @kaze7521 4 месяца назад +8

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @justswitched8841
      @justswitched8841 4 месяца назад +29

      Once you're broke they'll leave you too 😂

    • @dukethadon6170
      @dukethadon6170 4 месяца назад +16

      Once they leave, they'll act like you did them wrong..

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 4 месяца назад +4

      Well, you might as will trysome foreign women in Central America, carribean or South America?

    • @anubizz5956
      @anubizz5956 4 месяца назад +5

      Nope...fugem all!!​@@FierceLeo.

  • @cecilfletcher4404
    @cecilfletcher4404 4 месяца назад +290

    Women aren't looking for love, they're looking for a retirement plan or a rescue boat. Jmo

  • @traindawg21
    @traindawg21 4 месяца назад +244

    They not sad about the dating part. They sad cause their foodie calls and free meals are gone.

    • @abovebeyondandforever6571
      @abovebeyondandforever6571 4 месяца назад +17

      Exactly!

    • @Freshina
      @Freshina 4 месяца назад +19

      Facts, that's the reason they're "sad" 💯

    • @devilsadvocacy
      @devilsadvocacy 4 месяца назад +24

      And the free drinks when they go clubbing

    • @TFIGBassPlayer
      @TFIGBassPlayer 4 месяца назад +20

      They are also sad because men are standing up and not allowing themselves to be used. It may have took years' but (We don't need a man finally caught up to them!)

    • @ericgilliam9902
      @ericgilliam9902 4 месяца назад +16

      MGTOW is Rising

  • @BeatEngine-qr7if
    @BeatEngine-qr7if 4 месяца назад +297

    Notice how no one is ever sad about this under 29. No one is “concerned for our men” when those young men are 18, 19, 21, 24.. Hell, some were never concerned for the moment they were born.

    • @AdonisHairston1843
      @AdonisHairston1843 4 месяца назад +17

      Right

    • @kriswilldoo6042
      @kriswilldoo6042 4 месяца назад +68

      Correct.. My son literally says it's better to be a sideline dude because he gets treated better then a husband or a boyfriend. He gets a lot of attention because of his looks and I try to tell him to stop but I get why he thinks that way..smdh our women are lost

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 4 месяца назад +51

      @@kriswilldoo6042He’s actually right. Husbands and boyfriends are constantly treated like trash and screwed over while the men these women are actually attracted to get special treatment every time.

    • @mattyghost3409
      @mattyghost3409 4 месяца назад

      ​@@thedarkplague1475That's why I don't look for a relationship in America.... Crypto will allow me to become an expat and live like a King 👑👑👑....They did me a favor once I got taste of the power of the USD overseas I'll never look at this place the same. ..

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +24

      @@kriswilldoo6042 Your son is highly intelligent. Good man.

  • @moom8238
    @moom8238 4 месяца назад +114

    Found love overseas and couldn't be happier

    • @rickd438
      @rickd438 4 месяца назад +2

      Where?

    • @mlamont235
      @mlamont235 4 месяца назад +10

      Me too. I started dating in Africa and never looked back.

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 4 месяца назад +8

      I am happily single, stress free, at peace , no baby mamas for the last for 7 years. I plan on trying some South American women when I feel up to it.

    • @WorkSmart-w4x
      @WorkSmart-w4x Месяц назад

      @@mlamont235what area? How did ya do it? After my last relationship I’m no longer interested in the woman over here

  • @NightwingBMV1
    @NightwingBMV1 4 месяца назад +144

    I remember back in the 80s and 90s, boomer blacks (and in the black church) used to say, “The girls are doing great, it’s the boys who are the problem!” That statement didn’t age well. SMH…..

    • @rastahill748
      @rastahill748 4 месяца назад +24

      Reminds me of the Simps.. Smh. Its always the men with them.

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 4 месяца назад +23

      Now it’s the complete opposite. These women are beyond out of control now. SMH.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +30

      @@thedarkplague1475 It was always this way. Blk men were never the issue. Statistics dating back to the 80's will show you the main problem was always the women. And that's not just in the blk community either. It's universal.

    • @NightwingBMV1
      @NightwingBMV1 4 месяца назад +9

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 I remember the females doing all kinds of stuff in the 80s and 90s that nobody was calling them out for. Also do you have a source for those stats during that time period? I always had a feeling that the narratives about BM durning that time period were false.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 4 месяца назад +6

      Gynocentric mindset...ridiculous but reality

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 4 месяца назад +141

    😂 women, the chickens have come home 🏡 to roost!

    • @RTA6226
      @RTA6226 4 месяца назад

      😅😂🤣Yes! They didn't put that burden on themselves!!! Sounds like some more lazy ass women.

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 4 месяца назад +9

      Exactly 💯 it's over for them... sprinkle sprinkle 😂

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 4 месяца назад +85

    I’m 51 years in, I gave up over twenty years ago. I saw the writing on the wall but I never thought it would get this bad.

    • @chv307
      @chv307 4 месяца назад

      Sorry!

    • @wilfordgainer9134
      @wilfordgainer9134 4 месяца назад +8

      True. I'm older, Even older women are a mess. By myself right now and at peace. Might meet her, but I'm not pressed.

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 4 месяца назад

      ​Older women are the worst... bar none. I refuse to ever date an over 35 woman again. ​@@wilfordgainer9134

    • @bruceellison9269
      @bruceellison9269 4 месяца назад

      If you’re older please get your passport ain’t no reason decent brothers should be alone Sysbm

    • @mostunclean6619
      @mostunclean6619 4 месяца назад +9

      @@bruceellison9269 I retired in 2019 and acquired my passport in 2020. I’m not alone and not lonely. I’m enjoying the fruits of my labors. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when your primary focus isn’t running up behind some female.

  • @TyroneDewayne
    @TyroneDewayne 4 месяца назад +203

    I hear a lot of young men say they give up because they don’t meet many women that are just good people. No moral compass, impulsive, no self discipline, lack good character, and basically building on sand.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +44

      None of them are virgins. That alone, is a good reason to walk away.

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne 4 месяца назад +13

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 I have a question because it was asked to me. I’m in my mid 40’s I watch these videos to make sure mine don’t wind up like them. Raising post modern women.
      But this is my question. Pure character. Have the women become way more shadier and more shallow than the men?

    • @supersaturn956
      @supersaturn956 4 месяца назад +24

      Yup lot of stank heffas out here forget em

    • @blackpill3773
      @blackpill3773 4 месяца назад +12

      Yeah I don't blame them I'll just pump n dump or Let pookie and ray ray have them it's not worth it.

    • @TyroneDewayne
      @TyroneDewayne 4 месяца назад +2

      @@blackpill3773 I’m the old head and a lot of them are fatherless. Raised to not lead but follow women being raised by women. It’s why so many be on the internet following lost people.
      I just tell them check the father. If he’s a man that she loves and is a beta run. If he’s a man she respects and you do too stay. If there is no father don’t even mess with them.
      This generation needed their own Too $hort but was raised by Lil Kim 💯

  • @steviemak10
    @steviemak10 4 месяца назад +85

    Too many women want a Diddy type until he showed y’all who he is at the hotel!☠️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @METAMORPHOZIZ-mz6ng
      @METAMORPHOZIZ-mz6ng 4 месяца назад +4

      Do da Diddy n Cassie dance

    • @ECO473
      @ECO473 4 месяца назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @feetfunkerson1312
      @feetfunkerson1312 4 месяца назад

      Some of those women will still chase after that type. Women have been known to go back to a dude who hits them.

    • @nurhayat81
      @nurhayat81 4 месяца назад +1

      The diddler 🤣

    • @steadmoney3431
      @steadmoney3431 4 месяца назад +1

      @@nurhayat81😂😂😂😂

  • @plantbased15
    @plantbased15 4 месяца назад +213

    They come to this realization after 30+ after all the mileage 😅

    • @bossplayermfs5972
      @bossplayermfs5972 4 месяца назад +23

      💯💯💯💯

    • @unyieldingrage1389
      @unyieldingrage1389 4 месяца назад +5

      Classic 😂

    • @seandeans1279
      @seandeans1279 4 месяца назад

      Men have post nut clarity. Women have post wall clarity. One takes 15 minutes the other takes 15 years 🤣💯

    • @keeppressing1760
      @keeppressing1760 4 месяца назад +4

      Exactly 💯 let them run their miles up cause it's their fault not ours

  • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
    @ModernWomenWhatsThat 4 месяца назад +211

    I have NOT given up on dating! I have given up on ALL modern American women and got my PASSPORT!

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 4 месяца назад +13

      That's the spirit my brotha

    • @dpanman
      @dpanman 4 месяца назад +12

      There u go!!!!

    • @coreygreene9498
      @coreygreene9498 4 месяца назад

      Africa is the place to find wives

    • @gabrieldaniels6191
      @gabrieldaniels6191 4 месяца назад +12

      ✈️

    • @prettylyricsmarie
      @prettylyricsmarie 4 месяца назад +8

      But what happens when you go overseas and she's wanting a man to protect and provide for her?

  • @Al-Ghaibb
    @Al-Ghaibb 4 месяца назад +129

    I hope more men continue to check out of dating these western women. 🙏

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 4 месяца назад +23

      Yeah it's harsh but necessary.

    • @Campaign-gx8ty
      @Campaign-gx8ty 4 месяца назад

      And leave western disease men alone too

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn 4 месяца назад +24

      @@calebhenderson6507 Don't even help them outside of relationships.

    • @alphapimp0073
      @alphapimp0073 4 месяца назад +24

      I agree me to. I cannot stand these women

    • @kevinumba6281
      @kevinumba6281 4 месяца назад +13

      I checked out completely at the age of 24

  • @jasoncody1537
    @jasoncody1537 4 месяца назад +109

    Love and relationships aren't worth it anymore and haven't been for a long time

    • @49ers_red_and_gold2
      @49ers_red_and_gold2 4 месяца назад +4

      Sorry for you.

    • @jasoncody1537
      @jasoncody1537 4 месяца назад +21

      @@49ers_red_and_gold2 honestly I just don't care anymore..... But thank you

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 4 месяца назад +42

    I'm incredibly proud of us men. We've finally, as a group, taken a stand with our ACTIONS. For years, we've asked (verbally) women to be kind, respectful, and presentable. Over time, the younger generation (of men) has realized that women do NOT care about what you SAY; they respect what you DO.

  • @sbolden123
    @sbolden123 4 месяца назад +140

    Well, 🤷‍♂️😏 women you pushed 🫸 us to this point. We men, Alpha men(not simps) are out of patience. 🚫👎🙏

    • @winloseorrug7099
      @winloseorrug7099 4 месяца назад

      Gotta distinguish the difference between men and simps 100% simps will do anything for s3x and it’s undermining the effort of real productive men.

    • @daishawilliams8301
      @daishawilliams8301 4 месяца назад +16

      On behalf of women I'm sorry for the stuff you guys put up with 😮.

    • @dezcuts5319
      @dezcuts5319 4 месяца назад +10

      @@daishawilliams8301you don’t have to be. We’ve decided enough is enough

  • @guevealbino5432
    @guevealbino5432 4 месяца назад +42

    Too many Broke Women want something from a man that they can't afford. 😮😮😮

    • @cblack350z
      @cblack350z 4 месяца назад +11

      10,000 % FACTS!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gomab.ing4
    @gomab.ing4 4 месяца назад +58

    You can’t fix someone who doesn’t think they are broken. You will break yourself 💯

    • @MisterE1976
      @MisterE1976 4 месяца назад +4

      I agree wholeheartedly!

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 4 месяца назад +6

      ☑☑☑ I learned this the very hard way

    • @a.okoronkwo311
      @a.okoronkwo311 4 месяца назад +1

      🎼 to my ears.

  • @LaiLuvz
    @LaiLuvz 4 месяца назад +56

    Attitude too. I keep running into many that'll have bad attitudes. Ran into one today at the DMV. Like why y'all walking around mad at the world?

    • @raamyasharahla535
      @raamyasharahla535 4 месяца назад +12

      Demons

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 4 месяца назад

      Cmon now 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 4 месяца назад +13

      OMG yep, a couple of days ago I'm fresh off the plane and waited for my LYFT driver, the map showed that they were 5 mins away, little did I know that she was less than a minute. She yells and is aggressive to get my attention, tried to start a unnecessary argument with me when I got in the car. If I wasn't in a rush to get home for work no way I would've got in the car. I don't want to hear another woman talk about they're the least protected and respected. Something simple as holding the doors for many of your counterparts can go wrong.

    • @DeathWing572
      @DeathWing572 4 месяца назад +7

      They're mad because they have to work and no one is putting up with their bullhive

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 4 месяца назад +2

      @@DeathWing572 There you go. Time's officially up. Shape up or get left

  • @daishawilliams8301
    @daishawilliams8301 4 месяца назад +47

    Men checked out of the dating world because of the modern day 304 culture and unrealistic expectations us as women have on men and now wonder why drizzle drizzle movement happened.🤦

    • @HollowNoFace
      @HollowNoFace 4 месяца назад +15

      Honestly as a man I feel like a target is on my back and I'm at war. I can't even think about love anymore

    • @kev2263
      @kev2263 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@HollowNoFace Facts you took the words right out my mouth, couldn't say it any better!

  • @prodigalson1500
    @prodigalson1500 4 месяца назад +38

    I just don’t deal with broke women. If you don’t have a job, if you don’t have your own. I’m not going to help you. I am not an ATM.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯

  • @nicholasnorman4179
    @nicholasnorman4179 4 месяца назад +70

    Women want to run my pockets. I'm about to run their pockets in a lot more

    • @PrivateMail-c8m
      @PrivateMail-c8m 4 месяца назад +9

      Yesses, Drizzle Drizzle

    • @edt4080
      @edt4080 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes use women

  • @matrice03
    @matrice03 4 месяца назад +156

    Wow! The women really shot themselves in the foot with this madness. Me and my boyfriend (now husband) used to do the dollar show and White Castle and been together since 17 (in our 40’s now). He said he loved me cause I wasn’t materialistic and cared about him as a person. Now we’ve built a lovely life together and he told me because of love, respect, and appreciation of him, he spoils me. Been loving him since he worked at McDonald’s for minimum wage🖤

    • @12261962808
      @12261962808 4 месяца назад +21

      Blessings and long, healthy, prosperous lives to you both.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +1

      You moved correctly and stayed with 1 man from a young age. However, you are in your 40's, you're from a completely different generation than the degenerate one we have now.

    • @PrivateMail-c8m
      @PrivateMail-c8m 4 месяца назад +14

      You are a Fantastic! Woman. . .
      That is what true love is all about. It's rough trying to find down to earth real woman like you.
      It's a needle in a haystack. . . Congratulations on your life with your Husband.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 4 месяца назад +10

      😊😊😊😊😊great story 👏

    • @haquanwright7559
      @haquanwright7559 4 месяца назад +5

      Bah-dah-dah-dah-daaaah, I'm lovin' it ❤😂😂

  • @jamesw22185
    @jamesw22185 4 месяца назад +50

    I’m a single man who would want a good woman the problem is it’s way too much mentally, emotionally, and physically energy to put into someone who may cheat on you

    • @breal1266
      @breal1266 4 месяца назад +7

      🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

    • @Mr.Edwards233
      @Mr.Edwards233 4 месяца назад +13

      Or simply say: I'm not feeling the vibe.
      After all that time Wasted

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 4 месяца назад +4

      Facts

  • @AphrooneRichardson
    @AphrooneRichardson 4 месяца назад +39

    Men you are the PRIZE worldwide! Get your U. S. Passport and Zoom Zoom and Drizzle Drizzle to Central and South America where the Afro-Latina's are Traditional and Gorgeous! Viva Cali, Colombia and Dominican Republic and Drizzle Drizzle! AMEN-ASE!

    • @coachc125
      @coachc125 4 месяца назад +6

      Yessir. I love Afro Latinas

    • @thedarkplague1475
      @thedarkplague1475 4 месяца назад +9

      Yea, black women in the states forget black people exist outside of western society.

    • @coachc125
      @coachc125 4 месяца назад +12

      @@thedarkplague1475 Yes they do. There are more black women outside of America. Never limit your options.

    • @GMacII
      @GMacII 4 месяца назад +7

      I’ve told this story before that I met a teacher in one of the Zona Sul’s (super market) in Salvador Bahia, Brasil. Super beautiful woman, great conversation, great cook, helpful, etc.
      I’ll never forget she asked me one day “I don’t understand, you look over your shoulder at me” ( side eye). Truth is I’d never been so attentively cared for by a woman that I thought she was trying to set me up lmao 😂

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 4 месяца назад +4

      I am happily single, stress free, at peace , no baby mamas for the last 7 years. I plan on trying some South American women when I feel up to it.

  • @michaelbrinkley9323
    @michaelbrinkley9323 4 месяца назад +68

    This exactly where I'm at in my life. After being rejected so many times and hearing these "Standards " women have I'm simply done with dating.

    • @Attah57
      @Attah57 4 месяца назад +16

      I bet they didn't reject you, it simply means they didn't deserve you,......trust me, the one who'll truly deserve you is on the way,.......and it'll be like dream for you. Hope is not lost at all

    • @michaelbrinkley9323
      @michaelbrinkley9323 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@Attah57. Thank you.

    • @t.p.m.414
      @t.p.m.414 4 месяца назад +5

      Rejection is your protection...

    • @michaelbrinkley9323
      @michaelbrinkley9323 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@@t.p.m.414. That's one way to look at it.

    • @chilombomululu6034
      @chilombomululu6034 4 месяца назад +1

      Thy didn't deserve u n thts u being saved instead . rejection are blessings smtimes in disguise . probably would have put u through hell.right one wil cm to add peace to ur life n not take it away.

  • @begoode2385
    @begoode2385 4 месяца назад +40

    They just mad they not getting attention. Less dating, more courtship.

  • @TruthHurtz460
    @TruthHurtz460 4 месяца назад +42

    It’s not fear of anything, we just not doing it. Especially for women that ain’t worth holding a door for, let alone taking care of.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯

  • @p9a9r21
    @p9a9r21 4 месяца назад +19

    Read the comments below.... These comments are emblematic of the thoughts and decisions of tens of millions of single childless black men. Domestic black women have accomplished something unprecedented, convincing millions of domestic black men they aren't needed or wanted.
    With respect to the sister in the beginning of the video, she is very well acquainted with misandry she hears just about every day coming out of the mouths of black women. Video after video conveys the same message from domestic black women; we're better than you, we aren't going to lower or standards so shape up or ship out.Well black men are choosing to "ship out" by the millions, domestically and internationally.

  • @sirblack1619
    @sirblack1619 4 месяца назад +36

    I did not give up. I just went the Philippines where I have not had to deal with any of that crap.

    • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
      @ModernWomenWhatsThat 4 месяца назад +8

      HELL YES! Passport............CHECK!

    • @GregLucas-pv8nm
      @GregLucas-pv8nm 4 месяца назад

      You haven't found a utopia

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 4 месяца назад

      @@GregLucas-pv8nm Male Debbie Downers are worse than modern 304s!

  • @doncartier6796
    @doncartier6796 4 месяца назад +23

    This is irreversible now. No matter how many women that calling it out, we men still have to look at you as just speaking politically correct. Ladies, this isn't just a 2020s problem, this is institutionalized. And y'all aren't changing it. One thing I can count on is all the negativity of a woman, and that's the most comforting part about our decision to remain alone. Not only that, the time alone has helped us reflect about y'all. You've not only called into question your role in society but also your own humanity. Even the traditonal ones aren't escaping this, no matter what most of us see y'all as a hole in our pockets or a black hole.
    One thing I learned about black holes, always avoid going near the event horizon. No good comes out that.

    • @xmanlatter6013
      @xmanlatter6013 4 месяца назад +1

      I’m a physicist. The black hole analogy hit hard!

    • @doncartier6796
      @doncartier6796 4 месяца назад

      The only difference between a black hole and a woman is at least, a black hole, once light gets past the event horizon its death provides a spectacular light show. Even the most beautiful woman can’t compare to that natural beauty of energy trying to escape a black hole.

  • @gregorywynn3244
    @gregorywynn3244 4 месяца назад +27

    My belief is that if they can't appreciate Macdonalds, then do not treat them to fine dining. It's just that simple.
    Like Cory Holcomb once said, " ...if she's thiry-five and older, and alone her way ain't working." Case closed.

  • @jjmcg9184
    @jjmcg9184 4 месяца назад +20

    Not just materialistic but they play too many games with guys who are genuinely interested in them.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯

  • @justwatching3124
    @justwatching3124 4 месяца назад +25

    We ain't giving up... we getting out 😂. You've seen Becky, Maria, Lola, xia, and akumi have men..

    • @TheRawledawg
      @TheRawledawg 4 месяца назад

      And you will see them all with the men at the NBA draft.

    • @yeahyeahwowman8099
      @yeahyeahwowman8099 4 месяца назад

      Guys are punk hypocrites that's why. You wanna talk crap, then run into the arms of other races of women, why I can't stand you cowards, (spit noise)

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯

  • @mikelee9516
    @mikelee9516 4 месяца назад +14

    I can’t shop at Home Depot or Lowe’s anymore. They walk around pretending they are shopping.
    Drizzle Drizzle ladies
    Drizzle Drizzle......😎

  • @mrjj-nm1ej
    @mrjj-nm1ej 4 месяца назад +22

    Men are not in fear of womens standards....don't be fooled by that sister...

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +2

      The only one she's fooling is herself. The women who are smart enough will understand the real reason men are ditching them for better options overseas.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯

  • @obtryce7070
    @obtryce7070 4 месяца назад +12

    Fellas, prepare for your future not theirs. It's always about them and not you, they bring nothing to you but want everything from you.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯💯

  • @ezragilliam9647
    @ezragilliam9647 4 месяца назад +20

    Don’t get me wrong. I love my sisters, but they’re too far gone. I don’t have time to be sitting around, trying to heal somebody’s trauma.
    And until they get their act together, you really have no choice but to venture out somewhere else

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 4 месяца назад +4

      America, dominant society let feminism get out of hand and all other communities feel the after effects.

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 4 месяца назад +7

      You dont have to say I love my sisters. I am sick reading this. They are not showing the same love towards us. Time to wakeup.

    • @ezragilliam9647
      @ezragilliam9647 4 месяца назад

      @@IAmRetiredSoon I say it for disclaimer purposes. And I can attest that not all are bad from experience. But they still gotta do the work and until they do venture somewhere else.

    • @IAmRetiredSoon
      @IAmRetiredSoon 4 месяца назад +4

      @@ezragilliam9647 You are free brother i have removed your chains. Go forth and bask in your Freedom. No more disclaimers! Comprende?

    • @ezragilliam9647
      @ezragilliam9647 4 месяца назад

      @@NoMoneyOut no doubt

  • @gurukid08
    @gurukid08 4 месяца назад +17

    It's really bad in the black community.

    • @offcamtv
      @offcamtv 3 месяца назад

      It's horrible in the black community. This is why I do not date BW any more. 💯💯💯💯

  • @joshuajackson7050
    @joshuajackson7050 4 месяца назад +58

    I have my own bills why would I pay all your bills when I know you aren't going to pay mine, and can't 😂.

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 4 месяца назад +5

      😂😂😂😂😂😂common sense 👏 👌

    • @tatheblkpaladin
      @tatheblkpaladin 3 месяца назад

      Exactly

    • @Neffect371
      @Neffect371 3 месяца назад

      Yall learning

  • @TonyMac1
    @TonyMac1 4 месяца назад +9

    Fellas way late! I stopped almost a decade ago. It’s cheaper to pay to play directly or indirectly vs these women wanting a man to buy this and that to be in a relationship. They just want to use men the same way you have a group of men who wanted to use women for sex only. The problem is people who have true intentions both men and women, end up getting screwed over

  • @adeona5202
    @adeona5202 4 месяца назад +11

    I never tried to date anyway and I don't stress about any of this. I never even aproach women. I simply play the proximity game. Every where I go: a class I take, a job etc.. there is always at least 1 cutie that's interested and I just take advantage and have a good time for as long as it lasts. I usually get the interests of the ones I like. So I can't complain! IJS

  • @67judge
    @67judge 4 месяца назад +12

    The women here are spoiled fruit 🍉 😩And we Men don’t have to take this anymore. We have to get fresh fruit 🍎 from another vendor 😅

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 4 месяца назад +2

      Enabling environment ..laws..policies..

    • @empowerment_007
      @empowerment_007 4 месяца назад +1

      Walmart fruit- picked overs.

  • @Nightrain349
    @Nightrain349 4 месяца назад +15

    I haven't dated in the states for 9 years now.

  • @erickonassis6310
    @erickonassis6310 4 месяца назад +40

    I met this girl, and in the beginning of conversations, she said I m spoiled...I quit contact, she been blowing up my phone for two weeks...no thanks, don't need the stress, I m happy with peace...

    • @plot229
      @plot229 4 месяца назад +10

      You did the right thing. As soon as a woman sneak that “I’m spoiled” in a conversation…leave she won’t do nothing but run up pockets and run up your blood pressure.

    • @raybandz1109
      @raybandz1109 4 месяца назад +1

      Oh no smh

    • @TheRawledawg
      @TheRawledawg 4 месяца назад +2

      That's how I do. Any kind of smartazz remarks about me or how I am.......OUT!!!!

    • @Neffect371
      @Neffect371 3 месяца назад

      Yall learning older men like me didn't learn so fast

  • @kevjones72
    @kevjones72 4 месяца назад +7

    I’m a six figure guy, got my house, car paid off, passport and security clearance, haven’t been interested in going on a date for the past 5 years 😂, except one female I’ve known for over ten years, she’s feminine, friendly and fit. Crypto bull run is starting, I make dough, I don’t give my wealth to a female just because..

  • @fotosbyduane
    @fotosbyduane 4 месяца назад +16

    A leopard can’t change its spots. The next generation will need to recover from this materialistic mindset.

  • @cjfyre3914
    @cjfyre3914 4 месяца назад +12

    I’m over it. I’m out the game. Good luck! I’m in my Drizzle Drizzle era. Self care and Loving on me.

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly 4 месяца назад +8

    I don't see American men giving up on love, but, what I do see is American men who try to deal with today's modern materialistic American women involving romance has reinvested in himself to explore his other dating options.
    Hello Europe, Asia, and Mexico, Central and So. America! 😊

  • @jimmiecato9390
    @jimmiecato9390 4 месяца назад +15

    I like what Fannie Willis said, “ A man, is NOT A PLAN, A MAN IS A COMPANION.”

    • @Koyasi78
      @Koyasi78 4 месяца назад

      Bad example. She don't live her words

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 4 месяца назад +12

    This is why DRIZZLE DRIZZLE is heavily trending.

    • @Alazar654
      @Alazar654 3 месяца назад

      Yup! Drizzle, drizzle!!!

  • @KevinDixon
    @KevinDixon 4 месяца назад +12

    Phil, we been done.
    We stacking chips to leave.
    We done walked.

  • @alfredojohannes6827
    @alfredojohannes6827 4 месяца назад +8

    Don't be concerned about men... Or more specifically good men. We will be ok... eventually. We are built to survive. I only hope the same thing is true for women long term. The good thing is the oldest profession is always hiring and they have already been amassing the job skill set and experiemce. Like the post office, the streets are always hiring.

  • @realtalkjames2408
    @realtalkjames2408 4 месяца назад +6

    0:18 They priced themselves out of the market; a man has pressure to deal with daily! You want a man? DO for him, ask him out, and say “YOUR Treat”, don't put extra on him.

  • @direwolf1977
    @direwolf1977 4 месяца назад +16

    We just became economically smart!

  • @FredrickMeredith-k2c
    @FredrickMeredith-k2c 4 месяца назад +8

    1:50 Because they're selling Box it ain't about finding good men.

  • @tennesseesyndicate5337
    @tennesseesyndicate5337 4 месяца назад +8

    Fear? We arent scared we just not STUPID

  • @JayWerx
    @JayWerx 4 месяца назад +21

    I’ve never took women out on dates or paid for hair or nails to clap buns. They just be on social media cappin’

    • @albgamin410
      @albgamin410 4 месяца назад +3

      Facts

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 4 месяца назад +1

      Facts AND i am 5"7 Even this whole women only looking for 6 feet dudes AND i be out here clapping all height levels...

  • @isaacsgeorge1775
    @isaacsgeorge1775 4 месяца назад +5

    Modern Western women did it to themselves........... Good working class men value peace of mind, including financial maters like not being in debt, paying the bills in full on time and not living beyond their means. Facts.

  • @415folife9
    @415folife9 4 месяца назад +22

    Not many think like her !!

    • @calebhenderson6507
      @calebhenderson6507 4 месяца назад +7

      The crazy part about this is she will be called a pick me.....

    • @415folife9
      @415folife9 4 месяца назад +6

      @@calebhenderson6507 Il
      Pick her all day 😂

    • @empowerment_007
      @empowerment_007 4 месяца назад

      ​@@calebhenderson6507 By picked overs who every Tyrone has touched, played with, then threw it back in the pile

    • @ReginaldBurns-ox6nm
      @ReginaldBurns-ox6nm 4 месяца назад +1

      She has value an add value she CAN BE THE puppet and the puppeteer. Maybe she could guide if one could follow But you got Basketball Wives

  • @gotti400082
    @gotti400082 4 месяца назад +6

    A soundtrack to a modern woman's Life
    :"hey Wine n Dine me
    :The guy does exactly that
    Results: she brought a doggie bag home to Pookie that doesn't even love her and eating off your expense 🤦
    How these sista be claiming they want God to be at the center of the relationship when they keep fooling themselves into thinking a material relationship is Love
    Make that make sense🤔

  • @mostunclean6619
    @mostunclean6619 4 месяца назад +7

    At my age peace of mind, overall health and financial stability are paramount. Modern women are not worth the risk of losing what I acquired thru blood, sweat and tears.

  • @plastikloser
    @plastikloser 4 месяца назад +5

    Alot of women only want to top 5% of men, and for any reason including boredom they can bounce and take AT LEAST half of everything you worked for or ever owned. That's a lot of pain for little pleasure

  • @theoriginal668
    @theoriginal668 4 месяца назад +12

    Nope I am good by myself. I'm loving my peace

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 4 месяца назад +5

    If you really take a look at how women learn a new thing. They always take the newly found knowledge and take it to an extreme conclusion. Men are supposed to provide and protect a woman and his family with the basic necessities, and if they have extra they have extra, but women have made luxury a necessity and that will only come to backfire on them in the future.

  • @farmerfletch
    @farmerfletch 4 месяца назад +4

    Why waste time dating when you're being rejected the majority of the time? We know our women are attracted to a certain type of guy.

  • @Wood490
    @Wood490 4 месяца назад +3

    Naw Ma, good brothers haven't given up on love. We have decided to give up dealing with shallow, materialist, self absorbed, vain women. During the last 5 years many of us have discovered there's a whole nother world of beautiful women eager for our attention.

  • @viperdecenter4794
    @viperdecenter4794 4 месяца назад +4

    To all the men get your (PASSPORTS) and head east trust me as long your financially stable to provide for a family thats what the majority of them care about they're not materialistic and could care less if you're not 6ft tall or dont make 6 figures they appreciate the hard work men do as well from a 9-5 or in my case 12hr shifts

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 4 месяца назад +5

    Add the divorce rate and biased Family Court Laws...why would men try? Not to mention the risk of being "Me Too'd" if she removes consent AFTERWARDS! 😮😢 Men have woken up!

  • @Attah57
    @Attah57 4 месяца назад +5

    As for me personally,..any woman with higher standards simply doesn't concern me at all,...becuz standard or no standard....is none of my gat dayum business. Women's standards only give headaches to men who contemplate whether they can afford it or not

  • @bigwill9421
    @bigwill9421 4 месяца назад +5

    As a female influencer calls this behavior
    "304 ADJACENT."

  • @jdcaldwell5088
    @jdcaldwell5088 4 месяца назад +7

    Been there done with the GAMES of the western feminist women delusion of a life😢😢😢

  • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
    @ModernWomenWhatsThat 4 месяца назад +10

    TOO LATE......MY SISTA!

  • @cherisemoss7854
    @cherisemoss7854 4 месяца назад +26

    It's NOT just Black women.

    • @thadlm2698
      @thadlm2698 4 месяца назад +16

      NOT just but mostly black women.

    • @cherisemoss7854
      @cherisemoss7854 4 месяца назад

      @@thadlm2698 And YOU know ALL NON-BLACK women?

    • @thadlm2698
      @thadlm2698 4 месяца назад +11

      @@cherisemoss7854 Yes, I know them ALL…

    • @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997
      @goffsgetawaygardenhomestea5997 4 месяца назад +9

      Aht aht .. hold still and get this healing sis

    • @jshooper7819
      @jshooper7819 4 месяца назад +5

      How does this make Black Women's behavior justifiable? Y'all are ALWAYS deflecting.

  • @larrybolton9982
    @larrybolton9982 4 месяца назад +8

    It wasn't like this in the 70's and 80's

  • @Teddy42O
    @Teddy42O 4 месяца назад +19

    Alot of brothas are going to Becky because of modern day materialistic sistas, Becky believes in fixing dudes & building

    • @Deepthoughts67457
      @Deepthoughts67457 4 месяца назад +6

      Ain't Becky the one to start feminism? 😂😂🤣

    • @DievestorsNeverLearn
      @DievestorsNeverLearn 4 месяца назад +8

      @@Deepthoughts67457 Brad is having the same problems with Becky.

    • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
      @ModernWomenWhatsThat 4 месяца назад

      EFF BECKY! if she's from America, she's not worth it!

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 4 месяца назад +7

      @@Deepthoughts67457 Of course they did, but blk women decided to take it and run with it. Even the whyte women are smart enough to not wait at the finish line and instead seek out prospects early. 😂

    • @FierceLeo.
      @FierceLeo. 4 месяца назад

      No thanks, not becky. I need melanin. I rather try some central americans or south american women.

  • @lmj6825
    @lmj6825 4 месяца назад +2

    This is a daily conversation that black men have. Why? If black women are a thing of the past why continue to give the topic so much energy. Who are you trying to convince?

  • @ecklealie8061
    @ecklealie8061 4 месяца назад +2

    I have given up on dating men, especially after what U have been through. Now I an enjoying my single life. No rushing home to cook for any one ect and the emmense freedom which comes with it is priceless.

  • @barrylittle2969
    @barrylittle2969 4 месяца назад +6

    Wait...I thought this is what they wanted...

  • @AlhakeemMoore
    @AlhakeemMoore 4 месяца назад +3

    Ain't nobody losing no sleep, but jazabel

  • @KBM144
    @KBM144 4 месяца назад +3

    Living in a materialistic America 🇺🇸 can do that to your mindset when you don't know who you are spiritually 🙏 🙏 . Research the real Lord and savior . Your journey will begin of real love ❤️

  • @coreyondavis6032
    @coreyondavis6032 2 месяца назад +2

    Well women did choose the bear. Its a win for everyone when you think about it. The women are safe and the men can find peace being alone

  • @armandoperez7967
    @armandoperez7967 4 месяца назад +6

    This young lady is spot on! I am sure she already has her man. She is a diamond in a sea of coal!

  • @juniorleslie4804
    @juniorleslie4804 4 месяца назад +4

    Materialistic is the least of my concerns. But wanting everything and offering nothing, is.

  • @chosenone4631
    @chosenone4631 4 месяца назад +6

    Ungrateful, me walking away 🚶

  • @rigjuice3842
    @rigjuice3842 4 месяца назад +4

    New marital vows for 2024 run them pockets fool 🤣🤣📘+🛫 =😁

  • @tonyjunior-thefirstgentlem410
    @tonyjunior-thefirstgentlem410 4 месяца назад +3

    That woman's speech was okay, but she needs to watch her words. No man is afraid of taking care of a woman because he's broke, he doesn't want to waste his resources on a woman who is.

  • @delmontegreenbeans
    @delmontegreenbeans 4 месяца назад +7

    Did that longtime ago?

  • @telayajackson1.0
    @telayajackson1.0 4 месяца назад +4

    It started with "sprinkle sprinkle".

  • @jdemaison2940
    @jdemaison2940 4 месяца назад +5

    They are close to the expiration date. That is why they come up

  • @rack_9
    @rack_9 4 месяца назад +5

    Honestly its their fault and the attitudes to go along with it 😂.

    • @joshuaram100
      @joshuaram100 3 месяца назад

      @@rack_9 is that your excuse for dipping in transformers?

  • @buddylove5880
    @buddylove5880 4 месяца назад +7

    Good video uncle Phil 💯

  • @ModernWomenWhatsThat
    @ModernWomenWhatsThat 4 месяца назад +6

    Passport...........CHECK!

  • @seanhamner813
    @seanhamner813 4 месяца назад +4

    Women look at men like ATM machines

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 4 месяца назад +10

    Any person with bad credit and no investing skills shouldn't be materialistic! 😮