I told my last date that I love to cuddle but I hate asking to do it because I get so nervous. She told me girls live to cuddle even with friends so I shouldn't hesitate. I asked soon after that with the most blush I've ever had, she said yes and we cuddled for a while. Now she wont talk to me for no reason. This is why I'm scared to date.
Probably saw you as weak for no reason and got "the ick". It's why a lot of men don't open up even when their girlfriends ask, for this exact scenario. Sorry to hear you had to go through it.
they say don’t hesitant then the say shit like that like if there’s a girl who can explain why girls do it this whould be better this is one guys don’t say nothing cuz this poor guy finally had some balls asking a girl to cuddle and she ghosts him after she said “don’t hesitant” I’m sorry Man U will find that girl who will cuddle u and not ghost u
and the cold hand of lonliness claims another, apologies, not only that you had to go through that, but that now youll forever be affected by its scar, know i that felt even a small portion of your sorrow, and shed a few small tears, though its little recompense for your suffering, for which i again apologize
loneliness has been get worse for the past 6 months and it's got me in a spot where i can not do normal things i could do 6 months ago and its been getting me down to a point where i walk around and i tell my mom and my granddad that yup i'm fine in yet in side i'm a crying mess where everything hurts and as i'm typing this my throat tightens and i just sit and cry to my self bc i dont have the guts to go up to my mom and granddad and tell them what really going on bc i'm scared that they will just laugh bc they dont really think a person should be feeling this way and thats why in 10 years i haven't told them anything thats been going on with me i'm 17 now and i'm stressing about whats next every day i sleep for sometimes 18 hours bc sleep in the only peace i get i've been lonely and depressed for 10 years. this was a great video Atom keep up the great work it helped me feel better keep up the great work :)
You know the problem with F2L is that it makes the lines of “o-of course I love my best friend” or “f-friends can cuddle, right?” seem like lies. But they aren’t. People love people without romance all the time and I want everyone reading this to remember that. Remember you’re loved. I can say from experience that it may seem like you aren’t… but those doubts aren’t meant to stay. Now I have a challenge for each of you reading this: Think of someone that you’re not romantically interested in, and isn’t family, but would leave you emotionally devastated if something bad happened to them. Just one person who you want to be happy on a deeply personal level. That is someone you love platonically… and these things are to be cherished. Remember that
The aquarium sounds were a nice touch, can't say I've heard that used as background in an asmr video before. The audio was very thoughtful as well, it's nice to feel like someone is rooting for you.
This is the first video I've seen of yours but I really appreciate this one. I would have felt so much less lonely this past year if I had a friend like you to cuddle.
Listening to you Atom was really really relaxing this time, not that it isn't for any other audio, but you had me truly immersed. To point out the real-world taboos which so many people live by that don't have to be the way they are showed me a different perspective on a friendship. Thank you for being you and love love love you🙏🏽❤️
I have never cuddled with anyone before I guess you can say I've been touch starved, I'm afraid of being touched by my family especially but at the same time I wanna be held and cared for, I wish I had someone idk feel comfortable enough to cuddle with.
I love how soothing your voice is, it's made me fall asleep through so many sleepless nights. As an insomniac, this is huge for me and now I can't sleep without audios like this, thank you. Thank you especially for helping me feel less alone in the world
Amazing audio as always atom, I hope you’ve had a great week and have a great weekend. All of us here appreciate and love all you do for us ❤️☺️ and the homies are always allowed to cuddle
I don't know how to thank you. I've been going through it, and this little chat audio really helped when you said I love you as a friend I wanted to cry to yell, it takes a lot to get to be uncomfortable with someone but when it comes to openly show my true feelings of love for a friend I just can't unless of something else. Thank you for making my night just a bit better. Thank you
After the mental battle I had with myself this past week, this was the perfect thing to finally feel at rest. Even brought me damn near to tears. I know it’s stupid. But it’s nice to know that someone is trying to help. Thank you Atom.
I got an aquarium too! Its an awesome hobbie, honestly i never think that it would be so relaxing. Seeing the plants growing with all the variety of colours and even being able to see the fish reproduction. I love it.
Well this taught me that Im still bound by this taboos. The recoil I felt from the "I love you" when it came from this two friends😂😂😂, appreciate it either way. Ironic that I wanted to find a video just like this, of friendly cuddles, yet was so unprepared for it😂😂😂😂. Great audio btw
okay step one - you'll want a plecy or at least some corys in that tank. Discus will get bars if they are stressed and a good way to avoid that is to make sure the gravel is getting cleaned properly... anyways Very nice audio...sounds very appealing. . . and relaxing thanx.
I have a girl best friend, and I really want to hug her tight, like a hug that shows how much I love her. Is that weird or no? It's not even romantic, I just care about her.
Now this makes me smile because I do get nervous around girls and feels lonely sometimes so this makes me feel better and makes me want to be more confident. Love your videos and you are awesome 😁👍 have a great weekend 😁
Man Atom you never cease to amaze holy. The comfort and cuddles were really nice, just what I needed after a hard week. Excellent work as always, thanks for another masterpiece and have a great weekend Atom! ATOM HEART CLAN WHERE YOU AT ❤️❤️💗💖💖
I'm always under the impression that friends should never cuddle and such... Considering that i have a close friend who never seems to want to cuddle with me when I'm down. I always assume cuddling is a couple's thing... Now i wonder if I'll ever have a partner and my brain always says "No". I always tend to agree with such a bleak answer.
This reminds me when I had a fish tank, I also had tetras, you'd be surprised how much this fishes can grow in the natural habitat, but keeping in those tanks forever it really afects them, thats one of the reason why I dont have anymore
I don't like venting on the internet (Or at all) but I'm one of those people that needs physical affection every day to feel safe and cared for. I get maybe one hug every month or 2 because I don't want to be clingy or look like a creep. I feel like I've been caught in the thing where "Guys can't ask for affection or they're weak" and the "Friends can't hug for more than 2 seconds" thing while being someone that needs a hug every day. I don't like asking for hugs or anything, since for almost 14 years I was told that I can't ask for that kind of stuff as a guy. Last time I tried to be affectionate with someone, she was okay with it at first, and then just cut contact with me and we stopped talking. I don't like getting attached to people anymore either because one way or another, everyone leaves, so why both making bonds with anyone? Anyway, the summary is "I need a hug every day and get one every month and a half and I'm lonely and depressed" I'm not asking for someone to feel bad, I just want to say it somewhere I can without seeming weak
@@AtomHeartAudios actually, 9…. I bought a little 10 gallon microtank for the top of my desk 😂 kinda nice change cus the rest are all massive tanks w either lots of fish or 2-3 really big guys haha
WOW! I've never had someone put me through such scrutiny before cuddling. I should've read the pamplent that comes with cuddling her.😆 Cool audio Atom! LOVED IT!!!😊💚👍
people whose love language (platonic and/or romantic) is physical touch find it easier to express love and affection through touches. like myself for example. i love holding my friends’ hands or holding them near me.
As much as I enjoy these, I just can't help but feel even more lonely. Knowing this may never happen, at least I have my pillow. That counts.........right?
I want you to know that your voice is amazing. I absolutely love when you say stuff that ends in y(or sounds like it does). Like rummy, honey, or sweetie. The way you emphasize that syllable gives me a chill down my spine.😂❤😂
Keep discus is dificult to me, the ph never stays in 6.8 even using acid buffer...i know this is an asmr channel but is the first time i hear about fish keeping, by the way i live in Brazil home of amazonic fishes
After this audio I asked a gal pal of mine if she’d wanna cuddle up and watch tv sometime or whatever, and she hasn’t replied yet. It’s been a week or so :/. She usually takes forever to reply anyway, so who knows if it’s just the normal stuff
@@shinichisan6789 yea. She’s still gone silent so I’m thinking that’s the smart play. It’s been a couple months since I’ve heard from her in general tbh. Heck with her, who needs it
I told my last date that I love to cuddle but I hate asking to do it because I get so nervous. She told me girls live to cuddle even with friends so I shouldn't hesitate. I asked soon after that with the most blush I've ever had, she said yes and we cuddled for a while. Now she wont talk to me for no reason. This is why I'm scared to date.
Aww, I’m sorry that happened. Not sure what happened, but it doesn’t seem pleasant at all
Probably saw you as weak for no reason and got "the ick". It's why a lot of men don't open up even when their girlfriends ask, for this exact scenario. Sorry to hear you had to go through it.
Sorry to hear that, perhaps something happened in her personal life
they say don’t hesitant then the say shit like that like if there’s a girl who can explain why girls do it this whould be better this is one guys don’t say nothing cuz this poor guy finally had some balls asking a girl to cuddle and she ghosts him after she said “don’t hesitant” I’m sorry Man U will find that girl who will cuddle u and not ghost u
and the cold hand of lonliness claims another,
apologies, not only that you had to go through that, but that now youll forever be affected by its scar,
know i that felt even a small portion of your sorrow, and shed a few small tears, though its little recompense for your suffering, for which i again apologize
Nervous listener? Finally, one that's geared towards me
It's ok for guys to get touchy feely with each other so long as they do it while wrestling
Orrr... they have socks on
😂
@@AtomHeartAudios or both 😂
@@shaferhilke1193 i think that would be a double negative situation🤔
@@aidanricci5895 so EITHER when wrestling or wearing socks, never both?
loneliness has been get worse for the past 6 months and it's got me in a spot where i can not do normal things i could do 6 months ago and its been getting me down to a point where i walk around and i tell my mom and my granddad that yup i'm fine in yet in side i'm a crying mess where everything hurts and as i'm typing this my throat tightens and i just sit and cry to my self bc i dont have the guts to go up to my mom and granddad and tell them what really going on bc i'm scared that they will just laugh bc they dont really think a person should be feeling this way and thats why in 10 years i haven't told them anything thats been going on with me i'm 17 now and i'm stressing about whats next every day i sleep for sometimes 18 hours bc sleep in the only peace i get i've been lonely and depressed for 10 years. this was a great video Atom keep up the great work it helped me feel better keep up the great work :)
Yo I hope you doing better 🔥💪
You know the problem with F2L is that it makes the lines of “o-of course I love my best friend” or “f-friends can cuddle, right?” seem like lies. But they aren’t. People love people without romance all the time and I want everyone reading this to remember that. Remember you’re loved. I can say from experience that it may seem like you aren’t… but those doubts aren’t meant to stay.
Now I have a challenge for each of you reading this: Think of someone that you’re not romantically interested in, and isn’t family, but would leave you emotionally devastated if something bad happened to them. Just one person who you want to be happy on a deeply personal level. That is someone you love platonically… and these things are to be cherished. Remember that
@@Embersofthedark What do you mean?
@@Embersofthedark …I see. Well, um, it’s a good thing your family loves you. Right?
The aquarium sounds were a nice touch, can't say I've heard that used as background in an asmr video before. The audio was very thoughtful as well, it's nice to feel like someone is rooting for you.
YEEES, a friends audio where they're still friends by the end! MORE PLEEEEASE
Finally! Friends can cuddle and hold hands and say i love you. Normalize affection please!
This is the first video I've seen of yours but I really appreciate this one. I would have felt so much less lonely this past year if I had a friend like you to cuddle.
Where are these people that give platonic cuddles!? I need!
I actually teared up for the first time in 15 years. What I wouldn’t give for this kind of acceptance irl
I haven't been cuddled in ages, man, this is gonna make me cry-
You wanna listen to Ecstasy of Gold with me
As an aroace, we need more platonic cuddle asmr, thank you! :]
Agreed
I agree
Jop 🤝
Disagree
Agree to disagree
Thank you for the audio, really needed that loneliness comfort tbh
Listening to you Atom was really really relaxing this time, not that it isn't for any other audio, but you had me truly immersed. To point out the real-world taboos which so many people live by that don't have to be the way they are showed me a different perspective on a friendship. Thank you for being you and love love love you🙏🏽❤️
I love cuddles! It makes me feel loved when someone gives me cuddles. 🤗
I have never cuddled with anyone before I guess you can say I've been touch starved, I'm afraid of being touched by my family especially but at the same time I wanna be held and cared for, I wish I had someone idk feel comfortable enough to cuddle with.
I love how soothing your voice is, it's made me fall asleep through so many sleepless nights. As an insomniac, this is huge for me and now I can't sleep without audios like this, thank you. Thank you especially for helping me feel less alone in the world
can't say no to cuddles. loved the audio Atom hope you're doing okay have a nice weekend take care and stay safe. 😊❤
Amazing audio as always atom, I hope you’ve had a great week and have a great weekend. All of us here appreciate and love all you do for us ❤️☺️ and the homies are always allowed to cuddle
Aw. Thank you for being so sweet. I hope you have a good weekend too!
@@AtomHeartAudios you’re welcome ☺️ , and thank you!
Your audios are some of my absolute favorites, your content is honestly amazing!!
Aw 🥺 thank you so much!
Seconded!
I don't know how to thank you. I've been going through it, and this little chat audio really helped when you said I love you as a friend I wanted to cry to yell, it takes a lot to get to be uncomfortable with someone but when it comes to openly show my true feelings of love for a friend I just can't unless of something else. Thank you for making my night just a bit better. Thank you
Im not crying, you are😭
After the mental battle I had with myself this past week, this was the perfect thing to finally feel at rest. Even brought me damn near to tears. I know it’s stupid. But it’s nice to know that someone is trying to help. Thank you Atom.
I love your voice, it's so comforting
I got an aquarium too! Its an awesome hobbie, honestly i never think that it would be so relaxing. Seeing the plants growing with all the variety of colours and even being able to see the fish reproduction. I love it.
Tysm. I really needed some platonic cuddling. This helped:)
Thank you, thank you, thank you........i really really have beeb in a bad plce but this helped so so so much.....just...thank you
Thanks, Atom hope you're having a wonderful Friday
thank you. hope you are too! 😊
Well this taught me that Im still bound by this taboos. The recoil I felt from the "I love you" when it came from this two friends😂😂😂, appreciate it either way. Ironic that I wanted to find a video just like this, of friendly cuddles, yet was so unprepared for it😂😂😂😂. Great audio btw
How nice and cuddlyyy :>💖💕💜(Loved the audio :O)
Platonic cuddles are so wonderful. I miss them. Thanks for this, I'll be back.
aw this made me feel good. you're awesome atom, thanks. have a nice weekend
you too!! ♡
Atom your honestly my only friend that I can look up to.
I don't think I've ever felt so much empathy coming from someone I don't even know
okay step one - you'll want a plecy or at least some corys in that tank. Discus will get bars if they are stressed and a good way to avoid that is to make sure the gravel is getting cleaned properly... anyways
Very nice audio...sounds very appealing. . . and relaxing
thanx.
It’s 4:58 AM and I’m feeling lonely so why not.
I’ve been here before? 🗿💀🤡
Tf I’ve actually been here before wow. 🗿
This made me giggle
This is something i really need atm. Thank you so much for making this audio
I have a girl best friend, and I really want to hug her tight, like a hug that shows how much I love her. Is that weird or no? It's not even romantic, I just care about her.
"let me hug you" no i dislike physical affection. thank you for understanding
(still a great audio, just not like an ideal REAL LIFE situation for me)
Ok?
@@peanutbutterboi8489 :(
Tf
Now this makes me smile because I do get nervous around girls and feels lonely sometimes so this makes me feel better and makes me want to be more confident. Love your videos and you are awesome 😁👍 have a great weekend 😁
Wonderful audio Atom! I love how genuine you always sound. Thank you for filling my script!
Man Atom you never cease to amaze holy. The comfort and cuddles were really nice, just what I needed after a hard week. Excellent work as always, thanks for another masterpiece and have a great weekend Atom!
ATOM HEART CLAN WHERE YOU AT ❤️❤️💗💖💖
I love it, thank you
I'm always under the impression that friends should never cuddle and such... Considering that i have a close friend who never seems to want to cuddle with me when I'm down. I always assume cuddling is a couple's thing... Now i wonder if I'll ever have a partner and my brain always says "No". I always tend to agree with such a bleak answer.
Social boundaries suck
This reminds me when I had a fish tank, I also had tetras, you'd be surprised how much this fishes can grow in the natural habitat, but keeping in those tanks forever it really afects them, thats one of the reason why I dont have anymore
I personally like your series the best. Like the vampire or Dom mom series. But everything is great. Keep up the work.
An asmr that can help you through your touched starve suffering
Awesome job as usual Atom. Keep up the great work! Thank you, and have a great day!
If only this could happen IRL, but alas. But hey at least i have this audio😂🖤
thanks as always
Wow I love the knowledge on fish very cool
I don't like venting on the internet (Or at all) but I'm one of those people that needs physical affection every day to feel safe and cared for. I get maybe one hug every month or 2 because I don't want to be clingy or look like a creep. I feel like I've been caught in the thing where "Guys can't ask for affection or they're weak" and the "Friends can't hug for more than 2 seconds" thing while being someone that needs a hug every day. I don't like asking for hugs or anything, since for almost 14 years I was told that I can't ask for that kind of stuff as a guy. Last time I tried to be affectionate with someone, she was okay with it at first, and then just cut contact with me and we stopped talking. I don't like getting attached to people anymore either because one way or another, everyone leaves, so why both making bonds with anyone? Anyway, the summary is "I need a hug every day and get one every month and a half and I'm lonely and depressed"
I'm not asking for someone to feel bad, I just want to say it somewhere I can without seeming weak
ok
I have 8 fish tanks. I may have a problem.
Goals
@@AtomHeartAudios actually, 9…. I bought a little 10 gallon microtank for the top of my desk 😂 kinda nice change cus the rest are all massive tanks w either lots of fish or 2-3 really big guys haha
Hard to have a friend like that when you have no friends cuz of social anxiety :')
Love your vids
Loved it
Open and caring. Absolutley lovley.
Number 15 burger King foot lettuce
WOW! I've never had someone put me through such scrutiny before cuddling. I should've read the pamplent that comes with cuddling her.😆
Cool audio Atom! LOVED IT!!!😊💚👍
Do friends really be cuddling eachother?? Like how friendly do u consider that?
people whose love language (platonic and/or romantic) is physical touch find it easier to express love and affection through touches. like myself for example. i love holding my friends’ hands or holding them near me.
It's ok intentions are everything
That makes me anxious
Ah something il never get lovely 💞
Lovely audio atom
It's nice to know I can get that cuddle expereince here on RUclips
all the homies just give me weird looks
Not gonna lie, when the fish tank was mentioned, it felt extra relatable since I owned some fish myself for about 3 years before they died.
I'm cuddle addict ❤❤❤
Very nice
i was in severe deficiency of “friend cuddles you” audios or stuff similar, so this is pretty sick
Is it bad that as someone who works a lot with fish I got excited when she started talking about them at the beginning
Snuggles are the best
As much as I enjoy these, I just can't help but feel even more lonely. Knowing this may never happen, at least I have my pillow. That counts.........right?
Imagine being lonely and touch starved. Heh, literally couldn't be me...
I'm so dying alone😂
Cuddle time
I want you to know that your voice is amazing. I absolutely love when you say stuff that ends in y(or sounds like it does). Like rummy, honey, or sweetie. The way you emphasize that syllable gives me a chill down my spine.😂❤😂
❤️
Keep discus is dificult to me, the ph never stays in 6.8 even using acid buffer...i know this is an asmr channel but is the first time i hear about fish keeping, by the way i live in Brazil home of amazonic fishes
Not me and my bro sleeping toghether because where shithing ourselfs after waching a horor movie
You have to kiss your homies to sleep, you have to cuddle them to keep them warm
Lostening to this video just reminds me lf how lonely i am and will stay alone
After this audio I asked a gal pal of mine if she’d wanna cuddle up and watch tv sometime or whatever, and she hasn’t replied yet. It’s been a week or so :/. She usually takes forever to reply anyway, so who knows if it’s just the normal stuff
Just forget her bro
@@shinichisan6789 yea. She’s still gone silent so I’m thinking that’s the smart play. It’s been a couple months since I’ve heard from her in general tbh. Heck with her, who needs it
If there is a reason to live
Pls tell me what it is
This is what I’ve been saying all along. It’s not gay to kiss the homies
Just had too
Who needs friends when you have digital...ones.
😔
TF DO I KNOW BOUT FISHES 🗣️‼️‼️‼️‼️
*i need to be cuddled, ogey?*
😂
Bro got friendzoned to hell and back
Hello. There
Apparently it's alright if yo girl drunkenly kisses her friend ut if you do it it's gay? Thas some bullshit
just be real please.
❤