WHY BEING ALONE IS GOOD - Jordan Peterson (Best Motivational Speech)

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    Being alone is an important part of self-development. It allows you to get to know yourself. Remember that this alone time is for focusing on you and for cultivating your passions.
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Комментарии • 125

  • @petergriffin9055
    @petergriffin9055 Год назад +176

    A person who is comfortable with their own company is a difficult person to manipulate

    • @igorlang884
      @igorlang884 Год назад +2

      True

    • @dynamitecity9667
      @dynamitecity9667 Год назад +3

      True, however, is that the type of life someone wants to live? Being alone, next no family, friends, associates e.t.c

    • @andremotivation6561
      @andremotivation6561 Год назад +16

      @@dynamitecity9667 there is a difference between being anti-social and being ok with being by themselves..that doesn't equal, you not liking people, but your not desperate to have people around you especially toxic ones.

    • @petergriffin9055
      @petergriffin9055 Год назад +3

      @@andremotivation6561 you understand exactly what my point was just by reading your comment

    • @braingriffin7547
      @braingriffin7547 Год назад

      Absolutely 💯 spot on Peter

  • @liberty-matrix
    @liberty-matrix Год назад +41

    Jordan Peterson's wisdom comes from his empathy towards others!

  • @seankelly3849
    @seankelly3849 Год назад +30

    Just wanted to say THANK YOU for doing everything you’ve done. The sacrifice you and your family have made to try and stimulate ideas, to push an encouraging word and guidance to people in such desperation for this message. I know I have gained a lot of knowledge and focus on a path for me by reading your books and listening to your messages. Thank you for your thoughts, your kindness, your intelligence, and your compassion to deliver this message to people despite the attacks you face against it. You’ve been a voice of guidance to not just myself but many men I know. Your voice and your message will hopefully resonate to not only current generations of aspiring competent men but future generations as well.

  • @freddyfurrah3789
    @freddyfurrah3789 Год назад +15

    I prefer to stay in my home, most of the time. I find plenty of things to do, to amuse myself.

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 3 месяца назад

      Me too. I love my home. I want to appreciate it.

  • @ozziepilot2899
    @ozziepilot2899 Год назад +15

    Thanks to your lectures Jordan; I discovered I was way too agreeable and conflict averse. Slowly changing this as I move forward in my life.

  • @Motivationalmoments81
    @Motivationalmoments81 Год назад +11

    I is absolutely correct! Being agreeable doesn't make you strong or Stoic! It makes you a door mat!

  • @forestduffe5576
    @forestduffe5576 Год назад +11

    Very motivational. Thanks

  • @wikiwarblog
    @wikiwarblog Год назад +5

    Being alone your vulnerable.
    It's healthy to have friends or family around.

    • @ash00001
      @ash00001 Год назад +1

      False

    • @wikiwarblog
      @wikiwarblog Год назад +1

      @@ash00001 yes false to me

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 3 месяца назад

      Im vulnerable either ways - so rather better to not be over exposed to tricky people.

  • @DocumentaryDoc
    @DocumentaryDoc Год назад +1

    I think the people who dislike him forget he studied to be a phycologist and met with a bunch of people and they told him a lot about his life.
    He might not be the best one, but he did well enough and he's probably the most known publicly.
    I can see where when he goes political that might turn people off, but it looks to me that he wants to help people through their life long journey.
    You can't put all your eggs in one basket sure. He's not the end all be all.
    But for me at the moment he's the best or most useful person's/phycologist advice I got with what I got or access to or what I can comprehend help improve my life besides my own small network of people.

  • @chosennotforsaken
    @chosennotforsaken Год назад +2

    I can relate. I betrayed my destiny. I told God "no - I need time Lord!" I was in a storm for so long and finally I succumbed to it. I am starting to hear God speak and I wish I had not disobeyed Him. But I can't reverse time. Grateful for this video.

  • @levihudson1274
    @levihudson1274 Год назад +1

    Honestly this is actually profound

  • @thetruthhurtsthem2178
    @thetruthhurtsthem2178 Год назад +1

    Such wisdom and a great asset for times like this. Did people notice that the thumbs down totals are no longer shown below videos. What an insidious move by youtube as it destroys the ablity to judge how viewers are reacting to to any video. some videos will have 2k in likes and the 20k in dislikes are hidden. Not very transparent - makes likes pretty useless, I think.

  • @armando6829
    @armando6829 Год назад +2

    I see him as a healer now.

  • @AbdurRahman-xn5lj
    @AbdurRahman-xn5lj Год назад +7

    Really it’s a very motivational video.♥️♥️

  • @flynntx4tax355
    @flynntx4tax355 Год назад +29

    I'm good then

  • @queenviolet.3818
    @queenviolet.3818 Год назад

    But there is a lesson in every lesson he learns people ..hes a good teacher for people in this world

  • @TomasioTV
    @TomasioTV Год назад +1

    Being concise, and on-point, is the key to a better understanding for an author's audience... Even when using metaphors and such, it should be preferable to connect them to the main point/s of discussion. That way, the metaphors, riddles and so on, will be better understood. What is the point of communication, if things are not communicated clearly?

  • @annayahonlyonequeen
    @annayahonlyonequeen Год назад +2

    You get to see your purpose

  • @jordanpetersonrulesforlife
    @jordanpetersonrulesforlife  Год назад +8

    Hey! Please only use this if you found something useful in my videos that you want to buy me a coffee for, and if you can afford to - this isn't necessary but can help me to keep creating some hopefully useful videos! www.buymeacoffee.com/jordan.peterson

    • @johncampbell9725
      @johncampbell9725 Год назад

      I know your probably really busy but Your book has flipped my life around. Your comparison to lobsters alone, really improved my understanding of the nature of social structures and how it applies to my current life. Thank you for your service to the world as we know it.

    • @ssr8022
      @ssr8022 Год назад

      i def will take the membership as soon as i get paid on 15th. always broke by the 1st but listening to your talks invigorate me, teach me things i know i knew but here its confirmed by a genius. i truly believe God sent you to this world at this stage and moment in time when its most needed. im from South Africa but one of your greatest admirers and listeners,not good at commenting though as prefer to remain as incognito as possible....if thats even possible on social media.May you and yours be forever blessed.

    • @DaveTaste
      @DaveTaste Год назад +1

      @@johncampbell9725 you do know that this isn't his channel.

    • @johncampbell9725
      @johncampbell9725 Год назад

      @dave taste guess I do now. Oh well.... maybe someone will be curious about what I learned. Perhaps investigate and read something they did not know 🤔 win win if you ask me.

  • @andrewbeattie9918
    @andrewbeattie9918 3 месяца назад

    I create, i pray,i fall in love with nature everyday. I listen to my inner- being.always taking a step back from the world. The Belfast poet Andrew Beattie. Food for thought...

  • @marlonbravo9466
    @marlonbravo9466 Год назад +5

    This video does not contain the contents of the Title.

  • @Lacvmbisss
    @Lacvmbisss Год назад

    Thanks

  • @spiriitualminded
    @spiriitualminded Год назад

    WOW TY

  • @amberwren
    @amberwren Год назад

    Knowing Jesus died for my sins, is enough for me to do my personal best and know when I’m off the mark, He is my light back on it. I’m saved with His love, blood (sacrifice) forgiveness, grace and mercy. He is the unblemished benevolence we cannot be on our own. God bless ❤

  • @Եսեմ-վ1խ
    @Եսեմ-վ1խ Год назад +1

    anyway thank you, because not everyone does not think on the same way and carring to much about somenone while the other person is trying to develope own monster in your words is not healthy and distance is needed.

  • @marnieoloughlin9366
    @marnieoloughlin9366 Год назад

    Me too

  • @George.Coleman
    @George.Coleman Год назад +1

    I wish the in-laws would leave me the fuck alone and stop interfering

  • @mark777143
    @mark777143 Год назад

    How can I develop my monster?

  • @Filthycoffin
    @Filthycoffin Год назад +2

    Jordan would you take any new clients? I’m 15 months out from a 3mg cold turkey of kolonopin and polly drugged cold turkey that occurred from being told my skin burning and the repeat song stuck in my head and not being able to go to sleep after the kolonopin CT was bipolar schizophrenia. God doctors are really pathetic with the knowledge of medication withdrawals and side effects. I’m still waiting for the chemical anxiety to leave and akathisia. Going through this I’ve lost my family and trying to learn to be alone. I’m scared because my brain is still fucked. I pray your healed.

    • @Augusto_Caten
      @Augusto_Caten Год назад +1

      Jordan peterson hasnt been taking new clients for years sadly

    • @johncaldwell4917
      @johncaldwell4917 Год назад +1

      I feel for you my friend

    • @mrturnbull9504
      @mrturnbull9504 Год назад +1

      He might not but there are many others out there who can help. Look around and you'll find others that understand where you are at and well educated also to help

    • @TheJeremyKentBGross
      @TheJeremyKentBGross Год назад

      This isn't his actual channel anyway.

    • @necrosadotor
      @necrosadotor Год назад

      i absolutely loathe doctors' decisions on meds & diagnosing, fuk them.

  • @sumedhrbajra
    @sumedhrbajra Год назад +1

    God abandoned you because you abandoned your destiny. Well said!

  • @MrIndow
    @MrIndow Год назад

    How do you get better at being disagreeable if you are naturally an introvert? And coming up with arguments happens hours after the discussion..

  • @thomassudkamp
    @thomassudkamp Год назад +1

    How on earth does he make this stuff up

  • @yousun4177
    @yousun4177 Год назад +1

    Being alone because I want to; it’s fine! Being alone because life brought me to this that I don’t want ? No 👎🏻 because my sons and family they went to live in other states or country? No 👎🏻 being alone because I want that is ok 👍🏻 but I don’t

  • @SRose-vp6ew
    @SRose-vp6ew Год назад +2

    On West and his poor influence. West’s issues are not based in any type of mental illness, but being actually manipulated. I would argue he’s more sane than most people simply by realizing there’s something going on that doesn’t line up with his pop culture world that continuously confuses him.
    West knows there’s “The Truth” out there that has been denied him, but he doesn’t exactly know what that is. Put yourself in his shoes, he was given “help” because they called him “crazy” when he broke down crying at the realization that not only did he almost stop the beating heart of his own kid, but his parents almost spilled his blood too.
    He’s awaken to there being right and wrong beyond what his pop culture world sees, but he doesn’t know who’s on the side of right and who’s on the side of wrong. He’s emotional, as he should be, he’s verbalizing the fears that manipulators have given him, but he hasn’t yet figured out the truth to stand on and he is ANGRY knowing those who did “actually” harm him claimed to be Jewish, but he felt they do not agree with the teachings of the Jewish God, therefore when someone from the cult that denies that there were 11 tribes of Israel and two half tribes(as if Jews are the only type of REAL Israelite), comes along reminding him that the Hebrew name for Jesus the Christ is actually Yahshua hamashiach (as if that’s not just a normal translation thing) he is very easily manipulated by an ounce of truth tied into lies as he sees these people exposing issues he saw. Including, when he metaphorically talked about a dog biting him, that symbolically means a trusted friend backstabbing you. He’s experienced more of that than anyone I’ve ever heard of.
    He’s not crazy, he’s a poet, he’s a verbal processor, he’s wrong on some things, but he’s waking up on others and is expressing himself before he accurately knows what he’s meant to correctly express. This is why the Bible says a person will be considered wise, if they are wise enough to keep their mouth shut, I paraphrase that. Maybe I should not have added A paraphrase biblical quote and I would’ve seemed wiser.
    This is actually a VERY spiritual matter. If I could talk to Kanye I would ask him to read the book of Hebrews, I would remind him that the Dead sea scrolls prove that there have been no changes to the book of Isaiah and remind him to read it and be set free by the truth. If he really wants to be a Jew right now come up that’s like saying you really want to be the group of people that God says will deny their Savior, according to Jewish teaching. Don’t believe me, read the book of Isaiah and Zachariah. Or if you want to re-Christian teaching that sums it up. Simply read John one through three. Jesus came for all, he is the arm of God, the word made flesh, the Isaiah 53 savior of the world. And he will come again. Pray for West. God has a special plan for him. May people humble and see what’s truly going on. West is not crazy, West is questioning and trying to figure things out. West is talking about the things that are not making sense, I’m not saying he’s saying the right stuff, but he’s not crazy, just at a spiritual and philosophical breaking point. To God be the glory. Father God, forgive West for attacking those whom you call the apple of your eye, however, thank you for his rebuke of those who do evil or simply keep people from you. May the world see the truth, and be set free.

  • @AeroAmphibious
    @AeroAmphibious Год назад +2

    When You Become Resentful You Can Become Very Dangerous Actually, In A Very Awful Way. (School Shooters)

  • @keday8138
    @keday8138 Год назад +3

    I must admit
    i m at lost
    btw the Topic
    &
    speech content
    IS it just me ?

    • @sunnydaze2359
      @sunnydaze2359 Год назад

      Nope. It’s not just you. I’m scratching my head also. 🧐🧐

  • @drnahidamiri3459
    @drnahidamiri3459 Год назад

    😊

  • @Pizza793
    @Pizza793 Год назад +2

    Where the heck does he say why its good to be alone?

  • @CAM-li8cq
    @CAM-li8cq Год назад

    Sadly I think this is a good man with his own past and troubles, he studies everything which speaks to everyone, I think he speaks through vague riddles that confuses people. A good man but a simple man.

  • @sactemp777
    @sactemp777 Год назад +1

    Where is advise about being alone

  • @CuddoTheBudda
    @CuddoTheBudda Год назад

    I'm being told I'm the problem its likme I the route of all evil so Mabey being alone is best way forward if Im allways alone Wel I'm no one's problem only my own i don't want to be a problem. I don't know what to do.

  • @queenviolet.3818
    @queenviolet.3818 Год назад

    I dont get it one lesson jordan say being alone is not good and on the other he says it is good sometimes to be alone..

  • @mertcatallx
    @mertcatallx Год назад +1

    everytime ı see a fucking motivational video and title best motivational speech hahahahahahaha choose one kids and there is no motivation there is only discipline !

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 Год назад

    Bing dad is better cause it’s peaceful that’s why they say are rip rest in peace

  • @idroididroid5956
    @idroididroid5956 Год назад

    ดีนะที่ อยู่ คนเดียว
    เสียสุขภาพจิตคนเดียว 😂😂😂
    😉😉😉

  • @thekeefer690
    @thekeefer690 Год назад

    666th like, it is quite the number but I am a beast who is focused on being a better individual, not a mess of a man!

  • @NebirosVT
    @NebirosVT Год назад

    Well, I'm gonna die alone so...

  • @dynamitecity9667
    @dynamitecity9667 Год назад

    You can't just push people who are agreeable to the outside though, you need agreeable people as much as disagreeable people. Human beings are tribal remember, like bees need a hive, human beings need a tribe, just like a wolf needs a pack. In fact, when you take community away from people, that often can lead to problems with drug and alcohol addiction. Being alone for a short period of time? Fair enough, but not for long term purposes. You know who thrives from being a "lone wolf"? Psychopaths that's whom, and who the hell wants to be a psychopath if you want any sort of contentment, happiness, meaning and stability?

  • @Mike_Lennox
    @Mike_Lennox Год назад

    Jordan made peace with his father's defense mechanisms. Thereby Jordan's "heart Is bent and twisted out of shape".
    From the point of view of a dependent boy, it was obvious to Jordan that his father wanted some kind of sacrifice.
    Jordan knew that his father had some kind of problem with him. So he agreed to leave, so that the storm coming out of the inside of his father, would abate.
    In Jordan's mind, Walt/God abandoned Jordan when Jordan abandoned his destiny (Walt's emotional needs), and that caused the storm in Walt to come up and take Jordan down to the depths of a dark underworld.
    In the underworld, Jordan would feel bitterness, resentment, malevolence, regret, and remorse about the wrongdoing and sin of being a human being.
    When Jordan's parents had abandoned Jordan, and he could not stand to look at himself, into the underworld Jordan went.
    Walt was a conflict with human being over damn near everything, so Jordan's actual experience was a relentless "jeez I've done a lot of things wrong", maybe I should reconcile myself with my parent's behavior, not with the real world, and that way I can get out of this.
    Well, that's what Jordan does, he thinks alright "I've got this destiny" I better go do what dad says.
    When Jordan emerges from the underworld with his fragmented mind, he experiences himself as the illuminated character in his father's story. Subsequently, Jordan pretends that the splitting and fragmenting of his mind, to serve the destiny of being a character in his father's story, is the illuminated human being.

  • @ZooScott
    @ZooScott Год назад +1

    I AM as BAD as the WORST but thank God I AM as GoOD as the bestest too ⚖️ 💪🏻💥 🏴 🗝 ……. 🎩 .

  • @smilernok
    @smilernok Год назад +1

    WHY BEING ALONE IS GOOD and how to find a partner ,,, 😂😂 Don't you just love that combo

    • @Blefiz
      @Blefiz Год назад +2

      Yes, because if you can't stand to be alone you will become codependent very easily and people will use you, so yes, it's a great combo.

    • @smilernok
      @smilernok Год назад +1

      @@Blefiz you can't combine being alone and having a partner . if you have a partner you not alone ,, i think you brain i broken 😄

    • @kadumpabin6188
      @kadumpabin6188 Год назад

      @@smilernok this video is for people like you 😉..we all had achieved peace,,,it's your turn be fast,,2024 is coming

  • @dude8223
    @dude8223 Год назад +1

    Question: most of the women I know love murder mystery movies. Can any of you keyboard psychologists out their explain to me why that is?

    • @problem7296
      @problem7296 Год назад +1

      because. Women ☕

    • @iantrolington6594
      @iantrolington6594 Год назад +5

      Danger excites women until it scares them.

    • @dude8223
      @dude8223 Год назад

      @@iantrolington6594 I dunno... I think they are just looking for the best way to murder you and not get caught

    • @DaveTaste
      @DaveTaste Год назад

      And obsessed with Netflix serial killer documentaries.

    • @sunnydaze2359
      @sunnydaze2359 Год назад +1

      @@iantrolington6594 I think that might be true.😮

  • @MichaelFurlong
    @MichaelFurlong Год назад +1

    I love this man Jordan Peterson, but Harry Potter has always been fictional so why compare reality with something fictional

    • @briansmoothie7854
      @briansmoothie7854 Год назад

      It's the first example Peterson thought of and Potter is someone not something

  • @advityarajsingh
    @advityarajsingh Год назад

    Well now this vidoe has correct title

  • @RKOzza
    @RKOzza Год назад

    WHY IS BEING ALONE GOOD??????

    • @sunnydaze2359
      @sunnydaze2359 Год назад +1

      I don’t think that the meaning is that being alone is good, I think it means that the fact that you are able to be alone with yourself is healthy. That doesn’t mean that you have to be alone for the rest of your life though.

    • @RKOzza
      @RKOzza Год назад +1

      @@sunnydaze2359 I know, i was only joking. Totally agree with you

  • @poboyblues12
    @poboyblues12 Год назад +5

    So why is it good to be alone? Unless I don’t understand English there wasn’t one damn word about being alone. Z. E. R. O.

    • @jimpyjohn2474
      @jimpyjohn2474 Год назад

      Yeah these videos are shitty edits. Just chunks of stuff he's said without any theme pasted together and shoved out.

    • @adaptercrash
      @adaptercrash Год назад

      It's not. They seem to like it.

    • @iantrolington6594
      @iantrolington6594 Год назад +2

      The message was: If you find yourself in a group of people you need to convince them to drown you in the ocean because they are better off without you.

    • @jimpyjohn2474
      @jimpyjohn2474 Год назад +1

      @@iantrolington6594 lol

  • @GaneshPatil-ip4kl
    @GaneshPatil-ip4kl Год назад +1

    if u r king of incel....ur followers cant attract girls nd they have vicious feelings about women's in general
    then it is advisable to tell Pro's of being alone for life or have boring tellytammy wife nd girl which traits u tell to warn about harmful women

  • @brianm5563
    @brianm5563 Год назад +9

    These types of videos are kind of annoying... Just a B-roll montage.. "Need a forlorn girl slowly spinning a pinwheel? We've got that B-roll!!" 😆

    • @seth2687
      @seth2687 Год назад

      Your type of comment is like a waste of brain cells.

    • @eithkobbsh1094
      @eithkobbsh1094 Год назад +3

      Lame post

  • @WORDversesWORLD
    @WORDversesWORLD Год назад +1

    You know how to spot a player, watch Petermans videos, he was crying about men being alone now this, lol player!

  • @Եսեմ-վ1խ
    @Եսեմ-վ1խ Год назад +2

    I have watched till 3:35 and I definatelly don't agree with you because I don't to have develope a monster in me. Learn to use the correct words if you are a believer in CHRIST. Learn to set boundaries yes and saying no is a part of it.

    • @karlyoungman4062
      @karlyoungman4062 Год назад

      the "monster" he is talking about is not an evil being that would be out to harm others. It's about having confidence, being formidable etc.

  • @basilegabriel001
    @basilegabriel001 Год назад

    You go in jail if you want to be alone