I completely agree he thinks his story makes him cool. He seems lk he's so excited to tell how much of a big gangster he was. I was getting that sense too when he was talking to the other players on his team in the gym after practice.
Yes, he is a grown man and should have been honest about his past from the beginning. I hope Ingrid doesn't marry him because he lied from the get go about who he was. TLC should screen people better. Ingrid has a child so this in not good.
Watching that blatant gasslighting pretending to be surprised Ingrid said he never told her about his drug past while he had openly admitted to it in his interview, was so nasty.
He's so gross, going after women solely for his own benefit, using older women for their money and stability, but chasing and cheating with younger women because young women are easier to manipulate. He's incapable of taking responsibility for any of what went wrong in his life. What a waste of air
Narcs never learn because the can’t truly self reflect. Was married to one for too long, he just spiralled into being the worst shmuck possible. It’s all about THEM and ALWAYS will be.
I was left with lifelong disabilities, a lifetime of opiates, wheelchair use, constant pain, ptsd because i baby sat at 17. Nothing I live with excuses me being an ASSHOLE. His actions are his choices and nobody is responsible for them but him
Brian thinks he's so cool telling his war story. It's nothing whatsoever to be proud of! He's still relishing his past life. Sick m-effer, imo. People who are actually recovering don't glorify their past actions. Brian is not in recovery and is not cool!! I ran with people like that in my past. I'm embarrassed about it. I do have 33 years clean and sober and I'm proud of that!!
That is so true! I knew someone who was a former alcoholic (notice I don't say "recovering") but he always talked about his drinking days like it was the best time of his life, and he seemed very angry that he had to give it up. I don't consider that to be someone in recovery, just like with Brian.
So what has this guy been doing the last 25 years since the shooting? Honing his skills on grifting more women? Working on a Nobel prize? Doing meaningful work in his community? People keep saying that it “was all 30 years ago!” Was it?
He tells his past like its a cool story instead of telling it as a lesson/warning for others not to live like that. No accountability that he wasnt living right
Oh please. We all have some kind of past (in one way or another). You are adult now (supposedly adult). You are to try to be better than what your father was. Grow up already Brian 🙄🙄 and stop the poor me thing.
So he is saying that he is a dirtbag because his father is a dirtbag? Also, I don't fully believe his story about being set up for a car jacking. Has there been news paper? Was his ex wife convicted and jailed for the crime?
Madzie you are spot on! This guy’s priority at the start was himself. You called it when he glossed over leaving his daughter behind. Present day his priority is still himself. I doubt he grew up much at all as his actions show he’s hiding things from Ingrid. Talking about he likes to test women to see how they respond to his situation as a paralyzed man. His present priority is Brian. Chasing the thing that will make him feel good in the moment.
I'm convinced that TLC and the 90 Day Fiance franchise are not going to get rid of Angela and Big Ed until they can replace them with someone just as bad as they are. But I have to say Brian and Loren are good contenders.
It’s each individual person’s responsibility to break free of the family abuse/ways and become their own, better person. This is a woe is me tale meant to evoke pity but it just makes it seem like he’s trying too hard to deflect from his manipulative ways. Good people don’t tell you they’re good people, they just are.
He thinks a joint made him feel more violent. Why if he is not proud of it does he feel the need to mention one joint he had 30 yrs ago. It's very cringey to me.
Yeah that's not how it works at all haha had a good old laugh when he said that. Was the joint laced with coke? Because otherwise I'm looking for a chair after a hit and aiming to not move for an hour. That and the toaster popping makes my soul leave my body, so where is this idea he has that it'll make him tougher? Literally the single least productive thing someone could do to gear up for a fight 🤣🤣
Yeah had a similar childhood, didn’t grow up to be an ass hat. How did the cheating and mistreatment make your mother feel, Brian? Kids are very keen to emotions and yet he went and done the same thing!
I get my updates from you. I can't deal with the level of people they hire for the show anymore.The deaf couple were cute but these people are just too disgusting. You are right Madzie. He doesn't take responsibility. TLC needs to change the selection of people. I can't watch this. It is just awful.
This is a fine example of how negligence as a parent will lead to this adult. A boy needs his father or a calm natured parent that will spend their time guiding them not assigning them work chores. It should be a balance. Unfortunately, the lack of quality time spent with a boy by a father or parent will lead to anger and aggression. Where it led him and where he is today is not a surprise to me. Although he learned not to put his hands on a female, he did learn what we learn first and foremost in life...how to Speak to one another. He learned verbal abuse as communication, couple that with anger and aggression and here you have what we see today in his relationships. That being said, you cannot let your past hold you prisoner, you suffer more in the way of missing out on healthy, loving relationships and experiences of life. You have the same option every day to wake up and choose different, the same way you choose to maintain this nonsense. We all know that some professional help through therapy will help him achieve better, but in order to Be better, you have to DO better. It's a choice.
All the world is Brian's stage and all the rest are there to either serve him as his marionettes or to function as his audience. He does the things he does because that's what he thinks men do. Why no one has ever relieved him of his misaligned notions, grandiose sense of self or level of entitlement somewhere out in the stratosphere is beyond me. Brian only respects Brian. On a personal level he hasn't learned a thing. I'd say he might benefit some from a bit of professional counselling but nothing's changed, he still thinks he's the smartest, most charismatic thing that ever walked on two legs or rolled in a chair. The counsellor? Just another one of his marionettes to play the role of foil in the theatrical production of the story that is his life.
@@alix73 Oh absolutely, even last night, even though it went well Ingrid had asked Brian for some space but he had to know better and do what he wanted to do, he doesn't respect boundaries, all the world's his stage after all..
These toxic men should stop messing with ANY women!! They should not get involved with anyone because they just will ruin your life and they do not care at all about you. They only care about themselves! So so true!! So so sad too!! ❤
Someday TLC is going to choose one of these creeps and they’re gonna end up being a danger to the person that they are catfishing. And maybe it’s not traditional catfish but when you lie that much to someone over the period of years….. That’s catfish…
Brian admits to NOTHING. He's PROUD of his past---as he tells the stories, there's not an iota of regret, remorse, or insight in what he says or in the way he paints the picture for us. It's all a looooooooong thread that he hopes leaves us in awe of what a "badass" he's been, and that at the same time makes us feel bad for "his bad luck".
He keeps on saying he's a quadriplegic. He's NOT. He's a paraplegic. He still has use of his hands and arms. A quad has nothing. I knew a quad. He was SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MAN. He had an electric wheel chair he operated with a joystick he bit down on. This man is NOT a quad. Quads have it so much harder!!!
You need to look up the definitions .. Writing a whole post like this , isn't a good look when u have no clue what ur talking about 😂🤦♀️ A quadriplegic doesn't need to have no use of their arms to be considered a quadriplegic.. It all depends on where the injury is .. His is above that certain point and his arms and hands are affected . He's 100% a quadriplegic..
Absolutely correct. He is not a quadriplegic. My bro is, he has to be fed, lift in bedroom. He doesn’t require a partial hard on for his catheter . I was taught how to do all things he needs. Brian is lying. My bro can’t even move his head
He uses his disability for sympathy and to get what he wants. If he doesn’t get what he wants then he resorts to oh they judged me and it’s because I’m disabled. I think often those behaviors have then gotten what he wants.
💯 he has a pattern of being a manipulator. Lies when its convenient to him. Notice how he never takes accountability for HIS actions. Blames the dealer wife foe falling into her trap. Like bro! Stop. Ingrid run.
I hope lovely Ingrid ran for the hills. She was unlucky with the father’s of her children …..NOW THIS. Not. A drug felon and liar who failed to tell Ingrid his true age, 30 yrs older. He has some kind of ego. Ta Ta Brian
Kinda tragic. It seems like he has no self-awareness. I dont think he chooses to be this way. This is just a normal reaction for anyone trapped in his conditions. He needs therapy.
This GROWN BOY should've manned up a LOOOOOOOOOONG fkn' time ago & like I said before, he has a WHOOOOOOOOOOLE lot of manning up to do before he EVER & I mean EVER starts thinking about getting into a SERIOUS healthy & mature relationship, he REALLY needs to get his s*** all the way together & stop playing these dangerous games with these women's hearts frfr🏆💯
So he snitched on the guy that lived with him and that woman,maybe he shot him,and just blaming his ex wife,why isnt she in prison then??He is so creepy,he also said he did drugs and drank a case of beer a day,Run Ingrid Run as fast as you can,I thought Big Ed was creepy
Good point about him being the "man of the house" lol never was. Also, I agree about him liking to brag about his past criminal activities. He is still a child in his mind who is immature enough to think that behaviour is "cool".
Blah blah blah, keep blaming your past for your current behavior, ugh. As an adult, you now have many resources to correct that behavior if you choose to be a better human.
Something isn’t right about this man …wonder if he too went to diddy parties lmao. He needs to stop blaming his dad you choose to act this way towards woman
When I first saw Brian, I thought he was going to be a decent guy, ohh Lordy was I wrong. During this interview he was talking so fast I couldn't understand what he was saying. I hope Ingrid breaks contact with him after the seasons over, I'm pretty sure if she breaks it off now, TLC could sue her for breach of contract, so, she's like stuck for now.
I respectfully disagree. I feel that he STILL thinks he was a badass who just ran out of luck. Listen to his story carefully, it is quite obvious that he would choose that life again if he could, because it made him feel manly, cool, dangerous, cunning, respected, and successful. There is ZERO self-reflection, regret, insight, or accountability in his words, mindset, or demeanor.
@@isabellancali5388thank u I missed that...unfortunately he is still a snake that is lying to and gaslighting ingrid and now by just turn8ng up with flowers and toys fir her kids to try to play her further...
What a story- I just wish he seemed as if he changed his life- he could have a huge testimony here- but I don’t see the remorse or self reflection. I’m pretty sure had he not been shot and became a paraplegic- he still would be running the streets. ( in some way) but that’s all between him and God and I hope I’m wrong.
I completely agree he thinks his story makes him cool. He seems lk he's so excited to tell how much of a big gangster he was. I was getting that sense too when he was talking to the other players on his team in the gym after practice.
Brian is the prime example of f around and find out...
He gives me creep vibes.
@@rubens667 he so does me too, well creepy, trying to be victim
Very! 💯
Okay I’m not the only one
He gives me the ick
He seems very greasy
And Shystie!!
Absolutely
Absolutely my thought❤
He sounds proud of it all
Still no sympathy for Brian, you live by the choices you make in life. He's trying to justify himself & play victim! 🤬🥵😡🤡
this guy is a punk, he can hide it as much as he wants but he learned to used the pity to his advantage, he is a user
Yes, he is a grown man and should have been honest about his past from the beginning. I hope Ingrid doesn't marry him because he lied from the get go about who he was. TLC should screen people better. Ingrid has a child so this in not good.
Live by the sword, die by the sword. He is something else.
Gaslighting is bullying
@@kristinhayLiverbirdy08 💯
Watching that blatant gasslighting pretending to be surprised Ingrid said he never told her about his drug past while he had openly admitted to it in his interview, was so nasty.
He's so gross, going after women solely for his own benefit, using older women for their money and stability, but chasing and cheating with younger women because young women are easier to manipulate. He's incapable of taking responsibility for any of what went wrong in his life. What a waste of air
By the time you’re his age you should have stopped blaming your parents for your bad choices.
There’s still a time to man up and use your past to better yourself
EXACTLY! 💯%
Isn't he about 53? You don't think his too far gone at this point.
Narcs never learn because the can’t truly self reflect. Was married to one for too long, he just spiralled into being the worst shmuck possible. It’s all about THEM and ALWAYS will be.
Bullies do love to play the victim, when thee get older
He sounds like the movie Goodfellows, he's the Temu version 😭😭😫😫🤣🤣
The way I just spit my water out 😂 not temu
This man got some dark dark secrets I just feel it something ain’t right
Wow, this guy could not be anymore narcissistic 😢
I thought the same!… he is using phrases that narcissistic people use
understatement
can’t stand brian
I'm finding it hard to tune into 90 Day, lately.
TLC is ruining it for me and I'm about over it.
I was left with lifelong disabilities, a lifetime of opiates, wheelchair use, constant pain, ptsd because i baby sat at 17. Nothing I live with excuses me being an ASSHOLE. His actions are his choices and nobody is responsible for them but him
Brian thinks he's so cool telling his war story. It's nothing whatsoever to be proud of! He's still relishing his past life. Sick m-effer, imo.
People who are actually recovering don't glorify their past actions. Brian is not in recovery and is not cool!!
I ran with people like that in my past. I'm embarrassed about it. I do have 33 years clean and sober and I'm proud of that!!
That is so true! I knew someone who was a former alcoholic (notice I don't say "recovering") but he always talked about his drinking days like it was the best time of his life, and he seemed very angry that he had to give it up. I don't consider that to be someone in recovery, just like with Brian.
The DEA has entered the chat.
So what has this guy been doing the last 25 years since the shooting? Honing his skills on grifting more women? Working on a Nobel prize? Doing meaningful work in his community? People keep saying that it “was all 30 years ago!” Was it?
He has been becoming the perfect sleezebag for the past 20 years. Give the guy some credit! 🥸
He thinks he’s so cool
He tells his past like its a cool story instead of telling it as a lesson/warning for others not to live like that. No accountability that he wasnt living right
A lifetime of lying and betraying people is not admirable. He's a user and doesn't have the sense to be ashamed of what he did.
Just ewwww😡he sounds so proud of himself!!! What a terrible pos father! Keeping drugs in the house and using is unfathomable😮
Yeah I agree that he likes telling these stories.
Oh please. We all have some kind of past (in one way or another). You are adult now (supposedly adult). You are to try to be better than what your father was. Grow up already Brian 🙄🙄 and stop the poor me thing.
I feel he is telling this story with regret that it ended instead of regretting his actions
Agreed
So he is saying that he is a dirtbag because his father is a dirtbag?
Also, I don't fully believe his story about being set up for a car jacking. Has there been news paper? Was his ex wife convicted and jailed for the crime?
And his saying it was a carjacking is completely misleading. Someone just wanted to kill him.
Not saying he deserves it, on the contrary. However he chose to live the fast life and there ya go…
Madzie you are spot on! This guy’s priority at the start was himself. You called it when he glossed over leaving his daughter behind. Present day his priority is still himself. I doubt he grew up much at all as his actions show he’s hiding things from Ingrid. Talking about he likes to test women to see how they respond to his situation as a paralyzed man. His present priority is Brian. Chasing the thing that will make him feel good in the moment.
You can tell he misses that way of life, the way he's reminiscing 😂 What a loser...
I'm convinced that TLC and the 90 Day Fiance franchise are not going to get rid of Angela and Big Ed until they can replace them with someone just as bad as they are. But I have to say Brian and Loren are good contenders.
It’s each individual person’s responsibility to break free of the family abuse/ways and become their own, better person. This is a woe is me tale meant to evoke pity but it just makes it seem like he’s trying too hard to deflect from his manipulative ways. Good people don’t tell you they’re good people, they just are.
He thinks a joint made him feel more violent. Why if he is not proud of it does he feel the need to mention one joint he had 30 yrs ago. It's very cringey to me.
Yeah that's not how it works at all haha had a good old laugh when he said that. Was the joint laced with coke? Because otherwise I'm looking for a chair after a hit and aiming to not move for an hour. That and the toaster popping makes my soul leave my body, so where is this idea he has that it'll make him tougher? Literally the single least productive thing someone could do to gear up for a fight 🤣🤣
@@smashingmolko I agree iykyk 😆 I kind of found him a bit off coz maybe he doesn't want admit that the j he was smoking was laced or the "j" he was" smoking" A ©®***Pipe.
I feel like he is trying to be cool and sounds mean but I think the reason he left that life was because he had to.
This dude has problems.hes not dating material.
Yeah had a similar childhood, didn’t grow up to be an ass hat. How did the cheating and mistreatment make your mother feel, Brian? Kids are very keen to emotions and yet he went and done the same thing!
He all talk and creepy! 🙄
he is so full of himself and even after he went through all this he has not learned.
This guy needs prison not a reality show!!
I get my updates from you. I can't deal with the level of people they hire for the show anymore.The deaf couple were cute but these people are just too disgusting. You are right Madzie. He doesn't take responsibility. TLC needs to change the selection of people. I can't watch this. It is just awful.
Dude has what married 6 time's atleast and how many broken engagements...
Ya, he’s still proud and not reading the host at all as he goes on bragging.
I don't trust him, it seems like one lie after another, what else is next❤❤❤
That’s what Ingrid was saying when he divulged this information to her in the car while driving to her home.
U feffed around and Found out...
This man thinks he's left "the streets", but he hasn't. His mindset is that of a thug.
This is a fine example of how negligence as a parent will lead to this adult. A boy needs his father or a calm natured parent that will spend their time guiding them not assigning them work chores. It should be a balance. Unfortunately, the lack of quality time spent with a boy by a father or parent will lead to anger and aggression. Where it led him and where he is today is not a surprise to me.
Although he learned not to put his hands on a female, he did learn what we learn first and foremost in life...how to Speak to one another. He learned verbal abuse as communication, couple that with anger and aggression and here you have what we see today in his relationships.
That being said, you cannot let your past hold you prisoner, you suffer more in the way of missing out on healthy, loving relationships and experiences of life. You have the same option every day to wake up and choose different, the same way you choose to maintain this nonsense. We all know that some professional help through therapy will help him achieve better, but in order to Be better, you have to DO better. It's a choice.
If this is true then go to therapy and stop being a predator to women.
Tlc is now cringe only tv...
Nobody deserves to be shot like that
Always the victim it’s him choices that he made
You basically read this guy out. Couldn’t agree more.
All the world is Brian's stage and all the rest are there to either serve him as his marionettes or to function as his audience. He does the things he does because that's what he thinks men do. Why no one has ever relieved him of his misaligned notions, grandiose sense of self or level of entitlement somewhere out in the stratosphere is beyond me. Brian only respects Brian. On a personal level he hasn't learned a thing. I'd say he might benefit some from a bit of professional counselling but nothing's changed, he still thinks he's the smartest, most charismatic thing that ever walked on two legs or rolled in a chair. The counsellor? Just another one of his marionettes to play the role of foil in the theatrical production of the story that is his life.
IMO classic narcissist
@@alix73 Oh absolutely, even last night, even though it went well Ingrid had asked Brian for some space but he had to know better and do what he wanted to do, he doesn't respect boundaries, all the world's his stage after all..
He's not a quadraplegic he's a narcissistic Tetropregic
he's just creepy AF~ why is he even on the show....geesh.
Tlc loves to show this dysfunction and level of gaslighting.. he is like the new ed and angela in one...
These toxic men should stop messing with ANY women!! They should not get involved with anyone because they just will ruin your life and they do not care at all about you. They only care about themselves! So so true!! So so sad too!! ❤
I never liked him. My creep-o-meter went off almost from the beginning.
Ain’t nothing but a CLOWN I hope Ingrid did RUN I know you can’t be defined by your past but buddy just seems to not have even learned from it!!!
Someday TLC is going to choose one of these creeps and they’re gonna end up being a danger to the person that they are catfishing. And maybe it’s not traditional catfish but when you lie that much to someone over the period of years….. That’s catfish…
He loves to glorify his drug past but got so offended ingredients wasn't impressed by it. Yuck
😂it took him an hr to basically say im a creep yeah, but im a fraction of my dad. Hes wayy worse
He is a me me me...person.Cry me a river
The interviewer looks totally over brians ish
Brian admits to NOTHING. He's PROUD of his past---as he tells the stories, there's not an iota of regret, remorse, or insight in what he says or in the way he paints the picture for us. It's all a looooooooong thread that he hopes leaves us in awe of what a "badass" he's been, and that at the same time makes us feel bad for "his bad luck".
Didn’t he say he left his family to do cocaine?
What a mess
100 % agree with you Madzie, all of it!!
Well she read him right...but she actually went that far...wow...brian reaped and then he sowed...
Should be in jail...
He keeps on saying he's a quadriplegic.
He's NOT.
He's a paraplegic. He still has use of his hands and arms.
A quad has nothing. I knew a quad. He was SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MAN. He had an electric wheel chair he operated with a joystick he bit down on.
This man is NOT a quad. Quads have it so much harder!!!
You need to look up the definitions ..
Writing a whole post like this , isn't a good look when u have no clue what ur talking about 😂🤦♀️
A quadriplegic doesn't need to have no use of their arms to be considered a quadriplegic..
It all depends on where the injury is ..
His is above that certain point and his arms and hands are affected .
He's 100% a quadriplegic..
Absolutely correct. He is not a quadriplegic. My bro is, he has to be fed, lift in bedroom. He doesn’t require a partial hard on for his catheter . I was taught how to do all things he needs. Brian is lying. My bro can’t even move his head
He uses his disability for sympathy and to get what he wants. If he doesn’t get what he wants then he resorts to oh they judged me and it’s because I’m disabled. I think often those behaviors have then gotten what he wants.
💯 he has a pattern of being a manipulator. Lies when its convenient to him. Notice how he never takes accountability for HIS actions. Blames the dealer wife foe falling into her trap. Like bro! Stop. Ingrid run.
Narcissist plenty around childhood trauma abandonment issues
Children he left behind
Lawd…..
Using and selling are a bad combo...they do one or the other never both...
All he does is drive around and lie!
Most stories thankfully arent as pathetic as Brian's past and choices...
It was obvious he doesn't half to now admit it for what money...
I hope lovely Ingrid ran for the hills. She was unlucky with the father’s of her children …..NOW THIS. Not. A drug felon and liar who failed to tell Ingrid his true age, 30 yrs older. He has some kind of ego. Ta Ta Brian
Kinda tragic.
It seems like he has no self-awareness.
I dont think he chooses to be this way. This is just a normal reaction for anyone trapped in his conditions.
He needs therapy.
This GROWN BOY should've manned up a LOOOOOOOOOONG fkn' time ago & like I said before, he has a WHOOOOOOOOOOLE lot of manning up to do before he EVER & I mean EVER starts thinking about getting into a SERIOUS healthy & mature relationship, he REALLY needs to get his s*** all the way together & stop playing these dangerous games with these women's hearts frfr🏆💯
We all have a story.
@tyraharris2090 and it's important to learn from our story.
We learn and become wizer as we get older But not this guy.
So he snitched on the guy that lived with him and that woman,maybe he shot him,and just blaming his ex wife,why isnt she in prison then??He is so creepy,he also said he did drugs and drank a case of beer a day,Run Ingrid Run as fast as you can,I thought Big Ed was creepy
Good point about him being the "man of the house" lol never was. Also, I agree about him liking to brag about his past criminal activities. He is still a child in his mind who is immature enough to think that behaviour is "cool".
Blah blah blah, keep blaming your past for your current behavior, ugh. As an adult, you now have many resources to correct that behavior if you choose to be a better human.
They make up there own little imaginary world
He definitely enjoyed telling that story more than he enjoyed telling Ingrid
Holy shit does this guy love to talk about himself 🙄
Something isn’t right about this man …wonder if he too went to diddy parties lmao. He needs to stop blaming his dad you choose to act this way towards woman
He admitted to doing something after it was already proven that he did it? What is the big news. lol.
When I first saw Brian, I thought he was going to be a decent guy, ohh Lordy was I wrong. During this interview he was talking so fast I couldn't understand what he was saying. I hope Ingrid breaks contact with him after the seasons over, I'm pretty sure if she breaks it off now, TLC could sue her for breach of contract, so, she's like stuck for now.
Accusations are actually confessions
He’s so pathetic LOL
Brian is now an adult clown 🤡🤡🤡
I don’t think he’s bragging. His end result was shot and paralyzed. It is what it is, telling it.
I respectfully disagree. I feel that he STILL thinks he was a badass who just ran out of luck. Listen to his story carefully, it is quite obvious that he would choose that life again if he could, because it made him feel manly, cool, dangerous, cunning, respected, and successful. There is ZERO self-reflection, regret, insight, or accountability in his words, mindset, or demeanor.
Was it the first wife who put a hit on him...
Per Brian, it was the second wife that did it as she was “his supplier.”
@@isabellancali5388thank u I missed that...unfortunately he is still a snake that is lying to and gaslighting ingrid and now by just turn8ng up with flowers and toys fir her kids to try to play her further...
This interview makes me dislike Brian even more…it’s better to say nothing then to say dumb ish like this…TEMU SCARFACE
In fairness, he keeps saying he knows how he behaved in the past was wrong, he's just explaining what his state of mind was at the time.
Brian is the boy who called 'Wolf .'
Soooo sad u sow what u reap
This is a catharsis for him. If he were not disabled without a doubt his lifestyle would have continued. I hope this woman keeps her distance.
Lol so basically this guy is telling us about his glory days. He is beaming! 😂
What a story- I just wish he seemed as if he changed his life- he could have a huge testimony here- but I don’t see the remorse or self reflection. I’m pretty sure had he not been shot and became a paraplegic- he still would be running the streets. ( in some way) but that’s all between him and God and I hope I’m wrong.