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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
  • Difficulties of Being Black and Introverted
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Комментарии • 54

  • @MDAM12716
    @MDAM12716 2 года назад +85

    It's real difficult being black introverted and socially anxious.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +18

      ITs extremely difficult!!

    • @tudormiller887
      @tudormiller887 2 года назад +2

      👍

    • @truebreakage9003
      @truebreakage9003 8 месяцев назад +3

      On top of that being unattractive it's so rough

    • @sigmasiren7
      @sigmasiren7 7 месяцев назад

      ​@truebreakage9003 it's rough if ur attractive too cuz ppl target u.

    • @JudahSixteen11
      @JudahSixteen11 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@sigmasiren7yup mostly jealous ass dudes...pause lmao

  • @antwanwilson7228
    @antwanwilson7228 3 месяца назад +6

    It's hard because black people feel like we should all act the same way.

  • @lisad.5601
    @lisad.5601 2 года назад +48

    Thank you I need to see this I'm an introvert black woman and some people feel like I have to be like everyone.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +14

      It’s literally one of the hardest battles. 🙏🏽

  • @TheIntrovert83
    @TheIntrovert83 2 года назад +30

    As an INTJ Introvert, its hard being a introvert in a extroverted world but I'd have it no other way!

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +8

      INTJ r awesome! I’m INTP … it really is difficult, especially feeling like I must explain myself to people all the time n that’s annoying lol. They says 1/3 people are introverted. Some are just trying to blend in lol. So thanks for being a proud Introvert.

    • @idanceforthestars
      @idanceforthestars 2 года назад +2

      @@ContagiousCo amen

    • @chaustiasieverson6353
      @chaustiasieverson6353 2 года назад +2

      I know how y'all feel too, I'm an INTJ as well and it is difficult being introverted.

    • @darkknight2260
      @darkknight2260 2 года назад +10

      I love being an introvert as a Blackman you can see and smell people bs miles away, ever one need time alone to get to know there self

    • @idanceforthestars
      @idanceforthestars 2 года назад +2

      @@darkknight2260 amen

  • @angelagoodwin5758
    @angelagoodwin5758 2 года назад +31

    The struggle is REAL, especially in the black community. Thank you for this video.~Appreciative INFP

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words! So happy you enjoyed this 🙏🏽❤️

  • @tudormiller887
    @tudormiller887 2 года назад +18

    Hello! In a introvert of colour watching from London UK 🇬🇧. Love this video. Just another introvert struggling in an extroverted world.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +1

      🔥🔥🔥 Thanks for commenting! We will definitely succeed. Using our introversion as a power

  • @MrGreen-nl3yv
    @MrGreen-nl3yv 2 года назад +19

    It was never hard for me as an introvert in my life except in high school. The sad thing about being an introverted person in the black community is our people assume that it's a mental illness. I'm from Chicago, IL which is the second gang capital in the United States, and as an introvert that was a tactic like anywhere to avoid becoming a victim to being harassed by the gangs or crooked cops that were planting drugs on certain black men.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +7

      Wow man, thanks for sharing that with everyone. A lot of value in what you just said

  • @paperdoll5467
    @paperdoll5467 10 месяцев назад +3

    I've been an introvert "since days of underoos" (to borrow a line from Notorious BIG) and this is the best explanation of who i am that I've ever heard.

  • @gaudylady7
    @gaudylady7 Год назад +7

    Thank you for this! It is difficult especially with anxiety.

  • @dion5884
    @dion5884 2 года назад +12

    MAN THIS SPOKE TO ME BRO. SUBSCRIBED

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад

      Preciate that fam 🙏🏽💪🏾 means a lot

  • @tylique9142
    @tylique9142 Год назад +8

    Thank you for this video this is important being introverted while black is really tough for us I’m glad to see others that can relate there’s not really many of us walking around.

  • @DrPGnGM
    @DrPGnGM 3 года назад +14

    Great vid man, I'm glad that there are black men out there that are open and confident enough to express both of their triumphs, struggles, and insecurities that I can relate to. Keep being a positive role model and thanks for the video. I would like to see you cover or address the topic of overcoming being a disappointment, being disappointed by others, and/or not living up to others expectations of you. I struggle with the determination of doing what is expected of me and doing what I enjoy or feel is my true calling. Idk if you have anything to say on that, but it is just something that constantly goes through my head. Appreciate it, another BANGER!

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  3 года назад +1

      Yessir! Preciate that fam‼️ most definitely, imma tap in on that possibly here tomorrow good lord willing

  • @jscales107
    @jscales107 2 года назад +6

    Thank you brother

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад +1

      Thank you family 🙏🏽❤️

  • @chandracb
    @chandracb 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for this!

  • @UniquelyHerz
    @UniquelyHerz 2 года назад +5

    Love this 💯 Facts !

  • @imho5485
    @imho5485 4 месяца назад +1

    Extroverts don’t respect introversion. I want to scream every time people tell me I need to get out of my comfort zone.

    • @ras.4975
      @ras.4975 2 месяца назад

      Tell them get their nose out of your business. I can't stand those people

  • @TeXazmind
    @TeXazmind 10 месяцев назад +2

    Very well said and so true!

  • @Anonymous_Anon882
    @Anonymous_Anon882 2 года назад +7

    And I’m going to have to be honest, I didn’t like the part where you mentioned introverts not paying attention to popular/mainstream trends unless they have to at all. I don’t think that’s necessarily the case. Otherwise I’m 1001% in conformance with you. Good video.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  2 года назад

      Thanks alot I’m happy you enjoyed the video! Yea everything doesn’t pertain to everyone. You’re correct!

  • @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
    @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue 2 месяца назад +1

    All the time, I get that I am quiet and reserved, and I come across as an easy target by some other black people, but every once in a while, I get angry then some white people think they are a target

  • @gbrieannful
    @gbrieannful 3 года назад +6

    Great video 😊

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  3 года назад +1

      Thank you that really means a lot! ❤️

    • @gbrieannful
      @gbrieannful 3 года назад +1

      @@ContagiousCo I’m introvert too and sometimes I hate it. Although I’m not an introvert when I’m mad I can be very assertive which shocks people. I think the key is confidence and self love that makes it easier to assert ourselves when needed.

  • @ten25.
    @ten25. Год назад +1

    This is a spectacular video

  • @Eleazaar45
    @Eleazaar45 3 года назад +4

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @PB16-_-
    @PB16-_- 3 года назад +4

    🔥

  • @Rio-uv1gs
    @Rio-uv1gs Год назад +1

    Ambervert here..👍🏾

  • @darron7714
    @darron7714 Год назад +1

    Hey sir, I couldn’t get on your website.

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  Год назад

      My current website is ContagiousCo.us

    • @darron7714
      @darron7714 Год назад

      @@ContagiousCo thanks sir

    • @ContagiousCo
      @ContagiousCo  Год назад

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      On Instagram, “ Contagious_Co”

    • @darron7714
      @darron7714 Год назад +1

      @@ContagiousCo ok but I do not do Instagram nor TicTok (boomer here lol)

  • @SEXgoddess.
    @SEXgoddess. Год назад +4

    Thank you I needed this. Much love to you, stay strong.