This is a wildly inaccurate description of what a trauma bond is. A trauma bond is where two people have experienced separate trauma (normally through their up bringing) and then they form a relationship together as a way to repeatedly play out their previous trauma with one another because subconsciously they hope to finally ‘fix’ the initial trauma they experienced. I.e a women who was raised by a very domineering overpowering dictator type mother and a man who was raised by a distant mother would come together so that the woman can maintain her role as the passive person who will do anything to make the man happy (replacing her mother with the man) and in return the man can use abuse and control to be the centre of the woman’s universe (which is all he has ever wanted because he was never loved as a child). The two people essentially have an emotional addiction to each other. These type of relationships are typically stereotyped by people getting very serious very quickly, extreme highs and extreme lows and a constant fear of abandonment. It is a constant push and pull. A trauma bond is not two people experiencing a trauma together which then bonds them.
you know now a days social media sensationalizes every disorder, diagnoses, "bond" " trauma " most of them have no idea what any of it feels like but because its the cool thing. they have to insert themselves
SuitMan used to carry a chair around Oberlin’s campus in ‘99, mainly so he could sit down if he had to wait in line (like at the dining hall). He was a rather nice guy in college…he transferred to Harvard the next year and that was that.
So Suitman made her miss out on the Call Her Daddy deal, then they broke up. - Don't let a guy dictate your life & finances ladies!
She lost $30 million 🤣🤣🤣
This is a wildly inaccurate description of what a trauma bond is. A trauma bond is where two people have experienced separate trauma (normally through their up bringing) and then they form a relationship together as a way to repeatedly play out their previous trauma with one another because subconsciously they hope to finally ‘fix’ the initial trauma they experienced. I.e a women who was raised by a very domineering overpowering dictator type mother and a man who was raised by a distant mother would come together so that the woman can maintain her role as the passive person who will do anything to make the man happy (replacing her mother with the man) and in return the man can use abuse and control to be the centre of the woman’s universe (which is all he has ever wanted because he was never loved as a child). The two people essentially have an emotional addiction to each other. These type of relationships are typically stereotyped by people getting very serious very quickly, extreme highs and extreme lows and a constant fear of abandonment. It is a constant push and pull. A trauma bond is not two people experiencing a trauma together which then bonds them.
you know now a days social media sensationalizes every disorder, diagnoses, "bond" " trauma " most of them have no idea what any of it feels like but because its the cool thing. they have to insert themselves
Actually no you’re completely wrong. A trauma bond is a situation in which a victim forms a bond attachment towards his or her victimizer.
lol suitman ruined her life
make your own choices, folks
Its not like she lost out on $30 million 😂😂😂
SuitMan used to carry a chair around Oberlin’s campus in ‘99, mainly so he could sit down if he had to wait in line (like at the dining hall). He was a rather nice guy in college…he transferred to Harvard the next year and that was that.
Awww nooo I was really rooting on them
😂
Ummmm, nope, not what a trauma bond is. Try again.