Ah Trinny...l am a Funeral & Wedding Celebrant and have spent many years completely and utterly overwhelmed by emotional and physical clutter; doubting myself, full of low self esteem (behind the smile and lipgloss), constantly feeling like a crappy mother and - if l am being honest - bitter for many years (until Covid actually) about the things l see other people have that are 'seemingly' taken forgranted that are always out of reach for me and mine etc etc ...BUT being surrounded by loss and love is quite a leveller and has helped me gain a greater perspective on what really matters....which is ultimately love and our ability to just do our best, keep 'keeping on' and actually be kinder to ourselves (although most days are still spent silently swearing and sweetly smiling as l juggle work with keeping home, family stuff and navigating the ever changing landscape of being mum to a VERY hormonal teenage daughter who spends a lot of time looking at me like she hates me 😉) Dealing with grief constantly reminds me that the ONLY thing that really matters in life are the memories we make with others, not the stuff we strive to buy or how big our house is, if it looks like a montage from Pinterest or not etc. I no longer fret about so many things l used to worry about and l let things go that are outside my control...its been liberating! I have also reevaluated who l surround myself with, and there have been friendships that have fell by the wayside (which may sound mercenary) but life is so precious, l want to spend it with those who contribute to my life positively and vice versa. It hasn't been easy but then life isn't easy. These days l remind myself l'm doing the best l can...and as l get older l also remember age is a privilege denied to so many others; I HATE the wrinkles on my neck and chest etc but l am SO grateful to get a chance to get more everyday when so many others won't 💙.....l think you are utterly fabulous Trinny...l hear your voice and l smile, l see the vibrancy you bring to your videos and l feel energised just watching...but equally hearing this particular video reminds me that we are ALL going through the mill in varying degrees...none of us is immune and your transparency is a breath of fresh air in a very prescribed and shallow world. Keep keeping on you wonderful lady. So much of what you talked about resonated with me and l for one found your honesty and depth really inspiring. Heartfelt love and strength to you and your subscribers (of which l am of course one) 💙 x
U r an inspiration dear …. I’m 53 years old who achieved everything when I was 35 years old and since 2015 lost and had to leave everything behind coz of the war in Yemen… I live in Germany since then and whenever I feel down I pull myself out of the hole and think of my great successful 3 kids and feel grateful… watching u is among my happy moments….I love how transparent u r and real 🥰
I stay away from people who drain my energy- as an empath I value my space to connect to my intuition and inner guidance! We are all one! Here in 3D having a human experience use the time wisely! The great awakening- Dark to light ♥️🙏🌍
I survived lung cancer two years ago and live in gratitude every day. It brought into sharp focus what matters...the people you love and the things you enjoy that enrich your being. Get rid of the hubris, don't allow negative shit from others to use your oxygen, be mindful, be kind, dance more, smile more, and don't worry too much about what others think ☘💚
I’m a Retired RGN and my daughter is a Dr of Chemistry from Oxford I said to her I could never do that I’m not clever enough and she said “Mam it’s got nothing to do with how clever you are it’s how much effort you put in!” So true if you focus with intentions! Everyone has something they are good at - go for it with passion! The abundant universe! ♥️
Thanks for ‘If’ 💓I love how recovery is a deep part of everything you do in a quiet way, your kindness, compassion, inclusivity and love for women!!!! Drama just distracts us from our own issues and anxiety. Excellent lesson in letting go and the password shows up 😂
You are always so generous in all you do for us followers. Thank you. My direct route to peace, love, joy, gentleness, kindness, compassion, long suffering, goodness, patience and tenderness is loving and giving my heart to the one who loves me more and before I ever did. Jesus.
wonderful video Trinny, thank you. It does make a difference knowing that others are feeling the impact of all the painful events going on in the world. 💛
beautiful as usual, thank you. My faith gets me through all and reminds me to be kind and grateful - not perfectly because I too am human but it never, never ever, runs dry.
Trinny I Luved your honesty - watching your videos over the years I’ve always thought you never had down days etc as you’re always so positive and full of energy - but hearing your vulnerability made me realise we’re all the same .... so many points you made are what we all go through and it’s helped me enormously - thank you Trinny 😊
Absolutely love this video. Thank you for showing a different side of you. I am working on my own business and this is super inspiring. Thank you Trinny.
Hang in there, Trinny. The teenage years are challenging, but she will get nicer again. You spread lots of happiness with your fashion tips and body honesty 😍 Sarah ( mother of 5 boys )
So many great things said. We have to keep learning and growing. And, helping one another stay encouraged in the journey. Thank you for sharing the poem, so appreciated it. 🌸
The older you become the more life becomes real. I become more detached of all the stuff people are trying to sell us when our closets are already to full. A good french song Fulsentimentale says : “they make us believe that happiness is to buy and to fill our armoires illusions; illusive and it is true as all this leads to an illusive happiness! I am consuming less because I am aware of the planet, I am enjoying more simple thing, like my garden, a good film at the cinema a nice dinner with friends, my husband becomes to have memory loss. At 72 I have already lost three of my best girlfriends who died before reaching their 70s. So I put things in perspective! Life is about people not about things! We need to think more of that! Consuming more has never led to joy or maybe very temporary. Joy is in achieving not endless buying! We need to set more examples for young generation.
We used to have that poem by Rudyard Kipling on a poster on the back of the bathroom door when I was growing up and I used to read it when sitting on the toilet. I still remember ever word at 59 years old.
Trinny, you are truly inspirational and I can resonate with so much you say. I'm definitely in the sandwich years (Primary school children and a mother with Alzheimer's and an older sister dealing with cancer) and trying to stay strong for everyone. I'm learning to take time out for myself. I've just ordered your cleansing balm too so will enjoy a daily pamper. Thank you Trinny.
💞💞💞 This is soo timely.... I have been thinking about these same things ... I struggle to live in the moment " and right now I am pursuing a new more meaningful group of goals and friends ...it has been challenging... but putting things into perspective and being grateful every step of the way has been extremely helpful.
Thank you for making this video, it is different than some of your others and I like the variety of what you provide. I appreciate you being vulnerable and real in an environment where people unfortunately make inconsiderate comments. I appreciate you 💜
So perfectly delivered, you are an inspirational woman. I wrote 'If' and handed it my son in a photo album with pics from birth to his then 21 years. I included each Birthday party and we were both reduced to happy tears. It sits in his home office on a shelf with other treasures. He is now 40. Like you I continue to learn every day and have great comfort in the work I do, the creativity I am cultivating and above all the friendships I hold most dear. XX
Dear Trinny, this chat showed up after Friday twinning today. It's been so moving to listen to you on a more personal perspective, discussing life struggles and ups & downs and how you deal with news and technology, all topics we can relate to! Don't worry about forgetting passwords; it's too much information on your head. I used to memorise them but when I got over 21 passwords I made up a wise move that set me free from stressful times... I wrote them down in a safe place! Please be kind to yourself and take a day off to reset your mind and soul; you deserve it and it will work miracles!! The more I know about you, the more I love you. You are just amazing, Trinny!!! 💗
Love these chats with you Trinny .. it feels like you’re speaking directly to me. They’re informative and leave me feeling optimistic and more settled somehow. There’s so much to ponder within that poem. Thanks xxxx
Trinny, thanks for taking the time to have a chat. Mothers/Women especially in my own case leave my self last. Self care, starts with self. I always think of the Aeroplane, put the Mask on you first, then you are better equipped to help others. Lyla was absolutely brilliant to have been able to receite the poem. She just needs time to go on her own path.
Thank you for being open re daily life, which we all experience at some time. I also would like to remain relevant, I am happy to mix with my peers but also wish to cultivate friendships with younger and older people than myself. I think one thing I have noticed in my journey is I only wish to have positive people in my life.
I enjoyed your talk and Kipling's poem at the end. It was shared in a biography of Jonas Salk, I'm reading. It speaks of to me the essential thing for the good life is to be present, regardless of luck or current 🔴 circumstance, to make this moment in some way yours, resourceful, the best, whatever good you can see, it'll make the important difference. Have a nice summer, Trinny.
It was so lovely to meet you in selfridges with Daliah. I watch all you videos and have enjoyed immensely, all the work you have put out (since sixth form and I am now in my thirties 😇). Thus, you can imagine my excitement when I saw you. Thank you for taking the time to speak to us... Lots of love from 🇴🇲 Oman.
Trinny, my mother died suddenly when I was 21 and she 52. We fought pretty much constantly during my teens and throughout both university degrees as I was the only surviving child of several miscarriages and 2 stillbirths. She was wonderful but highly controlling and anxious and I suspect my mother never ever had proper treatment for several postnatal depression (I was 3 months premature so in Neonatal for e months). Growing up i tried so hard but never understood her as I felt utterly suffocated. Only now as the mother of two children, including a very fiesty tween girl age 9 going on 29! That i catch a glimpse of what my mother went through. I miss the opportunities to have reconnected as an adult, jokes shared and times made. She would have been so delighted with my beautiful children who I thank God daily for blessing me with. Where there is life, there is hope. I sometimes wish for one more irascible argument with her beautiful stubborn self so so immensely but every bit of antagonism which feels directed at you, is a curious soul searching for meaning in her life which will come over time. No one who witnesses you two together can fail to notice how authentic and unbreakable your bond is. She utterly adores and is proud of you, though she feels she might not be able to show it as your pressense is immense and I know I struggled to find my identity with a very strong personality in my mother. Ultimately you are a fantasia mother, have overcome great difficulties and challenges and you continue to inspire millions of women. She will always find her way back to you as she knows your love never ends. Hope this helps you 😍
Please don’t get involved in Meta Verse. It’s the complete opposite to being present, grounded & mindful living. We don’t need another world. Isn’t one enough? It’s things like this that are making this world such a hard place to be. Let’s make it better, not contribute to something that will make it worse. Community, compassion, gratitude & humanity in the physical world please!
@@brigidkeogh416 Obviously it wasn't for me and others who mentioned it, this time and - to be sure - many other times. It's been an issue since Trinny started. But she isn't known for listening well so it all makes sense. 🙉 😎
Ah Trinny...l am a Funeral & Wedding Celebrant and have spent many years completely and utterly overwhelmed by emotional and physical clutter; doubting myself, full of low self esteem (behind the smile and lipgloss), constantly feeling like a crappy mother and - if l am being honest - bitter for many years (until Covid actually) about the things l see other people have that are 'seemingly' taken forgranted that are always out of reach for me and mine etc etc ...BUT being surrounded by loss and love is quite a leveller and has helped me gain a greater perspective on what really matters....which is ultimately love and our ability to just do our best, keep 'keeping on' and actually be kinder to ourselves (although most days are still spent silently swearing and sweetly smiling as l juggle work with keeping home, family stuff and navigating the ever changing landscape of being mum to a VERY hormonal teenage daughter who spends a lot of time looking at me like she hates me 😉) Dealing with grief constantly reminds me that the ONLY thing that really matters in life are the memories we make with others, not the stuff we strive to buy or how big our house is, if it looks like a montage from Pinterest or not etc. I no longer fret about so many things l used to worry about and l let things go that are outside my control...its been liberating! I have also reevaluated who l surround myself with, and there have been friendships that have fell by the wayside (which may sound mercenary) but life is so precious, l want to spend it with those who contribute to my life positively and vice versa. It hasn't been easy but then life isn't easy. These days l remind myself l'm doing the best l can...and as l get older l also remember age is a privilege denied to so many others; I HATE the wrinkles on my neck and chest etc but l am SO grateful to get a chance to get more everyday when so many others won't 💙.....l think you are utterly fabulous Trinny...l hear your voice and l smile, l see the vibrancy you bring to your videos and l feel energised just watching...but equally hearing this particular video reminds me that we are ALL going through the mill in varying degrees...none of us is immune and your transparency is a breath of fresh air in a very prescribed and shallow world. Keep keeping on you wonderful lady. So much of what you talked about resonated with me and l for one found your honesty and depth really inspiring. Heartfelt love and strength to you and your subscribers (of which l am of course one) 💙 x
U r an inspiration dear …. I’m 53 years old who achieved everything when I was 35 years old and since 2015 lost and had to leave everything behind coz of the war in Yemen… I live in Germany since then and whenever I feel down I pull myself out of the hole and think of my great successful 3 kids and feel grateful… watching u is among my happy moments….I love how transparent u r and real 🥰
Sending you loving hugs
Meeee tooo 😍
I stay away from people who drain my energy- as an empath I value my space to connect to my intuition and inner guidance!
We are all one!
Here in 3D having a human experience use the time wisely!
The great awakening- Dark to light ♥️🙏🌍
I survived lung cancer two years ago and live in gratitude every day. It brought into sharp focus what matters...the people you love and the things you enjoy that enrich your being. Get rid of the hubris, don't allow negative shit from others to use your oxygen, be mindful, be kind, dance more, smile more, and don't worry too much about what others think ☘💚
I’m a Retired RGN and my daughter is a Dr of Chemistry from Oxford I said to her I could never do that I’m not clever enough and she said “Mam it’s got nothing to do with how clever you are it’s how much effort you put in!” So true if you focus with intentions!
Everyone has something they are good at - go for it with passion!
The abundant universe! ♥️
Dear Trinny, you are so youthful in mind body and spirit…an encouragement to us all. Thank you 👌
Thanks for ‘If’ 💓I love how recovery is a deep part of everything you do in a quiet way, your kindness, compassion, inclusivity and love for women!!!! Drama just distracts us from our own issues and anxiety. Excellent lesson in letting go and the password shows up 😂
We need more of these lives in our life Trinny. Thank you.
You are always so generous in all you do for us followers. Thank you. My direct route to peace, love, joy, gentleness, kindness, compassion, long suffering, goodness, patience and tenderness is loving and giving my heart to the one who loves me more and before I ever did. Jesus.
Beautiful comment. I was also rescued, aged 29, and have found the Lord is always longing to heal our hearts, and lives, layer by layer 💝
@@catheriner1764 I can attest to the same! Where would I be without that help that changed things on such a core level?
wonderful video Trinny, thank you. It does make a difference knowing that others are feeling the impact of all the painful events going on in the world. 💛
beautiful as usual, thank you. My faith gets me through all and reminds me to be kind and grateful - not perfectly because I too am human but it never, never ever, runs dry.
Trinny I Luved your honesty - watching your videos over the years I’ve always thought you never had down days etc as you’re always so positive and full of energy - but hearing your vulnerability made me realise we’re all the same .... so many points you made are what we all go through and it’s helped me enormously - thank you Trinny 😊
Absolutely love this video. Thank you for showing a different side of you. I am working on my own business and this is super inspiring. Thank you Trinny.
Hang in there, Trinny. The teenage years are challenging, but she will get nicer again. You spread lots of happiness with your fashion tips and body honesty 😍 Sarah ( mother of 5 boys )
So many great things said. We have to keep learning and growing. And, helping one another stay encouraged in the journey. Thank you for sharing the poem, so appreciated it. 🌸
Thankyou for bringing back to me being grateful thx take care
Thanks Trinny ! Always love your videos like this. You always seem so sincere with these chats. Appreciate it
Powerful and making me think on many levels. xo
Trinny , that was fantastic and emotional. Life is a learning curve and we are still on that curve.💚
The older you become the more life becomes real. I become more detached of all the stuff people are trying to sell us when our closets are already to full. A good french song Fulsentimentale says : “they make us believe that happiness is to buy and to fill our armoires illusions; illusive and it is true as all this leads to an illusive happiness!
I am consuming less because I am aware of the planet, I am enjoying more simple thing, like my garden, a good film at the cinema a nice dinner with friends, my husband becomes to have memory loss. At 72 I have already lost three of my best girlfriends who died before reaching their 70s. So I put things in perspective! Life is about people not about things! We need to think more of that! Consuming more has never led to joy or maybe very temporary. Joy is in achieving not endless buying! We need to set more examples for young generation.
Very wise! ♥️🙏🌍
We used to have that poem by Rudyard Kipling on a poster on the back of the bathroom door when I was growing up and I used to read it when sitting on the toilet. I still remember ever word at 59 years old.
The back of the bathroom door, brilliant!
What is really weird is that this morning I was reading this poem and this afternoon I click on you. How lovely 😊
Trinny, you are truly inspirational and I can resonate with so much you say. I'm definitely in the sandwich years (Primary school children and a mother with Alzheimer's and an older sister dealing with cancer) and trying to stay strong for everyone. I'm learning to take time out for myself. I've just ordered your cleansing balm too so will enjoy a daily pamper. Thank you Trinny.
💞💞💞 This is soo timely.... I have been thinking about these same things ... I struggle to live in the moment " and right now I am pursuing a new more meaningful group of goals and friends ...it has been challenging... but putting things into perspective and being grateful every step of the way has been extremely helpful.
Thank you for making this video, it is different than some of your others and I like the variety of what you provide. I appreciate you being vulnerable and real in an environment where people unfortunately make inconsiderate comments. I appreciate you 💜
I do needed this today. Thank you Trinny.
So perfectly delivered, you are an inspirational woman. I wrote 'If' and handed it my son in a photo album with pics from birth to his then 21 years. I included each Birthday party and we were both reduced to happy tears. It sits in his home office on a shelf with other treasures. He is now 40.
Like you I continue to learn every day and have great comfort in the work I do, the creativity I am cultivating and above all the friendships I hold most dear. XX
Dear Trinny, this chat showed up after Friday twinning today. It's been so moving to listen to you on a more personal perspective, discussing life struggles and ups & downs and how you deal with news and technology, all topics we can relate to! Don't worry about forgetting passwords; it's too much information on your head. I used to memorise them but when I got over 21 passwords I made up a wise move that set me free from stressful times... I wrote them down in a safe place! Please be kind to yourself and take a day off to reset your mind and soul; you deserve it and it will work miracles!! The more I know about you, the more I love you. You are just amazing, Trinny!!! 💗
From one vintage '63 to another...that poem is Everything! Enjoyed the deep chat. Always do Trinny 🌺🟡
Love these chats with you Trinny .. it feels like you’re speaking directly to me. They’re informative and leave me feeling optimistic and more settled somehow. There’s so much to ponder within that poem. Thanks xxxx
Lyla sounds like a loving empath be happy 😘🥰♥️
Magnificent blog Trinny thank you!
Thank you so much. Very beautiful and helpful.
Thanks,Trinny💜
Needed to hear this thanks Trinny x currently going through a ‘grabby’ phase as you put it - need to take a step back and evaluate.
Trinny, thanks for taking the time to have a chat. Mothers/Women especially in my own case leave my self last. Self care, starts with self.
I always think of the Aeroplane, put the Mask on you first, then you are better equipped to help others.
Lyla was absolutely brilliant to have been able to receite the poem. She just needs time to go on her own path.
It’s a movie to wake people up!
Nothing can stop what’s coming!
The best is yet to come!
It will be biblical!
WWG1WGA ♥️🙏🌍
Thanks for sharing! You’re an inspiration!
Thank you for being open re daily life, which we all experience at some time.
I also would like to remain relevant, I am happy to mix with my peers but also wish to cultivate friendships with younger and older people than myself.
I think one thing I have noticed in my journey is I only wish to have positive people in my life.
I enjoyed your talk and Kipling's poem at the end. It was shared in a biography of Jonas Salk, I'm reading. It speaks of to me the essential thing for the good life is to be present, regardless of luck or current 🔴 circumstance, to make this moment in some way yours, resourceful, the best, whatever good you can see, it'll make the important difference. Have a nice summer, Trinny.
I really enjoyed this too x exactly what I needed x
It was interesting to hear your perspective on friendships. ..I attract young people like a magnet and I hate it ....I have been wondering why ???
It was so lovely to meet you in selfridges with Daliah. I watch all you videos and have enjoyed immensely, all the work you have put out (since sixth form and I am now in my thirties 😇). Thus, you can imagine my excitement when I saw you. Thank you for taking the time to speak to us... Lots of love from 🇴🇲 Oman.
On my desk, a handwritten sign, "What would Trinny do?" Warm greetings from Santa Cruz, California
Beverly Alexander Martin
Beautiful video, love it 😍 we are all special in life , be yourself, if people don’t like it that’s there issue not yours 🥰🌸 Maria Lambert
The hamster story --what powerful insight! So much symbolism...
Trinny, my mother died suddenly when I was 21 and she 52. We fought pretty much constantly during my teens and throughout both university degrees as I was the only surviving child of several miscarriages and 2 stillbirths. She was wonderful but highly controlling and anxious and I suspect my mother never ever had proper treatment for several postnatal depression (I was 3 months premature so in Neonatal for e months). Growing up i tried so hard but never understood her as I felt utterly suffocated. Only now as the mother of two children, including a very fiesty tween girl age 9 going on 29! That i catch a glimpse of what my mother went through. I miss the opportunities to have reconnected as an adult, jokes shared and times made. She would have been so delighted with my beautiful children who I thank God daily for blessing me with. Where there is life, there is hope. I sometimes wish for one more irascible argument with her beautiful stubborn self so so immensely but every bit of antagonism which feels directed at you, is a curious soul searching for meaning in her life which will come over time. No one who witnesses you two together can fail to notice how authentic and unbreakable your bond is. She utterly adores and is proud of you, though she feels she might not be able to show it as your pressense is immense and I know I struggled to find my identity with a very strong personality in my mother. Ultimately you are a fantasia mother, have overcome great difficulties and challenges and you continue to inspire millions of women. She will always find her way back to you as she knows your love never ends. Hope this helps you 😍
Ariel, amazing friend, best video, steady success, always greetings from your best friend, traditional Indonesian gold seeker ❤️🇬🇧🇲🇨✋👍👍👍
I am sorry Trinny the volyme is to low. Need to wait for next video. Love 🌺
Please don’t get involved in Meta Verse. It’s the complete opposite to being present, grounded & mindful living. We don’t need another world. Isn’t one enough? It’s things like this that are making this world such a hard place to be. Let’s make it better, not contribute to something that will make it worse. Community, compassion, gratitude & humanity in the physical world please!
Thank you
Lovely lady
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Hey Ms B maybe she’s trying not to wake Charles 🤷🏼♀️
Thich Nhat Hanh is his name ❤️
Technical: volume is miserably low. Perhaps invest in proper equipment?
The volume was perfect.
@@brigidkeogh416 Obviously it wasn't for me and others who mentioned it, this time and - to be sure - many other times. It's been an issue since Trinny started. But she isn't known for listening well so it all makes sense. 🙉 😎
Morning Trinny, what's happen to your voice, sounds slightly like a man's voice. Have you just woken up?
Stop being rude. Geez
@@ashanyc9146 how am I being rude? Pls explain
@@ashanyc9146 please watch Trinny beauty tool kit. Her voice sounds alot happier then incomparison to today's video.
Gosh, why not just listen to Trinny's message instead of asking about her voice?
@@msb1404 it’s her serious voice! 😘
I really needed this today. Thank you Trinny.