Too many people grew up confusing painful longing and yearning for love, with the emotion itself. Our craving to have our affection and adoration for Mother returned in equal measure, left us with unrequited hunger for it. Someone who's emotionally available to us, doesn't generate that same primal pain inside~ so we don't interpret it as the real thing, or "true love." The element of pain within longing, is the basis for "obsessional love" ("can't get enough - give me more"). But real loving is never painful, because the one who loves us back, is returning our affection, attention, generous gestures, care, etc. There's no real opportunity to experience The Lack (of it), and the craving it inspires within us. :~) Great job, ladies. Love your humor!
This talk is really great for anyone who wants to learn how the writing process generally goes. Pretty much the only one worth watching as far as I’m concerned. I’ll be pointing anyone with such concerns to this video. Thanks a lot!
Too many people grew up confusing painful longing and yearning for love, with the emotion itself. Our craving to have our affection and adoration for Mother returned in equal measure, left us with unrequited hunger for it. Someone who's emotionally available to us, doesn't generate that same primal pain inside~ so we don't interpret it as the real thing, or "true love." The element of pain within longing, is the basis for "obsessional love" ("can't get enough - give me more"). But real loving is never painful, because the one who loves us back, is returning our affection, attention, generous gestures, care, etc. There's no real opportunity to experience The Lack (of it), and the craving it inspires within us. :~) Great job, ladies. Love your humor!
This talk is really great for anyone who wants to learn how the writing process generally goes. Pretty much the only one worth watching as far as I’m concerned. I’ll be pointing anyone with such concerns to this video. Thanks a lot!
I always find it rough when artists relate every question to their work or process instead of their perception.
Definitely like "scratching an itch." Something irrepressible about it~ to me, at least.