Resentment is a tool designed to inform the individual of an error in the social structure they live in. Thats all it is. If you have resentment, there is an error in the social structure. It is caused by the social structure. Somehow you were convinced that it "mattered", whatever it is you resent, but guess what: it doesnt. Youve been fooled. it doesnt actually matter. what actually matters is the extreme imbalance of the social hierarchy. That is what your brain is trying to warn you about. That is why resentment exists. all suffering is caused by poorly designed social-economic structures.
@@radbug you're description of resentment sounds resentful in itself. I agree resentment can be born from inequality or an error in social structure, but my personal experience and observation is that resentment more often comes from our own inability to meet a mark or make an achievement. Sometimes this inability is due to outside circumstance or inequality, and sometimes it's due to our own failures. Either way it seems best to avoid resenting society or existence seeing as the former disempowers you, whereas the latter does empower you even if it's a hard pill to swallow. Resentment in one form or another is more likely to harm you than it is to harm the thing you resent or anything else.
Radbug - "If you have resentment, there is an error in the social structure. It is caused by the social structure" That may quite possibly be the dumbest thing I've ever read.
People had the mentality long before social media. The only way to get rid of those feelings is to be happy yourself. Or, you know....to just be the type of person who's not jealous of others.
Trying to get my girl off social media. It’s very distracting sure it makes her laugh but I can’t compete and make her dopamine rush like her social media does.
I felt like a compete loser for the longest time and I hated myself as a person, so I would drink to kill the pain. That feeling of resentment never left me alone until I got professional help. Finally at the age 37, after I got some sobriety under my belt, I realized that I was my own worst enemy. I've been sober now for two years, and I no longer think negative about who I am as a person anymore.
Sometimes we need some time to chill-out and get the help we need. Life isn't a contest, we need some time to rethink your lives over. There is nothing wrong with taking time out to catch up with with ourselves, we're only human. Best of luck to you my friend..
Good for you! I've also in the process of climbing out of a hole after 9 years of depression and excessive drinking. I started to understand the whole "world is meaningless and dark place, so it's up to you to find a meaning in something you like".
I disagree, it depends what way you choose to take the jealous. Like all emotions, jealous has a productive purpose: it’s forcing you to look at someone who’s doing something you’re not and think “hmm what can I take on board from them to improve myself?” That’s healthy competition and it fires you up to get better. Or you can go the bitter hater route, which is the negative path they’re initially talking about
@@christopherferguson8434 You differentiating positive and negative jealous is exactly what people need to recognize and understand. Unfortunately, I'm weak minded and fall easily to thinking negative and unproductive. A few months ago I stranger I met online who said they're going to boot camp. I'm thinking "They done something I gave up on a long time ago because I was a stupid kid. Wait, that was a possibility? I was so narrow minded to think I'm forever stuck in the college route and if I don't get a degree my life is over." I recognize college is required for STEM people and I get understand that. But I don't have the mindset for that right now after 3 years of mindlessly switching majors and taking classes.
@@gpsdoc2222 how u doing now? I also switched a lot but now im gonna do it. i just cant swing around my whole life and get distracted from external things like girls, partys etc. we need to make our future self proud and we can do it!
@@isdenn7 My views of things has changed but the hardest part is actually getting into the habit of getting where you want to be. I know time is important but yet I still waste it so that's what I need to work on.
This. Wondering why someone is successful is good. It leads to you considering what the appropriate path forward is. Jealousy is the lack of consideration
“You just can’t hate on successful people , actually they are showing you that it’s possible to do better than what you really be doing “ Realest talk ever 💯💯👌
I’ve been in this loser mentality headspace for the past week now, but I totally agree with u guys. I need to refocus my energy and use this to motivate me to do better and improve. I think a really great way of avoiding the jealousy is by forcing yourself to go to the very people u r jealous of and ask them to help u improve by asking for advice or support. That’ll prevent u from looking at them negatively too.
@@jackdourakos2500 "Mental real estate" is what is being referenced when you see someone online say "Rent Free" to another person who is seemingly being bitter for no reason about something.
It’s definitely a hard thing to do. Especially if your world revolves around people you dislike, environments you do not feel comfortable in , or negative thoughts you have every so often. You must find the inner strength to ignore and invest your time/ energy into things that are important and will benefit you.
Wow, you learn a lot from seeing this. Jealousy is the cancer of the soul, yes, but admiring someone, & wanting to work harder to reach that level they're on, is inspiring, in a sense.
Throughout my life jealousy has been one of my most defining traits, I've always felt jealous since I was but a kid, not any jealousy, an enormous just hideous jealousy, and in my teenage years that jealousy did fire me up and it made me go get what I wanted.... but in a ruthless way that involved hurting others badly and even hurting my goal, which in turn led to regret and suffering, even if I achieved my goal I left a trail of chaos behind. The way Joe and Nikki are putting it here... it could really change things for me.
I just started to get this. I am having to consciously stop allowing myself to think about anything related to my day job. It just sucks all the brain bandwidth away from me and I have no creativity or energy whatsoever to pour into my art journals. I will definitely keep coming back to this video.
@commando vaughn no that guy completely messed up the lyrics & doesn't make any sense, correct lyrics are: "A wise man told me holding a grudge is like letting someone live inside your head rent free" Song - Detroit vs Everybody
Joe is way better at MMA commentary/analysis than comedy. He is decent at comedy but his understanding of mixed martial arts and combat sports is world class in my opinion.
Jealousy can happen even without social media. It can happen in social circles in real-time. The best thing to do is always find the right support and, if possible, leave such toxic settings.
The loser mentality to me is simply comparing yourself constantly. It doesn’t mean you’re a “loser” but it does mean you are losing. Because someone will always have it better at some point. Even the wealthiest, most famous actors and actresses in Hollywood history had their crowns snatched away at some point or another. Life is a continuum. Ride the wave 🌊 😎 try not to compare your pitfalls to someone else’s gains. Because guaranteed they also had some hardships as well. Stay focused and try to be happy
When Joe said maybe you’re involved in a relationship with an idiot and you spend time going back and forth arguing and that’s 30% of your bandwidth that hit me
My life lesson his; don't underestimate yourself. That feeling and rush of surprising yourself when you do things or accomblish things you thought you couldn't do is one of the greatest things you can experience in life.
I was told to watch your pod casts and I have to say, I am truly inspired! I struggle with ALOT of what you discuss and it gives me hope! Thanks for helping others!! xoxo
It's really hard to not be bitter this year. With this pandemic the things I love are either stuff I can't do (travel) or things that I've done so much that I don't even care about them anymore (games, TV, writing, art, hiking, etc.). I just want the world to open up so I can start focusing on the things I love again.
@@jordankit1648 I try but that list of what I don't have grows slimmer and slimmer each day. I've learned that I'd rather have nothing and be with the ones I love than have everything and be around toxic people.
@@SomethingSomethingg definitely not being around toxic people is important for our mental health. The list of things we don’t have....I meant us not having disease, lost limb or even losing our eyesight....grateful we don’t have those struggles..
Not always about hard work. It can also be about luck, some reality stars got cast, acted the fool and are now household names. Not studying in college/drama school or running track for years to get recognised. I don't envy them, but luck will always beat 'hard work'
mediacenter man it really isn’t all luck. People who say success is luck just really want to believe it is. I’d say it’s only luck when you are born into wealth.
@Odyssey Haus u can never have financial freedom working for someone else. And with the Internet it's no longer about who you know. When u sell online your connections etc doesn't matter it's a knowledge skill game. There are 16 year olds who are making 6 figures a year selling slime on instagram. The old model of work way up in corporate is finished.
akshay Viswambharan that’s not a sustainable system Able bodied 36 year olds can’t break into the selling Slime on Instagram market but we have lots of able bodied men 26-40 years old figuratively sitting around
"Success in life is the result of good judgment. Good judgment is usually the result of experience. And experience is usually the result of bad judgment." Tony Robbins
My problem is my loser mentality of hate is towards myself and being lost on what I’m doing here. I’ve been drowning on focuses on my flaws and non-existent truths only brought to fruition cause I let it. I’m trying to find what I can do to fix this, to start loving myself, accepting my flaws, and building me to be my best me.
That's a very dangerous mentality. Not everyone can do anything, not by a long shot. You're setting yourself up for a depressing life if you truly believe that. Figure out what you are good at and make that your purpose... Don't try to become something you can never be because motivational quotes said you could do it if you "put your mind to it."
I want to be taller than 6 ft, not possible...I want to be not disabled...not possible...you can't achieve what ever you want and it's exactly people like you giving people false hope that people have the loser mentality because their whole life people tell them they can achieve anything which is actually not a realistic expectation. No you can't achieve anything, you can only achieve what your abilities allow you to achieve.
i don't think i have a loser mentality, but i was picked on a lot in high school and it affected my self esteem pretty bad. now that i'm older, i worry that i'm just not good enough, that i'm doing something wrong or what others think about me. because i was picked on, i have kind of a negative self perception, i don't hate myself or anything but it makes me think that i'm an easy target and those kids picked on me for a reason, and in my adult life, i just worry that when i meet people, they don't like me or have a negative first impression of me
@Ed M I think pycho have a fear of not being in control of something ...they have a feel of fear even though it's almost muted compare to us, I don't think they are machines they are human
for anyone curious, the quote joe was trying to remember in the beginning is “being jealous is the same as drinking poison and expecting the other person to die”
Don't hate people that are better than you. Admire the dedication, consistency, sacrifaces and work etic that took them to be there and if you want to beat them and willing to do the sacrifaces necessary to reach that level then believe in yourself and go for it without second taughts or distractions.
A loser to me is someone not driven to succeed but someone dependant on failures. Life is a learning curve and a spiritual output is wetness to the bones and is blood to the veins. It drives one to succeed and connect with all senses. The power of faith is supernatural for someone looking to succeed in life and its a motivation for bad moments and let downs.
As a musician in his 20's I feel stuck in a halfway and I'm usually conscious about it. A lot of times I see someone who's way better or knows something and theres a part thats like "fuck why cant i do that? Why can they understand it so easy?" Then another part thats like "i can get better than them with diligence." The biggest negative to the 'loser mentality' would be as an introvert, I find it very hard to not be jealous at people who get places because of their ability to connect and conversate with people. For me, its a lot harder to stay remembered even when I leave a lasting impression. They'll remember the well experience, but not my face.
I've heard it a few way's "Having hate for someone is like drinking poison expecting the other person to die." "Resentment is drinking poison, hoping the other person will die." all the same message though ha.
Hating yes but wondering? Super useful to wonder why someone is successful so you can emulate it. Also joe is afraid he’ll get slipped up by online comments and he cares what people think
Sometimes success works for people because of the personalized situation they are in or opportunities that were shown to them. The best thing to learn is how to notice and exploit opportunities when they come.
success is different for each person... to me as an example success is to play a shit ton of pc games, write some music and not care what the rest of you think about it... the last part is the difficult part... sure i can copy another musician, listen to his music and then try to make my own sound like his... but what is the fucking point then? then i might aswell be a working man... it is no longer MY music... it is no longer what I, MARTIN MIKKELSEN brought to the world... now it is just an attempt at trying to achieve respect, money or power from others through music... even if i manage to achieve those three things by copying another person then i still lost the ability to add something new to the world...
Bruh. That's not the form of wondering he means, obviously. Lol... I don't think he gives a fuck about what plebs think of him rofl He just doesnt wanna deal with it because losers hide behind a screen and talk mad shit.
I can relate this to playing my guitar on stage or with a new band. Someone is better then me which means there is a huge learning curve that I can take advantage of. Some of the best experiences so far to happen to me.
I love when people gets jealous, it means they are insecure so you can outstep them faster, it is an easy competition when your rival is bitterly jealous
i’ve reached such a “who gives a shit what people think, just do you” mentality, and i almost feel guilty for how enlightened i feel. It’s craaaaazyy!!!!!! i feel guilty because not everyone feels this way but it’s an awesome feeling. not even in an ignorant way am i like this it’s just internally
People don’t realize the awful treatment they dish out to others for whatever reason, only makes us work harder to better ourselves. It’s fuel and energy for us to push past all the criticism and make ourselves into the better overall person! In Essence their shifty behavior transforms us into better people through harder work. Assholes essentially create this better version of us, and it will piss them off. Their new jealousy will now make them re-evaluate their situation and make them work harder, while we have moved on. Peace! Hopefully then learn something about themselves in the process.......
I didnt realize this growing up in foster care. Once I was 18 I dumped all the negative abusive comments that were heaped on me for years and never looked back. Never been happier!
So true. I find that if someone expends energy being angry/annoyed/frustrated at me, or worse yet - hating me, then they could very well be jealous. You don't need to expend energy on these idiots. Every time someone told me "you can't do that" or "you're not ready for that" or "you could never get that job"....I've proven them wrong. F--k Them. Focus on what's in front of you! :)
There is a difference between wondering how someone found success and being envious of that success. Some of us did not live or have success around us. To try to have success ourselves we may need to see and find success in others to find it in ourselves.
I love the way Joe puts this in perspective using Martial Arts ... If you know of someone who has better skills and is better, it should inspire you to want to be friends with those ppl and learn from them to be better. Why hate a person coz they are being successful or better? Why not embrace it and learn from it?
I think it’s great focusing on other successful people if you look at it from a winners mindset, it’s motivation. The problem is when people hate winners and think they can’t become one.
Not everyone can be a winner. If everyone was a winner - winners wouldn’t be special. Just be happy there are so many loser out there so you can feel good about yourself. Don’t pretend to give a shit about others. Your a winner. The fact that the majority of people “live lives of quiet desperation” make you the winner.
I'd say that wondering why someone is successful can bring you success yourself. Just because you wonder why does not mean its a bad thing, figure out the events and the effort that came to play that brought success and follow. Unless you want your own route to success.
I like to work just enough to survive. The rest of my time I like to do as little as possible, be around as few people as possible and daydream as much as possible. I'm absolutely broke but this lifestyle makes me extremely happy and I spend zero time considering another person's ideas of success.
I think there’s a difference between envy and hating. Hating is a waste of time but envying means there’s an inner desire to want what the other person has, which would not only tell you something about yourself but also encourage you to pursue and work hard towards that thing
In our society now, when people are successful, others try to tear them down. It used to be if you saw someone who was successful, you wanted to find out how they did it and emulate them so you can be successful too. No more.
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"Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die."
Resentment is a tool designed to inform the individual of an error in the social structure they live in. Thats all it is. If you have resentment, there is an error in the social structure. It is caused by the social structure. Somehow you were convinced that it "mattered", whatever it is you resent, but guess what: it doesnt. Youve been fooled. it doesnt actually matter. what actually matters is the extreme imbalance of the social hierarchy. That is what your brain is trying to warn you about. That is why resentment exists.
all suffering is caused by poorly designed social-economic structures.
@@radbug lol if you actually believe that
@@radbug you're description of resentment sounds resentful in itself. I agree resentment can be born from inequality or an error in social structure, but my personal experience and observation is that resentment more often comes from our own inability to meet a mark or make an achievement. Sometimes this inability is due to outside circumstance or inequality, and sometimes it's due to our own failures. Either way it seems best to avoid resenting society or existence seeing as the former disempowers you, whereas the latter does empower you even if it's a hard pill to swallow.
Resentment in one form or another is more likely to harm you than it is to harm the thing you resent or anything else.
Radbug - "If you have resentment, there is an error in the social structure. It is caused by the social structure"
That may quite possibly be the dumbest thing I've ever read.
Nelson Mandela
This mentality quickly goes away after you get rid of social media
People had the mentality long before social media.
The only way to get rid of those feelings is to be happy yourself. Or, you know....to just be the type of person who's not jealous of others.
It depends. I used to feel comfortable going at my own pace in life, but once you start chasing someone or something, it can fuck up your mentality.
john doe Same boat right now. Chasing too many things at once and I can’t remember when I’ve ever been this stressed or feel incapable lol.
Social media will be here forever
Trying to get my girl off social media. It’s very distracting sure it makes her laugh but I can’t compete and make her dopamine rush like her social media does.
Buddha said "I don’t have time to worry about who doesn’t like me. I’m too busy loving the people who love me.
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I think this might likely be a false Buddha quote.
Because he doesn't talk like that, at least how it's written in the sutra's.
I don't think so.
Yeah, he probably didn't say that.
The Buddha loves even those who hate him , because they are not different from the Buddha
Are you sure you know that much about Buddha and Buddhism?
I felt like a compete loser for the longest time and I hated myself as a person, so I would drink to kill the pain. That feeling of resentment never left me alone until I got professional help. Finally at the age 37, after I got some sobriety under my belt, I realized that I was my own worst enemy. I've been sober now for two years, and I no longer think negative about who I am as a person anymore.
Good job man 💪🏽
Sometimes we need some time to chill-out and get the help we need. Life isn't a contest, we need some time to rethink your lives over. There is nothing wrong with taking time out to catch up with with ourselves, we're only human. Best of luck to you my friend..
Good for you mate and keep it up... amazing turnaround ✌
thanks God man! Happy for you!
Good for you! I've also in the process of climbing out of a hole after 9 years of depression and excessive drinking. I started to understand the whole "world is meaningless and dark place, so it's up to you to find a meaning in something you like".
Jealousy is a terrible emotion, you're actually just losing yourself, the other person doesn't even know or care.
I disagree, it depends what way you choose to take the jealous. Like all emotions, jealous has a productive purpose: it’s forcing you to look at someone who’s doing something you’re not and think “hmm what can I take on board from them to improve myself?” That’s healthy competition and it fires you up to get better.
Or you can go the bitter hater route, which is the negative path they’re initially talking about
i agree w you
@@christopherferguson8434 You differentiating positive and negative jealous is exactly what people need to recognize and understand. Unfortunately, I'm weak minded and fall easily to thinking negative and unproductive.
A few months ago I stranger I met online who said they're going to boot camp. I'm thinking "They done something I gave up on a long time ago because I was a stupid kid. Wait, that was a possibility? I was so narrow minded to think I'm forever stuck in the college route and if I don't get a degree my life is over."
I recognize college is required for STEM people and I get understand that. But I don't have the mindset for that right now after 3 years of mindlessly switching majors and taking classes.
@@gpsdoc2222 how u doing now? I also switched a lot but now im gonna do it. i just cant swing around my whole life and get distracted from external things like girls, partys etc. we need to make our future self proud and we can do it!
@@isdenn7 My views of things has changed but the hardest part is actually getting into the habit of getting where you want to be. I know time is important but yet I still waste it so that's what I need to work on.
“Losers focus on winners while winners focus on winning”
Sometimes you need to observe winning so you know what it looks like then go do the same thing or at least something similar
Joseph Young probably conors best quote tbh
and what happens to people talking shit about the losers focusing on the winners? super losers?
Joseph Young that’s a bs quote somebody has to lose for somebody to win.
Stupid
"Comparison is the thief of joy."
Like toby
Joy is the thief of comparison
-Mike Ferry
Unless you’re the best. Then it’s a source of joy
The result of a lot of past trauma aka when your parents compared you to their friend’s kids
0:29 “Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.” -- Nelson Mandela
Wandering Weirdly he was talking about Othello - jealousy is referred to as a "green-eyed monster that doth mock the meat it feeds on".
Oohhh that's a good one .
🙂
@@seasoninlight1723 Sir, this is Wendy's
Apparently Mandela was wrong. He is dead and many of his enemies are still alive.
“They’re showing you that it’s possible to do better than you’re doing.” 🎯Well said Joe
Joe Rogan is one of the best motivational speakers out there.
He is Malcolm X
"You can't hold a man down without staying down with him" [Booker T Washington].
"Can you dig that, SUCKAAAAA?!?!!" -Booker T
@@johanchristianbax4118 lol
"Down is wherest one comes from, down is wherest you shall be" (Booker T Washington)
You don't have to stay down to hold somebody down. Youfimism and oppression
All I need are some cinder blocks and some rope
Get Chappelle on the show
That would break RUclips.
chappelle doesnt want to obviously
Hells yea
Get ja rule on the show...lol
@@03bubbachuck when TRL called Ja Rule after 9/11. 😂 I might need some answers Ja Rule aint got right now!
Pondering the thought on why others are successful isn’t a bad thing. Jealousy is another story.
This. Wondering why someone is successful is good. It leads to you considering what the appropriate path forward is. Jealousy is the lack of consideration
I think Joe here is talking about something a bit different.
i prefer to use 'how' over 'why' i just wan't to skill up.
“You just can’t hate on successful people , actually they are showing you that it’s possible to do better than what you really be doing “
Realest talk ever 💯💯👌
I’ve been in this loser mentality headspace for the past week now, but I totally agree with u guys. I need to refocus my energy and use this to motivate me to do better and improve. I think a really great way of avoiding the jealousy is by forcing yourself to go to the very people u r jealous of and ask them to help u improve by asking for advice or support. That’ll prevent u from looking at them negatively too.
i hope you been better bro
This comment hit me
"Follow a man's footsteps and you will reach his destiny."
Chinese Proverb
Choose your idols wisely.
Wow 💯
@@a1jones Caesar Gracie told me that one, well, in class.
Very true, I looked up to couple of drug dealers
Guess how my life went??
Misery and addiction,
Choose wisely is right
Sooooo true
@@littlebrayutd same here, minus the addiction, but my life hit rock bottom
The only way to get smarter is by playing a smarter opponent
Or at least being around them daily ,def helps the whole hang w dogs get fleas kinda thing .
Line from the movie Revolver...great movie
Steel sharpens steel.
Inosuke was right.
EXACTLY
The concept of “mind bandwidth” is extremely important
I’ve also heard it called “mental real estate”; it’s very expensive to occupy lol
@@jackdourakos2500 "Mental real estate" is what is being referenced when you see someone online say "Rent Free" to another person who is seemingly being bitter for no reason about something.
It’s definitely a hard thing to do. Especially if your world revolves around people you dislike, environments you do not feel comfortable in , or negative thoughts you have every so often. You must find the inner strength to ignore and invest your time/ energy into things that are important and will benefit you.
This hit with me just now...
N54 😍❤️
As hard as it is, it all boils down to changing the way you think.
Wow, you learn a lot from seeing this. Jealousy is the cancer of the soul, yes, but admiring someone, & wanting to work harder to reach that level they're on, is inspiring, in a sense.
Insecurity is the big factor to jealousy. This was amazingly motivating
I want *everybody* to reach their *full potential* !
Potential serial killers?
Potential 4chaners?
Yes to all of the above
This is an animal kingdom and we’re just trying to label everything
NPC lives matter
Throughout my life jealousy has been one of my most defining traits, I've always felt jealous since I was but a kid, not any jealousy, an enormous just hideous jealousy, and in my teenage years that jealousy did fire me up and it made me go get what I wanted.... but in a ruthless way that involved hurting others badly and even hurting my goal, which in turn led to regret and suffering, even if I achieved my goal I left a trail of chaos behind.
The way Joe and Nikki are putting it here... it could really change things for me.
The real losers in life are those who don’t even try to be successful
I don’t do this. Still a loser
@hadnt slept stay on the sunny side of life.
Maybe you only have 57 units. You need 100 units, that 40% of bandwidth. You... Wait. I might not understood the metaphor.
hadnt slept lmao
You're an emotional vampire
I hear you. One loser to another. I wish you the best.
I am motivated by the fear of hating myself.
Succinct.
Delete Social media! I’ve deleted Snapchat, Facebook and Instagram and I’m 1000% more happy and less stressed
well then where do you get your memes!?
@@alvarolopez3594 memes are cell destroyers. Go fill your brain with something more important
@@mitchmorison6470 bro our entire existence is a random cosmic joke . don't take it so seriously 😂
@@alvarolopez3594 your probably 12 and live with your mum
@@alvarolopez3594 you’ll grow up
I just started to get this. I am having to consciously stop allowing myself to think about anything related to my day job. It just sucks all the brain bandwidth away from me and I have no creativity or energy whatsoever to pour into my art journals. I will definitely keep coming back to this video.
"letting them live in my brain rent free" -Royce Da 5'9'
Not his quote, he even said "a wise man once told me"
@@HolyMoose na bro I ddint even remember the exact line, thought it would suit his point, yea cleaaaaarly he wasnt quoting royce; dude's 80
That doesnt make any sense
@commando vaughn no that guy completely messed up the lyrics & doesn't make any sense, correct lyrics are:
"A wise man told me holding a grudge is like letting someone live inside your head rent free"
Song - Detroit vs Everybody
Joe is way better at MMA commentary/analysis than comedy. He is decent at comedy but his understanding of mixed martial arts and combat sports is world class in my opinion.
TRUE☝
True
Agreed but he is an enjoyable comic and I'm glad he does his thing
He has too many hobbies most the comics try to do nothing he's just hyper active
The only time Joe makes me laugh is when he tells other people's jokes on his podcast.
“I can’t fake humble just cause your ass is insecure” -Kendrick Lamar
Jealousy can happen even without social media. It can happen in social circles in real-time. The best thing to do is always find the right support and, if possible, leave such toxic settings.
The loser mentality to me is simply comparing yourself constantly. It doesn’t mean you’re a “loser” but it does mean you are losing. Because someone will always have it better at some point. Even the wealthiest, most famous actors and actresses in Hollywood history had their crowns snatched away at some point or another. Life is a continuum. Ride the wave 🌊 😎 try not to compare your pitfalls to someone else’s gains. Because guaranteed they also had some hardships as well. Stay focused and try to be happy
There's a certain positive energy in inspiration. I think everyone should stand up and shine their best together!
When Joe said maybe you’re involved in a relationship with an idiot and you spend time going back and forth arguing and that’s 30% of your bandwidth that hit me
My life lesson his; don't underestimate yourself.
That feeling and rush of surprising yourself when you do things or accomblish things you thought you couldn't do is one of the greatest things you can experience in life.
I was told to watch your pod casts and I have to say, I am truly inspired! I struggle with ALOT of what you discuss and it gives me hope! Thanks for helping others!! xoxo
It's really hard to not be bitter this year. With this pandemic the things I love are either stuff I can't do (travel) or things that I've done so much that I don't even care about them anymore (games, TV, writing, art, hiking, etc.). I just want the world to open up so I can start focusing on the things I love again.
@@jordankit1648 I try but that list of what I don't have grows slimmer and slimmer each day. I've learned that I'd rather have nothing and be with the ones I love than have everything and be around toxic people.
@@SomethingSomethingg definitely not being around toxic people is important for our mental health. The list of things we don’t have....I meant us not having disease, lost limb or even losing our eyesight....grateful we don’t have those struggles..
Vote for Dave Chappelle to be on the show. I'll have the first..
Vote to have your mom on the show
@@scrapegod4893 that would honestly be pretty fkn interesting.
@@hihello8771 wtf bruh
Jealousy is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die
Way to steal that same comment thats been posted like 40 different times already on this video.
I don't wonder why people are successful, I know the hard work and dedication it takes... I'm just too lazy and aloof to do it.
Not always about hard work. It can also be about luck, some reality stars got cast, acted the fool and are now household names. Not studying in college/drama school or running track for years to get recognised. I don't envy them, but luck will always beat 'hard work'
RESPECT FOR ADMITTING THIS. MORE PEOPLE NEED TO DO THIS AND STOP KIDDING THEMSELVES
mediacenter man it really isn’t all luck. People who say success is luck just really want to believe it is. I’d say it’s only luck when you are born into wealth.
@Odyssey Haus u can never have financial freedom working for someone else. And with the Internet it's no longer about who you know. When u sell online your connections etc doesn't matter it's a knowledge skill game. There are 16 year olds who are making 6 figures a year selling slime on instagram. The old model of work way up in corporate is finished.
akshay Viswambharan that’s not a sustainable system
Able bodied 36 year olds can’t break into the selling Slime on Instagram market but we have lots of able bodied men 26-40 years old figuratively sitting around
Comparing yourself to other successful people is bad. But studying them and modeling them is powerful
"Their showing you that it's possible to do better than you're doing. And that's good"
I love it!!
They’re
@@carlbarnes3534 Hah, you're wrong
@@BigSteffitness they are= they’re
i think it’s a good start to think why others are succeeding and go from there in a way
"Success in life is the result of good judgment. Good judgment is usually the result of experience. And experience is usually the result of bad judgment." Tony Robbins
This felt like Joe was being interviewed
My problem is my loser mentality of hate is towards myself and being lost on what I’m doing here. I’ve been drowning on focuses on my flaws and non-existent truths only brought to fruition cause I let it. I’m trying to find what I can do to fix this, to start loving myself, accepting my flaws, and building me to be my best me.
I love the last thing he says, people can get so bitter when you’re doing “better” because it shows them they don’t have an excuse 👌🏻
You can achieve whatever you want. Don’t listen to what anyone tells you, mind over matter.
Truth
That's a very dangerous mentality. Not everyone can do anything, not by a long shot. You're setting yourself up for a depressing life if you truly believe that. Figure out what you are good at and make that your purpose... Don't try to become something you can never be because motivational quotes said you could do it if you "put your mind to it."
I want to be taller than 6 ft, not possible...I want to be not disabled...not possible...you can't achieve what ever you want and it's exactly people like you giving people false hope that people have the loser mentality because their whole life people tell them they can achieve anything which is actually not a realistic expectation. No you can't achieve anything, you can only achieve what your abilities allow you to achieve.
Frog Man you haven’t put in the work...
hell yea I'm now motivated to become the first ufc heavyweight champ.. at 5'7
Sometimes people who don't complain aren't toxic still lose in life. You just never hear of them because they don't complain in the first place.
Joe literally just changed my whole outlook on life. Thanks for real man
"The fact that you aren't where you want to be should be enough motivation to be keep going."
i don't think i have a loser mentality, but i was picked on a lot in high school and it affected my self esteem pretty bad. now that i'm older, i worry that i'm just not good enough, that i'm doing something wrong or what others think about me. because i was picked on, i have kind of a negative self perception, i don't hate myself or anything but it makes me think that i'm an easy target and those kids picked on me for a reason, and in my adult life, i just worry that when i meet people, they don't like me or have a negative first impression of me
I hope you're doing better now 🙌🏿🙏🏿
Yea thats a damaged self esteem
I was on rejected by girls and as I got better I was so confusing to me and them cause I simply couldn’t accept it
RUclips algorithm is scary. It recommended me this video at exactly the moment when i was having this mentality.
Nope dude... you notice more content like this when you have that in your mind
Who isn't insecure about something ?
Dead people
mentally ill people
@Ed M I think pycho have a fear of not being in control of something ...they have a feel of fear even though it's almost muted compare to us, I don't think they are machines they are human
YOUR MOM DUDE!!!
@@lazarussoul8221 welcome to puberty, life gets better youngster
People worry way too much about what other people think.
for anyone curious, the quote joe was trying to remember in the beginning is “being jealous is the same as drinking poison and expecting the other person to die”
Don't hate people that are better than you. Admire the dedication, consistency, sacrifaces and work etic that took them to be there and if you want to beat them and willing to do the sacrifaces necessary to reach that level then believe in yourself and go for it without second taughts or distractions.
Best advice I’ve ever heard holy shit you’re better than my therapist
There’s literally no point in having a therapist lol shits a scam
"It's like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer." 🙂
Having jealousy and envy is like drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die.
That was the quote from the beginning
They say you need to love yourself, then when you love yourself you're selfish, egotistical and just full of yourself.
A loser to me is someone not driven to succeed but someone dependant on failures. Life is a learning curve and a spiritual output is wetness to the bones and is blood to the veins. It drives one to succeed and connect with all senses. The power of faith is supernatural for someone looking to succeed in life and its a motivation for bad moments and let downs.
As a musician in his 20's I feel stuck in a halfway and I'm usually conscious about it. A lot of times I see someone who's way better or knows something and theres a part thats like "fuck why cant i do that? Why can they understand it so easy?" Then another part thats like "i can get better than them with diligence."
The biggest negative to the 'loser mentality' would be as an introvert, I find it very hard to not be jealous at people who get places because of their ability to connect and conversate with people. For me, its a lot harder to stay remembered even when I leave a lasting impression. They'll remember the well experience, but not my face.
In other words everything happens FOR us, This was such a good clip. So full of empowering thoughts that replace the loser victim mentality. Radical.
I needed to listen to this video because I had got negative and resentful recently. Thank you so much
@JRE Clips |I, Really Needed this Thankyou!😎✨
Joe “ I’m not a loser” Rogan
How could u ever say he is lol. He’s rich and famous as fuck
lmao.
Yah ok .
@@JohnSmith-fs8bu and youre not. Joes point.
NIc K what
I've heard it a few way's "Having hate for someone is like drinking poison expecting the other person to die." "Resentment is drinking poison, hoping the other person will die." all the same message though ha.
Watches video.
Goes straight to the youtube comments.
You don’t have to be the most talented to be successful or to win you just have to be the most resilient.
A beautiful wake up call for everyone on the planet. 😍
Find what you love and do the hell out of that.
Hating yes but wondering? Super useful to wonder why someone is successful so you can emulate it. Also joe is afraid he’ll get slipped up by online comments and he cares what people think
Sometimes success works for people because of the personalized situation they are in or opportunities that were shown to them. The best thing to learn is how to notice and exploit opportunities when they come.
success is different for each person... to me as an example success is to play a shit ton of pc games, write some music and not care what the rest of you think about it... the last part is the difficult part...
sure i can copy another musician, listen to his music and then try to make my own sound like his... but what is the fucking point then? then i might aswell be a working man... it is no longer MY music... it is no longer what I, MARTIN MIKKELSEN brought to the world... now it is just an attempt at trying to achieve respect, money or power from others through music...
even if i manage to achieve those three things by copying another person then i still lost the ability to add something new to the world...
Bruh. That's not the form of wondering he means, obviously. Lol...
I don't think he gives a fuck about what plebs think of him rofl He just doesnt wanna deal with it because losers hide behind a screen and talk mad shit.
maybe that's his weakness, and you can't play to your weakness, you utilize your strength instead.
Joe "I'm gonna spend 6 min complaining about haters" Rogan
Your one of them stfu un original like hungry bastard, joe should kick you in the fuckin head. Good luck bud
The Battle Duck * woosh
“Bald dudes be slanging mad dick, bro”
@@robertwhite1827 lol dude - those steroids are fucking you up
@@robertwhite1827 talk about insecure
I can relate this to playing my guitar on stage or with a new band. Someone is better then me which means there is a huge learning curve that I can take advantage of. Some of the best experiences so far to happen to me.
I love when people gets jealous, it means they are insecure so you can outstep them faster, it is an easy competition when your rival is bitterly jealous
i’ve reached such a “who gives a shit what people think, just do you” mentality, and i almost feel guilty for how enlightened i feel. It’s craaaaazyy!!!!!! i feel guilty because not everyone feels this way but it’s an awesome feeling. not even in an ignorant way am i like this it’s just internally
Surrounding yourself with people who inspire you to do better is one of the best things you can do for self-improvement.
I was just thinking about how much of a loser I am. Thank you very much RUclips. This is exactly what I needed.
"envy keep your pockets empty so just focus on you" - J Cole
Jealousy is the worst feeling in my opinion and I felt it really badly today I even had my first panic attack over it in over a year
"I eat losers for breakfast" - Lightning McQueen
People don’t realize the awful treatment they dish out to others for whatever reason, only makes us work harder to better ourselves.
It’s fuel and energy for us to push past all the criticism and make ourselves into the better overall person!
In Essence their shifty behavior transforms us into better people through harder work. Assholes essentially create this better version of us, and it will piss them off. Their new jealousy will now make them re-evaluate their situation and make them work harder, while we have moved on. Peace! Hopefully then learn something about themselves in the process.......
I didnt realize this growing up in foster care. Once I was 18 I dumped all the negative abusive comments that were heaped on me for years and never looked back. Never been happier!
So true. I find that if someone expends energy being angry/annoyed/frustrated at me, or worse yet - hating me, then they could very well be jealous.
You don't need to expend energy on these idiots. Every time someone told me "you can't do that" or "you're not ready for that" or "you could never get that job"....I've proven them wrong. F--k Them. Focus on what's in front of you! :)
@@eylonemuskson4177 Exactly!
Never thought of it this way, but now that you said it, and I'm looking back at it, you are absolutely 100% correct. Awesome comment my man.
Winners never call others losers, because in order to win you must have been a loser first or stared down at failure. The master was once a student.
Insanely good advice to live by.
The problem here is comparing. It's not healthy to constantly compare yourself with others.
There is a difference between wondering how someone found success and being envious of that success. Some of us did not live or have success around us. To try to have success ourselves we may need to see and find success in others to find it in ourselves.
I love the way Joe puts this in perspective using Martial Arts ...
If you know of someone who has better skills and is better, it should inspire you to want to be friends with those ppl and learn from them to be better. Why hate a person coz they are being successful or better? Why not embrace it and learn from it?
I think it’s great focusing on other successful people if you look at it from a winners mindset, it’s motivation. The problem is when people hate winners and think they can’t become one.
why do you talk like you now everything. i bet you are still living in your mother house.
Not everyone can be a winner. If everyone was a winner - winners wouldn’t be special. Just be happy there are so many loser out there so you can feel good about yourself. Don’t pretend to give a shit about others. Your a winner. The fact that the majority of people “live lives of quiet desperation” make you the winner.
I'd say that wondering why someone is successful can bring you success yourself. Just because you wonder why does not mean its a bad thing, figure out the events and the effort that came to play that brought success and follow. Unless you want your own route to success.
Thats the Story of my life I had to avoid toxic people since high school ...
This girls voice is so piercing though my phone speaker 😂😂
That vocal fry......
I was thinking the same thing. Hell to hear right before bed and right after waking up.
Not bad enough that I'd kick her out of bed!
She is so nasally omg
so annoying
I like to work just enough to survive. The rest of my time I like to do as little as possible, be around as few people as possible and daydream as much as possible. I'm absolutely broke but this lifestyle makes me extremely happy and I spend zero time considering another person's ideas of success.
And what exactly does bring you joy? Just the daydreaming?
@@dpcdpc11 I like eating and fucking too.
Do you happen to enjoy surfing, sports and the outdoors?
No mind - no winner/loser
so you don't have any hobbies apart from daydreaming?
joe "if he reads this it's an accident, so he might not even know that this is a thing" rogan
Lol, nice. 🤘😂
I think there’s a difference between envy and hating. Hating is a waste of time but envying means there’s an inner desire to want what the other person has, which would not only tell you something about yourself but also encourage you to pursue and work hard towards that thing
In our society now, when people are successful, others try to tear them down. It used to be if you saw someone who was successful, you wanted to find out how they did it and emulate them so you can be successful too. No more.
Joe ''DMT made me bald'' Jogan
His hair got enlightened and was seperated into higher spheres.
H*
Is your meme a pubic hair?
Joe Rogan is tha source of wisdom.