Conversations with Kanwal S2 | Episode 10 | Family Pressures

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @iAdeelSohail
    @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад +290

    Thank you Thank you Thank you All for supporting this episode and supporting Kanwal and me as well. ❤️ I cannot express the feelings and the response that I am getting. Life is hard, but the society makes it much harder. It requires a lot of courage to share something which chases you till your last breath. All you need is courage to fight your depressions and anxiety :)

    • @zunainmoini8134
      @zunainmoini8134 4 года назад +12

      Dear Adeel,
      You had made your grandfather proud! Suicide is not an option.... never, life is precious..
      I being an artist myself can relate to you.....
      Love from India (Ajmer)

    • @iAdeelSohail
      @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад +4

      @@zunainmoini8134 Jee... I don't have words to express my love and gratitude for you. All I can say is love you bless you. And thanks a ton for understanding this ❤️

    • @brighteyes4020
      @brighteyes4020 4 года назад +3

      You are such an inspiration! Loads of luck to you and hope to see you soon in a play... keep shinning!!!

    • @iAdeelSohail
      @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад +3

      @@brighteyes4020 JazakAllah Khair and thank you so much Sadaf. ☺️

    • @mishaalkhattak4816
      @mishaalkhattak4816 4 года назад +1

      What are you doing nowadays adeel?

  • @sonisunder
    @sonisunder 4 года назад +151

    I feel shows like this need to be aired on main stream TV channels. Bakwas morning shows and fazool be-tauke evening political shows ki jagha yeh chalna chiye TV pr.
    Real stories like these are what our society learns from. Our people relate to these stories more than any other TV show or stupid dramas. That's where our youngsters should be looking for inspiration...that's where motivation comes from....hearing what you are going through from another person...that's what picks you up and pushes you through tough times...not what's on our TVs currently.
    Kanwal I love these shows. You are doing so well...with each one you you are painting such amazing pictures of our society that we ignore in the name of 'normal life'...but right here are the problems we face...and we are wasting our everyday efforts on stuff that doesnt matter.
    I wish all the best for the episodes ahead. I hope this doesnt stop here.

    • @mush3179
      @mush3179 4 года назад

      I Also Agree.

    • @DarkStar93x
      @DarkStar93x 4 года назад +1

      Seriously, can this please happen?

    • @SalmaK.Shamshad
      @SalmaK.Shamshad 3 года назад +1

      Agr ese shows TV per chala diye to society sudher jayegi, aur wo hum chahtay nahi. Isliye society ko saas bahu dramas aur characterless, beyhuda morning shows, game shows mei busy rakhte hain. 😔

    • @muhammadismailsheikh3790
      @muhammadismailsheikh3790 Год назад

      Raipye pakistani women

  • @jalaybi
    @jalaybi 4 года назад +78

    Kanwal you need your own hour long talk show. These 15-20 minute segments aren’t enough. You’re the only one who tackles actual issues in Pakistan and are a fantastic listener.

    • @anasmohammadi8906
      @anasmohammadi8906 7 месяцев назад

      but i feel that covering once life n struggle in just 15 to 20 minutes makes it more interesting to watch but at the same tym make it too large makes the viewer bored and they watch it by skipping often n often i feel that sweet n short is better den long were a viewer feel like daily soap drama .... this is just my opinion thats it hope u dnt mind

  • @backupfordata9878
    @backupfordata9878 4 года назад +34

    I am an indian woman living in toronto and many of these issues are universal. Kudos to you Kanwal for talking about such important topics. Sitting in another place , I can feel your warmth, kindness and empathy. May the lord bless you with lots of success. I hope to see you get recognized Globally, because you are no less than Oprah! All the best

  • @02abeehamuneeb36
    @02abeehamuneeb36 4 года назад +70

    The best part about Kanwal’s show and the stories she chooses is that the ending is almost always positive. These stories bring awareness of societal issues but also give us hope. They always leave me teary-eyed but warm on the inside! ✨

  • @hadiaarslan9619
    @hadiaarslan9619 4 года назад +55

    We may not realise it, but we live in a TOXIC society.

    • @sandershano5758
      @sandershano5758 3 года назад +2

      People who don’t realise it are the part of the problem too

  • @sarat8577
    @sarat8577 4 года назад +65

    Our society is as unfair to men as it is to women. Young men are seen as ATM machines by their families. Parents don’t do any retirement planning and expect sons to fund their lifestyles. Wives expect the same. Heck even farigh chachas and tayas expect the same. Bechara admi kia Kate. I know families where both husband and wife work very hard to give good schooling to their children and plan for retirement but relatives only see money and expect their son to fulfill their unfair demands of a bigger home, a better car even if the son himself doesn’t have such luxuries. It’s about time people start being responsible for money and start planning ahead rather than mooching off of their sons or nephews

  • @ai172
    @ai172 4 года назад +33

    Kanwal, this is such a relevant topic in our society! Our expectations from boys/men are so high, almost unrealistic ! This is passive abuse. Adeel's failures topped with lack of support from loved ones led to depression. However he rose from self blame to self responsibility, from helplessness to empowerment. Such an inspiration! Kanwal , thank you for highlighting humble, hardworking and dignified men such as Adeel who go through their own share of struggles. 💛🌟

  • @zunainmoini8134
    @zunainmoini8134 4 года назад +35

    Dear Adeel,
    Congratulations for this platform, you had already achieved what you desired, you had fulfilled your grandfather wish, you are a name known now, thank you Kanwal for your inspirations, and to the readers suicide is not not not an option be a fighter, keep fighting no matter what!
    Love from India
    Love to Kanwal and her team!

  • @samannadir6860
    @samannadir6860 4 года назад +9

    This is much needed and it's so brave for him to come out and talk about this..

  • @Justthisway20
    @Justthisway20 4 года назад +3

    I’m happy to see kanwal interviewing men too its not just women who go through hard times.. Har insan ki story hoti hai regardless of what gender they are... Ghar se le ker , Society tak ka pressure bohat hota hai!!! Its very easy to go into depression..

  • @mush3179
    @mush3179 4 года назад +6

    Truly You have a strong heart and devotion to be able to talk about so many society issues which many people know but still they remain silent about them.
    I Honour and Respect You.
    May ALLAH Grant You Countless Blessings and Mercy.
    Aameen.

  • @mayya6
    @mayya6 4 года назад +9

    Good to see men are also been treated equally as women’s on this show.

  • @Carzforevers
    @Carzforevers 4 года назад +3

    Wow i hope he continues his passion and never leaves it. Life is not about earning, its about learning. Adeel you have a long way to go never give up. Thankyou Kanwal for bringing this up.

  • @juwairiyaabdulqadeer3549
    @juwairiyaabdulqadeer3549 4 года назад +3

    Kanwal! Awesome work girl! Men need a platform to show their emotions. Finally breaking the myth men don't cry or mard ku dard nahi hota.... They have a lot to share and need to pour out their hearts out!

  • @ridanoor2070
    @ridanoor2070 4 года назад +12

    Kanwal you're the best listener every person going through depression needs..

  • @sheezaghufran3758
    @sheezaghufran3758 4 года назад +61

    Was waiting for thisss finally and I also have my paper tomorrow but cannot miss this love you kanwal

  • @mush3179
    @mush3179 4 года назад +5

    Same issue was pointed out in a scene from bollywood movie "3 Idiots" when Kareena Kapoor finally elaborated to her father Booman Irani as to why her brother comitted suicide just because he wanted to be a writer whereas his father insisted that he should become an engineer just like himself. He was unable to cope with family pressure, takes the drastic step and mentions it in his suicide note.
    Both sisters knew about the motive for suicude but they kept it hidden from their father so as to not hurt his feelings.
    Sad Tragic Reality.

  • @binishhussain_soundachievers
    @binishhussain_soundachievers 4 года назад +19

    A lot of us aren't able to pursue our passion because of no support from the family. It's so very important that we allow each other to be the people we want to be.
    I found my passion through a lot of struggle, depression, opposition and putting down from family.
    I love what I do.

  • @uzmasaqib4028
    @uzmasaqib4028 4 года назад +7

    Simple... realistic... And relatable stories. I am addicted to this.... happy endings make all of us happy for a long time and waiting becomes even harder. Everyone.... this is all of us... let's break the chain and let our kids do what they really want to do so that we can also grow as a nation

    • @mush3179
      @mush3179 4 года назад

      Very Well Said Indeed.

  • @petsfails8490
    @petsfails8490 4 года назад +32

    Please keep on interviewing men .. whole society is some how discussing about women's problems mostly ..

  • @BeYourOwnSavera
    @BeYourOwnSavera 4 года назад +3

    Nice... I have shared this story who are in depression..
    The way you talk kawal shows that you are full of empathy and you can understand's everyone feeling..

  • @muhammadaleem1298
    @muhammadaleem1298 4 года назад +3

    Indeed, the key to success in life is SIMILARITY OF PASSION & PROFESSION. Unfortunately, we aren't pursuing this golden rule. Due to social taboos and severe financial pressures, the youngesters aren't able to achieve self actualization. we need to understand that Almighty Allah is a versatile creater and He has blessed everyone with distinctive talent. Therefore, everyone should be encouraged to follow his/her passion (but within moral limits).

  • @tehreemfatima5389
    @tehreemfatima5389 4 года назад +5

    Goddddd I was just going through all this. I badly needed to hear this. Thankyou sooo much kanwal.

  • @Farrukh018
    @Farrukh018 4 года назад +4

    It's not just about following passion and make it bread and butter. Sometimes your passion doesn't earn you much to feed you whole month. Willingly or unwillingly one has to do something which gives him or her regular income. Because bills and groceries ask money regularly.
    Those who are earning really well and they are passionate about it, are the luckiest. Usually anything related to Art is unpredictable

  • @nawan2348
    @nawan2348 4 года назад +7

    jab parent bachon ko apni marzi se profession choose kanay dainga tu bachon ko depression nahi hoga life mein, kuinke har insaan ko Allah swt ne uniq quality k sath paida kiya hai.

  • @kinza8001
    @kinza8001 4 года назад +3

    Kanwal api this is such a relevant topic in our society.... More power to you.... ❤️😍 Yehhh reality shows onscreen anay cheiyn un fazool dramo r morning shows ki jagah ❤️❤️

  • @pearlstars977
    @pearlstars977 4 года назад +3

    Good luck Adeel. Make your own dreams and stay healthy.

  • @shritakandwal3259
    @shritakandwal3259 4 года назад +18

    Again first one from india ❤ always 😊

  • @May_3005
    @May_3005 4 года назад +10

    every sunday is incomplete without your videos
    love your videos please give me a heart and please reply
    from your biggest fan

  • @soulstrummer580
    @soulstrummer580 4 года назад +7

    You should have mentioned what became of Adeel later on, what is he doing now to make his story come a full circle.

  • @zeffgoals9685
    @zeffgoals9685 Год назад

    Finally someone is speaking about it ,not all families are perfect and we have to accept it ...

  • @xDiNify
    @xDiNify 4 года назад +1

    Well deserved topic and story. This is for million of our youngsters who are facing this. Trust yourself .

  • @laibazafar6388
    @laibazafar6388 3 года назад +1

    Really appreciating personality kanwal.lots of love for her .may Allah give him more success

  • @ayeshasiddiqua4712
    @ayeshasiddiqua4712 4 года назад +2

    Adeel nervous hogaye kanwal was making him comfortable

  • @moodmeditation4458
    @moodmeditation4458 4 года назад +2

    Make your passion a profession until you are still Professional and gives off positivity. And esp gifted and made to do this and a blessing on society. Bec someone is gonna be the pioneer of everything and not just scapegoat that makes you unique.

  • @hafsaali3001
    @hafsaali3001 4 года назад +17

    I can totally relate with his situation .. because I was going through this for past two years and now I have started taking steps for myself and In Shaa Allah I'll make it sooner or later .
    Jazakallah Kanwal api 🌸 this episode is lit 👌

    • @sadafbutt1600
      @sadafbutt1600 4 года назад +1

      M the same

    • @moodmeditation4458
      @moodmeditation4458 4 года назад +3

      I went for my profession while all my cousins getting married now knowing my age I'm not getting same kind of proposals.

    • @hafsaali3001
      @hafsaali3001 4 года назад

      @@moodmeditation4458 Allah is the best planner He must have a plan a best plan for you. Focus on your profession with all your heart ,for betterment everyday...there is never an end to learning make yourself an expert in that field so that you can prevent overthinking and pray to Almighty 🌸 He'll solve your all problems. He'll bless you with what is bestest for you In Shaa Allah

  • @anitasingh6147
    @anitasingh6147 4 года назад +5

    Kanwal's show is great I like your voice madam u r so beautiful.

  • @SA-zq9ro
    @SA-zq9ro 4 года назад +1

    I love the way this show is conducted...the enviroment and the host herself is soo soft spoken and freindly...Kanwal ap buhut pyari hain MashaAllah May ALLAH guide and blesss U ap logo say unki batain aur problems share krti hain

  • @leezadinesh6150
    @leezadinesh6150 4 года назад +4

    Kanwal' show today is Lovely and really an inspirational story in today's world...focusing on aesthetic side is also a very important part to shape a person's over all personality and attitudes if there is a deep passion to chose it as one's career one should follow one's heart..and be happy and successful and enjoy one's work , near and dear ones should support and encourage now the world is rapidly changing in career and job opportunities it is very versatile..
    Thanks to both of you for sharing and highlighting something which is of utmost important..Truely your's.

  • @sadafghufran428
    @sadafghufran428 4 года назад +2

    Don’t let family pressure or society put an end to your dreams. Beautiful episode 👌

  • @tauriangurl
    @tauriangurl 4 года назад +3

    This tym kanwal is v much aware of questioning👍🏻

  • @feminamalhotra
    @feminamalhotra 4 года назад +6

    It's real in morning when I woke up I was really happy bcz today your episode will come❤️

  • @tamfat5891
    @tamfat5891 4 года назад +2

    We neither let our women breath nor our men!! We live in a toxic society
    And this guy is extremely cute 😅

  • @habibsherazi8232
    @habibsherazi8232 4 года назад +2

    Jitna bhai jheegaq rahay tay mjy andaza hoga hai how pressurize he feel when he want to pursue his selected career.😊😊But it always end well.😊😊Na jahen na kanwal ap please yeh season katam hojai ga.😫😭

  • @samannadir6860
    @samannadir6860 4 года назад +2

    I can relate to this a lot,there is so much pressure on us as human beings,but in the end we are human and we make mistakes..and that's ok

  • @AbdulWahab-nm3js
    @AbdulWahab-nm3js 4 года назад +2

    May Allah SWT make him more successful
    Ameen Sum Ameen

  • @specialtv655
    @specialtv655 4 года назад +2

    Keep it up kanwal u raised the major issue of men

  • @ketkibhabra845
    @ketkibhabra845 4 года назад +2

    Quite relatable to my story....thnku kanwal for such stories ...it inspired n motivate me to accept wht ever the situation is n cheer up🙏🏻🙏🏻m grateful to u 🙏🏻

  • @Mymiserablelife-f1i
    @Mymiserablelife-f1i 4 года назад +4

    I loved it. I can relate as well

  • @labanibiswas8274
    @labanibiswas8274 4 года назад +1

    All the best to both of you for your incredible journey, Thank you for weaving friendships beyond boundaries. Once again thank you @adeel sohail , for letting us to believe on dreams, aspirations and not quitting it..

    • @iAdeelSohail
      @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад +1

      Thanks a lot @labani.More power to you

  • @deenafaisal2728
    @deenafaisal2728 4 года назад +1

    We're never disappointed by your videos, amazing topic once again. Lot's of love for ya Kanwal❤️

  • @meriri1631
    @meriri1631 4 года назад +1

    please kanwal share a story about child abuse by stranger and how they found love because i am broken i too have been a victim.Your videos bring us hope to look forward in this sad world.thanks

  • @ishrathrazvi1530
    @ishrathrazvi1530 4 года назад +2

    See, the problem with the youth is, they want to pursue with their dreams! No problems with that. Only thing they see is, success. What if they have a failure? Then? What do they rely on? As parents, we want our kids to first complete their studies and then sure enough, pursue your dreams. God forbid, you fail, you have something to rely on (your degree). I've read articles of even actors who want their kids to get a degree first, and then act (just in case, they do not become famous).

  • @tahiraahmedsyed9114
    @tahiraahmedsyed9114 4 года назад +1

    Kind of my story. But, my medium of art is different. Am passionate about cake decorating, furniture painting... Am also Software Engr. by education and luckily graduated on time. I know other computer science graduates who are now amazing event planner and other artists..

  • @Faiz7535.
    @Faiz7535. 4 года назад +2

    Great job kanwal every episode of yours is an inspiration for us

  • @Huralam
    @Huralam 4 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️har episode ka shidat se intezaar rehta hay💖

  • @fareehazubair8624
    @fareehazubair8624 4 года назад +9

    He's a very good motivation for our youngsters..who are not much strong to face the society's norms n wrong expectations.
    Keep it Up young man!

  • @srishtysinha4718
    @srishtysinha4718 4 года назад +2

    Very emotional ...... And thanks Kanwal ma'am

  • @haniyaz7557
    @haniyaz7557 8 месяцев назад

    in each episode of this program, we see how people talk about society and what people of the society say and each of guests has suffered from them... such a toxic society we have... we may not be able to change this generation but let's hope and try for improvements for next generation.

  • @fathimashehlahaafiz3806
    @fathimashehlahaafiz3806 4 года назад +1

    One of my favourite shows❤❤❤. Thank you so much for inspiring us through your content Kanwal ma'am 🙂

  • @iqrakanwal2719
    @iqrakanwal2719 4 года назад +3

    You are doing great sisss amazing❤❤

  • @travelwithme7421
    @travelwithme7421 4 года назад +1

    Society: Be yourself
    Society: No! not like that.

  • @dr.mehreenarif5433
    @dr.mehreenarif5433 4 года назад +3

    Beautiful ❤ sucha major issue in our society! Let your child bloom and prosper in their own way. Money is not always everything, happiness, love peace of mind is! Once you give have this you are the most successful person and a mentalltly person who can support the whole world in a positive and supportive way! ❤

  • @euhphorical
    @euhphorical 4 года назад +1

    I tried watching this but couldn't. I am going through a similar phase: wanted to become an engineer but my dad forced me into medical, with constant mental and verbal abuse. This video just ignited my PTSD.

    • @iAdeelSohail
      @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад

      Yaaaarrrrr... Hi! Hamare han sab se barha masla yehi hai Profession Gender k hisab se pre decided hota hai Larhka hai tou Engineer, larki hai tou doctor. Koi aulaad se poo k usay kya banna hai... 😢 Can feel the real pain

  • @mahamayhem.nasirr
    @mahamayhem.nasirr 4 года назад +3

    That’s my soul sister. 💕

  • @alishbairfan9451
    @alishbairfan9451 4 года назад +2

    Can you plz make a show on early age marriages?

  • @AhmedKhan-sf4bx
    @AhmedKhan-sf4bx 4 года назад +2

    Very motivating💗

  • @sarwathashmi3697
    @sarwathashmi3697 4 года назад +2

    Toxic mahool insan KO majboor kr detA Hai.. K wo khud KO Mar Dale.... Good know you achieved what you always wanted.

  • @amnahaneef4067
    @amnahaneef4067 8 месяцев назад

    Conversation with kanwal episodes contain our society issues its really very important issues and also motivational programme i have also itself story i never forget how to overcome on my life difficulties and my mother even now my father also support me

  • @adeelahmed6128
    @adeelahmed6128 3 года назад

    ALLAH zindge ma hr qadam pe kamyabi naseeb kary apko Ameen ☺️👍

  • @mahazehra1254
    @mahazehra1254 4 года назад +3

    Amazing show ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nadiamushtaq2690
    @nadiamushtaq2690 4 года назад +2

    Api hmesha khush rahain Ameen ALLAH apko apne hifzo emaan me rkhy Ameen

  • @mariarizwan6872
    @mariarizwan6872 4 года назад +2

    Such an inspirational story

  • @sibghatayyab8985
    @sibghatayyab8985 4 года назад +1

    Yarrr gossebumps
    Rulaa daiti hain ap ❤💓😍

  • @hinanaqvi695
    @hinanaqvi695 4 года назад +1

    Dear brother life ek hi bar milti hai ap ab kabi b sucide k bare mai mat sochye ga jo hua usy bhool jaye agy berhy khush rahy kamyabi ap k sath khud chaly gi ..ap k waladen ko ab ki zarorat hai jitni ap ko unki zarorat hai usy b zada wo ap sy piyar krty hain.jo ap chahaty hain ap wohi kare yaqeenan ap k ghar waly b ap ki khushi mai hi khush hn gy🙂

  • @farahyeasmin6230
    @farahyeasmin6230 4 года назад

    Was eagerly waiting for ths... So motivating yaar... Hats offf to whole team... Behtereen kaaam hay.

  • @shanzaarshad523
    @shanzaarshad523 4 года назад

    Kanwal i love ur show.u are so damn rare.and topics are amazing.i watch each and every episode.right now i am facing these crisis.sometimes suicidal thoughts came.but if u try hard u ll find a way out.thanks for inspiring people.

  • @kaizergehanvani5801
    @kaizergehanvani5801 3 года назад +1

    The greatest conversation =conversation with kanwal

    • @Kanwalful
      @Kanwalful  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! Please share it with friends too!

    • @kaizergehanvani5801
      @kaizergehanvani5801 3 года назад

      @@Kanwalful of course MOOOOOh. Love u from kashmir

  • @sarakhalid9180
    @sarakhalid9180 4 года назад +1

    You are doing an amazing job kanwal 👍
    I just love your show ♥♥

  • @bushramaqsood2817
    @bushramaqsood2817 9 месяцев назад

    Can you share the link to platform....

  • @aneeqmaham4574
    @aneeqmaham4574 4 года назад +1

    Great story

  • @TheBigR26
    @TheBigR26 3 года назад +1

    damn this show is really good
    much better than the garbage on T.V.

  • @maryamimran5809
    @maryamimran5809 2 года назад

    Kanwal you are a fantastic listener.....

  • @mohammadibnibilal9938
    @mohammadibnibilal9938 4 года назад +2

    Love you episodes and watched all of them

  • @naveedsanori6449
    @naveedsanori6449 4 года назад +1

    I really love ur show kanwal

  • @AdnanAhmad-db2ks
    @AdnanAhmad-db2ks 4 года назад +2

    I think kanwal if u r reading my comment then plz make video on depression..

  • @indeednazmi804
    @indeednazmi804 3 года назад

    His voice 🧡

  • @mariakhadam6795
    @mariakhadam6795 4 года назад +1

    Love you kanwal God bless you

  • @romanasarwar1540
    @romanasarwar1540 4 года назад

    Such a wonderful show....kanwal loved all of your program s.....❤️❤️

  • @kanwalmubashar11
    @kanwalmubashar11 4 года назад

    Very nice ,love to watch your videos💞

  • @hibanaeem1514
    @hibanaeem1514 2 года назад

    He is so brave .how he is tellinghis true and sad story in front of camera .I mean it so difficult for anyone.🥺🥺

  • @saranaqvi4454
    @saranaqvi4454 4 года назад +1

    How can I join soul sisters

  • @sweetlotus5416
    @sweetlotus5416 4 года назад +1

    My name is kanwal also and i like your name kanwalful .. can i use it ?

  • @sairaiqbal4399
    @sairaiqbal4399 4 года назад +1

    Good effort. How can I contact u.

    • @iAdeelSohail
      @iAdeelSohail 4 года назад

      I hope you want to contact the creators of this video.. 😊

  • @sameenjamal8028
    @sameenjamal8028 4 года назад +2

    Love from India 🌹

  • @lauukikmhatre4993
    @lauukikmhatre4993 4 года назад +1

    Very good episode like always.
    Can you get someone who's gay or transgender, want to know their thought process while growing in Pakistan.

    • @lauukikmhatre4993
      @lauukikmhatre4993 4 года назад

      @@moodmeditation4458 it's sad that everytime you can't take God in between. Just bcoz you have issues doesn't mean you will speak your mind by telling Allah is against it.
      And its very natural, you are privilege to have access to internet then please get some knowledge about it. Before saying anything negative.

  • @galwhostolethejag666
    @galwhostolethejag666 4 года назад

    Does she have a podcast or something?

  • @thenaturallstore
    @thenaturallstore 4 года назад +1

    I still feel he has a lot to vent out...