So glad the counselling working, have had to deal with sudden death of parents at different times but was different for me and not have problems but respect you looking for and getting help as needed. Keep going and 100% behind you. Love you for your honesty through this. 👍🏍
Hi Craig. This was virtually like listening to myself talking. I'm 2 weeks into my group grief counselling and we're starting to open up as a group. However it was the photograph bit that hit home. Exactly the same happened to me last week. I found a photo I had taken of Sylvia a week before she died and you can see the pain in her face. So I jumped onto her laptop for the first time since she died and found a photo she took of us in the Cairngorms 4 years ago. Just the 2 of us lying on a bed, head & shoulders, 90° from each other. And she looked so happy I just broke down and sobbed. I didn't even know it existed. I showed the family and our son got a canvas print made of it for me. Again, as soon as I opened the package I broke down again. Daft really considering Sylvia looks so happy in it. As you say, these things will come from nowhere and I have the same mindset as you, I will always love and miss her for the rest of my days but she would hate for me to not live my life fully just because she's gone. I've actually been out on my bike more this last fortnight than the previous 6 months. She would definitely appreciate that!
So glad the counselling working, have had to deal with sudden death of parents at different times but was different for me and not have problems but respect you looking for and getting help as needed. Keep going and 100% behind you. Love you for your honesty through this. 👍🏍
You talk very eloquently mate. Keep going 🙏🏻
Proud of ya bro keep up the Counciling
Thanks big lad. See you tonight mate
Hi Craig. This was virtually like listening to myself talking. I'm 2 weeks into my group grief counselling and we're starting to open up as a group. However it was the photograph bit that hit home. Exactly the same happened to me last week. I found a photo I had taken of Sylvia a week before she died and you can see the pain in her face. So I jumped onto her laptop for the first time since she died and found a photo she took of us in the Cairngorms 4 years ago. Just the 2 of us lying on a bed, head & shoulders, 90° from each other. And she looked so happy I just broke down and sobbed. I didn't even know it existed. I showed the family and our son got a canvas print made of it for me. Again, as soon as I opened the package I broke down again. Daft really considering Sylvia looks so happy in it. As you say, these things will come from nowhere and I have the same mindset as you, I will always love and miss her for the rest of my days but she would hate for me to not live my life fully just because she's gone. I've actually been out on my bike more this last fortnight than the previous 6 months. She would definitely appreciate that!