I feel less alone in my worldview when I watch your videos, tysm for making them and for helping me stay true to the choices i really want to make for myself 💌
Hello my angel. I’m so happy to hear this. You are not alone. You’ve got this RUclips community that gets you (& me!) 🥰❤️💗💕💚 I’m so proud of you for staying true to the choices you really want to make for yourself. Thank you for supporting me and for being so kind. You are a cherished presence in this corner of the internet xxxxx
I used to struggle with boys throughout elementary school, middle and highschool. i used to think there was something wrong with me. but i learned that i just dont want to be treated like trash and i was subconsciously protecting and loving myself. 💙 Love yourself. youre the only one who will stand up for you!
I have noticed that since I got married, men have been much more interested in me. I guess they think since another man chose to spend the rest of his life with me, something must be special. They will try to see if they can make me cheat or admit that I’m not truly happy. Then if i do, that respect will immediately vanish and be replaced with disdain. They create these labels like “wifey” but don’t even take them seriously and act in accordance with them, in fact I feel like they want to destroy their own creations for fun. No one can truly fit into that box and they want to make sure of it. They don’t want to owe you that respect.
Hey my love, thank you so so much for sharing your story. It's very interesting to hear. How does all this makes you feel? I felt sad hearing that men are giving you more attention now you're married and wanting you to cheat. That must be a lot for you. Sending you lots of love and thanks again for your vulnerability. ❤❤❤
Great video as always. This one is one to watch multiple times to let it sink in! ❤ You were saying that you are fed up with this culture blaming woman so quickly and this made me think about this thing I looked into recently. One day I was just looking into vampires and where these stories came from. Because you know... quriosity. There was also a chapter about vampires in different cultures and I was appalled that the majority of vampires were actually women in one way, shape or form. When I was younger I would have just accepted this for truth but thanks to your work and a couple other amazing women I've become more aware of this. Also I love what you so eloquently explained in the girl boss vs wifey section. I have this feeling that some woman feel attracted to the tradwife cottagecore lifestyle because they think girlbossing is not for them so they have to do the other thing available. I love, love, love that you thought of other ways for woman to be. That we can be a little bit of everything. That we can be complex and that this is good and beautiful. That we don't have to listen to the this or that narrative and that we can create our own way. My gut tells me that this way of thinking is a female pov we also need (more of) in this world. Thank you for putting these pieces together.
Hello my love! ❤ Your comment has honestly made my day! My partner read it out to me first thing this morning. Thank you for being so thoughtful and for writing so beautifully. So so interesting hearing about your exploration of vampires and women! And yes, I so agree with your gut - we need more of a female point of view in this world! ❤❤❤❤❤ Lots of love xxx
Absolutely! I expect to me met, and appreciated, exactly as I offer the space for the people I welcome into my life to bloom, as their most consciously self aware, unfolding selves. It's brutal, the pain humans have collectively bowed to and unquestionably embraced, as subject to commercially engineered, reduced, corseted selves. Thank you for creating your exceptional channel, Alessia . In sisterhood, I specifically appreciate finding that am now less alone in my truest core values, needs, expectations, than I was led to believe, in 4+ decades. 🌹🤗
Time seems to have frozen but the mind can be fooled. As the days pass, I discover destiny just can't be ruled. Hard times, oh, hard times, for the prize yes, the prize I thought I knew. ~ Twisted Sister (1984)
Exactly, I don’t need to be chosen by men, I am chosen by Jesus to be part of his family. If any man of God is willing to submit his masculinity to the Lord and love his neighbour, I ain’t submitting my femininity to him.
Movies ~ Little Women 2019, Wicked 2024, Barbie 2023, She Said 2022, Battle of the Sexes 2017, and Hidden Figures 2016❤ TV shows ~ the Bold Type, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Big Little Lies, Little Fires Everywhere, and Fleabag ❤
Men impact women. Ignoring this reality is impossible. Discussing how women relate to men (and vice versa) isn’t just important; it’s necessary. This topic is stigmatised for a reason-to keep women from finding agency and empowerment. And if that bothers you, you're a huge part of the problem I'm addressing. You can join the conversation and listen to women and be kind or you can channel your confused anger at us. It's your choice.
@alessiasutherberry I'm not angry at you and never be ( You are a very gentle and cute woman ) I really appreciate this kind of woman/man's personality and also support woman empowerment for woman like you ( but not for b*tches/gold diggers) am just telling u tht u make same kind of video , same topic
I feel less alone in my worldview when I watch your videos, tysm for making them and for helping me stay true to the choices i really want to make for myself 💌
Hello my angel. I’m so happy to hear this. You are not alone. You’ve got this RUclips community that gets you (& me!) 🥰❤️💗💕💚 I’m so proud of you for staying true to the choices you really want to make for yourself. Thank you for supporting me and for being so kind. You are a cherished presence in this corner of the internet xxxxx
Also, thank you so so much for the super thanks! It means the world 🥹❤🥰
I used to struggle with boys throughout elementary school, middle and highschool. i used to think there was something wrong with me. but i learned that i just dont want to be treated like trash and i was subconsciously protecting and loving myself. 💙 Love yourself. youre the only one who will stand up for you!
I'm so sorry you're experienced that angel, it sounds super painful. You deserve so much love and respect. Lots of love 💚💚💚💚💚💚
I have noticed that since I got married, men have been much more interested in me. I guess they think since another man chose to spend the rest of his life with me, something must be special. They will try to see if they can make me cheat or admit that I’m not truly happy. Then if i do, that respect will immediately vanish and be replaced with disdain. They create these labels like “wifey” but don’t even take them seriously and act in accordance with them, in fact I feel like they want to destroy their own creations for fun. No one can truly fit into that box and they want to make sure of it. They don’t want to owe you that respect.
Hey my love, thank you so so much for sharing your story. It's very interesting to hear. How does all this makes you feel? I felt sad hearing that men are giving you more attention now you're married and wanting you to cheat. That must be a lot for you.
Sending you lots of love and thanks again for your vulnerability. ❤❤❤
This was on my recommended videos and now i feel beautiful.
@@Thundertimi ❤️❤️❤️
Great video as always. This one is one to watch multiple times to let it sink in! ❤
You were saying that you are fed up with this culture blaming woman so quickly and this made me think about this thing I looked into recently. One day I was just looking into vampires and where these stories came from. Because you know... quriosity. There was also a chapter about vampires in different cultures and I was appalled that the majority of vampires were actually women in one way, shape or form. When I was younger I would have just accepted this for truth but thanks to your work and a couple other amazing women I've become more aware of this.
Also I love what you so eloquently explained in the girl boss vs wifey section. I have this feeling that some woman feel attracted to the tradwife cottagecore lifestyle because they think girlbossing is not for them so they have to do the other thing available. I love, love, love that you thought of other ways for woman to be. That we can be a little bit of everything. That we can be complex and that this is good and beautiful. That we don't have to listen to the this or that narrative and that we can create our own way. My gut tells me that this way of thinking is a female pov we also need (more of) in this world. Thank you for putting these pieces together.
Hello my love! ❤ Your comment has honestly made my day! My partner read it out to me first thing this morning. Thank you for being so thoughtful and for writing so beautifully.
So so interesting hearing about your exploration of vampires and women! And yes, I so agree with your gut - we need more of a female point of view in this world! ❤❤❤❤❤ Lots of love xxx
This one hit hard I had to watch 3 times
Aw bless you my angel ❤❤❤❤❤❤ lots of love
we love our angel Alessia , our fairy godmother 🤍
@@IndyLux-y5x I’ll take that title any day!😘❤️✨🥰🥹 Thank you my loveeee xxxx
@@IndyLux-y5x lots of love 💕💜
You are so wise ❤
🥰🥹💓 thank you angel
Your voice is very very calming
Awww thank you angel ❤❤❤
I love this perspective. Have a blessed week 🌷
Thank you🥹💖. I hope you have a lovely week yourself!💛💞
Absolutely!
I expect to me met, and appreciated, exactly as I offer the space for the people I welcome into my life to bloom, as their most consciously self aware, unfolding selves.
It's brutal, the pain humans have collectively bowed to and unquestionably embraced, as subject to commercially engineered, reduced, corseted selves.
Thank you for creating your exceptional channel, Alessia . In sisterhood, I specifically appreciate finding that am now less alone in my truest core values, needs, expectations, than I was led to believe, in 4+ decades. 🌹🤗
Beautifully said! ❤
Thank you so much for your warmth and support angel, it really does mean the world to me. 🥹💖💕Sending a big hug your way xx
Love this message ❤
Thank you angel, your support means the world 💓💓💓💓💓💓
So beautifully said and SO helpful
thank you sooo much angel💚💚
❤ such a nice way with words you have! I’m so happy to have found u
Awww thank you so so much!🥰💓😘 I'm so happy you found this RUclips community☺💖
Oooooooooh!!!!! This is amazing and a very needed conversation
thank you my love💚
LOVE THIS PART 20:12 . Loving all of yourself first.
Aww thank you for noticing! This was my favourite part of the video too (if I don't say so myself). ❤❤❤❤❤
Your sweater looks amazing on ya too
Awww thank you!💓💓💓 I do love this sweater!xx
Thank you 🩷🩷🫂😭
@@LoveChumbi lots of love angel💓💕💗💞
beautiful video Alessia😊 ❤❤❤ i love this
@@shelbyowens7448 thank you so so much angel 🥰💕💛 sending you lots of love x
❤👑💎🎀 lovely video, thank you
Thank you my love ❤❤❤
No but some of us really have had to unlearn this including me 😅
we all relate 🩵🩵🩵🩵
Time seems to have frozen but the mind can be fooled. As the days pass, I discover destiny just can't be ruled. Hard times, oh, hard times, for the prize
yes, the prize I thought I knew. ~ Twisted Sister (1984)
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Exactly, I don’t need to be chosen by men, I am chosen by Jesus to be part of his family. If any man of God is willing to submit his masculinity to the Lord and love his neighbour, I ain’t submitting my femininity to him.
Does anyone have recommendations for shows or movies that haven’t those typical roles for women?
Movies ~ Little Women 2019, Wicked 2024, Barbie 2023, She Said 2022, Battle of the Sexes 2017, and Hidden Figures 2016❤
TV shows ~ the Bold Type, The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Big Little Lies, Little Fires Everywhere, and Fleabag ❤
My eyes watered 2 mins in 🥹
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Why your every topic on men 😅
Men impact women. Ignoring this reality is impossible. Discussing how women relate to men (and vice versa) isn’t just important; it’s necessary. This topic is stigmatised for a reason-to keep women from finding agency and empowerment. And if that bothers you, you're a huge part of the problem I'm addressing.
You can join the conversation and listen to women and be kind or you can channel your confused anger at us. It's your choice.
@alessiasutherberry I'm not angry at you and never be ( You are a very gentle and cute woman ) I really appreciate this kind of woman/man's personality and also support woman empowerment for woman like you ( but not for b*tches/gold diggers) am just telling u tht u make same kind of video , same topic
False. We’re always the prize for men