30 Things I Wish I Knew In My 30s

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  • Опубликовано: 13 янв 2025

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  • @ALifeEngineered
    @ALifeEngineered  3 месяца назад +3

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  • @Jason-pd1ic
    @Jason-pd1ic 3 месяца назад +73

    0:02 1. Your 30s are better than your 20s
    0:11 2. Don't take advice from people haven't failed
    0:42 3. Change or learn to live with it
    1:18 4. Learn to regulate your emotions
    1:47 5. Take care of your body
    2:05 6. You're not going to stop growing and changing
    2:34 7. Get better at learning new thing
    2:58 8. Wear sunscreen
    3:10 9. Don't try to time things
    3:57 10. You don't have infinite time with your family
    4:17 11. Stop being a people pleaser
    5:12 12. FREE time magement templates
    6:30 13. Don't only do things you're good at
    6:53 14. Put in the extra effort to make friends
    7:35 15. Cure for burnout is gratitude
    8:04 16. You will be the new guy many times
    8:31 17. Be open to new music
    8:56 18. Don't procastinate on your errands
    9:20 19. Start saving a little bit now
    9:45 20. Buy experiences
    10:10 21. Don't take advice about your quarter life crisis from someone who is in their quarter life
    10:28 22. Embrace the power of a strategic nap
    10:36 23. Trade time for money
    11:03 24. Journal regularly
    11:25 25. You will lose some close friends
    11:45 26. Find your tribe
    12:11 27. Don't defer a celebration
    12:40 28. Embrace your inner child
    12:53 29. Boredom is totally ok
    13:16 30. Read more books
    13:58 31. Curate your digital life
    14:14 32. Invest in your bed and ergonomics
    14:45 33. Work on yourself first
    15:15 34. Success is how you define it
    15:30 35. Check out other videos

  • @ovflowd
    @ovflowd 3 месяца назад +69

    Seeing my employer sponsoring A Life Engineered. What a time to be alive.

    • @iohin
      @iohin 3 месяца назад +1

      Loved reading Disrupted: My Misadventure in the Start-Up Bubble
      Book by Daniel Lyons! ❤️

    • @indianfyre
      @indianfyre 2 месяца назад

      Hook up the Hubspot referrals then...😅

  • @RealJustinZiegler
    @RealJustinZiegler 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @ThisIsntmyrealnameGoogle
    @ThisIsntmyrealnameGoogle 3 месяца назад +35

    "I actually worked on the first kindle for amazon" out of no where is the coolest flex I've seen in a long time

  • @mse312
    @mse312 3 месяца назад +29

    Your videos are so different from majority of youtube content. I dont know how to explain it but they feel so genuine and straight to the point

  • @cloudwithraj
    @cloudwithraj 3 месяца назад +7

    #27 is so true, we must celebrate success before next life stressor comes, and #28 is the reason a good mechanical watch is worth getting over quartz. Good one Steve 🙌

  • @yang5843
    @yang5843 3 месяца назад +15

    The sunscreen tip is underrated, protect your skin!

  • @s.sviatoslav
    @s.sviatoslav 3 месяца назад +5

    Watching this in my 30s really resonates with me! Some of the advice I’ve come across before but didn’t take seriously at the time, while other insights are brand new to me. Either way, I’m so grateful for this, and I truly believe it’s going to make a positive impact on my future. Thanks for sharing!

  • @peter11256
    @peter11256 3 месяца назад +2

    You are awesome, Steve. Please keep on pumping this golden content.

  • @dthx2710
    @dthx2710 3 месяца назад +1

    2nd week into my first job, #16 really struck a chord in me as I was struggling with unrealistic expectations for myself plus the fear of letting others down
    Thanks again for the great advices

  • @DebanjanSaha-i3b
    @DebanjanSaha-i3b 2 месяца назад +2

    Man, I love your content. Keep doing what you do. Best.

  • @JeffSu
    @JeffSu 3 месяца назад +4

    1:58 - So that's why I was the manual labor in helping you setup your studio... 😏. Loving the setup Steve!!!

    • @shrutipandey8696
      @shrutipandey8696 3 месяца назад +1

      Haha, Steve's back thanks you. I guess :p

  • @eowynMR
    @eowynMR 2 месяца назад +1

    Steve, thanks for advices! This video resonates with me. I'm in my second half of the 30th and for lots of tips I was "so true!" especially about music from your 20th - lol. Like I listen to new music, but hearing music from my late teens, early 20s makes me so nostalgic!

  • @obinyanraphael6182
    @obinyanraphael6182 3 месяца назад +3

    I Love the fact that there was no mombojombo intro to this video! and I repreat, I love the fact that there was no intro in this video

  • @kingkaixyz
    @kingkaixyz 3 месяца назад +2

    Steve, your videos always bring some peace and clarity to my life when it's really rough.
    Really appreciate the good content you put out and I hope you know how much it helps.

  • @KevinNaughtonJr
    @KevinNaughtonJr 2 месяца назад +1

    banger vid steve

  • @tobaadesanya32
    @tobaadesanya32 3 месяца назад +6

    Haha! 😂 Love the browser bookmark jab! I'm 28 and I felt that. Lol! 😅

  • @AhBoyInUSA
    @AhBoyInUSA 3 месяца назад +3

    I’m in my mid 30s and some of these are hitting me hard. “Don’t be people pleaser” is so true when you realize not everyone at work will like you, you just need to stay true to yourself

  • @ThatMarkGilroy
    @ThatMarkGilroy 3 месяца назад +1

    This was awesome Steve. Great advice.

  • @harisha.g4792
    @harisha.g4792 3 месяца назад

    I was really seeking for such an advice since a while and I am so happy, grateful that you posted it!
    I can already relate to many things!!

  • @t.b.6600
    @t.b.6600 3 месяца назад +1

    Although this is out of the software wheelhouse I subscribed for, I actually really appreciate this video. Thank you.

  • @jhors7777
    @jhors7777 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks so much, Steve. Great content and great channel.

  • @isaacdouglas1119
    @isaacdouglas1119 3 месяца назад +3

    He never misses...

  • @gabrielfono844
    @gabrielfono844 3 месяца назад

    I really love your content.
    As self taught developer and someone who worked super hard to get there , your tips and tricks are very valuable to me.
    I appreciate.

  • @xordux7
    @xordux7 3 месяца назад +1

    As always, top notch video 👏👏

  • @matthewbridges3147
    @matthewbridges3147 2 месяца назад

    Wonderful video, great lessons

  • @xthaone
    @xthaone 3 месяца назад +1

    Agree with the Seattle Freeze lol.
    I grew up in WA state my whole life before moving to Seattle for college and work, but I often see transplants struggle to make friends and give a bad word about Seattle.

  • @oscarleon3008
    @oscarleon3008 3 месяца назад +1

    Great advice, thank you for posting this.

  • @nishantj693
    @nishantj693 3 месяца назад +1

    Damn, so much insights in a few lines... The first 30s made me like the video

  • @srikanthboddapati3832
    @srikanthboddapati3832 3 месяца назад

    Excellent advice!

  • @yongnianzheng6078
    @yongnianzheng6078 3 месяца назад

    I'm 27 and it's really helpful. Thank you

  • @iStorm-my5fp
    @iStorm-my5fp 17 дней назад +1

    Highly underrated video

  • @carlosirias4474
    @carlosirias4474 3 месяца назад

    Great video. Thanks.

  • @MarcusSanatan
    @MarcusSanatan 2 месяца назад

    As a 30+ engineer, thanks man. Really appreciated this vid 🙏

  • @therealraymondjones
    @therealraymondjones 3 месяца назад +1

    Another super helpful video 🙏, +1 Strategic nappping

  • @glenchaku9536
    @glenchaku9536 3 месяца назад

    really solid advice

  • @arunkutube
    @arunkutube 3 месяца назад +1

    lol, i felt the same, advices from people who only saw success never works for me.

  • @felipefregginrules
    @felipefregginrules 3 месяца назад

    Spot on :) thanks so much

  • @thejumpingtoad3167
    @thejumpingtoad3167 2 месяца назад +1

    What watch are you wearing? Looks nice

  • @nw6358
    @nw6358 Месяц назад +1

    damn these some great tips

  • @edanparker9273
    @edanparker9273 3 месяца назад +1

    thanks uncle Steve

  • @iohin
    @iohin 3 месяца назад

    2:20 there is a 42% divorce rate in they US. When you are recommending to embrace change are you recommending to embrace both the marriage and the divorce? Thanks!

  • @cakei1580
    @cakei1580 3 месяца назад +4

    thank you for the wisdom unc 😼👍

  • @new_skyspirit
    @new_skyspirit 3 месяца назад +1

    Love your content as usual. But timestamps, bitte. Greetings from Germany

  • @MrPejotah
    @MrPejotah 3 месяца назад

    Amazing.

  • @2rx_bni
    @2rx_bni 3 месяца назад +1

    Sam's Club has LEGO btw :P

  • @NICKASMRCINCINNATI
    @NICKASMRCINCINNATI 3 месяца назад

    About 21 quarter life transition, its a bit shortsighted. You will have been idealistic and productive for a little bit. Dont forget to play, it will encourage imagination, connections between ideas, unique solutions, humor and you will be interesting to gain more friends

  • @Sergiyovych
    @Sergiyovych 3 месяца назад +1

    Like how it’s growing from 30 to 35 during the video 😂

  • @ousmand742
    @ousmand742 3 месяца назад +1

    This man aged like fine wine.

  • @aliencommander
    @aliencommander 3 месяца назад +1

    nice kindle flex :)

  • @zachary_burrows
    @zachary_burrows 3 месяца назад +9

    Bookmarking for this decade.

  • @hino2
    @hino2 3 месяца назад

    Is that a Fern chair you're sitting on? How is it? I'm in a search of a new chair.

  • @333jjjjjj
    @333jjjjjj 3 месяца назад

    Are many people really having aches and pains in their 30s? I'm in my early 40s and haven't had such issues.

  • @TechieTech-gx2kd
    @TechieTech-gx2kd 3 месяца назад

    Hey Discord invite shows invalid.

  • @HarisHussain
    @HarisHussain 3 месяца назад +1

    Can we get 20 things you wish you knew in your 20s??

  • @boot-strapper
    @boot-strapper 3 месяца назад

    life expectancy has actually been going down in recent years...

  • @obesechicken13
    @obesechicken13 3 месяца назад +1

    Here's mine: get tested for adhd. You may not have it but if you do you can make strategies around it including medication

  • @offBeatRock777
    @offBeatRock777 3 месяца назад +1

    Uncle Steve

  • @andrewpagan
    @andrewpagan 3 месяца назад +3

    STEEEEEEVE

  • @yagonagos
    @yagonagos 2 месяца назад

    🐰🙏

  • @MrSushantsingh
    @MrSushantsingh 3 месяца назад +1

    Great advices, except sunscreen and moisturizer, all you need is nutrition and vitamin-D from sun for optimal health. Don’t let the companies trick you.
    Great video though 😊

  • @FirstLast-fc7dt
    @FirstLast-fc7dt Месяц назад

    Marriage?💀

  • @vvel7952
    @vvel7952 3 месяца назад

    #11

  • @twist197
    @twist197 3 месяца назад

    Controlling emotions is a terrible advice, this leads to a depression. You should resolve emotions.

  • @jayrollo1352
    @jayrollo1352 3 месяца назад +2

    Pin my comment Meta!

  • @hehanster
    @hehanster 3 месяца назад +1

    nice batgirl Steve!