The Death of Self-Awareness
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- These are the Four Horseman of Awareness
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In this episode of The Charged Life, high performance coach and #1 New York Times bestselling author Brendon Burchard shares why some people feel a disconnection from themselves and the moments of their lives. He labels the cause as the Four Horseman of Self-Awareness: Directionlessness, Detachment, Disassociation, Distraction.
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1 lack of direction - experience the world
2 Detachment - face everything and move on
3 Disassociation - accept who u were
and shift the behaviour
4 Distraction - focus on what u do
This was just amazing... This was a God sent video to WAKE ME UP from this zombie state I've been living in... Can't thank you enough Brendon! Keep them coming!
I know this sounds kinda ridiculous but I cried during this video. It wasn't like wailing but a few tear drops. I'm not good with words and sometimes I've tried to explain to people what I'm experiencing is like. The best/ furthest I could go was "numb" or "blank". This is the first time I've ever heard that feeling's manifestation in actually words. It's the first time I've actually heard what it feels like. I guess I was..... shocked? Hearing what it's like in actually words, it felt as if a bunch of bottled up emotions/feelings/experiences was heaved off my chest and it literally feels lighter. I'm not suffocating as much, the grip on my throat has lessened and there's not as much pressure. I can breath a little but of air in. Thank you for letting me experience this. ^-^
*a little bit of air
i wish u have lived a happy life onwards
Moko241 - I know what those feelings are like and I just want you to know that there is life with Jesus Christ. He saved me from sin, death, and the grave. He will do the same for you....if you give Him a chance.
Cheers!
Dear Brendon, with all do respect to the point you just discussed, in a dark world like the one we live in, it's essential to keep faith, it's highly important to engage with positive thinking. 1st of all, we don't happen to engage with big achievements everyday, especially Big Goals that needs patience ,that's why we should split them to small ones in small periods so we can keep track and feel the progress, AND sometimes the maximum moment of awareness or consciousness could happen when you are bored, sad, sleepy, but not necessarily happy, so you cannot correlate joy with awareness all the time. it's like the movie (inside out) where the right moment to be chosen was correlated with a feeling different than joy.
i just wanted to clear this one out, so that people won't limit the definition of self awareness with joy only.
the best moment of self awareness is when you are THINKING .
Henry ford : " thinking is the hardest thing there is, that's why only few people engage in it".
Wow, this guy is amazing! I love the part about disassociation... very true, and not many people realise this! It took me a while to realise it myself. I feel so energetic after this!
These principles sound simple but magical when applied....thank you Brendon!
Dude I love you! This video was freaking AMAZING!!!!
I think Brendon is taking happy pills.
Stan Lindert or marijuana
Or maybe he is just that good at his job.
My problem is I am so far from reality, I'm stuck in my head. I think to myself to much, I have arguments with myself. I'm too self aware of all my faults. Not sure what to do. I can't focus on anything. I think to myself too much. My conscious and my active mind is like a different person I can't tell to shutup.
+reptilesgamers00 Cause you think. Don't think and just do or not do things, and you will see a difference.
***** Care to clarify a bit? Don't think just do and not do?
+reptilesgamers00 Maybe (s)he meant that if you take action your state will shift. For example, if you take a lot of action your thinking mind will shut down. Or the 5 second rule, act on an impulse within 5 seconds or else the idea will down. Or you can try active meditation like Bio-Energetics. Check Elliot Hulse his channel for his Warmup and/or what I do when I am depressed.
Accept yourself for who u are and improve :)
+reptilesgamers00 everyone has this voice in their head. You just have to be aware of the voice when it is active and choose to think about something more positive. It is a difficult task, but over time the voice will get quieter and quieter... and eventually leave.
This is brendons best video series. It changed my life from 2016.
I am so grateful Brendon, that I have this to rely on. This lack of self awareness is my biggest wall and it is the giant I need to overcome. I have always wondered exactly what it was, why I feel so numb and handicapped and incapacitated towards friends or loved ones day after day, why people I love don't know that it's there and why I don't let myself be happy when accomplishing goals. The first nine minutes were so intensely true, they flew by and I knew with conviction you speak truth, you speak life. I want to live a charged life and follow your teachings, thank you!
You guys have intuition that is guiding you to succeed and people don't have that in voice that's helping them in life.
I have been going through the numbness for so long. Had no idea how to change it. I was told it was just a symptom of PTSD. Pretty much that I would be stuck with it. This has been the best information I could have gotten. Incredibly helpful. I need more of this in my life.
Whenever I start to feel anxious, I pray.
Having an addiction to excitement, isn't walking as awareness. Being mis-identified with the body and the life drama, isn't happiness. It is mis-identification. What a loss to be lost in the never-ending, illusory and transient joys/sorrows of life's drama....without ever being free in one's true nature -- Awareness Itself. Awareness is always present. It only takes a moment to be aware and wide open. However, getting lost to the addiction to being 'charged up', is just that, pursuing a life of being lost.
Brendon Buchard YOU ARE GREAT!!! thanx for your words
This is awesome stuff Brendon. We've learnt a great deal from you. A true inspiration!
by far the greatest most inspiring motivational speaker of all time! your videos have changed my life
just discovered your page brendon and I love it. I'm applying a lot of your information to my own life . I appreciate what you are doing here thank you.
Feels like the practical implementation of the "Power of Now". Loving these ... Awesome! Thank you. I'll listen to these everyday.
Eye opener for living a good life
I absolutely love your POV on self-awareness, I totally agree. I believe we are more aware when we're young, however, that soon diminishes as we get older due to conformity. Keep up the good work, I love your videos.
"That's who you are" - Yes! We have to call ourselves out consistently. Thank you for sharing these tips *****
Brendon, thank you!
I have been listening to you motivation vedeos alot lately. Beginning to feel this higher sense is amazing. Thank you!!!
I never thought that I will lack self-awareness,infact I was actually the most self aware person in whole world(in my perspective)but now I lack self awareness..
Thank you Brandon! On point like usual! You're definitely one of my favorite word engineers! Keep shining and showing light to people!
Enjoy the sunshine 🌞
after watching couple of your tubes, its really amazing and simple advices
You've said what can make any person take a second look at their attitude , behaviours towards other people as well as towards themselves too. As always you are amazing. You keep pushing people to make better decisions about their own lives. There's only one word I can describe U with ( Generous )
this just sobered me.
Don't analyze so much, just engage and live.
This is the first time I have ever heard you. Brendon, I get you..... I don't mean, the content. I mean you as a person. You are excited!!! You are so excited that you (more than likely) constantly have to remind yourself to "sloooooow dowwwwn" hahahaha! RIght? I recognize that source inside you. Its real. Its raw. I appreciate this video. It is very relevant to my own life. I watched a few on this topic. But I liked yours the best. It was most relatable!
Brendon is my daily happy pill🙆🏻♀️❤️
That moment when you realize you were distracted during Brandon's distraction speech.
Guilty 😅
Hi Brendon,
I love all of your videos they all seem to be so insightful and full of passion. The 4th "Horsemen" really hit home for me. I'm so distracted and I allow myself to be. It's so true that it's all in my command to change it and I will!
I will be doing what your doing one day. I'm sure we will meet in the future! ^_^
All the best
Tavian
I wanted to become more self-aware, then I felt self-conscious. Creepy.
you helped me sir brendon by the video `how to make change stick ' I've actually transcended. thanks again
Thanks Brendon
Hey Brendon, love your content! I own several of your books :)
May I say, I feel like these old videos you made feel like the Real you; particularly, the music on this feels so much more genuine than the music on your more current content... something about That music feels like it's contrived and only exists to keep up with a modern trend... just my two cents! Thanks so much for your wisdom and knowledge!! 🙏🏼 God bless
You saved me..bless you man❤
I would offer a counter proposal to this theme: the better feeling of "flow," of being lost in an activity, absorbed and performing at peak level. Self-awareness is an impediment to that, I submit. Let's not be careless and embrace 'self-aware' as dogma and shut our brains off from questioning its pros/cons. There are cons, the loss of flow.
balance....ur also right
But he's saying that you should ALLOW yourself to be fully involved and passionate in the things you are doing. What he's talking about is being so distracted by what else you have to do that you just coast through things that you want to do without getting fully involved. Being self aware allows you to say to yourself "Hey, you're pulling back a little, let it go and let yourself get in to what you are doing right now". Self awareness isn't an impediment to flow. It's realizing when flow does happen, allowing it to happen and not stopping it from doing so.
karenwonderswhy That is good advice for a girl to give me in bed: "Hey, you're pulling back a little, let it go and let yourself get in to what you are doing right now". I'll show her that next time.
Dexter Haven Hey if you're involved in coitus you SHOULD be completely involved into it. You shouldn't be thinking about other things because that makes it tres lame.
karenwonderswhy Hey, thanks, but sometimes I fantasize instead about girls named Karen, because I like that name...
thank u Brendon Burchard
Your videos are GREAT!! Excellent motivation!!
Another great video Brendon with great insights.
Thanks from Egypt: )
Thank you brendon!
Wooow so inspired -powerful
Let's show up in a new way!
Great video - unfortunately for some negative minds, ignorance is bliss!! I added it to my favorites to watch again later.
I'm a big fan of you.Thanks for sharing wonderful videos.Your videos are helping me a lot.
Explained very well Brendon! My definition of self-focus means, to me, how does what I do look to others. Looking for outer approval. This does not serve or benefit anyone. Self-awareness, to me, means I notice what is happening within me, how does what I do feel in my body. It is becoming aware of how I am feeling at every moment. Switching from self-focus to self-awareness has been extremely positive in my life! I'm thrilled you touched on this!
This man makes really good points!
Thank you Brendon 😭♥️
Keep it coming. Love your videos
Brendon you're amazing......Thank you
Thank you sooooo much brendon!!
Cool guy! Thanks man!
wow this guy is amazing
Thank you!!
You are great and great video.
Very good.
Big like and Thank you for explaining so good wish you best of luck.
dude I love you really your awesome
Wonderfull. ...
A wake up call, honestly.
Wow ... it was awesome.
you are brilliant
have you considered a sales job?
Love it!
Brilliant :)
*I agree, thanks for sharing this :)*
Really like this video, very relevant! :)
3:15 detachment
Cách hát của đức phúc luôn làm hài lòng tất cả mn.
u r amazing thk a lot
I came from Absolute Nothingness and no one can put a label on ''me''
I am, not this or that.
The best I've seen
I really miss the black and white videos !!
basically following budhaism is key.
Vitamin A
This isn't religious. It's basic strategy for success. Awareness or consciousness of self is an ingredient for a better life regardless of religion.
super.......brendon
If you are able to pull this off, you don't work for a living.
I really love your videos I would love to know how to deal with depression when it hits you and you cant get out of I I find it hard to think positive sone days I dont have that vitality on
it was nice
9:22 distraction
Why are there no captions for this video?
You cna create a a version of yourself but you cannot create the truth of your being which unchanging.
There nothing worst than depersonalization
Then you get ppl telling you your on a high horse n are not as great or smart as you think you are
Hi everyone I am suffering from indecision I need help psychologically, I associated myself with friends that I trusted but at the end of the day they betray me and disappoint me
Someone missed the "Like" button. How embarrassing for them. ;)
this man is adorable
He's right ya know :o
do videos on negotiating please :)
Well, good words but his chaotic movement and speed talking gave me an anxiety attack. Maybe he just had too much coffee? Perhaps some mindful meditation will help him calm down? Might I suggest Mahasati Meditation, it helps quite a bit.
if you kill someone are you self aware ??
ye
i love u
hello
Wow (Thats all I have to say about that)
I am so jealous when I see someone who is more beautiful than me and I am also attracted to a really really handsome guy but I feel like he won't see me as good looking as him and he won't be attracted to me
I hope Brendon talk about this topic in your videos how to get rid of jealousy and the short self image , please I really need your help .
you talking about someone you loved him
+Hossam Eldeeb yes
ok his beautiful than of you
+Hossam Eldeeb I changed my view to myself
+Hossam Eldeeb I've become more confident and love myself so deeply