How and why are husbands forced to pay voluntary maintenance in matrimonial matters?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @truthrevealer8869
    @truthrevealer8869 2 года назад +1390

    We need to bring these things public through the media.
    Countless husband is suffering.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 2 года назад

      No one cares especially not other men.

    • @johanliebert7603
      @johanliebert7603 2 года назад +19

      are*

    • @paritoshdutta6644
      @paritoshdutta6644 2 года назад +42

      @@johanliebert7603 but you still got what the guy is saying, right. Stop this habit of finding mistakes in everything.
      The guys has raised a genuine issue, he deserves praise .

    • @latasukhani8422
      @latasukhani8422 2 года назад +19

      Men don't suffer, it's always women and children who suffer in matrimonial issues.

    • @sagarkapasi099
      @sagarkapasi099 2 года назад +64

      @@latasukhani8422 Is this sattire? Please give your details so i can sue you right now

  • @LegendDragonFist
    @LegendDragonFist 2 года назад +2158

    So, the best course of action would be to not get married or I should change my gender to a female.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup 2 года назад +2

      Wow, From being taken as a curse if a girl child is born to a fantasy that I wish to be a female, India has grown.
      Karma playing its game.💗💗

    • @4urandy
      @4urandy 2 года назад

      Change to female.. and play victimhood eternally

    • @rounaksingh70
      @rounaksingh70 2 года назад +57

      Same

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 2 года назад +242

      Dont marry, its not worth it anymore, like have relations with women but nor marry, western culture u know

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 2 года назад +17

      True that

  • @deckwizar
    @deckwizar 2 года назад +428

    Just don't get married. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Stay single, save money, enjoy life, travel and retire early. It's better to end up alone in the end than miserable in company.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 2 года назад +21

      Exactly brother ✅✅✅

    • @nareshagarwal5605
      @nareshagarwal5605 2 года назад +11

      Lol easy to say..

    • @rap9703
      @rap9703 2 года назад +36

      @@nareshagarwal5605 actually its easy to do also
      because nowdays you have to be 100% perfect for a lady otherwise you are screwed if she knew 1% about the laws which is present to protect them but used mostly to harass men.
      Women have power to destroy not your life but your parents life too. Do you really want to see your parents in jail just because she is not satisfied mentally/physically/emotionally/financially/socially or whatever else new reasons they will create they will destroy you and your family
      do you want this? do you???

    • @anitarathi1863
      @anitarathi1863 2 года назад

      I assume tour parents wre in a live in
      Don't talk shit that is a rare case you are talking about

    • @iash0ksingh1794
      @iash0ksingh1794 2 года назад +16

      lol... now courts have already ordered that if a couple is living together whether they're married or not they'll be considered as husband and wife

  • @biswadeeppalit1205
    @biswadeeppalit1205 Год назад +929

    Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal ohh God what an example of equality our Indian judiciary system has set 😂

    • @UPAKHOSALA
      @UPAKHOSALA Год назад +76

      don't speak the Truth 😮😅
      the judge of a court acting as a Extortionist
      threatening a Man rather than
      demanding the Wife who
      have not provided any financial evidence
      yet threatening the man

    • @2912teddytweety2016
      @2912teddytweety2016 Год назад +26

      Dowry was never illegal. In ancient times parents used to save some money or presents based on their status for female child as security during marriage since those days aged males used to marry kids, and don't know when the child becomes widow. Now the reason for current dowry is harassment hence it has been declared as illegal. But maintenance after divorce now should only be applicable if women suffered loss of job or career due to the marriage which significantly diminishes her chance to get back in the work force after the divorce. Because not only career but women also suffer self esteem issues and body shaming which usually males don't physically.

    • @manjunathams8865
      @manjunathams8865 Год назад +6

      Well said! Hahahha😂😂 may be that law made by a woman

    • @poojaganguli2624
      @poojaganguli2624 Год назад

      ​@@manjunathams8865 You will never understand how much a woman has to sacrifice to keep up with the mans rule.

    • @jagruti153
      @jagruti153 Год назад +3

      5:32

  • @thesoup_is_dry1358
    @thesoup_is_dry1358 Год назад +149

    I hope the beloved son of the judge goes through same if not more pain than this poor man.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 Год назад +5

      they will sort it out of courts or threaten and clear them.

    • @thesoup_is_dry1358
      @thesoup_is_dry1358 Год назад +9

      @@kaailu1001 i hope the lady make scene out of it by going to media and public.

    • @kunal6599
      @kunal6599 Год назад +8

      @@thesoup_is_dry1358did you know bout "uncle nepotism" in a indian courts ???

    • @thesoup_is_dry1358
      @thesoup_is_dry1358 Год назад

      @@kunal6599what is that ?... do judges support other judges or something ?

    • @kunal6599
      @kunal6599 Год назад +6

      @@thesoup_is_dry1358 yeah you got it in very single take !! Judges elects their so called " bua ka ladka ", chacha ka ladka or someone in their relation but not with whom from which they have their direct relation like their child so one can blame them !!! So in most of the cases even if judge son gets accused he will most probably transfer his case to another court and get out of the accusations

  • @HK-kz1wu
    @HK-kz1wu 2 года назад +797

    In the eyes of governments everywhere, marriage is a CONTRACT. A fundamental common sense rule for life is this : “NEVER ENTER INTO A CONTRACT WITH SOMEONE WHO BENEFITS BY BREAKING THAT CONTRACT”. This is the fundamental reason why marriage is a very bad idea for men nowadays. Stay safe brothers!

    • @tintunbirha
      @tintunbirha Год назад

      We hindus have become weak. Kick the judges, politicians, in their backsides for following western norms and STRICTLY bring back hindu ethos for hindus viz a man cannot divorce ( the word doesn't exist in hinduism) his wife unless she deserts him for another man. In that case she doesnt deserve ANYTHING.
      Otherwise, the man HAS to take care or provide for her irrespective of whether she is stupid, low IQ, lazy or crazy, bad cook, barren ( unable to bear children), whatever.
      The man, of course can marry again for happiness and contentment. But all the time he must provide fir his 1st wife, with ALL rights in dignity and properties.

    • @dgxa
      @dgxa Год назад +12

      Thats an eye opening statement 👏👏👏

    • @vikibww
      @vikibww Год назад +9

      my man. true

    • @buddha2845
      @buddha2845 Год назад +1

      Indian judicial system is totally biased against men and pro women

    • @VishalDudhani
      @VishalDudhani Год назад +3

      Excellent way to put it !

  • @lostshayarr
    @lostshayarr 2 года назад +851

    "marriage is the worst mistake a wise man can do in India".

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 2 года назад +77

      "Marriage is the worst mistake any wise person can do in this Era of gender biased laws..."
      #stay Single, dont Marry,
      jist have Gf and have fun as long as both r happy together

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 2 года назад +80

      @@roxrtk3299 even the girlfriend can use law against you if relationship gets sour. So be careful.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 2 года назад +31

      @@amiyarana8733 yes ur right, but atleast here i am not bound to pay some shit alimony..right??? or do they have counter for this as well and our gender biased laws are fked up till that extent...

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 2 года назад +41

      @@roxrtk3299 yes if you have any physical relationship with your girlfriend and then break up with her to get another girl, then the former can use sexual assault case against you. And you have to pay heavy compensation to her and serve jail time in India. So be very careful. These girls can play with you any time due to their higher legal privileges.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 2 года назад +6

      @@amiyarana8733 can u tell me how is she going ti prove that we have sexual relationship if we didnt had sex after break or for a long time before breaking up, cuz she has to undergo tests and also if she has to show some video proofs if she ever recorded, which i think she never gonna show if she ever secretly recorded them...
      Can u plz tell me, i am genuinely wanting to know how...plz

  • @aruunmenon
    @aruunmenon 2 года назад +366

    The best thing about Indian law is that you get hardly 7 years for murder, let your wife know this.

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs Год назад +27

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kraj4818
      @kraj4818 Год назад +26

      Noted

    • @abhijithvarmar1034
      @abhijithvarmar1034 Год назад +18

      Why unwanted fate for us, by making her know that their is a simpler way out than a divorce!!

    • @aruunmenon
      @aruunmenon Год назад +29

      @@abhijithvarmar1034 Divorce is simpler for them and more lucrative too, all of that with no risk at all. Why would they try anything else?

    • @abhijithvarmar1034
      @abhijithvarmar1034 Год назад

      @@aruunmenon yes, it is.....

  • @skycelestial4449
    @skycelestial4449 Год назад +214

    Being a female and a sister of a cousin who suffered same trauma, I am appalled to see this moral decay in females.. Remember this b4 choosing/ marrying a girl:
    1. Check the behavious of her mother
    2. Check her spending habits
    3. Check her ability to listen and compromise
    4 Dont go on face value alone
    5.if she is simpleton and honest then marry
    6 Remember you are marrying for a lifelong partner not a model to flaunt .
    7 Remember bad girl will be bad wife and eventually bad mother.
    Get married with sensible down to earth partner . In long term peace and prosperity matters not the money and looks.

    • @cannibalronny7314
      @cannibalronny7314 Год назад +35

      Sorry to say but it is impossible to dissect a person's personality just by observing these few things, even an expert psychiatrist won't know what exactly is going on in a person's mind. It is all luck. Also women are smarter than me when it comes to gaining affection.

    • @rohitnagwanshi
      @rohitnagwanshi Год назад +17

      All the above points are correct which I sadly realise after marriage and my spouse doesn't fulfill even a single one.

    • @noone7097
      @noone7097 Год назад

      How to find a down to earth woman? The only way is now to look for them in T4 cities and rural areas. Most of the urban women are no more down to earth and for them making a compromise means oppression and patriarchal society.

    • @kumarabhishek1064
      @kumarabhishek1064 Год назад +23

      Not marrying is the best option for men.
      Anyone can go rogue when system enables them to become one.
      Best advice is : no marriage.
      Thank God most men are learning these things when they are unmarried otherwise their lives would have been screwed.

    • @Rah_6967
      @Rah_6967 Год назад

      ​@@rohitnagwanshi bhai shaadi karni chahiye? Mere parents force kar rahe hain

  • @poshfactor6364
    @poshfactor6364 Год назад +18

    All India men should file petition against such laws.... Please men. Do this. Society need to be saved.

  • @honestcat224
    @honestcat224 2 года назад +212

    Court hearings need to be made public, these Milaards need to be made accountable. They need to be seen by their neighbours, friends and family in their true nature and hated for it if necessary. Judicial reforms are must!

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 Год назад

      They need to be ostracized

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад +1

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

  • @malharm6346
    @malharm6346 2 года назад +195

    In my Family Court Matter, once the judge threatened me that she will reject my divorce petition. I stood by my argument and asked her to mention the grounds on which it is being rejected, further reminded that judge cannot threaten and do such biasness in court.
    My petition was not rejected.

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 2 года назад +12

      Don't. Marry. If you want a comparatively happy life

    • @Shrey_Shrek
      @Shrey_Shrek Год назад +2

      Based

    • @thinker1491
      @thinker1491 Год назад +18

      A lot of chuthiya judges around, we need to deal then them before dealing with law

    • @ajaygautam832
      @ajaygautam832 Год назад +2

      ​@@thinker1491most of judges are feminist these days . Sad but true

    • @srigurunarsingvidhyabhusha7609
      @srigurunarsingvidhyabhusha7609 Год назад +1

      Are you male or female?

  • @noahark3984
    @noahark3984 2 года назад +508

    Aren't alimony & dowry, two sides of the same coin? If good & educated men can stand strongly against dowry system, why can't good & educated women reciprocate by standing strongly against unfair alimony laws??

    • @montysharma8271
      @montysharma8271 2 года назад +216

      Because hypocrisy is their nature 😏

    • @emartins3118
      @emartins3118 2 года назад

      Because they are desperate housewives aka feminist

    • @kissofmeditation8419
      @kissofmeditation8419 2 года назад +95

      Thats equality LOL....the word hypocrisy will feel embarrased in front of these feminists...

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 2 года назад +34

      @@montysharma8271 Don't marry . If you want freedom. If you want a begger life then marry

    • @vikrampatel3946
      @vikrampatel3946 2 года назад +47

      Because women ☕

  • @killer9ravi
    @killer9ravi Год назад +143

    It sickens me to even think how deeply biased the entire judiciary is against men!

    • @mayak2676
      @mayak2676 Год назад +2

      Women in our country have been living & loving with numerous bias for centuries, no man ever had a problem with that, as long as it was convenient for them😁.
      Anyways, bias of any kind is wrong, irrespective of gender, caste, religion.

    • @Holy_Reich
      @Holy_Reich Год назад +8

      ​@@mayak2676rule of nature, eh?
      Understand only coz of men in the past strong is favoured
      Only coz of men now weak is favoured.
      From reservation to privileges

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@mayak2676so were men, for 1000 years men were killed oppressed by first western invaders and then British, what about that? Majority dies were men! When will they recognized ?

  • @MrCoolprax
    @MrCoolprax 2 года назад +63

    I don't know how good a lawyer you really are but without doubt you are one amazing human being

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад +1

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

  • @lol6434
    @lol6434 2 года назад +316

    These things should be taught in schools and colleges regardless the subjects you have taken. Good job, Amish.

    • @SiSi-ju1xk
      @SiSi-ju1xk 2 года назад +4

      Men deserve to suffer for forcing wife to suffer with his parents

    • @lol6434
      @lol6434 2 года назад +1

      @@SiSi-ju1xk shut up feminist. Y'all hate on men but without men this world breaks. Like it or not, that's the truth.

    • @raghunathreddybudda-hk1jc
      @raghunathreddybudda-hk1jc Год назад +26

      ​@@SiSi-ju1xk stop simping

    • @Raju_K
      @Raju_K Год назад +1

      @@SiSi-ju1xk Women should suffer marrying a man of standards they cant provide and destroying his life.

    • @vivekkumar-ei7vz
      @vivekkumar-ei7vz Год назад

      ​@@SiSi-ju1xkGod bless you with fake matrimonial cases

  • @bindubiswas3298
    @bindubiswas3298 2 года назад +107

    Its so funny that during an argument in supreme court when Mr Kapil sibal was arguing that these divorce petition should be dealt in lesser time as people loose their prime age,
    Supreme court judges were trying to be so innocently saying that why people are moving to live in open marriages not having family.
    Its like butcher saying I cannot understand why lamb looks scared.

  • @bhb4756
    @bhb4756 2 года назад +114

    This is very common ploy by judges. Husbands are COERCED into paying money to wife and motive is to record it as a CONSENT ORDER for reasons stated by you as it all favours wife & legally ties up hands of husbands to seek legal remedy against such order.

  • @ezhilarasinanda5750
    @ezhilarasinanda5750 Год назад +84

    Why are the judges not accountable for their misdeeds? Why do they possess such immunity? Just hearing these cases brings chills to any married man.

    • @forgaming5640
      @forgaming5640 Год назад +9

      I already decided to married a girl abroad i am not married with indian girl

    • @vamshi8694
      @vamshi8694 Год назад +6

      ​@@forgaming5640Please don't do that brother..suing by partner is a regular affair over there

    • @tony_montana9122
      @tony_montana9122 Год назад +2

      ​@@forgaming5640India me specially north side jyada lafda hai,northeast girl thik hai

    • @Musica_Originals
      @Musica_Originals Год назад

      Can we go to the Consumer Forum? Judges are being paid on our tax monies.

    • @T-TJ
      @T-TJ Год назад +3

      Media gets its cut , Police gets their cut, Judges gets their cut, everyone gets it cut. So sit back calmly because nothing will happen.
      MAN have to suffer. MAN Should and will stop marrying.

  • @Jojobizarreadv27
    @Jojobizarreadv27 2 года назад +25

    If justice is denied by the law, people will be forced to seek their own personal justice outside the purview of the law.

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

  • @SanatanVishwa-d1k
    @SanatanVishwa-d1k 2 года назад +240

    Men's rights movement is the need of the hour

    • @WhereAreYouNowAtlantis
      @WhereAreYouNowAtlantis Год назад +15

      It isn't as much of a hit as the feminist movement, nor will it be. Its just us men who can support each other in this biased world.

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 Год назад +5

      It is state vs Indian citizen. We have weaken Indian states's institutions.

    • @Fshmms
      @Fshmms Год назад +1

      Yes, it is the requirement. Can't deny that

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@FXT130femicide will increase if Indian gov is not woken up on time😂

  • @ketangandhi8714
    @ketangandhi8714 2 года назад +104

    Shame on the woman and that disconnected judge. Just pathetic. Laws are destroying family.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 года назад +14

      Yes, it's true judiciary had destroyed family concept in India.
      Judiciary itself provoking women and helping them to extort money;

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 Год назад +3

      But India's spineless politicians are not changing the law.

    • @curiosityincarnated.9884
      @curiosityincarnated.9884 Год назад

      ​@@FXT130they need 2/3rd majority in both houses to change the constitution and bring laws. By default judges and laws are immune to change, unless it's the people mandate.
      Let everyone choose a party, at least for a term with 2/3rd majority in both houses, and see what happens to these worthless pigs.
      Law commission just like upsc have to come up for better selection.

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 Год назад

      @@curiosityincarnated.9884 Changing law doesn't required 2/3 majority, a simple majority is enough which present political party in centre is enjoying. That's why they able to change article 370. But doing any justice for men is out of head for these Simp spineless politicians. They obsessed with Naari Shakti only. Spineless assholes.

    • @true_chels
      @true_chels 11 месяцев назад +1

      And she doesn't give a f*ck lol. She will be getting the maintenance as well as earning big bucks abroad whereas the husband is ruined, his entire life finished

  • @sushovandas5016
    @sushovandas5016 2 года назад +313

    Very informative video. Husbands should always ask for order on merit. Judges won't fix any absurd amount as they're also bound by the law, threatening husband is just a trick. Do not fall for it.

    • @NexterB
      @NexterB 2 года назад +43

      Judges can stoop so low as to call husband as neech, dusht, harami, namard etc. I have seen HC judges do so.
      And obscene amounts have been awarded, for which husband had to sell his farmland. And to top it all, the child was living with the husband only.

    • @kvtechvarshney5179
      @kvtechvarshney5179 2 года назад +1

      What's order for merit?

    • @jalajdurve
      @jalajdurve 2 года назад +5

      @@kvtechvarshney5179 a deserving amount.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 года назад +41

      One fine day I am willing to listen the news that judge has been slaughtered for being threatening the client/party.

    • @sagarkapasi099
      @sagarkapasi099 2 года назад +9

      @@kavishwarmokal124 Morcha Nikalna Chahiye

  • @HumbleMan78
    @HumbleMan78 Год назад +22

    Even if a lawyer is sooo frustrated with the proceedings, just imagine what is the state of common man ?

  • @Sandeep-tc1yv
    @Sandeep-tc1yv Год назад +28

    I heard that promotions in judiciary also depends on the number of cases they could grant maintenance to the wives, so technically husbands have many enemies to deal with for the marriage sin he committed.

    • @prashant5460
      @prashant5460 Год назад +4

      better to gamble with money than in arranged marriage dont trust anyone its hell to marry a wrong person

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад +2

      WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

  • @ajaypatel4559
    @ajaypatel4559 2 года назад +142

    Absolutely correct. Judges are totally uncontrolled after Neha vs Rajneesh.
    I m from Gujarat n faced similar situation in divorce n 125. I was threatened with 340. But me n my councel didn't budge, So judge didn't order any interim maintenance for wife n child. Zero interim maintenance

    • @paritoshdutta6644
      @paritoshdutta6644 2 года назад +9

      Why there is no group/ community /association in Men?
      At least a Facebook group???

    • @kisslayy5379
      @kisslayy5379 2 года назад +3

      Good job man..

    • @ajaypatel4559
      @ajaypatel4559 2 года назад +8

      @@kisslayy5379 thanks but I must tell u that wasn't good experience.
      That female judge is sitting on my child visit application. N due to that judge i m not filing child custody case.

    • @kisslayy5379
      @kisslayy5379 2 года назад +21

      @@ajaypatel4559 ohh bhai female judge..!!!
      Means u are also dealing a Feminist angle. How u get trapped in this situation..???
      What happened..?~?

    • @ajaypatel4559
      @ajaypatel4559 2 года назад +22

      @@kisslayy5379 double trouble
      Wife filed divorce, 125 n dv.
      That court has this great female judge, who is wife of prominent high court judge. So trouble continues....
      But I have motto of warrior.

  • @bhb4756
    @bhb4756 2 года назад +105

    Almost all the times order on merits is much better than consent order, unless consent order fairly takes care of your rights & also records consent of wife to do certain acts/creates rights in your favour like child custody etc., which is very rare in case of maintenance orders. So Never ever play in the hands of judge to get yourself legally trapped in such CONSENT ORDERS.

    • @AdvImranAsgar
      @AdvImranAsgar 2 года назад +2

      @@ancient.sanatani As far as I know it is an order passed by a judge taking consent of both the parties for example maintenance amount in this case.. For example wife damanded 50k as maintenance, the counsel for Husband may negotiate it and say my client is ready to pay say 25k and the judge decides say pay 35k and both the parties agree to it..

    • @bhb4756
      @bhb4756 2 года назад +5

      @@ancient.sanatani Consent order here means a court order which records "free consent"/choice/volition of a party to do certain act e.g., pay maintenance/give up child custody etc. in favour of the other party/parties with legal assumption that consenting party is not under influence of any coercion/threat during recording of such order, unless one is able to prove element of fraud/coercion/threat etc. later to challenge it, which is extremely uphill task. So consent order is like an agreement/contract between parties having stamp of court and non-compliance of such order by the consenting party attracts prosecution for contempt of court and this way judges & advocates through consent order trap the consenting party i.e., husbands and it's a win-win situation for wife & judge & certainly bad one for husband.

    • @abhilash9918
      @abhilash9918 2 года назад

      @@bhb4756 you're saying it's bad for husband's because generally these consent orders favor women right?
      It could be bad for women too or the system is just that much tilted in favor of women?

    • @bhb4756
      @bhb4756 2 года назад +4

      @@abhilash9918 my answer to your first question is Yes & to the best of my knowledge the system is extremely Gynocentric, to the extent of being brutal to men's & children's rights, barring rare exceptions.

    • @kvtechvarshney5179
      @kvtechvarshney5179 2 года назад

      What's order on merit?

  • @abhishekmudgal5873
    @abhishekmudgal5873 2 года назад +15

    Respect Bro....need more lawyer like you.... #Judges don't have absolute power.....also always argue to follow the merit of the court ....

  • @WisdomIsAwesome
    @WisdomIsAwesome Год назад +5

    You're doing great work spreading awareness about these cases. Thanks so much!

  • @faizmomin5953
    @faizmomin5953 Год назад +7

    Thank god for giving me this video recommendation and for making my decision strong, of being a single father in future. I'm 23Yo now.

  • @futureisyours3016
    @futureisyours3016 2 года назад +221

    This is the kind of Info we need. We dont won't a pro-feminist legal system.

    • @Abhinav_Nayana_Sailen
      @Abhinav_Nayana_Sailen 2 года назад

      Idiot, we need a feminist legal system or us men will be continuously exploited like this.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup 2 года назад +11

      KARMA, keep cryin 🤣🤣🤣

    • @naturelover7979
      @naturelover7979 2 года назад +13

      ​@@scalerup Karma is a b****.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup 2 года назад +12

      EXACTKY! It will never leave these men, who had tortured womanhood for eras.
      Karma IS INDEED A BITCH!

    • @kcbamania2600
      @kcbamania2600 2 года назад

      @@scalerup Yes, Your father and brother should suffer too.

  • @kaberigomes2117
    @kaberigomes2117 2 года назад +32

    The problem is people entering marriage without knowing the legal consequence. After knowing if one agrees, it's their choice.

    • @srpatnaik4548
      @srpatnaik4548 Год назад +1

      Well said...Marriage is a legal agreement where we enter without signing...

  • @siddharthjmt8216
    @siddharthjmt8216 2 года назад +27

    Forget getting justice from Indian legal system, first get judges to do their work properly and work for justice. Not generalizing here.

  • @Tnahsarp_d
    @Tnahsarp_d Год назад +21

    After listening to you - I'm losing all faith in the judiciary too 😢

  • @mayurdugar03
    @mayurdugar03 Год назад +8

    This is serious and definitely needs to be brought up for the safety of men going forward. Old laws in newer times is painful.

  • @noahark3984
    @noahark3984 2 года назад +30

    I don't understand this part of our law, as to why should a petitioner/defendant be expected to gather all evidence against the adversaries? That's the job of the court which should pass necessary orders for investigation through due process of law. We can't leave our full time jobs and become private detectives, just because we don't have the "evidence".

    • @georgecarlinn6288
      @georgecarlinn6288 2 года назад

      So hire private detective when you suspect something amiss

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 Год назад

      even if you show the evidence, most of the time it gets rejected citing some pathetic excuses such as privacy blah blah...

  • @LifeGeneralist
    @LifeGeneralist 2 года назад +40

    For these cases and many more cases, the judges are no longer "Honorable", but Villians and Devils. They have no right to destroy anybody's life

  • @pritambiswas136
    @pritambiswas136 2 года назад +44

    Then why don't judges tell the wives to not to apply for Maintenance?? Why always against husband?

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 2 года назад +2

      A man said that.
      Muskurana ladkiyo ka ada hain.
      Jo fass gaya samjho woh gaddha hain.
      So, men should stay away from marriage.
      If you want intercourse. Go to Japan, gather some money.
      Many Chinese people came japan for that

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 Год назад

      Simp

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 Год назад

      boz that's our pathetic laws

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@domonkor7667achcha, randibazi karoge 😂

    • @vaibhavirai3502
      @vaibhavirai3502 6 месяцев назад +1

      men are entitled to maintenance, provided that they earn less than wives. The logic behind alimony/interim maintenance is that the less economically strong spouse does not lose on lifestyle. Few, but there have been cases where men have received alimony.

  • @Marcos-uz5xe
    @Marcos-uz5xe Год назад +6

    U r the messiah for the men community! I m a big fan of yours! I just hope our brothers get to know the dark side of marriage before getting the knot! Lot of men marry as if it is a rat race,social pressure ,many are scared to be alone, many for sex and get in the trap n make their life hell! Till the law dont change its like making ur own life disaster by getting married! I have seen many of my close friends going through worst time in their life after being drag to the court,so i can feel the pain stay strong guys!

  • @aniketx1083
    @aniketx1083 Год назад +26

    Its hard to stay alone but this kind of marital disputes are hell

    • @iamlegend6983
      @iamlegend6983 Год назад +9

      I'm 35 and still happily unmarried.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 Год назад +5

      Then get married, you will change your opinion soon.🤣🤣🤣

  • @rounaksingh70
    @rounaksingh70 2 года назад +27

    The worst one can do to himself in India is marry

  • @pm3141
    @pm3141 2 года назад +14

    Best solution is prevention, vet thoroughly so you don't regret later.

  • @swarupverma2373
    @swarupverma2373 Год назад +7

    It’s very sad how the institution of marriage has become… I had a female
    friend who had put false allegations on her husband of physical violence….she told me in confidence that her husband had never even raised her voice at her but just to extort 40 lacs from him, she had gone well and beyond limits of morality

  • @Omkar-nv7qp
    @Omkar-nv7qp Месяц назад

    Thanks Amish sir. Keeping professional things aside, youre like brother to many here.

  • @kushalswami0809
    @kushalswami0809 5 месяцев назад +1

    Same happened with me ur first statement was right I got threatened.....then I fought and brought evidence then got maintenance cancelled and because of my application of 340 crpc pressure I won all the cases and got divorce.....ur videos are fabulous.....GBU

  • @shaikabdulraheem5384
    @shaikabdulraheem5384 Год назад +7

    When there is equality b/w men & women, if wife is also working, then why should a husband pay alimony on divorce... this needs to be changed.
    For jobs, education, loans interest rate etc are all equal to men & women but for divorce why should a man pay alimony while wife is earning.
    Everybody should start fighting against this.

  • @sagarmalhotra9560
    @sagarmalhotra9560 Год назад +11

    Sometimes I feel lonely and think I might need someone and then I see cases like these ,Marriage is scary than a disease nowdays,

  • @monty8722
    @monty8722 Год назад +6

    The best option is for husband and wife to sit together and sort things out. Keep away from laywers you will be glad you were not made into a cash cow

  • @arifmohammed2860
    @arifmohammed2860 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks a lot Sir... for making such videos... If only I would have come across such videos before getting married... I would have continued being a bachelor and a happy man even today. But anyways ur videos are now helping me in preventing further damages to me and my family. Thanks !!

  • @shreyashsharma3748
    @shreyashsharma3748 Год назад +22

    My man is telling indirectly to not get married. Saviour of mankind ❤

  • @amitpatra6479
    @amitpatra6479 2 года назад +32

    From husband side..my advice would be don't go to Court for matrimonial dispute..because judgment are not neutral..it becomes a personal choise of judge..so, take the matter in own hands instead.. Need extra courage though.

    • @montysharma8271
      @montysharma8271 2 года назад +3

      How to take the matter in our hand ?

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 года назад +13

      @@montysharma8271 jiski laathi usaki bhais ;

    • @ashishdevadig2835
      @ashishdevadig2835 2 года назад +12

      @@montysharma8271 samjhdar ko ishaara kaafi hai

    • @theone7359
      @theone7359 Год назад

      ​@@ashishdevadig2835how

    • @kunal6599
      @kunal6599 Год назад +9

      @@montysharma8271 it wouldn't be so suprising if someone bashes a women with a truck in a middle of road :)
      You know that accident happens right ??

  • @ayushkumarsingh8020
    @ayushkumarsingh8020 Год назад +5

    The number of views shows how many men are suffering unjustly because of marriage...! Our societies have degraded beyond repair..!

  • @kshitiz06
    @kshitiz06 Год назад +5

    This is why judiciary system needs reform. Judges can be very incompetent and there is no consequences for them.

  • @rabinarayansahu9343
    @rabinarayansahu9343 11 месяцев назад +1

    I wish you all success in your life for being honest for innocents

  • @DrBathina
    @DrBathina Год назад +2

    In my case one best judge refused to grant maintenance-it’s landmark decision for my case and it turned my case .I remember that honest judge

  • @Blackfire970
    @Blackfire970 2 года назад +20

    Not only law is blind in India but it's dumb too. If both man & women are equal why so harsh laws & punishments for men & literally all immunity for any kind of action to women out there. Guys don't marry or live in in India especially if u r hindu because laws are totally against you.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 года назад

      Gender neutral laws are the most important thing and need of the today's era.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 2 года назад +1

      @@kavishwarmokal124 agreed.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 Год назад +1

      Fun fact is even in west men has to bear the burden of marital laws. that's why more men are not interested in marriage in west. Some are even going to asian countries like phillipines , thailand to get traditional wife and stay there only.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 Год назад

      @@kaailu1001 true bro

  • @koollinkssbs8166
    @koollinkssbs8166 2 года назад +19

    Easier said than done. Usually DV cases involve aged in-laws and threat of incarceration breaks the son to agree with any unfair demands. Also if the judge is asking for 50 lakhs, he/she certainly has a cut on the money

  • @varunthedoc
    @varunthedoc Год назад +5

    We need to have a prenuptial agreement clearly stating that the lady won’t get a single pie of money, jewellery , property or alimony

    • @freespirithermit
      @freespirithermit Год назад +1

      okay then don't ask for dowry from the girl's family either....

    • @amishrawat9753
      @amishrawat9753 Год назад +5

      ​@@freespirithermit okay marry in your level. Don't go for sarkari babu

    • @ravishankaryadav4002
      @ravishankaryadav4002 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@freespirithermitnobody ask for dowry it is your imagination!!

    • @karanjaiswal9901
      @karanjaiswal9901 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@freespirithermitmat de bhai,padh likh le thoda nahi maangega koi.

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@karanjaiswal9901bro padhe likhe hone k baad bhi bhar bhar k dahej lete hai or dete hai

  • @snagananda696
    @snagananda696 Год назад +6

    One thing is, the eager bachelor who is searching for a spouse doesn't know this at all. If this is made known across, then I feel at least 50% of men would not marry. Maybe more. Also, if this trend continues, then it's going to be hard for women also to find good men. I mean if someone is ready to marry a woman even after knowing all these unlawful laws, then he would definitely be someone who is capable of threatening the lady and making sure she doesn't file any case.

  • @ParagLalwani
    @ParagLalwani Год назад +4

    When i was young i was against dowry, but now i think dowry is best thing. Atleast it provide something to men in this cruel world.

  • @pinkymishra6970
    @pinkymishra6970 2 года назад +25

    Laws were made to make people's live better but some girls abuse those powers, which makes me disguisted. I can only imagine the pain the guy must be going through because I also have a brother and I don't want him to go through this.

    • @justadreamerforgood69
      @justadreamerforgood69 2 года назад +3

      Wymyn will never be able to understand what a man goes through. Besides your safety, wymyn have it so easy !

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 2 года назад +3

      Even after the husband commits suicide the girl will still not leave his family. This is how women are.

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs Год назад

      Shut up

    • @sonatestd2085
      @sonatestd2085 Год назад

      Not these laws

    • @sportstv1217
      @sportstv1217 Год назад

      Some ? All do.

  • @iamtheoffenderofall
    @iamtheoffenderofall Год назад +3

    The establishment....why are marriage rates crashing harder than the Hindenburg?
    Also establishment....alimony....child support.....more more more.

  • @RA-bm8cq
    @RA-bm8cq 2 года назад +7

    Can't husband file 406- criminal breach of trust against wife for not returning jewellery and then come to negotiation table...as wrong can be defeated by only wrong in nowdays kaliyuga

  • @shreevivekagrawal1
    @shreevivekagrawal1 10 месяцев назад

    we need a lawyer like you in every court in india.

  • @vignesh0208
    @vignesh0208 6 месяцев назад +1

    "I don't care", that has got to be the more scary & infuriating thing and the last thing you'd want to hear in a court.

  • @noahark3984
    @noahark3984 2 года назад +21

    Sometimes I wonder, are judges allowing their own personal belief systems to cloud their judgements??

    • @lol6434
      @lol6434 2 года назад +6

      Absolutely, I think so. They are more emotional than logical.

    • @shubhamkumardas1476
      @shubhamkumardas1476 2 года назад +15

      @@lol6434 emotional??
      They are wokes 😂

  • @ImanBcheck
    @ImanBcheck 2 года назад +15

    And they claim that they follow constitution 🤣

  • @anupmohanty2342
    @anupmohanty2342 2 года назад +16

    Can someone file a petition against a Judge?

  • @savinaykumar4489
    @savinaykumar4489 11 месяцев назад +2

    Take my advice if you ever want to get married in future, marry a village girl, you will be happy throughout your life, this advice was given to me by my friend and today it has been 6 years since I got married and I am living my best life.

  • @Number_Crunch
    @Number_Crunch 9 месяцев назад

    Why is there no "Thank you! " button? You deserve gratitude sir

  • @ミツシオガイコちゃん
    @ミツシオガイコちゃん 2 года назад +5

    I think it's better to get written signature before marriage. Or don't get married at all in India.

  • @shree9647
    @shree9647 2 года назад +38

    Law is always in favour of women. No gender equality in matrimonial cases.

  • @nived9432
    @nived9432 Год назад +14

    Hope you become a judge one day....and every husband suffering from these annoying judges seek for your help🙃

  • @skandha4265
    @skandha4265 Год назад +2

    It all Starts in Family.
    A Dad's partiality towards the Girl Child makes them Entitled to Everything... Lying to Acting Innocent.

  • @Rozze123_fun
    @Rozze123_fun Год назад +2

    Being a woman I totally agree with you. It's wrong on wife's behalf to loot her husband even when she is capable to support herself. I am shocked by judgment, no one has right to threaten anyone without hvng substantial proof. Marry a person only after showing all the documents of personal income. Kudos to your courage and honesty for fighting for someone's right. This is mental torture for a man who's got many more responsibility

  • @T-TJ
    @T-TJ Год назад +3

    Media gets its cut , Police gets their cut, Judges gets their cut, everyone gets it cut. So sit back calmly because nothing will happen.
    MAN have to suffer. MAN Should and will stop marrying.

  • @krushnavispute4397
    @krushnavispute4397 Год назад +3

    I pray to god by my heart ❤️ that these judges also go through the same situation 🎉

  • @sangharshratnaparkhi6622
    @sangharshratnaparkhi6622 2 года назад +152

    We need Andrew Tate😂

    • @umangyadav7335
      @umangyadav7335 Год назад +19

      andrew tate will tell you to keep your wife at home and do only house chore, get girls when they hit 18 bcz she is pure. so just watch yourself whom you r following blindly.

    • @rajanpatadiya5428
      @rajanpatadiya5428 Год назад

      We need gun violence like Bhagat Singh

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 7 месяцев назад

      Ab tum Andrew ko follow karoge to all men are trash wale log honge he ....
      Faltu ki baate....
      Apne dharm ka palan karo na

    • @vaibhavirai3502
      @vaibhavirai3502 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@umangyadav7335 don't think that will happen, sir. The lawyer himself liked this person's comment. The comment section is littered with men making jokes about killing women because it will give them only 7 years of jail time. Had respect for this lawyer.

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@vaibhavirai3502WHy do men agree to this? Why not eliminate the "problem"? You will save a lot of money and worst case could be you have to spend some months in jail, but you will come out as you will be 1st time offender- you can start a business after that and lead a peaceful life after that and even marry some other women. Pleasr eliminate the problem. Courts and gov must fear what man can do if he is cornered .

  • @KamranKhan-xj4kv
    @KamranKhan-xj4kv 2 года назад

    Way of speaking in great confidence is a great positive attitude towards the judge or any one else

  • @abdulwadud3495
    @abdulwadud3495 Год назад +5

    Divorce law should be easy.Otherwise marriage rate is bound to decline which ultimately ends up in loneliness.

    • @Marcos-uz5xe
      @Marcos-uz5xe Год назад

      Better loneliness than being drag to court and have metal harassment for entire life

  • @pritiprakashmohanta4118
    @pritiprakashmohanta4118 2 года назад +5

    Stay single.. Focus on your life, career and hobbies 😇

  • @biswalashis123
    @biswalashis123 2 года назад +7

    Very informative video. Husbands are always on the loser side in all court matters. But small tips like this one can help all the troubled husbands.

  • @dubeyvs6159
    @dubeyvs6159 Год назад +2

    Congratulations and salutations to the indian judicial system for incentivising men not to enter the householder / provider role and avoid this marital institution altogether .

  • @DeepakSingh-sb7rq
    @DeepakSingh-sb7rq 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for all the info. I hope I don’t find myself in this situation but if I do I know I wouldn’t go to court and will handle the business myself.

  • @leo-zh4zv
    @leo-zh4zv Год назад +7

    MGTOW is the best for men nowadays.. Your mental health, your hard earned reputation and money will be safe..
    They bring nothing to the table in marriage nowadays, just acts entitled to everything with extreme confidence and arrogance.. Don't fall for their charms and external beauty..
    Just work on yourselves, engage in charity to reduce suffering in the world and live your life peacefully.. Life is too short for indulging & investing yourselves in something that will cause such harassment and waste a lot of your limited time..
    NOTE- If you have compulsions. There are other ways to have fun with no strings attached, no headaches or heartaches
    (if you have money)..😉

    • @forgaming5640
      @forgaming5640 Год назад

      ​​@PriyankaDas-ko5vx you just reversed the case i see this so often is that those laws taken from western society where wife file divorce take half his asset than pay child support for 18 years and now so many young western women are signle this thing also happening in india as well i am CA and i looking for a wife abroad i will never married to indian women

    • @Damnme719
      @Damnme719 5 месяцев назад

      What is MGTOW?

  • @BharatJusta
    @BharatJusta 2 года назад +3

    The biggest reason judges do this because they're on a power trip and they want to be hailed as a hero. A local judge, where I live, has taken on theirself to issue challans to traffic offenders, which on most occassions are local farmers.
    Hauling a water pump in car are you? Here's a fine, 20000 rupees. Locals are absolutely tired of it. And most have just given up and accepted that if they need to get some work done or if there is something wrong with a vehicle which cannot be rectified since it's a small town and nearest service centers are 150km away, there is a heavy toll to pay to a judge with power and whi enjoys serving justice to locals rather than actual criminals and rapists in the court.

  • @viplovebhokare5552
    @viplovebhokare5552 Год назад +3

    That's it I am convinced I am not getting married

  • @namamigaming5153
    @namamigaming5153 Год назад +1

    Now, i realise that i was living in a small world only consisting of my family and neighborhood.
    But the world is vast full of greed +dishonesty +pain. This is the glimpse/shameful event of India's real estate sector.
    This is real education (legal process+ real estate problem+ problem faced at individual level) which should be taught in the school days to avoid such events in life ahead.

  • @sachinkumar151992
    @sachinkumar151992 Год назад +2

    someone should ask/said to Judge Sahb,," Soon there will be a threat in India in the name of marriage, as already Indian youth is afraid of getting married, and such one sided or biased decisions will incite this situation"

  • @indranidutta1945
    @indranidutta1945 2 года назад +6

    I am so glad that this discourse is happening in this country. Laws should be fair not skewered towards one or the other. This is a female saying this just to add muscle to the sad but true plight of the men in our country thanks to the prevailing divorce laws

  • @siddharthagupta3062
    @siddharthagupta3062 2 года назад +4

    Maintenance and alimony laws are the worst laws. What he has told is merely a tip of an ice berg.
    Nowadays Laws are used as a tool for harassment rather than justice.

  • @vhari6045
    @vhari6045 2 года назад +3

    Undue influence, fraudulent behaviour , coercion, extortion, lies, etc. on the part of married women are encouraged by our laws and courts like this and such women go unpunished for such crimes which is not good for our society.

  • @sundeutsch
    @sundeutsch Год назад +2

    Just ask the judge to pass an order on merit and don't succumb to his pressure. Good observation. And then go to the next court. The life goes on. But don't compromise on self respect. It is called dignity in legal terms.

  • @sundeutsch
    @sundeutsch Год назад +1

    How can a judge say: I don't care? It's disgusting. It's their duty to hear both the parties carefully and with all the details and by doing this they are not doing a favour to anyone. The way a labourer works on a construction site, a scientist in a lab, a judge works in a courtroom and by nature his post is more responsible than anyone else. So he can't take the liberty to threaten one party without hearing his arguments. Instead he should use his powers to summon the departments to produce the documents and get the facts right, so they can give a fair judgement.
    The judge also have heard triya charitra stories in his life time. So this is something that the judge should use as a psychological analysis.

  • @edwardbrand6748
    @edwardbrand6748 2 года назад +5

    Glad that you raised this issue which is so biased against us men 🙏🏻

  • @ankushje
    @ankushje 2 года назад +5

    Can we make this video viral? This is important.

  • @911abhijeet
    @911abhijeet 2 года назад +25

    Can such judges be punished by moving to higher court? As they are not performing their duties properly. They are finding a short cut in their work.

    • @shashankke250
      @shashankke250 2 года назад +6

      No, that's how law works
      Even the police use this, they ask for confession by stating if you don't say this. Then u won't be allowed to go home or just hide few facts and interrogate.
      So anything related to police and court. Need a good lawyer, it's better to pay an expensive lawyer.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 2 года назад

      Yes, one can and should start filing complaints against erring judges and get them exposed ; time is nearing for judicial system to be scrapped and rebuilt again freshly.

  • @RG-sr4wb
    @RG-sr4wb Год назад

    An eye opener.... Thanks a lot 👍🏻🙏

  • @theartsyowls
    @theartsyowls 8 месяцев назад +2

    Why as a Lawyer can you all not collate such cases, and file PIL to change certain unjust laws? I know of a friend who is going thru similar trauma and his "sati-savitri" Wife is flirting online late nights with other men, while is also seeking interim maintenance, immediate interimmaintenance, several other demands. Why is that all women all allowed to play a 'woman card'. I myself had not played being an woman, i am divorced, and didnt claim alimony and i know manu woman take advantage of such laws in India.

  • @Eatsleepmeditaterepeat
    @Eatsleepmeditaterepeat 2 года назад +7

    Marriage is very risky these days....