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Yoh Zizi that chit-chat, I needed to hear that🥹 im 27 , I graduated in May and I moved back home after grad, back to emakhaya, the situation at home is bad bad yoh kunzima but I'm grateful that I was able to study and finish my ICT diploma, and I believe and have faith it'll be better wethu. God didn't bring me this far to live me, I will get a job soon❤
Mtase kuzolunga I have been there I know but God always make a way and his plans are to prosper us please read plans 20 this chapter help Mr to overcome unemployment
I studied IT (communication networks) but got an internship for Software Testing coz I also did Java and now a permanentemployee.....can send the posts everytime they need interns,not sure the applications for next year already closed. Please it can help my Loves. God's timing is always perfect Bhabha be more patient,all gonna make sense at the end❤
You're truly amazing I also graduated in 2016, and I'm 31 this year. Been in call centre jobs until I did my PGCE in 2019 (which took me 3 years to complete because of finances). Finally landed a teaching job in March 2024! This is just the beginning. I'm transforming. I'm truly inspired by such content creators ❤❤ Real and genuine
Congratulations Am still looking for an internship and each time I get regretted I feel all hope is lost but I know I will get it and I need this internship to be able to get my diploma 😢 but soon soon
Greetings from a 53 year old African mom in Singapore. My children are adults and are all educated, and we are emptynesters. You are kind, empathetic, humble, and determined. Your wisdom for one so young really touched my heart. I will be sure to encourage them to listen to this heart to heart. You don't forget where you come from, and you empathize with those less fortunate. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My friend 🥹🥹, honestly watching your journey has been a testament of how good God is and I’m so proud of you, you have remained grateful to your journey while carrying hope for the future, it’s so inspiring!! Thank you so much for the chit chat my friend, I love you so much more than words could ever describe ❤️🥹
Thank you for the motivation you always bless us with Zizi, this time last year I was watching you from my backroom, as a 27 year old unemployed graduate but I kept praying and had faith that my circumstances would change. Now I work as a Management Consultant in a bank, I am 28 now and still in the very beginning stages of my career, but I know the Lord has so much more in-store for me and for my future. Keep praying friends and don't give up, work hard to achieve all your goal and also keep watching people like Zizi who always remind us that it is possible, because it truly is.
Yoh Cc im so encouraged by your father in law's story. It put a smile on my face. I was divorced with 3 kids, unemployed with no source of income.I had to move to my mother's house, live on a pensioners money and grants. Changed schools for my 2 kids, the last born was 3 months old. Had to buy diapers 😢. I met my lovely husband who accepted and loved my kids in 2019. I asked him to take me to school, he agreed. Im 38,in my 4th and final year of study and i believe it will get better than this. There's a light at the end of the tunnel ❤
Those of us who have been following Zizi since day 1 are beyond proud to see where you are now Sisi. So humble but so hardworking and so deserving. Zizi has shown us that anything is possible in life through faith, hardwork and sacrifice ❤❤❤. She is honestly so deserving of all she has now, the joy,peace and abundance ✨️. God's blessings locate us all but in His time.
Your story made me cry because when my father passes away our lives changed significantly. It was a hand to mouth situation living in the townships of Mamelodi. I also made it through school with scholarships/ bursaries. Today I'm a Chartered Accountant and God has been faithful. (2 paid of cars later, 2 paid off properties later, 1 child, and a marriage later). I was always so embarrassed sharing my past. But when I look at it all it was all for the Glory of God. May God continue to increase you. Today I'm on RUclips and I want to inspire that black girl from the township that it's possible. Our God does great things for us which are to marvelous to understand. He performs countless miracles.
😢I wàs crying when you chat about your life back before now. I was in a same situation at 14 years old I was a mothwr and father at the same tim, when both my parents passed away. I was mother to a 11 moth old sister. I never enjoy my youth and god gave me strength to pull through untill I finished my matric.
I'm 31 years old and have a diploma that hasn't done anything for me, I'm thinking of going back to High School to study science subjects and eventually go to varsity again to study something under medicine, I want to be a specialist on something kwi-medicine. This is a push that I needed. ❤❤❤
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Oh Ntombi, that chitchat motivated/ encouraged us more than you’ll ever know. You’re honestly doing the work of the Lord! Enkosi Sisi. Sana, your sister is the sweetest girl in the whole wide world. 😢❤ ✨So kind, so reassuring, so respectful- what a wonderful soul.
This vlog is the prime definition of DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE BASED ON WHAT YOU SEE! Jor Zizi!!! The chit chat broke my heart but the same time encouraged me so greatly! God has been so good! And He is forever faithful! You were chosen for this very moment. To that lady who left that comment, I get you, I see you girl! THINGS DO AND WILL GET BETTER IF YOU TURN TO GOD OR IF YOU HAVE GOD IN YOUR LIFE! Look at Zizi!!! I did'nt go to church today but this all the church I needed in this vlog!!! Thank you for sharing your story, this is all the girls needed, we need you girl. Humble beginnings is what makes black woman great! I am literally in tears with you girl😭
Not you making us cry chile🥹😂. Turning 25 in a few months and my life is nowhere near where i dreamt I'd be, so encouraged by this sis. We truly thank God for your life ❤
That girl talk towards the end is all I needed being a girl juggling school,work and living alone.Life always gets better through Christ and hard work.❤❤❤
The story of the Black firstborn daughter, our Mom’s and siblings pillers of support and strength making you behind your peers by an almost impossible distance due to black tax 😭😩 Congratulations Zizi on working hard and staying the course, God knows your heart and will continue blessing you exceedingly, abundantly, above all your expectations ❤🙌🏾 Muhle uJehova 🙏🏾
The value of community is my biggest take away from your story. Community that is aligned with your faith!!! Guys, we need each other, we can never do life alone ❤❤ Thank you for sharing, Zizi
Literally I never believed in community because I’ve always though people always have bad intentions but I have realised the importance of community Yoh 😢 and yes we really do need each other Heh
Thank you for sharing your story Zizi. I'm 12 years older than you but I draw from your story because on Wednesday I gave up. It's hard. I'm encouraged. Thanks.
Yhoooo the things we think only happen in the movies 😭😭. Being left in the street, yet the grace of God brought you through that season... What a blessing you are to your family Zizi.... Thank you for sharing, and thank you for acknowledging God all the way.... its the story of hope..... Enjoy your season.... Its your time and your season ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh Zizi 🥹❤️ I look up to you so much, I'm working hard to be able to improve the situation at home. I know that we won't end up here. Things will get better ❤🥹 thank you so much for sharing, sisi ❤ I'm so inspired❤
Zizi ❤ !! Your faith, your perseverance Your resilience ! Thank you so much for being our big sister on the internet, reminding us that our circumstances don’t define us and we can be anything we want to be on this earth! God bless you beautiful woman of God ❤ Your community appreciates you so much and we’re rooting for you my love ❤❤
Ohhh Zizi this chat ntombi sana, jonga sana I can also relate, graduated in 2014 only got a breakthrough in 2024 in my 40's, so jonga sisi we all come along way, we just need to never give up keep on pushing, thanks for the chat wethu ntombi 😊😊😊
Zizi, i don't comment on vlogs but this vlog is my favorite. Your story is one of hope and resilience. Thank you for sharing and giving me hope. It only gets better from here❤❤❤
Oh I needed to hear this 😭😭😭😭❤️ last year Feb I lost my husband unemployed left me with two children under two years, luckily for us he was working and we are being provided for now but still I find it very hectic praying on getting a job and improving our lives❤
Thank you Zizi for sharing your life story. It does truly get better. God is faithful all we need to do is to have faith, belief , making the right life choices and hardwork 🙏
It is very important to constantly, believe, pray and do your utmost to fight every single day no matter how disheartening the current circumstances may be because the alternative eats away at you way to badly. It’s not easy kodwa he didn’t bring us this far to leave us…… I especially love the saying that says “there are decades where nothing happens and there are weeks where decades happen” because it reinforces that you life can change for the better at any given time I appreciated the chit chat Zizi❤
The tears I cried today? Oh Zizi, God is good sisi. I relate so much to your story, except for the getting married part. Otherwise, in the worst of my circumstances, I genuinely believed that things would get better. I carried my family on my shoulders having nothing but working towards something and God heard my prayers. I wish the original commenter will watch this chat and read our comments. Things can always change. You just need to believe and work towards it. Baby steps ❤
Yhuuuu what a vlog!! The part of your Father-in - law changing the direction of his family at that age...God used you to inspire us.... Situations can change❤❤❤❤
You are a strong woman. An true inspiration. I'm having a rough time currently in my life at the moment but you reminded me that there is hope. God is good all the time, no matter the circumstances. ❤❤
The heart-to-heart brought me to tears Zizi. I graduated in 2019 and have been job hunting since then but nothing. Emotionally I am exhausted, nothing hurts more than being dependent on your pensioner mother as an adult, giving up is not an option but kunzima. Seeing the lives of people around you move forward, while yours is at a stand still😭
Your magic is how authentic you are in everything you do. We consume so many podcasts for motivation daily but some of those seem a bit far fetched and detached. When you speak motivation, we believe you, because it is so relatable. We need more of this Zizi. Ur saving lives. ❤❤❤
I truly enjoyed that chit-chat. It gave me so much hope for the future that it WILL get better ❤. Please do have another sit down about the life choices that you and your husband had to make. 🙏🏽
Thank you for the chit-chat, Zizi. I think age is the reason why some of us think its difficult to make a difference. I am 33 and ive been reflecting and its scary when you see that you haven't achieved much. But one thing ive learnt is that you shouldn't let age, having kids or family situation to get in your way. This journey is challenging especially when you don't have finances or a job to make the changes you want in your life. But having the faith and working forward despite the failures and challenges is a secret weapon. Thank you for this.❤❤
I absolutely enjoyed that conversation. Growing up in Cape Town, I can attest to its stunning beauty; however, living in a city where the wealth gap is so pronounced presents significant challenges. For many, including myself, it can be disheartening and unfulfilling to navigate an environment where the disparity between different socio-economic groups is starkly visible. The evident wealth disparity in Cape Town often leads to feelings of disempowerment. It’s difficult to find fulfillment when you are surrounded by individuals from diverse backgrounds, particularly when there is a lack of representation among those who share similar experiences or identities. This longing for connection with people who look like you can create a sense of isolation amidst the city’s vibrancy.
Even within community spaces such as churches, which are typically seen as inclusive environments, the leadership often reflects a predominantly white demographic. This can lead to feelings of alienation for those who do not see themselves represented in positions of authority or influence. While exposure to different cultures and lifestyles is undoubtedly valuable, it can also amplify feelings of unrelatability and disconnect.
Despite these challenges, it is essential to recognize the importance of diversity and the opportunity it provides for personal growth and understanding. Engaging with various perspectives can enrich our lives and broaden our horizons.
Thank you so so much for sharing your story Zizi. It honestly couldn't have come at the right time for me; I'm currently an unemployed admitted attorney, and I feel like I'm fighting every day not to plunge into a depression. I am choosing to trust God manje. Much appreciated chat❤
Hey Zizi, I've been watching you since back then and I have heard most of your life stories and to me you have been so inspirational. But today you spoke to me directly without saying my name. Thank you for sharing. I love you so much. May God continue to bless you .
That Chit-chat Zizi, as a young person i am definitely going to say you are an inspiration. May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you to make a difference in lives of others.❤
This makes me so sad how people comment so recklessly and compare their journeys to others. Your strength is commendable and admirable. You deserve everything good under the sun. God bless, and may he grant you the desires of your heart and hard work. Xo
Thank you Zizi for the girl chat. Please do share the life choices you had to make to arrive to this point. It could really help a few of us to elevate our lives ❤
I'm glad I came across your channel, been watching your vlog the whole week and I'm inspired I won't lie even the chit-chat made me drop a tear coz I do relate bcoz that's my current situation😢. I'm a wife and a mom, my husband and I are both unemployed and busy finishing of my qualification. But I trust the Lord and I'm inspired by your words. Please have more chitchats like this one.❤❤❤
hey, I am 31 years old and studying for my first degree. I am not working my younger sister and my mom together pay my fees. I have prayed for this for many years to get to school. I know life does not end here I am going far. thank you so so much, Zizi
Thank you for taking time to sit and chat. I feel so inspired to study and work hard for the better future.Because I also truly believe that it can get even better than where I am right now.
Oh Zizi 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing your heart and your life with us. Can you see what the Lord has done? You've always been an inspiration to a lot of us.
Wow Zizi we appreciate you and your vulnerability. Your life is an inspiration Sisi. May God pour more into your cup this is why some of us are so drawn to you. Please do share about the decisions you and your husband made to improve your circumstances, I totally think it would be valuable information.👌❤️🙏🏽✨🌟🙌
I normally don't comment on vlogs, but honestly that girl chat had me in tears even after the vlog finished . I am 33 and no where near where I thought I would be at my age. I am better than what I was 5 years ago, but honestly and feel stuck in my present circumstances. Thank you for sharing your story, and reminding me that things can change for the better.
Nobody knows what you really go through unless they know your story. Very inspiring story for young one’s, would like to hear more of these heartfelt moments and the details in between.
the chit chat really pierced me because I've been feeling like my life is a bit stagnant and kind of mourning the idea of where I though my life would be at this age, but I needed to hear that it really doesn't end here; it actually shouldn't. Thank you ma'am.
You always share such valuable insights. One thing you said in your previous vlog, is when you said ‘this is not your final form’ this is an important reminder.
I liked this video even before your story time towards the end. I'm turning 30 next year, and I'm always thinking about how I want to be living in the next 5 to 10 years. Not only was your story relatable but it was motivating. Thank you for reminding us that what we often see, is part of someone's process and not the beginning or the end. I appreciate your transparency.
Your consistency in the gym is motivating me dear. Your sister is so gorgeous 😊 It's so nice to see big sisters empowering the younger sisters. Wow! Great chat Zizi. Thanks for sharing a little bit about your background. It's so inspiring. I like the fact that you took care of your little sisters until they could at least stand up for themselves.
They can NEVER make me hate you❤❤❤ you're such a beautiful soul, your friends and close people are extremely blessed to have you in their lives I hope they know that 😊
Oh Zizi ntombi. Loved loved loved the chit-chat. I’m a 26 year old in a one bedroom apartment in Cape Town driving a little toti. And just like you back then, I am actively looking to land a job in JHB and live my life. This was so encouraging man. Just a reminder that this is not my final form. God bless you sisi ❤
Zizi your story touched me, I am literally in tears😔😔Thank you for sharing. Please do share about the decisions you made with your husband, we will definitely learn a lot. You are doing so well for yourself. I am so inspired by your optimism in life❤
Oh Sis Ziz seeing teary broke my heart.😢 We thank God for every provision he has made in your life. We all here by God's grace honestly, akekho umuntu who have everything well put together in life. It can only be God! ❤
Sana the chit chat you did ….. touched me and you are absolutely right about working hard and changing our circumstances. Please do the chat on the things you actively did to improve your life situation in general
Lord knows that I needed this chit chat, I needed to hear this motivation because, feeling like your life is stagnant can make one really want to give up and start believing that maybe their dreams are no longer valid. Thank you Zizi❤
That girl chat Zizi!!!💥💥💥❤thanks for sharing ❤I'm motivated to keep pushing. Loved that your father in law went to study in his fifties, this taught me that I still have more time to reach my dreams ❤
I am so happy you spoke about this Zi, Black tax has always been a part of as the eldest child in our home. I thank God for everything he has done for me, and in the same breath, I have worked hard for myself. My life got better when I got married because I got married to someone who works twice as hard and is so focused. I recently landed a new position that pays me 10k more and I have a side hustle. . . My life keeps getting better and better everyday. I am so grateful, thankful and happy. You deserve to clock 100k subscribers soonest. We’ve got you ❤ 🇳🇦
I can't wait for that next vlog speaking about your life choices am sure it will be eye opening sana...........thank you for this I have been waiting but never asked 🙃🙂🙂😉
Thank you Zizi for sharing, this is a reminder that we all go through challenging circumstances but what is good is that God always come through for us, and we just have to wait on Him.
I think if I said I enjoyed the chit chat it would be an understatement because I loved it. It's always so inspiring to hear someone tell you that life wasn't always rosy but they made, I get so much motivation from such talks. Thank you so much for sharing sisi highly appreciate it ❤❤❤❤❤ Please make that vlog about some of those life choices that you made that helped you and your husband to be where you guys are today.
Wow Zizipho you are a living testimony of how the hand of God and favor can transform one's life for the better. I'm turning 49 in September and my life is far from better financially and it's very much similar to the subbie you are responding to. I'm living in a one bedroom flat with my partner and our grown kids ages 21, 17 and 15 and my last born who is a girl is a special needs child, who by the way absolutely loves you to death😊🥰 I'm always hopeful that my life circumstances will change for the better but I'm also appreciative of how God has been there for me throughout my life🙏
I truly love your girl chats, it's nice to hear someone's story when you're going through it all. To anyone out there going through the most please don't give up. I always tell myself I can change what I can control okunye the Lord will see me through. Long story short- I'm about to turn 27 next week, single mom of 2 beautiful children with no financial assistance from anyone. I'm also a student I go part time to school, I'm also employed and luckily I work from home. I only earn 12k a month and almost half my salary goes to rent (I know what you think, I should down grade but I can't. Had bad experiences with backroom landlords especially that I work from home) . My 1st born goes to school as she is in grade 3 and the 2nd stays home with me as I cannot afford day care. This limits me from doing almost anything, can't even go to the gym for peace of mind. Worse of it all, I have no family to assist me. I never wanted this life. I wanted to get married and build my own family. I'm afraid of dating as I don't want to introduce different possible fathers/man to my children (past traumas). School is not going good, right at the end I'm failing this one module but ke we move I went to register it again this semester and determined to keep trying. I don't know who I'll leave my kids with when I go to school for lessons but I'll control what I can and leave the rest to God. I'm determined to get the life that God has shown me❤
That was such a motivational girl chat, for some reason, I am one of the few people who thought that you grew in money. Thank you so much for sharing your story :)
Aaah Zizi sana. I really really loved your story and could relate. I also had to take on a parent role after my mom passed. Thanks for sharing ❤. God turns things around and he knows all our destinies from the beginning to end. As long as we are still alive there is hope- have faith ❤ Also I love the story about Mr Moloko snr - talk about working hard and persevering for the sake of his dreams
Hey bantase... So we've finally started a Membership... Please click this Link to join: ruclips.net/channel/UCm-5b6ZfzP8UNBNtYjQjHoAjoin
In the Membership, we'll have Intimate Girl Chats, Life Updates, Personal Advice videos (What-would-Zizi-do?) and we'll also talk about Finances (for example how much Renovations cost)... And these videos will be quite in-depth.... It will be 2-4 videos per month, and the cost will be R40....
The first video will be this Wednesday (18 September), and will be a Life Update video...
Yoh Zizi that chit-chat, I needed to hear that🥹 im 27 , I graduated in May and I moved back home after grad, back to emakhaya, the situation at home is bad bad yoh kunzima but I'm grateful that I was able to study and finish my ICT diploma, and I believe and have faith it'll be better wethu. God didn't bring me this far to live me, I will get a job soon❤
Mtase kuzolunga I have been there I know but God always make a way and his plans are to prosper us please read plans 20 this chapter help Mr to overcome unemployment
Hotlo loka girl... I'm in the same situation too and I studied IT
I studied IT (communication networks) but got an internship for Software Testing coz I also did Java and now a permanentemployee.....can send the posts everytime they need interns,not sure the applications for next year already closed. Please it can help my Loves. God's timing is always perfect Bhabha be more patient,all gonna make sense at the end❤
@@prudencephakathi4267 thank you sisi 🙏🏽
@@mahlodidineo6716 Amen to that🙏🏽
You're truly amazing
I also graduated in 2016, and I'm 31 this year. Been in call centre jobs until I did my PGCE in 2019 (which took me 3 years to complete because of finances). Finally landed a teaching job in March 2024! This is just the beginning. I'm transforming.
I'm truly inspired by such content creators ❤❤ Real and genuine
Congratulations Dear🎉🎉🎉.
God is good.
Congratulations dear. 🎉I also graduated in 2016. Your resilience is to be applauded 👏
Congratulations
Am still looking for an internship and each time I get regretted I feel all hope is lost but I know I will get it and I need this internship to be able to get my diploma 😢 but soon soon
Greetings from a 53 year old African mom in Singapore. My children are adults and are all educated, and we are emptynesters. You are kind, empathetic, humble, and determined. Your wisdom for one so young really touched my heart. I will be sure to encourage them to listen to this heart to heart. You don't forget where you come from, and you empathize with those less fortunate. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
My friend 🥹🥹, honestly watching your journey has been a testament of how good God is and I’m so proud of you, you have remained grateful to your journey while carrying hope for the future, it’s so inspiring!! Thank you so much for the chit chat my friend, I love you so much more than words could ever describe ❤️🥹
Thank you for the motivation you always bless us with Zizi, this time last year I was watching you from my backroom, as a 27 year old unemployed graduate but I kept praying and had faith that my circumstances would change. Now I work as a Management Consultant in a bank, I am 28 now and still in the very beginning stages of my career, but I know the Lord has so much more in-store for me and for my future.
Keep praying friends and don't give up, work hard to achieve all your goal and also keep watching people like Zizi who always remind us that it is possible, because it truly is.
Thanks for sharing ❤
Yoh Cc im so encouraged by your father in law's story. It put a smile on my face. I was divorced with 3 kids, unemployed with no source of income.I had to move to my mother's house, live on a pensioners money and grants. Changed schools for my 2 kids, the last born was 3 months old. Had to buy diapers 😢. I met my lovely husband who accepted and loved my kids in 2019. I asked him to take me to school, he agreed. Im 38,in my 4th and final year of study and i believe it will get better than this. There's a light at the end of the tunnel ❤
Those of us who have been following Zizi since day 1 are beyond proud to see where you are now Sisi. So humble but so hardworking and so deserving. Zizi has shown us that anything is possible in life through faith, hardwork and sacrifice ❤❤❤. She is honestly so deserving of all she has now, the joy,peace and abundance ✨️. God's blessings locate us all but in His time.
Thank you I understand. I live that life at one point. Still reaching for the stars with God help. Life is getting better and better everyday ❤🎉
I agree
Now i feel like i started in day 2 after hearing her story before starting the channel😅❤️
Your story made me cry because when my father passes away our lives changed significantly. It was a hand to mouth situation living in the townships of Mamelodi. I also made it through school with scholarships/ bursaries. Today I'm a Chartered Accountant and God has been faithful. (2 paid of cars later, 2 paid off properties later, 1 child, and a marriage later). I was always so embarrassed sharing my past. But when I look at it all it was all for the Glory of God. May God continue to increase you. Today I'm on RUclips and I want to inspire that black girl from the township that it's possible.
Our God does great things for us which are to marvelous to understand. He performs countless miracles.
I never thought I'd ever be a 30 year old living this life 😭😭😭
Well done sisi! ❤
@@gugumavundla thank you sis ❤️
I love it when black women allow themselves to be so vulnerable, its truly lifesaving work Zizi. So thank you for sharing 💗💗💗💗
😢I wàs crying when you chat about your life back before now. I was in a same situation at 14 years old I was a mothwr and father at the same tim, when both my parents passed away. I was mother to a 11 moth old sister. I never enjoy my youth and god gave me strength to pull through untill I finished my matric.
Sending big hugs. May God bless you in abundance ❤
Sending love and light
The singing “Hloniphi iLife Boy” in the car finished me🤣🤣🤣
Very much, my daughter and I burst out laughing😂❤
Same😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂it took me out, the hands as well. Had to rewind to that part 😂😂😂😂
andayihleka va🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 yabona uZizi
I'm 31 years old and have a diploma that hasn't done anything for me, I'm thinking of going back to High School to study science subjects and eventually go to varsity again to study something under medicine, I want to be a specialist on something kwi-medicine. This is a push that I needed. ❤❤❤
Go sis I’m rooting for you ❤
Explore courses that are demand. Coding, software development, advertising buying. This will help you to think of job hunting differently and beyond SA
If ur under 35 yrs submit your CV at National youth development they once got me a job within a week. All the best !!
@@semakalengmotana6528 Thank you
Go for it❤ never too late
Oh Ntombi, that chitchat motivated/ encouraged us more than you’ll ever know. You’re honestly doing the work of the Lord! Enkosi Sisi. Sana, your sister is the sweetest girl in the whole wide world. 😢❤ ✨So kind, so reassuring, so respectful- what a wonderful soul.
This vlog is the prime definition of DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE BASED ON WHAT YOU SEE! Jor Zizi!!! The chit chat broke my heart but the same time encouraged me so greatly! God has been so good! And He is forever faithful! You were chosen for this very moment. To that lady who left that comment, I get you, I see you girl! THINGS DO AND WILL GET BETTER IF YOU TURN TO GOD OR IF YOU HAVE GOD IN YOUR LIFE! Look at Zizi!!! I did'nt go to church today but this all the church I needed in this vlog!!! Thank you for sharing your story, this is all the girls needed, we need you girl. Humble beginnings is what makes black woman great! I am literally in tears with you girl😭
Not you making us cry chile🥹😂. Turning 25 in a few months and my life is nowhere near where i dreamt I'd be, so encouraged by this sis. We truly thank God for your life ❤
That girl talk towards the end is all I needed being a girl juggling school,work and living alone.Life always gets better through Christ and hard work.❤❤❤
Let’s get our girl to a 100k subscribers before the year end ❤
The story of the Black firstborn daughter, our Mom’s and siblings pillers of support and strength making you behind your peers by an almost impossible distance due to black tax 😭😩 Congratulations Zizi on working hard and staying the course, God knows your heart and will continue blessing you exceedingly, abundantly, above all your expectations ❤🙌🏾 Muhle uJehova 🙏🏾
The value of community is my biggest take away from your story. Community that is aligned with your faith!!! Guys, we need each other, we can never do life alone ❤❤
Thank you for sharing, Zizi
Literally I never believed in community because I’ve always though people always have bad intentions but I have realised the importance of community Yoh 😢 and yes we really do need each other Heh
Umhle uThixo Zizi. Thank you for sharing your heart with us. You owe us nothing. 💜✨
Thank you for sharing your story Zizi. I'm 12 years older than you but I draw from your story because on Wednesday I gave up. It's hard. I'm encouraged. Thanks.
Phephisa. Let's try again sisi this week ❤
As a young professional I loved the chit chat and would like to get more content on how you and your husband navigated your career paths.
Yhoooo the things we think only happen in the movies 😭😭. Being left in the street, yet the grace of God brought you through that season... What a blessing you are to your family Zizi.... Thank you for sharing, and thank you for acknowledging God all the way.... its the story of hope..... Enjoy your season.... Its your time and your season ❤❤❤❤❤
That pep talk!!! Sana, you preached a word. Thank you for your vulnerability. You are helping even us older girls to just keep at it.
Faith without works is dead. Even though we believe, we must back up our faith with actions, keep applying for those jobs. Keep praying, keep trying.
Oh Zizi 🥹❤️ I look up to you so much, I'm working hard to be able to improve the situation at home. I know that we won't end up here. Things will get better ❤🥹 thank you so much for sharing, sisi ❤ I'm so inspired❤
Zizi ❤ !!
Your faith, your perseverance
Your resilience !
Thank you so much for being our big sister on the internet, reminding us that our circumstances don’t define us and we can be anything we want to be on this earth!
God bless you beautiful woman of God ❤
Your community appreciates you so much and we’re rooting for you my love ❤❤
Ohhh Zizi this chat ntombi sana, jonga sana I can also relate, graduated in 2014 only got a breakthrough in 2024 in my 40's, so jonga sisi we all come along way, we just need to never give up keep on pushing, thanks for the chat wethu ntombi 😊😊😊
Zizi, i don't comment on vlogs but this vlog is my favorite. Your story is one of hope and resilience. Thank you for sharing and giving me hope. It only gets better from here❤❤❤
Oh I needed to hear this 😭😭😭😭❤️ last year Feb I lost my husband unemployed left me with two children under two years, luckily for us he was working and we are being provided for now but still I find it very hectic praying on getting a job and improving our lives❤
God has got your back hun ❤
Thank you Zizi for sharing your life story. It does truly get better. God is faithful all we need to do is to have faith, belief , making the right life choices and hardwork 🙏
What I am taking from this vlog is... THINGS DO GET BETTER❤
Please do more chit-chat sessions with us , love them 🥰
The girl chat.🥺🥺🥺 Yoh, Zizi. God is working,and God is amazing. Thank you for this beautiful testimony. Hebrews 11:1❤
The chit chat was so inspiring I don’t have to be ashamed that I am doing my first year in college at age 23. Thank you big sis.
I did mine at 25. Been unemployed since I graduated and I’m going back next year for a post grad. Hang in there, it’ll be over soon
It is very important to constantly, believe, pray and do your utmost to fight every single day no matter how disheartening the current circumstances may be because the alternative eats away at you way to badly. It’s not easy kodwa he didn’t bring us this far to leave us…… I especially love the saying that says “there are decades where nothing happens and there are weeks where decades happen” because it reinforces that you life can change for the better at any given time I appreciated the chit chat Zizi❤
The tears I cried today? Oh Zizi, God is good sisi. I relate so much to your story, except for the getting married part. Otherwise, in the worst of my circumstances, I genuinely believed that things would get better. I carried my family on my shoulders having nothing but working towards something and God heard my prayers. I wish the original commenter will watch this chat and read our comments. Things can always change. You just need to believe and work towards it. Baby steps ❤
Healthy vibes.Thanx Cc you always inspire❤❤❤
Yhuuuu what a vlog!! The part of your Father-in - law changing the direction of his family at that age...God used you to inspire us.... Situations can change❤❤❤❤
You are a strong woman. An true inspiration. I'm having a rough time currently in my life at the moment but you reminded me that there is hope. God is good all the time, no matter the circumstances. ❤❤
The heart-to-heart brought me to tears Zizi. I graduated in 2019 and have been job hunting since then but nothing. Emotionally I am exhausted, nothing hurts more than being dependent on your pensioner mother as an adult, giving up is not an option but kunzima. Seeing the lives of people around you move forward, while yours is at a stand still😭
Your magic is how authentic you are in everything you do. We consume so many podcasts for motivation daily but some of those seem a bit far fetched and detached. When you speak motivation, we believe you, because it is so relatable. We need more of this Zizi. Ur saving lives. ❤❤❤
I truly enjoyed that chit-chat. It gave me so much hope for the future that it WILL get better ❤. Please do have another sit down about the life choices that you and your husband had to make. 🙏🏽
Thank you for the chit-chat, Zizi. I think age is the reason why some of us think its difficult to make a difference. I am 33 and ive been reflecting and its scary when you see that you haven't achieved much. But one thing ive learnt is that you shouldn't let age, having kids or family situation to get in your way. This journey is challenging especially when you don't have finances or a job to make the changes you want in your life. But having the faith and working forward despite the failures and challenges is a secret weapon. Thank you for this.❤❤
We need a sit down le papa wa Mr M… going to study medicine in his fifties.. I am so so so so inspired you have no idea 😭😭
I absolutely enjoyed that conversation. Growing up in Cape Town, I can attest to its stunning beauty; however, living in a city where the wealth gap is so pronounced presents significant challenges. For many, including myself, it can be disheartening and unfulfilling to navigate an environment where the disparity between different socio-economic groups is starkly visible.
The evident wealth disparity in Cape Town often leads to feelings of disempowerment. It’s difficult to find fulfillment when you are surrounded by individuals from diverse backgrounds, particularly when there is a lack of representation among those who share similar experiences or identities. This longing for connection with people who look like you can create a sense of isolation amidst the city’s vibrancy.
Even within community spaces such as churches, which are typically seen as inclusive environments, the leadership often reflects a predominantly white demographic. This can lead to feelings of alienation for those who do not see themselves represented in positions of authority or influence. While exposure to different cultures and lifestyles is undoubtedly valuable, it can also amplify feelings of unrelatability and disconnect.
Despite these challenges, it is essential to recognize the importance of diversity and the opportunity it provides for personal growth and understanding. Engaging with various perspectives can enrich our lives and broaden our horizons.
Thank you so so much for sharing your story Zizi. It honestly couldn't have come at the right time for me; I'm currently an unemployed admitted attorney, and I feel like I'm fighting every day not to plunge into a depression. I am choosing to trust God manje. Much appreciated chat❤
The chitchat was very encouraging ❤️bless your heart and everyone including myself 🙏
The chit chat really healed my soul😢. It's such a powerful testimony nd I'm so uplifted even in my own current circumstance right now😢.
Hey Zizi, I've been watching you since back then and I have heard most of your life stories and to me you have been so inspirational. But today you spoke to me directly without saying my name. Thank you for sharing. I love you so much. May God continue to bless you .
Right yeh 😊 it feels like that sermon at church that's pointing at you without the finger pointing at you kinda thing ❤❤❤ oh God 🙏🏽
Oh the chitchat 🔥I really needed to hear this❤
That Chit-chat Zizi, as a young person i am definitely going to say you are an inspiration. May God bless you abundantly and continue to use you to make a difference in lives of others.❤
This makes me so sad how people comment so recklessly and compare their journeys to others. Your strength is commendable and admirable. You deserve everything good under the sun. God bless, and may he grant you the desires of your heart and hard work. Xo
Thank you Zizi for the girl chat. Please do share the life choices you had to make to arrive to this point. It could really help a few of us to elevate our lives ❤
I'm glad I came across your channel, been watching your vlog the whole week and I'm inspired I won't lie even the chit-chat made me drop a tear coz I do relate bcoz that's my current situation😢. I'm a wife and a mom, my husband and I are both unemployed and busy finishing of my qualification. But I trust the Lord and I'm inspired by your words. Please have more chitchats like this one.❤❤❤
J Cole said it, "there is no such thing as life better than yours". Thank you for sharing mama ❤😢
Fav song of all time.
hey, I am 31 years old and studying for my first degree. I am not working my younger sister and my mom together pay my fees. I have prayed for this for many years to get to school. I know life does not end here I am going far.
thank you so so much, Zizi
Thank you for taking time to sit and chat. I feel so inspired to study and work hard for the better future.Because I also truly believe that it can get even better than where I am right now.
Oh Zizi 🥺❤️ thank you for sharing your heart and your life with us. Can you see what the Lord has done? You've always been an inspiration to a lot of us.
Wow Zizi we appreciate you and your vulnerability. Your life is an inspiration Sisi. May God pour more into your cup this is why some of us are so drawn to you. Please do share about the decisions you and your husband made to improve your circumstances, I totally think it would be valuable information.👌❤️🙏🏽✨🌟🙌
The chat at the end was so encouraging ❤ - i hope the lady does and give up till she gets her breakthrough
I normally don't comment on vlogs, but honestly that girl chat had me in tears even after the vlog finished . I am 33 and no where near where I thought I would be at my age. I am better than what I was 5 years ago, but honestly and feel stuck in my present circumstances. Thank you for sharing your story, and reminding me that things can change for the better.
Nobody knows what you really go through unless they know your story. Very inspiring story for young one’s, would like to hear more of these heartfelt moments and the details in between.
What's a Sunday without Zizi's vlog😊❤❤❤
the chit chat really pierced me because I've been feeling like my life is a bit stagnant and kind of mourning the idea of where I though my life would be at this age, but I needed to hear that it really doesn't end here; it actually shouldn't. Thank you ma'am.
You always share such valuable insights. One thing you said in your previous vlog, is when you said ‘this is not your final form’ this is an important reminder.
It's very encouraging ntombi continue with your life and we are here taking notes and seeing that God is real through ppl like you.
I liked this video even before your story time towards the end. I'm turning 30 next year, and I'm always thinking about how I want to be living in the next 5 to 10 years. Not only was your story relatable but it was motivating. Thank you for reminding us that what we often see, is part of someone's process and not the beginning or the end. I appreciate your transparency.
Your consistency in the gym is motivating me dear. Your sister is so gorgeous 😊 It's so nice to see big sisters empowering the younger sisters.
Wow! Great chat Zizi. Thanks for sharing a little bit about your background. It's so inspiring. I like the fact that you took care of your little sisters until they could at least stand up for themselves.
They can NEVER make me hate you❤❤❤ you're such a beautiful soul, your friends and close people are extremely blessed to have you in their lives I hope they know that 😊
I am just here to say:
More of these conversations please. You don't know how much this has just helped me.
Oh Zizi ntombi. Loved loved loved the chit-chat. I’m a 26 year old in a one bedroom apartment in Cape Town driving a little toti. And just like you back then, I am actively looking to land a job in JHB and live my life. This was so encouraging man. Just a reminder that this is not my final form. God bless you sisi ❤
You just made me cry❤Me in my bedroom mqhasho right now wanting so bad to get a apartment. It is the talk we just needed thank you
Zizi your story touched me, I am literally in tears😔😔Thank you for sharing. Please do share about the decisions you made with your husband, we will definitely learn a lot. You are doing so well for yourself. I am so inspired by your optimism in life❤
Oh Sis Ziz seeing teary broke my heart.😢
We thank God for every provision he has made in your life.
We all here by God's grace honestly, akekho umuntu who have everything well put together in life. It can only be God! ❤
Sana the chit chat you did ….. touched me and you are absolutely right about working hard and changing our circumstances. Please do the chat on the things you actively did to improve your life situation in general
Wow Zizi, not me getting all teary eyed, your journey babe, honestly God has been by your side🙌🏾
Lord knows that I needed this chit chat, I needed to hear this motivation because, feeling like your life is stagnant can make one really want to give up and start believing that maybe their dreams are no longer valid. Thank you Zizi❤
Mmmm the chit chat 😢"everyone has a back story"i love that.i got emotional.
That girl chat Zizi!!!💥💥💥❤thanks for sharing ❤I'm motivated to keep pushing. Loved that your father in law went to study in his fifties, this taught me that I still have more time to reach my dreams ❤
I am so happy you spoke about this Zi,
Black tax has always been a part of as the eldest child in our home. I thank God for everything he has done for me, and in the same breath, I have worked hard for myself. My life got better when I got married because I got married to someone who works twice as hard and is so focused. I recently landed a new position that pays me 10k more and I have a side hustle. . . My life keeps getting better and better everyday. I am so grateful, thankful and happy.
You deserve to clock 100k subscribers soonest. We’ve got you ❤ 🇳🇦
Truly Sundays are for God and vlogs🧡🧡🧡lemme reset and get ready for the week that is😊
That chit-chat ma'am 😭😭😭😭😭Thank you😘
Love how you call your father in law papa❤, so beautiful. Him becoming a doctor in his 50s is so inspiring
Ow Zizi, your chit chat made me cry… ivuse yonke nje I pain in my life but I still trust God with all my heart…
"Bangakusho konke koda ngeke bathi ngimubi"❤ umhle inside nd out Mrs❤ siyabonga❤❤❤
Thank you Zizi for the chitchat❤ “it can get better than this” I like those words. Thanks again for giving us motivation and hope.
I can't wait for that next vlog speaking about your life choices am sure it will be eye opening sana...........thank you for this I have been waiting but never asked 🙃🙂🙂😉
Thank you for your vulnerability Zizi❤ I’m sure this helped a lot of people.
Thank you Zizi for sharing, this is a reminder that we all go through challenging circumstances but what is good is that God always come through for us, and we just have to wait on Him.
Now that chitchat was… wow! Yeah. Thank you.
I think if I said I enjoyed the chit chat it would be an understatement because I loved it. It's always so inspiring to hear someone tell you that life wasn't always rosy but they made, I get so much motivation from such talks.
Thank you so much for sharing sisi highly appreciate it ❤❤❤❤❤
Please make that vlog about some of those life choices that you made that helped you and your husband to be where you guys are today.
Wow Zizipho you are a living testimony of how the hand of God and favor can transform one's life for the better. I'm turning 49 in September and my life is far from better financially and it's very much similar to the subbie you are responding to. I'm living in a one bedroom flat with my partner and our grown kids ages 21, 17 and 15 and my last born who is a girl is a special needs child, who by the way absolutely loves you to death😊🥰 I'm always hopeful that my life circumstances will change for the better but I'm also appreciative of how God has been there for me throughout my life🙏
Thank you for opening up your heart and allowing us to get to know this side of your life/experience ❤
I truly love your girl chats, it's nice to hear someone's story when you're going through it all.
To anyone out there going through the most please don't give up. I always tell myself I can change what I can control okunye the Lord will see me through. Long story short- I'm about to turn 27 next week, single mom of 2 beautiful children with no financial assistance from anyone. I'm also a student I go part time to school, I'm also employed and luckily I work from home. I only earn 12k a month and almost half my salary goes to rent (I know what you think, I should down grade but I can't. Had bad experiences with backroom landlords especially that I work from home) . My 1st born goes to school as she is in grade 3 and the 2nd stays home with me as I cannot afford day care. This limits me from doing almost anything, can't even go to the gym for peace of mind. Worse of it all, I have no family to assist me.
I never wanted this life. I wanted to get married and build my own family. I'm afraid of dating as I don't want to introduce different possible fathers/man to my children (past traumas). School is not going good, right at the end I'm failing this one module but ke we move I went to register it again this semester and determined to keep trying. I don't know who I'll leave my kids with when I go to school for lessons but I'll control what I can and leave the rest to God. I'm determined to get the life that God has shown me❤
Sending hugs momma❤
Oh mntase I am praying that your circumstances become better in the way that you want.
That was such a motivational girl chat, for some reason, I am one of the few people who thought that you grew in money. Thank you so much for sharing your story :)
Aaah Zizi sana. I really really loved your story and could relate. I also had to take on a parent role after my mom passed. Thanks for sharing ❤. God turns things around and he knows all our destinies from the beginning to end. As long as we are still alive there is hope- have faith ❤
Also I love the story about Mr Moloko snr - talk about working hard and persevering for the sake of his dreams
Yhoo when the Bible says He knows our every need. That chit chat sis addressed alot of pain we are going through. May God continue to bless you❤
Thank you Zizi. Thank you. These are the kind of stories that keep us going
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Greatful for the girl chats, always so touching and inspiring.