Order My Steps & My Stops | Jerry Flowers

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • Excerpt from "I Didn't Get Closure" of Therapy Thursday. Click here to watch the full sermon: • I Didn't Get Closure |...
    We must come to the realization that the closure we think we need may never happen. Sometimes desiring closure leads to prolonged grief. God doesn't just order our stops, He also orders our severing.
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Комментарии • 209

  • @annemac9739
    @annemac9739 4 месяца назад +38

    “The wrong people have a way of teaching us the right lessons” A word!!!

  • @justbeingjenn321
    @justbeingjenn321 4 месяца назад +61

    "Waiting for an apology that is never going to arrive is going to keep you in a place where you never depart." That just freed me!🙌🏽

    • @Logantaliaferro
      @Logantaliaferro 4 месяца назад +1

      riii at the end of the day let them have it

  • @DeeRamey
    @DeeRamey 4 месяца назад +35

    I heard someone say”if God removes someone from your life he heard their conversations”

  • @juber1005
    @juber1005 4 месяца назад +59

    You can't expect Healing in the same place you were broken. 🙌🏾

    • @zek280
      @zek280 4 месяца назад +1

      Preach 🙏🙌

  • @Fasanidior
    @Fasanidior 4 месяца назад +51

    I didn't sleep for 6 months, replaying the situations over and over. This journey is not for the weak

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 месяца назад +1

      Please let it go for your health and sanity. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you release it ❤

    • @zek280
      @zek280 4 месяца назад

      😢

    • @kateshadysart3236
      @kateshadysart3236 4 месяца назад +3

      Oh man. And I thought I was bad. It was the same for me 20 days straight no sleep, had to get on medication and go to a crisis center. I had a mental breakdown. I was a zombie' depressed, eventually had to take off work. God brought me out of that. I'm still trying to recover mentally because I still deal with occasional anxiety attacks. Nothing as bad as before

    • @naazeavlogs
      @naazeavlogs 4 месяца назад +3

      I used to cry every time I took a shower because all the painful memories would replay when everything external, was silent. Quiet moment in the car, Memories. Quiet moments in the shower, memories. Quiet moments while im waiting in line, memories. I couldn’t escape what my brain was trying to process

  • @juber1005
    @juber1005 4 месяца назад +117

    The Fther will expose people's hearts towards you, so you know who or who not to bring with you to the next level. If you can't properly discern separation is needed, the Father will intervene and assist! 🙌🏾 Growth hurts 😖

  • @monicabarkerkemper73
    @monicabarkerkemper73 4 месяца назад

    Destiny is not attached to what left 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @angelaaiken7910
    @angelaaiken7910 4 месяца назад

    It's soooooooo much better. Stronger, Wiser, Better....Developmental Season, in EVERY PERSPECTIVE OF MY LIFE.
    #GRATEFUL

  • @energy_milcorconsulting
    @energy_milcorconsulting 4 месяца назад

    Wrong people can teach rightful lessons!!! ❤🎉❤😮😊

  • @juber1005
    @juber1005 4 месяца назад +35

    The Father will sever relationships that hinder you and keep you from your destiny. If it or they were needed, the Father would permit the connection. 🙏🏾

    • @Mshumble3
      @Mshumble3 4 месяца назад +1

      This is stated perfectly!!

  • @cloteamack428
    @cloteamack428 4 месяца назад

    IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER!!!

  • @goldenlifelove7251
    @goldenlifelove7251 4 месяца назад +9

    That was me July 2023 to around February 2024. I experienced an unexpected ending of a relationship and then found out about the lies, deceit, and betrayal that I found out about after I was out of the situation. I knew early on that closure would come from God & I couldn't look to the person who hurt & betrayed me for it. As much as it hurt, it had to happen. It birthed a new person in me with a newfound love, adoration & relationship with God. The one who hurt me said they never would do what they did but ended up doing it worse. Nonetheless, I'm grateful to God that it happened & the woman I've become. God knew he wasn't for me & got me out of the situation. I'm thankful, healing, happy & blessed. God's way is always perfect!

    • @TaylaKerehi
      @TaylaKerehi 4 месяца назад +1

      Same sis, I knew the man I was with wasn’t for me so God removed him in February. It brought me closer to God and I’ll forever be grateful for those lessons He allowed from my worldly ex. Bless you in the name of Jesus Christ my sister

  • @hollysoneye8229
    @hollysoneye8229 4 месяца назад +25

    God bless everyone reading this ❤

  • @quovadiswise8902
    @quovadiswise8902 4 месяца назад +16

    Amen!! I didn’t get closure but I’m ready for what God has for me!

  • @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit
    @KP_FruitsoftheSpirit 4 месяца назад +34

    The WHY belongs to
    God. When God uses the wrong people, to teach you the right lessons. That's a received word.🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️

  • @susanolivares6852
    @susanolivares6852 4 месяца назад

    Thank you, Pastor Flowers 🫢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 So true and AMEN!!!

  • @yancimontoya5697
    @yancimontoya5697 4 месяца назад

    It’s getting better ! Yessss

  • @mommawanda8457
    @mommawanda8457 4 месяца назад

    Yesssss! It's BETTER!!!

  • @zek280
    @zek280 4 месяца назад

    Burnt 🔥 bridges are light 🚨🕯️ to right path

  • @Kaylinsmith62
    @Kaylinsmith62 4 месяца назад

    ITS BETTER 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @superflythornton4
    @superflythornton4 4 месяца назад +1

    It’s better!

  • @marilynrobinson6910
    @marilynrobinson6910 4 месяца назад

    I didn’t get closer!

  • @blaq584
    @blaq584 4 месяца назад

    I cannot wait for that day... ❤

  • @Jhenelle-xg1fl
    @Jhenelle-xg1fl 4 месяца назад

    Whewwwwww, Thank you❤️

  • @IndigoSass
    @IndigoSass 4 месяца назад

    It is Better!!! Amen thank you for building my character

  • @latishanicole1289
    @latishanicole1289 Месяц назад

    It’s better! Amen

  • @slim0568
    @slim0568 4 месяца назад

    IT’S BETTER!!!!

  • @carmenadams1848
    @carmenadams1848 3 месяца назад

    Its Better! 🙌🏼

  • @slim0568
    @slim0568 4 месяца назад +5

    Listennnnnnnnnnnnnn hereeeeee! Your destiny is never tied to what left 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @UkNoTrust
    @UkNoTrust 4 месяца назад

    Come on I'm Listening... Pain is really numb to me these days...Speak to me holy spirit.

  • @pancakeslover5891
    @pancakeslover5891 Месяц назад

    I thought I’d met the one I’d prayed for. I was committed to keeping the vows I made to God no matter what. There was a whole lotta what that did matter. God knew this and came for me. I’m forever grateful. Determined to live Gods plan A for me no matter what.

  • @sincerelysavannahrae
    @sincerelysavannahrae 4 месяца назад

    God, I thank you for your protection. I apologize for being quick to lose my temper when things do not go my way. Removing them was needed.

  • @jmarie8922
    @jmarie8922 4 месяца назад

    It's better!🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @AntonioLavender
    @AntonioLavender 4 месяца назад

    Amen brother 🙏🏾💯

  • @nettelove8894
    @nettelove8894 4 месяца назад

    IT'S BETTER👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ronmoses3859
    @ronmoses3859 4 месяца назад

    IT'S BETTER!

  • @robertclarko78
    @robertclarko78 3 месяца назад

    #PraiseJesus Amen

  • @JoshMitchell116
    @JoshMitchell116 4 месяца назад +11

    God, thank You for ordering my steps and my severing, even in my grief. Even when I committed relational homicide, thank You for purifying me. What a word.

  • @ottogreenjr.7857
    @ottogreenjr.7857 4 месяца назад

    Hallelujah

  • @FromTheHeartWithTaye
    @FromTheHeartWithTaye 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for this. I am going to listen to this again 🎉❤

  • @candycenbrown1923
    @candycenbrown1923 Месяц назад

    Hallelujah he gone & my everything I have experienced is so much Better!!

  • @missnewyork4116
    @missnewyork4116 4 месяца назад +10

    IT'S DEFINITELY BETTER. Experiences equates to Wisdom if we let go and cast all our cares onto our Father, Abba.
    I don't regret nothing of what I endured even through my new test. Not going back the vomit as a dog. God's timing and vengeance are healthier. 🙌🏾🙏🏾❤

    • @zek280
      @zek280 4 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @carmenadams1848
    @carmenadams1848 4 месяца назад

    Thank You Jesus. I hear you speaking to me

  • @BreukelenAmatz
    @BreukelenAmatz 4 месяца назад +7

    This word rocked MY WHOLE EXISTENCE. I am convinced that TODAY, I am one of the ones who especially needed to hear, remember, and heed all of this information. I turned 40 in November and what a JOURNEY it’s been!😭God bless all of you!

  • @vrichness
    @vrichness 4 месяца назад +1

    Answered prayers. I needed this today even though I didn’t realize that I did. I’ve experienced the wave after wave of betrayal and departure from those I cared about. This morning I prayed for God to order my steps for the day and He lead me to this sermon. Amazingly, I listened thinking the message was about something else and instead, it was the exact thing God needed me to hear. Hit me straight to the core of my heart where I still need to heal. Thank you Pastor Flowers for such a timely message.

  • @teegriffin624
    @teegriffin624 4 месяца назад

    Wow powerful I needed to hear this 🙏🏾💜💪🏾Amen Hallelujah Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @agnesmalesa5577
    @agnesmalesa5577 4 месяца назад +4

    “Grieving is stages and not a state”!

  • @sunflowerglaze
    @sunflowerglaze 4 месяца назад

    When you said, "somebody's eyes are filled with tears"...mine were at that exact moment!!

  • @serah333
    @serah333 4 месяца назад +1

    It's better...😊

  • @esthermaloney1108
    @esthermaloney1108 4 месяца назад +9

    Caring is the bi product of investing

  • @mommawanda8457
    @mommawanda8457 4 месяца назад

    Wow!!! You are talking to me!!!!!

  • @deborahwhite361
    @deborahwhite361 4 месяца назад

    I did'nt get closure. ❤🙏

  • @thatgirl4160
    @thatgirl4160 4 месяца назад

    Oh I hear u loud Mr Flowers 🔥🔥🔥😭

  • @lasonyawilson8721
    @lasonyawilson8721 4 месяца назад

    It's better Amen❤

  • @workoutmusic3855
    @workoutmusic3855 2 месяца назад

    Thank you
    Lord I need this to release. I understand quit looking for closer people hurts me.
    ❤🙏

  • @lovepurpose5210
    @lovepurpose5210 4 месяца назад

    Oh my word this is good, this is exactly what I needed 🙌

  • @AdrianNicole416
    @AdrianNicole416 4 месяца назад

    I really needed this message today. Thank you

  • @quovadiswise8902
    @quovadiswise8902 4 месяца назад +5

    The why belongs to God!

  • @jacquelinecampbell3588
    @jacquelinecampbell3588 4 месяца назад

    I didn’t get closure ‼️

  • @brandiejones_
    @brandiejones_ 4 месяца назад

    My God! 😭🙏🏻

  • @donidan4894
    @donidan4894 4 месяца назад +9

    It's better! My contentment. My satisfaction. My peace. It's better! Because it's in Him and not conjured up by me.

  • @wrinthiak3431
    @wrinthiak3431 4 месяца назад

    It is better!!!!!!

  • @JeauxHoward
    @JeauxHoward 3 месяца назад

    Listennnnnnnnnnnn!

  • @tinavaughn4398
    @tinavaughn4398 4 месяца назад

    I didn't get closer,on alot of things. 🥺🙏

  • @porschajohnson1890
    @porschajohnson1890 4 месяца назад +9

    “The person who left me is not going to come back and heal me.” Sooo good!

  • @juanitagonzalez8333
    @juanitagonzalez8333 4 месяца назад

    New subscriber, Hallelujah 😮

  • @aquin9529
    @aquin9529 3 месяца назад

    I needed to see this.

  • @shauntaford1436
    @shauntaford1436 4 месяца назад

    It's better!!!

  • @diamondjohnson
    @diamondjohnson 4 месяца назад

    It's better!!!

  • @kanayochukwuokwor9189
    @kanayochukwuokwor9189 4 месяца назад

    It’s better!!!

  • @roslyngreene1659
    @roslyngreene1659 4 месяца назад

    2018 was my year as well 😢. Lost my husband of 19 months. God molded, shape and turned me into a wonderful WOG ( woman of God). I love the new me❤❤

  • @jan854
    @jan854 4 месяца назад

    Self betrayal is the worst. When what you did caused your own situation and damage to yourself and the only person to blame is yourself. I'm struggling because my present and future seems so bleak but at the same time I'm blessed beyond measure.

  • @AthenaJolieMorales
    @AthenaJolieMorales 4 месяца назад +5

    God bless you for everything you’re doing for His people. I’ve had baggage for years that I didn’t realize could be set free. I didn’t realize the true power of Jesus cleansing your heart and soul. I figured I had to power through and ignore it. Thank you. These things hurt and I may not be strong enough to get through, but you’ve been used by God so much!! So much, I was shown how evil the things I was holding on to actually were. Thank you. I’m still allowing God to fix my wounds but for now, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you God. I’ve realized I was truly never completely set free.

  • @Kaylinsmith62
    @Kaylinsmith62 4 месяца назад

    I didn’t get closer

  • @LostmeBee
    @LostmeBee 4 месяца назад +8

    I’ve been so anxious all day and really down I went through a super hurtful breakup that emotionally hurt me so bad. I prayed for god to take this feeling away from me today .. I felt the holly spirit tell me to listen to you and I stumbled on this teaching an it has truly touched me and that anxiety I’ve had all day is gone and feeling down is gone .. this message truly was for me today .. thank you 🙏🏽

    • @michellestrydom9696
      @michellestrydom9696 4 месяца назад +3

      Jesus will heal your heart just keep filling yourself with the Word. Going myself through a divorce after 30 years. Big hug for you ❤

    • @Mshumble3
      @Mshumble3 4 месяца назад +1

      Sis, most of us have been there. I’m so very sorry for your pain. My prayer is that God heals you in every area you hurt. May he heal all of your broken places. Remember sis this is just a season and this too shall pass! God never waste our pain, you will be able to bless someone else in the future when they too go through a trying season. Also remember if you keep God first, you will never be last! Blessings 🙏🏽

  • @lisagoldsmith7435
    @lisagoldsmith7435 4 месяца назад

    It’s better!!

  • @its_mauyon
    @its_mauyon 4 месяца назад

    It’s better!!

  • @lisagoldsmith7435
    @lisagoldsmith7435 4 месяца назад

    I didn’t get closure!!

  • @felicianorthard
    @felicianorthard 4 месяца назад +4

    It’s BETTER 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾ALL THE WISDOM I HAVE NOW IS DUE TO MY EXPERIENCE. Betrayal don’t shock me NO MORE

  • @lorrainepowell2179
    @lorrainepowell2179 4 месяца назад +5

    I didn't get closure. But thanks be to God. I am asking Him to otder my steps. He knows and cates about everthong that concer s me and He wio perfect it all. Praises forever more. ❤🙏 🙏❤🙏🙏

  • @quintaamare52
    @quintaamare52 4 месяца назад +1

    All of the wisdom now is better than what I left🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @LaShondaDaPusha
    @LaShondaDaPusha 4 месяца назад

    Yes! You are talking to me.

  • @slim0568
    @slim0568 4 месяца назад +1

    I didn’t get closer, but I was able to seek God to help me process it and move on!

  • @Nicoe0987
    @Nicoe0987 4 месяца назад +1

    Whew! I'm mentally begging for closure each day. Drawing closer to God is giving me the strength to not break each day. This lesson was perfect timing for what I'm going through. I took many notes and will work on myself daily and apply this. Thank you!

  • @laveos82
    @laveos82 4 месяца назад

    I’ve seen this sermon the other day and thought, “ I’ll wait another day and watch it.” Not really knowing what the sermon was about, I clicked on it after a loooong morning. And when he got into betrayal, and forgiveness, I knew this was for me. My coworker did some shady stuff after me helping them and tried to make me look bad. Thank God, my director is a man of faith and he knows who I am and knew that it wasn’t true but, he still has to go over the situation with me. But this sermon was on point! I needed this today Mr. Flowers! I’m glad I waited to watch this sermon till the right time.

  • @josueverona3921
    @josueverona3921 3 месяца назад

    You talking to me....❤

  • @maneintegrity1098
    @maneintegrity1098 4 месяца назад +4

    Oh how I needed to hear this message. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @tinavaughn4398
    @tinavaughn4398 4 месяца назад

    Amen 🙌🙏 🔥

  • @cocob73nb
    @cocob73nb 4 месяца назад +1

    I didn't get closure. "Desired closure prolongs grief. Grieving is a stage(s), not meant to be a state!"

  • @skellam2
    @skellam2 4 месяца назад +1

    So many gems in this lesson!🙏🏼

  • @girlsrock112ify
    @girlsrock112ify 4 месяца назад +3

    Good message, thank you holy spirit

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 4 месяца назад +1

    Lord Jesus I seek you everyday please find me. Both of my sons have special needs and I struggle desperately trying my best to support them as a single mom. I put my children first, no matter how tired I am. Jesus continues to give me strength to keep going. Lord as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries please save me from this vicious cycle.❤️

  • @esthermaloney1108
    @esthermaloney1108 4 месяца назад +3

    Treat my wound Lord

  • @dorothyhenderson6515
    @dorothyhenderson6515 4 месяца назад

    It's better 😊

  • @AriaMcN
    @AriaMcN 4 месяца назад +12

    To this day, I still pray asking the Lord to order my steps and my stops ever since this life-changing message. So humbling and freeing all at the same time.

  • @ntambazijoyce
    @ntambazijoyce 4 месяца назад

    I love it when tou clap it hahaha God you great❤

  • @chaunceycook1367
    @chaunceycook1367 4 месяца назад +1

    Ordered steps & stops...thank you Father for every lesson - no other help I know 🙏🏽

  • @AntoinettePickett-v1b
    @AntoinettePickett-v1b 4 месяца назад

    Say that 🎉🎉

  • @Sjw52
    @Sjw52 4 месяца назад +2

    My goodness this bless me so much!,,,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tjelanascott3169
    @tjelanascott3169 4 месяца назад +1

    You just open up the door and say OK..KEEP IT MOVING...YOU DONT NEED CLOSURE....GOD IS SAYS I'M PROTECTING YOU!

    • @zek280
      @zek280 4 месяца назад +1

      That part