How to gain your Spouse’s Heart? | EPIC Replay April 16, 2017 | Ustadh Mohamad Baajour

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  • @Islamis4all
    @Islamis4all 4 года назад +69

    Every married couple must watch this video.
    ماشاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيراً يا شيخنا الفاضل الكريم

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 3 года назад

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

    • @nurunkadil7336
      @nurunkadil7336 2 года назад

      د

    • @zubaidamajid3860
      @zubaidamajid3860 Год назад

      SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage
      A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.

    • @zubaidamajid3860
      @zubaidamajid3860 Год назад

      Print my message

    • @themysteriousdunno1
      @themysteriousdunno1 7 месяцев назад

      shukr alhamdulillah

  • @bekind913
    @bekind913 3 года назад +41

    JazakAllah.
    Reminders are
    -Astaghfaar
    -Kind word compliment each other
    -Dress nicely
    -Dont be stingy
    -Leave your phone tv and listen to each other
    -Avoid posting on social media
    -Avoid backbiting
    -Give gifts
    -compliment in front of family

  • @OrangeBlossom4x4
    @OrangeBlossom4x4 3 года назад +76

    Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.

    • @syedarob3249
      @syedarob3249 3 года назад +12

      Brother please keep praying, especially the last third of the night for your marriage. May Allah bless what is good for you both, ameen.

    • @goddessr3065
      @goddessr3065 3 года назад +6

      @@syedarob3249 So you been no good to your wife and now you regret it. You hurt her. She is not living you without a reason

    • @goddessr3065
      @goddessr3065 3 года назад

      @@syedarob3249 Why in the night. Can I pray at
      eny time. What Allah is sleeping during day or what?

    • @syedarob3249
      @syedarob3249 3 года назад +10

      @@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that.
      That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 3 года назад +1

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @joon_choco
    @joon_choco 4 года назад +67

    The roses at the end were so sweet 🥺♥️ may Allaah grant us righteous spouse and make us a righteous spouse and grant us al firdaws 🤲🏻

  • @mariamkaba9763
    @mariamkaba9763 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Allah I love this Deen . How can you not . ❤❤❤❤❤alhumdulillah.

  • @sharifahaljofree7278
    @sharifahaljofree7278 3 года назад +26

    MasyaAllah..very very very good lecture..my dad practise all the sunnah above n hes the best husband n the best dad ever💖💖💖💖🥀🌹🌺

    • @flyincoltd5502
      @flyincoltd5502 2 года назад +1

      So true.my dad also used to practice all these Sunnah and indeed he was the best dad and husband.

    • @samehs2422
      @samehs2422 Год назад

      MashaAllah

  • @sarahsfaith9403
    @sarahsfaith9403 3 года назад +19

    I wish I can give thousands like to this video😊 especially the roses part at the end, how nice is a community teaching us be nice to our spouse

  • @user-et2ng1qb2m
    @user-et2ng1qb2m 3 года назад +12

    Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah

  • @petal21
    @petal21 2 года назад +7

    This lecture is worth listening to a 100 times. It's one of the most comprehensive lectures I have ever listened to. Jazakallah khairal jazaa!

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 2 года назад +5

    That is true , we love kind words than gifts .

  • @alzihr191919
    @alzihr191919 3 года назад +25

    This lecture is Life-changing . I wish every married couple get to see it . Jazakallahu khairan

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 3 года назад

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @Sniptool
    @Sniptool 2 года назад +3

    This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.

  • @mabintykallay5338
    @mabintykallay5338 3 года назад +8

    May Allah bless our kids righteous spouse. Ameen

  • @noraisaesmail5767
    @noraisaesmail5767 2 месяца назад

    May Allah bless you and your family ya sheikh Aameen

  • @elenakarim1
    @elenakarim1 3 года назад +6

    Ma sha allah. May Allah bless my dear husband with the highest paradise.

  • @salvacionawan6937
    @salvacionawan6937 4 года назад +23

    MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.

  • @BMA338
    @BMA338 4 года назад +11

    Very beautiful speech Imaam, may Almighty Allah bless you. I am divorced woman,, and your speech is true and very inspirational

  • @humsafarkhan2030
    @humsafarkhan2030 2 года назад +4

    Great lecture. JazakAllah Khair.

  • @samarahal-khawaldeh2412
    @samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 года назад +6

    Mashallah the ending melted my heart subhanallah what a great shiekh and community to be apart of

  • @souaddiso4213
    @souaddiso4213 4 года назад +10

    MashaAllah, well said, Islam has it All alhamduLillah

  • @annleslie5730
    @annleslie5730 2 года назад +6

    Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact.
    May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous.
    THANK YOU

  • @reginaldthomas1257
    @reginaldthomas1257 2 года назад +3

    😌😇🤗🤝🏾🫂🤲🏾❤💓💗💟 May Allah Guide Us, Insh'llah, Allahumma Ameen. Allahumm Alim ❤️ 🤲🏾

  • @luulsharib
    @luulsharib 3 года назад +5

    I love this topic wallahi made me cry Alhamdulillah
    ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن ماشاءالله تبارك الله
    جزاك الله خير

  • @faridahnsubuga9214
    @faridahnsubuga9214 3 года назад +7

    Beautiful, beautiful lecture masha Allah..... Barack Allahu fikum shk.
    May Allah reward u for ur time and effort.

  • @imaslowlerner
    @imaslowlerner Год назад +2

    Mashallah, I wish I could have sat down and listened to this lecture with my then wife before we divorced in 2010, بارك الله فيك.

  • @AceAcademics508
    @AceAcademics508 3 года назад +8

    Mashallah , beautiful voice, beautiful quran recitation

  • @larabayowunmi5684
    @larabayowunmi5684 3 года назад +6

    Jazakallahu khairan. May ALLAH bless you and reward you in this world and the hereafter

  • @Salma2500
    @Salma2500 Год назад +1

    Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.

  • @balqeswardak9369
    @balqeswardak9369 2 года назад +4

    Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏

    • @apuhj4614
      @apuhj4614 2 года назад

      May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala grant you ease and touch your husband's heart to be kind ..aameen

    • @monirasultana4083
      @monirasultana4083 Год назад

      Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.

  • @django9494
    @django9494 3 года назад +4

    Alhamdulillah..What a wonderful speech. Love from Riyadh.

  • @ibrahimmanneh458
    @ibrahimmanneh458 2 года назад +3

    Great words please pray for me am searching for a wife ya shaykh. May Allah blessed you and your family.

  • @hikmatadewuyi4293
    @hikmatadewuyi4293 4 месяца назад

    BarakahLLah feek

  • @mansuraluby3263
    @mansuraluby3263 3 года назад +7

    Ma shaa Allah🥺🥺💞..May Allah grant us jannah🥺🤲and good spouse's 💞

  • @chicago80z
    @chicago80z 4 года назад +15

    Jazak Allah kher for the beautiful lecture. May Allah SWT bless you with a long healthy life. We gain so much knowledge from you Masha Allah.

  • @mounisifou7770
    @mounisifou7770 6 месяцев назад

    Jazaka Allah khran sheikh shukran may Allah reward you for your beautiful advice alhadumlilah

  • @kalij527
    @kalij527 4 месяца назад

    MashaAllah sheikh Bajour may Allah swt protect and preserve you. Jazakallah for always bringing clear and concise Haqq.

  • @abderrezak7412
    @abderrezak7412 3 года назад +5

    Please, do use subtitles as some people are hard of hearing or totally deaf and would really enjoy listening to your lectures. Insha Allah.

  • @SofaSofab
    @SofaSofab Месяц назад

    Assalam alleikum. I am muslim woman and I like to work and I do not like to be provided by anyone but Allah. And I am very tired by work also. So I understand my husband a lot. So when we are eating at evening we are watching to our phone to receive jokes from outside or knowledge for profession and islam. I like this way in our life. I like to live the life. Not sitting inside home. And my husband understand me and let me to live my dreams in life thats why i love him. Thank u for reminding about our good behavior to our guests and our parents. Wa alleikum assalam.

  • @asadullah23200
    @asadullah23200 3 года назад +5

    MashaAllah this is an absolute gem! Jazakum Allah khair and InshaAllah we can all adopt the sunnah in our homes and hearts Ameen ya rabb al alameen

  • @mdabusaqibalamansari9979
    @mdabusaqibalamansari9979 Год назад

    Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah ❤❤❤❤❤ soo benificial video

  • @taqwa9650
    @taqwa9650 3 года назад +4

    Thank you from my heart Sheikh. Love to listen to all your khutbas. May Allah SWT grant you Jannat ul Firdous! Ameen!

  • @jahaymaammarrahpanolong2909
    @jahaymaammarrahpanolong2909 3 года назад +6

    Mashallah Tabarakallah, i so love listening you ya sheik😍 may Allah swt bless u more..

  • @mrsKarim-mw7tp190
    @mrsKarim-mw7tp190 4 года назад +11

    Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.

  • @apuhj4614
    @apuhj4614 2 года назад +1

    Ma shaa Allah ...Nice talks BaarakAllahu feekum

  • @user-mw9uu9mt2v
    @user-mw9uu9mt2v Год назад +2

    Omgggg sooo good. Last part was epic 😁❤️

  • @m.safwanpeerzade7681
    @m.safwanpeerzade7681 3 года назад +5

    Jazaak Allah khair sir ur every word was precious yaa Allah put love and mercy between every husband and wife ameen

  • @imranhassim6731
    @imranhassim6731 4 года назад +6

    Mashaallah very useful lecture for couples.

  • @abdulwahabshoaib9952
    @abdulwahabshoaib9952 5 месяцев назад

    Mashallah shaikh qiraat is too good

  • @brurberhanu9991
    @brurberhanu9991 Год назад +1

    MashaAllah, the best idea ever, Jezak Allau khair.

  • @mohamedmustapha396
    @mohamedmustapha396 Год назад +2

    May Allah grant us a good spouse and offspring

  • @shafinaabdul2898
    @shafinaabdul2898 3 года назад +6

    Ma sha Allah! If only both the partners in a couple had gone through this video!!!

  • @mohamedsalman2568
    @mohamedsalman2568 3 года назад +5

    MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️awesome tips.
    In shaa Allah will follow..
    The last part was😀😀😀 I miss that gift😭

  • @goodflowh
    @goodflowh 2 года назад +2

    MashaAllah, the best lecture and as thoughtful gift. I wish all imams/masjids did that.

  • @unanoor8710
    @unanoor8710 4 года назад +5

    Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward the sheikh for a practical nasihah. From England

    • @bg5462
      @bg5462 3 года назад

      Ameen

  • @mrsKarim-mw7tp190
    @mrsKarim-mw7tp190 2 года назад +1

    MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.

  • @Aisakusainn
    @Aisakusainn 3 года назад +3

    Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.

  • @nassimakadri6689
    @nassimakadri6689 4 года назад +7

    Masha Allah love the idea of the gift in the end haha

  • @silverback564
    @silverback564 10 месяцев назад

    Amin

  • @bakbakmindalano5662
    @bakbakmindalano5662 4 года назад +10

    Salaam. How did u reach that deep knowledge and faith. Love to hear your mesg.its full of wisdom . We trully feel your love in imparting that wisdom.

    • @klaw1425
      @klaw1425 3 года назад

      Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

  • @noraisaesmail5767
    @noraisaesmail5767 2 месяца назад

    Salla Allahu alayhi wasallam

  • @latifabargir8852
    @latifabargir8852 4 года назад +5

    Subhanallah

  • @fadumafaduma5376
    @fadumafaduma5376 3 года назад +3

    Mashallah

  • @annaagata1
    @annaagata1 Год назад +1

    Ameeen thank you for a lesson and a Dua Sheikh

  • @capompocomedy3050
    @capompocomedy3050 2 года назад +1

    Ma Sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰

  • @kandegomdah4718
    @kandegomdah4718 2 года назад +2

    Subhanallah , even if a mistake is made , he will remind you of the passed mistakes in your cooking .

    • @kandegomdah4718
      @kandegomdah4718 2 года назад

      Very beautiful lecture and so much we can all learn from . Thank you so much .

    • @madcanashiba8947
      @madcanashiba8947 Год назад +1

      Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.

  • @irshadalikhan9509
    @irshadalikhan9509 3 года назад +2

    May Allah SWT bless you,
    You are such a charismatic scholar

  • @amnanisar23
    @amnanisar23 3 года назад +3

    truly a Gem, Ustadh Bajour

  • @rabiaabdul9009
    @rabiaabdul9009 3 года назад +3

    Masha Allah

  • @irissonata6371
    @irissonata6371 8 месяцев назад

    May Allah make us of the righteous spouse. IN Sha Allah 🤲. Great lecture by sheikh .May Allah bless Him and his Family.

  • @maevemurdoch1123
    @maevemurdoch1123 2 года назад +1

    Jazak allahu khairan this was so beautiful. May Allah bless you all and give you Sakina in your homes AMIN

  • @babithamk3027
    @babithamk3027 3 года назад +3

    Masha allah..
    What a beautiful speech

  • @sairapeerbux4554
    @sairapeerbux4554 3 года назад +4

    absolutely 💯
    Alhamdullillah

  • @rifamahmood917
    @rifamahmood917 2 года назад +1

    beautiful talk....ma sha Allah Tabarakallah

  • @zarlashtrabmal3163
    @zarlashtrabmal3163 2 года назад +1

    جزاک الله خیرا یا استاد فاضل

  • @rahmahty7026
    @rahmahty7026 9 месяцев назад

    Amiin Yaa Rabbal a'laamin. Same to you sheikh

  • @adi345adi
    @adi345adi 2 года назад +1

    MashaAllah.. one of the most wonderful speeches I heard on this topic.. Barakallahu feek yaa usthad

  • @ashaomar526
    @ashaomar526 3 месяца назад

    MashaAllah

  • @azizaahmad9249
    @azizaahmad9249 2 года назад +1

    الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا

  • @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw
    @AhmedMohamed-ff9bw 3 года назад +1

    May Allah's love and mercy be on you forever

  • @DJsaima
    @DJsaima 3 года назад +4

    This was an amazing lecture thank you so much xxx

  • @razeenaamath218
    @razeenaamath218 2 года назад +1

    Very important advices
    May Allah bless you

  • @BKAYS
    @BKAYS Год назад +1

    Subhanallah

  • @SharriffRahman6b6b
    @SharriffRahman6b6b 2 года назад

    Alhamdulillah it's good to have such as positive man giving positive advice. It's encouraging and motivating.

  • @SA-xe3ow
    @SA-xe3ow 7 месяцев назад

    As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤

  • @PinkFlowers365
    @PinkFlowers365 3 года назад +1

    Jazak Allah khayr

  • @tanveerbanu2285
    @tanveerbanu2285 4 года назад +5

    Mashaallah india

  • @tahminarahman1431
    @tahminarahman1431 2 года назад +1

    Alhamdulillah

  • @rehanaabdullahi79
    @rehanaabdullahi79 2 года назад

    ما شاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيرا 🙏

  • @rebirthhair6706
    @rebirthhair6706 2 года назад +1

    Love this! Much needed advice! ❤

  • @Adv.Muheet
    @Adv.Muheet Год назад

    haha felt so good after listening you ... allah bless u

  • @fakiyakiddiestv9211
    @fakiyakiddiestv9211 2 года назад +1

    This is awesome advice. May ALLAH swt bless and reward you dear Ustaz Bajour.
    You are a great blessing to the Ummah.
    Jazakallahu khairan.

  • @Aven2025
    @Aven2025 3 года назад +4

    Subhan Allah what a beautiful message, how can we contact you sheikh for our Counselling
    Jazak Allah Khair

  • @joweriya6545
    @joweriya6545 3 года назад +2

    mashahallah ❤️

  • @TokyoHomes
    @TokyoHomes 3 года назад +1

    Alhumdulillah

  • @amirhshaikh
    @amirhshaikh Год назад

    Surah Ar-Rum, Ayah no. 21

  • @samarahal-khawaldeh2412
    @samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 года назад +1

    Mashallah

  • @karzan4784
    @karzan4784 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this lecture. Jazzak Allahu khair. Can someone give me the source 14:45 part about speech having halal magic sihr. Thank you.

    • @EPICMASJID
      @EPICMASJID  3 года назад +2

      Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:
      Two men came from the East and addressed the people who wondered at their eloquent speeches On that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said. Some eloquent speech is as effective as magic.'
      Sahih al-Bukhari 5767

    • @karzan4784
      @karzan4784 3 года назад +1

      @@EPICMASJID Jazzak Allahu Khayr! Thank you for the reply and thank you for this content!

  • @wandaasgarali1737
    @wandaasgarali1737 3 года назад +3

    Jazak Allah Khairun. Can we still donate on the upper left corner to Epic masjid?

  • @aleeza7866
    @aleeza7866 4 года назад +52

    Some man never appreciate what ever the wife does for him ,he puts her down all the time mostly in front of others

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 4 года назад +5

      Try marital counseling. Haleh banani has good videos on RUclips, but you can also check with your local masjid.

    • @imranhassim6731
      @imranhassim6731 3 года назад +2

      Yes my husband also do.

    • @aleeza7866
      @aleeza7866 3 года назад +4

      @@21972012145525 my husband never admits his abuse towards me he thinks it’s always my fault

    • @aleeza7866
      @aleeza7866 3 года назад

      @@imranhassim6731 we can only pray there is nothing else we can do

    • @sfkhan7797
      @sfkhan7797 3 года назад +5

      @@aleeza7866 May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease

  • @wildlifeahcb2384
    @wildlifeahcb2384 4 месяца назад

    Masha'Allah, May Allah Bless U with more than U can Imagine, Sheikh. This is the Ultimate Marriage Advice I've heard Thus Far😇🫡🤍