SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.
JazakAllah. Reminders are -Astaghfaar -Kind word compliment each other -Dress nicely -Dont be stingy -Leave your phone tv and listen to each other -Avoid posting on social media -Avoid backbiting -Give gifts -compliment in front of family
Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah
Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.
@@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that. That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.
MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.
Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.
Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact. May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous. THANK YOU
This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.
Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏
Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.
Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar: Two men came from the East and addressed the people who wondered at their eloquent speeches On that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said. Some eloquent speech is as effective as magic.' Sahih al-Bukhari 5767
Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.
Alhamdulillah, marriage is a blessing from Allah ... :) ... but, unfortunately the shaytans do their utmost to destroy this most blessed union ... and often succeed if either or both partners focus on dunya/ego & not on Allah :(
Hmm 🤔. Better be sincere and not embarrass your spouse by false praises. He/she will hear it from others and then would not trust you. But use wisdom in helping your spouse to be better. Praise the effort. Part of growing closer is to be able to trust the other with good or constructive opinions.
He want married with my daughter so so interesting I swear Will I saying RUclips playing gam I swear in srial not like that Mather daduther porsent Ramin babe get married with my daduther very good very interesting I swear
My husband loves me to butter him with ghee . Today am going to give him two parathas dripping in ghee and Hyderabadi Biryani then I have made him happy for that day only.
My husband loves me to butter him with ghee . Today am going to give him two parathas dripping in ghee and Hyderabadi Biryani then I have made him happy for that day only.
MAY ALLAHU SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA GIVE GOOD, PIOUS AND PRETTY WIVES.Aameen!🍊🍎🧄🧅🍓 ALLAHUMMA SALLI WA SALLIM ALA NABIYYINA MUHAMMADIN. MAA SHAA ALLAHU LAA QUWATTA ILLAA BILLAAHIL ALIYYIL AZEEM. 👑
MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.
As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤
Say kind words. Take your phone out and text your wife “i love you”😂 Praise her or his looks, food, lying is allowed in this instance 😮 Welcome your spouse when coming home Say greetings at home when entering the house. Go back out of the house when you forget your greetings Put nice clothes when arriving home Treat him like a king Smile at your spouse. Its a form of sadaqa Praise your spouse in front of his or her family Dont compare your wife to someone Take time to play with your spouse Feed your spouse with your hand Obey your husband. Its an ibadah
Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.
Every married couple must watch this video.
ماشاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيراً يا شيخنا الفاضل الكريم
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
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SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage
A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.
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shukr alhamdulillah
This lecture is worth listening to a 100 times. It's one of the most comprehensive lectures I have ever listened to. Jazakallah khairal jazaa!
JazakAllah.
Reminders are
-Astaghfaar
-Kind word compliment each other
-Dress nicely
-Dont be stingy
-Leave your phone tv and listen to each other
-Avoid posting on social media
-Avoid backbiting
-Give gifts
-compliment in front of family
Jazakum Allah Khairan
This was an amazing lecture thank you so much xxx
Marriage is a curse! Better to live single in this world!
Fear Allah
The roses at the end were so sweet 🥺♥️ may Allaah grant us righteous spouse and make us a righteous spouse and grant us al firdaws 🤲🏻
🥺
Ameen!
Ameen Ya ROBB
Ameen
@mohd hafiz Helmi
MasyaAllah..very very very good lecture..my dad practise all the sunnah above n hes the best husband n the best dad ever💖💖💖💖🥀🌹🌺
So true.my dad also used to practice all these Sunnah and indeed he was the best dad and husband.
MashaAllah
I wish I can give thousands like to this video😊 especially the roses part at the end, how nice is a community teaching us be nice to our spouse
Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah
Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.
Brother please keep praying, especially the last third of the night for your marriage. May Allah bless what is good for you both, ameen.
@@syedarob3249 So you been no good to your wife and now you regret it. You hurt her. She is not living you without a reason
@@syedarob3249 Why in the night. Can I pray at
eny time. What Allah is sleeping during day or what?
@@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that.
That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
Jazak Allah kher for the beautiful lecture. May Allah SWT bless you with a long healthy life. We gain so much knowledge from you Masha Allah.
Some man never appreciate what ever the wife does for him ,he puts her down all the time mostly in front of others
Try marital counseling. Haleh banani has good videos on RUclips, but you can also check with your local masjid.
Yes my husband also do.
@@21972012145525 my husband never admits his abuse towards me he thinks it’s always my fault
@@imranhassim6731 we can only pray there is nothing else we can do
@@aleeza7866 May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease
Very beautiful speech Imaam, may Almighty Allah bless you. I am divorced woman,, and your speech is true and very inspirational
MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.
Salaam. How did u reach that deep knowledge and faith. Love to hear your mesg.its full of wisdom . We trully feel your love in imparting that wisdom.
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
This lecture is Life-changing . I wish every married couple get to see it . Jazakallahu khairan
Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ
Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.
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Beautiful, beautiful lecture masha Allah..... Barack Allahu fikum shk.
May Allah reward u for ur time and effort.
I love this topic wallahi made me cry Alhamdulillah
ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن ماشاءالله تبارك الله
جزاك الله خير
Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact.
May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous.
THANK YOU
Subhan Allah what a beautiful message, how can we contact you sheikh for our Counselling
Jazak Allah Khair
😌😇🤗🤝🏾🫂🤲🏾❤💓💗💟 May Allah Guide Us, Insh'llah, Allahumma Ameen. Allahumm Alim ❤️ 🤲🏾
May Allah bless our kids righteous spouse. Ameen
Jazakallahu khairan. May ALLAH bless you and reward you in this world and the hereafter
Please, do use subtitles as some people are hard of hearing or totally deaf and would really enjoy listening to your lectures. Insha Allah.
MashaAllah, well said, Islam has it All alhamduLillah
MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️awesome tips.
In shaa Allah will follow..
The last part was😀😀😀 I miss that gift😭
Mashallah the ending melted my heart subhanallah what a great shiekh and community to be apart of
That is true , we love kind words than gifts .
We sure do
Ma shaa Allah🥺🥺💞..May Allah grant us jannah🥺🤲and good spouse's 💞
Mashallah Tabarakallah, i so love listening you ya sheik😍 may Allah swt bless u more..
A good surprise when you come home, not you're divorced. Or Asalaam alaikum habibti, meet your new co-wife.🙄
Mashallah , beautiful voice, beautiful quran recitation
Ma sha allah. May Allah bless my dear husband with the highest paradise.
Jazaak Allah khair sir ur every word was precious yaa Allah put love and mercy between every husband and wife ameen
Ma sha Allah! If only both the partners in a couple had gone through this video!!!
Great words please pray for me am searching for a wife ya shaykh. May Allah blessed you and your family.
MashaAllah this is an absolute gem! Jazakum Allah khair and InshaAllah we can all adopt the sunnah in our homes and hearts Ameen ya rabb al alameen
This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.
Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏
May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala grant you ease and touch your husband's heart to be kind ..aameen
Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.
Great lecture. JazakAllah Khair.
Alhamdulillah..What a wonderful speech. Love from Riyadh.
Thank you from my heart Sheikh. Love to listen to all your khutbas. May Allah SWT grant you Jannat ul Firdous! Ameen!
Mashaallah very useful lecture for couples.
Jazak Allah Khairun. Can we still donate on the upper left corner to Epic masjid?
Masha Allah love the idea of the gift in the end haha
Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward the sheikh for a practical nasihah. From England
Ameen
Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.
Oh Allah I love this Deen . How can you not . ❤❤❤❤❤alhumdulillah.
Subhanallah
Omgggg sooo good. Last part was epic 😁❤️
May Allah grant us a good spouse and offspring
Mashallah, I wish I could have sat down and listened to this lecture with my then wife before we divorced in 2010, بارك الله فيك.
I feel so depressed and alone. I cant find a spouse but have everything else.
absolutely 💯
Alhamdullillah
MashaAllah.. one of the most wonderful speeches I heard on this topic.. Barakallahu feek yaa usthad
MashaAllah, the best lecture and as thoughtful gift. I wish all imams/masjids did that.
Assalamualaikum.Uztad Mohammad Bajoor ,you recite the ayah from the Qur'an What is the Surah and verses ...
Surah 30and verse is 21
Sheikh was reading.
One of ayat he recited is surah rum ayah 41 (30:41) but he recited many ayat
Thank you for this lecture. Jazzak Allahu khair. Can someone give me the source 14:45 part about speech having halal magic sihr. Thank you.
Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar:
Two men came from the East and addressed the people who wondered at their eloquent speeches On that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said. Some eloquent speech is as effective as magic.'
Sahih al-Bukhari 5767
@@EPICMASJID Jazzak Allahu Khayr! Thank you for the reply and thank you for this content!
Jazaka Allah khran sheikh shukran may Allah reward you for your beautiful advice alhadumlilah
Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.
Alhamdulillah, marriage is a blessing from Allah ... :)
... but, unfortunately the shaytans do their utmost to destroy this most blessed union ... and often succeed if either or both partners focus on dunya/ego & not on Allah :(
Hmm 🤔. Better be sincere and not embarrass your spouse by false praises. He/she will hear it from others and then would not trust you. But use wisdom in helping your spouse to be better. Praise the effort. Part of growing closer is to be able to trust the other with good or constructive opinions.
Masha allah..
What a beautiful speech
He want married with my daughter so so interesting I swear
Will I saying RUclips playing gam I swear in srial not like that Mather daduther porsent Ramin babe get married with my daduther very good very interesting I swear
truly a Gem, Ustadh Bajour
My husband loves me to butter him with ghee . Today am going to give him two parathas dripping in ghee and Hyderabadi Biryani then I have made him happy for that day only.
My husband loves me to butter him with ghee . Today am going to give him two parathas dripping in ghee and Hyderabadi Biryani then I have made him happy for that day only.
May Allah SWT bless you,
You are such a charismatic scholar
MAY ALLAHU SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA GIVE GOOD, PIOUS AND PRETTY WIVES.Aameen!🍊🍎🧄🧅🍓 ALLAHUMMA SALLI WA SALLIM ALA NABIYYINA MUHAMMADIN. MAA SHAA ALLAHU LAA QUWATTA ILLAA BILLAAHIL ALIYYIL AZEEM. 👑
Mashaallah india
Jazak allahu khairan this was so beautiful. May Allah bless you all and give you Sakina in your homes AMIN
MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.
Masha Allah
As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤
Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah ❤❤❤❤❤ soo benificial video
Pray for me i want marry May Allah bless me with a right man soon. Say Ameen
beautiful talk....ma sha Allah Tabarakallah
Mashallah
Say kind words. Take your phone out and text your wife “i love you”😂
Praise her or his looks, food, lying is allowed in this instance 😮
Welcome your spouse when coming home
Say greetings at home when entering the house. Go back out of the house when you forget your greetings
Put nice clothes when arriving home
Treat him like a king
Smile at your spouse. Its a form of sadaqa
Praise your spouse in front of his or her family
Dont compare your wife to someone
Take time to play with your spouse
Feed your spouse with your hand
Obey your husband. Its an ibadah
❤❤❤great input, masallah🎉🎉🎉
May Allah make us of the righteous spouse. IN Sha Allah 🤲. Great lecture by sheikh .May Allah bless Him and his Family.
❤❤ameen
MashaAllah, the best idea ever, Jezak Allau khair.
Ma shaa Allah ...Nice talks BaarakAllahu feekum
honey is gone....n onions 🌰 start......hilarious ....
Some time i tell my self i want to be by my self cant with Man when you married is a problem
Subhanallah , even if a mistake is made , he will remind you of the passed mistakes in your cooking .
Very beautiful lecture and so much we can all learn from . Thank you so much .
Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.
Very important advices
May Allah bless you
Ameeen thank you for a lesson and a Dua Sheikh
Love this! Much needed advice! ❤
Amiin Yaa Rabbal a'laamin. Same to you sheikh
May Allah's love and mercy be on you forever
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Surah Ar-Rum, Ayah no. 21
MashaAllah sheikh Bajour may Allah swt protect and preserve you. Jazakallah for always bringing clear and concise Haqq.
الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا
BarakahLLah feek
mashahallah ❤️
Ma Sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰
MashaAllah
Amin