I'm asexual, and can confirm that you absolutely CAN fall in love with someone without being sexually attracted to them. That said, if I found out my partner was REPULSED by intimacy with me, I would immediately end the relationship.
You'll have to correct me if I'm wrong. It's kinda like how with demisexual that the personality matters more than the sexual attraction, right? (Though obviously without the sexual attraction)
@@lina9535 That seems about accurate, yeah 😊 You're in love with the person they are and they still give you that feeling of being in love. It's just not accompanied by any particular desire for sex.
I work in HR and you wouldn't believe the amount of people who don't update their benefits and beneficiaries when they have life events. I've had where an employee passed and had a whole wife and kids that were young, he never updated his beneficiary from his parents....who refused to give the money to his now widow and kids. Yall, pleaseeeeeee know your benefits pleaseeeeeee. But ya OP, keep that bag in this case!
The first story made me sick to my stomach. Idk if this applies in all states in the U.S. but if your partner that you are married to cheats during your marriage, and uses from the family finances to fund the extramarital affair, then they have to reimburse all funds used to fund the affair back to the "family estate". So technically, she can argue that the debt is his alone. I'm just gonna use this opportunity to say that if this is not the case in your state, then just get a prenup or postnup and have this as one of the clauses in it.
The way these men talk about their wives🥹 I love how committed they are to their respective people is so pure and honestly just adorable! Shout out to Juliet and Nancy for bagging men who treat them the way they deserve💅🏼 also sienna because josh is precious little bean of a man as well!
Apparently in a lot of the cultures where women have a more traditional role in the house, they are also in charge of the finances, including sometimes even receiving his paychecks in full and giving him an allowance LMAO.. I think that's a better way to do it. Honestly. Men should not be solely in charge of finances just because they're the only one working outside of the home. The person keeping the home knows more about the household expenses than he does, so she really should be the one in charge
That’s how the samurai operated. It was considered vulgar for men of the samurai class to concern themselves with money, because it was associated with the (lower) merchant class. So a samurai’s finances were handled behind the scenes by his wife and the finances and resources of his fief (if he was a high ranking lord) were handled by advisors.
I've always found the whole "men and women can't be friends" thing so ridiculous, it's very clearly based on only heteronormative standards/attraction 😂 cus ya know, gay men, lesbians, bisexuals etc all exist. Oh and what about us nonbinary folk? I'M NOT ALLOWED TO BE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE 😭 (and I'm bisexual as well, so ya know, forever friendless I guess? 🤣)
Listening to the first story, especially when she said her husband cheated, I got family annihilator vibes. He probably wasn't planning that but that's where my kind went. It always takes me a second to remember they're talking about adults when they call the women, girls
It could be very unusual, it probably is actually, but I wasn't attracted to my husband when I first met him, either. As I got to know him, I became more and more attracted to him. I loved his extremely strange personality, and the rest fell into place. I'd never ever say I found him repulsive, but, idk. That's rough. 😬.
I also find people more physically attractive the more I get to know their personality, that being said I don't think I would date someone I found truly "repulsive" thats a bit extreme, I would never say that to someone's face either, just rude.
Girl I’m with you. I wasn’t overly attracted to my Husband either but I fell in love with who he was which made me more attracted to him …and honestly everything else fell into place like you said!!!
While I agree having a “work wife” is out of order. If my ultimatum is talk to you via messenger or cooked lunch everyday, you will not like the answer. I have been making my own food since I was 12, home cooked food will get you a lot in my world haha
One time my ex got a photo on Snapchat from a girl who had just gotten her boobs done, and he screenshotted it. When she saw that he had screenshotted, she got mad at him and threatened to tell me. He was like, ".... I screenshotted it so I could show her that you were sending me semi-nude photos" 😂
Idk how I feel about calling the bf in the work wife story naive. It’s in the same vein as “boys will be boys”. It takes them off the hook for their actions and gives them less responsibility. Would you say the same if it was the genders were swapped? I think he knew what he was going and that’s why he didn’t say anything about the situation for so long. I know y’all don’t have bad intentions and I thought sharing my thoughts would help if you’re looking to grow in your feminist view points.
I think the husband on the first story meant he found her physically repulsive, because he makes the comment about the first night they spent together, so I suppose he means they slept together. First of all, the word repulsive is really harsh - as a fat woman, I constantly think about myself that way and if someone I love and share intimacy with ever called me that, I would never be able to be intimate with them or confident around them again. Also, the way he made that comment in front of his family is so mean.
Work spouse is emotional cheating and has built-in gaslighting (" you're overreacting. We never did anything") , and is DEFINITELY grounds for breaking up.
My bf of 7yrs also forbids me to have male friends.🙄 He says it's a non-negotiable for him. He also says that "no man is just friends with a woman". He says "all men have an ulterior motive". He sticks to this 'rule' of his, too. When we first met, my bff was a guy who I've known since I was 5yo. We never so much as kissed. We just weren't like that. We were truly JUST friends.😔 My bf waited until we were serious and had been together a while to put this 'rule' into place & made me cut contact. I felt stuck between a rock and a hard place, but ultimately chose my bf.💔😭 Now, I could kick my own ass bc I also took him up on being the homemaker/SAHM of his 2 kids & my kid; but now I'm super unhappy, emotionally abused & don't have the means to leave.🤦🏽♀️
I'm so sorry to hear that. If you don't have anyone you can stay with, I recommend opening a bank account that he doesn't know about. Put in whatever change you find around the house. When you're grocery shopping, take cash back and put that in, too. Slowly but surely, you'll be able to get what you need to leave. Or if you have access to a joint account, take it and run. Even if you're forced to pay it back later by the courts, it'll probably take months and by then you'll be in a better position. They won't make you pay it back all at once.
@@hopelessromantic3786 taking the $$ & running would be the only option for me. He won’t leave so much as a penny laying around & watches the bank like a hawk.🤦🏽♀️ I also have no access to the debit card to even get cash back. He does ALL the things that include exchanging any $$. Groceries, bills, clothes, gas, etc. I am on the account but not “allowed” to have my own atm/debit card. I have a decent car (2012 Kia Forte w/only 80k miles on it) that I inherited last June. I got to drive it about 5 times before he “needed it for work” bc he had a flat tire. So, he drove my car into the ground, trashed the brakes & somehow managed to make the brake lights not work.🤨🤦🏽♀️ As soon as my car was trash, he went & got new tires.🤬 Now, I have no way to get away. The thing that makes me the most furious is that I can go from wanting to leave & absolutely hating him to wanting nothing more than to be with him.🤦🏽♀️ Ik I’m in perimenopause and it can really fk up your emotions; but these feelings have been fluctuating since 2016.💔 Part of me recognizes it for the narcissistic abuse it is, but the other part questions if my past trauma is what makes me feel like it’s abuse. I question myself constantly because of it all.💔 Sorry. I don’t mean to trauma dump here.
@@RedditOnWiki 1 hour and 6 minutes to go 😂 Fun Pun for Sean - I once entered ten puns in a pun contest. I thought at least one would win an award, but no pun in ten did. 😎
I’m listening to the second story and I guess I just want to know if this is normal. When I first met my now boyfriend I liked his friend group and I wanted to hang out with them because I was New, so I wanted to start making friends and I liked him and one other girl in the friend group, so I started hanging out with another person involved with them. I wanted to be included badly, I have to add that I am totally blind, but I guess I either rushed into wanting to get to know them, or they just didn’t want to get to know me like that, or possibly both. However one day they were planning to watch a movie at my now boyfriend’s house with the entire friend group and I asked if I could join to which he said no. He made up some excuse about how his house isn’t very accessible to blind people which doesn’t make sense because You can easily get down the layout of a house as a blind person. Then there was an incident later on when we were playing games before a show and him and a girl that I spent my rehearsal days and the show days with started to play banana grams with Raised tiles I may add. After a solid five minutes of watching from my chair. I asked if I could join and he said “um… this game isn’t necessarily for blind people… sorry”. I waited two seconds and then I said, “can I see the tiles?” They let me see one and I realized that they were raised and I can read printed letters, not in cursive if they’re raised because my mom taught me how to read them as a child since I had puzzles with letters like that, so I told them to hand me a bunch and I just started calling out each letter and asking them if I was right which I kept getting them all correct. So then I decided OK then I guess I’m just going to join in on the game. He felt a little bit awkward after that and I do remember that specific day, he did not have my number at the time so the girl I was with for that show texted me after and said “sorry for not including you, we didn’t mean to do that”. Fast forward to months later he started to actually talk to me and open up to me. When I asked why, he all of a sudden started doing this after he came back from a Europe trip, he said that he figured that since I was already friends with a big portion of his friend group, he might as well open up to me because he didn’t think that it would be fair for him to make things awkward and maybe warming up to me wasn’t so bad after all, which I can respect, because yes, he was right. I am a good friend to one of his best friends, but I do have to admit that for the longest time I hated him because he made me feel awful without really knowing it. I’ve opened up to him a little bit about it, and he said that he was just nervous, because I am totally blind and he’s never really interacted with someone like that so he was just scared, and he didn’t really know how to act. I have to say that he has something on the autism spectrum which doesn’t excuse much. But it could explain something. I guess I’m highly paranoid now because even though we’ve gotten closer and obviously we’re dating now, I want to know if it’s normal for people to be put off by a physical disability. I struggled for the longest time making friends and I had a terrible friendship with two very terrible people this year, but again my disability was brought up. So now I’m highly paranoid about being a burden or possibly pushing away people once they know I’m totally blind. Is it normal to be that repulsed by someone’s vision impairment, hearing impairment, or mobility issues or is it just my toxic school’s culture?
I'm brazilian where education is free. I didn't pay a single cent for dental school. I'm moving to Canada and interested in getting my master's and phd and the shock of having to pay for it is REAL
Pinay listener here. Financial literacy is also non-existent here, and talking about money is taboo. I grew up in a household where we always struggled with money but we kids never really understood why, since we were helping out the best way we can. Luckily, my sisters and I broke that cycle and we're in a good place. My non-negotiable before getting married was sitting down with my fiancé and figuring out our finances and our 5year and 10year plan.
While i can find people physically attractive, physical attraction is so low in importance in attraction that i dont really take it into consideration on how attracted i am to my partner. I dont really understand those who put so much importance on physical attraction. That being said, i point out what i am attracted to. Hype your partner up.
Imagine if the US cut a bit of the taxes that go to the military and put them to making school (or healthcare) affordable. Wouldn't that just be amazing?
Oooh the work wife story sucks. I was the work wife once (I had a few work husbands lols) but I’ve always put boundaries in place with these dudes, like we can be close besties at work but we’re not together, we will never be together and I respect your partner and relationship. My first work husband though, he had a gf before we met and he started getting closer to me and called me his work wife and always joked we would get together one day (red flag I know but I was 17) but I would always shut him down. Anyways I met his partner at a work party and she HATED me for like a year… eventually I made sure to show her that I had no romantic interest in him and I supported them and what not, and she came around to like me which was nice… I originally thought she was just insecure but he went on to cheat on her for like 4 years 😩 we haven’t worked together for ages but I started distancing myself from him when he started actively cheating (the first time was a one off thing with a coworker of ours who was leaving, I disapproved obvsly but he makes his own decisions, then a few months later he tells me he wants to cheat again and was basically wanting me to tell it was okay? Which obvsly I would not. So he cheated again … and then again etc.) so we haven’t really been close in a long time. They bought a house together and then had a kid (gorgeous child but idk why he thought that was a good idea?). Idk this is just a confession for anyone that wants to read it, I’ve always felt guilty not telling his partner that he was cheating, it definitely wasn’t my place and I was his friend and only her acquaintance… like it definitely wasn’t my place but I always felt bad.
Ngl you kinda should feel bad. I'm so tired of people letting their bum friends get away with being scummy just because they decided it's not their problem. No one telling her forever changed the course of her life. That's awful.
I'm asexual, and can confirm that you absolutely CAN fall in love with someone without being sexually attracted to them. That said, if I found out my partner was REPULSED by intimacy with me, I would immediately end the relationship.
You'll have to correct me if I'm wrong.
It's kinda like how with demisexual that the personality matters more than the sexual attraction, right? (Though obviously without the sexual attraction)
@@lina9535 That seems about accurate, yeah 😊 You're in love with the person they are and they still give you that feeling of being in love. It's just not accompanied by any particular desire for sex.
I work in HR and you wouldn't believe the amount of people who don't update their benefits and beneficiaries when they have life events. I've had where an employee passed and had a whole wife and kids that were young, he never updated his beneficiary from his parents....who refused to give the money to his now widow and kids. Yall, pleaseeeeeee know your benefits pleaseeeeeee. But ya OP, keep that bag in this case!
The first story made me sick to my stomach. Idk if this applies in all states in the U.S. but if your partner that you are married to cheats during your marriage, and uses from the family finances to fund the extramarital affair, then they have to reimburse all funds used to fund the affair back to the "family estate". So technically, she can argue that the debt is his alone. I'm just gonna use this opportunity to say that if this is not the case in your state, then just get a prenup or postnup and have this as one of the clauses in it.
The way these men talk about their wives🥹 I love how committed they are to their respective people is so pure and honestly just adorable! Shout out to Juliet and Nancy for bagging men who treat them the way they deserve💅🏼 also sienna because josh is precious little bean of a man as well!
A drunk man words are a sober man's thoughts.
Apparently in a lot of the cultures where women have a more traditional role in the house, they are also in charge of the finances, including sometimes even receiving his paychecks in full and giving him an allowance LMAO.. I think that's a better way to do it. Honestly. Men should not be solely in charge of finances just because they're the only one working outside of the home. The person keeping the home knows more about the household expenses than he does, so she really should be the one in charge
That's how it used to be, even in the US.
Man brings home check, wife brings check to bank. (Don't know why I went neanderthal there 😂)
That’s how the samurai operated. It was considered vulgar for men of the samurai class to concern themselves with money, because it was associated with the (lower) merchant class. So a samurai’s finances were handled behind the scenes by his wife and the finances and resources of his fief (if he was a high ranking lord) were handled by advisors.
I've always found the whole "men and women can't be friends" thing so ridiculous, it's very clearly based on only heteronormative standards/attraction 😂 cus ya know, gay men, lesbians, bisexuals etc all exist. Oh and what about us nonbinary folk? I'M NOT ALLOWED TO BE FRIENDS WITH ANYONE 😭 (and I'm bisexual as well, so ya know, forever friendless I guess? 🤣)
lol men won't be friends with Lesbians they are attracted to. They consider it a tease.
This this this! Signed bi gal
Whaaaa more stories in Tagalog!!! I’m Filipino on my mom’s side. So cool to hear you all speak and translate Tagalog!
Listening to the first story, especially when she said her husband cheated, I got family annihilator vibes. He probably wasn't planning that but that's where my kind went.
It always takes me a second to remember they're talking about adults when they call the women, girls
It could be very unusual, it probably is actually, but I wasn't attracted to my husband when I first met him, either. As I got to know him, I became more and more attracted to him. I loved his extremely strange personality, and the rest fell into place. I'd never ever say I found him repulsive, but, idk. That's rough. 😬.
I also find people more physically attractive the more I get to know their personality, that being said I don't think I would date someone I found truly "repulsive" thats a bit extreme, I would never say that to someone's face either, just rude.
@@missm.e9914 Agreed!
Girl I’m with you. I wasn’t overly attracted to my Husband either but I fell in love with who he was which made me more attracted to him …and honestly everything else fell into place like you said!!!
@@missm.e9914There have been plenty of people i didn’t really get the hype for and then i just grew to find them physically attractive.
While I agree having a “work wife” is out of order. If my ultimatum is talk to you via messenger or cooked lunch everyday, you will not like the answer.
I have been making my own food since I was 12, home cooked food will get you a lot in my world haha
plot twist, last story gf unalived OP's ex FOR the payout but sweet sweet poetic justice was served instead
NO WAY!!! 😮
@@amym4396 only in my imagination, so far...
One time my ex got a photo on Snapchat from a girl who had just gotten her boobs done, and he screenshotted it. When she saw that he had screenshotted, she got mad at him and threatened to tell me. He was like, ".... I screenshotted it so I could show her that you were sending me semi-nude photos" 😂
LOL at Sean saying “put a kebab in that” instead of “put the kibosh on that” 😂 Love you Sean!
Idk how I feel about calling the bf in the work wife story naive. It’s in the same vein as “boys will be boys”. It takes them off the hook for their actions and gives them less responsibility. Would you say the same if it was the genders were swapped? I think he knew what he was going and that’s why he didn’t say anything about the situation for so long. I know y’all don’t have bad intentions and I thought sharing my thoughts would help if you’re looking to grow in your feminist view points.
I think the husband on the first story meant he found her physically repulsive, because he makes the comment about the first night they spent together, so I suppose he means they slept together.
First of all, the word repulsive is really harsh - as a fat woman, I constantly think about myself that way and if someone I love and share intimacy with ever called me that, I would never be able to be intimate with them or confident around them again. Also, the way he made that comment in front of his family is so mean.
Work spouse is emotional cheating and has built-in gaslighting (" you're overreacting. We never did anything") , and is DEFINITELY grounds for breaking up.
My bf of 7yrs also forbids me to have male friends.🙄 He says it's a non-negotiable for him. He also says that "no man is just friends with a woman". He says "all men have an ulterior motive". He sticks to this 'rule' of his, too. When we first met, my bff was a guy who I've known since I was 5yo. We never so much as kissed. We just weren't like that. We were truly JUST friends.😔
My bf waited until we were serious and had been together a while to put this 'rule' into place & made me cut contact. I felt stuck between a rock and a hard place, but ultimately chose my bf.💔😭
Now, I could kick my own ass bc I also took him up on being the homemaker/SAHM of his 2 kids & my kid; but now I'm super unhappy, emotionally abused & don't have the means to leave.🤦🏽♀️
I'm so sorry to hear that. If you don't have anyone you can stay with, I recommend opening a bank account that he doesn't know about. Put in whatever change you find around the house. When you're grocery shopping, take cash back and put that in, too. Slowly but surely, you'll be able to get what you need to leave. Or if you have access to a joint account, take it and run. Even if you're forced to pay it back later by the courts, it'll probably take months and by then you'll be in a better position. They won't make you pay it back all at once.
@@hopelessromantic3786 taking the $$ & running would be the only option for me. He won’t leave so much as a penny laying around & watches the bank like a hawk.🤦🏽♀️ I also have no access to the debit card to even get cash back. He does ALL the things that include exchanging any $$. Groceries, bills, clothes, gas, etc. I am on the account but not “allowed” to have my own atm/debit card. I have a decent car (2012 Kia Forte w/only 80k miles on it) that I inherited last June. I got to drive it about 5 times before he “needed it for work” bc he had a flat tire. So, he drove my car into the ground, trashed the brakes & somehow managed to make the brake lights not work.🤨🤦🏽♀️ As soon as my car was trash, he went & got new tires.🤬 Now, I have no way to get away.
The thing that makes me the most furious is that I can go from wanting to leave & absolutely hating him to wanting nothing more than to be with him.🤦🏽♀️ Ik I’m in perimenopause and it can really fk up your emotions; but these feelings have been fluctuating since 2016.💔 Part of me recognizes it for the narcissistic abuse it is, but the other part questions if my past trauma is what makes me feel like it’s abuse. I question myself constantly because of it all.💔 Sorry. I don’t mean to trauma dump here.
I’m literally counting down minutes for this to post. Atm 2 hours and 17 minutes. Sonic voice - I’m waaaaiting 😂
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@@RedditOnWiki 1 hour and 6 minutes to go 😂 Fun Pun for Sean - I once entered ten puns in a pun contest. I thought at least one would win an award, but no pun in ten did. 😎
@@stevierose6066 this is a masterpiece 👏👏👏
Will send thirsty comments to John and Sean if we bring back Weds episodes! Also, loved Kevin being part of the reading!! 😍
I’m listening to the second story and I guess I just want to know if this is normal. When I first met my now boyfriend I liked his friend group and I wanted to hang out with them because I was New, so I wanted to start making friends and I liked him and one other girl in the friend group, so I started hanging out with another person involved with them. I wanted to be included badly, I have to add that I am totally blind, but I guess I either rushed into wanting to get to know them, or they just didn’t want to get to know me like that, or possibly both. However one day they were planning to watch a movie at my now boyfriend’s house with the entire friend group and I asked if I could join to which he said no. He made up some excuse about how his house isn’t very accessible to blind people which doesn’t make sense because You can easily get down the layout of a house as a blind person. Then there was an incident later on when we were playing games before a show and him and a girl that I spent my rehearsal days and the show days with started to play banana grams with Raised tiles I may add. After a solid five minutes of watching from my chair. I asked if I could join and he said “um… this game isn’t necessarily for blind people… sorry”. I waited two seconds and then I said, “can I see the tiles?” They let me see one and I realized that they were raised and I can read printed letters, not in cursive if they’re raised because my mom taught me how to read them as a child since I had puzzles with letters like that, so I told them to hand me a bunch and I just started calling out each letter and asking them if I was right which I kept getting them all correct. So then I decided OK then I guess I’m just going to join in on the game. He felt a little bit awkward after that and I do remember that specific day, he did not have my number at the time so the girl I was with for that show texted me after and said “sorry for not including you, we didn’t mean to do that”. Fast forward to months later he started to actually talk to me and open up to me. When I asked why, he all of a sudden started doing this after he came back from a Europe trip, he said that he figured that since I was already friends with a big portion of his friend group, he might as well open up to me because he didn’t think that it would be fair for him to make things awkward and maybe warming up to me wasn’t so bad after all, which I can respect, because yes, he was right. I am a good friend to one of his best friends, but I do have to admit that for the longest time I hated him because he made me feel awful without really knowing it. I’ve opened up to him a little bit about it, and he said that he was just nervous, because I am totally blind and he’s never really interacted with someone like that so he was just scared, and he didn’t really know how to act. I have to say that he has something on the autism spectrum which doesn’t excuse much. But it could explain something. I guess I’m highly paranoid now because even though we’ve gotten closer and obviously we’re dating now, I want to know if it’s normal for people to be put off by a physical disability. I struggled for the longest time making friends and I had a terrible friendship with two very terrible people this year, but again my disability was brought up. So now I’m highly paranoid about being a burden or possibly pushing away people once they know I’m totally blind. Is it normal to be that repulsed by someone’s vision impairment, hearing impairment, or mobility issues or is it just my toxic school’s culture?
I'm brazilian where education is free. I didn't pay a single cent for dental school. I'm moving to Canada and interested in getting my master's and phd and the shock of having to pay for it is REAL
Pinay listener here. Financial literacy is also non-existent here, and talking about money is taboo. I grew up in a household where we always struggled with money but we kids never really understood why, since we were helping out the best way we can. Luckily, my sisters and I broke that cycle and we're in a good place. My non-negotiable before getting married was sitting down with my fiancé and figuring out our finances and our 5year and 10year plan.
i’m always surprised when someone pronounces my name right first time
While i can find people physically attractive, physical attraction is so low in importance in attraction that i dont really take it into consideration on how attracted i am to my partner. I dont really understand those who put so much importance on physical attraction. That being said, i point out what i am attracted to. Hype your partner up.
Imagine if the US cut a bit of the taxes that go to the military and put them to making school (or healthcare) affordable.
Wouldn't that just be amazing?
Oooh the work wife story sucks. I was the work wife once (I had a few work husbands lols) but I’ve always put boundaries in place with these dudes, like we can be close besties at work but we’re not together, we will never be together and I respect your partner and relationship. My first work husband though, he had a gf before we met and he started getting closer to me and called me his work wife and always joked we would get together one day (red flag I know but I was 17) but I would always shut him down. Anyways I met his partner at a work party and she HATED me for like a year… eventually I made sure to show her that I had no romantic interest in him and I supported them and what not, and she came around to like me which was nice… I originally thought she was just insecure but he went on to cheat on her for like 4 years 😩 we haven’t worked together for ages but I started distancing myself from him when he started actively cheating (the first time was a one off thing with a coworker of ours who was leaving, I disapproved obvsly but he makes his own decisions, then a few months later he tells me he wants to cheat again and was basically wanting me to tell it was okay? Which obvsly I would not. So he cheated again … and then again etc.) so we haven’t really been close in a long time. They bought a house together and then had a kid (gorgeous child but idk why he thought that was a good idea?). Idk this is just a confession for anyone that wants to read it, I’ve always felt guilty not telling his partner that he was cheating, it definitely wasn’t my place and I was his friend and only her acquaintance… like it definitely wasn’t my place but I always felt bad.
Ngl you kinda should feel bad. I'm so tired of people letting their bum friends get away with being scummy just because they decided it's not their problem. No one telling her forever changed the course of her life. That's awful.
Story 2- so the husband is a funny lady? Lol sorry had to play on the wording of that
I for one would love to hear your hot takes on the squared circle!
Kevin is getting so big!!
Omg… you guys are ridiiiiculous 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 (about 37:00)
Hey guys!!!
Hi Pam 👋😊
Yall take forever to get to the damn story
Hmmm wondering who forced you to take out student loans?
L take