Good morning Jasmine. I can tell you are really hurt with whatever happened because you never vent without telling the whole story which is okay. You are entitled to keep some things to yourself. I wish we were friends because you need someone who has your back to be there for you when you can’t see things for yourself. I know Kyeisha probably tells you things to keep you from getting hurt, but sometimes we can’t see things from our significant other. Continue to work on yourself and everything will work out for the better. Stay blessed my fellow NYer.
I forgot to include some screenshots but watching it back I see I didn’t explain what fully happened because I was worried about her children seeing this and it was involving them. I just needed a moment to vent. Even if they see this I never want them to think I’m talking about what I did for them. I want them to know it truly came from my heart but because they’re children I can not be apart of their lives without the permission of their parent. They are amazing children and they deserve the best. I’ll keep them in prayer going forward 🙏🏽
@just jazzy you are way too hard on yourself!! I have 5 adult children that gave me the business lol. I thank Allah everyday for them. I have done the exact same thing you did with this mother. I knew that it was a messed up situation but my child didn't see it that way. I knew the more I opposed the relationship the more they would fight to be together. So against my better judgement I entertained the mom and the children. I thought I could teach her to be better. I thought if I showed them something better or different they would want better. Child when I say wrong I mean wrong lol. I allowed somethings slide SMH. Long story short it was a disaster. Your daughter is just like you ❤️ she thinks she can fix this boy and his family. I'm sorry but baby girl is going to end up feeling just like you do now. She sees the good in people just like you. She is going to learn a painful lesson at an early age. Don't give up on her because she is going to need you soon. Ijs
Like Maya Angelou said “When people show you who they are~ Believe them” You have a good heart and well intended. No shame in that. The problem lies in that you want to be good hearted over your gut instinct. You knew someone was rotten in the spaghetti factory, but u wanted to see the good in her. The way she living and the way she harbored a child told u all u needed to know about this lady. Her kids are no doubt beautiful children going thru a lot. Of course they were wanting that mama bear attention u give. Next time make a conscious note to ask ur self what someone has shown u not what someone tell u or try’s to make u believe. It’s ok. Lesson learned
It’s called boundaries and discernment. Everyone is not your assignment or issue. You can still be good to people at a distance. Continue to forgive but that doesn’t mean you have to be in their face. People will disappoint and it’s ok to have limitations with dealing. You may have to work more on self-worth.❤
Empaths biggest struggles are the lack of boundaries and the disregard of our discernment. There is nothing wrong with you. People are just manipulative and know their targets. You just know what it feels like to not have the support and love that was missed. So you may emphasize and give everything to everyone, which takes from you in all ways especially emotionally. This is something I had to address due to my traumatic childhood and parental abandonment issues. Don’t beat yourself up over being a good human. Try not to let this make your heart harden. We just have to listen to our intuition and strengthen our discernment. Believe how people present themselves and respond accordingly. Saying no is healthy. Implementing and enforcing boundaries is healthy and distancing with love is healthy. Removing your emotional investment is everything. Stand firm and be vigilant. You got this mama❤
@@KIMjB72 True statement , if she can have her under age daughter in her house with her under age son . We could not of talked . Because you showed me who you are .
I swear hearing you talk about how you are, just reminded me of all the tears I've shed and the constant doubting and belittling thoughts I've had because of other people. I've always been the one yo take on other peoples problems and make them my own in order to help and I've always got the short end of the stick.
If CPS genuinely needs to be called you see neglect and abuse and you dont You are wrong! Period! Other than that stop blaming yourself. You're not stupid. Youre a great mom doing the best you can. Keep your head up!
Mama you not delusional, you’re compassionate. You give ppl the benefit of the doubt. I live in nyc too. Project raised etc. and it’s like….. am I lonely or something that I just expect the good when the vibe is good. I’m naive too, I’ve been told I live in a fantasy world. But people just don’t understand the compassion we feel towards humans. The other reason you don’t do it back or act shady is cause 1 is compassionate people believe in karma and 2. It took energy out of us being hurt, imagine the energy in getting back. It’s exhausting.
Jazz, you're not stupid! Stop saying that, sis. THERE'S NO BOOK ON THIS SHIT! They're definitely taking your kindness for weakness. Continue to be who you are, but with limitations. Stop and think before you jump to help anyone. ❤❤❤
Don’t be upset at yourself because you have a good heart but you must establish boundaries and put yourself first in order to keep these type of people away from you! Don’t let them make you like them, just continue to learn from your lesson’s and get better at saying NO! ✨✨
That’s why I don’t have friends because I’m toooo pure and NOBODY makes the cut in conversation I always catch/see through the underline evilness that’s y I handle them/people with a long spoon. I’m great and I have ZERO drama because I don’t deal… to each their own ❤
Girl when I tell you, you sound just like me! I always say I’m a better friend to my friends than they are to me. That’s why I have no friends now. It literally is so hard to just find people that are genuinely real. No intentions, no jealousy, no competition. Like all I need is for you to not fuck me over or try and use me. In therapy I learned that I always try and save people because I was the one that needed saving. I try to be the person I myself need. It sucks but to be honest it’s really lonely out here when you’re not fake or don’t like drama or don’t like to sit around talking about people and being negative. I pray you find your tribe of genuine people. I’m far but I’m open to getting to know each other if you are too. It seems we have a lot in common 💛 no hate over here, all love and positivity. I’m all about my business, eating good, traveling and having a drink or too. What you see is the hat you get…
I can definitely relate I’m the same way… always trying to the find good in everyone…. Your not stupid your human…. Thats it thats all…. My prayers go out to you and the family…
When ppl show you who they are, believe them. Mekayla has to learn that. However, don’t feel bad for trying to be a good person. Let karma do its job. There are good ppl in this world who need your kindness. Save that energy for them.
I think cps need to be involved in that lady life and that’s coming from someone who has had their baby removed and I worked my ass off to get her back !
I tilt my hat to you and give you your flowers. You sound like you made a mistake, you received a wake up call when your daughter was taken from you. Therefore, you worked your arse off to get it right and get your daughter back. I’m so very proud of you for doing what it took to get your child and not leaving her in the system. May I ask how long was she gone from you. Thank you for being transparent. God bless you and your baby. ❤
Omg girl m, you are like me to the max! I shut the world out for 15 years even ppl that were good because I was so tired and fearful of being the dummy and naive to evil ppl, I’m just now trying to live again and let ppl in. It’s a true battle, I think we want the best for ppl and it gives us a sense of gratification to do good and help other ppl. I have total discernment and I completely ignore it every time… I feel you Jazzy! I don’t have a single friend to this day I just got in a relationship and it’s hard to really trust. I let go of some good ppl but let in a lot of not so good ppl.
Happy Birthday Alyssa 🎉🎉🎉 I loved the way she was so excited about her gift….Jazzy there’s nothing stupid about you. You are a wonderful mother that’s trying her best always remember that and smile.
Listen, the words that come out of our mouths carry so much power. Believe it or not, u are stronger than what u give urself credit for. Baby just like every other struggle in your life, this too shall pass. But u gotta stop talking down on urself like that..all ur doing is attracting more negative energy into ur life that disrupts your home and disturbs ur peace. Then in turn it affects ur other babies whether it's direct or indirectly. My 15yr old son is giving me the blues too so I understand but don't ever give the enemy ammunition by speaking ill of urself. Your season is coming. ..believe that. Asé❤
Hey Jazz I’ve struggled with this my whole life. I’ll be 36 this year…I’ve always seen the good in people even if they did me wrong, my close family members always say I could see that, that person was using you or wasn’t really good for you. And here go me “DumDum” like naw I don’t see it or they’ve been through a lot😂… Just lies that they new I would believe.. I can Laugh about it now because it won’t happen no more, but I had to learn the hard way in a lot of situations and have had to tell myself not to feel bad to say No or Cut People off. Naïve is definitely it. Being Naive has attracted some of the worst people in my life. My Narcissistic Child’s Father basically told me I was to Genuine, To Happy, to forgiving an that he was gone teach me basically how to stand up for myself while he also played apart in my life of being the Evil person that he is. I had to wake up!! It’s sad that I thought everyone would treat me like I wanted to be treated, Vice Versa but it’s a wicked world that we live in, an who wants to walk around thinking everyone is evil, or up to no good I’ve cut people off even when it was hard, but when it interferes with my mental it had to be done, but it always took the longest time to get to that point. Definitely have to have better Judgement because it’s real out here. Sorry you going through this hope everything works out for you soon.😌Luv Florida Gal❤🫶🏾❤
YOU’RE NOT STUPID YOU’RE HUMAN… and your doing the best YOU know now how….. No one’s given a guide book on how to handle our children we have to learn them (as individuals) we can teach,preach, cuss and cry until we’re tearLESS to our babies but In the end they’re their OWN HUMAN BEING… You continue to teach and teach your daughter… TRUST ME your words are in her head… prayers for you and your family for strength and understanding… She’s going to be grateful for having a REAList mother who’s willing to go to the depths of the world for her… ALSO your brain isn’t broken it’s called GENUINE KINDNESS/blindness❤… Don’t let one low vibrational person 🛑 you from being a high vibrational human❤
I totally understand how you feel! I have been a dummy for many dummies in my life! Don’t become cold but please become wise! Those signals and flags are present for a reason! When you ignore the signs you play Russian roulette!with your peace!
I understand you although my daughter was 19 I didn’t approve of what her boyfriend parents was doing letting her live there , my daughter is 20 now and I still have a problem with her boyfriend parents when you have daughters their accidents falls on us.Yes I’m ole fashioned and luv it,some of these new age parents are something else.Your heart is pure like mines never let anyone change you or your heart ,I pray things gets better
Jazzy,you may be an Empath.I have been through some of the same things.Its like some of the most disgusting people are drawn to you,and yes,you give chance after chance thinking people can change.9/10 hell no they won't.One thing I learned in my 52 year's,is when someone shows you who they are, believe them,the first time and move around.You have to set boundaries for yourself,and other's.
I just LOVE Alyssa’s loud laugh! It’s so genuine and infectious! I wouldn’t even have to know what’s she’s laughing about and her laugh would make me smile and laugh too 😅
Jazzy, you are not stupid. You are a real genuine caring person. This lady took advantage of your kindness. Just chalk it up as a lesson, cry your tears, and keep it moving. Being blessed by the best. Love you girl!!! ❤❤❤ And Happy Birthday to Alyssa!!! She trying to cover her face. But we see how pretty you are sis!!! 😊🎊🎉🎈
I can definitely tell you are a person with a huge heart so don't feel bad for doing what you did especially if the kids living condition is not up to part ❤ 🙏🏾
I understood where your coming from like I see the good in people until they really do something too and it’s bc you have a really good heart and people take advantage
It's speaks volumes to the type of person you genuinely are. People like us have to protect our hearts. I truly understand seeing the good in a person but everybody are not good people.❤
Hey Jaz, I am 53 and I swear with all that’s in me, you remind me of myself when I was your age. You are an awesome person and although I don’t personally know you, I am proud of you! My children are in their late 20s and 30s and we’re so close now, but I remember those struggles. Stay strong, one day all of this will be just memories. Good days are on the way.
I am 61 years of age, trust me I believe I’m a intelligent person. I can see you a mile away before you get here. But I will give you a chance knowing you don’t deserve it. Afterwards I’m done. Please don’t beat yourself up.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 we live and we learn moving forward!❤
Happy Birthday Alyssa!!!! I still remember my Sweet 16 birthday. It was lowkey as well. May God bless and cover you!!!- Jazzy, you are not stupid. You were being a kind person and that is never wrong.
I’m watching your video and I had to pause it. My heart is breaking for you. You have no issues with your judgment, you are a genuinely a good and honest person. We need more people in this world like you. I have the utmost respect for you. Don’t change. You are loved. Now I’ll go back and finish your video. ❤❤
The issue is you have to set boundaries that can not be crossed. Boundaries may be different depending on who your dealing with- but once someone crosses it then that’s it!! There’s nothing wrong with setting a standard for yourself.
You’re not stupid. It’s the hope in your heart to believe that there is good. ALSO, you’re internalizing their situation and you don’t want them to feel like you would imagine how you feel or how someone made you feel before. I used to be like that. Everything you said I did. Then I got tired and now I only got prayers for people. You have to learn to separate your feelings…it’s going to take time. It doesn’t mean your heart will change but you’ll be more careful
When you went over there with the police and found how she is living then that was it for me, she wasn't even there. I hope you let go of this and let GOD girl.
I bet any amount of 💰 Kyesha told her not to do such things. Jazz if you want to really succeed even more, you have to stop being naive, and stay out of making emotional decisions.
Don’t change because of others. Set boundaries and move with discernment but still be kind, caring, forgiving, generous…be a good human! Don’t stoop to peoples levels
I am a therapist and I stand firmly on the fact that therapy helps, Sis. If you continue to attract the same 'evil' people into your life, that means that you have some of that in you that needs to be worked on. These people are only a mirror for you to see the parts of yourself that needs healing. Also, forgiving people that do you wrong over and over again, doesn't make you a great person or a kind person. You have to have great boundaries that honor you--that is what makes you a great person. That also goes with your continued isolation of yourself. No one thrives that way. There are good people out here who can offer you great friendship, but you have to be able to attract those people into your life and also be able to reciprocate that type of relationship back. Go get the therapy sis!
That’s not always true. Yes therapy is good but a lot of chosen people go through suffering regardless and it doesn’t mean she’s wrong or has some evil because she’s “attracting it”. Predators are attracted to victims, does that mean the victims have a little bit of a predatory nature in them too? It just doesn’t work like that. There are times where we need to isolate to protect ourselves. And it’s not to take up victim mentality, I agree with having boundaries especially those who have a big heart, but the crazy thing in life is, bad things happen to good people! When I started therapy and expressed all I was going through in rebuilding friendships and trusting people, being around those who did me wrong, my therapist knew I was right about how I felt and I wasn’t wrong for cutting ppl off. And I told her this is why I don’t have friends because people are not as genuine as me and I must not be in the right space. It’s true when the Bible says a prophet has no honor in there own hometown (John 4:44, 444 ✨) because we’re set apart. I have to be a friend to myself and be devoted to love myself. All she (my therapist) told me is life is unfair and it’s sucks. And allowed me to process my feelings. I’m not wrong for being upset or angry, it’s just what I do with that anger is what matters and personally to forgive because I have the boundaries packed down. But something’s happen so we can learn from it.
Or…perhaps she grew up in an unhealthy environment and is attracting people that feel familiar to her. Saying that she is attracting “evil” because she has it inside her is a stretch. Victims of domestic violence, for example, don’t attract abusers because they are abusers. They attract abusers because of past trauma, self-worth issues, and other things that make them vulnerable.
You are not alone I have this issue myself god has designed us this way keep being the kind hearted person you are it’s very hard but you’re amazing 💐❤️
I thought I included all the screenshots but I didn’t 🤦🏽♀️. She was extremely rude to me out of no where. I thought I was doing a good dead with her children but instead I guess she took offense to it or whatever her reasoning was for being rude to me. I didn’t let her explain because my feelings was hurt and I blocked her. I thought after the many conversations we had there was an understanding and I thought she was a nice person. She was just going through a lot but I guess I was wrong.
Jazzy from a pure heart you did what you did for her and her children and God will bless you for that… you are not stupid and don’t speak that over your life.. you are a sweet person who loves to love.. keep in mind Jazzy that she shared a lot of personal things with you and maybe it’s because of those things that she’s reacting differently… things are not ok with her.. try not to take it personal and remember the things she shared.. maybe those issues are messing with her psyche and she’s taking it out on the one person that has been so loving to her… forgive her and move on.. keep your heart open ..she might just come back to apologize…. Just 🤔 maybe.. keep being yourself you are needed in this world where life is hard for so many people.. Happy Birthday Alyssa … what did she get that made her so happy 😃
I was thinking the same thing. Like what did she do to you? I thought I had missed it, so I rewatched twice. Thanks for the explanation Jasmine! I hope things get better. Much ❤️ from a single momma in Texas.
Jazz you see what you want people to be instead of who they really are, you gotta work on being victorious instead of constantly letting people victimize you 💔💔
Girl you are so right she didn't say yet I'm telling you I like her so much and I still do she should go see a therapist like she she said she needs to I just look at her different 👎🙏🙏🙏🙏
Jazz in life you never stop growing and learning ,(this is just a lesson ). God knows your heart , so trust me you will be blessed ! Keep being you just ask God for discernment . This parenting shit is hard !!!
Jazzy, you're far from stupid....you have a pure heart that sees the good in folks even if it's none in them to see. NEVER CHANGE!!! we live and learn and those folks will one day be thankful for knowing you. Alissa, 🎉🎊🥳 congratulations on your 16th birth anniversary!! Parties are not for everyone, spending your day how you want with who you want is what makes it YOUR DAY....glad you enjoyed.
Try not to beat yourself up. You seem like you really try to do the right thing. However, there are people who don't, and you have to see them for who they are.
Jasmine! I've been following you for some years now and honestly, your heart really is hella big. You do so much for people and I hope that one day someone comes through for you and remains solid for you. It's what you deserve! There's nothing wrong with trying to trust people and helping people out, so don't call yourself slow and all that fr bc you're far from that!
My heart ached when you said someone can show you their true color and you still seek the good. The heart of a good person is never easy but I pray God showers you with discernment and wisdom 🫶🏽
This definitely hit home I’m going through this as well but don’t beat yourself up for having a good heart. Countinue to be true to yourself I’ll say this though one thing that I’m still battling with is battling my emotions over my logic. I too be trying to see the good in people I believe there’s always room for growth & improvement so I don’t judge people. I was talking to this one person for while and it gave me a wake up call like hurt people hurt people. I just remember this person saying to me you gave me so many chances & you could’ve walked away but didn’t 😢. I had a lot love for this person and I still do. You can’t fix or change anyone they’ll will have to be the one to one acknowledge & to feel the need to do the shadow work within. You could show people unconditional love and advice until the wheels fall off. If the person is at there lowest it’s difficult for them easily shift themselves to the higher self even though its not impossible I requires a lot willingness, self work & healing. I hope you continue to keep your head high ❤
You’re definitely not stupid! I’ve done this too many times and it’s cus people like us are genuinely good people and expect other adults to be the same but truthfully they are more bad people in this world than good. I’m sorry this has happened to you. You didn’t deserve whatever evil malicious things she has done. I pray you find peace in knowing you’re genuine and see the good in people.
My God! I'm late to your channel but this was right on time! When I tell you I felt this in my gut. Your heart is Beautiful 🧡🤎🧡 This is how we should be towards one another. Forgiving and leading with Grace. I love your content and I'm thankful that the algorithm sent you my way!!! Stay Amazing 🥰
Jazzy, you're not stupid at all. I look at it like this... your heart is so big, and your light shines so bright, and those who have bad intentions hold an empty cup and need a flashlight to find their way out of darkness. That's not on you, love. ❤ Sending lots of love and light. You got this!🙌🏿
We only know what you share with us. I think you’re a kind loving person. Don’t know what happened But people take our kindness for weakness. They take advantage of. Well I’m gonna finished watching. ❤❤❤
I am you and you are me. The empath we have is a gift and a curse. I hate it. My heart is so pure and that’s why I’m an introvert . People including family have played in my face a many times and I still was there until I wasn’t anymore.
You are not slow Jazzy you are blessed to be able to forgive and give chances to ppl who dont deserve but as GOD STATES vengeance is mine it hurts and become hard every time but guess what they karma come the way they treat or deceive you and you can sit back and wait its not always as quick as you would like but it comes like my grams told me at a young age nobody can put on wooping on you like the GOOD LORD ABOVE and for every reason you say you naive is why i watch you and like your style dont change who you are pure heart and loving
That’s the BIGGEST problem I have and I fucking hate it I am learning each and everyday to SEE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE it’s PLAIN AND SIMPLE… I hate being hurt but like jaz said I am for sure blocking and not EVER talking to certain people again.
No jazzy you’re far from being stupid and I think your RUclips friends don’t see that in you so don’t put yourself down for that you are just a kindhearted person and some people just can’t respect that. You did the best that you knew how you’re a lot like me and I use to feel bad about it too but not anymore. I’m still kind but just more protective of my heart. Continue to stay how you are to people just keep your guards up and God will always protect you. Lovely gathering for your sweet 16 Alissa’s birthday my birthday was Saturday the day after hers. Happy birthday 🎉my Pisces ♓️ sista. Love y’all 🙏🏾🥰❤️😘🙌🏾🎂🎉💯🥳
There is nothing wrong with you. As a person who is extra sensitive, you gotta tighten up on your boundaries. Everybody ain’t you, it’s some evil people out here. As long as you acted out of love and with good intentions, I wouldn’t worry about it. Count it as a lesson and keep it moving.
Its a natural human phenemon to see yourself in others. Youre a good person so you see the good in others. I am the same way girl! But dont be hard on yourself and dont let go of your light. Theres a lot of good videos on how to be an empath in an adult world. You can see the good in them and see the world in a wonderdul way and still abide by rules that you set for yourself no matter who they are. Things like: I dont invite people to my home until weve met in public 5 times Or I have a charity budget and I will not give past my means Its sad but we have to be honset with ourselves about how easily we can be manipulated so we just dont put ourself in the situation
Hey Jaz! You’re definately not stupid. You’re an empath and allow your emotions to lead you, you have a big heart and some ppl have never experienced someone like you. Their loss! At this moment thank God for the revelation and showing you now what type of person “that lady” truly is. But remember everyone is not your assignment. Sending love your way bookie ❤🥰
7:51 I feel you completely. It's just you have a good sprit. You have to learn to simply decline being played with at any moment with no guilt or harm to the other person. You will be alright♥
youre not stupid i get where youre coming from n it happen to me. dont let tht lady around u of your kids especially tht boy. u are a great mother dont let ppl hurt get to u. u are loved by family, tictok family n friends. everyone. take deep breaths and take it day by day❤
Live and learn-your heart is pure but it doesn’t mean others will meet those standards. Sadly, big life lesson here and you are stronger than you know-you can go forward. Your family needs you and you need to understand it’s human nature took for the best side till it’s not anymore.
I'm new to your channel and I just wanted to say that you are such an amazing person. I can see it in your eyes and hear it in your voice. Anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you. Thank you for being so open and real. Love and hugs from Switzerland.
She is clearly jealous of the mother you are and feared the love, admiration, like and kindess of the mothering love you give would be favored and adored by her children so much that she wouldn't know how to measure up!
Jazzy, your actions were NOT STUPID AT ALL!!! If they were then I am STUPID TOO!! Extending an OLIVE BRANCH IS NOT BEING STUPID, IT''S CALLED BEING HUMAN!! Clearly this woman has a lot of issues and fighting a lot demons in her that she lacks the ability to see when she received a blessing by you opening up your heart, home and life to her and her children.
You’re an amazing mom and person!!! I would love to have a friend like you!! Strong, caring, amazing, and good hearted. A great person that is hard to find!!
You are more kindhearted than most people Jaz don’t beat yourself up for it. I was this way too, very willing to try and see the good in everyone. You gotta know what’s worth your time and what isn’t. I learned this lesson young because my father was an addict. When he started stealing from me I stopped helping him. He had to get clean and change his life on his own, and he did after ending up back in prison. Some people don’t want help and some people still have lessons they need to learn and lows they need to hit. You can’t run from karma at the end of the day.
Good morning Jasmine. I can tell you are really hurt with whatever happened because you never vent without telling the whole story which is okay. You are entitled to keep some things to yourself. I wish we were friends because you need someone who has your back to be there for you when you can’t see things for yourself. I know Kyeisha probably tells you things to keep you from getting hurt, but sometimes we can’t see things from our significant other. Continue to work on yourself and everything will work out for the better. Stay blessed my fellow NYer.
I forgot to include some screenshots but watching it back I see I didn’t explain what fully happened because I was worried about her children seeing this and it was involving them. I just needed a moment to vent. Even if they see this I never want them to think I’m talking about what I did for them. I want them to know it truly came from my heart but because they’re children I can not be apart of their lives without the permission of their parent. They are amazing children and they deserve the best. I’ll keep them in prayer going forward 🙏🏽
@just jazzy you are way too hard on yourself!! I have 5 adult children that gave me the business lol. I thank Allah everyday for them. I have done the exact same thing you did with this mother. I knew that it was a messed up situation but my child didn't see it that way. I knew the more I opposed the relationship the more they would fight to be together. So against my better judgement I entertained the mom and the children. I thought I could teach her to be better. I thought if I showed them something better or different they would want better. Child when I say wrong I mean wrong lol. I allowed somethings slide SMH. Long story short it was a disaster. Your daughter is just like you ❤️ she thinks she can fix this boy and his family. I'm sorry but baby girl is going to end up feeling just like you do now. She sees the good in people just like you. She is going to learn a painful lesson at an early age. Don't give up on her because she is going to need you soon. Ijs
Like Maya Angelou said
“When people show you who they are~ Believe them”
You have a good heart and well intended. No shame in that. The problem lies in that you want to be good hearted over your gut instinct.
You knew someone was rotten in the spaghetti factory, but u wanted to see the good in her. The way she living and the way she harbored a child told u all u needed to know about this lady.
Her kids are no doubt beautiful children going thru a lot. Of course they were wanting that mama bear attention u give.
Next time make a conscious note to ask ur self what someone has shown u not what someone tell u or try’s to make u believe.
It’s ok. Lesson learned
It’s called boundaries and discernment. Everyone is not your assignment or issue. You can still be good to people at a distance. Continue to forgive but that doesn’t mean you have to be in their face.
People will disappoint and it’s ok to have limitations with dealing.
You may have to work more on self-worth.❤
Empaths biggest struggles are the lack of boundaries and the disregard of our discernment. There is nothing wrong with you. People are just manipulative and know their targets. You just know what it feels like to not have the support and love that was missed. So you may emphasize and give everything to everyone, which takes from you in all ways especially emotionally. This is something I had to address due to my traumatic childhood and parental abandonment issues. Don’t beat yourself up over being a good human. Try not to let this make your heart harden. We just have to listen to our intuition and strengthen our discernment. Believe how people present themselves and respond accordingly. Saying no is healthy. Implementing and enforcing boundaries is healthy and distancing with love is healthy. Removing your emotional investment is everything. Stand firm and be vigilant. You got this mama❤
Beautifully said🥰
Man this is for my daughter it took me years to master boundaries now I really let know one in but my kid and I'm married sad but true. 😢
Madam you spoke that from the heart and its very true. Knowledge is power and sharing being real and understanding is everything. Goid message.
As an empath. I have created boundaries it has helped tremendously and my sense of decrement has increased
Create a Sase of self love
When people show you who they are, believe them. Self-preservation is the first law of nature. Protect yourself and your family.
You are correct , I goes by first impression .
Right, and this is how ppl get hurt because you don't believe who they are when they show you
@@KIMjB72 True statement , if she can have her under age daughter in her house with her under age son . We could not of talked . Because you showed me who you are .
I swear hearing you talk about how you are, just reminded me of all the tears I've shed and the constant doubting and belittling thoughts I've had because of other people. I've always been the one yo take on other peoples problems and make them my own in order to help and I've always got the short end of the stick.
If CPS genuinely needs to be called you see neglect and abuse and you dont You are wrong! Period! Other than that stop blaming yourself. You're not stupid. Youre a great mom doing the best you can. Keep your head up!
Mama you not delusional, you’re compassionate. You give ppl the benefit of the doubt. I live in nyc too. Project raised etc. and it’s like….. am I lonely or something that I just expect the good when the vibe is good. I’m naive too, I’ve been told I live in a fantasy world. But people just don’t understand the compassion we feel towards humans. The other reason you don’t do it back or act shady is cause 1 is compassionate people believe in karma and 2. It took energy out of us being hurt, imagine the energy in getting back. It’s exhausting.
Jazz, you're not stupid! Stop saying that, sis. THERE'S NO BOOK ON THIS SHIT! They're definitely taking your kindness for weakness. Continue to be who you are, but with limitations. Stop and think before you jump to help anyone. ❤❤❤
You’re in love with people’s potential. I’m the same way. I also have borderline personality disorder
I think that was a beautiful gesture.
You "showed your hand" and your heart.
You are amazing....lesson learned❤.
Don’t be upset at yourself because you have a good heart but you must establish boundaries and put yourself first in order to keep these type of people away from you! Don’t let them make you like them, just continue to learn from your lesson’s and get better at saying NO! ✨✨
That’s why I don’t have friends because I’m toooo pure and NOBODY makes the cut in conversation I always catch/see through the underline evilness that’s y I handle them/people with a long spoon. I’m great and I have ZERO drama because I don’t deal… to each their own ❤
Same🙌
I'm finally coming to this realization. I'm late AF but better llate than never
This!! I actually thought something was wrong with me but it is God protecting me from evil people!!
Well said shit family and all cuz they can b jus as toxic!!
Girl when I tell you, you sound just like me! I always say I’m a better friend to my friends than they are to me. That’s why I have no friends now. It literally is so hard to just find people that are genuinely real. No intentions, no jealousy, no competition. Like all I need is for you to not fuck me over or try and use me. In therapy I learned that I always try and save people because I was the one that needed saving. I try to be the person I myself need. It sucks but to be honest it’s really lonely out here when you’re not fake or don’t like drama or don’t like to sit around talking about people and being negative. I pray you find your tribe of genuine people. I’m far but I’m open to getting to know each other if you are too. It seems we have a lot in common 💛 no hate over here, all love and positivity. I’m all about my business, eating good, traveling and having a drink or too. What you see is the hat you get…
I can definitely relate I’m the same way… always trying to the find good in everyone…. Your not stupid your human…. Thats it thats all…. My prayers go out to you and the family…
When ppl show you who they are, believe them. Mekayla has to learn that. However, don’t feel bad for trying to be a good person. Let karma do its job. There are good ppl in this world who need your kindness. Save that energy for them.
I think cps need to be involved in that lady life and that’s coming from someone who has had their baby removed and I worked my ass off to get her back !
I tilt my hat to you and give you your flowers. You sound like you made a mistake, you received a wake up call when your daughter was taken from you. Therefore, you worked your arse off to get it right and get your daughter back. I’m so very proud of you for doing what it took to get your child and not leaving her in the system. May I ask how long was she gone from you. Thank you for being transparent. God bless you and your baby. ❤
Omg girl m, you are like me to the max! I shut the world out for 15 years even ppl that were good because I was so tired and fearful of being the dummy and naive to evil ppl, I’m just now trying to live again and let ppl in. It’s a true battle, I think we want the best for ppl and it gives us a sense of gratification to do good and help other ppl. I have total discernment and I completely ignore it every time… I feel you Jazzy! I don’t have a single friend to this day I just got in a relationship and it’s hard to really trust. I let go of some good ppl but let in a lot of not so good ppl.
Happy Birthday Alyssa 🎉🎉🎉 I loved the way she was so excited about her gift….Jazzy there’s nothing stupid about you. You are a wonderful mother that’s trying her best always remember that and smile.
You’re not stupid. You have a pure heart, a heart like God’s. Don’t worry about her, pray that God handle her, and move on. God gone bless you. ❤
I didn’t hear the embarrassing reason but whatever bit is, keep leading w your heart…. God got u. Happy Birthday Alyssa!!! ❤
Listen, the words that come out of our mouths carry so much power. Believe it or not, u are stronger than what u give urself credit for. Baby just like every other struggle in your life, this too shall pass. But u gotta stop talking down on urself like that..all ur doing is attracting more negative energy into ur life that disrupts your home and disturbs ur peace. Then in turn it affects ur other babies whether it's direct or indirectly. My 15yr old son is giving me the blues too so I understand but don't ever give the enemy ammunition by speaking ill of urself. Your season is coming. ..believe that. Asé❤
You’re not stupid. Grown adults expect other grown adults to ACT LIKE ADULTS. I’m sorry you’re still dealing with this. ☹️
PS. I love your shirt.
AMEN
Hey Jazz I’ve struggled with this my whole life. I’ll be 36 this year…I’ve always seen the good in people even if they did me wrong, my close family members always say I could see that, that person was using you or wasn’t really good for you. And here go me “DumDum” like naw I don’t see it or they’ve been through a lot😂… Just lies that they new I would believe.. I can Laugh about it now because it won’t happen no more, but I had to learn the hard way in a lot of situations and have had to tell myself not to feel bad to say No or Cut People off. Naïve is definitely it. Being Naive has attracted some of the worst people in my life. My Narcissistic Child’s Father basically told me I was to Genuine, To Happy, to forgiving an that he was gone teach me basically how to stand up for myself while he also played apart in my life of being the Evil person that he is. I had to wake up!! It’s sad that I thought everyone would treat me like I wanted to be treated, Vice Versa but it’s a wicked world that we live in, an who wants to walk around thinking everyone is evil, or up to no good I’ve cut people off even when it was hard, but when it interferes with my mental it had to be done, but it always took the longest time to get to that point. Definitely have to have better Judgement because it’s real out here. Sorry you going through this hope everything works out for you soon.😌Luv Florida Gal❤🫶🏾❤
YOU’RE NOT STUPID
YOU’RE HUMAN… and your doing the best YOU know now how….. No one’s given a guide book on how to handle our children we have to learn them (as individuals) we can teach,preach, cuss and cry until we’re tearLESS to our babies but In the end they’re their OWN HUMAN BEING… You continue to teach and teach your daughter… TRUST ME your words are in her head… prayers for you and your family for strength and understanding… She’s going to be grateful for having a REAList mother who’s willing to go to the depths of the world for her…
ALSO your brain isn’t broken it’s called GENUINE KINDNESS/blindness❤… Don’t let one low vibrational person 🛑 you from being a high vibrational human❤
Aaaaaand can’t NO one call u dumb who haven’t stepped in your boots …. Point Blank and PERIOD ijs
So True!
What goes around comes around ma'am! Don't stress about nothing you did for someone elses good and they shitted on you. ❤ 🙏
I totally understand how you feel! I have been a dummy for many dummies in my life! Don’t become cold but please become wise! Those signals and flags are present for a reason!
When you ignore the signs you play Russian roulette!with your peace!
I understand you although my daughter was 19 I didn’t approve of what her boyfriend parents was doing letting her live there , my daughter is 20 now and I still have a problem with her boyfriend parents when you have daughters their accidents falls on us.Yes I’m ole fashioned and luv it,some of these new age parents are something else.Your heart is pure like mines never let anyone change you or your heart ,I pray things gets better
Jaz, you set yourself up for the okiedoke..cutitthafuqout
Jazzy,you may be an Empath.I have been through some of the same things.Its like some of the most disgusting people are drawn to you,and yes,you give chance after chance thinking people can change.9/10 hell no they won't.One thing I learned in my 52 year's,is when someone shows you who they are, believe them,the first time and move around.You have to set boundaries for yourself,and other's.
No Jazz…you’ve been blessed with the gift and heart of service and giving, don’t you change!!😢 and don’t feel bad sweetheart ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I just LOVE Alyssa’s loud laugh! It’s so genuine and infectious! I wouldn’t even have to know what’s she’s laughing about and her laugh would make me smile and laugh too 😅
Jazzy, you are not stupid. You are a real genuine caring person. This lady took advantage of your kindness. Just chalk it up as a lesson, cry your tears, and keep it moving. Being blessed by the best. Love you girl!!! ❤❤❤
And Happy Birthday to Alyssa!!! She trying to cover her face. But we see how pretty you are sis!!! 😊🎊🎉🎈
I can definitely tell you are a person with a huge heart so don't feel bad for doing what you did especially if the kids living condition is not up to part ❤ 🙏🏾
I understood where your coming from like I see the good in people until they really do something too and it’s bc you have a really good heart and people take advantage
It's speaks volumes to the type of person you genuinely are. People like us have to protect our hearts. I truly understand seeing the good in a person but everybody are not good people.❤
"NOBODY MAKES THE CUT:... 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾I felt that.❤
Your not stupid you just try to see the good in every one cause you have a big heart
Hey Jaz, I am 53 and I swear with all that’s in me, you remind me of myself when I was your age. You are an awesome person and although I don’t personally know you, I am proud of you! My children are in their late 20s and 30s and we’re so close now, but I remember those struggles. Stay strong, one day all of this will be just memories. Good days are on the way.
I am 61 years of age, trust me I believe I’m a intelligent person. I can see you a mile away before you get here. But I will give you a chance knowing you don’t deserve it. Afterwards I’m done. Please don’t beat yourself up.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 we live and we learn moving forward!❤
@theresalewis8662 I'm the same at 63.
❤ this
Happy Birthday Beautiful🎉
Jazz you are such an amazing mom. Don't be ashamed because what you did you did from your heart. Continue to be you that amazing person that you are .
Happy Birthday Alyssa!!!! I still remember my Sweet 16 birthday. It was lowkey as well. May God bless and cover you!!!- Jazzy, you are not stupid. You were being a kind person and that is never wrong.
Saying Makayla sleep in the “ girls room” knowing there’s no girls room is crazy Jay mom 😭!
Your not stupid you just have a heart of gold. May the most high God continue to bless you and your children with abundance and prosperity. ❤
Blessings to everyone reading this 🙏🏼 🙏🏽
Same to you love ❤ 🙏🏽
Thanks! Same to you as well 💕
Same to you ❤
I’m watching your video and I had to pause it. My heart is breaking for you. You have no issues with your judgment, you are a genuinely a good and honest person. We need more people in this world like you. I have the utmost respect for you. Don’t change. You are loved. Now I’ll go back and finish your video. ❤❤
Thank you, same to you ☺️
The issue is you have to set boundaries that can not be crossed. Boundaries may be different depending on who your dealing with- but once someone crosses it then that’s it!! There’s nothing wrong with setting a standard for yourself.
You’re not stupid. It’s the hope in your heart to believe that there is good. ALSO, you’re internalizing their situation and you don’t want them to feel like you would imagine how you feel or how someone made you feel before. I used to be like that. Everything you said I did. Then I got tired and now I only got prayers for people. You have to learn to separate your feelings…it’s going to take time. It doesn’t mean your heart will change but you’ll be more careful
Never stop being a good person ❤
Don’t ever change, that’s why we love you..!
When you went over there with the police and found how she is living then that was it for me, she wasn't even there. I hope you let go of this and let GOD girl.
You let your heart take over your mind I do the same thing you try to help people and save people and do your best and you get screwed in the future 😢
I bet any amount of 💰 Kyesha told her not to do such things. Jazz if you want to really succeed even more, you have to stop being naive, and stay out of making emotional decisions.
Don’t change because of others. Set boundaries and move with discernment but still be kind, caring, forgiving, generous…be a good human! Don’t stoop to peoples levels
I am a therapist and I stand firmly on the fact that therapy helps, Sis. If you continue to attract the same 'evil' people into your life, that means that you have some of that in you that needs to be worked on. These people are only a mirror for you to see the parts of yourself that needs healing. Also, forgiving people that do you wrong over and over again, doesn't make you a great person or a kind person. You have to have great boundaries that honor you--that is what makes you a great person. That also goes with your continued isolation of yourself. No one thrives that way. There are good people out here who can offer you great friendship, but you have to be able to attract those people into your life and also be able to reciprocate that type of relationship back. Go get the therapy sis!
I second this! 🙌🏾✅💯
That’s not always true. Yes therapy is good but a lot of chosen people go through suffering regardless and it doesn’t mean she’s wrong or has some evil because she’s “attracting it”. Predators are attracted to victims, does that mean the victims have a little bit of a predatory nature in them too? It just doesn’t work like that. There are times where we need to isolate to protect ourselves. And it’s not to take up victim mentality, I agree with having boundaries especially those who have a big heart, but the crazy thing in life is, bad things happen to good people!
When I started therapy and expressed all I was going through in rebuilding friendships and trusting people, being around those who did me wrong, my therapist knew I was right about how I felt and I wasn’t wrong for cutting ppl off. And I told her this is why I don’t have friends because people are not as genuine as me and I must not be in the right space. It’s true when the Bible says a prophet has no honor in there own hometown (John 4:44, 444 ✨) because we’re set apart. I have to be a friend to myself and be devoted to love myself. All she (my therapist) told me is life is unfair and it’s sucks. And allowed me to process my feelings. I’m not wrong for being upset or angry, it’s just what I do with that anger is what matters and personally to forgive because I have the boundaries packed down. But something’s happen so we can learn from it.
@@SheaNobleinYah🙏🏾💚 Truth. Blaming the victim ain't gonna get it.
Or…perhaps she grew up in an unhealthy environment and is attracting people that feel familiar to her. Saying that she is attracting “evil” because she has it inside her is a stretch. Victims of domestic violence, for example, don’t attract abusers because they are abusers. They attract abusers because of past trauma, self-worth issues, and other things that make them vulnerable.
@@vibegarden360 💯 what you said. This is victim blaming and idc about people’s credentials she would never be my therapist saying something like that.
You are not alone I have this issue myself god has designed us this way keep being the kind hearted person you are it’s very hard but you’re amazing 💐❤️
Girl what did she do???!! You didn't say
I thought I included all the screenshots but I didn’t 🤦🏽♀️. She was extremely rude to me out of no where. I thought I was doing a good dead with her children but instead I guess she took offense to it or whatever her reasoning was for being rude to me. I didn’t let her explain because my feelings was hurt and I blocked her. I thought after the many conversations we had there was an understanding and I thought she was a nice person. She was just going through a lot but I guess I was wrong.
Jazzy from a pure heart you did what you did for her and her children and God will bless you for that… you are not stupid and don’t speak that over your life.. you are a sweet person who loves to love.. keep in mind Jazzy that she shared a lot of personal things with you and maybe it’s because of those things that she’s reacting differently… things are not ok with her.. try not to take it personal and remember the things she shared.. maybe those issues are messing with her psyche and she’s taking it out on the one person that has been so loving to her… forgive her and move on.. keep your heart open ..she might just come back to apologize…. Just 🤔 maybe.. keep being yourself you are needed in this world where life is hard for so many people.. Happy Birthday Alyssa … what did she get that made her so happy 😃
I was thinking the same thing. Like what did she do to you? I thought I had missed it, so I rewatched twice. Thanks for the explanation Jasmine! I hope things get better.
Much ❤️ from a single momma in Texas.
Jazz you see what you want people to be instead of who they really are, you gotta work on being victorious instead of constantly letting people victimize you 💔💔
Girl you are so right she didn't say yet I'm telling you I like her so much and I still do she should go see a therapist like she she said she needs to I just look at her different 👎🙏🙏🙏🙏
I feel exactly how you 😢feel .. girl I understand you completely. 😢I am the same way. Currently in therapy and it helps.
Jazz in life you never stop growing and learning ,(this is just a lesson ). God knows your heart , so trust me you will be blessed ! Keep being you just ask God for discernment . This parenting shit is hard !!!
Jazzy, you're far from stupid....you have a pure heart that sees the good in folks even if it's none in them to see. NEVER CHANGE!!! we live and learn and those folks will one day be thankful for knowing you.
Alissa, 🎉🎊🥳 congratulations on your 16th birth anniversary!! Parties are not for everyone, spending your day how you want with who you want is what makes it YOUR DAY....glad you enjoyed.
Try not to beat yourself up. You seem like you really try to do the right thing. However, there are people who don't, and you have to see them for who they are.
Jasmine! I've been following you for some years now and honestly, your heart really is hella big. You do so much for people and I hope that one day someone comes through for you and remains solid for you. It's what you deserve! There's nothing wrong with trying to trust people and helping people out, so don't call yourself slow and all that fr bc you're far from that!
My heart ached when you said someone can show you their true color and you still seek the good. The heart of a good person is never easy but I pray God showers you with discernment and wisdom 🫶🏽
First of all you are not stupid. I’m a single parent and I’m not going through what you’re going through it’s NOT easy sis❤
Missy don't feel bad. I'm the same way. I feel you. But god has us and a whole lots of others. Love you and yours.
I’m just like this! I’m so naïve too and always looking stupid and laughed at. I be forgiving people over and over.
Your not stupid,dumb or slow Jazzy from what I know about you your a great mom just keep your head up and have faith it’s gone be ok 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️
This definitely hit home I’m going through this as well but don’t beat yourself up for having a good heart. Countinue to be true to yourself I’ll say this though one thing that I’m still battling with is battling my emotions over my logic. I too be trying to see the good in people I believe there’s always room for growth & improvement so I don’t judge people. I was talking to this one person for while and it gave me a wake up call like hurt people hurt people. I just remember this person saying to me you gave me so many chances & you could’ve walked away but didn’t 😢. I had a lot love for this person and I still do. You can’t fix or change anyone they’ll will have to be the one to one acknowledge & to feel the need to do the shadow work within. You could show people unconditional love and advice until the wheels fall off. If the person is at there lowest it’s difficult for them easily shift themselves to the higher self even though its not impossible I requires a lot willingness, self work & healing. I hope you continue to keep your head high ❤
You’re definitely not stupid! I’ve done this too many times and it’s cus people like us are genuinely good people and expect other adults to be the same but truthfully they are more bad people in this world than good. I’m sorry this has happened to you. You didn’t deserve whatever evil malicious things she has done. I pray you find peace in knowing you’re genuine and see the good in people.
My God! I'm late to your channel but this was right on time! When I tell you I felt this in my gut. Your heart is Beautiful 🧡🤎🧡 This is how we should be towards one another. Forgiving and leading with Grace. I love your content and I'm thankful that the algorithm sent you my way!!! Stay Amazing 🥰
Jazzy, you're not stupid at all. I look at it like this... your heart is so big, and your light shines so bright, and those who have bad intentions hold an empty cup and need a flashlight to find their way out of darkness. That's not on you, love. ❤ Sending lots of love and light. You got this!🙌🏿
We only know what you share with us. I think you’re a kind loving person. Don’t know what happened But people take our kindness for weakness. They take advantage of. Well I’m gonna finished watching. ❤❤❤
I am you and you are me. The empath we have is a gift and a curse. I hate it. My heart is so pure and that’s why I’m an introvert . People including family have played in my face a many times and I still was there until I wasn’t anymore.
You are not slow Jazzy you are blessed to be able to forgive and give chances to ppl who dont deserve but as GOD STATES vengeance is mine it hurts and become hard every time but guess what they karma come the way they treat or deceive you and you can sit back and wait its not always as quick as you would like but it comes like my grams told me at a young age nobody can put on wooping on you like the GOOD LORD ABOVE and for every reason you say you naive is why i watch you and like your style dont change who you are pure heart and loving
That’s the BIGGEST problem I have and I fucking hate it I am learning each and everyday to SEE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE it’s PLAIN AND SIMPLE… I hate being hurt but like jaz said I am for sure blocking and not EVER talking to certain people again.
No jazzy you’re far from being stupid and I think your RUclips friends don’t see that in you so don’t put yourself down for that you are just a kindhearted person and some people just can’t respect that. You did the best that you knew how you’re a lot like me and I use to feel bad about it too but not anymore. I’m still kind but just more protective of my heart. Continue to stay how you are to people just keep your guards up and God will always protect you. Lovely gathering for your sweet 16 Alissa’s birthday my birthday was Saturday the day after hers. Happy birthday 🎉my Pisces ♓️ sista. Love y’all 🙏🏾🥰❤️😘🙌🏾🎂🎉💯🥳
You are not stupid Jazzy! You are a Mom ❤ Come to Texas!! Bring your Babies!! We would get along great!! Happy Belated Birthday Alyssa❤
Who wants to live in Texas where you can’t wear a hairstyle at school or you’ll get thrown out! Naw that’s ok
There is nothing wrong with you. As a person who is extra sensitive, you gotta tighten up on your boundaries. Everybody ain’t you, it’s some evil people out here. As long as you acted out of love and with good intentions, I wouldn’t worry about it. Count it as a lesson and keep it moving.
Omg Friend with the Handmade flowers 😢 That’s so sweet!
Its a natural human phenemon to see yourself in others. Youre a good person so you see the good in others. I am the same way girl! But dont be hard on yourself and dont let go of your light. Theres a lot of good videos on how to be an empath in an adult world. You can see the good in them and see the world in a wonderdul way and still abide by rules that you set for yourself no matter who they are. Things like:
I dont invite people to my home until weve met in public 5 times
Or
I have a charity budget and I will not give past my means
Its sad but we have to be honset with ourselves about how easily we can be manipulated so we just dont put ourself in the situation
Alyssa has some really good friends. I’m glade that she enjoyed her 16th birthday.
You have a soft heart jazzy your not dumb you are kind ❤
🙌 I hear you. You have to learn you can love people but not like their character. Keep people at arms reach. But don't trust. It's a rough lesson.
Hey Jaz! You’re definately not stupid. You’re an empath and allow your emotions to lead you, you have a big heart and some ppl have never experienced someone like you. Their loss! At this moment thank God for the revelation and showing you now what type of person “that lady” truly is. But remember everyone is not your assignment. Sending love your way bookie ❤🥰
Jazzy I’m a Virgo and this is literally me. I’ve had so much evil done to me and I just don’t have it in me to see who they really are it’s crazy
7:51 I feel you completely. It's just you have a good sprit. You have to learn to simply decline being played with at any moment with no guilt or harm to the other person. You will be alright♥
youre not stupid i get where youre coming from n it happen to me. dont let tht lady around u of your kids especially tht boy. u are a great mother dont let ppl hurt get to u. u are loved by family, tictok family n friends. everyone. take deep breaths and take it day by day❤
Live and learn-your heart is pure but it doesn’t mean others will meet those standards. Sadly, big life lesson here and you are stronger than you know-you can go forward. Your family needs you and you need to understand it’s human nature took for the best side till it’s not anymore.
I'm new to your channel and I just wanted to say that you are such an amazing person. I can see it in your eyes and hear it in your voice. Anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you. Thank you for being so open and real. Love and hugs from Switzerland.
that trauma and fear of abandonment will make you see the BEST in everyone! Speaking from experience girl... Its hard out here!
I felt this sooo much your tears hurt me so much I’m sorry that you are going through this. 😢 Sending you lots of love and positive energy!!
She is clearly jealous of the mother you are and feared the love, admiration, like and kindess of the mothering love you give would be favored and adored by her children so much that she wouldn't know how to measure up!
Jazzy, your actions were NOT STUPID AT ALL!!! If they were then I am STUPID TOO!! Extending an OLIVE BRANCH IS NOT BEING STUPID, IT''S CALLED BEING HUMAN!! Clearly this woman has a lot of issues and fighting a lot demons in her that she lacks the ability to see when she received a blessing by you opening up your heart, home and life to her and her children.
Dont be so hard on yourself, you'll have to create boundaries. You have a good heart. Im like that too. God bless you. ❤
I feel this 1000%.Im glad im not alone because I only have 2 good friends. It takes me yearsss to trust someone.
You’re an amazing mom and person!!! I would love to have a friend like you!! Strong, caring, amazing, and good hearted. A great person that is hard to find!!
AMEN JASMINE!! Love your channel you keep it so real🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Your babies are safe. Everything is good
Not embarrassing sis just shows your pure heart. It’s okay to have a big heart just have to be selective with who you open it too. Hard lesson.
I know how you feel,ive been told that i always see the good in EVERYONE. Its just me. But it can definitely be big trouble
Im the same way you are, you're not stupid. You're just a good person with a good heart. You cant help being a good person
You are more kindhearted than most people Jaz don’t beat yourself up for it. I was this way too, very willing to try and see the good in everyone. You gotta know what’s worth your time and what isn’t. I learned this lesson young because my father was an addict. When he started stealing from me I stopped helping him. He had to get clean and change his life on his own, and he did after ending up back in prison. Some people don’t want help and some people still have lessons they need to learn and lows they need to hit. You can’t run from karma at the end of the day.
You're not stupid at all, you're a good hearted woman and you will be blessed 100 fold for it! Praying for you and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I can understand " Not makes the court" It so hard to find authentic people.these days ! I feel that!