ASMR | Loneliness comfort | girlfriend roleplay | [F4A] [personal attention][reassurance] [improv]

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  • Опубликовано: 31 окт 2024

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  • @LanceAudios
    @LanceAudios  2 года назад +132

    !! I forgot to mention that the background is from animal crossing! i went to harv's island and set it up myself. feels nice to create something, even though it's not very hard 💗💗

    • @asiandance92
      @asiandance92 2 года назад +13

      Lance I would love to be loved by you or someone like you. Your thought process is amazing. The way you communicate and comfort is top tier. Thank you for sharing. I can tell you are an amazing person.

    • @empressfrozentoes5285
      @empressfrozentoes5285 Год назад

      😊

  • @mechagamer3925
    @mechagamer3925 2 года назад +165

    Lance definitely knows their audience. *hugs and proceeds to cry into pillow*

    • @ananaslol58
      @ananaslol58 2 года назад +5

      Their *

    • @nekoprincess7489
      @nekoprincess7489 2 года назад +7

      *their
      Lance's pronouns are they/them

    • @mechagamer3925
      @mechagamer3925 2 года назад +10

      My bad

    • @tomatocoffeereal
      @tomatocoffeereal 2 года назад +1

      Same Josh. same

    • @-crossheart
      @-crossheart 2 года назад +1

      @@nekoprincess7489 i like the asmr, but why the hell does someone change their pronouns? (just curios, no hate)

  • @nekoprincess7489
    @nekoprincess7489 2 года назад +47

    Playing Animal Crossing and cuddling together with Lance like they mentioned here would obliterate my loneliness forever 😌💜

  • @thenargles
    @thenargles 2 года назад +33

    Another important life lesson from Lance: Anyone can feel lonely at times, and you don't need to feel that it's dumb or unimportant. I hope people who are feeling lonely right now can also take some comfort from the comments - you are not alone in feeling like that. And things will get better 🙂
    Also, I thought this was really sweet, Lance. It flowed differently from your scripted audios, but no less elegantly. It felt very natural, in fact.

  • @Cloedreams
    @Cloedreams 2 года назад +28

    this audio made me realize how much healing i have left to do from my traumatic past relationships lol. it felt odd but incredibly warming hearing all that reassurance (almost brought me to tears lmfao). May i find someone as wholesome as you. Thank you for this one!❤︎

  • @Nienna_Asyare
    @Nienna_Asyare 2 года назад +10

    I was literally *JUST* thinking about how I have great friends all around me but still feel alone lol
    I’m getting more and more convinced that ASMRtists are psychic by the day xD

  • @anta567
    @anta567 2 года назад +21

    Usually when your videos get uploaded, it’s night time. It’s nice to listen to your new audios after a long day :,))

  • @albusdumbledore5993
    @albusdumbledore5993 2 года назад +9

    WOOO tysm for the audio! Congrats on 11k you def deserve it!

  • @Althecor
    @Althecor 2 года назад +25

    A haiku about loneliness. Ahem:
    A growing chasm
    That can only be mended
    By the light of love

  • @Lintz2
    @Lintz2 2 года назад +6

    Lance, thank you so much. You are the reason I've been able to sleep at all the past week. I've been struggling with really bad anxiety but somehow your videos have helped me sleep even when nothing else worked. Although they also make me feel extremely single (I need a partner asap, pls I'm so lonely), but they've been a saviour for me lately.

  • @Meikiku79
    @Meikiku79 Год назад

    I so so wish I had someone like this in my life, so special and so rare imo. I love your audio’s, they tend to somehow soothe the ages in my heart and soul. It means a lot that you make these, it may seem like so little…but it is SO much more to those of us who are alone, sad…any number of things along those lines. My heart was utterly shattered 3 years ago by someone I thought loved me, I was wide open to them…I’m still recovering from it and am scared of relationships since. These actually make me feel better, and also I’m learning what an actual healthy relationship is or is supposed to be…I know that’s not likely a focus with these audios but…in short thank you for doing what you do these are a very bright spot in my days.

  • @cricket2591
    @cricket2591 2 года назад +9

    Script or no script you're still amazing! Thanks for the video🤍

  • @faizahmdisa7079
    @faizahmdisa7079 2 года назад +8

    Hi, Lance. Aunty F🤗 is here to comment on your latest video - “GF Comforts You From Loneliness” that really touched my heart and also put me to smile with tears of happiness. Thank you so much for this lovely video. I love listening to this audio very much that you mentioned you’ve done it without a script. Actually, it’s not that easy but you did it. Throw yourself wholeheartedly into your work, the more you enjoy it, the better you get. Be the best version of yourself. Congratulations, well done!!!💐❤️👏👏👏 This is also another one of your videos that l consider as really up close and personal. I really felt connected to it and of course l’ll put this audio into my favourite lists which l’ll listen to it more often. As l see it, loneliness is part of being human. It reminds us that we are not complete in ourselves. Lonely is not being alone, it’s the feeling that no one cares. The most tragic fact about loneliness is that unlike sicknesses and diseases, there’s really no cure for this experience of feeling rejection, of being an outcast. You never realize how lonely you are until it’s the end of the day and you got a bunch of things to talk about and no one to talk to. That feeling when you’re not necessarily sad, but you just feel really empty. Even though we are together, we can still feel alone. People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges. Loneliness is the absence of connection not company. Loneliness is not a longing for company, it’s a longing for kind. And kind means people who can see you who you are, and that means they have enough intelligence, sensitivity and patience to do that. Loneliness is not caused by others, it is when your mind tells you that nobody cares about you. Sometimes l feel so lonely in this world, like l don’t belong anywhere or with anyone. The longer you live, the more you realize that reality is just made of pain, suffering and emptiness. The ones who notice in the storm in your eyes, the silence in your voice and the heaviness in your heart are the ones you need to let in. Feeling lonely sometimes is good thing. It makes us appreciate the care and kindness we receive from our loved ones. Anyway, it does not mean that we are lonely just because we choose to stand alone. On the contrary, it shows we are strong enough to take on challenge by ourselves. Loneliness can make us develop into a strong person if we look at it on the positive side. It depends on the individual. As for me, since l became follower of LanceAudios, being ALONE is no longer LONELY! Dear LanceAudios: Thank you for always clearing my head, healing my heart and lifting my spirits. I’m always feeling happy now. I❤️LanceAudios!💐🤗

  • @brithanymarbunmusic
    @brithanymarbunmusic 2 года назад +2

    This was so soft and lovely, and the fact it was spontaneous is amazing! It also showed your natural gentleness and thoughtfulness. :) And as per usual, your voice is so pretty and relaxing, you never miss 😭🤍✨

  • @Taigalaxy
    @Taigalaxy 2 года назад +9

    Here I thought you were always improvising cause you always sound so genuine in your audios i'm 😩😩😩
    Honestly you're so good at what you do I can barely tell the difference between your scripted ones and this one
    Also glad to know your PC ain't dead yet xD

    • @LanceAudios
      @LanceAudios  2 года назад +3

      Hahaha good to know!! ty xx

  • @Les-bee-an
    @Les-bee-an 2 года назад +6

    Lance: Aww you’re so cute
    Me: **blushes extremely hard** Thank u and so are you 🥰

  • @zazabelle4430
    @zazabelle4430 2 года назад +1

    God, i need this so nuch right now AND YOU UPLOADED AT THE RIGHT TIME OMFG UR THE BEST

  • @kardamonn1115
    @kardamonn1115 2 года назад +1

    Literally thank you so much for existing ✨💛

  • @Kicorki
    @Kicorki 2 года назад

    A nice gentle reminder of something that I will probably never have

  • @lilysambience2594
    @lilysambience2594 2 года назад +1

    thanks for this video because my girlfriend lives 20 hours away and this makes me just happy

  • @liikou7046
    @liikou7046 2 года назад +1

    your audios are always so perfect, thanks for everything you're awesome ily take care

  • @nurhanzzzz4750
    @nurhanzzzz4750 2 года назад

    Listening to your audios are so comforting especially now that i just moved to a new country and i dont know anyone here, you make me feel less lonely. Also.. you're soooo charming😭

  • @idvstella
    @idvstella 2 года назад +1

    thank u for the new video and congratulations on 11k

  • @mana-xw5js
    @mana-xw5js 2 года назад

    wow vulnerable moment right here: lance is my therapy bunny

  • @zazabelle4430
    @zazabelle4430 2 года назад +1

    I WAS LITERALLY JUST BINGING YOUR VIDS😭🤝

  • @yashika5768
    @yashika5768 2 года назад +5

    Them: you can lean back and rest your head on my chest
    Me gets up from the bed to sit on the recliner for the experience
    Bruhhh the level of singleness i have reached 😂✋🏽

  • @lunarisaraxori1589
    @lunarisaraxori1589 2 года назад

    My friend sent me this, and not even a minute in, you have me hooked >-

  • @simp.1725
    @simp.1725 2 года назад +2

    Hey lance! Thanks for this ❤️
    Sending hugs ^^

  • @Choess
    @Choess 2 года назад

    Omg congratulations on reaching 11K subscribers you absolutely deserve it ❤️❤️

  • @wilbysworld4929
    @wilbysworld4929 2 года назад

    i totally didnt cry
    thanks so much lance, im kinda new to your channrl but i already love all your vodeos lol

  • @yashika5768
    @yashika5768 2 года назад

    1000 subs in 14 days! Yayyayy congrats!! Idk if you have heard “hold on tight” from greenbriar audios but that one gave me goosebumps istg. Give it a try!

  • @cucumber7199
    @cucumber7199 2 года назад +1

    Cucumber Approved

  • @pauline6666
    @pauline6666 2 года назад +1

    I am feeling so blessed. I wish I could have someone like you to be my Girlfriend💜. I am feeling so comforted

  • @mistyaurora8367
    @mistyaurora8367 2 года назад

    after your tweet about referring to yourself as a boyfriend in the audios, I have just started head canoning all your audios as my trans masc bf and I loooove it. can't wait till you give us a canon bf rp 😘

  • @alis2548
    @alis2548 2 года назад +1

    Lance:*breath*
    Me:*blushing*
    I'm sorry..I can't control myself

  • @startana__
    @startana__ 2 года назад +2

    christ i love this

  • @teehee0659
    @teehee0659 2 года назад

    21 minute video 🙈💖 ty lance 😙😙

  • @DontComeBack.
    @DontComeBack. 2 года назад

    A lot of words to say, but I am still here for you and I love you Cutie pie, anyway congrats for 11k it was fast huh… You deserved it!

  • @phoenixstone4208
    @phoenixstone4208 2 года назад

    thank you Lance i really needed this 🥺🥰

  • @milym9634
    @milym9634 2 года назад +1

    It hasn’t played yet and I’m in love with it already 💗

  • @naturesuniverse1
    @naturesuniverse1 2 года назад

    i love your voice so much

  • @yurimisaki288
    @yurimisaki288 Год назад

    Around the middle, there was a line that went "Your feelings are completely valid." This normally wouldn't affect me but I had this friend who was always there for me and we would joke around saying "I love you more". Sometimes when I hear her say it, I'd say "No you don't, I love you more" and she would say "Oh, so you're invalidating my feelings? Wow (my name), that hurts", jokingly ofc, but it hurt so much even if it was just asking, I didnt want her thinking I actually don't love her, so I'd immediately apologize and try to hug her and sometimes I would cry but she was always there to comfort me and say it was just a joke (yes I'm really sensitive when it comes to her). Flash forward and it's summer, so I can't see her anymore, and I felt lonely, so Iooked up on yt blah blah blah, found this and that line came up. Idk why but I just started crying cause I really missed my friend...

  • @Autorelaxx
    @Autorelaxx 2 года назад +13

    For you...the person who is reading this comment I wish you a lifetime of happiness,laughter,love and prosperity!All is well!The Universe is providing!You are safe in this benevolent Universe!Namaste

  • @Alexathechaotic777
    @Alexathechaotic777 2 года назад +1

    They definitely know us well.. too well me:laugh/cries in lonely 😅

  • @ericabrock1356
    @ericabrock1356 2 года назад

    I swear they always know just what I need😆🤦‍♀️

  • @averythebirateking8347
    @averythebirateking8347 2 года назад +2

    I feel so brain dead because I vividly heard shrek from the first movie saying “like that’s ever gonna happen” in my head. I feel like I took mental damage
    ⎝ T ヘ T ⎠

  • @elizabethreid9014
    @elizabethreid9014 2 года назад

    YES YOU POSTED OMG YAYYYYY

  • @shin_eeo
    @shin_eeo 2 года назад +1

    EARLYY AND I HOPE YOUR DOING OKAY LANCE!!

  • @miu.3198
    @miu.3198 2 года назад +1

    Loneliness got to me that I started texting myself :') LMAO btw great video as always Lance👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Ruby_Eve
    @Ruby_Eve 2 года назад +1

    8:29
    Don't think I missed that tummy rumble

  • @hi_itsjoanna_9403
    @hi_itsjoanna_9403 2 года назад

    Ah !! I love this !!💖🥰

  • @Choess
    @Choess 2 года назад

    Who wants a girlfriend when we have lance😭 I hope you are having an amazing day/night lance❤️❤️

  • @ry9878
    @ry9878 2 года назад

    I LOVE THIS -

  • @imjustafan1006
    @imjustafan1006 2 года назад

    I really liked it! :)))

  • @inexplicable.
    @inexplicable. 2 года назад +4

    7:21 I died 🔥 🥵

  • @thehelltaker8820
    @thehelltaker8820 2 года назад

    Very nice, I love it!
    Pancakes 🥞

  • @thetornadocrusader968
    @thetornadocrusader968 2 месяца назад +1

    Imma try this audio because well lemme see if its good... But as for everyone and also those eho dint feel comfortable in their bodies... go to God and give it to him and try your best to stop worrying about it because when you worry about it you take it back from good because you are trying to solve it yourself alone! So Have faith in Jesus to be saved, turn from your old ways and live life for God who created you, God bless!

  • @rubeushagrid4942
    @rubeushagrid4942 2 года назад

    Professor Albus Dumbledore sent me to gift you a new subscriber cuz Hogwarts definitely approves this! Good work

  • @Lily-sk6sr
    @Lily-sk6sr 2 года назад +1

    I feel seen. beef noodle soup tonight

  • @ascella5424
    @ascella5424 2 года назад +2

    Lance, how did you know I feel lonely today?
    And I hope you're doing great

  • @allllyzhao
    @allllyzhao 2 года назад

    7:02 I’m smiling like an idiot rn

  • @ledollarbeans1475
    @ledollarbeans1475 2 года назад +1

    I click so fast😭

  • @Bunnygirl04
    @Bunnygirl04 2 года назад

    The amount of likes on this is disappointing like this video deserves like 100k or 900k likes not 300

  • @camilleball1500
    @camilleball1500 2 года назад

    This is all I want…when will it be my turnnnn

  • @inexplicable.
    @inexplicable. 2 года назад +3

    Omg how come u don't have a gf, literally anyone would date u 😳

  • @Masha-nk1xf
    @Masha-nk1xf 2 года назад

    I guess you speak English so well that I didn’t even recognize your accent! Well I’m glad to hear that you are OK anyway if you wish you can always visit my country as for me everyone is welcome of course except for who hates our country because in that case if you hate the country you shouldn’t visit there but except for them everyone is welcome so it’s OK but I mean how did you get a great accent like this? I seriously believe do you want from the United States because of your great accent

  • @SenailCooledge
    @SenailCooledge 2 года назад

    Snuggles make everything better

  • @sethgno1274
    @sethgno1274 2 года назад

    did anyone else get scared of getting rickrolled at 3:22? 💩

  • @randomonlyrandom8104
    @randomonlyrandom8104 2 года назад

    Oque nós somos?
    BRASILEIROS CARENTES!!
    e oque queremos
    LEGENDAS EM PORTUGUÊS!!
    What are we?
    NEEDY BRAZILIANS!!
    and what we want?
    SUBTITLES IN PORTUGUESE!!

    • @LanceAudios
      @LanceAudios  2 года назад

      hi, I don't speak Portuguese so I really can't help you with that. 😅

    • @randomonlyrandom8104
      @randomonlyrandom8104 2 года назад

      @@LanceAudios I know haha is a meme of Brazil we use for everything from to understand what you speak with the legend

  • @Masha-nk1xf
    @Masha-nk1xf 2 года назад

    Are you OK? I’ve been worried sick! The italian news keeps pouring shootings in the United States and I think I recognized your act! As I said it keeps reporting that! Basically yesterday five of them happened and today just 3 but this is still horrible by the way I know you wouldn’t escape your country but if you wish to live in a country where gun laws are stricter and less shootings happen you can come to Italy! My nation is your nation! You are welcome here! I can help you with the language if you need! Anyway what are you doing for Christmas????

    • @LanceAudios
      @LanceAudios  2 года назад

      I'm from Taiwan. One of the safest countries in the world, I'd like to think. x

  • @CT-1255
    @CT-1255 23 дня назад

    This hit me hard thank you so much for this i really needed it 🫂🫂🫂. I'm crying and I'm just so very grateful for you. 🫂

  • @Scorch-SkittishMCJames813
    @Scorch-SkittishMCJames813 2 года назад

    Pls give me loves I lonely 🥺

  • @imok843
    @imok843 2 года назад +2

    Pls im first😃🔪