Man don’t be fooled by that. All these women are sluts even a girl talking about all she’s having morals and values. Get the fuck out of here. They all want to get smutted out.
That part. Many ppl were raised in toxic two parent households. I'm like girl please. Mind you my parents are married and I was raised in a two parent household.
How do you do landscaping but also fat especially with the share amount of bending pushing and lifting that you have to do. He clearly over eats and doesn’t have a lot of self-control
Exactly! The man would never date a women he isn’t attracted too- yet a women is supposed to over look that. Double standards ( perfect example last women was perfect for him- no of you cursed him out for that )
He gave them mature strong questions. And some people haven't done the emotional homework or working on healing from past trauma. Some people just go on with life until they get into a relationship and the issues come out and they don't know how or desire to work out the problems professionally. 🤔
People who "have it all together", can't wrap their heads around anything bad that happens , their privilege makes them deeply lacking in spiritual qualities. They tend to be deeply selfish human beings
I almost fully agree with you, lol…with a clarification. Your home should be a place a peace, if your partner makes home chaotic - man, woman, or other - making it unable to maintain your peace, that’s no bueno.
I fully agree and can see past the act, he’s putting on a front for some reason. He could've watched a ton of these videos and is putting on a facade of what he thinks a good man acts like.
@@DeniseGoggans lol if I workout and eat right then yes! Plus my parents and grandma all look much younger than their age so the genes are there AND I mean c’mon I’m black so you know what they say! ;)
He needs to change his perception of women. If he wants a slimmer woman then he needs to be slimmer himself! And the lady who kept her balloon for him he rejected ? His loss!
He didn't feel her. Both are winners because they didn't enter into a relationship. She wins because she dodge a bullet. He wins because he was truthful about what he wants. Men and women prefer various things. I have always been attracted to a big man.
If the women are not interested, that doesn’t mean they’re missing out. People are not owed your interest. He’s taking the rejection very well and no one was rude. He seems like a good guy and I hope he finds one that loves him for him.
At first I thought that the ladies were foolish for rejecting him but after he rejected the last girl with the balloon I realized that they matched his energy so he deserved it
I feel like that lady would’ve ran out as soon as she doesn’t get her way. Simply because of that statement she made “you have to keep your hands on me or somebody else will”. That’s a red flag
Moral of the story. Just because you are fine, good looking, attractive, sexy, beautiful, or handsome doesn't mean you are someone's type; male or female. No one lost. They all won because it seems like they all were being honest.
@kelseychester2181 right! Based off his responses that's all it was and all of them popped their balloons so then he didn't want to give it a try with her 🤦🏾♀️
The final girl who refrained from bursting the balloon likely would have been an excellent companion for him. Nevertheless, it appears that his preferences leaned more towards light-skinned Black women, who, in turn, did not reciprocate his interest. While he may have possessed admirable qualities, his underlying vanity prevented him from appreciating a genuinely good woman.
She wasn’t fully attracted to him, just like he wasn’t attracted to the woman who made it to the end. She will be open with someone she is attracted to. He’s not attractive. He has a good personality, but for a introvert like me, it’s too loud.
@@marksteen3588 Yes, mines and my friends who are women. Also, I’ve seen women who are not attracted to a man, but string them along for money and dates. I respect being upfront and saying you are not interested. Or maybe trying one date and figuring out whether you are interested or not.
Just because you're in your 40s doesn't mean you're desperate. Actually it's the opposite, You've worked so hard for what you have. You're not about to share it with just anyone.
That question triggered the woman in all black, she reverted back into a child right in front of us. She couldn't explain why she popped her balloon but i think she began to feel inadequate. 😢
Those women are older and still stuck on how big he is. At their age it shouldn’t be about his outer shell, it should be about his inner shell. He seemed like a man that would treat his woman like a lady and a/respect. And he said he’s affectionate, wow isn’t that what we want. He would’ve been. Keeper to me. But all those women were damaged in some way, so that’s probably why they’re single, they all need to work on their inner some more. Finding a man will getting even harder as they age… Just saying.
Exactly every question or thing that he say about all the women that were the same talking about it like a car extensive car or do you like that’s why you still single and then you was the ones that didn’t want you? You definitely will remind single
40 year olds today are not the same as 40 year olds in 1960. Different responsibilities in life, different focus. It’s a privilege to be allowed to not be as serious, but sometimes that immaturity can have a bad influence and effect when it is time to be grown and make grown decisions. Elders try to keep those folks accountable.
@mpr92482 I cant speak on 40 year olds from the 60s as I was born in 1974. But it seems like maturity amongst people in today's society is lacking..especially when it comes to unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating. Many tend to expect what they aren't able to reciprocate
@ That would be my Grandma, she would have been 40 in 1960, and I know the life she had to live before then was way way way different than mine. It all depends on responsibilities in life and upbringing
@@mpr92482humanity, respect, common courtesy, and decency is timeless. It is evident that these characteristics are lacking in today's society. It's pointless for people to participate on these idiotic dating shows to be rude to one another. I get it tho..anything for "likes and swipes"
Yall men RAN with Kevin Samuels verbally assulting fat women and no one made that disclaimer that weight could be lost. Y'all just stayed out of order, yet women are supposed to take fat men because they are men?! Reality is people should just like people without all these rules.
@@liiightgold8415 because no one has to be your peace you bring your own peace and if someone is bringing drama leave. But it's not a woman's job to be men's peace.
Hahaaaa..its funny how the girl in the pink dress said he is not her type but when he said that she wasnt his type....her smile went away real quick 😂😂😂😂😂.. ..you cant get mad now
Men get turned off because women do not like chubby men but men can judge a woman appearance. I’m lost. I don’t know why a man would get turned off because a woman says he’s too big. Age really is irrelevant because most people like to feel proud of who they are with. Your physical appearance says a lot about who you are as an individual. Food for thought
Ooooh, fellow Minneapolis girlie.. also foster kid myself. I hate it when family upbringing is so important to people because it’s not like I had control over that. I am healed and doing great as an adult, so it kind of sucks when people can’t get past that.
He looks good for 47 yrs old and has good qualities of a man. Some woman focus on the wrong things like outer appearance instead of the heart and mind of a good man. Same with some men moved by the beautiful of women, but fail to get to know them mentally when they’re broken due to childhood and bad relationships. ❤🙏🏽
Looks fade. It takes a mature person to look deeper which is why if I had a son who was thinking of getting serious. I would advise him not to be intimate as this clouds your judgment but do take her on a date without makeup, eyelashes, wig/weave, BBL, etc. People need to see the person they will wake up to. A little this or that to enhance is okay but making a whole full fledged model that looks nothing like the real person is fakery, trickery and witchcraft. IJS 🤷🏾
Outer appearance is important. You get 1 time to make a first impression. I workout and eat healthy. That is important to me that my partner does the same. Because of that we wouldn't be a match.
He instantly reminded me of Gerald Levert. Even his mannerisms. And my favorite song was “Baby Hold On” He even says “Baby hold on to me, see I’m a special kind, a man that is hard to find, told you a thousand times, baby hold on…” These ladies were crazy and didn’t hold on but the last one. The attraction wasn’t there for him and that’s okay.
I don’t feel that they were wrong for their response and their attraction to him because at the end he said the same exact thing! Attraction is everything to him too, so he understand it goes both ways they weren’t attracted to him. It is what it is. And the thing that I called about him was that he kept saying if he was somewhere he would approach this person at that person based on their looks. So he is kind of superficial too because at the end of the day, everybody that he would have approached, had a shallow mindset. Mo
@@kymlove2006 He was attracted to most of the ladies. Remember what he said when the host asked him if the lady was his type after they bursted the balloon. Most he said yes. But remember he said no to the light skinned last in the floral dress
Purple dress lady hasn’t healed from her 17 yrs upbringing, she ran from the question unlike the last lady. Congrats on 35k brutha, more Ws to the glory of God!
I appreciate that they were all mature enough to communicate without being RUDE or taking things personal. This is one of the better episodes I’ve seen, people need to take notes on this one here
the ones he wanted physically had unresolved emotional issues. the ones that could have been solid, he wasn't attracted to them: everybody going home single. outstanding....
A man would never date a women he isn’t attracted too- yet a women is supposed to over that. Double standards ( perfect example last women was perfect for him- no of you cursed him out for that )
I have more sympathy for a woman missing out on a good guy .. vs a man … the man will be ok .. take it to the chin …. But for the woman it’s not to many good dudes out here …. So yea you right it’s a double standard for sure 🫡
@@EverythingKevoYou're assuming he's a good dude. We DO NOT KNOW THIS MAN. We don't know that he's faithful, we don't know that he respectful, we don't know that he's happy go lucky all the time. People can hide their true personality for quite sometime especially men when dating until they get what they want. Its great that he has a career, no kids and seemingly good vibes but it also makes you wonder why a man at his age in his current circumstance is still single.
Your rant was perfect. I was rooting for the first woman, too, but then when she popped her balloon and acted like a little kid--both speech and action--I was like no. She messed up. BUT she is still healing from foster care trauma so that could be part of it.
If he’s perfect for you, then You date him, I can connect you two. I do act like a lil kid EVERYDAY!!! I have to live with the decision I make. My growing up in foster care makes me very aware of what people don’t share but I can sense. I’m good. Thank you for watching!!😊
This guy is not for everybody & everybody ain’t for him. You have a right to reject if there is no mutual attraction, energy, commonalities, spirituality etc… He was a ball of energy and very confident indeed but to me this lineup wasn’t fitting and that’s ok. He’d be better off meeting a real match in person.
I'm in trouble. After being in a relationship as long as I had; it's over now. I'm working on myself. I will probably be alone for the rest of my life😩 I don't want to go through this, but it is too soon to say, but it looks hard out here on the dating scene. I'm definitely not ready yet!
Men get rejected EVERYDAY! Too fat,broke ass Nigga,too short,too 🍆small,etc.Modern females will laugh in your face and not feel ANYTHING! U reject them.They Fall Apart! Make it make sense!😵💫
He did the same thing. He said the last woman that didn’t pop her balloon had a lot of the qualities he was looking for and they were kindred spirits but he wasn’t attracted to her.
I think he was trying to hard to seem "outgoing"I think that's why they popped cuz that type of energy would annoy the hell out of me I think that's why they let him go
Exactly! He was overdoing it! He didn’t know how to act in a room full of women ……he calmed down through but I get the impression he doesn’t have much experience with women
Something tells me Regina isn't healed from her past. She definitely popped that balloon b/c of buddy's question. I hope she continues to get the help and support she needs.
@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473his body looks 60!??? What!????? He looks strong looks like he gained veteran weight like most of us do! He looks like he is a strong guy it's men I've seen who are 60 who are doubled over sis this not 60 this grown man weight! Just like those over 40 women have grown woman weight!
I would have said the flowered dress lady was at least 50. She looks older because she's been through a lot. The voice influctions sadness in her voice tells it sll. God bless her.
The one he complimented on her toes around 13:20 made that face cus the last guy dissed her teeth for being too yellow and she still salty about that😭😂
I feel people deserve someone who's healthy. I would never date someone again who's not healthy because I gained alot of weight. I want someone to check me if I'm becoming a big back again.😂
Fr fr how many times ? If you are hell bent on initial attraction you are gonna miss out on a lot of subsequently developed attraction which is much more genuine and lasting than the initial one most at times
@gilbertquartey2553 I agree completely. There are several who I love dearly who either made a poor first impression or I lacked an initial attraction to them, but if I had rejected them we would have missed the blessings experienced in a beautiful relationship.
@@magentared5822 exactly and I know it’s fun to get this “butterflies in your stomach” feeling when there is an initial attraction but consider that feeling you get when you’ve slowly developed an affection for someone from scratch . That feeling is even better cause you know the foundation on which this feeling was built and you cherish it even more than any fleeting moment of initial attraction imo.
He's confused as well. He admitted that the lady who kept her balloon was a great fit for him, and he still rejected her. He wasn't physically attracted to her, just like the other ladies weren't attracted to him.
People want an instant connection with people that they don’t know. Having an instant sexual connection is a huge mistake that women make. If he was in his 60s I’d be writing the show saying “Hey what’s up with you ?“ Now all I can is “Where’s your daddy?
I have a feeling that this isn't his true personality. I don't understand why he is on a show like this. He isn't a bad-looking guy; he seems successful and nice. Most of the people who participate in shows like this typically seek attention or have personal issues. The type of woman he is looking for wouldn’t participate in these kinds of shows. I think he has a hidden side and conceals it behind a nice guy persona.
He needs to be aware that giving your answer to the question before hearing theirs first can set you up for someone answering the question just to match yours instead of on their own merit. It opens you up to be manipulated.
Shallow, superficial is what comes to mind. This man is lovely bless him. Shout out to the gent who posted this video, I can tell he has no ego and thats a beautiful quality, thank you for actually allowing the viewer to watch the video and not take up half or more of the screen so big shout out to you ❤❤❤
Thank you! Men have turned down wonderful women because they couldn't get past Their weight. So if that's a deal breaker for the women so be it. They don't have to take no one they don't want.
Thank you! Men have turned down wonderful women because they couldn't get past Their weight. So if that's a deal breaker for the women so be it. They don't have to take no one they don't want.
Respect to all my military men!!! I loved that he knows what he wants in a woman, not only was he well-spoken but respectful. This is a great man!!! Hope a finds a match
You are hilarious 😂 😂😂I just subscribed 🎉🎉 And I appreciate the moment of silence for those of us who lost our parents❤❤ God bless you 🙏🏽
Welcome to the channel 🙏🏾
@@EverythingKevoThank you ❤
I agree he is a good catch 😊
This is a successful black man and I hope God Blesses him with the right one regardless of nationality.😊
@@shandacunningham2994Yep!
He was a great guy but he preferred a slimmer woman. So why is it a problem that the women preferred a slimmer man?
Because men are confused and bias
It's not. Hush
I don't think it was a problem that the woman wanted a slimmer man.
When did he slimmer woman ?
Because they’re (men) ignorant
Just because you are 37 years old doesn't always mean you are healed from your past traumas.
True that!
True.
Very true!
She’s not heal yet. I can still hear her pain.
Doesn't sound healed
Weight can always go down… personality is forever. He was a breath of fresh air in my opinion ❤
I absolutely adored him!!!!
@@EarthQueen-1111 he wasn't interested in thicker women either
A man would never date a women he isn’t attracted too- yet a women is supposed to over that. Double standards
Right, old Dr. Umar looking ass lol
@@yasminogbu8929Exactly
Lady in black is actively trying to heal but that childhood trauma showed up with the you're not my person. Praying for continued healing for her
Shes tall she jus wants a tall guy
Everyone needs healing everyday. I have a very playful personality. What works for you may not work for me. Thank you for watching😊
Because she came from a two parent home, she was able to be raised with morals and values 🤨 Morals and values can exist in any situation.
I agree. I was taken aback by her statement. She sounded a bit uppity.
Man don’t be fooled by that. All these women are sluts even a girl talking about all she’s having morals and values. Get the fuck out of here. They all want to get smutted out.
Ok this is exactly what I was about to say 😂
That part. Many ppl were raised in toxic two parent households. I'm like girl please. Mind you my parents are married and I was raised in a two parent household.
Exactly
He wants a thinner woman, I can't hate on the women wanting him to be smaller
Yea I agree he wants them "in shape" but he is chubby. You can't want something physically but judge other ppl physically
How do you do landscaping but also fat especially with the share amount of bending pushing and lifting that you have to do. He clearly over eats and doesn’t have a lot of self-control
Exactly! The man would never date a women he isn’t attracted too- yet a women is supposed to over look that. Double standards ( perfect example last women was perfect for him- no of you cursed him out for that )
Why is he standing like that? …that’s the real question 🤔
He wants a thinner and light skinned female. Let’s call a spade a ninja. Most black guys are like him in preferences
Why go on the show if you’re not ready??
This man is a keeper!
He gave them mature strong questions. And some people haven't done the emotional homework or working on healing from past trauma. Some people just go on with life until they get into a relationship and the issues come out and they don't know how or desire to work out the problems professionally. 🤔
They don't know nuttin bout that .
That man is a ruler
@@firsttouchy-h4gI see u were listening too👏🏽
He matched but didnt want her lol
The ones he wanted didn't want him & the 1 who wanted him he didn't want 😂😂😂😂
All of the time. This show is shallow garbage.
That's the way love goes!!!😢
@@divinedianec3170The show is showing us the shallow garbage is the real dating pool out there.
That's life
@@renwoody3894 yes for the not so lucky in love 😢
She low key shading the girls coming from broken homes "I'm happy you asked that question" when others were triggered...and then he dismissed her 😂😂
The way she kept rubbing it in😂😂😂😂
She was high key about it
People who "have it all together", can't wrap their heads around anything bad that happens , their privilege makes them deeply lacking in spiritual qualities. They tend to be deeply selfish human beings
Seems like he's over acting. He's not being himself. Also, a woman is not supposed to be a man's peace. He should already be at peace.
I almost fully agree with you, lol…with a clarification. Your home should be a place a peace, if your partner makes home chaotic - man, woman, or other - making it unable to maintain your peace, that’s no bueno.
Talking way too much
I fully agree and can see past the act, he’s putting on a front for some reason. He could've watched a ton of these videos and is putting on a facade of what he thinks a good man acts like.
I said they say thing. Like he practiced his speech. Lol
And these assumptions is why all of you are lonely single 304's 😂
Women expecting to feel something for a man they just met is crazy!!
Yeahhh it definitely is!!! If men get like that...thats called clingy and or sucka for love to early....this is crazy!!😂😂😂😂
Agreed. Making decisions based on immature ideas is a recipe for failed relationships.
You know when you have friend or family vibes vs being attracted to someone. That is what they are talking about.
It is the side effect of having dealt with multiple men over time
It is crazy, but he said the same thing. Go figure
Well I’m no longer afraid to be in my 40s they look GREAT all of em changes my perception of 40s for sure!
Me too ❤😄
I just made 50 and let me just say that 50 is even better. I still look 30
Doesn't mean that you will age like that tho 😂
Girl😂. I’m 39, and all my friends are bomb physically and mentally! I’m not my mom’s 40 and you wont be yours.
@@DeniseGoggans lol if I workout and eat right then yes! Plus my parents and grandma all look much younger than their age so the genes are there AND I mean c’mon I’m black so you know what they say! ;)
As an OLDER Woman (48) these women are SHALLOW and SUPERFICIAL
So is he because what was wrong with the last lady that didn’t pop
He needs to change his perception of women. If he wants a slimmer woman then he needs to be slimmer himself! And the lady who kept her balloon for him he rejected ? His loss!
Big facts,it’s a contradiction if your priorities aren’t up to part and you trying to get someone as a partner that you desire.
True 😂😂
He just want to eat all the food while his wife eat avacado 😂
He didn't feel her. Both are winners because they didn't enter into a relationship. She wins because she dodge a bullet. He wins because he was truthful about what he wants.
Men and women prefer various things. I have always been attracted to a big man.
@@alizehustle9385 😂🤣
If the women are not interested, that doesn’t mean they’re missing out. People are not owed your interest. He’s taking the rejection very well and no one was rude. He seems like a good guy and I hope he finds one that loves him for him.
At first I thought that the ladies were foolish for rejecting him but after he rejected the last girl with the balloon I realized that they matched his energy so he deserved it
Exactly
The problem is a man can always get a woman he wants but a woman can not always get a man sh wants!!!
I feel like that lady would’ve ran out as soon as she doesn’t get her way. Simply because of that statement she made “you have to keep your hands on me or somebody else will”. That’s a red flag
@@jamiebrumant8512 Foolish for having a type? WOW
Bingo! Energy never lies!
Moral of the story. Just because you are fine, good looking, attractive, sexy, beautiful, or handsome doesn't mean you are someone's type; male or female. No one lost. They all won because it seems like they all were being honest.
He reminds me of a co-worker, a big man but loved slim women. The large ladies loved him but he wouldn't touch them.
I also think he likes the lighter women by his responses about looks.
@kelseychester2181 right! Based off his responses that's all it was and all of them popped their balloons so then he didn't want to give it a try with her 🤦🏾♀️
@@kelseychester2181 he liked the second last. He was being friendly with the light women
These women are so immature, this is a decent young man and they can’t even explain why.
@lorettadavis6944 This is the typical response when most but not all women meet decent men. Oh child, he's too boring, I need a felon in my life.🤔🤔
Saying this man is too big is CRAZY. He's beautiful
The final girl who refrained from bursting the balloon likely would have been an excellent companion for him. Nevertheless, it appears that his preferences leaned more towards light-skinned Black women, who, in turn, did not reciprocate his interest. While he may have possessed admirable qualities, his underlying vanity prevented him from appreciating a genuinely good woman.
True.
He probably wanted an all natural woman clearly she has a bbl
She would have constantly tried to make him want her
The lady in all black isn’t emotionally prepared to commit to a relationship, currently. She’s still closed-off.
She may still be healing
@ That’s a valid possibility.
She wasn’t fully attracted to him, just like he wasn’t attracted to the woman who made it to the end. She will be open with someone she is attracted to. He’s not attractive. He has a good personality, but for a introvert like me, it’s too loud.
@ Good feedback. Is your point led by personal experience?
@@marksteen3588 Yes, mines and my friends who are women. Also, I’ve seen women who are not attracted to a man, but string them along for money and dates. I respect being upfront and saying you are not interested. Or maybe trying one date and figuring out whether you are interested or not.
I like him. He speaks his truth and articulates it clearly!
As long as you’re not his size he’ll date you
What is wrong with these women this guy is great
Woman cnt be plz
They don't want to be in a decent relationship. They want riches and the spectacular
You put a Pookie or a Ray Ray in there and nobody will pop that balloon
I want you
They really pick women who are not used to a good man but thanks for not wasting his time
Just because you're in your 40s doesn't mean you're desperate. Actually it's the opposite, You've worked so hard for what you have. You're not about to share it with just anyone.
Exactly
Respect for the 1st lady in black, healing from your past traumas is so important!!
He’s a vibe his energy is everything 😍🥰
So are you
His energy is nice but I like my man more masculine in demeanor
@@megailmcmurtry7368fuck y'all he a good dude am Gona keep running Thu y'all for my ugly fat brothers at least 4 a week get hard d and on to the next
That question triggered the woman in all black, she reverted back into a child right in front of us. She couldn't explain why she popped her balloon but i think she began to feel inadequate. 😢
I thought she is the woman to be taken by him. I would have love them together.
She gave to much conversation to soon for me! I would had picked something else to say. I can tell she has trauma still.
Agreed...Great analysis
100% facts
Those women are older and still stuck on how big he is. At their age it shouldn’t be about his outer shell, it should be about his inner shell. He seemed like a man that would treat his woman like a lady and a/respect. And he said he’s affectionate, wow isn’t that what we want. He would’ve been. Keeper to me. But all those women were damaged in some way, so that’s probably why they’re single, they all need to work on their inner some more. Finding a man will getting even harder as they age…
Just saying.
He wanted all the ones that didn’t want him?!
That is usually the case with men and women. That is why many are single. It seems like most people want what does not want them and vice versa.
That’s men these days lol
And that should tell him something🤔.
Exactly every question or thing that he say about all the women that were the same talking about it like a car extensive car or do you like that’s why you still single and then you was the ones that didn’t want you? You definitely will remind single
@@lh6784
😂
The First Lady with the black dress is so articulate, soft spoken, and intelligent.
I truly dont think hes big. Hes Thick. He doest have a big round pot belly hes not sloppy. I think hes fine..
I like him he's cute
Yes.
Right, they’re making it seem like he walking around looking like old Fat Joe or something 🙄
You would think that at the age of 40 or better...some of these participants would be more mature
40 year olds today are not the same as 40 year olds in 1960. Different responsibilities in life, different focus. It’s a privilege to be allowed to not be as serious, but sometimes that immaturity can have a bad influence and effect when it is time to be grown and make grown decisions. Elders try to keep those folks accountable.
@mpr92482 I cant speak on 40 year olds from the 60s as I was born in 1974. But it seems like maturity amongst people in today's society is lacking..especially when it comes to unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating. Many tend to expect what they aren't able to reciprocate
@ That would be my Grandma, she would have been 40 in 1960, and I know the life she had to live before then was way way way different than mine. It all depends on responsibilities in life and upbringing
@@mpr92482humanity, respect, common courtesy, and decency is timeless. It is evident that these characteristics are lacking in today's society. It's pointless for people to participate on these idiotic dating shows to be rude to one another. I get it tho..anything for "likes and swipes"
It’s an immature show so…
I like the girl in the black dress. Her energy is calm.
Same
It's fake she's not always like that...
Yall men RAN with Kevin Samuels verbally assulting fat women and no one made that disclaimer that weight could be lost. Y'all just stayed out of order, yet women are supposed to take fat men because they are men?! Reality is people should just like people without all these rules.
Where did someone say women had to accept overweight men?
@@VICSXOTICMORPHBOASthey said the women didn’t like that he was heavy even the reviewer diddd, did u listen
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@VICSXOTICMORPHBOASyea, it’s often implied
So people raised on one parent households aren’t raised with morals and values?
There it goes again I want a woman who is my peace 🚩🚩🚩
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why do you say that tho? Wanting no drama is good lolll
@@liiightgold8415 because no one has to be your peace you bring your own peace and if someone is bringing drama leave. But it's not a woman's job to be men's peace.
@@Anonymous-lr9weI feel the same. And I have found most men who say that are usually the cause of chaos. Not saying this guy is but most men are
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Hahaaaa..its funny how the girl in the pink dress said he is not her type but when he said that she wasnt his type....her smile went away real quick 😂😂😂😂😂.. ..you cant get mad now
I understand why they are in their 40's on a game show looking for love😅
boom. 😅😅 microphone dropped
LOL
Yep very picky and looking for the wrong things
Why?
Y u say that you gotta live to get there
He's cool. He seems like a happy person too with solid foundation, good morals
Men get turned off because women do not like chubby men but men can judge a woman appearance. I’m lost. I don’t know why a man would get turned off because a woman says he’s too big. Age really is irrelevant because most people like to feel proud of who they are with. Your physical appearance says a lot about who you are as an individual. Food for thought
Ooooh, fellow Minneapolis girlie.. also foster kid myself. I hate it when family upbringing is so important to people because it’s not like I had control over that. I am healed and doing great as an adult, so it kind of sucks when people can’t get past that.
Well he eliminated the one with the Gud upbringing lol ppl jus Ask to ask
He said the other girl was immature 4 expecting butterflies. Then turns his excuse is basically the same like WTF
He looks good for 47 yrs old and has good qualities of a man. Some woman focus on the wrong things like outer appearance instead of the heart and mind of a good man. Same with some men moved by the beautiful of women, but fail to get to know them mentally when they’re broken due to childhood and bad relationships. ❤🙏🏽
He literally looks his age 🤦♀️🤣🤣
And acts like he is 9...nope. I see all the red flags.
He literally chose them based on the same thing
Looks fade. It takes a mature person to look deeper which is why if I had a son who was thinking of getting serious. I would advise him not to be intimate as this clouds your judgment but do take her on a date without makeup, eyelashes, wig/weave, BBL, etc. People need to see the person they will wake up to. A little this or that to enhance is okay but making a whole full fledged model that looks nothing like the real person is fakery, trickery and witchcraft. IJS 🤷🏾
Outer appearance is important. You get 1 time to make a first impression. I workout and eat healthy. That is important to me that my partner does the same. Because of that we wouldn't be a match.
He instantly reminded me of Gerald Levert. Even his mannerisms. And my favorite song was “Baby Hold On” He even says “Baby hold on to me, see I’m a special kind, a man that is hard to find, told you a thousand times, baby hold on…” These ladies were crazy and didn’t hold on but the last one. The attraction wasn’t there for him and that’s okay.
I don’t feel that they were wrong for their response and their attraction to him because at the end he said the same exact thing! Attraction is everything to him too, so he understand it goes both ways they weren’t attracted to him. It is what it is. And the thing that I called about him was that he kept saying if he was somewhere he would approach this person at that person based on their looks. So he is kind of superficial too because at the end of the day, everybody that he would have approached, had a shallow mindset. Mo
Looks is the first thing you would notice before approaching someone 😉
He's loud and annoying and come off as "fake nice"
I agree
He would get annoying real quick!!!
Nice nasty what I call it😂😂😂😂
He started to annoy me ...lowkey cornball
I can only speak from a female perspective. Single does not mean lonely for many of us.
Good dude, in his late 40's ,with no kids, on an internet dating show. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Thank you!! 🤣😌🤧 they’re taken by that age, esp these days 💯
Facts like nah go to the cafe find your boo bro🤣🤣🤣
So the women on the show isn't a red flag?🤔
That's one of many flags
Exactly and he gives me a womanizer vibes
This man also has a preference of fairer skin women
He do and tgey should be allowed to have preferences too
How did you conclude this ?
@@trishmalone5639, based off of what he was attracted to
@@kymlove2006 He was attracted to most of the ladies. Remember what he said when the host asked him if the lady was his type after they bursted the balloon. Most he said yes. But remember he said no to the light skinned last in the floral dress
@@trishmalone5639، she was bigger than he preffered
Purple dress lady hasn’t healed from her 17 yrs upbringing, she ran from the question unlike the last lady. Congrats on 35k brutha, more Ws to the glory of God!
Thanks I appreciate the support! 🙏🏾🫡
Purple dress is immature
@@01_capable part of healing is setting boundaries. She didn’t have to answer the question. But I agree she was very childish.
Exactly! I’ve been looking for this comment. She was triggered by the question which shows that she’s NOT HEALED!
It’s not for a guy u met 15 mins ago to get those details esp in such a public setting
I appreciate that they were all mature enough to communicate without being RUDE or taking things personal. This is one of the better episodes I’ve seen, people need to take notes on this one here
Those women are ridiculous! That's a man who has it shit together. He looks healthy, he seems nice and has a good job! He's a great guy!!
the ones he wanted physically had unresolved emotional issues. the ones that could have been solid, he wasn't attracted to them: everybody going home single. outstanding....
Great summation
A man would never date a women he isn’t attracted too- yet a women is supposed to over that. Double standards ( perfect example last women was perfect for him- no of you cursed him out for that )
I have more sympathy for a woman missing out on a good guy .. vs a man … the man will be ok .. take it to the chin …. But for the woman it’s not to many good dudes out here …. So yea you right it’s a double standard for sure 🫡
@@EverythingKevoYou're assuming he's a good dude. We DO NOT KNOW THIS MAN. We don't know that he's faithful, we don't know that he respectful, we don't know that he's happy go lucky all the time. People can hide their true personality for quite sometime especially men when dating until they get what they want.
Its great that he has a career, no kids and seemingly good vibes but it also makes you wonder why a man at his age in his current circumstance is still single.
He's a landscaper that weight will be maintained. I'm a landscaper i lose 10 pounds plus in the summer. And pig out in the winter 😂
But yall pass on big women stop that
Great personality… and I love a brother that I can snuggle with… he’s actually a keeper.
Your rant was perfect. I was rooting for the first woman, too, but then when she popped her balloon and acted like a little kid--both speech and action--I was like no. She messed up. BUT she is still healing from foster care trauma so that could be part of it.
If he’s perfect for you, then You date him, I can connect you two. I do act like a lil kid EVERYDAY!!! I have to live with the decision I make. My growing up in foster care makes me very aware of what people don’t share but I can sense. I’m good. Thank you for watching!!😊
This guy is not for everybody & everybody ain’t for him. You have a right to reject if there is no mutual attraction, energy, commonalities, spirituality etc… He was a ball of energy and very confident indeed but to me this lineup wasn’t fitting and that’s ok. He’d be better off meeting a real match in person.
You get the best comment award🏆
I'm in trouble. After being in a relationship as long as I had; it's over now. I'm working on myself. I will probably be alone for the rest of my life😩
I don't want to go through this, but it is too soon to say, but it looks hard out here on the dating scene. I'm definitely not ready yet!
@@virgo7956 date yourself.
Hes a grown man. Breath of fresh air.....spoke in complete sentences about what he needed and wanted.......sometimes we can be our own worst enemy
@user-nm4tt4xm7d no wonder why diseases are rampant in our community yall have little to no standards
Exactly
14:00 This question exposed child hood trauma...great question bruh ❤💪🏾
Honestly 😅
9:50 I thought she would never shut up!! She needs to heal.
EXACTLY he didn't ask all that
She told her life story but they answers be long asf
prayers to the woman who lost her parents
A black man can have everything a woman wants but STILL get REJECTED!
Men get rejected EVERYDAY! Too fat,broke ass Nigga,too short,too 🍆small,etc.Modern females will laugh in your face and not feel ANYTHING! U reject them.They Fall Apart! Make it make sense!😵💫
He did the same thing. He said the last woman that didn’t pop her balloon had a lot of the qualities he was looking for and they were kindred spirits but he wasn’t attracted to her.
He’s overweight but popped in someone who was overweight. Can’t be mad
It's nothing to do with being "a black man"... what sort of comment is that 🙄
He seems fake
I think he was trying to hard to seem "outgoing"I think that's why they popped cuz that type of energy would annoy the hell out of me I think that's why they let him go
U think he was huh,okay
@keithlanier1100 yes ain't no one that outgoing lol
Exactly! He was overdoing it! He didn’t know how to act in a room full of women ……he calmed down through but I get the impression he doesn’t have much experience with women
@@MoeJaxon or he's been told too many times that he's too dry
I totally agree I would be annoyed easily and he talks too much sometimes I just want to enjoy my peace and quiet
Something tells me Regina isn't healed from her past. She definitely popped that balloon b/c of buddy's question. I hope she continues to get the help and support she needs.
She popped it bc it's a bs question to draw drama out and judge...it's manipulative in the making.
I'm just here for the comments 😂😂😂
Yall be safe and protected ❤
The purple 🟣 dress was doing the most 😂😂😂
That lady trauma dumped for 3 minutes. She needs more time
Regina!! I just can’t. 😂 I could not hold a conversation with her. 😂😂😂😂her vanicular is terrible! And that loud azz Thank you threw me😂😂😂
This ‼️
Which one is Regina?
She gave me Aquarius vibes
She is “rere” 🤣🤣
@@brittanigathe2312Right😂😂😂😂😂
You could never be fully healed from you're past but you learn and grow
That isn't true. Faating ans prayer can definitely heal you
Is that a bbl? Shutuppppp 😂😂😂😂😂😂
That man is fine! Those women are crazy
He's alright
@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473his body looks 60!??? What!????? He looks strong looks like he gained veteran weight like most of us do! He looks like he is a strong guy it's men I've seen who are 60 who are doubled over sis this not 60 this grown man weight! Just like those over 40 women have grown woman weight!
Yeah, as you see the woman who wanted him he didn't want lol these things are crazy
These ladies ….
Why because he’s Big and has a beard Chile please 😒
Her whole face changed when he said she not his type😂
I would have said the flowered dress lady was at least 50. She looks older because she's been through a lot. The voice influctions sadness in her voice tells it sll. God bless her.
I felt that as well. She’s been through a storm as a child. wishing her nothing but sunshine moving forward
I'm tryna watch at my desk all serious and your ass "IS THAT A BBL" 😂😂😂😂
Im weak
Lmao don’t get in trouble 😆🫡
She asked what do you do for fun not how you start your day😂
The one he complimented on her toes around 13:20 made that face cus the last guy dissed her teeth for being too yellow and she still salty about that😭😂
This guy wanted to reject her before she rejected him. That's all.
Nope because she said yes he said no
He was feeling the girl in black.
he was so gracious with his responses to the ladies 🥰
That last chic fit him perfectly, and he doesn't give her a chance. He's loss
Weight ain't nothing at this age. You want something who is emotionally stable and will provide a safe environment, this guy is it and he sounds kind.
He passed a chubby women stop that
I feel people deserve someone who's healthy. I would never date someone again who's not healthy because I gained alot of weight. I want someone to check me if I'm becoming a big back again.😂
That woman in the olive dress is well put together. She obviously takes care of herself.
She does
Her legs are magnificent!!
The tall light skinned lady looked super happy he wasn’t attracted to the last girl
She was agreeing with him on finding initial attraction
Well spoken guy with great energy. And he’s funny asf lol
I like how he complimented the ones that rejected. Shows there’s no hard feelings 🎉
I have a Doberman, he's a dog...😂😂😂
LOL!
I didn't know Dr Umar was on this episode 😂
I hollered
😂😂😂
You funny😜😜😜😜
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12:30 I agree...attraction means a lot...the problem is at 37...how many times did the butterflies find you and pass you by 🤔
Fr fr how many times ? If you are hell bent on initial attraction you are gonna miss out on a lot of subsequently developed attraction which is much more genuine and lasting than the initial one most at times
Just because you're 37 doesn't mean you're healed.
@@tamaradanielle3299exactly and she isn't healed. She speaks insecure
@gilbertquartey2553 I agree completely. There are several who I love dearly who either made a poor first impression or I lacked an initial attraction to them, but if I had rejected them we would have missed the blessings experienced in a beautiful relationship.
@@magentared5822 exactly and I know it’s fun to get this “butterflies in your stomach” feeling when there is an initial attraction but consider that feeling you get when you’ve slowly developed an affection for someone from scratch . That feeling is even better cause you know the foundation on which this feeling was built and you cherish it even more than any fleeting moment of initial attraction imo.
You hollin is that a bbl😂😂😂 I'm on my neck😂
Yes definitely 😂
Wow! “This is all new”…keep working on you Sis! You are beyond worthy💗just as you are…all the best
This guy was so sweet! He seems genuine
He’s a nice looking man. There’s a good woman out there for him .
I'm convinced. We as woman are confused
He's confused as well. He admitted that the lady who kept her balloon was a great fit for him, and he still rejected her. He wasn't physically attracted to her, just like the other ladies weren't attracted to him.
Speak for yourself auntie 🤦♀️🤡
So what I've gathered from this is that both men and women want the person that doesn't want them. Smh. Social media has done a number on us.
The woman saying "you're not my person" in that baby voice is a red flag
Stg it made me cringe.
People want an instant connection with people that they don’t know. Having an instant sexual connection is a huge mistake that women make. If he was in his 60s I’d be writing the show saying “Hey what’s up with you ?“ Now all I can is “Where’s your daddy?
I have a feeling that this isn't his true personality. I don't understand why he is on a show like this. He isn't a bad-looking guy; he seems successful and nice. Most of the people who participate in shows like this typically seek attention or have personal issues. The type of woman he is looking for wouldn’t participate in these kinds of shows. I think he has a hidden side and conceals it behind a nice guy persona.
Some ppl get desperate to find love … definitely gotta appreciate it when it’s genuine.. it’s to skimped out here 🫡
I agree! He’s too happy
I agree
That's what I said
He seems
Fake Nice
He needs to be aware that giving your answer to the question before hearing theirs first can set you up for someone answering the question just to match yours instead of on their own merit. It opens you up to be manipulated.
Shallow, superficial is what comes to mind. This man is lovely bless him. Shout out to the gent who posted this video, I can tell he has no ego and thats a beautiful quality, thank you for actually allowing the viewer to watch the video and not take up half or more of the screen so big shout out to you ❤❤❤
Men do the same thing. People don't have to date you just because you seem like a good person…
Thank you! Men have turned down wonderful women because they couldn't get past Their weight. So if that's a deal breaker for the women so be it. They don't have to take no one they don't want.
Thank you! Men have turned down wonderful women because they couldn't get past Their weight. So if that's a deal breaker for the women so be it. They don't have to take no one they don't want.
Brotha got a sense of humor,employed and except for his weight a decent looking guy.
The weight ain't bad. He seems like a good guy.
The weight is bad because it can lead to other issues that could be avoided. Like high blood pressure sleep apnea, heart diseases ED etc
@LedePat Everyone that looks over weight is not necessarily unhealthy. And slender ppl can have those issues also. He's not morbidly obese.
His weight isn’t bad. It’s the style choice
Respect to all my military men!!! I loved that he knows what he wants in a woman, not only was he well-spoken but respectful. This is a great man!!! Hope a finds a match