The ISFP: Kind & Uncomplicated or Moody & Mysterious?

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2024
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  • @isabelwhite2056
    @isabelwhite2056 7 лет назад +92

    This was the first ISFP video that made me feel so understood. Most ISFP videos talk about how artistic we are, and while I may be a bit artistic, I don't see it as a core of my being. On the other hand, being ego-less, comfort driven, not having existential fears, and everything else you said described me to a T.

    • @tellaphon6718
      @tellaphon6718 3 года назад +1

      This is also why I've thought about the relationship between isfp guys and isfj females as ideal.

  • @OneDanae
    @OneDanae 8 лет назад +134

    I am an isfp and have been called weird. I often feel like no one gets me, like I don't fit anywhere, but yet people really like me. Odd...

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +25

      People definitely like you. You're very likable. Personally, I feel cautious and caring around you guys. You bring out something good in me.

    • @samanthasteell
      @samanthasteell 8 лет назад +17

      I'm the same. "You're so weird...but in a good way!"

    • @volumelyrics
      @volumelyrics 8 лет назад +5

      Same here.

    • @MaKICHAN09
      @MaKICHAN09 8 лет назад +9

      ISFP here. I've been told the following a few times: "You're the weirdest person I know but that's what I like about you."

    • @ThePodgeiscool
      @ThePodgeiscool 8 лет назад +28

      Couldn't agree more, I feel likeable and get along with most people but at the same time feel like I don't really fit anywhere. It's something that frustrates me and am jealous of people who can identify with a society or movement (eg. feminist, democrat, gun nut, sportsman). I can however identity somewhat with 10's of different groups

  • @sybow
    @sybow 8 лет назад +83

    Sometimes it just kind of feels like this is not the world I was supposed to be on. Its like we are aliens to this world. Kind aliens.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +21

      That's so much better than being the mean aliens.

    • @rmcd823
      @rmcd823 7 лет назад +1

      sybow I imagine you are talking about the ISFPs and if it is I agree totally. They really don’t get the system. But yes if you focus in good manners - they are inspectors if the system in this meaning.

    • @_TerraRae_
      @_TerraRae_ 6 лет назад +2

      Yeah I feel like that too!

    • @Rachel-fg9eq
      @Rachel-fg9eq 6 лет назад +2

      Same, sybow. I feel like an alien almost all the time. Not human. Unnatural.

    • @Yoonyoungamy
      @Yoonyoungamy 5 лет назад

      same when I'm with someone the conversation of extraterrestrial beings come alive and once a guy asked me what planet I was from

  • @asad36360
    @asad36360 7 лет назад +69

    Vulnerable to manipulation because we have no hidden agenda, so we perceive others that might have one as strange, if we want something we say that we want it, we dont find the need to dance around what it is that we want. I'm a pretty serious person, i say what i feel, good or bad, it's hurt me in ways but i feel like this is a quality that is somewhat respectful.

    • @eagerturtle4791
      @eagerturtle4791 5 лет назад +9

      No hidden agenda is a really good point. That's probably why I (an ISFP) really struggle with networking and selling myself to people in a professional setting. To me, that feels very unnatural and fake, because it's always obvious that everyone in those situations has a hidden agenda. Probably also comes into the fact that I'd rather prove my worth through actions than words.

  • @ghenttoo
    @ghenttoo 6 лет назад +30

    You have a really, simple, direct, straightforward, manner of speaking that will appeal to many ISFP'S.Sometimes MBTI videos on youtube can seem incredibly pretentious, but this one isn't like that at all. Thanks for posting from a grateful ISFP.

  • @l.kumaran55
    @l.kumaran55 6 лет назад +50

    The part about being unafraid of death, but afraid of pain. Spot on
    ISFP male here

    • @AliceJem
      @AliceJem 5 лет назад +2

      Spot on.😉😉

    • @eagerturtle4791
      @eagerturtle4791 5 лет назад +7

      Probably because we can imagine and relate to pain, but death just seems like something that will happen years down the line that we aren't concerned about (we tend to think about the here and now, rather than the future). I wonder if an ISFP who had a near death experience or had a terminal illness would feel differently?

    • @zephdo2971
      @zephdo2971 5 лет назад +2

      Hm... So i may not be an isfp. Because i'? surely scared of death or any sickness as hell.

    • @Rexus0705
      @Rexus0705 3 года назад

      @@eagerturtle4791 Nah , We can feel the pain and it is quite painful but death means entirely different thing

    • @eagerturtle4791
      @eagerturtle4791 3 года назад

      @@Rexus0705 Not really sure how what you're saying is differrnt to me lol

  • @pixelpink
    @pixelpink 4 года назад +21

    I think (as an isfp) that I have a hard time connecting with people because I feel like everybody has an agenda and I just dont. I also feel that I dont have a lot to offer to people other than my acceptance and non judgement of who and what they are. I only want the same back, and I feel that few people are willing to reflect that back. So many people in the world are looking to get me to get on their level. I'm not willing to play that game. I just want to live my life in a way that is beautiful to me and in accordance with my values instead of having the world and the people in it trying to shape me into their idea of what is correct. Plus the expectations others put on me make me feel trapped. The only way I feel able to connect is on a sexual level, so the only ones I feel a true connection with are lovers. I sometimes think it would be nice to have close friendships, but in the end, I just dont care enough about the world others live in to find that connection. I can respect and accept their world, I just dont really want to leave mine. Plus I feel difficulty in being useful within society and what it expects of me at large, so I feel a disconnect. I just want to love and be loved without the stress and worry of building a future. The world is honestly a scary place to me. The survival aspect. Having to prove to the world that you can be of service and do a good job so you can eat and have shelter... ugh. I have to find a way to survive in this world that doesnt crush my spirit and that does not impose itself upon me, and also that doesnt diminish the multifaceted aspects of the beauty in life. I want to make art but not at others demand. I want to love and be loved freely without the expectation of changing who I am to please others. I want to be protected yet not sheltered nor restricted. I think I'm some kind of unicorn that doesnt belong in this harsh cold world. I want to provide a more free way of living within the world and inspire others to feel more free (as well as make them feel safe doing so) by example. I know that it is ultimately my responsibility to survive in this world, so that is a harsh part of reality that I'm forced to deal with, and I accept that, but it still sucks and is hard to accept that I have to sacrifice parts of myself to participate in society.

    • @pixelpink
      @pixelpink Год назад

      @@eminemstrash2021 lol idk maybe

    • @dDod2012
      @dDod2012 Год назад +2

      I feel like you too ,, we are the beauty & lovers of this world

  • @eagerturtle4791
    @eagerturtle4791 5 лет назад +9

    ISFP here! I'm scared of not doing enough that helps the world and makes me happy before I die, and being a burden to my loved ones after I'm dead. I'm not worried about the afterlife stuff at all, because I believe that once we die, that's it. All the heaven/hell, reincarnation, and all those things just seem like ways for people to feel more comfortable with death, and convince themseleves that life has more meaning than it does.

  • @brandonrobertson1696
    @brandonrobertson1696 6 лет назад +21

    You pegged me right on. We are also very protective of those we care about though less protective of ourselves. And we or atleast I tend to talk about deep issues not surface level things.

  • @entropyfun
    @entropyfun 6 лет назад +28

    The future never happens, because when it does - it's present. And I know how to deal with present. That's why I don't think about the future that much. Hope this helps.

    • @ghenttoo
      @ghenttoo 6 лет назад +3

      Totally. All of history and future and even eternity is just one massive present moment. Its just the the year 1552 is the presnt over there, and the year 2550 is also the presnt, somewhere else.

    • @ambria.
      @ambria. 6 лет назад +1

      Damn near my next tattoo

    • @avancalledrupert5130
      @avancalledrupert5130 4 года назад

      I date one of you I'm an intj. The future is all we have the present is the thing we need to escape.

  • @being-Lisa
    @being-Lisa 6 лет назад +13

    Awe! Love you guy! You have my ISFP ass down. I really enjoyed hearing how someone feels being around me. I recognize the look on your face from when I speak with people..yes, I suppose I'm a weirdo but true to form, I dont mind at all 😁

  • @drennyvision6141
    @drennyvision6141 7 лет назад +11

    I am gullible. However, I keep trustworthy friends and family as my gatekeepers in defense of this ( no one is an island ). Thanks for the sexy compliment. And I laughed at the "simultaneously making you feel like an adult and a child". It's SO TRUE. LOL😂😀😊

  • @rmcd823
    @rmcd823 7 лет назад +38

    Agree with you. ISFPs are highly individualistic people gyrating around their own F values and want to feel “happy” in all times.
    Yes, they are avoidant if anything uncomfortable. They appear to be mysterious just because they don’t talk if the conversation goes beyond their pets or preferences in entertaining.
    Their ego is bruised easily and I disagree with you: they are competitive.
    They don’t have any existencial uncomfort but the pânico about things related to their bodies: dentists, surgeries, and so on.
    Yes - moody and unpredictable. Practically close to autism.
    They behave as a silent well behaved fluffy cat while turbulent emotions go inside.
    How I know? I have only one cousin and as an INTJ I observe her and ISFPs a long time.
    INTJs have nothing to do with them: unless you realise as you say that they are like a sensitive child.
    She was very prone to be bullied in the past. Now she got it wiser.
    I felt like you: needing to protect her. But it’s impossible. She only follows how she feels. They learn only after the “emotional pain”. And yes - they are highly manipulable while young. Later they isolate themselves with zero suffering. They are enough to themselves and their family or loved ones (first family).

    • @drennyvision6141
      @drennyvision6141 7 лет назад +4

      rosely covali Close to autism! Really?! Lol on the rest. I am ISFP BTW

    • @brandonrobertson1696
      @brandonrobertson1696 6 лет назад +4

      wow spot on, I am an isfp this resonates most of the time I would almost rather listen to people, talk than to talk, unless it hits a point of interest

    • @JTakasa
      @JTakasa 6 лет назад +1

      "I have only one cousin and as an INTJ I observe her and ISFPs a long time.
      INTJs have nothing to do with them"
      It's funny that you would say that because I'm an ISFP male and my wife is an INTJ female. To say things were rough would be an understatement. I'm sure we experienced the "incompatibility" that you alluded to, and then some. Once we found out MBTI and starting digging into why we are who we are, we at least started to understand how each other functions. Now we've figured out how to coexist and cover/deal with each other's weaknesses (why yes, even INTJ's have weaknesses *wink*).

    • @BlairWaldorf2013
      @BlairWaldorf2013 6 лет назад +3

      Jared T...this is super late but as an INTJ female I really like this ISFP male but it’s like we literally have nothing in common.
      He’s been hurt by other women (he’s 38yrs) and every time we don’t agree/which is often-he makes it out to be that I’m argumentative when INTJs don’t see debate as bad but ISFPs apparently have a mini heart attack over it.
      I want to help him so I sent him some stuff on being an ISFP and he just acts like he doesn’t see what I’m sending or just says I’m ‘wrong’ about how he behaves.
      I think he might have the bad side of being an ISFP and he’s so closed off from the world that he’d rather be alone than try to be with someone. I finally said forget it after we had a huge text message fight and for 3 days he tried to reach out but I wasn’t interested.
      I have tried to talk to him but it just seems like we end up at the same place where he thinks I’m being judgmental of him and I think he takes everything personally like he’s the victim of the world or something.
      It’s very annoying for an INTJ because we are doers and we don’t let emotions rule how we operate and I know that’s the exact opposite of an ISFP. I want to be with him but don’t know how when we’re sooooo different.

    • @sunshinegirl1967
      @sunshinegirl1967 6 лет назад +8

      Trust me, you don't want to push an ISFP to anger. We take and take and take, and then one day we just explode. It might seem totally foreign to our temperament but it's definitely there.

  • @tedoymisojos
    @tedoymisojos 8 лет назад +11

    I'm not religious, and I would say Ive spent quite a lot of time dealing with my existential discomfort and questions. That kind of took the shape of a lot of theory testing and study, mental experiments and observation. Once I got a set of painful, but satisfactory and broad scope "answers", the rest I just labeled as unanswerable thanks to unavailable data and my own stupidity or unnecessary to answer and thus I'm not on an existential quest to answer such questions as intensely any more. Still the quest never REALLY stops. I "am" ISFP.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +3

      You guys are not a type I feel I understand very well, so take my conclusions about y'all with a grain of salt ;-)

  • @edenhealing1513
    @edenhealing1513 7 лет назад +54

    " do not like to think about how we will feel in the future"....uhhh no we do not understand that kind of question. How will we know how we will feel in the future when it has not happened yet? Silly question.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  7 лет назад +10

      You won't. That's the point. You have to make decisions about the future in the present, but have no information through your dominant function that's informative about the future.

    • @smokeofspades2974
      @smokeofspades2974 5 лет назад +1

      Because a certain time in the future you would envision you're in an ideallic setting... where you want to be in that time... with that in mind u answer the question
      For example u have a current partner who u know you're with only for banging purposes.
      You know u wanna marry n have kids before u hit 35 so that dude ur banging hasta go.
      When a neutral person asks u; u think ul still feel as awesome with him in 2 years, as u do now?
      U would already know what ur answer is

    • @avancalledrupert5130
      @avancalledrupert5130 4 года назад +1

      I'm here as an intj trying to understand my Mrs. It's that lack future certainty that is so hard for me. What do you want what shall we work towards.
      I get angry at her for getting sad about the past. We don't think about the past like at all.
      Its just cold data for us to use to predict the future. Which is where our minds spend all the time.
      We only get sad about some future we have predicted that we don't want or mad about a present anoing thing that must be fixed.
      Watching someone feel bad about something that they did before you even knew us is incomprehensible.
      Like OK you have that data you know not to do it again move on.

    • @ijjekova
      @ijjekova 3 года назад

      From an infp standpoint: if u know how you feel about things as they happen, and store this data, then when considering future events you can have an expectation about how u will feel about it; the more similar the future situation is to your past experiences the more accurate the prediction 🤔

  • @Slavic_monk
    @Slavic_monk 7 лет назад +21

    "least pushy people in the world" - best compliment ever, thank you :)
    you also gave some other compliments, like gentle and kind, thanks for those :)
    yeah you're right, I get manipulated sometimes, but if I spot it, and I can fight it, I try to fight it
    Just a guess but are you an INTP?

    • @avancalledrupert5130
      @avancalledrupert5130 4 года назад

      It's not though. It's draining What do you want. How can we plan for future with someone who dousnt seem to care what happens.

    • @sonjaholm4000
      @sonjaholm4000 4 года назад +1

      ^ Plan less and enjoy the day. Then you will be happier also in the future, because you will have lived, not just have sat around and planned.

  • @AugustBonds
    @AugustBonds 4 года назад +2

    It's both surprising and unsurprising that you managed to explain this type so well. Surprising because of the Fi blindspot, unsurprising because of you meta-analysing the shit out of MBIT (huge props). Thanks for the great video. Feels like no one has got the cognitive process interaction in the ISFP brain as nailed down as you do. Really appreciate it

  • @journeyofanartist
    @journeyofanartist 7 лет назад +30

    Ennegram 9's are pretty ego-less and most ISFPs are enneagram nines so.....yeah. But not ALL ISFPs are nines. Also, I wouldn't say that ISFPs always say what they mean and mean what they say...in a sense maybe but that strikes me as more how ISTPs and INTPs talk. ISFPs will actually tend to over emphasize with their speech and expect the same from others. For example, an ISFP actually might interpret "I don't mind" as "I mind" especially if it's said without much intonation or facial expression. To communicate to an ISFP that you don't mind doing something you might have to say "Oh I'd be happy to do that!" instead of "I don't mind doing that." That's how ISFPs communicate...with emphasis and reassurance. Also, ISFPs can absolutely think about, care about, and be affected by existential questions. Once again most ISFPs are 9's and ISFP 9's often don't think about and care about such questions, however, many ISFPs are enneagram 4s which are deep thinking, continually seeking depth and meaning, continually pondering the deep questions of this life, and very much thinking of the existential things! An ISFP 9 will take pride in being simple. An ISFP 4 will take pride in being complex. Also, sex as a body thing does not resonate for all ISFPs. ISFP 4s may even view sex as a spiritual experience or at the very least a chance to connect on an emotional level. That said, your explanation of the functions was rather fantastic and I've never heard them explained that way. I think you hit on something that others have missed! Also, that's the first time I've heard weird as a compliment. Haha. Also also, I really like the way your brain works. Also also also, are you SURE you're not meant to be with them? Are you absolutely certain about that?

    • @chastitymcconnell3079
      @chastitymcconnell3079 7 лет назад +1

      journeyofanartist
      I don't know who you are but I love your words!

    • @chibiwolftiger
      @chibiwolftiger 6 лет назад

      What about an ISFP 5w6?

    • @Mehno97
      @Mehno97 5 лет назад

      I think your view on how Isfp's communicate is a bit... weird. especially when you compared them to INTP's
      "For example, an ISFP actually might interpret "I don't mind" as "I mind" especially if it's said without much intonation or facial expression." Thats not because they are complex in communication its because their arent aware of other peoples intentions because Ne is their Trickster/Blindspot function(No.7) and in combination with Te-Inferior(No.4) their are worried what other people think and are afraid of other people's thoughts on them. And also aware how people's thoughts on them can change. This example would be more an example with an Isfp assuming he didnt mean what he said because the Isfp is worried or "scared" Not the typical interaction style the Isfp would use.

    • @RandomPerson28337
      @RandomPerson28337 5 лет назад

      istp are 9s as well

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 5 лет назад

      journeyofanartist
      This makes me realize no one knows anything about typology and we’re all just slinging arrows hoping to hit something. There are about a million exceptions to each personality type, and outside of general stereotypes, little consensus.

  • @ssg1783
    @ssg1783 5 лет назад +3

    I am an ISFP. If I was ever in doubt, I’m not after watching your video. I think you pegged me right! I’m new to the MBT...I find it interesting, but I can’t say I will ever be proficient in it. Simply because I don’t like to think we are limited although I know I am. ☺️I’d like to think I will continue to grow and evolve...maybe that’s why we have such a hard time thinking of a future time of non-existence? There is no such thing!! LOL...You’re absolutely right about the egoless and non-competitive trait. Some might get the wrong impression that it means we are never competitive. That’s false reasoning! I love winning a strategic game. However, it would be safe to say that our core values would have compromised us were we to depend on the “survival of the fittest” scenario! It is that quality that can easily be manipulated and can put us in co-dependent relationships. At the same time, it can also be the motive for getting us out of such a situation because we crave authenticity and to be less than ourselves is not an option. It’s a balancing act. Are we weird?? Yes!!! Unlikeable? Sometimes...especially if our core values rub you the wrong way...we won’t budge, but we don’t push either. “Why can’t we all co-exist in peace?” As for our sexual prowess...we’ll, I can only speak from my own point of view. I’m monogamous. Loyal. Sensitive. Authentic. Playful and flirtatious? I can be as long as it is in the moment and with my partner in mind. That’s all I have to say about that. 😊

  • @catplantASMR
    @catplantASMR 7 лет назад +17

    8:00 made me laugh! :) isfp ennegram 4 here! I do get called mysterious a lot & idk why but I somehow attract a lot of entps in my life!!! they always seem to want to chat me up and they try to help me speak up. I love this video so much! thank you!

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  7 лет назад +6

      Thanks so much for taking the time to tell me you enjoyed my video! I very much appreciate it.

    • @rmcd823
      @rmcd823 7 лет назад +2

      catplant ASMR If you talk about how cute pets are or something fluffy they will speak a lot!

    • @dolfdervish8495
      @dolfdervish8495 5 лет назад

      @twfp: Well, there's your demonstrable proof 😂

  • @Superhero004
    @Superhero004 5 лет назад +9

    As an isfp i always think that NTJ types and NTP types have the most difficult time understanding us . I find these other types to be constantly stressed and paranoid.... to us that’s a waste of time . Like he said “there is no subtext “ ...and some types have a difficult time tapping into that because simply because they have difficultly tapping into their own desires . I think we are most misunderstood because of our simplistic nature people tend to overlook us or underestimate us... they think we’re naive or irrelevant... but that is sooo far from the truth... as we don’t believe in boasting our abilities... we are always thinking... and because of our deep introverted nature we are able to see real danger in others from a mile away (danger not influenced by the “what if “ or paranoia but the what is “) we aren’t lazy thinkers and we don’t paint others with a wide brush... we understand the nuances in human behavior because we understand the complexities of ourselves ... which helps us to be aware of intentions or motives ... we are typically the first to say the storm is coming when the sun is out .... it’s our hidden super power.

  • @jamessorrel
    @jamessorrel 4 года назад +2

    Rather accurate about the ISFP having no subtext. It surprises me still to learn how people will try to hint at and insinuate things, where I just say what I mean. I've had people thinking I was hinting at stuff too, and they reacted based on what they perceived to be a subtext where there was none.
    You're also very right about ISFPs being vulnerable to manipulation. I've learned that the hard way.

  • @ariantejano2518
    @ariantejano2518 5 лет назад +5

    Lol Here's a simple explanation. It's all about what Fi value we are occupied in the moment. For example, I like that MBTI is giving me more explanations to why I like being ISFP. It's been a year now since I discovered I'm ISFP, and the insights (gathered and internalised) made my life better. I don't like to think too much. Because why do I have to when there are thousands of people who enjoy torturing themselves for the sake of a synthesized explanation. I just gather them all, and believe what I want to believe. I don't remember 90% of them the next day, but I like that they make me feel good. Every day. Lmao.

  • @Akariinn08
    @Akariinn08 3 года назад +3

    Im a christian, but I don’t want to be religious at all.
    I tend to be open mind but not too much.
    I’m preserved especially to some strangers.
    I really want to help someone but when i realized that there’s no chance of changing them, i stop helping or caring and avoid them as soon as possible. if they still try to talk I’ll just you know disappear.
    I can tell someone when they are faking and idk how to react to that. Sometimes i just shut my mouth or just stare at them.. 😂
    Yeah.. oh in relationship i became pessimistic when i feel emotionally or when i feel unpleasant, and when I’m hard on myself…
    That’s all i can say ISFP here

  • @arundhutisharma6931
    @arundhutisharma6931 3 года назад

    This man called me out with the pain and the consistency of the default nature. Accurate content

  • @spencermuir6645
    @spencermuir6645 3 года назад +1

    I love the vibe you have going on, this video has been fun to watch thank you. I'm an ISFP and thought it was cool to hear what your interactions were with this type.

  • @userjames2009
    @userjames2009 8 лет назад +11

    Fi authenticity and Fe harmony ethics are manifestions of deeper opposing emotional motivations. Someone with Fi much stronger than Fe will have probably have a weakness of the socio-political instinct, the instinct which drives the wearing of social masks (personas) and consideration of a constructed self-concept as being representative of yourself (ego/soul).

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +4

      +MegaBro Which would explain both why they seem so "egoless" and why they are easily manipulated. That's excellent insight, again, MegaBro. I'd like to frame this through stasis and fluidity too. Need to think about it some more. Thanks for the comment!

    • @userjames2009
      @userjames2009 8 лет назад

      Stasis and fluidity! Sounds like what I refer to as cybernetic morphostasis (negative feedback loop systems) and morphogenesis (positive feedback loop systems) I am using in my model of emotions.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад

      Ha ha... That's cool. It never even occurred to me to attempt to meaningfully parse emotions. I just sort of write them off as "irreducible" I guess.

  • @Olivetree80
    @Olivetree80 7 лет назад +10

    I've always had a hard time figuring them out too. It's usually the people who you don't know whether they're an introvert or extrovert because they are so down to earth and chill (most of the time). They also may seem like they have Ne, because that combination of Fi and Se can appear to be Ne, but then they won't end up going deeper with it, and it's hard to get to that deeper level with them. Obviously not speaking for all ISFP's though.

    • @thugskaters1234
      @thugskaters1234 7 лет назад +1

      hey I've been told I'm an ISFP what you say I think is right......but "deeper level"? like how can anything have a deeper meaning than what it is. what do you mean by deeper level?

    • @aidenbarr
      @aidenbarr 6 лет назад +3

      The phrase going deeper is meaningless to an ISFP. Rather it's an exploration of how two things connect and the labyrinthine connection between them.

  • @kinderlich
    @kinderlich 8 лет назад +38

    their Ni is stronger at night.

    • @EvelynNesbits
      @EvelynNesbits 8 лет назад +6

      Because the veil is thinner then.

    • @avancalledrupert5130
      @avancalledrupert5130 4 года назад +2

      It seems it observing my Mrs. She only talks about the future when tired. I'm intj we only think about the future. Now is just the thing we have to do to make the future happen correctly.

    • @sonjaholm4000
      @sonjaholm4000 4 года назад +2

      A Van Called Rupert that sounds very stressful to an isfp. Like you can't enjoy where you are, and you're not really 'here' at all.

  • @arysmethic6422
    @arysmethic6422 7 лет назад +29

    What bothers me the most is where he's recording himself at?😂😂😂

    • @PowerRedBullTypology
      @PowerRedBullTypology 5 лет назад +2

      Garage I guess?

    • @dlxinfinite7098
      @dlxinfinite7098 5 лет назад +2

      His presentation is getting me high AF.

    • @cherishtheday2223
      @cherishtheday2223 5 лет назад +1

      Wish he picked a more aesthetically pleasing place. Looks too mechanical and impersonal. That could just be the ISFP in me.

    • @zephdo2971
      @zephdo2971 5 лет назад

      Garage or a storage area.

    • @zephdo2971
      @zephdo2971 5 лет назад

      @@cherishtheday2223 looks comfy for me tho. Those clutters are gold. Also i want that chair.

  • @alistairproductions
    @alistairproductions 8 лет назад +5

    INTP and can't stop thinking of time and my relation to it. It's like an addiction almost

  • @smokeofspades2974
    @smokeofspades2974 5 лет назад +6

    I like ur basement... any chance there's a body in the fridge?
    Jokes... I'm an ENFP 😎

  • @ThePodgeiscool
    @ThePodgeiscool 8 лет назад +2

    For the average casual viewer I think it would be a better idea to avoid abbreviations. Cool video man interesting and informative. I am an ISFP male and I can agree from my perceptive that I don't connect on a deep level with your personality type, no negativity here just that I hadn't consciously thought it until you said it and then realized you're right.

    • @ThePodgeiscool
      @ThePodgeiscool 8 лет назад +1

      I don't know why this is though, do you have any thoughts on this?

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +5

      It's because you see subtext as unnecessary complication and we exist almost entirely in subtext.

    • @drennyvision6141
      @drennyvision6141 7 лет назад +1

      I too am a casual ISFP viewer who had no idea what you were saying with the abbreviations.

  • @alistairproductions
    @alistairproductions 7 лет назад +4

    It would really be something to not see myself as a continuous being across time. The thought makes me nervous. It sounds like disappearing . I feel like I'd just vanish . I'm always referencing the timeline

  • @daisy-vk4qu
    @daisy-vk4qu 6 лет назад

    this has left me shook..(also I'm the 100th comment)

  • @ambria.
    @ambria. 6 лет назад +1

    Love! I've always felt lost in time. And weird. Someone said I was intriguing and the fact that he couldn't figure me out made me sexy. He couldn't put his finger on it and neither could I. This explained a lot lol

  • @bennyhinn7239
    @bennyhinn7239 8 лет назад +2

    hey and @host eric id love to see a video of you interviewing an istp or isfp about there Tertiary ni,im just curious to see how introverted intuition works in isp types.

  • @pinky1494
    @pinky1494 6 лет назад +1

    An ISFP guy I know is pretty sexy too haha. You were spot on with the ISFP I know.

  • @romeymine
    @romeymine 8 лет назад +5

    What? It's just physical without the talking, huh? Allegedly, they're amazing there. Silent amazingness. Hmmm... interesting.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +4

      Yeah, they know how to enjoy their bodies without a lot of abstraction. Me, not so much.

  • @sunshinegirl1967
    @sunshinegirl1967 6 лет назад +4

    I keep getting distracted by all the stuff behind you, and I want to give your room a makeover.

  • @thingsnearandfar7123
    @thingsnearandfar7123 5 лет назад +4

    I'm in the beginning stages of a relationship with a girl who I expect is an Isfp and everything you said here rings very true to me... Her relationship with suffering is as you say, and she is the least egotistical person I know... And yes, she excites a great need in me to protect her. Any thoughts on an INFP + ISFP relationship? We seem very well suited... I'm more ego driven, theoretical and idealistic than her... She's more realistic and pragmatic than I am. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts.

  • @EvelynNesbits
    @EvelynNesbits 8 лет назад

    My mother is an ISFP. I can talk all day about that little function stack. I am INFJ. It has made for some tense mother/daughter times that we will never outgrow.

    • @onsetaugust
      @onsetaugust 8 лет назад +3

      Hello there. I am an INFJ as well, and I'm currently in a serious relationship with an ISFP. I understand the dynamics could be drastically different, but could I pick your brain on generally getting Long?

    • @EvelynNesbits
      @EvelynNesbits 8 лет назад +1

      +Jeremiah Vega Sure. I can give you some great insights on the pair in an intimate relationship that comes from one of my favorite blogs. It explained the entire dynamic of how we grate each other the wrong way and can't point to an obvious reason why.

    • @onsetaugust
      @onsetaugust 8 лет назад +1

      +Andrea Krahn I would be grateful!

    • @EvelynNesbits
      @EvelynNesbits 8 лет назад +2

      +Jeremiah Vega As far as my own information, keep in mind, mine is a mother/daughter relationship (where I am the only child of the ISFP mother). She was also raised in a place and within a family where emotion was a luxury they could not afford. Diving deep to communicate feelings or investigate the root cause of an internal issue was simply unheard of. Jesus answered all confusion and cured all pain and if you needed anything beyond that then you got hands laid on you at the Sunday night service to drive the demons out. She doest currently believe in all that, but her history and experience in things INFJs spew constantly is non-existent. I try to separate the mother/daughter issues from the function clash to keep things fair for the ISFPs of the world.

  • @dianadias3
    @dianadias3 3 года назад

    I loved This..

  • @marycassatt6542
    @marycassatt6542 7 лет назад

    @Talking with Famous People
    Do you guys help people type themselves? I really struggle with this and online tests are all over the place, even my loved ones can't agree on my type, it's really frustrating.

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  7 лет назад

      Totally! Join us any time and me or someone in there will be happy to assess you/ask questions/talk it out. gtm.talkingwithfamouspeople.com

    • @theresefrancis9283
      @theresefrancis9283 7 лет назад +1

      HedgedIn www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

  • @svetlana2775
    @svetlana2775 8 лет назад +1

    thank for this, it was really helpfull

  • @princeeugeneofsavoy8145
    @princeeugeneofsavoy8145 5 лет назад

    Plot twist: he’s talking about some ISFPs locked up in his basement

  • @chasingtheunknown3763
    @chasingtheunknown3763 6 лет назад +1

    Moody and uncomplicated, more likely.

  • @MrSgunn62
    @MrSgunn62 3 года назад

    I don't understand what do I need protection from?
    But thank you for wanting too.

  • @Yoonyoungamy
    @Yoonyoungamy 5 лет назад

    we're like ooblic the liquid solid thing from constrarch also sometimes I feel like a live puppet

  • @Yoonyoungamy
    @Yoonyoungamy 5 лет назад +4

    you remind me of abraham lincolon

  • @alistairproductions
    @alistairproductions 8 лет назад +1

    Is Se the most masculine of the functions? Or is that a nonsensical statement

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад +1

      Interesting question. I'd say yes, actually. But obviously female Se doms would probably disagree. I think I understand masculine manifestations of Se better than I understand feminine manifestations of it.

    • @dorcashealey3265
      @dorcashealey3265 7 лет назад +1

      nonsensical statement.
      you could say your prejudices about Se and about what it means to be masculine are the same, but Se itself is not masculine objectively or even collective-unconsciously
      -ENTJ

    • @alistairproductions
      @alistairproductions 7 лет назад

      So you don't think that masculine behavior would be more likely to encompass certain functions than other? A masculine/feminine style is separate and unrelated to the functional stack?

    • @dorcashealey3265
      @dorcashealey3265 7 лет назад +1

      here: define what you think masculine even means

    • @alistairproductions
      @alistairproductions 7 лет назад +1

      like a truck commercial, or a brutal battle, or donald trump

  • @fredherring876
    @fredherring876 5 лет назад +1

    RIP Etika

  • @EvelynNesbits
    @EvelynNesbits 8 лет назад +3

    ISFP ~ Bully? Bullied? Or both?

    • @Talkingwithfamouspeople
      @Talkingwithfamouspeople  8 лет назад

      Either way come join our community I don't think we have an infj yet come to think of it I have never met one in rl either I don't think either way join us at:
      forum.talkingwithfamouspeople.com
      ~FP Tiffany

    • @brandonrobertson1696
      @brandonrobertson1696 6 лет назад +5

      As an ISFP in school I tried to bully the bullies so I don't know? Some would see me as a bully I guess.

    • @MzDALENATRU0NG
      @MzDALENATRU0NG 5 лет назад +1

      Definitely both. Im very tolerant. Most of the time i take it until i feel like i can no longer take it anymore. Thats when my rebel side comes out. But im very sneaky about it. Once i see an opportunity at the right moment thats when i take the hit. Usually they dont see it coming and it hits them hard. Im a very calm person but if you keep consistently invading my space andpush my buttons thats when i become a raging sneaky psychopath. 😂

    • @eagerturtle4791
      @eagerturtle4791 5 лет назад

      This seems like a weird way to judge us as a group, but I'd say we're more likely to be bullied than be the bullies.

    • @witnessj1958
      @witnessj1958 5 лет назад +1

      Both. I got teased and belittled by my closest friends and I think that hurt kind of made it normal to where I'd to it to other kids. Now I'm more tolerant I make fun of myself as little jokes. I'm good now tho

  • @Bgrenimann
    @Bgrenimann 7 лет назад +12

    isfp here, you talk to much.

    • @eagerturtle4791
      @eagerturtle4791 5 лет назад +4

      I didn't mind their rambling, since it had a fairly relaxed vibe to it.

  • @Nise_R
    @Nise_R 6 лет назад +1

    I'm isfp tonight but 6-9 months ago I was istp?

    • @Lexindra
      @Lexindra 5 лет назад

      Same with me... Weird

  • @sylvial1985
    @sylvial1985 6 лет назад +1

    This video is saying ISFPs are garbage.

    • @AliceJem
      @AliceJem 5 лет назад +2

      Aw, come on.

    • @AliceJem
      @AliceJem 5 лет назад +2

      He's somewhat describing it what ISFPs like. And I'm an ISFP too.

  • @asmcriminaL
    @asmcriminaL 7 лет назад

    You seem cold...