@@nunya6346 She really didn't tho. She fully gave him the option to either be involved or not be involved at all. It was Lawrence's decision to get involved. Her being under a lot of stress as a single parent to a new born and taking it out on Lawrence for trying to be there for her is a different story tho, and they fully worked it out and seemed happy as co-parents. But she really wasn't out to trap him tho.
@@pasax2017 gurl that’s what they say in the beginning you saw how her sister was gassing her up.. if she meant what she said she would’ve put her sister in her place and told her he didn’t want it but he’s trying… she trapped him plain and simple.. and now he with Issa she lost
idk i sympathize. i can see how you could say that and believe it before you actually get the point where you're handing off your baby to stay overnight with a man you've realized you don't 1000% trust to be fully responsible, even if you know he has great intentions. right or wrong that feels pretty real.
@M.A.P. Investments Research it’s a piece of fiction. She’s not dealing with post partum. That’s just a projection. We obviously see she has unresolved issues
@M.A.P. Investments Research stats show children raised by single mothers are more likely to end up with issues or legal trouble. Single fathers…will you don’t hear much about them. Latently they do a good job raising kids
It's really crazy seeing them speak to each other like this just thinking back to how they had met and he was so sweet to her and they just had sort of a gentle relationship.. What a baby can do lol
@@nunya6346 Definitely...We seen this too many times in our lives, whether we know or friend that's going through baby mama drama or baby father drama. Kids happen I get it? But that shit is a permanent thing, you can never move on from a partner you have a kid or kids with.
Condola decided to have a baby that Lawrence was not ready for. This scene pissed me off to no end!! Complaining how he is never around and then when he wants to take his son she doesn't feel comfortable. Such a shame that there are so many women like this and they don't see the error of their ways. Then wonder why men go ghost on their kids. And the fact that he called and apologized after the argument was ridiculous. Omg I couldn't stand her.
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 then she should’ve kept the baby from her last husband a not a random dude she only been talking to for a few couple weeks or so
she didn’t have one problem aborting her husband’s babies but suddenly she got morals and wants to keep Lawrence’s baby when she never really loved him at all. Gonna tell him she’s pregnant days before he leaves for San Francisco knowing he just got a great job and specifically told him he could be as involved as he wants. Then when the baby is born she doesn’t even check in with him or call, just sends a flimsy text message. She already writes him off as a deadbeat despite him trying. Plus he’s a new parent how is anyone supposed to know to check in about nap time on their first try. New parents make mistakes but she didn’t even try to give him a chance. Even after the argument she didn’t call him he called her and made amends. She made him take a whole ass plane ride down there, booking a hotel, and handed him their baby just to snatch baby boy back, yell at him and make him feel shitty. I get she’s stressed but she knew the consequences of being a single mom. She chose this path and knew Lawrence didn’t want her and wanted Issa. So she can’t sit here and say she’s being done wrong or he dumped her because that is hella far from the truth
Yeah he wanted to come back to Issa but that baby fucked everything up. Issa became crushed after that, and that was the time her and Molly had a falling out. Lawrence know Issa cheated once and he did as well with the girl at Best Buy. Maybe Lawrence and Issa needed each other but how he went about it was all wrong at that going away party in season 5. Issa shouldn't have not forced herself on Nathan and she had Nathan believing he was ready for something with her, when basically all of it was an illusion. Nathan gotten hurt in the end cause he really believe Issa wanted him
Bring back planned preganceys and 2 parent homes in the black community. The bigger picture is single parenthood and having babies out of wedlock ( or atleast a planned pregnancy or relationship) hurts everyone.
2 parent homes in the black community has always looked like the mother disproportionately raising the children. I think segments of this argument could have happened even if they were together and even if they planned it.
@@TheRebellefleur27 well one things for sure if it was planned and they were in a committed relationship as a two parent family the arguent would have 95% chance of not happening. She wouldnt be telling him to get out because he would live there. He wouldnt be begging to take his son to a second home in the middle of the night amongst other things so i dont know what you talking about.
Lawrence was actually the one who wanted that type of life with Candola, she was the one who said on that thanksgiving episode how she didn’t want to be married
Sometimes two parent households aren't always gonna save children! You got other men and women that come in the picture while kids are already there and make more. But the thing is they'll mistreat the kids that arent theirs and not mistreat the children they have with their partner! That shit needs to spoken out of!
@@Peejay09 yea but if you knew the accident happened why still have the baby without having these type of conversations 😅 .. if I know the man I’m seeing is nowhere ready to have a kid off to the clinic I go
@@coraliecadet90i honestly don't get why she had the baby either. I would've made the first appointment bright and early the next morning to planned parenthood. Abortions can be very traumatic but raising that baby is worse
@@Feliciatanktop exactly the latest you can do an abortion is 19 weeks .. she had a good 3 months to go to the clinic.. honestly I low key think she kept the baby to keep Lawrence around honestly
@@moonl8536 Condola is very proper-istic if that's a word lmao! Everything in her life has to be perfect, Lawrence came from a two parent household. But same time? Lawrence was really in limbo when Issa cheated on him and thought she wouldn't have done that. He even told that one girl that also worked at Best Buy that he's has a girlfriend despite she was asking to go to lunch with her. Lawrence was being loyal though you could tell he wouldn't have mind doing so. Towards the end I don't like Lawrence's transformation. It seems he became more and more of an asshole versus being quiet and being loyal to Issa.
honestly though, I know people that can relate to Condola and I dont think she is a bad person. First, your child is absolutely the most precious thing in your life, so she is nervous about her undependable ex taking the kid ( any mother would be). Second, Lawrence is not around and as a woman its pretty messed up having to do everything yourself ( daycare, doctors visits, etc). Yes, he works but she does too and take care of the baby and that sh** is HARD.. I knew someone who was going through this exact situation and literally their ex husband would give them 20 mins notice that they were coming to pick up the child.. like WTF? Who does that... What if you had plans already? People hate on black women but black women are literally carrying mountains with almost no help. Lawrence is a father 50% of the time and that must SUCK!! Dads are usually seen as the fun, cool parent but the Moms who pay the bills, take kids to doctors, emergency, cook dinner, clean clothes, and work full time get NO CREDIT and often get disrespected. I'm not taking sides because Lawrence is trying but people really gotta take it easy on us sisters because its alot of hardworking single black mothers out there and NO ONE gives them a leg up. Black women break too just like any other women. Condola is probably tired AF from late night feedings, scared, alone, and carrying most of the burden..you think that nice a** house she has in California is FREE.. Nope she probably worked her A***off to get it and gets NO CREDIT! and yet society disses her.. just like the folks in the comments are doing.. it really sucks being a black woman.. the most disrespected and neglected race of women.. Brother Malcom wasn't lying though
@missA m Lol do you have children? Most people in the comments section don't have kids. Seems to me she is acting like a new mom.. Stressed, tired, scared and alone. Its not easy to just trust and let go with your CHILD especially when the father seems unreliable. Not saying how she acted with lawreance was okay but I mean she is literally doing EVERYTHING.. Why do people dismiss that like its nothing? Food, shelter, clothing, everything coming from Mom.. Lawrence pops in and out when he feels like it but that is his best? and he gets all the credit and Condola dogged walked.. SMH.. one of the many reasons the black community is so F*** up..
@Cameryn Marrow So its all her fault and Lawrence is not at a fault.. he is doing " the best he can"..lol.. First of all, it was LAWRENCE fault for having unprotected sex, if he didnt want a child and had Issa in his heart and yet he is blaming Condola. WTF. Second, if you make a baby there is no " involved as much as you want".. you are a parent 100% so time to put on your big boy pants and grow the F*** up. They BOTH should have had the custody situation ironed out from the GET GO.. Blame the Black Woman... The good ole AA community standby
@missA m So its women's fault? not shared? very interesting.. I always like peeking into people's psyche .. Also, I dont think she is playing games and obviously she began to trust Lawrence as the series progressed. Trust takes time especially when its been broken. I think your perspective is a little one dimensional and juvenile to be honest. I see wrong actions by two people but only 1 being blamed. Black women undeniably take the brunt of everything and that is plain unfair but what is really interesting that black women are not defended at all. Women are the same in every race but I only see one consistently get attacked and marginalized.
@Cameryn Marrow I am not looking at Condola or even thinking about her tbh.. Lawrence especially being educated should have established paternal rights from the beginning! It should not have even gotten this point. My point is, regardless if Condola wanted Lawrence in the childs life or not. HE SHOULD BE THERE.. There is no choice in being a parent. Why do men get such leeway or an " out". If you have a child, regardless of the circumstances then you have RESPONSIBILITIES... no part time BS... FULL TIME.. FLAT OUT! They obviously worked it out but unless the man is a bad person, he is going to CO PARENT full time. Even if he didnt want the child it doesnt matter. Do you know how many women didnt want the child they have and yet they still take on full responsibility. Why should be any less for a man
@Cameryn Marrow Lol I am not really but I do see black women attacked.. its really weird.If you didnt like my comment, feel free to bugger off.. I mean you do realize that I am original poster and your commenting on my thread right? So why are you replying if you dont like what I have to say.. Your more into your feelings than I am. I am just responding. You came to me with the comments honey not vice versa. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Condola kind of seem ungrateful and unfair to Lawrence in this scene even if you try the blame being a new mom as an excuse. And stop using black deadbeat fathers as an excuse, there are plenty of black fathers out their despite flaws, but having these flaws does not make them bad or deadbeats.
In terms of of agreements, I'm on Lawrence side, but I'd be on her side if she said everything she said without taking their child out his hand(or if she spoke on how the arrangement is bothering her earlier)but in terms of conflict resolution Lawrence should've took the lead on de-escalating the situation. She starting all that shit because she's lonely with an unbalanced amount of labor. I would've tried to have a heart-to-heart and talk solutions once she said she doesn't trust me. I'd even offer to stay the night. That's with the power of being on the outside looking in with hindsight wisdom. Would I be able to have more compassion and levelheaded-ness if she came at me like that? I'd say yes, like a 60% chance of success. I think I'm empathic enough to see a woman giving me a choice and regretting she did because I made the choice that was easiest for me (especially if she thought me making the harder choice of being more involved was the only right answer, and she wasn't assertive enough to say that or wanted to test me). However... a woman stopping you from doing anything productive while also getting on you for back is a tough one not to be mad about. Your effort rejected hurts and makes you feel helpless, then your shortcomings getting bashed is logically annoying because you're being stopped from doing the good you can do at that moment. It's a shitty situation all around. It's the down side of casual or even sex with people you're dating seriously, you should know if the person you're with wants kids or just be abstinent. Both easier said than done, but you gotta' do it
i feel like while she did tell him he can be as involved as he wants to be, it still doesn’t give him a pass to swoop in and take the baby whenever he wants(if he truly isn’t around enough for her to trust his parenting)
Honestly everytime he's trying she shuts him out and her family isn't helping either....his friends are telling him to suck it up....the truth about the whole thing I think she's just salty he didn't give up his new job to stay in LA with her and the kid
@@KADDIE101 If I was Lawrence? And I gotten a job that's paying a good amount of money? I'm taking that job, and i'll still be around to co-parent! Condola is a salty woman I never liked her personality from jump. If Issa homegirl never introduced her to Lawrence? It would've been a huge save! Condola was very strategic in a way, I think if anything she wanted to be a mother than be with Lawrence once they fallen out. But why have Lawrence as the victim in this why have his baby? Cause she's afraid she won't have another chance? Maybe that's why her husband left her! She has to be controlling of everything
remember she specifically said he could be as involved as he wants and that she doesn’t expect much from him. That either way she’s good. And I understand she’s a new mom but shutting someone out who’s trying to be there despite living a whole plane ride away isn’t right. Plus she had the baby early didn’t even bother to call him or ask her family, Lawrence just ended up getting a flimsy ass text message. She literally had her family looking at him as if he was a terrible deadbeat when the baby was fresh out the verjayjay. I get that condola was stressed, scared and 9 times out of ten let her family fill her head with nonsense but she shouldn’t have pushed Lawrence away. You can’t push someone away one minute and then get mad they don’t come back the next minute. Now sadly in real life if she would’ve did this a lot of guys wouldn’t have come back but at least Lawrence kept fighting. But eventually they found balance so all is good. Oh and let’s not forget she knew she KNEW Lawrence did not want her anymore and she still decided to become a single mother. She knew that hardships would come so she can’t blame him for the decision she made.
@M.A.P. Investments Research she wanted to have a baby with a man that didn't want her. She did this to keep him in her life. All of her arguments weren't for the baby but, for what she's getting out of it. There's unfortunately a difference...
@M.A.P. Investments Research every answer is not postpartum. She clearly has unresolved issues and feelings for Lawrence. You can see how her family was acting towards him as well
She didn’t have her husbands child and both parties should’ve used protection (Lawrence should’ve learned from his last visit to the doctor) . Love this show !! 😅
These two were in a romantic and sexual relationship but mad that Condola ended up pregnant 💀 Lawrence is grown af and knew what the risks were too. He had to grow up.
Exactly she ain't even have a baby by her own husband, so she stopped taking birth control or something lol, obviously she knew what she was doing because he thought she was on birth control. Remember when he said I thought you was careful.
This was a mess. She’s mad because she failed to communicate. She’s mad that he didn’t want to be with her and she’s mad he took a job that would benefit the family. She got hurt feelings. She could’ve let him take that baby and had a quiet night relaxing
“But didn’t she say he could be as involved as he wants?” Yes, she did, but Lawrence agreed that he wanted to be in the baby’s life and WASN’T. Condola got a lot of heat but Lawrence was being an ASSHOLE about it at first.
Lawrence is better off either Isa. It’s wrong for him and consola to be together and it was wrong for them to have each other sex unprotected . The whole situation is so gross to me
honestly the comments are weird for me. so much hate for condola. lets pack it up , condola gets pregnant decides to keep it (btw it was never his decision to make, and knowing how careless he has been with sex you all are quick to jumb for the defense of std guy). she tells him the fact and to relieve pressure to him she tells him he can be evolved as much as he wants (than in the normal functioning brain ppl means either be an active parent which means split raising, or be involved as much as you can during weekends since stability for kids is essential or lastly not be involved at all ). in the first 2 cases OFCOURCE you need to have a schedule and be respectful of the other parent's time and schedule which lawrence didnt. the show showed us how lawrence wasnt very present duringg her term not evolved in any planning, one might assume if a guy isnt asking how shit is that he dont want to be involved. condola ,according to you alls thinking had to ask a guy abt everything regarding the kid and involve him while he showed he was against the kid be born , he said he felt trapped, he didnt domuch to show care and put his career first over the child constantly. like make it make sense. on top of that lawrence always making promises and then cancelling. you all are stupid , he should have been upfront ''i will want to be somewhat involved but my career comes first so dont expect much'' and he could have not act all offended when planning abt the kids lifes happens without him when he not there. unreasonable.
That baby was mad quiet when they started argument! He loves the drama
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Ayooo 😭😭💀💀
Ikr 😂
Missed hearing his absent father probably. Poor baby
The way he said shut up. He was so tired of her babbling 😂
And the look she gave him 😂😂
"You can be as involved as you want. Either way, I'm good."
- Condolence to Lawrence 🙄
@M.A.P. Investments Research I wouldn’t call that postpartum. Babies are stressful and she clearly didn’t give having this baby “single” more thought.
@M.A.P. Investments Research she trapped him on purpose
@@nunya6346 She really didn't tho. She fully gave him the option to either be involved or not be involved at all. It was Lawrence's decision to get involved. Her being under a lot of stress as a single parent to a new born and taking it out on Lawrence for trying to be there for her is a different story tho, and they fully worked it out and seemed happy as co-parents. But she really wasn't out to trap him tho.
@@pasax2017 gurl that’s what they say in the beginning you saw how her sister was gassing her up.. if she meant what she said she would’ve put her sister in her place and told her he didn’t want it but he’s trying… she trapped him plain and simple.. and now he with Issa she lost
idk i sympathize. i can see how you could say that and believe it before you actually get the point where you're handing off your baby to stay overnight with a man you've realized you don't 1000% trust to be fully responsible, even if you know he has great intentions. right or wrong that feels pretty real.
"I don't trust you!" Then why would you have his baby?
"I gave you a chance and you moved away." So she exposed herself. This chick was so messed up.
did she forget that she said that he can be there when he wants? 😂
@M.A.P. Investments Research it’s a piece of fiction. She’s not dealing with post partum. That’s just a projection. We obviously see she has unresolved issues
@M.A.P. Investments Research he was definitely more than just a fun time, you clearly can’t read between the lines.
@M.A.P. Investments Research yet she chose to have the baby. Why have it if it meant nothing…goof
@M.A.P. Investments Research this is why divorced women are a no no
@M.A.P. Investments Research stats show children raised by single mothers are more likely to end up with issues or legal trouble. Single fathers…will you don’t hear much about them. Latently they do a good job raising kids
Sometimes I sit and think if I missed out on something not having kids then I see stuff like this and it brings me back to my senses
Yea it does, right now I’m the only son out my moms that doesn’t have kids and I’m 30
that part
You missed out lol
@@kaitlynbrianna2845 nah lol
@@91Definiteit's not the kids, it's the _women_ lmao
It's really crazy seeing them speak to each other like this just thinking back to how they had met and he was so sweet to her and they just had sort of a gentle relationship.. What a baby can do lol
It's not the baby she but hurt cause he didn't fight for her ... she stepped aside saying he was still in love with Issa and he didn't chase her .
She just seems bitter…I know she doesn’t mean to be but she is.
Oh no she means to… she trapped him! Women really need to stop thinking that having a baby will keep a man
@@nunya6346 Definitely...We seen this too many times in our lives, whether we know or friend that's going through baby mama drama or baby father drama. Kids happen I get it? But that shit is a permanent thing, you can never move on from a partner you have a kid or kids with.
The only reason she wanted the baby back was to use him as a power piece.
Condola decided to have a baby that Lawrence was not ready for. This scene pissed me off to no end!! Complaining how he is never around and then when he wants to take his son she doesn't feel comfortable. Such a shame that there are so many women like this and they don't see the error of their ways. Then wonder why men go ghost on their kids. And the fact that he called and apologized after the argument was ridiculous. Omg I couldn't stand her.
"I DONT TRUST YOU", man that shit hit him hard 😬
I feel like she's mad because lawrence took that job in san francisco. She wanted him to stay in LA for her, not the baby HER!!!!
Exactly !! Like this is why you shouldn’t have kept the baby if it was going to be in a broken family ! Like why would you put that on yourself ?
@M.A.P. Investments Research that ain’t no postpartum
@@faithharrison3121 maybe because the weight of aborting a baby was too much for her/against her morals? abortion is a heavy descicion
@@sainttheresetaylor2054 then she should’ve kept the baby from her last husband a not a random dude she only been talking to for a few couple weeks or so
@@ZariyaJexactly consolas was annoying af
Making a baby is easy,but being a parent is hard
Yap 💯. That's where the real work is.
This is called acting: when you such strong emotions for or against the characters. Consolation is amazing, Lawrence too!
She's wrong for this but she was probably overwhelmed too raging in hormones. She changes though. Good acting though.
she didn’t have one problem aborting her husband’s babies but suddenly she got morals and wants to keep Lawrence’s baby when she never really loved him at all. Gonna tell him she’s pregnant days before he leaves for San Francisco knowing he just got a great job and specifically told him he could be as involved as he wants. Then when the baby is born she doesn’t even check in with him or call, just sends a flimsy text message. She already writes him off as a deadbeat despite him trying. Plus he’s a new parent how is anyone supposed to know to check in about nap time on their first try. New parents make mistakes but she didn’t even try to give him a chance. Even after the argument she didn’t call him he called her and made amends. She made him take a whole ass plane ride down there, booking a hotel, and handed him their baby just to snatch baby boy back, yell at him and make him feel shitty. I get she’s stressed but she knew the consequences of being a single mom. She chose this path and knew Lawrence didn’t want her and wanted Issa. So she can’t sit here and say she’s being done wrong or he dumped her because that is hella far from the truth
Thank you !! Why people not trying to SEE THAT 🙈🙈🤔 wth ?
I AGREE
Yeah he wanted to come back to Issa but that baby fucked everything up. Issa became crushed after that, and that was the time her and Molly had a falling out. Lawrence know Issa cheated once and he did as well with the girl at Best Buy. Maybe Lawrence and Issa needed each other but how he went about it was all wrong at that going away party in season 5. Issa shouldn't have not forced herself on Nathan and she had Nathan believing he was ready for something with her, when basically all of it was an illusion. Nathan gotten hurt in the end cause he really believe Issa wanted him
You know how you have a jump thru the screen moment on a specific character? Yeah, Condola was that person. Got on my damn nerves!
me with lawrence
Bring back planned preganceys and 2 parent homes in the black community. The bigger picture is single parenthood and having babies out of wedlock ( or atleast a planned pregnancy or relationship) hurts everyone.
2 parent homes in the black community has always looked like the mother disproportionately raising the children. I think segments of this argument could have happened even if they were together and even if they planned it.
@@TheRebellefleur27 well one things for sure if it was planned and they were in a committed relationship as a two parent family the arguent would have 95% chance of not happening. She wouldnt be telling him to get out because he would live there. He wouldnt be begging to take his son to a second home in the middle of the night amongst other things so i dont know what you talking about.
Lawrence was actually the one who wanted that type of life with Candola, she was the one who said on that thanksgiving episode how she didn’t want to be married
Can't when you have free women, they'll always destroy sexuality and degenerate society 🤷
Sometimes two parent households aren't always gonna save children! You got other men and women that come in the picture while kids are already there and make more. But the thing is they'll mistreat the kids that arent theirs and not mistreat the children they have with their partner! That shit needs to spoken out of!
Mmm see this what happens when you lay down with someone and don’t be having these type of talks before rawdogging
They didn't rawdog. He even said they were careful but accidents happen.
@@Peejay09 yea but if you knew the accident happened why still have the baby without having these type of conversations 😅 .. if I know the man I’m seeing is nowhere ready to have a kid off to the clinic I go
@@coraliecadet90i honestly don't get why she had the baby either. I would've made the first appointment bright and early the next morning to planned parenthood. Abortions can be very traumatic but raising that baby is worse
@@Feliciatanktop exactly the latest you can do an abortion is 19 weeks .. she had a good 3 months to go to the clinic.. honestly I low key think she kept the baby to keep Lawrence around honestly
@@Peejay09they did rawdog lmao being careful means he was pulling out
SHE TRAPPED HIM
Exactly she is strategic in everything she does, and her plan backfired.
No 😂 lol he trapped himself
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@@moonl8536 Condola is very proper-istic if that's a word lmao! Everything in her life has to be perfect, Lawrence came from a two parent household. But same time? Lawrence was really in limbo when Issa cheated on him and thought she wouldn't have done that. He even told that one girl that also worked at Best Buy that he's has a girlfriend despite she was asking to go to lunch with her. Lawrence was being loyal though you could tell he wouldn't have mind doing so. Towards the end I don't like Lawrence's transformation. It seems he became more and more of an asshole versus being quiet and being loyal to Issa.
honestly though, I know people that can relate to Condola and I dont think she is a bad person. First, your child is absolutely the most precious thing in your life, so she is nervous about her undependable ex taking the kid ( any mother would be). Second, Lawrence is not around and as a woman its pretty messed up having to do everything yourself ( daycare, doctors visits, etc). Yes, he works but she does too and take care of the baby and that sh** is HARD.. I knew someone who was going through this exact situation and literally their ex husband would give them 20 mins notice that they were coming to pick up the child.. like WTF? Who does that... What if you had plans already?
People hate on black women but black women are literally carrying mountains with almost no help. Lawrence is a father 50% of the time and that must SUCK!! Dads are usually seen as the fun, cool parent but the Moms who pay the bills, take kids to doctors, emergency, cook dinner, clean clothes, and work full time get NO CREDIT and often get disrespected. I'm not taking sides because Lawrence is trying but people really gotta take it easy on us sisters because its alot of hardworking single black mothers out there and NO ONE gives them a leg up. Black women break too just like any other women. Condola is probably tired AF from late night feedings, scared, alone, and carrying most of the burden..you think that nice a** house she has in California is FREE.. Nope she probably worked her A***off to get it and gets NO CREDIT! and yet society disses her.. just like the folks in the comments are doing.. it really sucks being a black woman.. the most disrespected and neglected race of women.. Brother Malcom wasn't lying though
@missA m Lol do you have children? Most people in the comments section don't have kids. Seems to me she is acting like a new mom.. Stressed, tired, scared and alone. Its not easy to just trust and let go with your CHILD especially when the father seems unreliable. Not saying how she acted with lawreance was okay but I mean she is literally doing EVERYTHING.. Why do people dismiss that like its nothing? Food, shelter, clothing, everything coming from Mom.. Lawrence pops in and out when he feels like it but that is his best? and he gets all the credit and Condola dogged walked.. SMH.. one of the many reasons the black community is so F*** up..
@Cameryn Marrow So its all her fault and Lawrence is not at a fault.. he is doing " the best he can"..lol.. First of all, it was LAWRENCE fault for having unprotected sex, if he didnt want a child and had Issa in his heart and yet he is blaming Condola. WTF. Second, if you make a baby there is no " involved as much as you want".. you are a parent 100% so time to put on your big boy pants and grow the F*** up. They BOTH should have had the custody situation ironed out from the GET GO.. Blame the Black Woman... The good ole AA community standby
@missA m So its women's fault? not shared? very interesting.. I always like peeking into people's psyche .. Also, I dont think she is playing games and obviously she began to trust Lawrence as the series progressed. Trust takes time especially when its been broken. I think your perspective is a little one dimensional and juvenile to be honest. I see wrong actions by two people but only 1 being blamed. Black women undeniably take the brunt of everything and that is plain unfair but what is really interesting that black women are not defended at all. Women are the same in every race but I only see one consistently get attacked and marginalized.
@Cameryn Marrow I am not looking at Condola or even thinking about her tbh.. Lawrence especially being educated should have established paternal rights from the beginning! It should not have even gotten this point. My point is, regardless if Condola wanted Lawrence in the childs life or not. HE SHOULD BE THERE.. There is no choice in being a parent. Why do men get such leeway or an " out". If you have a child, regardless of the circumstances then you have RESPONSIBILITIES... no part time BS... FULL TIME.. FLAT OUT! They obviously worked it out but unless the man is a bad person, he is going to CO PARENT full time. Even if he didnt want the child it doesnt matter. Do you know how many women didnt want the child they have and yet they still take on full responsibility. Why should be any less for a man
@Cameryn Marrow Lol I am not really but I do see black women attacked.. its really weird.If you didnt like my comment, feel free to bugger off.. I mean you do realize that I am original poster and your commenting on my thread right? So why are you replying if you dont like what I have to say.. Your more into your feelings than I am. I am just responding. You came to me with the comments honey not vice versa. 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Condola kind of seem ungrateful and unfair to Lawrence in this scene even if you try the blame being a new mom as an excuse. And stop using black deadbeat fathers as an excuse, there are plenty of black fathers out their despite flaws, but having these flaws does not make them bad or deadbeats.
In terms of of agreements, I'm on Lawrence side, but I'd be on her side if she said everything she said without taking their child out his hand(or if she spoke on how the arrangement is bothering her earlier)but in terms of conflict resolution Lawrence should've took the lead on de-escalating the situation.
She starting all that shit because she's lonely with an unbalanced amount of labor. I would've tried to have a heart-to-heart and talk solutions once she said she doesn't trust me. I'd even offer to stay the night.
That's with the power of being on the outside looking in with hindsight wisdom. Would I be able to have more compassion and levelheaded-ness if she came at me like that? I'd say yes, like a 60% chance of success.
I think I'm empathic enough to see a woman giving me a choice and regretting she did because I made the choice that was easiest for me (especially if she thought me making the harder choice of being more involved was the only right answer, and she wasn't assertive enough to say that or wanted to test me).
However... a woman stopping you from doing anything productive while also getting on you for back is a tough one not to be mad about. Your effort rejected hurts and makes you feel helpless, then your shortcomings getting bashed is logically annoying because you're being stopped from doing the good you can do at that moment.
It's a shitty situation all around. It's the down side of casual or even sex with people you're dating seriously, you should know if the person you're with wants kids or just be abstinent. Both easier said than done, but you gotta' do it
She dead ass wrong smh
i feel like while she did tell him he can be as involved as he wants to be, it still doesn’t give him a pass to swoop in and take the baby whenever he wants(if he truly isn’t around enough for her to trust his parenting)
like cmon lol not checking in on him/being around but wanting to take him away for the weekend??? she’s worried and i don’t blame her
Honestly everytime he's trying she shuts him out and her family isn't helping either....his friends are telling him to suck it up....the truth about the whole thing I think she's just salty he didn't give up his new job to stay in LA with her and the kid
@@KADDIE101 If I was Lawrence? And I gotten a job that's paying a good amount of money? I'm taking that job, and i'll still be around to co-parent! Condola is a salty woman I never liked her personality from jump. If Issa homegirl never introduced her to Lawrence? It would've been a huge save! Condola was very strategic in a way, I think if anything she wanted to be a mother than be with Lawrence once they fallen out. But why have Lawrence as the victim in this why have his baby? Cause she's afraid she won't have another chance? Maybe that's why her husband left her! She has to be controlling of everything
remember she specifically said he could be as involved as he wants and that she doesn’t expect much from him. That either way she’s good. And I understand she’s a new mom but shutting someone out who’s trying to be there despite living a whole plane ride away isn’t right. Plus she had the baby early didn’t even bother to call him or ask her family, Lawrence just ended up getting a flimsy ass text message. She literally had her family looking at him as if he was a terrible deadbeat when the baby was fresh out the verjayjay. I get that condola was stressed, scared and 9 times out of ten let her family fill her head with nonsense but she shouldn’t have pushed Lawrence away. You can’t push someone away one minute and then get mad they don’t come back the next minute.
Now sadly in real life if she would’ve did this a lot of guys wouldn’t have come back but at least Lawrence kept fighting. But eventually they found balance so all is good.
Oh and let’s not forget she knew she KNEW Lawrence did not want her anymore and she still decided to become a single mother. She knew that hardships would come so she can’t blame him for the decision she made.
shes a libra
Protection is a must gentlemen. That looks like hell dealing with her. Unfortunately, her behavior is very common.
@M.A.P. Investments Research she wanted to have a baby with a man that didn't want her. She did this to keep him in her life. All of her arguments weren't for the baby but, for what she's getting out of it. There's unfortunately a difference...
@M.A.P. Investments Research every answer is not postpartum. She clearly has unresolved issues and feelings for Lawrence. You can see how her family was acting towards him as well
@@variousstylzyglt4768 exactly !!
@missA m I mean they broke up he got a new job they were going their separate ways. She decided to keep the baby
@M.A.P. Investments Research I see you keep on bringing up postpartum but that’s not excuse. If that’s the case, she needs to get the help she needs.
She didn’t have her husbands child and both parties should’ve used protection (Lawrence should’ve learned from his last visit to the doctor) . Love this show !! 😅
1:26 "Shuuut Uppppp" 😂😂
Don’t hold a baby during an argument. That’s not fair to the child.
And the yelling too.
These two were in a romantic and sexual relationship but mad that Condola ended up pregnant 💀 Lawrence is grown af and knew what the risks were too. He had to grow up.
I don't understand how she just wanted him for sex but suddenly she pregnant when he went back to Issa.... something ain't right 😂
Exactly she ain't even have a baby by her own husband, so she stopped taking birth control or something lol, obviously she knew what she was doing because he thought she was on birth control. Remember when he said I thought you was careful.
His fault too
@@realtalktherapyreactionsit’s his fault too
This was a mess. She’s mad because she failed to communicate. She’s mad that he didn’t want to be with her and she’s mad he took a job that would benefit the family. She got hurt feelings. She could’ve let him take that baby and had a quiet night relaxing
she didn’t have to keep the baby lmaooooo, what a freak
May she rot in hell 😅😂
FREAKKK ⁉️⁉️ A WEIRDOOO AT THE VERY LEAST WTF
You a freak
FR SHE'S SO ANNOYING
“But didn’t she say he could be as involved as he wants?” Yes, she did, but Lawrence agreed that he wanted to be in the baby’s life and WASN’T. Condola got a lot of heat but Lawrence was being an ASSHOLE about it at first.
Condolences, consolas whatever the fck, gets on my nerves. you don’t trust him? after he said he didn’t want the baby? so WHY would you… YKW
She getting on my nerves and i’m halfway through season 5! She trapped HIM!
This was a good ass scene
Agreed 💯
Damn. I know this too well
Holy shit.
Lawrence is better off either Isa. It’s wrong for him and consola to be together and it was wrong for them to have each other sex unprotected . The whole situation is so gross to me
1:42 *That part*
Women want 100% of the *power* but not 100% of the *responsibility*
And we let them off the leash....why? 🤔
Because Men have so few rights and women know this. They love to use the system against us.
honestly the comments are weird for me. so much hate for condola. lets pack it up , condola gets pregnant decides to keep it (btw it was never his decision to make, and knowing how careless he has been with sex you all are quick to jumb for the defense of std guy). she tells him the fact and to relieve pressure to him she tells him he can be evolved as much as he wants (than in the normal functioning brain ppl means either be an active parent which means split raising, or be involved as much as you can during weekends since stability for kids is essential or lastly not be involved at all ). in the first 2 cases OFCOURCE you need to have a schedule and be respectful of the other parent's time and schedule which lawrence didnt. the show showed us how lawrence wasnt very present duringg her term not evolved in any planning, one might assume if a guy isnt asking how shit is that he dont want to be involved. condola ,according to you alls thinking had to ask a guy abt everything regarding the kid and involve him while he showed he was against the kid be born , he said he felt trapped, he didnt domuch to show care and put his career first over the child constantly. like make it make sense. on top of that lawrence always making promises and then cancelling. you all are stupid , he should have been upfront ''i will want to be somewhat involved but my career comes first so dont expect much'' and he could have not act all offended when planning abt the kids lifes happens without him when he not there. unreasonable.
typical woman, using the child as a bargaining chip
No lol He should spoke before hand