Are You Attracted to YOURSELF? Autoerotism

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • All autosexuals (Erotic Target Identity Inversions) are autoerotic, but only a minority of autoerotics are autosexual. Autoerotism more frequently finds expression via activities such as same-sex partnerships (homosexuality), or incest (which is sex with the living expression of one’s own genetic makeup). Gender dysphoria, transvestism, autogynephilia, autopedophilia, and similar paraphilias are all autoerotic.
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Комментарии • 22

  • @stingybindi
    @stingybindi 2 года назад +16

    Everything you say on these videos is worth listening to

  • @sarahlopez5114
    @sarahlopez5114 Год назад +15

    Worthwhile subject. Might you speak to the possibility that sexual desire is turned inward as a result of early shaming of sexual expression toward the erotic target?

    • @samvaknin
      @samvaknin  Год назад +15

      Very good question. No one knows. I can only speculate.

    • @armeniansdoitbetter
      @armeniansdoitbetter Год назад +1

      As how a young boy wants to marry his mother in his very young formative stage but is shamed? Or in shaming of one for exprrssing attraction in general? The former, i could see or that something becomes off putting by the object of desire/caretaker

  • @TheVampireChristiana
    @TheVampireChristiana 2 года назад +10

    Long time listener, first time caller. You just confirmed for me I have NPD (previously only Bipolar 1, ADD, and CPTSD diagnosis) this video really helped put my mental states into perspective when it comes to narcissism and myself, not just my attraction to them (one specific one in particular) I always loved vampires, since I was 12 and read Anne Rice’s novels and I never understood why I did but.. yeah. I think this is why.

    • @TheVampireChristiana
      @TheVampireChristiana 2 года назад +3

      (I’ve been autoandrophilic pansexual since a young age and I totally will label myself autosexual as well now because it completely describes me…

    • @TheVampireChristiana
      @TheVampireChristiana Год назад +3

      @@SP-qi8ur I was a bisexual girl, out in middle school but I often felt like I was more sexually mature than other kids my age so I never tried to be sexually active, I always felt somehow I had to protect other girls from myself and my sexuality. I was never attracted to boys, only men. By 12 I was inlove with Alan Rickman. I also knew sex with minors was a crime so I felt I had to protect older men from my sexuality too. Vampires are the sexual predator tripe and I also feel it’s a narcissist trope now too. I started ID’in with male sexuality after being into more tomboyish things and starting to read homoerotic stories, including Anne rice’s homoserotic Vampire Chronicles. I’ve never been very public with my autoandrophilia, I privately will refer to myself as trans but I don’t publicly really think of it as part of my identity. I am a gender nonconforming female. Ultimately the only people who know I prefer a more male role in the bedroom are my sexual partners and it’s natural. Not a transition but just my state to me a masculine woman and androgynous in a way most people would label as non-binary but I am not that. I’m a woman and I have mainly chose to stay looking feminine because so am attracted to men, the majority are heterosexual and homosexual might be boast against me even if I transitioned and pass. Also my narcissist told me not to and I thank him for that I guess. Also women prefer me as I am I think so more options of women who are attracted to women. I win all around by staying the gender I was assigned but my rich inner world only my intimate partners see different I think. Does this clarify?

  • @artsyalkalearnandgrowbeaut3731
    @artsyalkalearnandgrowbeaut3731 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful video! Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us! ❤️ May God bless you!

  • @shereeconnolly2457
    @shereeconnolly2457 2 года назад +9

    Great Video Prof.Vaknin 🎆🔥👏

  • @bridgetmontgomery6927
    @bridgetmontgomery6927 Год назад +2

    Auto eroticism + masturbation but not attracted to the opposite sex. Connection to my partner. No need for physical intimacy.

  • @emmalouie1663
    @emmalouie1663 Год назад +5

    Ah autogynephilia...... Males are sexually attracted to video game characters who do you call that?

  • @annspirit24
    @annspirit24 Месяц назад

    I finally finde out that I'm autosexual/romantic to myself . So many years I was do bad to me cous I was ashamed to me and myself coys I love my self very much . I make my self nervous

  • @margotdourand2507
    @margotdourand2507 2 года назад +3

    I wonder why many younger men seriously want me bad. They use foul and vulgar terms. Get physically agressive. To concur me? I'm 1000 percent heterosexual. I don't find my body attractive. I had cancer and multiple surgeries. I don't even get naked in front of my little dog. But in my older age, even when I was younger would lie about being with me. What am I doing? To get this unwanted and unwarranted behavior towards me.

  • @margotdourand2507
    @margotdourand2507 2 года назад +5

    Scares me that Narcism is the key

  • @Hannah82271
    @Hannah82271 Год назад +1

    ❤️Brilliant

  • @margotdourand2507
    @margotdourand2507 2 года назад +2

    Why am I the target?

  • @Thistle4444
    @Thistle4444 2 года назад +4

    Lol maybe a little 😅

  • @kimberlybarnett4050
    @kimberlybarnett4050 2 года назад +3

    Profoundly sad

  • @POLYLIVING
    @POLYLIVING 2 года назад +3

    I have definitely had the conversation that we get off to our own content with Onlyfans creators lol #guilty

  • @margotdourand2507
    @margotdourand2507 2 года назад +3

    Why do some disfigure there bodies on purpose?