How and why are husbands forced to pay voluntary maintenance in matrimonial matters?

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Комментарии • 2 тыс.

  • @biswadeeppalit1205
    @biswadeeppalit1205 9 месяцев назад +711

    Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal ohh God what an example of equality our Indian judiciary system has set 😂

    • @UPAKHOSALA
      @UPAKHOSALA 8 месяцев назад +59

      don't speak the Truth 😮😅
      the judge of a court acting as a Extortionist
      threatening a Man rather than
      demanding the Wife who
      have not provided any financial evidence
      yet threatening the man

    • @2912teddytweety2016
      @2912teddytweety2016 8 месяцев назад +22

      Dowry was never illegal. In ancient times parents used to save some money or presents based on their status for female child as security during marriage since those days aged males used to marry kids, and don't know when the child becomes widow. Now the reason for current dowry is harassment hence it has been declared as illegal. But maintenance after divorce now should only be applicable if women suffered loss of job or career due to the marriage which significantly diminishes her chance to get back in the work force after the divorce. Because not only career but women also suffer self esteem issues and body shaming which usually males don't physically.

    • @manjunathams8865
      @manjunathams8865 8 месяцев назад +4

      Well said! Hahahha😂😂 may be that law made by a woman

    • @poojaganguli2624
      @poojaganguli2624 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@manjunathams8865 You will never understand how much a woman has to sacrifice to keep up with the mans rule.

    • @jagruti153
      @jagruti153 8 месяцев назад +3

      5:32

  • @dragonfistadish2444
    @dragonfistadish2444 Год назад +1948

    So, the best course of action would be to not get married or I should change my gender to a female.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup Год назад +1

      Wow, From being taken as a curse if a girl child is born to a fantasy that I wish to be a female, India has grown.
      Karma playing its game.💗💗

    • @4urandy
      @4urandy Год назад

      Change to female.. and play victimhood eternally

    • @rounaksingh70
      @rounaksingh70 Год назад +51

      Same

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 Год назад +211

      Dont marry, its not worth it anymore, like have relations with women but nor marry, western culture u know

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 Год назад +15

      True that

  • @HK-kz1wu
    @HK-kz1wu Год назад +698

    In the eyes of governments everywhere, marriage is a CONTRACT. A fundamental common sense rule for life is this : “NEVER ENTER INTO A CONTRACT WITH SOMEONE WHO BENEFITS BY BREAKING THAT CONTRACT”. This is the fundamental reason why marriage is a very bad idea for men nowadays. Stay safe brothers!

    • @tintunbirha
      @tintunbirha 9 месяцев назад

      We hindus have become weak. Kick the judges, politicians, in their backsides for following western norms and STRICTLY bring back hindu ethos for hindus viz a man cannot divorce ( the word doesn't exist in hinduism) his wife unless she deserts him for another man. In that case she doesnt deserve ANYTHING.
      Otherwise, the man HAS to take care or provide for her irrespective of whether she is stupid, low IQ, lazy or crazy, bad cook, barren ( unable to bear children), whatever.
      The man, of course can marry again for happiness and contentment. But all the time he must provide fir his 1st wife, with ALL rights in dignity and properties.

    • @dgxa
      @dgxa 9 месяцев назад +9

      Thats an eye opening statement 👏👏👏

    • @vikibww
      @vikibww 9 месяцев назад +7

      my man. true

    • @buddha2845
      @buddha2845 8 месяцев назад

      Indian judicial system is totally biased against men and pro women

    • @VishalDudhani
      @VishalDudhani 8 месяцев назад +1

      Excellent way to put it !

  • @aruunmenon
    @aruunmenon Год назад +244

    The best thing about Indian law is that you get hardly 7 years for murder, let your wife know this.

    • @Manoj-bi2tp
      @Manoj-bi2tp Год назад +21

      😂👍👍

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs Год назад +20

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kraj4818
      @kraj4818 9 месяцев назад +18

      Noted

    • @abhijithvarmar1034
      @abhijithvarmar1034 8 месяцев назад +10

      Why unwanted fate for us, by making her know that their is a simpler way out than a divorce!!

    • @aruunmenon
      @aruunmenon 8 месяцев назад +17

      @@abhijithvarmar1034 Divorce is simpler for them and more lucrative too, all of that with no risk at all. Why would they try anything else?

  • @truthrevealer8869
    @truthrevealer8869 Год назад +1241

    We need to bring these things public through the media.
    Countless husband is suffering.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 Год назад

      No one cares especially not other men.

    • @johanliebert7603
      @johanliebert7603 Год назад +16

      are*

    • @paritoshdutta6644
      @paritoshdutta6644 Год назад +37

      @@johanliebert7603 but you still got what the guy is saying, right. Stop this habit of finding mistakes in everything.
      The guys has raised a genuine issue, he deserves praise .

    • @latasukhani8422
      @latasukhani8422 Год назад +15

      Men don't suffer, it's always women and children who suffer in matrimonial issues.

    • @sagarkapasi099
      @sagarkapasi099 Год назад +53

      @@latasukhani8422 Is this sattire? Please give your details so i can sue you right now

  • @IAmAnkitKumarD
    @IAmAnkitKumarD Год назад +723

    "marriage is the worst mistake a wise man can do in India".

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 Год назад +73

      "Marriage is the worst mistake any wise person can do in this Era of gender biased laws..."
      #stay Single, dont Marry,
      jist have Gf and have fun as long as both r happy together

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 Год назад +75

      @@roxrtk3299 even the girlfriend can use law against you if relationship gets sour. So be careful.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 Год назад +26

      @@amiyarana8733 yes ur right, but atleast here i am not bound to pay some shit alimony..right??? or do they have counter for this as well and our gender biased laws are fked up till that extent...

    • @amiyarana8733
      @amiyarana8733 Год назад +37

      @@roxrtk3299 yes if you have any physical relationship with your girlfriend and then break up with her to get another girl, then the former can use sexual assault case against you. And you have to pay heavy compensation to her and serve jail time in India. So be very careful. These girls can play with you any time due to their higher legal privileges.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 Год назад +6

      @@amiyarana8733 can u tell me how is she going ti prove that we have sexual relationship if we didnt had sex after break or for a long time before breaking up, cuz she has to undergo tests and also if she has to show some video proofs if she ever recorded, which i think she never gonna show if she ever secretly recorded them...
      Can u plz tell me, i am genuinely wanting to know how...plz

  • @thesoup_is_dry1358
    @thesoup_is_dry1358 10 месяцев назад +74

    I hope the beloved son of the judge goes through same if not more pain than this poor man.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 9 месяцев назад +2

      they will sort it out of courts or threaten and clear them.

    • @thesoup_is_dry1358
      @thesoup_is_dry1358 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@kaailu1001 i hope the lady make scene out of it by going to media and public.

    • @kunal6599
      @kunal6599 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@thesoup_is_dry1358did you know bout "uncle nepotism" in a indian courts ???

    • @thesoup_is_dry1358
      @thesoup_is_dry1358 8 месяцев назад

      @@kunal6599what is that ?... do judges support other judges or something ?

    • @kunal6599
      @kunal6599 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@thesoup_is_dry1358 yeah you got it in very single take !! Judges elects their so called " bua ka ladka ", chacha ka ladka or someone in their relation but not with whom from which they have their direct relation like their child so one can blame them !!! So in most of the cases even if judge son gets accused he will most probably transfer his case to another court and get out of the accusations

  • @malharm6346
    @malharm6346 Год назад +164

    In my Family Court Matter, once the judge threatened me that she will reject my divorce petition. I stood by my argument and asked her to mention the grounds on which it is being rejected, further reminded that judge cannot threaten and do such biasness in court.
    My petition was not rejected.

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 Год назад +11

      Don't. Marry. If you want a comparatively happy life

    • @Shrey_Shrek
      @Shrey_Shrek 9 месяцев назад +2

      Based

    • @thinker1491
      @thinker1491 8 месяцев назад +12

      A lot of chuthiya judges around, we need to deal then them before dealing with law

    • @ajaygautam832
      @ajaygautam832 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@thinker1491most of judges are feminist these days . Sad but true

    • @srigurunarsingvidhyabhusha7609
      @srigurunarsingvidhyabhusha7609 6 месяцев назад +1

      Are you male or female?

  • @deckwizar
    @deckwizar Год назад +334

    Just don't get married. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Stay single, save money, enjoy life, travel and retire early. It's better to end up alone in the end than miserable in company.

    • @roxrtk3299
      @roxrtk3299 Год назад +19

      Exactly brother ✅✅✅

    • @nareshagarwal5605
      @nareshagarwal5605 Год назад +9

      Lol easy to say..

    • @rap9703
      @rap9703 Год назад +30

      @@nareshagarwal5605 actually its easy to do also
      because nowdays you have to be 100% perfect for a lady otherwise you are screwed if she knew 1% about the laws which is present to protect them but used mostly to harass men.
      Women have power to destroy not your life but your parents life too. Do you really want to see your parents in jail just because she is not satisfied mentally/physically/emotionally/financially/socially or whatever else new reasons they will create they will destroy you and your family
      do you want this? do you???

    • @anitarathi1863
      @anitarathi1863 Год назад

      I assume tour parents wre in a live in
      Don't talk shit that is a rare case you are talking about

    • @iash0ksingh1794
      @iash0ksingh1794 Год назад +14

      lol... now courts have already ordered that if a couple is living together whether they're married or not they'll be considered as husband and wife

  • @noahark3984
    @noahark3984 Год назад +466

    Aren't alimony & dowry, two sides of the same coin? If good & educated men can stand strongly against dowry system, why can't good & educated women reciprocate by standing strongly against unfair alimony laws??

    • @montysharma8271
      @montysharma8271 Год назад +192

      Because hypocrisy is their nature 😏

    • @emartins3118
      @emartins3118 Год назад

      Because they are desperate housewives aka feminist

    • @kissofmeditation8419
      @kissofmeditation8419 Год назад +76

      Thats equality LOL....the word hypocrisy will feel embarrased in front of these feminists...

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 Год назад +31

      @@montysharma8271 Don't marry . If you want freedom. If you want a begger life then marry

    • @vikrampatel3946
      @vikrampatel3946 Год назад +41

      Because women ☕

  • @killer9ravi
    @killer9ravi 10 месяцев назад +118

    It sickens me to even think how deeply biased the entire judiciary is against men!

    • @mayak2676
      @mayak2676 7 месяцев назад +2

      Women in our country have been living & loving with numerous bias for centuries, no man ever had a problem with that, as long as it was convenient for them😁.
      Anyways, bias of any kind is wrong, irrespective of gender, caste, religion.

    • @Holy_Reich
      @Holy_Reich 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@mayak2676rule of nature, eh?
      Understand only coz of men in the past strong is favoured
      Only coz of men now weak is favoured.
      From reservation to privileges

  • @user-us4gh1kv6e
    @user-us4gh1kv6e Год назад +200

    Men's rights movement is the need of the hour

    • @WhereAreYouNowAtlantis
      @WhereAreYouNowAtlantis 11 месяцев назад +14

      It isn't as much of a hit as the feminist movement, nor will it be. Its just us men who can support each other in this biased world.

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 9 месяцев назад +4

      It is state vs Indian citizen. We have weaken Indian states's institutions.

    • @Fshmms
      @Fshmms 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, it is the requirement. Can't deny that

    • @ninanani4085
      @ninanani4085 5 месяцев назад +1

      अब लड़कियों को विदा होकर ससुराल जाने से मना करना चाहिए, घर जमाई जो बने उससे शादी करनी करनी चाहिए। जब बेटी ने ही घर संभालना है तो दूसरे घर क्यूं जाए, और जब बेटे ने घर में कुछ करना नही, तो उसे दूसरे घर जाने में क्या तकलीफ?

  • @honestcat224
    @honestcat224 Год назад +178

    Court hearings need to be made public, these Milaards need to be made accountable. They need to be seen by their neighbours, friends and family in their true nature and hated for it if necessary. Judicial reforms are must!

  • @ketangandhi8714
    @ketangandhi8714 Год назад +89

    Shame on the woman and that disconnected judge. Just pathetic. Laws are destroying family.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 Год назад +13

      Yes, it's true judiciary had destroyed family concept in India.
      Judiciary itself provoking women and helping them to extort money;

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 9 месяцев назад +2

      But India's spineless politicians are not changing the law.

    • @curiosityincarnated.9884
      @curiosityincarnated.9884 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@FXT130they need 2/3rd majority in both houses to change the constitution and bring laws. By default judges and laws are immune to change, unless it's the people mandate.
      Let everyone choose a party, at least for a term with 2/3rd majority in both houses, and see what happens to these worthless pigs.
      Law commission just like upsc have to come up for better selection.

    • @FXT130
      @FXT130 7 месяцев назад

      @@curiosityincarnated.9884 Changing law doesn't required 2/3 majority, a simple majority is enough which present political party in centre is enjoying. That's why they able to change article 370. But doing any justice for men is out of head for these Simp spineless politicians. They obsessed with Naari Shakti only. Spineless assholes.

    • @true_chels
      @true_chels 4 месяца назад +1

      And she doesn't give a f*ck lol. She will be getting the maintenance as well as earning big bucks abroad whereas the husband is ruined, his entire life finished

  • @skycelestial4449
    @skycelestial4449 9 месяцев назад +158

    Being a female and a sister of a cousin who suffered same trauma, I am appalled to see this moral decay in females.. Remember this b4 choosing/ marrying a girl:
    1. Check the behavious of her mother
    2. Check her spending habits
    3. Check her ability to listen and compromise
    4 Dont go on face value alone
    5.if she is simpleton and honest then marry
    6 Remember you are marrying for a lifelong partner not a model to flaunt .
    7 Remember bad girl will be bad wife and eventually bad mother.
    Get married with sensible down to earth partner . In long term peace and prosperity matters not the money and looks.

    • @cannibalronny7314
      @cannibalronny7314 9 месяцев назад +29

      Sorry to say but it is impossible to dissect a person's personality just by observing these few things, even an expert psychiatrist won't know what exactly is going on in a person's mind. It is all luck. Also women are smarter than me when it comes to gaining affection.

    • @rohitnagwanshi
      @rohitnagwanshi 9 месяцев назад +14

      All the above points are correct which I sadly realise after marriage and my spouse doesn't fulfill even a single one.

    • @noone7097
      @noone7097 9 месяцев назад

      How to find a down to earth woman? The only way is now to look for them in T4 cities and rural areas. Most of the urban women are no more down to earth and for them making a compromise means oppression and patriarchal society.

    • @kumarabhishek1064
      @kumarabhishek1064 8 месяцев назад +18

      Not marrying is the best option for men.
      Anyone can go rogue when system enables them to become one.
      Best advice is : no marriage.
      Thank God most men are learning these things when they are unmarried otherwise their lives would have been screwed.

    • @Rah_6967
      @Rah_6967 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@rohitnagwanshi bhai shaadi karni chahiye? Mere parents force kar rahe hain

  • @ezhilarasinanda5750
    @ezhilarasinanda5750 8 месяцев назад +67

    Why are the judges not accountable for their misdeeds? Why do they possess such immunity? Just hearing these cases brings chills to any married man.

    • @forgaming5640
      @forgaming5640 7 месяцев назад +7

      I already decided to married a girl abroad i am not married with indian girl

    • @vamshikrishna8694
      @vamshikrishna8694 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@forgaming5640Please don't do that brother..suing by partner is a regular affair over there

    • @tony_montana9122
      @tony_montana9122 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@forgaming5640India me specially north side jyada lafda hai,northeast girl thik hai

    • @Musica_Originals
      @Musica_Originals 6 месяцев назад

      Can we go to the Consumer Forum? Judges are being paid on our tax monies.

    • @T-TJ
      @T-TJ 6 месяцев назад +3

      Media gets its cut , Police gets their cut, Judges gets their cut, everyone gets it cut. So sit back calmly because nothing will happen.
      MAN have to suffer. MAN Should and will stop marrying.

  • @lol6434
    @lol6434 Год назад +297

    These things should be taught in schools and colleges regardless the subjects you have taken. Good job, Amish.

    • @SiSi-ju1xk
      @SiSi-ju1xk Год назад +4

      Men deserve to suffer for forcing wife to suffer with his parents

    • @lol6434
      @lol6434 Год назад +1

      @@SiSi-ju1xk shut up feminist. Y'all hate on men but without men this world breaks. Like it or not, that's the truth.

    • @raghunathreddybudda-hk1jc
      @raghunathreddybudda-hk1jc Год назад +22

      ​@@SiSi-ju1xk stop simping

    • @Raju_K
      @Raju_K Год назад +1

      @@SiSi-ju1xk Women should suffer marrying a man of standards they cant provide and destroying his life.

    • @vivekkumar-ei7vz
      @vivekkumar-ei7vz 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@SiSi-ju1xkGod bless you with fake matrimonial cases

  • @bindubiswas3298
    @bindubiswas3298 Год назад +98

    Its so funny that during an argument in supreme court when Mr Kapil sibal was arguing that these divorce petition should be dealt in lesser time as people loose their prime age,
    Supreme court judges were trying to be so innocently saying that why people are moving to live in open marriages not having family.
    Its like butcher saying I cannot understand why lamb looks scared.

  • @MrCoolprax
    @MrCoolprax Год назад +59

    I don't know how good a lawyer you really are but without doubt you are one amazing human being

  • @Sandeep-tc1yv
    @Sandeep-tc1yv 8 месяцев назад +25

    I heard that promotions in judiciary also depends on the number of cases they could grant maintenance to the wives, so technically husbands have many enemies to deal with for the marriage sin he committed.

    • @prashant5460
      @prashant5460 8 месяцев назад +4

      better to gamble with money than in arranged marriage dont trust anyone its hell to marry a wrong person

  • @bhb4756
    @bhb4756 Год назад +105

    This is very common ploy by judges. Husbands are COERCED into paying money to wife and motive is to record it as a CONSENT ORDER for reasons stated by you as it all favours wife & legally ties up hands of husbands to seek legal remedy against such order.

  • @sushovandas5016
    @sushovandas5016 Год назад +307

    Very informative video. Husbands should always ask for order on merit. Judges won't fix any absurd amount as they're also bound by the law, threatening husband is just a trick. Do not fall for it.

    • @NexterB
      @NexterB Год назад +41

      Judges can stoop so low as to call husband as neech, dusht, harami, namard etc. I have seen HC judges do so.
      And obscene amounts have been awarded, for which husband had to sell his farmland. And to top it all, the child was living with the husband only.

    • @kvtechvarshney5179
      @kvtechvarshney5179 Год назад

      What's order for merit?

    • @jalajdurve
      @jalajdurve Год назад +4

      @@kvtechvarshney5179 a deserving amount.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 Год назад +38

      One fine day I am willing to listen the news that judge has been slaughtered for being threatening the client/party.

    • @sagarkapasi099
      @sagarkapasi099 Год назад +9

      @@kavishwarmokal124 Morcha Nikalna Chahiye

  • @WisdomIsAwesome
    @WisdomIsAwesome 8 месяцев назад +4

    You're doing great work spreading awareness about these cases. Thanks so much!

  • @kunaljadav633
    @kunaljadav633 Год назад +2

    Very Good! This kind of knowledge should be shared by other lawyers too!

  • @ajaypatel4559
    @ajaypatel4559 Год назад +132

    Absolutely correct. Judges are totally uncontrolled after Neha vs Rajneesh.
    I m from Gujarat n faced similar situation in divorce n 125. I was threatened with 340. But me n my councel didn't budge, So judge didn't order any interim maintenance for wife n child. Zero interim maintenance

    • @paritoshdutta6644
      @paritoshdutta6644 Год назад +8

      Why there is no group/ community /association in Men?
      At least a Facebook group???

    • @kisslayy5379
      @kisslayy5379 Год назад +3

      Good job man..

    • @ajaypatel4559
      @ajaypatel4559 Год назад +8

      @@kisslayy5379 thanks but I must tell u that wasn't good experience.
      That female judge is sitting on my child visit application. N due to that judge i m not filing child custody case.

    • @kisslayy5379
      @kisslayy5379 Год назад +19

      @@ajaypatel4559 ohh bhai female judge..!!!
      Means u are also dealing a Feminist angle. How u get trapped in this situation..???
      What happened..?~?

    • @ajaypatel4559
      @ajaypatel4559 Год назад +20

      @@kisslayy5379 double trouble
      Wife filed divorce, 125 n dv.
      That court has this great female judge, who is wife of prominent high court judge. So trouble continues....
      But I have motto of warrior.

  • @futureisyours3016
    @futureisyours3016 Год назад +211

    This is the kind of Info we need. We dont won't a pro-feminist legal system.

    • @Abhinav_Nayana_Sailen
      @Abhinav_Nayana_Sailen Год назад

      Idiot, we need a feminist legal system or us men will be continuously exploited like this.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup Год назад +10

      KARMA, keep cryin 🤣🤣🤣

    • @naturelover7979
      @naturelover7979 Год назад +12

      ​@@scalerup Karma is a b****.

    • @scalerup
      @scalerup Год назад +11

      EXACTKY! It will never leave these men, who had tortured womanhood for eras.
      Karma IS INDEED A BITCH!

    • @kcbamania2600
      @kcbamania2600 Год назад

      @@scalerup Yes, Your father and brother should suffer too.

  • @sangharshratnaparkhi6622
    @sangharshratnaparkhi6622 Год назад +140

    We need Andrew Tate😂

    • @umangyadav7335
      @umangyadav7335 10 месяцев назад +16

      andrew tate will tell you to keep your wife at home and do only house chore, get girls when they hit 18 bcz she is pure. so just watch yourself whom you r following blindly.

    • @rajanpatadiya5428
      @rajanpatadiya5428 10 месяцев назад

      We need gun violence like Bhagat Singh

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 15 дней назад

      Ab tum Andrew ko follow karoge to all men are trash wale log honge he ....
      Faltu ki baate....
      Apne dharm ka palan karo na

  • @Tnahsarp_d
    @Tnahsarp_d 8 месяцев назад +17

    After listening to you - I'm losing all faith in the judiciary too 😢

  • @bhb4756
    @bhb4756 Год назад +103

    Almost all the times order on merits is much better than consent order, unless consent order fairly takes care of your rights & also records consent of wife to do certain acts/creates rights in your favour like child custody etc., which is very rare in case of maintenance orders. So Never ever play in the hands of judge to get yourself legally trapped in such CONSENT ORDERS.

    • @ImranSayed
      @ImranSayed Год назад +2

      @@ancient.sanatani As far as I know it is an order passed by a judge taking consent of both the parties for example maintenance amount in this case.. For example wife damanded 50k as maintenance, the counsel for Husband may negotiate it and say my client is ready to pay say 25k and the judge decides say pay 35k and both the parties agree to it..

    • @bhb4756
      @bhb4756 Год назад +4

      @@ancient.sanatani Consent order here means a court order which records "free consent"/choice/volition of a party to do certain act e.g., pay maintenance/give up child custody etc. in favour of the other party/parties with legal assumption that consenting party is not under influence of any coercion/threat during recording of such order, unless one is able to prove element of fraud/coercion/threat etc. later to challenge it, which is extremely uphill task. So consent order is like an agreement/contract between parties having stamp of court and non-compliance of such order by the consenting party attracts prosecution for contempt of court and this way judges & advocates through consent order trap the consenting party i.e., husbands and it's a win-win situation for wife & judge & certainly bad one for husband.

    • @abhilash9918
      @abhilash9918 Год назад

      @@bhb4756 you're saying it's bad for husband's because generally these consent orders favor women right?
      It could be bad for women too or the system is just that much tilted in favor of women?

    • @bhb4756
      @bhb4756 Год назад +4

      @@abhilash9918 my answer to your first question is Yes & to the best of my knowledge the system is extremely Gynocentric, to the extent of being brutal to men's & children's rights, barring rare exceptions.

    • @kvtechvarshney5179
      @kvtechvarshney5179 Год назад

      What's order on merit?

  • @abhishekmudgal5873
    @abhishekmudgal5873 Год назад +13

    Respect Bro....need more lawyer like you.... #Judges don't have absolute power.....also always argue to follow the merit of the court ....

  • @Jojobizarreadv27
    @Jojobizarreadv27 Год назад +14

    If justice is denied by the law, people will be forced to seek their own personal justice outside the purview of the law.

  • @HumbleMan78
    @HumbleMan78 10 месяцев назад +17

    Even if a lawyer is sooo frustrated with the proceedings, just imagine what is the state of common man ?

  • @shree9647
    @shree9647 Год назад +38

    Law is always in favour of women. No gender equality in matrimonial cases.

  • @pritambiswas136
    @pritambiswas136 Год назад +39

    Then why don't judges tell the wives to not to apply for Maintenance?? Why always against husband?

    • @domonkor7667
      @domonkor7667 Год назад +2

      A man said that.
      Muskurana ladkiyo ka ada hain.
      Jo fass gaya samjho woh gaddha hain.
      So, men should stay away from marriage.
      If you want intercourse. Go to Japan, gather some money.
      Many Chinese people came japan for that

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 Год назад

      Simp

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 9 месяцев назад

      boz that's our pathetic laws

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 15 дней назад

      ​@@domonkor7667achcha, randibazi karoge 😂

  • @LifeGeneralist
    @LifeGeneralist Год назад +38

    For these cases and many more cases, the judges are no longer "Honorable", but Villians and Devils. They have no right to destroy anybody's life

  • @poshfactor6364
    @poshfactor6364 8 месяцев назад +4

    All India men should file petition against such laws.... Please men. Do this. Society need to be saved.

  • @rounaksingh70
    @rounaksingh70 Год назад +21

    The worst one can do to himself in India is marry

  • @aniketx1083
    @aniketx1083 10 месяцев назад +19

    Its hard to stay alone but this kind of marital disputes are hell

    • @iamlegend6983
      @iamlegend6983 10 месяцев назад +8

      I'm 35 and still happily unmarried.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 9 месяцев назад +4

      Then get married, you will change your opinion soon.🤣🤣🤣

  • @shreyashsharma3748
    @shreyashsharma3748 9 месяцев назад +14

    My man is telling indirectly to not get married. Saviour of mankind ❤

  • @rahul-gp7nx
    @rahul-gp7nx Год назад +7

    Another good video by Amish sir.
    Thank you Sir, regards Adv. Rahul

  • @noahark3984
    @noahark3984 Год назад +25

    I don't understand this part of our law, as to why should a petitioner/defendant be expected to gather all evidence against the adversaries? That's the job of the court which should pass necessary orders for investigation through due process of law. We can't leave our full time jobs and become private detectives, just because we don't have the "evidence".

    • @georgecarlinn6288
      @georgecarlinn6288 Год назад

      So hire private detective when you suspect something amiss

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 9 месяцев назад

      even if you show the evidence, most of the time it gets rejected citing some pathetic excuses such as privacy blah blah...

  • @kaberigomes2117
    @kaberigomes2117 Год назад +27

    The problem is people entering marriage without knowing the legal consequence. After knowing if one agrees, it's their choice.

    • @srpatnaik4548
      @srpatnaik4548 6 месяцев назад +1

      Well said...Marriage is a legal agreement where we enter without signing...

  • @monty8722
    @monty8722 8 месяцев назад +4

    The best option is for husband and wife to sit together and sort things out. Keep away from laywers you will be glad you were not made into a cash cow

  • @siddharthjmt8216
    @siddharthjmt8216 Год назад +23

    Forget getting justice from Indian legal system, first get judges to do their work properly and work for justice. Not generalizing here.

  • @VinodSinghAdvocate
    @VinodSinghAdvocate Год назад +3

    Very knowledgeable video thank you sir !!!

  • @RG-sr4wb
    @RG-sr4wb 8 месяцев назад

    An eye opener.... Thanks a lot 👍🏻🙏

  • @KamranKhan-xj4kv
    @KamranKhan-xj4kv Год назад

    Way of speaking in great confidence is a great positive attitude towards the judge or any one else

  • @pm3141
    @pm3141 Год назад +14

    Best solution is prevention, vet thoroughly so you don't regret later.

  • @ayushkumarsingh8020
    @ayushkumarsingh8020 6 месяцев назад +4

    The number of views shows how many men are suffering unjustly because of marriage...! Our societies have degraded beyond repair..!

  • @mayurdugar03
    @mayurdugar03 9 месяцев назад +6

    This is serious and definitely needs to be brought up for the safety of men going forward. Old laws in newer times is painful.

  • @vivekagrawal4232
    @vivekagrawal4232 4 месяца назад

    we need a lawyer like you in every court in india.

  • @ImanBcheck
    @ImanBcheck Год назад +14

    And they claim that they follow constitution 🤣

  • @Yahooalpk
    @Yahooalpk Год назад +5

    Nice info sir. Thank you for educating us on those matters 🙏

  • @hmnt200708you
    @hmnt200708you 10 месяцев назад

    Good advice amish Ji thanks alot , that will surely help us

  • @shekharchowdhary
    @shekharchowdhary 8 месяцев назад

    Wow. Eye opening. I don't understand these maintainance and dowry either.

  • @Blackfire970
    @Blackfire970 Год назад +15

    Not only law is blind in India but it's dumb too. If both man & women are equal why so harsh laws & punishments for men & literally all immunity for any kind of action to women out there. Guys don't marry or live in in India especially if u r hindu because laws are totally against you.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 Год назад

      Gender neutral laws are the most important thing and need of the today's era.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 Год назад +1

      @@kavishwarmokal124 agreed.

    • @kaailu1001
      @kaailu1001 9 месяцев назад +1

      Fun fact is even in west men has to bear the burden of marital laws. that's why more men are not interested in marriage in west. Some are even going to asian countries like phillipines , thailand to get traditional wife and stay there only.

    • @Blackfire970
      @Blackfire970 9 месяцев назад

      @@kaailu1001 true bro

  • @shaikabdulraheem5384
    @shaikabdulraheem5384 9 месяцев назад +5

    When there is equality b/w men & women, if wife is also working, then why should a husband pay alimony on divorce... this needs to be changed.
    For jobs, education, loans interest rate etc are all equal to men & women but for divorce why should a man pay alimony while wife is earning.
    Everybody should start fighting against this.

  • @rabinarayansahu9343
    @rabinarayansahu9343 4 месяца назад

    I wish you all success in your life for being honest for innocents

  • @dakshyadav3952
    @dakshyadav3952 Год назад

    Great work u are doing

  • @baslatz_
    @baslatz_ Год назад +3

    yes sir i am heavily contemplating on the thought of marrige.

  • @amithbhagat
    @amithbhagat Год назад

    Thanks 🙏 a lot for this valuable information sirji.

  • @Marcos-uz5xe
    @Marcos-uz5xe 9 месяцев назад +5

    U r the messiah for the men community! I m a big fan of yours! I just hope our brothers get to know the dark side of marriage before getting the knot! Lot of men marry as if it is a rat race,social pressure ,many are scared to be alone, many for sex and get in the trap n make their life hell! Till the law dont change its like making ur own life disaster by getting married! I have seen many of my close friends going through worst time in their life after being drag to the court,so i can feel the pain stay strong guys!

  • @rachitsingh9214
    @rachitsingh9214 Год назад +5

    Kanoon इस देश में सिर्फ़ मज़ाक की चीज़ है.... और कुछ नहीं..... इंसाफ वगरह सब बेकार की बाते हैं...!!!

  • @faizmomin5953
    @faizmomin5953 10 месяцев назад +6

    Thank god for giving me this video recommendation and for making my decision strong, of being a single father in future. I'm 23Yo now.

  • @Number_Crunch
    @Number_Crunch 2 месяца назад

    Why is there no "Thank you! " button? You deserve gratitude sir

  • @DrDre-sy2kv
    @DrDre-sy2kv Год назад

    Thankue sir. We'll take record of it.

  • @sagarmalhotra9560
    @sagarmalhotra9560 8 месяцев назад +7

    Sometimes I feel lonely and think I might need someone and then I see cases like these ,Marriage is scary than a disease nowdays,

  • @koollinkssbs8166
    @koollinkssbs8166 Год назад +20

    Easier said than done. Usually DV cases involve aged in-laws and threat of incarceration breaks the son to agree with any unfair demands. Also if the judge is asking for 50 lakhs, he/she certainly has a cut on the money

  • @shubhankarbhanja3621
    @shubhankarbhanja3621 7 месяцев назад

    India needs more lawyers like you .😞

  • @kashifshehzad2328
    @kashifshehzad2328 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the information.

  • @nived9432
    @nived9432 10 месяцев назад +13

    Hope you become a judge one day....and every husband suffering from these annoying judges seek for your help🙃

  • @kshitiz06
    @kshitiz06 9 месяцев назад +4

    This is why judiciary system needs reform. Judges can be very incompetent and there is no consequences for them.

  • @DeepakSingh-sb7rq
    @DeepakSingh-sb7rq 2 месяца назад

    Thanks for all the info. I hope I don’t find myself in this situation but if I do I know I wouldn’t go to court and will handle the business myself.

  • @priyadarshan4577
    @priyadarshan4577 Год назад

    Thank you sir for sharing.🙏

  • @krushnavispute4397
    @krushnavispute4397 10 месяцев назад +3

    I pray to god by my heart ❤️ that these judges also go through the same situation 🎉

  • @pinkymishra6970
    @pinkymishra6970 Год назад +24

    Laws were made to make people's live better but some girls abuse those powers, which makes me disguisted. I can only imagine the pain the guy must be going through because I also have a brother and I don't want him to go through this.

    • @justadreamerforgood69
      @justadreamerforgood69 Год назад +3

      Wymyn will never be able to understand what a man goes through. Besides your safety, wymyn have it so easy !

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 Год назад +2

      Even after the husband commits suicide the girl will still not leave his family. This is how women are.

    • @JohnDoe-kj2cs
      @JohnDoe-kj2cs Год назад

      Shut up

    • @sonatestd2085
      @sonatestd2085 11 месяцев назад

      Not these laws

    • @sportstv1217
      @sportstv1217 7 месяцев назад

      Some ? All do.

  • @chandrakantmane9862
    @chandrakantmane9862 10 месяцев назад

    Very short and crisp information. Thank you Amish. ❤

  • @STP191
    @STP191 Год назад +2

    This shows there are very less number of judges in India, instead listening and gng through the proves they prefer to give absurd decisions everyone deserves a chance to put their case forward.

  • @denovo1148
    @denovo1148 Год назад

    Only yesterday i was talking to my friend about this ...never searched this title before...never typed these words before...but still youtube is suggesting me this video with the exact words ..take care of your camera qnd microphone..they are watching us and listening us all the time

  • @snagananda696
    @snagananda696 Год назад +6

    One thing is, the eager bachelor who is searching for a spouse doesn't know this at all. If this is made known across, then I feel at least 50% of men would not marry. Maybe more. Also, if this trend continues, then it's going to be hard for women also to find good men. I mean if someone is ready to marry a woman even after knowing all these unlawful laws, then he would definitely be someone who is capable of threatening the lady and making sure she doesn't file any case.

  • @biswalashis123
    @biswalashis123 Год назад +7

    Very informative video. Husbands are always on the loser side in all court matters. But small tips like this one can help all the troubled husbands.

  • @namamigaming5153
    @namamigaming5153 9 месяцев назад +1

    Now, i realise that i was living in a small world only consisting of my family and neighborhood.
    But the world is vast full of greed +dishonesty +pain. This is the glimpse/shameful event of India's real estate sector.
    This is real education (legal process+ real estate problem+ problem faced at individual level) which should be taught in the school days to avoid such events in life ahead.

  • @akagadeate3537
    @akagadeate3537 10 месяцев назад

    Thankyou sir for exposing indian law

  • @leo-zh4zv
    @leo-zh4zv 9 месяцев назад +5

    MGTOW is the best for men nowadays.. Your mental health, your hard earned reputation and money will be safe..
    They bring nothing to the table in marriage nowadays, just acts entitled to everything with extreme confidence and arrogance.. Don't fall for their charms and external beauty..
    Just work on yourselves, engage in charity to reduce suffering in the world and live your life peacefully.. Life is too short for indulging & investing yourselves in something that will cause such harassment and waste a lot of your limited time..
    NOTE- If you have compulsions. There are other ways to have fun with no strings attached, no headaches or heartaches
    (if you have money)..😉

    • @forgaming5640
      @forgaming5640 7 месяцев назад

      ​​@PriyankaDas-ko5vx you just reversed the case i see this so often is that those laws taken from western society where wife file divorce take half his asset than pay child support for 18 years and now so many young western women are signle this thing also happening in india as well i am CA and i looking for a wife abroad i will never married to indian women

  • @amitpatra6479
    @amitpatra6479 Год назад +28

    From husband side..my advice would be don't go to Court for matrimonial dispute..because judgment are not neutral..it becomes a personal choise of judge..so, take the matter in own hands instead.. Need extra courage though.

    • @montysharma8271
      @montysharma8271 Год назад +3

      How to take the matter in our hand ?

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 Год назад +11

      @@montysharma8271 jiski laathi usaki bhais ;

    • @ashishdevadig2835
      @ashishdevadig2835 Год назад +10

      @@montysharma8271 samjhdar ko ishaara kaafi hai

    • @amankumarjha4735
      @amankumarjha4735 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@montysharma8271a 5.56 mm bull€t

    • @theone7359
      @theone7359 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@ashishdevadig2835how

  • @black86786
    @black86786 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for being a voice of victim and its a very very true scenario that happens. Unable to explain how auch impungd orders getting passed in favour of people missing the law

  • @NIKHILKUMAR-xr7ii
    @NIKHILKUMAR-xr7ii Год назад +1

    Judiciary reforms is must ..we are having a lot of incompetent judges sitting

  • @anupmohanty2342
    @anupmohanty2342 Год назад +15

    Can someone file a petition against a Judge?

  • @swarupverma2373
    @swarupverma2373 7 месяцев назад +4

    It’s very sad how the institution of marriage has become… I had a female
    friend who had put false allegations on her husband of physical violence….she told me in confidence that her husband had never even raised her voice at her but just to extort 40 lacs from him, she had gone well and beyond limits of morality

  • @taxsensemumbai9445
    @taxsensemumbai9445 11 месяцев назад

    Excellent insight

  • @vkp6360
    @vkp6360 Год назад +1

    We need to highlight these judges and expose them

  • @varunthedoc
    @varunthedoc 7 месяцев назад +3

    We need to have a prenuptial agreement clearly stating that the lady won’t get a single pie of money, jewellery , property or alimony

    • @freespirithermit
      @freespirithermit 7 месяцев назад

      okay then don't ask for dowry from the girl's family either....

    • @amishrawat9753
      @amishrawat9753 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@freespirithermit okay marry in your level. Don't go for sarkari babu

    • @ravishankaryadav4002
      @ravishankaryadav4002 3 месяца назад

      ​@@freespirithermitnobody ask for dowry it is your imagination!!

    • @karanjaiswal9901
      @karanjaiswal9901 2 месяца назад

      @@freespirithermitmat de bhai,padh likh le thoda nahi maangega koi.

    • @Bharatiya12321
      @Bharatiya12321 15 дней назад

      ​@@karanjaiswal9901bro padhe likhe hone k baad bhi bhar bhar k dahej lete hai or dete hai

  • @edwardbrand6748
    @edwardbrand6748 Год назад +5

    Glad that you raised this issue which is so biased against us men 🙏🏻

  • @namaste4298
    @namaste4298 6 месяцев назад

    Amishji, I heartedly appreciate you for working on the side of Rightful people in this Kalyug. God is watching upon and your being on the side of Dharm will keep awarding you. Just wrote to Yogiji with reference of your video (Why NRI should not invest in real estate in India? Hope and pray it will spark a big fire some day). May Krishna Bless You !

  • @DrBathina
    @DrBathina 7 месяцев назад +1

    In my case one best judge refused to grant maintenance-it’s landmark decision for my case and it turned my case .I remember that honest judge

  • @random_ramblings
    @random_ramblings Год назад +8

    Andha nahi, chutiya kanoon !
    Judges paisa khate hain alimony amount se.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 Год назад +3

      Judges ki property ka bhi ED se jaanch karaane ka wakht aa gaya hai.

  • @RA-bm8cq
    @RA-bm8cq Год назад +7

    Can't husband file 406- criminal breach of trust against wife for not returning jewellery and then come to negotiation table...as wrong can be defeated by only wrong in nowdays kaliyuga

  • @dubeyvs6159
    @dubeyvs6159 8 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations and salutations to the indian judicial system for incentivising men not to enter the householder / provider role and avoid this marital institution altogether .

  • @Born2_fitt
    @Born2_fitt 4 месяца назад

    Respect for you 📈

  • @vhari6045
    @vhari6045 Год назад +3

    Undue influence, fraudulent behaviour , coercion, extortion, lies, etc. on the part of married women are encouraged by our laws and courts like this and such women go unpunished for such crimes which is not good for our society.