i’ve never related to a question more than the one that asked “my boyfriend is not really loving with me, how can i bring it up without sounding selfish?” sooo relatable because me and my bf only had one relationship before we met so we had some sort of experience, but not a ton! and we both said that our relationship is probably the most serious one we’ve ever been in and when we first started out, i most definitely didn’t want to come off as “clingy” since my bf has a more independent personality and because of that i’d always think like “am i not enough or does he not like me as much as i thought” but that certainly wasn’t the case!! we talked it out and now we’re almost two years into our relationship and i’d have to say he’s definitely grown to be more affectionate and “lovey-dovey” with me so i’d just say to communicate with your partner and let them know how you feel because a little affection can go a long way and who knows, they might turn out to be the one who’s more “clingy” hehe
I will advise everyone to look up the 5 love languages because Everyone loves differently. I so agree with you about communication. Communication is the key to every relationship and it’s very important so that all your needs and theirs are fulfilled.
how do I even do that? lol I've tried to come off as not clingy or selfish but then I couldnt hit the target with the main question...How do I talk to him without feeling like I'm being judge?
@@pastrybear131 he has to be willing to listen to you. That way you will feel comfortable talking to him about it. I think he really cares for you. I used to think that i should just keep it to myself bc it's not a big deal. Communicate! He will listen 😊
Hana sounds like me and jimmy sounds like my boyfriend 😂 I have realised that he is more distant in our relationship and not as expressive as we have different ideas of loving someone and we have different upbringings. It’s good to take couple steps backwards and see how your partner shows love to you. Even though he doesn’t sound very affectionate, he always eat my carrots (as I dislike them 🙈) and prevents me from falling 🤣 Thank you Hana and Jimmy for the video ❤️❤️
The way that you both speak so openly about your feelings for each other and your feelings in general has been such a huge help in grounding myself in my relationship. I've struggled with my overly romanticized expectation of love (built up and supported by how relationships are portrayed in movies and tv shows) and it's so unrealistic to hold my own relationship to that. My boyfriend isn't always comfortable in expressing his feelings in these big romantic gestures and that doesn't have to mean he loves me any less. Sometimes what I feel like I'm asking for isn't a lot but it's easy to forget that just because it comes naturally to me, doesn't mean that it's the same for him.
nah don't settle for a guy that doesn't act like he's in love with you. there are men out there who will adore you and wear their hearts on their sleeve
The last question really hit home for me since I had the same issue with my S.O. at the beginning of our relationship. I think it depends how long it's been since kind of like Jimmy/Hana touched on, the beginning of the relationship is the phase where 2 people are still trying to figure out how to co-exist and grow together but also making sure to grow separately too. I've always been the type to be very vocal and straightforward with affection and any issues with my partner. It took him a while to realize it would help with our communication if he's vocal with affections and issues too. But I also had to realize he's more used to showing that he's loving through gift giving and acts of service and I've made more efforts to show him that I care for him in ways that he's used to being shown he's loved, aka the gift giving and acts of service. Ultimately it requires both parties to sit down, have a conversation (maybe multiple conversations) and work through the issue together through compromise and along the way, getting to know how to help the other person better. Side note: I love these heart to hana & heart to jana videos, they always give me a lot to think about and makes me grateful for what I have. ❤️
As someone who's been in my first relationship since 19 yrs old (im 24 now), I definitely have the thoughts of whether I'm missing out, if it's too late to date again due to inexperience, etc- and it feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders to hear a longer-term couple talk about these things. Thank you Jana!!
Too late?? At 24? Nooo! Honey, you have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of your youth left. You have time. Early 20s dating is its own thing and you learn and grow fast, so don’t worry about being behind. As long as you are in touch with yourself and what you want you will be good.
Looking at the past few years, I can see how much you’ve grown Hana, but I can see how much Jimmy has grown too. He is much more accepting of your career and open to your followers than when I first started watching you guys. He seems more comfortable in front of the camera and it really shows how much he respects your career and your followers and that’s awesome to see :)
i'm in an exact situation right now at the part where hana is focused all on jimmy and feels that he does not love her as much. Sigh, i'm going through the roughest situation with my boyfriend right now and hana's advice just gave me a different perspective on how i can view things differently.
Love this! I really feel like I can relate to you guys 💕 I’m in a 8 yr long relationship where we both met at 17 yrs old... and I was definitely like Hana, clingy and my bf was everything to me. My bf is similar to Jimmy, independent and had strong healthy relationships in other aspects of his life. We’re definitely unlearning and relearning healthy communication and comprehension. Our current and biggest roadblock is individual growth. Really appreciate this kind of content 💕 Relationships are hard, it takes patience, understanding, and effort. Glad to see a strong couple like yourselves have these conversations 💕 Love ya!
For those who feel like their bf is not as loving, I REALLY suggest looking into The 5 Love Languages, it helps immensely to figure out what each persons way of showing love and what to expect is!!
ive been through a breakup and these jana videos helped me sm to reflect and learn from the whole experience. forever thankful for you guys for being so open about everything and giving such mature advice. you two are the cutest and i wish you all the best. you guys deserve the world 🌎🤍✨
Thank you guys for always being so vulnerable and transparent with us 🥺 and Hana, GIRRLLLLLLL you look extra beautiful today!! your hair and makeup and everything is just *chef's kiss* hahaha so fresh and clean and lovely 🥰
i love how you guys are so open and honest! i really enjoy these couple talks. but LOL i cant help but realize that hana always has to clarify/explain the question further for jimmy because he doesn't seem to quite grasp what the person is asking lololol xD
Hana and Jimmy's relationship really reminds me of me and my boyfriend's. He's really busy all the time, and it's really difficult for me who loves his time and attention. Thank you for showing us how you guys have grown and dealt with these differences and being an inspiration
You guys are such a good example of a healthy relationship and growth within a relationship ❤️ I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and it's crazy how much you keep on learning about your partner and yourself year by year
I think they said in a previous one of these videos that they once broke up for like a day or something? When they had a fight but immediately got back together?
This is actually the best (relationships) advices video I’ve ever seen. You guys really go in depth with the questions and make it really understandable for the watchers 🥰 thx u! 💕
Hey Hana, I know this is very specific but I think your eyebrow skills got better! xD They look really good in this one lol I also think it's really impressive how you guys kept staying in and working on your relationship even though it was so hard at the beginning! Obviously it's different for everyone but I can see how much you both grew as individuals and as a couple! :)
Hey i just wanna tell everyone who is reading the comments that you should never give up on youtube no matter how few views or subs you get. Giving up will be the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. I know it’s frustrating to work so hard on a video only to get a few views and barely any comments but trust me, you will get there. I used to have only one person commenting on my videos and I almost gave up but I slowly started gaining more subs and views and now that I look back, I’m so glad i did not give up, and i hope you dont too. Im spreading the word to prevent people from giving up because I believe in all of you. We small youtubers need to stick together and support each other, lift each other up and encourage each other, especially during times like this. ❤️
Omg congrats Hana on 300k subs!!! You have become one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I just love how sweet you are!! I love how you make these kinds of videos! You truly are like a big sister here on RUclips!!!
the dynamic here seems as though jimmy is clear in his thought and perspective like about portraying the perfect couple image and then Hana insists on asking the question again to get a different answer that matches hers
you look so beautiful!! & love you guys! i love how honest you are, i feel like a lot of people say they never have thoughts about seeing other people and stuff like that and that is so unrealistic...your opinions are so refreshing 💛
I really admire you guys. You both sound so mature and you are so honest with each other about your relationship. You are a lovely realistic couple. Thank you for this video !
thank you for these advice videos hana! they always help me, lately since my boyfriend is home all day he spends it playing video games with his friends and we use to call almost every night when the quarantine first started but now we only send memes, hes not as lovey dovey as before and rarely texts me that he misses me or things like that, and whenever i send him snapchats he just leaves me on read, but now i've realized that i just need to learn to be my own person and find my own hobbies haha
been binge watching all your relationship q and a’s and it makes me feel like im not the only one having thoughts like these, in that way i dont think im mentally weird and i wouldnt feel alone ... if that makes sense...
watching hana youtube channel make me always take noted all her advice 😍since i’ve never been in relationship since my secondary school because im afraid if i hurt other or my feeling again anyway thanks hana and jimmy for the good advice and video
wow just when i was binge watching all of your relationship advice videos and finished watching all of em and was waiting for another one you uploaded one!!THANK U SO MUCH HANA I LOVE UR VIDEOS SO MUCH AND I LOVE YOU TOO!!!LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE FROM BANGLADESH💗💕💖💓💕💖💗💕💓💞💖💓💕💕💞💕💖💕
Sometimes I want to be young again and didnt have kids so soon. BUT, I'm cool now. My kids are almost old enough to where I can leave and travel without them. Lmao 30s is my favorite age by far.
9:13 Thats a lot of "like" in your sentences lol. Btw I love your guys video, just remember its your guys life so don't feel pressured by social media or RUclips comments that make you feel like you have to do something. It's your life and your decisions and we should all respect them since we all make our own decisions in life, lol. Love you guys, I know your channel will reach 1 million one day :D
You guys are so cute and I wish you all the happiness and love in the world! I wish the same for everyone who reads this and those who don't read this as well! 💕
I love this type of relationship ❤️❤️ you guys definitely have mature alot. I adore you guys but yess it is your relationship so dont live up to any expectation. Just be you 😊❤️❤️ love ya’ll
i’ve never related to a question more than the one that asked “my boyfriend is not really loving with me, how can i bring it up without sounding selfish?” sooo relatable because me and my bf only had one relationship before we met so we had some sort of experience, but not a ton! and we both said that our relationship is probably the most serious one we’ve ever been in and when we first started out, i most definitely didn’t want to come off as “clingy” since my bf has a more independent personality and because of that i’d always think like “am i not enough or does he not like me as much as i thought” but that certainly wasn’t the case!! we talked it out and now we’re almost two years into our relationship and i’d have to say he’s definitely grown to be more affectionate and “lovey-dovey” with me so i’d just say to communicate with your partner and let them know how you feel because a little affection can go a long way and who knows, they might turn out to be the one who’s more “clingy” hehe
I will advise everyone to look up the 5 love languages because Everyone loves differently. I so agree with you about communication. Communication is the key to every relationship and it’s very important so that all your needs and theirs are fulfilled.
how do I even do that? lol I've tried to come off as not clingy or selfish but then I couldnt hit the target with the main question...How do I talk to him without feeling like I'm being judge?
@@pastrybear131 he has to be willing to listen to you. That way you will feel comfortable talking to him about it. I think he really cares for you. I used to think that i should just keep it to myself bc it's not a big deal. Communicate! He will listen 😊
how proud Jimmy looks when you talk about your square space code without getting confused 🥺🥺
Hana sounds like me and jimmy sounds like my boyfriend 😂 I have realised that he is more distant in our relationship and not as expressive as we have different ideas of loving someone and we have different upbringings. It’s good to take couple steps backwards and see how your partner shows love to you. Even though he doesn’t sound very affectionate, he always eat my carrots (as I dislike them 🙈) and prevents me from falling 🤣 Thank you Hana and Jimmy for the video ❤️❤️
HE EATS YOUR CARROTS I LOVE THAT 😭😭wishing you and your bf so much happiness and love
The way that you both speak so openly about your feelings for each other and your feelings in general has been such a huge help in grounding myself in my relationship. I've struggled with my overly romanticized expectation of love (built up and supported by how relationships are portrayed in movies and tv shows) and it's so unrealistic to hold my own relationship to that. My boyfriend isn't always comfortable in expressing his feelings in these big romantic gestures and that doesn't have to mean he loves me any less. Sometimes what I feel like I'm asking for isn't a lot but it's easy to forget that just because it comes naturally to me, doesn't mean that it's the same for him.
nah don't settle for a guy that doesn't act like he's in love with you. there are men out there who will adore you and wear their hearts on their sleeve
Different love languages? :)
The way Jimmy looks at her 🥰🥰🥰😍💞
I love these sit down chat videos, it really feels like I’m sitting there listening and chatting!!
The last question really hit home for me since I had the same issue with my S.O. at the beginning of our relationship. I think it depends how long it's been since kind of like Jimmy/Hana touched on, the beginning of the relationship is the phase where 2 people are still trying to figure out how to co-exist and grow together but also making sure to grow separately too. I've always been the type to be very vocal and straightforward with affection and any issues with my partner. It took him a while to realize it would help with our communication if he's vocal with affections and issues too. But I also had to realize he's more used to showing that he's loving through gift giving and acts of service and I've made more efforts to show him that I care for him in ways that he's used to being shown he's loved, aka the gift giving and acts of service. Ultimately it requires both parties to sit down, have a conversation (maybe multiple conversations) and work through the issue together through compromise and along the way, getting to know how to help the other person better.
Side note: I love these heart to hana & heart to jana videos, they always give me a lot to think about and makes me grateful for what I have. ❤️
I couldn’t agree more with you. Me and my boyfriend are exactly what u spoke about . Thank you sm for this
As someone who's been in my first relationship since 19 yrs old (im 24 now), I definitely have the thoughts of whether I'm missing out, if it's too late to date again due to inexperience, etc- and it feels like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders to hear a longer-term couple talk about these things. Thank you Jana!!
Too late?? At 24? Nooo! Honey, you have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of your youth left. You have time. Early 20s dating is its own thing and you learn and grow fast, so don’t worry about being behind. As long as you are in touch with yourself and what you want you will be good.
Looking at the past few years, I can see how much you’ve grown Hana, but I can see how much Jimmy has grown too. He is much more accepting of your career and open to your followers than when I first started watching you guys. He seems more comfortable in front of the camera and it really shows how much he respects your career and your followers and that’s awesome to see :)
Aghhh I’ve never been in a relationship so I need all the advice I can get hahaha
live that single lyfe my friend 😗
Sam Elle exactly! Save all these advice for later lol 😂/ be a living relationship advice dictionary to your taken friends lol 😂
Join the squad
Single pringles unite!
Surprised Patrick heck yea Hahahah
i'm in an exact situation right now at the part where hana is focused all on jimmy and feels that he does not love her as much. Sigh, i'm going through the roughest situation with my boyfriend right now and hana's advice just gave me a different perspective on how i can view things differently.
Love this! I really feel like I can relate to you guys 💕 I’m in a 8 yr long relationship where we both met at 17 yrs old... and I was definitely like Hana, clingy and my bf was everything to me. My bf is similar to Jimmy, independent and had strong healthy relationships in other aspects of his life. We’re definitely unlearning and relearning healthy communication and comprehension. Our current and biggest roadblock is individual growth. Really appreciate this kind of content 💕 Relationships are hard, it takes patience, understanding, and effort. Glad to see a strong couple like yourselves have these conversations 💕 Love ya!
For those who feel like their bf is not as loving, I REALLY suggest looking into The 5 Love Languages, it helps immensely to figure out what each persons way of showing love and what to expect is!!
ive been through a breakup and these jana videos helped me sm to reflect and learn from the whole experience. forever thankful for you guys for being so open about everything and giving such mature advice. you two are the cutest and i wish you all the best. you guys deserve the world 🌎🤍✨
you two are the cutest couple ever 😭❤️ i love you & your videos so so much!! congrats on 300k!!!💘🥺
thank you so much grace!
More Q & A’s please!! Love your insight and advice 💘🥺
i shall try! hehe
Thank you guys for always being so vulnerable and transparent with us 🥺 and Hana, GIRRLLLLLLL you look extra beautiful today!! your hair and makeup and everything is just *chef's kiss* hahaha so fresh and clean and lovely 🥰
i love how you guys are so open and honest! i really enjoy these couple talks. but LOL i cant help but realize that hana always has to clarify/explain the question further for jimmy because he doesn't seem to quite grasp what the person is asking lololol xD
Hana and Jimmy's relationship really reminds me of me and my boyfriend's. He's really busy all the time, and it's really difficult for me who loves his time and attention. Thank you for showing us how you guys have grown and dealt with these differences and being an inspiration
I love how you guys are so real which really inspires me and makes me wanna put in more effort in my relationship 🥲
You guys are such a good example of a healthy relationship and growth within a relationship ❤️ I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and it's crazy how much you keep on learning about your partner and yourself year by year
I'm very curious on whether there was a moment/time that you felt that you guys were about to break up & how did you overcome it?
I think they said in a previous one of these videos that they once broke up for like a day or something? When they had a fight but immediately got back together?
hana you look unbelievably STUNNING in this video!!!!
Yess I love these advice videos! Hearing your thoughts is so interesting 💓💓
thanks avia
He has the most purest smile ever
wishing you the best hope you guys stay happy all the time and dont feel pressured!
This is actually the best (relationships) advices video I’ve ever seen. You guys really go in depth with the questions and make it really understandable for the watchers 🥰 thx u! 💕
omg i missed jana vlogs sm x
i love the raw and authentic advice from these videos
i just love hearing them talk its so comforting
Hey Hana, I know this is very specific but I think your eyebrow skills got better! xD They look really good in this one lol
I also think it's really impressive how you guys kept staying in and working on your relationship even though it was so hard at the beginning! Obviously it's different for everyone but I can see how much you both grew as individuals and as a couple! :)
From now on. I'm gonna stan this couple.
Hey i just wanna tell everyone who is reading the comments that you should never give up on youtube no matter how few views or subs you get. Giving up will be the biggest mistake you’ll ever make. I know it’s frustrating to work so hard on a video only to get a few views and barely any comments but trust me, you will get there. I used to have only one person commenting on my videos and I almost gave up but I slowly started gaining more subs and views and now that I look back, I’m so glad i did not give up, and i hope you dont too. Im spreading the word to prevent people from giving up because I believe in all of you. We small youtubers need to stick together and support each other, lift each other up and encourage each other, especially during times like this. ❤️
love this
hai can you guys pls talk about how u guys met in college?? i’m rlly curious & u guys are adorable :3
I think they met in high school ? Maybe I’m wrong :0
They just look so peaceful and content with each other✨🦋
Omg congrats Hana on 300k subs!!! You have become one of my favorite RUclipsrs and I just love how sweet you are!! I love how you make these kinds of videos! You truly are like a big sister here on RUclips!!!
You have no idea how helpful this was ! Tysm for being so open about this. I hope the best for you guys✨✨💘💘
the dynamic here seems as though jimmy is clear in his thought and perspective like about portraying the perfect couple image and then Hana insists on asking the question again to get a different answer that matches hers
you look so beautiful!! & love you guys! i love how honest you are, i feel like a lot of people say they never have thoughts about seeing other people and stuff like that and that is so unrealistic...your opinions are so refreshing 💛
I love the way Jimmy is looking at Hana at the end of the video🥰💕
I really admire you guys. You both sound so mature and you are so honest with each other about your relationship. You are a lovely realistic couple. Thank you for this video !
I love how true and honest you guys are!! Truly inspiring! I can really relate so much with Hana, keep it up guys! Lots of love🥰❤️
I love these videos!! I've had so many toxic relationships so I definitely want something like this in my life one day :)
sorry you had to go through bad relationships :(
thank you for these advice videos hana! they always help me, lately since my boyfriend is home all day he spends it playing video games with his friends and we use to call almost every night when the quarantine first started but now we only send memes, hes not as lovey dovey as before and rarely texts me that he misses me or things like that, and whenever i send him snapchats he just leaves me on read, but now i've realized that i just need to learn to be my own person and find my own hobbies haha
I always watch your videos to help get advice so that I can make my relationship the best and healthiest it can be! Thank you so much ❤️
glad our perspectives can help hehe we definitely don't know everything but hopefully our little knowledge can provide some guidance
been binge watching all your relationship q and a’s and it makes me feel like im not the only one having thoughts like these, in that way i dont think im mentally weird and i wouldnt feel alone ... if that makes sense...
watching hana youtube channel make me always take noted all her advice 😍since i’ve never been in relationship since my secondary school because im afraid if i hurt other or my feeling again anyway thanks hana and jimmy for the good advice and video
wow just when i was binge watching all of your relationship advice videos and finished watching all of em and was waiting for another one you uploaded one!!THANK U SO MUCH HANA I LOVE UR VIDEOS SO MUCH AND I LOVE YOU TOO!!!LOTS AND LOTS OF LOVE FROM BANGLADESH💗💕💖💓💕💖💗💕💓💞💖💓💕💕💞💕💖💕
I can't wait to have girlfriend and make use of these advices.
Ishi Peace great dude, hopefully you get one :)
@@mish3916 thank you dude :)
same but with a boyfriend abjhjkadn
You look beautiful Hana!!!!!!! The make-up, hair and outfit are all on point!
Why are you so cute🥺🥺🥺 and You look so in love🥺
aw haha i love him he's a cutie weirdo!
Really had the urge to sew up Jimmy's hat throughout the whole video
The cutest couple 💞
i loved this video!! congrats on hitting 300k hana ❤️
Love this open and heart to heart convo! 💕 Thanks for sharing & uploading!
congrats on 300k!! u deserve so much
OMGG NEW VIDEO 💗 commenting before i watch but i love these videos soooo much thanks for making another one 🥺
Omggg ya'll have the loveliest smiles 🥰
Missing you, glad to see thisss!
congrats on 300k subscribers !!
thank you julia!
Hi hana! always love ur videos and congrats on 300k! 🥰 i hope you and jimmy are doing well
Congratulations on 300k Hana ❤
thank you so much!
3:19 my favorite part lol
You guys are so precious love ya🌿
you look exceptionally pretty here Hana
06:40 I totally know that face Hana, my bf just makes the same back at me when I do 🤣🤣🤣
Sometimes I want to be young again and didnt have kids so soon. BUT, I'm cool now. My kids are almost old enough to where I can leave and travel without them. Lmao 30s is my favorite age by far.
9:13 Thats a lot of "like" in your sentences lol. Btw I love your guys video, just remember its your guys life so don't feel pressured by social media or RUclips comments that make you feel like you have to do something. It's your life and your decisions and we should all respect them since we all make our own decisions in life, lol. Love you guys, I know your channel will reach 1 million one day :D
i love your heart to hana/jana videos!!!!
dawwww
hiii new youtuber here ❤️👋
this video is so sweet and helpful! thanks for being so real and you guys are adorable ahhh 💕💕💕
This video made me want to find a partner like them🥺❤️
Congrats on 300K Subbies!🤗
omg i don't know why but the way you laughed 3:19 reminded me of joy red velvet :)))))
i feel so so related with Hana...really... im exactly on the same spot that Hana years ago. Thank you both, love you
I love your outfits and these videos! 💙
thank you :33
Congrats on 300k subscribers!
thank you emily!
I'm learning so much from you guys. Thank you so much!!!
I love these heart to videos! solid advice, thanks! 🌷💕
Ughhhhhh love the videoooooo you guys are so cute !!!
my computer paused on 4:48 it so cutee omgg i was like omg when i opened my computer back up
0:23 THE WAY HE LOOK AT HER 😭
You two are so cute 💕 Hope you stay safe and healthy and have a nice summer =)
hana always explaining what the questions are actually asking to JImmy hahaha
“Whoa whoa whoa” haha my fav part 🤍 영상 잘 봤어요 :)
The way jimmy looks at youuuuu. U guys are so adorable💕
You guys are so cute and I wish you all the happiness and love in the world! I wish the same for everyone who reads this and those who don't read this as well! 💕
Welp I'm single AF, but still gonna chime in and give my support though!!
I clicked so click before my morning walk ☺️👏🏽✨
AW HEHE
You two are my favorite couple! I love you from Japan ❤︎
두분이서 너무 닮았아요!! 귀여운 커플...💗
I'm so happy I love your videoss❤️
thank you
I love your videos, guys. Kisses and hugs from Venezuela
HANA YOU LOOK SO CUTE
(Jimmy too)
Gosh I love u guys so much
I loved this couple!!! 💜💜💜
Hana you’re soooo pretty
ayyy another cute video!
Hana you look so beautiful in this video💕
this shirt looks so good on you hana omg 💕💕
You look soo gorgeous Hana 😍❤️❤️
y'all are so cute omg :)
thank you thank youuuu
I love this type of relationship ❤️❤️ you guys definitely have mature alot. I adore you guys but yess it is your relationship so dont live up to any expectation. Just be you 😊❤️❤️ love ya’ll