The main thing I've found is that getting to "Oh, I have trauma from XYZ!" has been a six-decade-long odyssey, much less seeing how it's played out in my life to the point where I know why it has influenced my behavior in a certain way. I'm long past the point where I will be telling anyone about it in a romantic context, so although I hate to say it, I don't see how useful this is. It takes a very, very, very long time to realize that you 1) even have trauma from something in your childhood, 2) it's connected to how you behave, and 3) those behaviors are what's causing you problems. Like I said, it's taken me six decades to just fill all that in. Marriage and family are off the books at this point.
I hope I would be supportive, empathetic, patient, compassionate, hang in there for them, for us, ultimately also me. If they're in a better space then so will we and I.
what happen if my partner was emotion affair with someone else, and now everytime she is not with me, i always think who she is talking to or with whom. how can i get over it and learn jhow to trust again? please help
The main thing I've found is that getting to "Oh, I have trauma from XYZ!" has been a six-decade-long odyssey, much less seeing how it's played out in my life to the point where I know why it has influenced my behavior in a certain way. I'm long past the point where I will be telling anyone about it in a romantic context, so although I hate to say it, I don't see how useful this is. It takes a very, very, very long time to realize that you 1) even have trauma from something in your childhood, 2) it's connected to how you behave, and 3) those behaviors are what's causing you problems. Like I said, it's taken me six decades to just fill all that in. Marriage and family are off the books at this point.
Thank you so much for this video ❤
I hope I would be supportive, empathetic, patient, compassionate, hang in there for them, for us, ultimately also me. If they're in a better space then so will we and I.
what happen if my partner was emotion affair with someone else, and now everytime she is not with me, i always think who she is talking to or with whom. how can i get over it and learn jhow to trust again? please help