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    -- VOICE CREDITS --
    Girl
    / nanattohara
    -- PRODUCTION CREDITS --
    Script by Merryweather
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    Artwork by Joakim Waller
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    Video Editing by AJsparkx
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    Editing by Cazz
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    #anime #manga #webcomics

Комментарии • 9 тыс.

  • @MerryweatherMedia
    @MerryweatherMedia  3 месяца назад +123

    Internet Explorer-Chan is back! All new episodes are on WEBTOON right now!
    www.webtoons.com/en/canvas/internet-explorer/list?title_no=219164

  • @MerryweatherMedia
    @MerryweatherMedia  2 года назад +53317

    Live now, not later.

  • @TheresNoMilk
    @TheresNoMilk 2 года назад +14925

    Merry always with funny comics and this one simply just hits hard

  • @badmator4885
    @badmator4885 2 месяца назад +2

    You can always start but, you can never restart.

  • @NoHandle44
    @NoHandle44 2 года назад +2

    I think it's important to enjoy the small nuances in your life.
    Even sitting at a park is you living your life, you don't have to accomplish a big goal to live a fulfilling life.

  • @cloudshifter
    @cloudshifter 5 месяцев назад

    "My real life will start once I am an adult!"
    Me as an adult: Omg how do adults even stay up? I need 2 coffees to just barely get out of bed.

  • @theskateboarderbehindthesl6112
    @theskateboarderbehindthesl6112 5 месяцев назад +1

    She could’ve lived her life after retiring tho

  • @Fenexlol
    @Fenexlol 2 года назад

    you only had one job...40 SECONDS AND NOT 54

  • @Sikiro
    @Sikiro 4 месяца назад

    To be honest,
    Your life starts after death

  • @bobbackward6461
    @bobbackward6461 2 года назад

    He who hesitates, is lost.
    SEIZE THE OBJECTIVE.

  • @DJdarkshadow7
    @DJdarkshadow7 5 месяцев назад

    Work is something that society requires for you to live unless you're filthy rich and don't need to. But work shouldn't be life, with the promise that you'll eventually be done because by the time you're actually done, you've missed too much...

  • @junior_3676
    @junior_3676 5 месяцев назад

    I feel like if there will be someone next to me in the last imagine, it wont feel sad

  • @finzy2201
    @finzy2201 5 месяцев назад

    Cracked - my real life will start when i'm in heaven

  • @_MrMoney
    @_MrMoney 2 года назад +37512

    Holy crap, that hit harder than a truck in an isekai.
    Enjoy the ride while it lasts, guys.

    • @chrisb.3353
      @chrisb.3353 2 года назад +427

      You know, for the video being so sad i laughed pretty hard when i read this

    • @nobodywatchesnooby
      @nobodywatchesnooby 2 года назад +511

      Weebs: my real life starts when I cross this road...

    • @DSMCasual
      @DSMCasual 2 года назад +151

      “And then she got Isekai”

    • @newbaggett
      @newbaggett 2 года назад +57

      I will!
      ...But, do not EVER mention that menace in my presence again...

    • @Zen-zt4uk
      @Zen-zt4uk 2 года назад +18

      @@chrisb.3353 you and me both dude

  • @Number704
    @Number704 2 года назад +4609

    Just remember that last image can come at anytime. I'm living for 2 old friends that didn't make it out their 20's.

    • @0rion5212
      @0rion5212 5 месяцев назад +126

      I’m very sorry for both of your loss. It really is imperative to live as much as you can in every moment you’re given. I lost my at the time best friend in a car crash, a day before his 14th birthday, we were both in middle school at the time. Now I’m well into my college education, and life is barreling past me like a bullet train. I also ask myself weather we’d still be friends if he were here today. I promised him after he died I would live twice as much for him, but I have failed him. I live very little, and time seems to exponentially accelerate. Edit: also,
      My dogs are somehow eight years old already, I remember when they were only a month old like it was last week. Now they only have four years left. Life, time, is the most precious thing in the universe.

    • @fishyfinthing8854
      @fishyfinthing8854 5 месяцев назад +36

      Same, except now I have the third one recently. Every time it happen, I remind myself that I should get my dream done and live a life without regret.

    • @6and7
      @6and7 4 месяца назад +4

      Same

    • @linnen_elm
      @linnen_elm 4 месяца назад +17

      SAME BROTHER. PREACH. HERE I GOT WRECKED BY SOME CRAZY EX GF. I FORGOT THAT ONE OF MY BEST FRIEND DIDN'T EVEN HAVE THE CHANCE TO FEEL HEARTBROKEN, I SHALL ARISE FROM MY SLUMBER FOR THE HONOR OF MY DEAD COMRADE. I WILL LIVE FOR HIS SHARE OF LIFE TOO.

    • @moch.hirsyam
      @moch.hirsyam 4 месяца назад +7

      My middle school best friend passed away 4 days before my 18th birthday

  • @andrewcarr2023
    @andrewcarr2023 2 года назад +7108

    The fact that there are no words with the last image, and a dozen implied meanings, makes this a masterpiece. Anything they could have put there might have detracted from it or come of cheesy, but leaving it blank made it truly poignant.

  • @_hyva_
    @_hyva_ 2 года назад +3465

    A wise man once said: “The world ends with you. If you want to enjoy life, expand your horizons. You have to push them as far as they’ll go. Enjoy the moment.”

    • @Juk3586
      @Juk3586 2 года назад +38

      "Enjoy every moment with all you got"

    • @cuteandstrange6618
      @cuteandstrange6618 2 года назад +44

      The World Ends With You has some of the most memorable quotes, but this is the one I don't ever want to forget

    • @DemonicRemption
      @DemonicRemption 2 года назад +8

      @Hyva
      So that's why it's called "The World Ends With You." I've been meaning to play that since I was introduced to it by an acquaintance over a decade ago.
      After reading this I'm having second thoughts.

    • @_hyva_
      @_hyva_ 2 года назад +11

      @@DemonicRemption Please play it, it’s such an incredible game with a really phenomenal story

    • @shingekinokyojinbiteszadus7265
      @shingekinokyojinbiteszadus7265 2 года назад +3

      @@_hyva_ Serial killers:Yes

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 2 года назад +23003

    All jokes aside, this shit really hits you in the feels. Reminds you of the fragility of life and how temporary it is.

    • @ensomnia.
      @ensomnia. 2 года назад +91

      Here before someone comments how you're everywhere

    • @poorhabits1792
      @poorhabits1792 2 года назад +7

      3rd

    • @Gigachad-mc5qz
      @Gigachad-mc5qz 2 года назад +115

      I have a weird theory that consciousness goes on after you die. Essentially you get reborn because if you are dead you dont know anything you cant know youre dead and its like before you were born. So if there is a way for reincarnation you would live again but if there isnt you wouldnt be aware of it. It may sound dumb but i feel it kinda makes sense when you think about it

    • @kenzienatha3981
      @kenzienatha3981 2 года назад +4

      Ayo 4 hours ago

    • @fbi855
      @fbi855 2 года назад +13

      Always live your days like it’s your last

  • @TheRedstone26
    @TheRedstone26 5 месяцев назад +966

    Real life doesn't start when you're an adult with money, it doesn't start when you get your dream job, or when you don't have to work.
    Real life starts from the moment you are conscious, from the first moment you think or see things, you are already living.
    Don't stop living, living beings.

    • @PySnek
      @PySnek 4 месяца назад +37

      Not easy when you have to spend 9 hours daily infront of a monitor staring at excel tables and having to listen to boring meetings for hours. For 40 fucking years.

    • @courtney5312
      @courtney5312 4 месяца назад +14

      @@PySnek I don't have work experience yet, but I hope in your free time you can do the things you like and spend time with your loved ones.

    • @mercersbad
      @mercersbad 4 месяца назад +6

      as someone who lives with depression, I agree

    • @kokocoke4948
      @kokocoke4948 4 месяца назад +5

      @@PySnekthen find another job that is suitable for you if its that hard a good job

    • @citizenoftrone6570
      @citizenoftrone6570 4 месяца назад +3

      If that's real life than it's sucks

  • @sevenn4558
    @sevenn4558 2 года назад +15617

    The fact that she raises her fist everytime but at the end of her life she only raises her hand symbolizing that she will let go makes me cry

    • @redacted8983
      @redacted8983 2 года назад +182

      Only when she reached old age, she didn't clench her fist. Either that, or the needle for the IV fluid to flow inside her system

    • @sevenn4558
      @sevenn4558 2 года назад +300

      @@redacted8983 still a symbolism of old age right? Taking medication, beeing in a hospital bed and having white hair suggests old age and death

    • @isha9300
      @isha9300 2 года назад +211

      @@sevenn4558 well clearly. but i think you made a good observation on her “giving up.” I simply thought that she couldn’t put her hand in a fist because she was too weak and frail.

    • @sevenn4558
      @sevenn4558 2 года назад +22

      @@isha9300 yep makes sense

    • @metallicfingers
      @metallicfingers 2 года назад +9

      W profile picture

  • @tueur3369
    @tueur3369 2 года назад +1068

    I'm so glad I discovered the phrase "Memento mori" while young, The fact that death can come anytime is both depressing and aspiring

    • @dannyorr8430
      @dannyorr8430 2 года назад +56

      One year my friend, remember death

    • @jarjardaze2485
      @jarjardaze2485 2 года назад +79

      I feel like we should be prepared to leave this earth anytime. More people should think about the afterlife, we're not just material but spiritual beings

    • @jazz9260
      @jazz9260 2 года назад +9

      @@jarjardaze2485 Facts.

    • @zachsimmons6824
      @zachsimmons6824 2 года назад +2

      I too found this video very Stoic

    • @haydengames9271
      @haydengames9271 2 года назад +24

      Brings back unus annus memories

  • @jeanroberto5974
    @jeanroberto5974 2 года назад +1798

    I was expecting something dark but it got me surprised anyway
    that one phase throughout the whole comic really was powerful

    • @zeronoszero3346
      @zeronoszero3346 2 года назад +42

      I mean it's still dark, she worked her whole life without living to her fullest

    • @Unknown-cr7um
      @Unknown-cr7um 2 года назад +5

      @@zeronoszero3346 only she? everyone do that

    • @zeronoszero3346
      @zeronoszero3346 2 года назад +6

      @@Unknown-cr7um yeaaaa I don't think so

    • @Unknown-cr7um
      @Unknown-cr7um 2 года назад +14

      @@zeronoszero3346 yes, not actually everybody, but most people waste their lifes like this

    • @ADMICKEY
      @ADMICKEY 2 года назад +3

      @@Unknown-cr7um meanwhile I'm out here buying games and the gamepass for a whole family, and finding friends in fortnite ( everywhere else is either too toxic or to Young)

  • @Micsquzzy69
    @Micsquzzy69 5 месяцев назад +295

    “We have two lives, and the second begins when we realize we only have one.”
    ― Confucius

    • @connesuir
      @connesuir 4 месяца назад

      mine started at like 4 so I had one

    • @SakshiSingh-fu2bi
      @SakshiSingh-fu2bi 4 месяца назад +9

      So if I Don't realize I will live again

    • @joshanonline
      @joshanonline 4 месяца назад +1

      This is a video of a strong independent woman that don't need no men or child.
      Life is what you live for, but you gotta invest your time in what lasts long, in what has deep meaning, in a legacy.

    • @yasininn76
      @yasininn76 4 месяца назад +1

      Probelm is, you won't be there to see your legacy. Your child might die the day after you die. Don't invest time and your own life in a worthless project, spend your money and time for YOURSELF

    • @JoeMama-g7v
      @JoeMama-g7v 4 месяца назад +2

      @@yasininn76 or do whatever makes you happy, whichever one comes first. Plus, many legacies were never seen by their own creators because it was only realized afterwards about their legacy. They didn't care about their legacy most times, they cared about their passion and enjoyment, legacy never mattered to them.

  • @chaptermasteraltethius
    @chaptermasteraltethius 2 года назад +6758

    God, the feels. I wish I was a teenager again, I miss the passion I had for certain things and the optimism when looking at the future.

    • @silentwalker434
      @silentwalker434 2 года назад +112

      Right there with ya pal.

    • @FreedomAndPeaceOnly
      @FreedomAndPeaceOnly 2 года назад +226

      True. I also miss the times... when I was *not* antanogized for being wh*te.
      °cough°

    • @techpriestalex8730
      @techpriestalex8730 2 года назад +164

      @Freedom extremist or straight or just being a honest good and kind person that doesn't care about stupid things like race or what people do in their bedrooms.

    • @InternetMouse
      @InternetMouse 2 года назад +30

      Same. I dont think i have that same optimisim anymore

    • @PoRoKLusT
      @PoRoKLusT 2 года назад +230

      What are you talking about, you probably 20-25 years old (maximum 30~). You still have whole life ahead. Often people lose passion not because lack of optimism but because we all lazy asses and undestand that our target way harder to achive than we though it would. In reallity it changes nothing, goal is still achievable. So get your shit together and do what you should to do till you have lifetime.

  • @angelicasysnila5476
    @angelicasysnila5476 2 года назад +4472

    My dad is 55 and he always talks about his childhood and adulthood days a lot. He misses his past. Even tho he is a happy person and he believes that living in current moment is what life is, he hates how everything has to end one day, by everything he means the relations he made with other people. He shows us how his hands are getting wrinkly and stuff lol, it makes us emotional

    • @Epr0x
      @Epr0x 5 месяцев назад +124

      Despite I am 17, I know that this has to happen with me and everyone around me. It feels scary ngl but it kind of makes you appreciate the moment you are living right now, especially stuff such as school and college lives.

    • @Roxasora123
      @Roxasora123 5 месяцев назад +74

      @@Epr0x Go spend your life with your loved ones while you’re still young - friends, family, partner, anyone. Trust me, i’m 27 now and i regret my college lives because i didn’t meet up with so many people. Now i’m too busy working all day long just to be able to pay bills and have so little time to meet people 😢 school homeworks and college projects are nothing compared to the responsibility of working for your own survival.

    • @Epr0x
      @Epr0x 5 месяцев назад +31

      @@Roxasora123 I do appreciate your advice so I would like to thank you for it, but despite that I don’t know how to talk to some of my friends despite I do love them. For me, it feels like I am just comfortable with talking to some of my family members.
      At the same time, I do know that our friendship will not be the same again (even if it grew up) after schools or college due to having a lot of responsibilities such as jobs and children
      However I do wish you luck in your job

    • @kagakai7729
      @kagakai7729 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@Epr0x It has the opposite effect for most people. It feels like a waste of time to invest in something that will inevitably crumble into nothing. No wonder soup on the side rates are up, may as well skip to the conclusion

    • @voidakolimbodagan8794
      @voidakolimbodagan8794 5 месяцев назад +9

      "Good health is impermanent,
      Youth does not last. Prosperity is impermanent,
      And life, too, does not last. How can beings, afflicted as they
      are by impermanence, Take delight in desirable things
      like these?" -The Buddha

  • @firestuka8850
    @firestuka8850 2 года назад +4860

    Yes, my father died when he retired as a 25 year veteran teacher last year. His last spring break broke him. Cancer. He couldn't enjoy retirement . He worked too hard for that to be a justifiable end. Enjoy life to some degree. Yes, you must work and sometimes budget for a vacation, sure. Do so. Save up and find the time to so your big fun and small fun in between to keep yourself mentally healthy and sane. Mix big fun and small fun. Do not work yourself to death.

    • @adrenalineactivate
      @adrenalineactivate 2 года назад +63

      Oof sounds like my dad's future. His a heavy smoker with a mother who has cancer and his getting closer to his 50

    • @SwordFastic
      @SwordFastic 2 года назад +30

      i’m sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing your story

    • @wiktoria2516
      @wiktoria2516 2 года назад +16

      I'm so sorry.

    • @refuze2quit603
      @refuze2quit603 2 года назад +44

      My dad has a saying: money is used to please you, you don’t please yourself with more money, you spend some and give some to your family so they also can enjoy the wealth. He is a wise man despite barely graduating college.

    • @Bia_OkamotoS2
      @Bia_OkamotoS2 2 года назад +6

      I'm so sorry to hear that, my condolences, I hope you get better..

  • @Stranger-dy5td
    @Stranger-dy5td 5 месяцев назад +120

    Procrastinator:”Nah, I’d Wait”

    • @dy7296
      @dy7296 4 месяца назад +15

      "Are you a procrastinator because you are unmotivated, or are you unmotivated because you are a procrastinator?"

    • @guywithgroundnut
      @guywithgroundnut 4 месяца назад +2

      Oh come on why did I read this in Geto's voice😭😭😭

    • @TheRealRenAmamiya
      @TheRealRenAmamiya 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@dy7296 stand proud, youre strong

    • @Solo_Leveling_L
      @Solo_Leveling_L 3 месяца назад

      ​@@dy7296Yez

    • @yash4697
      @yash4697 2 месяца назад

      ​@@TheRealRenAmamiyaDat tara kimi.........YOWAIMO

  • @aidaamores8492
    @aidaamores8492 2 года назад +1415

    This hits hard. Eversince i became a senior, i was filled with lots of expectations especially since i was first in my class. And my life became more hectic when i joined the student council. Whenever i would try to stop for a moment to play some games i would then be reminded of my responsibilities then i would continue doing my modules. Come to think of it, i frequently got sick in the past months. There was a time i almost collapsed inside the bathroom and would experience some headaches while lying in my bed. I was so caught up trying to match everyone's expectations so that they wont be disappointed in me, that i dont even realize how tired my mind and body was. This video is a literal slap in the face for me.

    • @XiELEd4377
      @XiELEd4377 2 года назад +30

      Hey, I don't mean to intrude, but why did you join the Student Council? Is it because of expectations, or is there something you wanted to improve or maintain?

    • @mudihamudi5468
      @mudihamudi5468 2 года назад +11

      Cap

    • @msumanth7500
      @msumanth7500 2 года назад +17

      Well, take it slowly and try to enjoy at least some time to relax ur body and soul.

    • @smellyfoot9817
      @smellyfoot9817 2 года назад +60

      I worked as a Barista sometime ago and meet an elderly guy. One time we had a little chat going on and I told him a funny but also pathetic story about me failing talking to a girl I was interested in. He weezed his ass off, then told me perhaps the most important piece of wisdom I've ever received. He told me "At my age, you come to realize how little fuck there is to give. Regrets are hilariously painful, especially in your case. People are too busy thinking about themselfes to notice your every detail. Even if they would notice, wait 'til you get old and fat - like me - and see if anybody remebers. I'm sure I don't." After that, he told an Oldtimer joke about him and his wife being forgetful. But yeah! Hope this shared, littel story is as helpful as it was for me. Elderly people are awesome and I would recommend setting status aside and actually have conversations with them. They lived probaly 2-3 times as long as you have and possibly experienced the same or more then you have. Sometimes it's like watching a prequel so you understand the actual movie much better with the extra context. Maybe talking to them can solve your issue or at least ease your state of mind.
      Btw back then I mustered enough courage to ask the girl out again. I got served... again.. turns out she was gay the whole time. Who would have thought 🤔

    • @anjagalan6905
      @anjagalan6905 2 года назад +5

      Take a rest and work at your own pace

  • @JustinY.
    @JustinY. 2 года назад +3269

    Plot Twist: This was just a vivid dream from her younger self and she reassessed her life goals shortly afterwards.

  • @BarryBruh
    @BarryBruh 2 года назад +289

    My life will start after a couple 2am RUclips videos

  • @itachibrother9175
    @itachibrother9175 2 года назад +1370

    Moral of the story: don't wait for your "real" life to start. It started the moment you were born. Don't say stupid stuf like that! Just live, enjoy the happy and sad moments of your life! Don't be afraid to try something new. Live your life as fully and happily as you can, so when you are old you don't have any regrets.

    • @Darg94
      @Darg94 2 года назад +21

      Thank you, I was planning to postpone purchasing some merch from my favorite indie content creator for my enjoyment, it was pretty expensive but at the same time affordable for a "maybe I'll need the money later", and I've being doing that for 3 months, whatever, if I'll be trully in need I'll figure out what can I do, life is full of emotions, I'll not let a fear or idealized "maybe" rule my life, I'm now expecting my package to come :D

    • @American_2
      @American_2 2 года назад +9

      your words can't be any more truer.

    • @pennisetumtyphoidium6679
      @pennisetumtyphoidium6679 2 года назад +1

      Stuff*

    • @Madara2023a
      @Madara2023a 2 года назад +6

      that's the problem. most people are scattered, have no discipline, so their relationships in the family, at work and in their dreams are not strong. it is more correct to single out for yourself the most important things in life - family, dream, health - and work in this direction. Give 100% in every point and then there will be nothing to regret. And more importantly, you will leave brightly, not in hospital s👺it

    • @kushal6065
      @kushal6065 2 года назад

      The only thing is insecurity stops me

  • @inactiveunsub8880
    @inactiveunsub8880 2 года назад +2031

    man i'm 20 years old right now, this literally hit me like a truck. i'm in a dark period right now in my life and idk this video reminded me that i need to appreciate life a lot more.

    • @vex_13
      @vex_13 2 года назад +35

      20? Dont worry, your darker period is waiting for you when you get older! 🙂

    • @lawwilliams7591
      @lawwilliams7591 2 года назад +168

      @@vex_13 I think it’s unfair to ignore that people who are young can still suffer from fears of mortality and aging.

    • @inactiveunsub8880
      @inactiveunsub8880 2 года назад +51

      @@lawwilliams7591 yeah thanks for replying bro I wasn’t even gonna acknowledge that comment

    • @chiaracorrado8172
      @chiaracorrado8172 2 года назад +38

      I'm 19 and same. Let's stay strong💪🏻

    • @inactiveunsub8880
      @inactiveunsub8880 2 года назад +24

      @@chiaracorrado8172 yess we got this💪💪💪

  • @martialmouse7582
    @martialmouse7582 2 года назад +3225

    Holy shit, this legimately just snapped me outta my anixety attack. I was panicking because I had some work due tmr that I didn't manage to finish because I had been hanging out with friends for the past two days. I was telling myself that I shouldn't have gone out and spent time with them. But after watching this, I realized, if not now, then when? Our time is short, and although work is important, it is ultimately worthless compared to life itself. Hopefully anyone out there in a similar situation can relate.

    • @kit-san4846
      @kit-san4846 2 года назад +42

      @Martial Mouse Now if only cooperation can come to that conclusion. Most of them anyways.

    • @martialmouse7582
      @martialmouse7582 2 года назад +89

      @@kit-san4846 We live in a society man :(
      But change starts with a single person. We may not be able to experience an ideal society in our lifetime, but if we embody the change we want to see in the world; gradually, the world will change. At least I hope so, perhaps I'm being too idealistic

    • @wyxelix5041
      @wyxelix5041 2 года назад +55

      @@martialmouse7582 eh its the balance of the two in my speculation, if you get too much time on your friends that may affect your career, but if you're too focused on career expecting a better life from the future to the extent that you do not enjoy anything at that point

    • @MayvenFalls
      @MayvenFalls 2 года назад +16

      @@wyxelix5041 I'm here sitting doing none. I guess I chose this route

    • @TheQue5tion
      @TheQue5tion 2 года назад +18

      @@martialmouse7582 you can get another job if you lose the one you have. You can make new friends if you lose touch with or fall out with the friends you have (that happens as people change, and no one is to blame).
      But time, that's something you never get more of. So always spend it wisely. Even if those friendships don't last, at least you enjoyed yourself for as long as they did last.

  • @すきっち
    @すきっち 3 месяца назад +17

    確かに、気付かされました…
    小学生の時は中学生になったら青春を、中学生の時は高校生になったら青春を、高校生になった今、大学生になったら青春を過ごそうと、どんどん忙しくてやりたいことを後回しにしてしまってます…
    今やりたいことをやらないと、後から時間がなくなってできなくなると言うことですね…

  • @parliament1497
    @parliament1497 2 года назад +1928

    As a person who had a life, I can confirm this is true

    • @ShadowDemon_4
      @ShadowDemon_4 2 года назад +53

      *pats running owl*
      You are glorious!

    • @inhhoangvu3634
      @inhhoangvu3634 2 года назад +31

      Wait you actually having a life?

    • @sheridanwolf
      @sheridanwolf 2 года назад +76

      Wait “had” damn

    • @Rubinkys
      @Rubinkys 2 года назад +18

      can relate, also had life
      keyword *had*

    • @Liunaru
      @Liunaru 2 года назад +4

      Wait a damn minute...

  • @jumpupsupbarhorn
    @jumpupsupbarhorn 2 года назад +2364

    The fact that she just can't say anything in the hospital bed makes the message way more stronger, damn...
    I'm 19 and I already wish I was 12 again. Nothing more true than using your youth to the max

    • @oisinlynch8427
      @oisinlynch8427 2 года назад +41

      Yeah I kinda wishing an angle/super natural being would come down and give her a second chance

    • @jamesharding3459
      @jamesharding3459 2 года назад +74

      Life really is wasted on us when we're young, isn't it?

    • @oisinlynch8427
      @oisinlynch8427 2 года назад +130

      @@jamesharding3459 yeah I know we’re given the body but not the brain then we’re given the brain but not the body

    • @D.KlWA-aG
      @D.KlWA-aG 2 года назад +42

      good thing your realizing these things at 19

    • @oisinlynch8427
      @oisinlynch8427 2 года назад +13

      @@D.KlWA-aG I guess it depends really I mean u realise it at 18 in Europe and 21 in America

  • @themagican5797
    @themagican5797 2 года назад +1910

    I’m kinda glad, I’ve been going through these kind of existential thoughts lately and its nice seeing something like this and not freaking out but also seeing everyone in the comments going through the same thing. Thank you for this

    • @SenhorAlien
      @SenhorAlien 2 года назад +10

      I guess we all go through it at some point, eh. Makes one wonder.

    • @someguy1365
      @someguy1365 2 года назад +3

      @@SenhorAlien A philosopher or writer is someone that never recovered.

    • @yamchayaku
      @yamchayaku 5 месяцев назад

      I came to that realization at 40. If I kept going at my current trajectory, I was probably going to be broken before I got to enjoy life. Already have back problems, and I'm not going to keep working myself while it progresses. Living on my savings now. Will I have enough when I reach 67? Probably not... But I'm not likely going to live long enough to see that age anyway. I'll just enjoy my life now.

    • @peterii3512
      @peterii3512 5 месяцев назад +3

      ⁠@@yamchayaku if you move to a poor country then I think it could work. I am from a country where the average monthly wage is 300$ a month. I'm thinking of working in a HCOL area and saving for a decade then moving back and retiring in my 30's. If you're from a rich country it's def possible to retire comfortably in a poor country. It will probably be hard though since you won't know anyone there and everyone close to you will be living somewhere else not to mention the terrible healthcare.

    • @yamchayaku
      @yamchayaku 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@peterii3512 Actually I was thinking of becoming an expat too and moving to a country that has a cheaper cost of living. I did have family tell me that if I moved to the Philippines with what I currently have, I would be considered a multi-millionaire there and live in an area that would be first world quality. Apparently the dollar goes a very long way there.

  • @nacu1120
    @nacu1120 2 года назад +143

    As someone who knows someone who lived life when he could. I take a lot of inspiration from this. Cause my stepdad went wind surfing and enjoyed every second of his life a long time ago. If he had waited till he retired he would've became disabled and never would have enjoyed all the amazing moments of windsurfing. If you have something you want to do in life, don't wait. You may not even have functioning legs tomorrow.

  • @ReblazeGaming
    @ReblazeGaming 2 года назад +703

    This hit so hard man. I’m 19 and mad scared of growing up. I dreaded turning 18 because I was like “wow I’m really about to become an official adult” and now I’m dreading 20 because I will no longer be a teenager and I’ll be a full adult but I still feel mentally 16...
    The future is just so scary man. But due to social anxiety I stay in doors all the time and I feel like I’m missing out on life rn. I tell myself “when I’m older I’ll be free of my anxiety and will finally live life” but life is passing me by right now. Will anything change when I’m older? What if I get to 25 and say the same “life will be better when I’m older?” The worst fear I have is growing up but also growing up but still being in the same place I am now.
    This hit me so hard. I really need to sort myself out and start trying to get out and enjoy life and do things and make the most of my time so I can look back and be happy before it’s too late.

    • @shishi_anne
      @shishi_anne 2 года назад +51

      Why do I relate to this, this hits hard ya'll let's enjoy our lives before it's too late 🤧

    • @Shade_fox
      @Shade_fox 2 года назад +61

      As someone with anxiety/depression; don't let it keep you from enjoying your life. I'm not trying to be pessimistic, but there's a good chance that if you have it at your current age, you will probably always have it unless you actively work to lessen said anxiety. Either that, or when you get to an age that you don't care about it anymore.
      I'm not saying it's easy to ignore, but it's better to try and push through it rather than doing nothing.
      Anxiety can be useful sometimes; but you can't let it be the only thing you feel.
      I'm about to be 30 in 2 months, and mentally I still feel 16. It's been like that for years, and I waited for things to get better. I'm not old, however I could have done so much in the past decade that would have improved my life, had my anxiety not gotten the better of me.
      Eat healthy, try not to eat a lot of pasta/bread and get exercise (things I only very recently started taking seriously), and it will very likely help with your anxiety as well as your overall demeanor/outlook.
      Find friends to go on walks/runs with every once in a while, go to movies (if you feel safe doing so cause... well. current world issues...), just force yourself to get out, and try to inch out of your comfort zone each time if you can.
      You don't need to take "any" advice from a random internet person; but if you do, let it be that you take control of your life back from your anxiety; before suddenly your 30 y/o and have next to nothing to show for your life.

    • @cedleonard123
      @cedleonard123 2 года назад +24

      You don't need to go outside all the time, there's plenty to do online and inside. But occasional walks are good, and exercise can get your mind on a better path.
      If you're dissatisfied, you can try to learn useful skills (sewing, new recipes for cooking, etc. you don't need to look very far, these examples don't sound flashy but the value is immense because your home, meals, etc. are a big part of your life) and find an art you enjoy doing. Learn how to produce music or play an instrument (play by ear, improvise something, or alternatively read sheet music, different ways with different feelings and results), draw something, read, or get your curiosity stimulated in some way. The goal is to improve yourself in various ways. That'll be useful or engaging, I hope... Again, there's plenty to do and learn, you just gotta find something suitable among these and hop into it. Of course, you can juggle multiple interests and try things only to find out later that something else is better, but try not to have too many because you'd overstretch into not mastering anything.
      Life is far from being only about enjoyment, though. The reason self-improvement is valuable is because it makes you a better decider of your future. So it won't be a question of "will life be better?" but instead "this could make me better off, so I'll make my life even better". Some things will be useful, some not always. So here's a perhaps new viewpoint to consider: Simply if you're engaged in what you do, or you find it's a good/useful endeavor, then this is a sign your time and life is not being wasted. In which case, keep it up. Keep your courage, keep doing what you do best, and hopefully make it even better over time.
      Also, don't be too self-critical... No one's perfect, you can improve. But at least you seek the improvement, at least you said so. If you believe it deep in your heart, bones and soul, it should put your mind at ease and drive you forward. probably.

    • @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279
      @petscraftsandwonderfulthin1279 2 года назад +27

      I'm 23 and still continually do the stuff I did for fun when I was a kid. Haha. As you age, just let go of whatever is harmful to your success, but keep whatever adds actual joy.

    • @rayzoldyck8044
      @rayzoldyck8044 2 года назад +25

      I relate, I turned 20 last year and I am about to be 21. I am in my penultimate year of college and jobs are about to be here in the next 2 semesters and I think I have wasted all my time doing nothing. I am scared of the future and not achieving anything in life, meanwhile my friends are getting high end jobs and succeeding in life (they are in their last year). It's tough to see every moment pass and me still not having the motivation of doing anything, my only ray of hope was working out but last week I got sick and tried to recover and was finally looking forward to go to the gym today but life struck again and I pulled a nerve in my right inner thigh and couldn't move my leg properly another day of not working out and body dysmorphia strikes again. I feel like all the progress I had made in my last months are going to waste.

  • @achiffoncake
    @achiffoncake 2 года назад +724

    This is why you gotta enjoy life to the fullest! Balance it out and have fun in whatever you choose to do 😆

    • @zredplayer
      @zredplayer 2 года назад +10

      That is your Adventure!. Your jounals run already!. JUST DOING, JUST DOO IT.

    • @sonicmaiden2871
      @sonicmaiden2871 2 года назад +18

      That's why i chose to be an artist. I enjoy drawing a lot and creating characters.

    • @Mega-cy8rr
      @Mega-cy8rr 2 года назад +2

      You said it.

    • @Blank_baron
      @Blank_baron 2 года назад +13

      That only works if you get to choose what you want to do

    • @elementoproductions6005
      @elementoproductions6005 2 года назад +1

      I better get to work on it soon...

  • @Oreca2005
    @Oreca2005 2 года назад +650

    I think merryweather should make more of this dark stuff or just throw in a dumb horror game as a comedy relief

    • @mrezaali3840
      @mrezaali3840 2 года назад +6

      I agree.

    • @Oreca2005
      @Oreca2005 2 года назад +5

      @badger …bruh

    • @muhazreen
      @muhazreen 2 года назад +3

      He have the power to do so, but he decide to spare the youngster just lil bit longer XD

    • @hafirenggayuda
      @hafirenggayuda 2 года назад

      Variety is good

    • @fantasmaghoulical
      @fantasmaghoulical 2 года назад

      @Train Fan Guy my jammmm

  • @kazuyukihi1208
    @kazuyukihi1208 4 месяца назад +20

    私はこの動画のおかげで1歩踏み出せました。私は自分の歌い方がとても好きです、否定され続けましたが私はやっぱりこの声が好きでこれまで生きて来れました。
    聴いてもらえるか分かりませんが動画を投稿出来ました、これが私にとっては大きな進歩になりました。
    ありがとう、今を生きます

    • @cionm7077
      @cionm7077 4 месяца назад

      Google translate ahh comment.

  • @TaosoftheVoid
    @TaosoftheVoid 2 года назад +916

    That last part hits hard. All the others had optimism that what came next would be really living, getting to experience the life she wanted to have. She got older, still expecting she'd be living her "real life" soon without realizing she already could do that now. Eventually she's at the end of her life, in a hospital bed on life support, she doesn't have that optimism anymore, it's finally dawned on her just what she did all this time - and she doesn't say a word, there's nothing to be said really, she put off living her life so long that when she finally realized how short it was, it was already too late.
    Live life now, even if it's just the little things, enjoy what makes you happy. Time doesn't wait for anyone, use it while you've got it. Give a loved one a hug today, tell your friends you care about them, give yourself some love too. You never know how much time you've got until it's too late.

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад +32

      This is something I need to hear every now and then. I know how important it is to live life, but I have a hard time doing that. I've been trying so hard to force myself to be active and social, and it's really paid off! I've never been happier.
      It was impossible to get up in the morning. Talking to people was only a dream. And motivation was almost nonexistent, it is much better now but still lacks. I never thought I'd still be alive today. I'm glad I'm still here. I am so glad that I haven't lost yet.

    • @TheDeathmail
      @TheDeathmail 2 года назад +18

      But at the same time.... she lived a life of hope and optimism.... she had a smile on her face her entire life....
      But she doesn't seem to notice that....

    • @wadimek116
      @wadimek116 2 года назад +2

      But I don't have any friends

    • @TaosoftheVoid
      @TaosoftheVoid 2 года назад +2

      @@wadimek116 Then go out and make some

    • @wadimek116
      @wadimek116 2 года назад +1

      @@TaosoftheVoid I cant. Im autistic and people dislike me. Through my entire life now I haven't managed to make one lasting friendship

  • @BoatyPirate69
    @BoatyPirate69 2 года назад +539

    That hits hard. I’m already entering adulthood as I’m 17. It feels like I’m going down that beginning route. Your channel gives some important lessons often. Live in the moments and not wait for the future to do so.

    • @svenfruiti494
      @svenfruiti494 2 года назад +41

      Please just keep your child in your heart... Forever :c
      No matter how old you are or how you need to be in the public world.. Because thats how we keep beeing alive and not waiting for... ''life''

    • @Dolphin._.
      @Dolphin._. 2 года назад +6

      Whatever you do, grow up, and grow up fast!

    • @svenfruiti494
      @svenfruiti494 2 года назад +7

      @@Dolphin._. wtf...

    • @delayed_control
      @delayed_control 2 года назад +14

      You're lucky to belong to a generation that has an opportunity to learn this early on and live by it while they still can. And you might be the last one - stuff like this is already censored off the internet in China so the population keeps thinking it's happy, it will be a matter of time before others follow suit. Make sure to teach it to your children in future.

    • @BoatyPirate69
      @BoatyPirate69 2 года назад +6

      @@delayed_control I 100% agree. I will teach them. I hope to raise kids who will have control over their lives and live to be free people. Censorship is a big problem, hopefully my kids don’t have to endure such a thing and live their own dreams. I don’t want them to have to live in a lifestyle like how the Chinese government wants their people to.

  • @disguy7345
    @disguy7345 2 года назад +140

    "Yesterday was history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present"
    -Master oogway

    • @Mac_Omegaly
      @Mac_Omegaly 2 года назад +7

      "It's not hard to remember, but it's easy to forget. The sun that lights your way, is going have to set.
      And there's so much to see
      There's so much to do
      And the choices you make, well, they'll up to you.
      So keep one eye on the road ahead keep one eye on the sun above,
      Love the things you do, and do the things you love."
      David M. Bailey - "Tucson"
      A man who was given 6 months until death from cancer, and took 7 years to live his life singing, sharing and fighting. Living one more day at a time.

    • @Ka_hi
      @Ka_hi 2 года назад

      @Train Fan Guy my gawd... you didn't cure it, you disintegrate it out of existence by making people tamper in madness for what they've just witnessed

    • @Renard-ks6hj
      @Renard-ks6hj 2 года назад

      did he actually say this or is it just like
      "These damned kids keep quoting me on stuff I never said"
      - Master oogway
      these type of stuff

    • @qwertyuiop8795
      @qwertyuiop8795 2 года назад

      @@Renard-ks6hj "Never believe quotes on the internet." - Abraham Lincoln

    • @seratarsybagusibrahim5018
      @seratarsybagusibrahim5018 2 года назад

      @@Renard-ks6hj it's one of the most memorable moment in the movie

  • @jebes909090
    @jebes909090 5 месяцев назад +37

    "my real life will start when i die" *i was reincarnated with marketing skills that i used to become the strongest and gain a harem*

    • @tatohayanami9156
      @tatohayanami9156 4 месяца назад

      Hey, it's me Goku

    • @chuchu5923
      @chuchu5923 4 месяца назад +1

      This is a joke, but I actually live with thought like this

    • @jebes909090
      @jebes909090 4 месяца назад +1

      @@chuchu5923 it would be nice to get a second chance for sure but who knows how death works. Perhaps our souls are just recycled.

    • @chuchu5923
      @chuchu5923 4 месяца назад

      @@jebes909090 yeah...

    • @stefanogagliano6067
      @stefanogagliano6067 4 месяца назад

      Unfortunately it's more probable that after death there's nothing

  • @Raymart6543
    @Raymart6543 2 года назад +637

    Children with good upbringing were the only ones who could live their moments while young and everyone outside of that has to work their asses off until our body had given up on us. This strikes hard right into the feels.

    • @SenhorAlien
      @SenhorAlien 2 года назад +36

      Or not. If you consider "good upbringing" as having money, boy do I have news for you.

    • @Cuptamus_Prime
      @Cuptamus_Prime 2 года назад +55

      @@SenhorAlien and what news is that…. cuz if i had money. i could’ve prevented my little child from dieing… so shut up because some people have experienced things differently.

    • @julianofmemes9289
      @julianofmemes9289 2 года назад +7

      @@Cuptamus_Prime DAYUM

    • @kicapanmanis1060
      @kicapanmanis1060 2 года назад +28

      @@Cuptamus_Prime You don't need money to have a good upbringing. And your response to him shows your pettiness. Your tragic experience doesn't negate that.

    • @Zaemoncho
      @Zaemoncho 2 года назад +39

      living a good childhood has to do a lot more with the composition of your family and emotional structure of your caretakers and peers than anything else. IF money was such a big thing, why are there poor countries with good happiness stats and rich ones with suicidal societies? why are hollywood stars killing themselves, taking drugs? taking part in depraved shit? it's easy to see things that way, as long as you speak of "others". Easier than looking inward.

  • @hero-kun2314
    @hero-kun2314 2 года назад +629

    This is a deep one, don't just fit to society like everyone else. Find who you are and your own path. This channel is usually humor and fan service ( sometimes horror ) but this is so far my favorite short in this channel

    • @trollege9488
      @trollege9488 2 года назад +4

      Im usually depressed right now thanks to school and my future

    • @ADMICKEY
      @ADMICKEY 2 года назад +6

      I'm not trying to find a path, instead I'm flowing with the wind and dust

    • @hero-kun2314
      @hero-kun2314 2 года назад +1

      @@ADMICKEY nice quote man

    • @ADMICKEY
      @ADMICKEY 2 года назад +3

      @@hero-kun2314 thanks, hero

    • @hero-kun2314
      @hero-kun2314 2 года назад +5

      @@trollege9488 hang in there buddy, I think you and I aren't so different. I had also a hellish life in school but stay strong there could be people that cares for you. You can add me to those people 😁

  • @duckyouall3225
    @duckyouall3225 2 года назад +469

    This is why you not only have to work but you have to make things worth while and enjoy everything

    • @derBruns1
      @derBruns1 2 года назад +35

      work to live, not live to work

    • @duckyouall3225
      @duckyouall3225 2 года назад +11

      @@derBruns1 yep you gotta still make that cash tho lmao

    • @Nightmare704RY
      @Nightmare704RY 2 года назад +8

      @@duckyouall3225 true, but don't get stuck into the "grind".

    • @ommsterlitz1805
      @ommsterlitz1805 2 года назад +2

      @@duckyouall3225 Take half week jobs and manage your money that's all

    • @duckyouall3225
      @duckyouall3225 2 года назад +1

      @@ommsterlitz1805 yep I'd buy my self lotsa good stuff I've been wanting for a while once I get that sweet sweet paycheck

  • @zafrog3941
    @zafrog3941 2 года назад +174

    This reminds me of how many times I heard something like "you will enjoy life later."
    As a kid I always wanted to try out new things, even wanted to hang out with friends, but I was told "you're too young, the real happiest years of your life are also you're a teen".
    So I'm a teen, i acquired some new hobbies. But again when I wanted to do certain things or go out with friends "not safe, it's not worthwhile. Real life starts when you're in college'
    Now going through college I hear "don't worry about how much you study. Real life starts after you're done with college and get a job"
    And for people I know who have a job and unsatisfied all they get is "wait until you marry". "Wait until you have kids" "wait until your kids grow up".
    As the video says. Don't wait. I wouldn't say I'm unhappy or unsatisfied. But no one should wait. Enjoy life, do what you want.

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад +17

      Thanks for sharing mate. I'm trying my absolute best to enjoy life, but it's hard. I just want to hike and go on adventures in the world.

    • @pomponi0
      @pomponi0 2 года назад +13

      @@chillycoldchomper9389 Having dreams and goals is fine, but don't let them get in the way of your search for happiness. Ideally you should strive to be happy in all stages of life.

    • @M--001
      @M--001 2 года назад +1

      Especially with work. The way it is designed currently, it is basically scamming you out of your life so that some employer can enjoy theirs.

    • @plantboy6249
      @plantboy6249 5 месяцев назад

      Carpe diem.

  • @Hyperhunter_
    @Hyperhunter_ 2 года назад +164

    Even though the ending is sad, we still have a long way to go throughout.
    Edit: For the people that don't have a long way to go, I still pray that you have some time for good moments.

    • @blizzard1198
      @blizzard1198 2 года назад +1

      Well if it makes you sad we all will end up that way so um I guess you shouldn't feel sad

    • @darkdiamonds4337
      @darkdiamonds4337 2 года назад +1

      We don’t actually. and that’s what scares me

    • @patrickmurray3846
      @patrickmurray3846 2 года назад +1

      you may think you have a long way to go, but ya can get hit by a car or something tomorrow

    • @ADMICKEY
      @ADMICKEY 2 года назад

      @@patrickmurray3846 or get struck by lighting, fall in a mine( happens in Arizona), die by fauna/flora, war, disease, space rocks,rising water, hurricanes, tornadoes, wildfires,bushfires,Australia, mini Australia (Arizona, there is a lot of poisonous stuff here), mines in Bosnia,bullets falling from the air,Florida,to many people in one spot, famine, being poisoned, being murdered, assassinated, eating/ drinking on thing 2 much,and probably many more things that can kill you, and the amount of stuff that could get one killed will increase as we advance as different civs

    • @bombintheseeinq
      @bombintheseeinq 2 года назад

      @@ADMICKEY “space rocks”

  • @thetrollface2604
    @thetrollface2604 2 года назад +266

    The fact that the life ended before the real life started, holds true for almost everyone.

    • @andreirachko
      @andreirachko 2 года назад +16

      *The real life ended. The "real life" hasn't begun.*

    • @zulucruz664
      @zulucruz664 2 года назад +2

      What are you talking about? Her real life starts when she meets St Peter in heaven’s gate

    • @zb4052
      @zb4052 2 года назад +2

      @@zulucruz664 unless she reincarnates and this cycle goes on again

    • @Obipolt
      @Obipolt 2 года назад

      @@zulucruz664 bruh

  • @ItsMe夢
    @ItsMe夢 5 месяцев назад +8

    Kehidupanmu yg sebenarnya telah dimulai sejak kamu lahir🙂

    • @farhanpratama0285
      @farhanpratama0285 5 месяцев назад +1

      Hingga akhir hayat kita hanya sementara di dunia ini kematian tidak bisa diprediksi kapan akan terjadi.

  • @M9_Lu
    @M9_Lu 2 года назад +107

    Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn, why you gotta hit everyone with reality Merry?!

  • @Nekijokes
    @Nekijokes 2 года назад +375

    I was having a hard time during 2021 with anxiety and depression with my family too, I started going to the psychologist because they finally realized that I needed help I spent hours thinking about what could go wrong and what I was doing with my life and this video made me remember this I really let out a tear. i'm much better now with the help i need

    • @giovannam.1325
      @giovannam.1325 2 года назад +11

      I'm in the same exact situation as you. I am also currently taking therapy because it got to the point where I realized that I couldn't deal with what I was going through alone anymore. Every single little thing took over my life where I spent hours constantly thinking about what could go wrong.

    • @Nekijokes
      @Nekijokes 2 года назад +9

      @@giovannam.1325 i hope we can both get out of this loop after therapy i started doing things without thinking like texting someone without regrets and being more social i was creating other personalities for every conversation i had instead of accepting and answering what i really think ,I was afraid of not accepting something and at the time I had no friends, just school friends who were always talking bad about me when I wasn't there.really having someone you can count on is really important

    • @pancaliente6367
      @pancaliente6367 2 года назад +2

      I'm so happy for you man

    • @God-T
      @God-T 2 года назад +4

      If you keep letting your depression ride your life, this is what will happen in a few weeks, Days will become Months, months will become Years! stop letting your bad thought take the wheel and get distracted by positivity you are letting your bad thought take the wheel you're not realizing every time you have a bad thought you're not the one in control, I dare you to think positively for a whole month. it's like an addiction, try to stop enjoying it, and break the habit.

    • @divinedragon17
      @divinedragon17 2 года назад +2

      hope u getting better mate, i was feel the same way too, my college life get ruining cuz the lockdown.

  • @DMAN99
    @DMAN99 2 года назад +126

    This reminds me of Tonegawa’s speech about the debtors in Kaiji, how those types of people just keep saying that their lives will start when some extraneous factor is fulfilled, like this life isn’t their real lives, only to realise to late when they’re on their deathbeds that this was it.

  • @vermin592
    @vermin592 4 месяца назад +25

    "My real life begins in heaven"

    • @snixxo-q5x
      @snixxo-q5x 3 месяца назад +2

      "My real life will start when I get reincarnated" (as whatever tf you can be idk)

    • @GodHimself99
      @GodHimself99 3 месяца назад

      i hope it exists please exist, im 17 and im losing my youth and sanity because of studying/sl@very, after that there's getting a job, more sl@avery, then getting married and raising children for the same thing, i though people stopped ensl@ving others turned out it's just a lie and we are working for a triangle the billionaires at the top, primitives were free, cavemen had it easy

    • @GodHimself99
      @GodHimself99 3 месяца назад

      help im 17 and want to be a child again, what if i became 50 or something wtf? god? anyone? HELP I CAN'T ANYMORE ATLEAST THERE MUST BE HEAVEN AFTER THIS LIFE, IF THERE'S HEAVEN I JUST WANT TO ACHIEVE IT

    • @vermin592
      @vermin592 3 месяца назад

      @@GodHimself99 There's heaven after life my friend, and your way of achieving it is turning to Islam. Even if this worldy life sucks- you can still go to heaven ,it's not too late for you

    • @GodHimself99
      @GodHimself99 3 месяца назад

      @@vermin592 pffft bruh read the hadiths

  • @aimi9529
    @aimi9529 2 года назад +249

    This hit deep. I’m 17 and turning 18 in 3 days! I don’t know how I feel about it. Honestly, I wish I could stay young forever. I’m not ready for the real world. I’m scared of growing up…

    • @isha9300
      @isha9300 2 года назад +33

      damn bro happy early birthday. it’s okay to be scared, we all started from one point. you’ll grow just fine.

    • @tenmice
      @tenmice 2 года назад +41

      I'll be 18 in half a year and I'm also scared shitless lmao
      Deadass feel like I'm still 14

    • @aimi9529
      @aimi9529 2 года назад +6

      @@isha9300 Thank you so much! 😊

    • @aimi9529
      @aimi9529 2 года назад +4

      @@tenmice same! I feel 15! 😭

    • @lukeporras1288
      @lukeporras1288 2 года назад +1

      Same here, but I have about a month left.

  • @szymanowski7
    @szymanowski7 2 года назад +65

    I used to draw a lot back then like since i was a kid until college, it's my hobby. Then after graduation and got my first job i got an accident and broke my wrist on my right arm. It took me about 1 year to recovery for my hands to be used to draw again but it took me about 2 years to deal with my anxiety to start drawing again. It was such a hard time for me seeing everyone's art. I tried to draw again but everytime i do it it still feel hurt and i got traumatized for the accident and feeling i got left behind by everyone since i lost time to practice. i even think to quit drawing but then i think about it again if this is my last time i have to do what i really want and love. Then i start drawing again and until today i can consistently drawing again even tho i can still feel the pain sometime.. Just do the thing you love like it's your last time because you'll regret it if you don't do it..

    • @koli6734
      @koli6734 2 года назад +3

      Im with you man, do what you love to do the most before its too late.

  • @Banana_boat
    @Banana_boat 2 года назад +269

    Last night I asked myself, "Should I enjoy myself now or wait for tomorrow?" (Should I got to bed or ruin my sleep schedule to continue playing games with this amazing team of memers)
    Now this puts it in perspective.
    I made the right call. Enjoy life now while you can.
    I'm not at the later stages but I know that I've already waisted the beginning.

    • @elementoproductions6005
      @elementoproductions6005 2 года назад +10

      Enjoy life, what I can... I have to get it all together, and balance it out....
      Of course...

    • @toxicttv1112
      @toxicttv1112 2 года назад +24

      See how fast you can fall in depravity with that mindset

    • @CaptainCFalcon
      @CaptainCFalcon 2 года назад +14

      @@toxicttv1112 no one's fondest memories are the ones where they got a good night's sleep.

    • @jamesharding3459
      @jamesharding3459 2 года назад +38

      @@CaptainCFalcon Can confirm. The best memories I have are from spending days being cold, wet, hungry, and thoroughly exhausted -- and being glad for every minute of it because it was with friends doing things we enjoyed.

    • @Falkenhorst2000
      @Falkenhorst2000 2 года назад +13

      @@toxicttv1112 Better to live in debauchery than die with regrets.

  • @Eric19-vb2wj
    @Eric19-vb2wj 4 месяца назад +6

    Say to yourself: My real life has started right now!

  • @bayandamthethwa6458
    @bayandamthethwa6458 2 года назад +139

    I am fourteen years old this year and I thought my life would start as an adult but this made me realise my life started a along time ago now I gotta start living it

    • @comicbookreviewer4856
      @comicbookreviewer4856 2 года назад +10

      To me life starts when we live it with family friends and loved ones and enjoying life as a person and being able to give back to people we care about and enjoy life everyday

    • @ashokchoudhary2888
      @ashokchoudhary2888 2 года назад +11

      Go buddy do anything you enjoy

    • @dryelene
      @dryelene 2 года назад +1

      Ayoo same realizing this at 14 gang
      We're capable of so many things now, so why keep on waiting till we're better?

    • @kicapanmanis1060
      @kicapanmanis1060 2 года назад +1

      One day you're 14 and the next think you know you're 32. :)

    • @Tantive
      @Tantive 2 года назад +1

      Good age to realise this. Everything you do matters. You are an effect on this world materially in every way.
      From throwing a piece of plastic away, to regularly petting a cat, to bettering your friends mood, to chosing to regularly workout, to chosing to study on time without last minute stress, to what vote you cast by buying a product in the store.
      It's all connected.

  • @northstar6920
    @northstar6920 2 года назад +18

    "My real life will start when I'm reincarnated as an isekai protagonist!."

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 2 года назад +5

    Well...this is... Most people

  • @starbyte_
    @starbyte_ 2 года назад +261

    Honestly, when you think about it, being chosen to live in this world with other people that dont know you and still care about you is really a privilege i appreciate. Life could be a game, a vision, anything at this point. You just have to embrace and look around on the world around you. Video games, friends, music, art and dreams can truly change your alternative perspective for reality. Sometimes we just need to cry or feel or be abstract to everyday life and be who we truly feel like trying to be.

    • @pradabears
      @pradabears 2 года назад +12

      Definitely. I’m trying to get in better touch with how life currently is and how better it can be. It’s keeping me alive.

  • @sgt.purp1e
    @sgt.purp1e 2 года назад +192

    A wise man once said:
    "Tired of lying in the sunshine, staying home to watch the rain
    You are young and life is long, and there is time to kill today
    And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
    No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun"

    • @Badgerhackles
      @Badgerhackles 2 года назад +23

      "And you run and you run to catch up with the sun but it's sinking!"
      "Racing around to come up behind you again!"
      "The sun is the same in a relative way but you're older."
      "Shorter of breath and one day closer to death!"

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад

      😊

    • @snowedmochii
      @snowedmochii 2 года назад +2

      this song is just perfect.
      also the song is Time by Pink Floyd, listen to it!

    • @snowedmochii
      @snowedmochii 2 года назад +5

      "Every year is getting shorter, never seem to find the time
      Plans that either come to naught or half a page of scribbled lines
      Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way
      The time is gone, the song is over, thought I'd something more to say."

    • @hashijou8463
      @hashijou8463 2 года назад +2

      Ahh Pink Floyd

  • @D1j1t
    @D1j1t 2 года назад +30

    I've already realized this and just accepted my fate

    • @D1j1t
      @D1j1t 2 года назад +19

      I've also realized that moments you most remember and cherish are the moments when you're not trying make memories. Live now, Remember later.

    • @Deeznootsgotteem
      @Deeznootsgotteem 2 года назад +13

      I think everyone knows it but just ignores it, also I agree about your second comment *_Live now, Remember later._*

  • @ImCosmic_
    @ImCosmic_ 2 года назад +72

    This is a very deep video indeed, people think life starts when certain events in life happen, but what they dont know is that it started a long time a go, so enjoy every moment while it lasts!

  • @John8coming
    @John8coming 2 года назад +51

    In reality , you just did what companies want you to do
    You never tried to experience childhood and vacations
    The example here is ,true

  • @YureiMyBeloved
    @YureiMyBeloved 2 года назад +56

    This hits hard cuz I remember my science teacher spending the entire 1 hour of class time talking about life.. how we should live it to the fullest and enjoy it while we can, because life is short. You don’t realize it until you’re almost near the end of it. It really hits hard 😭

    • @hlouis729
      @hlouis729 2 года назад +9

      this reminds me of my math teacher just talking about life for the whole period and saying, "this is more important that math"

    • @XiELEd4377
      @XiELEd4377 2 года назад +4

      @@hlouis729 tbf with math, it's much easier to learn it if you know how to apply it in life. My math teacher told us to practice instead of studying. I like using math when playing games, for example. Or idk project the next COVID cases lmfao

    • @YureiMyBeloved
      @YureiMyBeloved 2 года назад +1

      @@hlouis729 EXACTLY MY SCIENCE TEACHER DOESNT EVEN TEACHS CIENCE HE JUST TALKS ABOUT LIFE 😭

    • @jarjardaze2485
      @jarjardaze2485 2 года назад +1

      What about afterlife?

    • @YureiMyBeloved
      @YureiMyBeloved 2 года назад +1

      @@jarjardaze2485 who knows if there is an afterlife-

  • @Zafidfad
    @Zafidfad 4 месяца назад +5

    "Real life" literaly start when you after death

  • @lovelyushi
    @lovelyushi 2 года назад +204

    This was happening to me, so I decided to quit my “prestigious” job at a global corporation and chase after my dreams. I’m 25 and let me tell you, I’ve never been so happy and proud! :)

    • @JosueHernandez-nu5cp
      @JosueHernandez-nu5cp 2 года назад +19

      You see in this video is what happens when you work as an employee all your life

    • @donotperceiveme
      @donotperceiveme 2 года назад +11

      @@JosueHernandez-nu5cp Im still a teen trying to think of what I wanna do in life and I don’t want to be an employee or work for anyone else, do you have any advice on how to avoid that kind of life?

    • @user-yn2zu4hl2y
      @user-yn2zu4hl2y 2 года назад +18

      @@donotperceiveme Im also a teen currently, but i think a way to avoid being an employee the entirety of my life is starting learning what you love and think for yourself (thats the hardest part always) how could it become a thing that you can sell and live of it. Now im studying software development with a group of friends to start a business. Im not planning to drop university, but this is my prority for now, because i like programming. Hope you can find something you can do aswell. ;D

    • @utatsuki839
      @utatsuki839 2 года назад +4

      @@donotperceiveme My goal of life is to be a writher😁 Like that, I'll be at home with my family, great idea, isn't it?😊

    • @desotaku5202
      @desotaku5202 2 года назад +15

      @@donotperceiveme as a mid 20s dude, my best advice is to go to school and get as far as you can. The worse your education is, the harder your life will be.
      I learned it the hard way and now I'm working in fast food, trying to put some money on the side for a project i hope to get going after the pandemic. If i went to uni, i could have gone with a less stressful job and maybe build some better credit to get the funds necessary for building a career.
      I don't regret my life, but i could have avoided a lot of hardship and suffering if i went to university as i planned originally.
      I don't know if you are already in uni, but if you're not, maybe start by thinking about what topics would interest you most and what are your strength?

  • @minascutefacemoles9043
    @minascutefacemoles9043 2 года назад +60

    "You can have fun when you're an adult"
    "You can have fun when you have a stable job"
    "You can have fun after you get married"
    "You can have fun when you're retired"

    • @01Gshadow
      @01Gshadow 2 года назад +15

      "You can have fun when you're dead."

    • @aureliaavalon
      @aureliaavalon 2 года назад +5

      "You can have fun when you're married."

    • @oriharaizaya5524
      @oriharaizaya5524 2 года назад +3

      Death comes first before marriage is what this comment section said

    • @aureliaavalon
      @aureliaavalon 2 года назад +2

      @@oriharaizaya5524 if i could throw the user above me down a well before they commented, i would

    • @oriharaizaya5524
      @oriharaizaya5524 2 года назад +1

      @@aureliaavalon thank you

  • @L30GH05TDUD3
    @L30GH05TDUD3 2 года назад +103

    Its kinda odd that Merryweather, the ones who makes the funny and sometimes sussy/questionable kind of comic shorts end up making such deep videos like this. But at least we get the message.
    Edit: typos in some parts. Autocorrect is stupid sometimes

    • @Madara2023a
      @Madara2023a 2 года назад +4

      What message?What a mean idea of life. I feel sorry for the author and those who think this is what is happening. look not at losers, but at people who know how to live. For example, Artem Dolgin, Arnold Schwarzenegger. Look at how these people live at their age. Should I even talk about those who conquer Everest at the age of 70? These people will leave brightly, and not like in this video. It all depends on your thinking and attitude to life. Most people give up on themselves already in 20-30 years.Everyone lives their own movie, but only you choose the genre, not the dude from RUclips, or people who live in fear all their lives

    • @t10yobmashups
      @t10yobmashups 2 года назад

      @@Madara2023a the best comment I’ve seen in this video. Really life changing. Thank you for this.

    • @optimal6899
      @optimal6899 2 года назад

      e

  • @AngelusAnsell
    @AngelusAnsell 2 года назад +58

    "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in awhile, you might miss it." -- Ferris Bueller

  • @Vengeance1638
    @Vengeance1638 2 года назад +7

    My life ended before it could start

  • @bobbye8747
    @bobbye8747 2 года назад +86

    I think the message in this video is pretty clear, but a lot of people i read took a very sombre meaning to the thing (which is ok btw !). In my eyes, the story shows us how the girl wanted to “start her life” at different points in time, when in truth her life ALREADY started. She got so caught up on the THOUGHT of living life, that she forgot to essentially LIVE. The story hits particulary hard, when you realize life isn’t all about big life goals, sometimes what you have now is enough to be happy, but since we’re always looking up and seeing all the things we HAVEN’T achieved, we keep on thinking that this is n0t the peak of our lives. When in truth, our lives will only peak if we LET it. So all in all, what the video is saying is that we should just enjoy the things we have now, rather than waiting for that opportune moment to be happy, why not make yourselves happy and don’t wait on things. Do what you want and can, sometimes the obvious is the answer ad not some complicated world changing thing. And, if living in “normal” is making you happy than don’t let society make you think that you should achieve more just because.
    But yeah just my take opinions are allowed :P

    • @pandasrcool8445
      @pandasrcool8445 5 месяцев назад +2

      well said!!!! every day i regret not doing something in the past, and i still even now, live ur life as if u only have one (which u do)!!!

    • @rashidshadow9325
      @rashidshadow9325 5 месяцев назад +5

      I feel like that’s still a bit sombre if you think about it. People spend so much time thinking they will have a true adventure when they’re retired or at this point in their life when life really is about cherishing every moment you have. You only live one life, don’t take it for granted

    • @wilsongandakusuma
      @wilsongandakusuma 4 месяца назад +1

      Sorry I must disagree with you. The video must be telling us about how to "Socialize with other people". Of course, it's good to have ambition to be successful person but don't forget to interact with others too. The woman in that video looks like she forgets to interact with other people and only focus to work and work to become success, eventually sick because of that. In the end of the video we see that woman in the hospital alone, kind of looks regretting and blaming herself without anybody around her. She must have felt that all her work come in nothing now. She feels nothing in her life. She's living a miserable live cause she didn't have someone to support her, even to just talk with her. She didn't have anyone cause all her life, she spent on working and working until she's success. She must have been regretting her choice now that she's all alone in the hospital

    • @KanashiAtisuto
      @KanashiAtisuto 4 месяца назад

      ​@@wilsongandakusumaKinda specific to choose the social factor. I think it wants to "address" everything that comes with living life so focused on one thing & not really living. Maybe she had friends & family- we don't know- but we only see her because it is about her & how she approached life.

    • @BaileyMulder
      @BaileyMulder 4 месяца назад

      Thanks, this touched me

  • @tomiokashelby95
    @tomiokashelby95 4 месяца назад +7

    “My real life will start at the end of this earthly life.” 😢

  • @nicknackpaddywacks
    @nicknackpaddywacks 2 года назад +47

    As someone who's let anxiety rule their life and keep them from many opportunities and great experiences, please don't be afraid to live your own life. You'll end up missing it if you do.

  • @ronidutta
    @ronidutta 2 года назад +137

    It's not about when your real life starts, it's about the friends and good experience you made along the way .

    • @chanakochan7348
      @chanakochan7348 2 года назад +11

      Even if you don't have good friends or good experience you still can make your life meaningful. Or maybe even more meaningful then those lives of people who enjoyed their time.

    • @jamelbunny5732
      @jamelbunny5732 2 года назад

      Literally.

    • @truezeonic3617
      @truezeonic3617 2 года назад +2

      Damn... I never had freinds aside from 6th grade but other than that, I never had any true connections with anyone.
      As of now, I'm in 10th grade. And I'm still lonely asf.

    • @mr.mcnuggies
      @mr.mcnuggies 2 года назад +1

      @Ventricosa The King damn I don’t really have any friends anymore but this just made me realize that I don’t need friends to be happy

  • @theapexfighter8741
    @theapexfighter8741 2 года назад +38

    When you are too young: you have time and energy, but no money.
    When you are an adult: you have money and energy, but no time
    When you are too old: you have time and money, but no energy.
    Don’t be a sheep. Be yourself. Follow your dreams. Take care of yourself. What matters is what we do right now, not “after”.

  • @in1gma
    @in1gma 2 года назад +5

    0:30 my real life will start when i'm dead

  • @RayMak
    @RayMak 2 года назад +64

    That escalated pretty quickly

  • @reddgambit2216
    @reddgambit2216 2 года назад +49

    For someone who's reconsider just giveing up their dreams at art uni, this is sharp

    • @shrivlet4380
      @shrivlet4380 2 года назад +8

      I've put 8 years of effort in art just for my mom to make a decision for me not to become a visual artist honestly it's really painful but since it's my dream I'm still gonna achieve it even if my mom won't allow it i know that making art as a job is very risky but I'm gonna study hard first for a backup plan

    • @sherryquartzuniverse
      @sherryquartzuniverse 2 года назад +1

      @@shrivlet4380 i wish you good luck and i hope your dream become true!

    • @seratarsybagusibrahim5018
      @seratarsybagusibrahim5018 2 года назад +1

      Say, do you consider to join the army?
      Hehe

    • @seratarsybagusibrahim5018
      @seratarsybagusibrahim5018 2 года назад +4

      @@shrivlet4380 if I may suggest, you should have a job to sustain your life
      At least enough to pay the bills and food
      You might or might not be the next Leonardo Da Vinci, but either way, it's safer to have a job that could sustain your life before you become famous enough to rely solely on art

    • @shrivlet4380
      @shrivlet4380 2 года назад +1

      @@seratarsybagusibrahim5018 that's what I'm aiming for lol

  • @PrixtoTNT
    @PrixtoTNT 2 года назад +44

    You know, old tales for kids were really mean, because they wanted to show the lesson to kids by making the character suffer the consequences. This is like that, the nameless character of this video is sacrificing her life for us to learn

    • @amira6685
      @amira6685 2 года назад +4

      wow I love your explanation and the way you related the old events to this

  • @beasthunter4003
    @beasthunter4003 5 месяцев назад +3

    I guess life starts when you’re on life support huh?

    • @Volcano22207
      @Volcano22207 5 месяцев назад

      They ment their life was already over

  • @oogabooga1767
    @oogabooga1767 2 года назад +5

    this vid is lowk giving me an anxiety attack. now im really nervous about my past and future choices :( how can i calm down

  • @saver_spenta_mainyu
    @saver_spenta_mainyu 2 года назад +90

    Yeah, this was how I felt about school.
    Things will get better once you get to high school.
    Things will get better once you get to college.
    Things will get better when you settle into a good job.
    Things...never really do though.
    As the Greeks put it, hope is the cruelest illusion. We have to lie to ourselves things will get better to make it to the next day.
    But then again, if all you do is hope for a better tomorrow to start living and being happy, then there never will be one.
    Life is afterall simply the act of living, so here and now, what can you do to make yourself feel alive? Look around you, get out and see the vast sky-the boundless possibilities-and remember happiness is a choice. So be happy and live.
    And maybe you're aren't happy and don't know how to be happy again. You're in a pit that you can't get out of. Take solace that your very breath, your continued existence is a rebellion against all those who would deny you. If you cannot live for love or joy-at least live for spite, for that is one bit of pride that can never be taken.
    Huh, really didn't mean to go on such a tangent.
    Anyways, carpe diem(live in the moment) people!

    • @elementoproductions6005
      @elementoproductions6005 2 года назад +6

      That was a rather good speech there, Julian.
      Perhaps you did give me something.

    • @nicolasmonty3692
      @nicolasmonty3692 2 года назад +1

      Hence even though I am in the later part of my mid twenties. I often live my life in the present and enjoy my life at the moment and rarely think about the past and dont always focus on the future too much unless bits career realated.

    • @hamidabdullah2612
      @hamidabdullah2612 2 года назад +1

      That was... enlightening. Live for spite huh... thanks for the advice!

  • @MasterJunior93
    @MasterJunior93 2 года назад +138

    She lived a good life, but it wasn't really a happy life. No one should ever be alone during their final moments.
    Always take a chance and meet someone.

    • @ADMICKEY
      @ADMICKEY 2 года назад +5

      I'm never alone, I'm surrounded by 3 Angeles

    • @entertainment4fun707
      @entertainment4fun707 2 года назад +2

      Yeah but it also depends on hobbies take a gamer for example

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад +10

      I definitely want to be with someone I love...but I want to leave alone. I may sound dumb, but it's how I feel. I don't hate everybody or hate the universe.
      I want to leave on my own, it's just how I roll.

    • @leezanda8430
      @leezanda8430 2 года назад +1

      @@ADMICKEY who's this Angeles? Some kind of nurse?

    • @blue_redo8051
      @blue_redo8051 2 года назад +5

      @@chillycoldchomper9389 doesn't really sound dumb, solitude can be a beauty if you understand it and i get your pov. A person to always be around sounds like quite a good idea and i won't blame you for wanting both

  • @ImAdeanxh
    @ImAdeanxh 5 месяцев назад +3

    Be glad that you're still alive. Don't waste time, go have fun and enjoy life, because life doesn't last forever..

    • @sentientsockmonster499
      @sentientsockmonster499 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's easier said then done. I mean I was actively pursuing a way to enjoy life but it really only got worse for me.

  • @demispectra9783
    @demispectra9783 2 года назад +46

    Being honest, you can't just think about the future. To be happy, you have to be the most in the present. Afterall you have the most control of it. Change your life, just a littpe bit, find new envirnoment. This might feel like a hard thing to do, but once you do that, you may experience something amazing. I am talking from experience. Nothing is perfect of course, but you can always try getting the best things that are around, right?

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад +1

      That's why I love going in blind. I want to live in the moment and have fun.

    • @chillycoldchomper9389
      @chillycoldchomper9389 2 года назад +2

      Of course not with everything. I still do my school work, and I don't do drugs or drink. Everything else I'm risky with.

  • @DragonxFlutter
    @DragonxFlutter 2 года назад +14

    Wow, when it comes to serious comics, you guys don’t hold back at all…

  • @Ayy_Doll_Fiddler
    @Ayy_Doll_Fiddler 2 года назад +15

    Nice try, Merry. But you ain't stopping people from grinding they ass off in this IRL RPG game. Someday, all of us will be CEOs.

    • @Le_Rappel_des_oiseaux
      @Le_Rappel_des_oiseaux 2 года назад

      No, this will not happen under capitalism.

    • @S4LeagueSinnlos
      @S4LeagueSinnlos 2 года назад

      @@Le_Rappel_des_oiseaux Yes lets all hope capitalism will stop and we can stop working to get our sweet sweet UBI!!!!

    • @Le_Rappel_des_oiseaux
      @Le_Rappel_des_oiseaux 2 года назад

      @@S4LeagueSinnlos No need to "hope". It is necessary to form trade unions and demand better working conditions. Not 1 time. Constantly. To make the 8-hour working day the norm, as it was before. To keep wages in line with inflation. The American baby boomer generation was richer than the American millennial generation at the same age. And this is a global trend (of the global economy). Just someone began to eat more (capitalists). And someone for this began to work harder.

  • @bobshikalob4990
    @bobshikalob4990 2 года назад +55

    When you find out some kids living their real life as soon as they were born because they're parents are rich and passed down the family business.

    • @MaoRatto
      @MaoRatto 2 года назад +5

      No.

    • @tumamaencosplay
      @tumamaencosplay 2 года назад +23

      Nah, those kids often just dive in hedonism, and then get depression from developing dopamine resistance, AND THEN they lead the family company to the ground when it's their turn.
      Statistically speaking, most companies don't survive the third generation for this reason, they tend to be raised on too much hedonism and are too disconected from the struggles and sacrifices of their grand parent and their father to make the company from 0 to understand what's necessary to keep it going.

    • @Triskelion345
      @Triskelion345 2 года назад

      Capitalism

    • @MaoRatto
      @MaoRatto 2 года назад +2

      @@tumamaencosplay Explains P*dowood ( Hollywood ) in a nutshell.

    • @flyerton9958
      @flyerton9958 2 года назад +1

      @@tumamaencosplay
      "Nah, those kids often just dive in hedonism, and then get depression from developing dopamine resistance"
      Made up bullshit by people trying to cope.
      Prevalence of Depression Among Adults Aged 20 and Over: United States, 2013-2016, CDC:
      "The prevalence of depression among adults decreased as family income levels increased.
      "
      "Overall, 15.8% of adults from families living below the federal poverty level (FPL) had depression. The prevalence of depression decreased to 3.5% among adults at or above 400% of the FPL (Figure 3).
      Among both men and women, the prevalence of depression decreased with increasing levels of family income.
      Men with family incomes at or above 400% of the FPL had the lowest prevalence of depression (2.3%), while women with family incomes below the FPL had the highest prevalence (19.8%).
      "
      "Statistically speaking, most companies don't survive the third generation for this reason"
      Ah yes, ONE paper in 1980s studying manufacturing companies in Illinois.
      Of course, more comprehensive reviews since then have found this to be absolute fucking bullshit.
      New research like:
      Gregory Clark, an economist at University of California, Davis found that "the process can take 10 to 15 generations (300 to 450 years)."
      The Bank of Italy studied tax records in Florence in 1427 and 2011, they found that today’s top earners were “already at the top of the socioeconomic ladder six centuries ago.”
      So please, stop with the BULLSHIT Copium about "oh they're going to lead their family to ruin!", which statistically isn't likely to happen, or the "t-the rich people are too hedonistic and get depression", which is fucking bullshit, they're actually less depressed than poor people

  • @Panasiux3
    @Panasiux3 2 года назад +19

    That`s why I resign from much better paying job (chief chemist in medicinal field) for a job at the University at my country. They sent me around the world to promote our institution. I visited so many countries and meet so many peoples/cultures. I earn 10 times less what i used to, but I`m much much happier.

    • @XiELEd4377
      @XiELEd4377 2 года назад +2

      I mean what is the purpose of money if you can't use it in a flexible way

  • @DerpxGames
    @DerpxGames 2 года назад +250

    The biggest part you're missing in this is the in between with all the stuff. The fun you had, the people you met, the grind to the top, the friends you made and lost. Yah sure life is sad or depressing but it's really the only think we have at the end of the day. Seeing it at this angle will lead to depression obviously, you have to enjoy the in between not just focus on the end goals or the next achievements

    • @junthamaulido4747
      @junthamaulido4747 2 года назад +9

      Perfect

    • @nothere3982
      @nothere3982 2 года назад +21

      Many people sacrifice their opportunities in life to be happy because they feel they will be happier in the future if they do.
      The studying one I get it, but when you have a job and a place to live you really should start doing stuff that makes you happy

    • @Volcano22207
      @Volcano22207 5 месяцев назад

      @@nothere3982 you don’t seem to understand how bad the economy is , you can’t enjoy life working 3 jobs just to afford eating

    • @nothere3982
      @nothere3982 5 месяцев назад

      @@Volcano22207 not about dropping all, but hobbies can happen. Also if you’re wealthy you can risk changing careers and recover if all goes to hell

  • @alittleofsomething
    @alittleofsomething 5 месяцев назад +2

    She was born to work not make a family. Such is life for some people

    • @Volcano22207
      @Volcano22207 5 месяцев назад

      You do realize work and family aren’t the only things in the world

    • @alittleofsomething
      @alittleofsomething 5 месяцев назад

      @@Volcano22207 yeah, so? It's her choice not seeing work as her life and not feeling fulfilled in it.

  • @iwillgowiththatcat8667
    @iwillgowiththatcat8667 2 года назад +78

    Honestly this wasn’t the greatest depiction of aging and living life happily and gracefully,I can say it’s accurate in the sense that if you don’t really live life meeting new people making friends, creating a family,your elder years will be lonely .From my own personal experience of watching my great grandmother and my grandmother and mother age they lived happily and still live happily with the families and friends they’ve created which I can say is really important when aging happily so live life happily and make fiends and family or growing old lonely like in this video can be your future.

  • @yahalomren
    @yahalomren 2 года назад +20

    It's just scary, it's just scary how much I relate to this girl and might somewhen become like her.
    Right now I'm almost 14, I got friends and a supportive family but going to school is keeping my mental health in a good place yet somehow does the exact opposite at the same time, I keep saying to myself "it will all become better once I graduate" but I don't even know how the real world is.
    I said it to my teacher and my parents but I'm so f*cking scared about future, I keep on stressing out about things I shouldn't worry about and I can't help it, the blurriness of the future is unbearable.
    I don't even work that hard, my life are just fine and I should not be whining about anything yet I keep saying to myself that it will get better over time although it probably just go downhill.
    I know nobody asked and I will probably see this comment in the future and say to myself how dumb I was, sorry about taking your time reading this.
    I think I will go eating some ice-cream and get some sleep. Good night.

    • @shirothefish9688
      @shirothefish9688 2 года назад +7

      Enjoy life while you can. The older you get, the more complicated things feel and get.
      3 little corners of life. Preparation for the future, preparation for the now, and enjoying the now.
      The goal is to do as much of the third as you can without sacrificing the other two.
      As I've always said, if you make a consistent and active effort to improve something, even so far as to say 'your entire quality of life', you will.
      - someone trying to sound motivational, yet has little idea what they're doing.

    • @yahalomren
      @yahalomren 2 года назад +5

      @@shirothefish9688 I'll try making an effort.
      Also, you're doing a great job sounding motivational

    • @dopaminecloud
      @dopaminecloud 2 года назад +5

      Worrying over these things is a kind of standing still. It's fine once in a while, but if you're unhappy with what it does to your mood, then movement is the best cure. Doing things, talking with people, it all leaves little time to reflect. Personally however I love standing still like this. It allows you to ask questions. What's next? What do you want to do? How do you get there?
      It can be scary, but if you find some answers you'll be more grounded than someone that didn't dabble in the fear a little. Moderation is key as always.

    • @zendigimoni9739
      @zendigimoni9739 2 года назад +3

      You're very clever and rational for your age, though do not overthink things, life is not as complicated and sometimes you should just follow the flow of it until you enjoy it. Overthinking makes things look difficult and leads to depression, be sure to find a balance between joy and ambitions in your life

    • @spiralhigh
      @spiralhigh 2 года назад +2

      As a basically 16 year old who is still pretty much in your place, I can tell you to just go with what you feel like doing… go with the flow. Success will always come to you if you allow it to. If not success, then a bit of happiness will do. Happiness is everything but a goal. Let your experiences be the goals themselves. The very fact you’re alive and reading this right now proves you can do many great things. Being still and questioning every single thing and even your own abilities is okay. I believe it’s meant to happen. Trust my words, I have good intentions for you and others reading my comment. :)

  • @jose_xd4030
    @jose_xd4030 2 года назад +28

    Cada quien elije su camino, cuando yo este viejo y estaré hechado en una camilla, estaré feliz porque logre cumplir las metas que me propuse y hize lo que me hacia sentir feliz