God is a divine matchmaker. God wants a healthy relationship for you. God wants you to be healthy. God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. God has plans to give you a hope and a future.
That is exactly how my last partner came in checked off all the boxes, was courting for marriage, our families met each other and spent holidays with each other, we looked at rings. I was praying for God to reveal his true intentions and God showed me. He was using me as a placeholder. I was hurt and still hurt, healing, working on me and ready my true King. I rebuke counterfeits in the name of Jesus. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Yes! No more counterfeits! Praise God for revealing his intentions ahead of time before you got further sucked in 🙌🏽, I know how painful it is to walk away, may God continue to be your strength sis, God started your story and He will finish it with a beautiful ending 🤍
I love this because it shows how waiting to be intimate is protection because if you had slept with him this wouldve been worse, longer and harder to leave him. God bless you
"He would be an everyday prayer point instead of a praying husband" 🙌 i won't settle. Lord i submit to your plan for my love life, forgive me for my stubborn heart and thank you for your protection
We were engaged and he checked all of my boxes. He wasn’t a Christian but I loved him... Our chemistry and connection was out of this world. But when I would ask God to reveal his heart towards me I would see him betraying me in the worst ways in every dream. I had internal chaos and confusion until I walked away from the relationship and God gave me my peace back.
Never marry an unbeliever. Don't even date an unbeliever & alot of them pretend to be saved. Forget about chemistry! That won't sustain a marriage. I married my ex-husband because of chemistry. He wasn't saved. My ex-husband turns out was a Satanist. He tried to kill me! For REAL.
I am in love with my boyfriend. I believe he loves the Lord. The thing is he was talking marriage. He struggles with depression & anxiety. I thought we'd marry but he told me his mental health prevented our marriage. Other than that he was wonderful. Any thoughts?
YES! God warned me in a dream not to even date my ex-husband. He also showed me bright red flags. I was an idiot and didn't take heed. Fornication will blind you.
He didn't cheat because you guys weren't being intimate, he cheated because that's who he was... that's the wickedness that was in his heart. Cheating and lying are always a choice. All we can do is pray for these types of people who have such darkness and wickedness in their hearts, and pray for God to help us forgive them and move on to the better He has for us 🙏
I think we mess up by looking for signs and confirmations instead of going to His word first. It took me a while to learn that I didn’t need a bunch of signs and confirmations. God’s word (Bible) was clear. Are you equally yoked? Does he have the capacity to wash you? Is he pursing sexual purity for his own sake? Is he surrendered to God? We have to start going to the word of God and start learning his voice
@@vivianngoato8669 A lot of knowing comes from the time you take getting to know yourself. The self-care and self-love you've shown yourself become a blueprint for understanding how you desire to be treated, Being clear on the vision you want for your own life, and what your values are. The clarity makes it easier to see who is aligned and who is not aligned.
Key takeaways: Position your heart to be ready for the blessings God have for you 💕,Forgive your ex (most importantly yourself) ,let go of the lies and move on. Don’t have any fear ! Best of luck to anyone experiencing a heartbreak or dealing with frustration or disappointment in having to let go of someone you thought was a good fit for you. God is a redeemer and he has beautiful things in store if we believe and let him do his job. Focus on working within and keep yourself busy and do things that make you happy until the special moment when your king is introduced into your life !
You are a wise young woman!Truly gifted in communicating & bringing clarity to the many curveballs,pitfalls & complications of navigating to our God given destinies@@sincerelynellymartin
Wow lie #1 really hit me! I knew I’ve needed to heal from rejection, it’s been a long journey. I don’t need to prove my worth in a relationship. God already found me worthy enough to die for!
Absolutely he claimed to be a god fearing man, but definitely did not treat me as such. This made him disqualified. And in the end I realized I never asked God if he was the one and that was definitely my answer ❤ Amen 🙏🏽
What we need to be mindful of is that the Lord does not give many the full understanding of the prophecy. God gives us part, he speaks in part. Due to this, it is important for us to understand that God is still revealing the story. Indeed the Lord raised up saul, but he proved himself to be unworthy and the Lord tore the Kingdom from him. The Lord knew this would happen and always had David in mind. Do not feel deceived if you went through the journey, God was bringing you through to get you to the end result. Receive your better and receive God's best for your life, and continue on with your destiny in Jesus name
Ladies…. No God,, No Good,, be it single or married,,, so please know God so that you’ll know Good and Holiness ….The right 1 will pour God’s goodness into you (( from the beginning )) ,,, Always remember--In the Beginning ✝️❤️💐
It's way harder when you are sharing a child with a person God did not intend you to be with. Instead of looking for a husband there is more focus inwards to grow to the woman God wants you to be. ❤
My aunt (who shared a child with the wrong person) is now happily married over 15+years with an incredible Christian man. With God nothing is impossible, and her marriage with my uncle is actually what taught me what a true marriage in Christ looks like in real life, they have pushed eachother to be more like Jesus and it’s such a blessing 😊
@@sincerelynellymartinto remarried while the other spouse is still alive is adultery, Luke 16:18 Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
@@MosesHillocks this video was created for single people who met someone they thought they would marry but it didn’t work out. Also, married people can divorce in cases of sexual immorality
@@iiixlovexyuhh oh ok, yes married people can divorce in a case of sexual immorality, but they cannot remarry after divorce while there spouse is still alive if so that is adultery just like the scripture said in Luke:16:18 , is either the person remains single or be reconciled to there spouse by praying and forgiveness, and works out there marriage , that’s why is good to marry in the lord it’s good to marry someone who believes and are in the lord , that’s why it’s good to seek God first and his righteousness before going into marriage because our flesh will lead us the wrong way , but if we have the spirit of God he will lead us the right person to marry, God bless
This is encouraging, I had a devastating broken engagement last year January 2023 and a lot of what you shared resonates the love bombing , deception and deceit , he was ‘perfect’ everything I thought I wanted .Thank God for deliverance and healing !! Looking back I definitely was idolising marriage and saved from a potential awful marriage. Now I’m just continuing keeping my eyes on Christ , the will of God is the safest place to be ,no more counterfeits or compromise ❤I’m now just surrendering my desire for marriage to God and resting .
I thank God everyday for opening my eyes and setting me free from deception, I also had to destroy desires in my heart that were rooted in idols. I’m grateful for the experience because after my ex, more men similar to him came into my life but I was able to spot it right away due to the growth God took me through. I continued to pray scriptures to keep my faith for the marriage He had for me so I wouldn’t settle. God will finish the work He started in you sis, you made the best decision in keep your eyes on Him 🙏🏽🤍
He disqualified himself. I was so confident that he was the one for me. The continued disobedience was the wrecking ball. Amen sis. Amen. I connect and receive a new kingdom husband in Jesus mighty name hallelujah glory be to God. Thank you Lord thank you Abba Father ☦️🕊🤍
I am going to give a short testimony. From 16 to the age of 20 i was addicted to self harm so much that I ended up in an abusive relationship and marriage when i was 19 and 20 i was blessed with co workers that G-d used to help me break that cycle in my life and realize that I was worth fighting for myself i left my abusive husband that i was only married to for 2 months i am 21 now and divorced not just from my ex husband but also from my cycle of self harm and G-d has been healing me and helping me to forgive myself praise be to G-d from who all blessings flow
Wow, praise God for delivering you! You have so much value and worth and I’m so glad the Lord opened your eyes to see how much He loves you 🤍 that’s why having a good community of friends is so important too! The enemy puts people in our life to destroy us, but God places people in our life to help us, what an amazing testimony thank you for sharing 🫶🏽
God will NOT tell you someone is your husband if they are not your husband. The one God truly has for you WILL work out. It’s very likely God removed you from that relationship with his strong hand because he knew more than what you even saw. God knows more than us. And God will not allow his daughter to get into a relationship with someone who will lead her down the wrong path. I was in this same boat where I thought God told me someone was my husband I was so sure. I fasted and prayed and thought I heard yes. If God could say something and then it not be true… then you might as well not trust him. That’s not how God operates. When he says something it is TRUE. And if we THINK he said something and it didn’t happen, then it’s because WE heard wrong. Much love ❤. Btw new subscriber ☺️
Your story is so similar to mine. I’ve been asking God to give me confirmation and this is it. Thanks for sharing your story. I pray that God continues to bless you and your marriage.
Wow!!! This hits it hard and so deeply. I almost feel like something broke off from me on regards to him. My ex-husband. Wow! Lord, forgive me for my past and settling for what is not of You. I surrender and ask You to help me step aside and let You do what only You can do. In Jesus name. Amen
Thank you, Lord, for putting this timely message in front of me this morning. I hesitated to watch this video as I truly believed the guy who hurt me just yesterday was my kingdom spouse until he showed his heart. we were about to go on a holiday together and I was just his housekeeper we never dated even though he asked and kept standing me up. I am about to go on the holiday without him today and I have a feeling of relief. I chose him as my husband before I had seen the lack of fruit of the spirit. I don't feel worthy of a good man until I see he is not a good man. Praise the Lord for your obedience so I could receive this message. God bless you and your beautiful marriage sister.
Definitely needed this reminder. We were in a 4 year relationship and it started to fall apart because of growth issues. When these issues presented themselves, I heard a small voice telling me that it was time to let go. I ignored it for months until the truth started to come out even more. There was a huge lack of honesty on his part and a ton of hidden feelings. The contradictions started to pile up and I finally learned that God told me to let it go and the reason why. There are times I think about him and miss him but in reality im just mourning the image / facade he gave me. I feel so conflicted at times because he is not a bad person. He truly did lack growth and awarness. However, I trust god and Im so grateful god is helping me let go and move foward. Im not willing to risk my destiny on potential or what our relationship could have been. Thank you for this reminder.
I am so happy that I have discovered your channel your teaching has really touched me and listening to a Godly woman who has gone through what I have and has faced similar challenges, you are really speaking to my spirit and helping guide me. May God continue to bless you love ❤️
Girl when you were telling your Story, I had the feeling that you were telling my story. Hearing it from you gave me clarity so much more. I m still în denial about this whole experience. I thought he was my husband, I loved him so much. Handosme, my type, well of financiialy, ambitious, telling me I m his soulmate.. And then started withdrawing all that love bombing. And I was so desociated for a year after the breakup. He went back to his ex
I am so grateful for this testimony. I need this in a PDF document. Thank you for including the WORD and not just sharing a cute story. This video is so powerful. You included great scripture. I’m feeling enlightened. I finished reading Matthew Hussey‘s love life book, but I am also Christian. I have been searching through the Word and meditating on scripture to try to renew my mind for a matter similar to the one that you are explaining. It really hurts to have learned so much about someone, but in the end, I could not deny my heart and my emotions and I really need to sever the attachment for someone who was not choosing me from the spirit of God. The power of the testimony is so healing. I normally skip these kinds of videos, but all that you said was so grounded. I’m very appreciative.
Thank you wow ! That cleared up so much mental confusion!!!! This makes so much more sence to me. Literally this is my story i know i have to now waite on the lord for my "New king" . The last one i truly believe God gave him me and he repeatedly desoyed me out of ignorance, stubbornness, and lack of self control. Praying for him but walking away for better. Its so beyond confuesing when they seem exactly what you prayed for i was stuck for almost 3 yrs . Ended it after much fast , Praying and seeking God. The lord told me he was high end counterfeit. The devil is extremely sneaky. Be wise ladies alot of wolfs in sheeps clothing. Just ask the Lord to reveal who they are and when u see it leave dont even question it. I did and it cost me alot Now living in peace and freedom. Leaning on the Lord. 😊
When she was describing how ‘perfect’ he was when they met, my red flags antennas went off. Men like that are usually the worst. I’m glad you listened to the Holy Spirit within. Thank God for sending you the man he destined for you to be with. I pray you have a blessed and wonderful union. Hope nothing but the best for you dear❤stay blessed 🤗 🥰
It's hard to tell once it's presented. The way the enemy presents it can easily deceive the person in the moment. Once you take a step back and reflect it's like wait .. this is a Counterfeit.
Blessings, very intersting. But what a situation where guy is godly man, but poor, not your type, not a lot in common , age gap , not handsome, not tall, but so much equall spirit,heart attraction , and person came sudenly did anyone had experience
Amen, thank you for sharing your testimony! I really needed this encouragement and had a similar experience! May we all heal and grow from dealing with others who have narcissistic behavior (I.e., love bombing and bread crumbing). There is another king who has a heart after God, the fruit of Spirit, and who genuinely loves you, ladies! 🙏🏾💞
Yes! This is me. I spent 7 years trying to prove my worth to this man. I’m finally on the side of coming to terms with him not being the one. It hurts something awful, but I’m clinging to the promise from God He has someone better suited for me. Thank you 🙏🏼 😊
Thank you so much for this😔💕 I’ve moved on, but I just realized some of my insecurities are showing up heavy now that I like someone new. The enemy has been spewing nonsense ever since I started being fond of this man, and it makes me feel like I haven’t grown and all the lies are true. And it’s frustrating me, because I feel so peaceful when I talk to him, but every other moment outside of that is warfare. It got this bad when I started praying for him…
I am sorry to hear that! When the enemy speaks lies to me, I find scriptures for what GOD said about me and I cast those thoughts down in the name of Jesus and speak what God said to replace them and destroy their power. When the enemy spoke to Jesus in the wilderness Jesus used scripture to battle Him, we must use our swords, God won’t let this trial go to waste let it equip you and prepare you for what is coming 2 Corinthians 10:5 NKJV casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ God bless you sis 🙏🏽
Triggers are signs to take to God and intentionally do some innerwork and personal development in those areas. Dating helps us to see how we have healed or not. This is another reason abstinence is important It helps to allow you space for awareness and responding properly. Dont feel bad. Know that you are growing and it's beautiful that you are aware of some triggers you didnt know before. That's growth.
Holy crap! You found me and yes, this is exactly what’s happening. I hear the Holy Spirit, and He made me a promise while I was in mass. He said “I will bring you back to me with your real husband.”
This is so reassuring. I’m literally experiencing it rn. Same exact scenario. Prayed & prayed and was very specific. He was tall handsome and checked off all my boxes and I even had someone read a man coming to me that described him exactly. But he had so many issues and I did make it a prayer point after a while. He became so disrespectful and dismissive and when I told him I prayed for him & us and he told me not to pray for him I knew I made a mistake. I’m patiently waiting and keeping faith while healing and armoring up and protecting my peace from people who are not sent from God while also checking myself as well. Thank you.
This is all so true. Some things and people come into our lives as “lessons” we try so badly to hold on to them and try to make it work, when it was never meant to. God always have a better plan
I was wondering why this message came to me once you said Let God be God that hit so hard. He literally said that to me at the beginning of this month ! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
"You are not a trash can!" That!!! 💯 on point. The will of the Lord requires obedience but in the obedience is the miracle and the blessing. Hallelujah!!
God's timing is always perfect. Thank you Lord for speaking directly to me through your daughter. Sis all those lies resonate with me. Thank you so much and thank you Jesus for bringing clarity. 🙏
The statement I’m about to make is a door that swings two ways. A lot of times we do things like entering/exiting a relationship and put a God stamp on it when God didn’t approve anything. There are examples where God has destined someone to do a thing and because of their unbelief He has reassigned them or someone else. An example is a Moses. Moses was supposed to take the Children of Israel into the Promised Land but because he didn’t obey God completely, because he valued the approval of those he was chosen to lead over the One Who chose him, he never saw the Promised Land. Then we have David who was appointed to be King and although he committed some deplorable acts like murdering his friend after impregnating his wife, his destiny was fulfilled because of faith which produced a repentant heart and obedience. Restoration is in God’s character just as healing and replacing is. He will do both. Some people believe for restoration when they should believe for healing. Others may believe for healing and replacing when they should believe for restoration and neither sees the promise because they’re contending against the Will of God. My suggestion : Get out of your feelings. Do not walk by how you feel or what you see but walk according to the Word of the Lord concerning you. If you’re not certain if it, ask Him for clarity. Before you ask for clarity ask Him to destroy any altars, covenants, or idols that you’ve erected and whatever He takes away LET IT GO!
You made an excellent point, in my situation, I was praying for restoration when God was calling me to heal and move on. It is 100% important to seek God, it’s hard to move on from someone once you’ve made being with that person an idol. Paul literally tells us to stay away from people who claim to be Christian and act sinful, much less marry them and be unequally yoked 2 Timothy 3:2-5 NKJV For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
@@sincerelynellymartin my ex was a Godly man. God used him to start a new relationship with him(God). It was through him I got to meet some amazing people and know God more. So my ex was Godly. I don't understand what happened or why it did. In the beginning it felt so natural, the second time we broke up I thought God "confirmed" that he was to be my husband. Rn, I'm torn between missing him and moving on to someone else It's so painful
I was targeted by a sweet talking lier. It was difficult to get free for over 10 months. THANK God I am free now and I finally no longer, believe his lies. Excelent testimony, well put with supporting scriptures...❤
Thankyou so much!! But unlike your story, the man I broke up with wasn’t terrible. He didn’t always treat me the best, but the end of our relationship has been my fault too. God wants me to heal and never depend myself physically and emotionally on a boyfriend ever again as I did with my recent ex. We were almost engaged twice, but we should have seen earlier that our relationship only brought us confusion and fear rather than peace and trust.
I noticed you said, " he didn't always treat me goodt but he was a good guy" .paraphrasing. I'm not saying people should be perfect but sometimes ourself esteem is an area God wants us to work on. See ourselves from our identity and deservedness in Christ. I'm glad you came across her video. I'm sure you received tremendous revelation. God Bless.
When I heard her say all the things she did for her ex, I heard people pleasing. As women we often try to make men the man we need. It's never healthy and rarely works. God knew she deserved better, which is why it did not work. Men are supposed to be providers and protectors. We can easily take on a role of mother not wife without realizing it. Messages like this and the voice of healed women are helping our community of women. I love that.💜
Yes definitely!!! I need to work on my self esteem badly. It’s been low for far too long. That was a major reason he was nervous to marry me, because I was constantly feeling bad about myself. I have a lot of work ahead of me.
I was swept off my feet, then 5 yrs later with 3 yrs engaged, I asked him for marriage date , no show , I said I can't keep waiting for this , I'm waiting for this new KING I receive this word ijn
I have been praying for clarity on my situation and I have been blessed by this video as it is absolutely on point for me, literally down to the Bible scripture references! I found myself very confused because I knew for a fact that God spoke to me about that man, and now I understand what was going on. I can now move on knowing that my Father will appoint the right King for me. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤
Thank you so much sharing this video. Earlier this year, I went against the advice of my ENTIRE community and family and started a relationship with a man with two children by two different women. A man who did not know Christ, had nothing and could barely take care of himself. The "saviour complex" and brokenness in me thought if I helped him (lead him to Jesus, allow him to be a part of my world etc.), then he would love me. Needless to say, I eventually learned he was only the desire of my flesh - Saul. The day right after I completed a 21-day prayer and fast, everything blew up and came to an end. I'm grateful but heart broken. This video helps me get the right perspective and start the journey of forgiving myself for accepting less than my value. God bless you Nelly!
That’s crazy ! I lived exactly the same situation some days ago … exactly the same. I feel so ashamed. Your testimony helps a lot, thanks God for this 🙏
I just want to cry. I know this is God. I know he placed this video for me. I have been talking to God. Maybe I’m crazy about wanting things to work out with him. It hurts to let go when you imagined to marry him. Now we have a baby. It hurts to know I didn’t break the cycle that my mom was in. Now I repeated it. I keep doubting God can bring someone better. Three failed relationships. Not sure I have anything else left to give. I’ll keep waiting on God.
You described my now ex husband of 10 years. It’s a demonic spirit - which Saul had. For narcs it’s a Jezebel spirit. I’m am healing from the past and trying to let God lead 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God exposed his wickedness, saved my life & set me free in Jesus Name!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@annaspeaksout2964 yes he did. Got fully baptised and involved in the church. All lies. Fully mocked God - he has no fear of God. God will not be mocked!
This content is very relevant and I had to lean it the hard way. I had pride that blinded me and drove my desire for the “perfect” family. It took some time to really forgive myself and the relationship. I was determined to get results from two people who did NOT have what it takes to be committed to God’s way of loving and relating. We had and did not cultivate Biblical principles or prayer or purpose discovery into our lives. Now, one year post the divorce, I sometimes hurt for our kids. I morn the loss of time that can’t be restored. Pray for me that o anchor my hope in God that o will love and be mov God will
I literally just went through this, thank you for sharing your story.. it's easy to feel dumb in those situations but they know what they are doing. They will have to answer to God.. I still love him and pray for his salvation and deliverance but I am learning and realizing how much I need to heal.. and I know God has someone better for me. But right now I am just gonna do my best to focus on God and myself.
Girl you are in my business!!!!! Don’t do that! 😂 Thank you so much for being obedient because I was going through it but I’m more confident in my decision. This was further confirmation. Thank you! ❤❤
The man I thought was going to be my husband just kicked me out on the street & doesn’t care if he has a kid on the way. Very God fearing 👍🏽 And although I know I am not innocent either I don’t hide my sins and compromise very obvious biblical truths. Women if you find yourself having to cut your Jesus time to have a middle ground, if you find yourself dealing with an immature man, if you find yourself being rebuked for “overdoing it & being too religious” RUN RUN RUN! Save yourself the trouble. Pray for them from a distance. God is going to have the man for you show up ready you won’t have to drag him to listen to God and lead you correctly.
Wow, this is similar to my story. But I will obey God and walk away so that I may walk in the blessings God have for me. I don’t want to perish at the hands of someone that can’t understand true love and respect.
Okay y’all 😂 LITERALLY her second relationship was my first “relationship” I had last year and I can’t stop laughing because everything she is saying is almost exactly to a T to what I went through. I’m in my waiting season now and this video is just reassurance to me from God to keep walking in faith in waiting for my husband. Thank you beautiful for your testimony and God bless all future endeavors you and your husband have ❤
Thank you for the beautiful message. The lie the enemy had on me is that my situation is unique. Thank you for applying the word for me, truly there is nothing new under the sun, God knows it all.
Narcissist get 1000% worse when they become "spiritual" and use the word against you and for their own self righteousness. Lord heal me.
God is a divine matchmaker. God wants a healthy relationship for you. God wants you to be healthy. God has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. God has plans to give you a hope and a future.
Thank you God for your goodness 🙌🏽
Amen… I pray my kingdom spouse comes through…
Amen❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Amen. Overall he want the seek to stay in God.
Amen! ❤
That is exactly how my last partner came in checked off all the boxes, was courting for marriage, our families met each other and spent holidays with each other, we looked at rings. I was praying for God to reveal his true intentions and God showed me. He was using me as a placeholder. I was hurt and still hurt, healing, working on me and ready my true King. I rebuke counterfeits in the name of Jesus. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Yes! No more counterfeits! Praise God for revealing his intentions ahead of time before you got further sucked in 🙌🏽, I know how painful it is to walk away, may God continue to be your strength sis, God started your story and He will finish it with a beautiful ending 🤍
I lived the same history I’m leaving in silence have strength baby girl we are strong. I say thank you to Jesus ♥️
Sorry to hear this
You are not alone sis
The counterfeit always comes when you are vulnerable.
Or when you’re focused. ❤
💯✍🏾🎯
man, finding this now is INSANE...the timing is crazy
Same
Same here!
Same
Same herreeee. At this moment. It is surreal to find this. God reigns in the affairs of men
Same!!!!!!!!
I love this because it shows how waiting to be intimate is protection because if you had slept with him this wouldve been worse, longer and harder to leave him. God bless you
100%! It would’ve caused deep rooted soul ties & more blindness. God is always looking out for our best 🤍
I can relate.. I pray God blesses me for my obedience.. feel like I Been waiting for ever.
Amen sis! Hang on in there. It is hard however, Christ will honor our obedience.
"He would be an everyday prayer point instead of a praying husband" 🙌 i won't settle. Lord i submit to your plan for my love life, forgive me for my stubborn heart and thank you for your protection
Love that! ❤️
Literally so encouraging!!!!
We were engaged and he checked all of my boxes. He wasn’t a Christian but I loved him... Our chemistry and connection was out of this world. But when I would ask God to reveal his heart towards me I would see him betraying me in the worst ways in every dream. I had internal chaos and confusion until I walked away from the relationship and God gave me my peace back.
Phew! So many times God warned people in the Bible through dreams! Praise God you obeyed before things got further 🙌🏽😭 you won’t regret this 🤍
Never marry an unbeliever. Don't even date an unbeliever & alot of them pretend to be saved. Forget about chemistry! That won't sustain a marriage. I married my ex-husband because of chemistry. He wasn't saved. My ex-husband turns out was a Satanist. He tried to kill me! For REAL.
I am in love with my boyfriend. I believe he loves the Lord. The thing is he was talking marriage. He struggles with depression & anxiety. I thought we'd marry but he told me his mental health prevented our marriage. Other than that he was wonderful. Any thoughts?
YES! God warned me in a dream not to even date my ex-husband. He also showed me bright red flags. I was an idiot and didn't take heed. Fornication will blind you.
Please don’t rely in chemistry sis 🙏🏾
He didn't cheat because you guys weren't being intimate, he cheated because that's who he was... that's the wickedness that was in his heart. Cheating and lying are always a choice. All we can do is pray for these types of people who have such darkness and wickedness in their hearts, and pray for God to help us forgive them and move on to the better He has for us 🙏
AND REMEMBER, EVERY ONE (EVERYONE) SAYS they are "CHRISTIAN."
We must truly take EVERYTHING to God for triple confirmation
Amen..
Thanks for this advice
I think we mess up by looking for signs and confirmations instead of going to His word first. It took me a while to learn that I didn’t need a bunch of signs and confirmations. God’s word (Bible) was clear. Are you equally yoked? Does he have the capacity to wash you? Is he pursing sexual purity for his own sake? Is he surrendered to God? We have to start going to the word of God and start learning his voice
'Jesus sacrificed Himself for sinners, so you wouldn't have to.' I love it 😅
You Taught This ENTIRE message..
And ALL OF THIS IS TRUTH.
And unfortunately, the counterfeit often shows up before your true divine partner.
Wow that’s true
Literally!!
So confusing, how do I know🥹 and why
@@vivianngoato8669 A lot of knowing comes from the time you take getting to know yourself. The self-care and self-love you've shown yourself become a blueprint for understanding how you desire to be treated, Being clear on the vision you want for your own life, and what your values are. The clarity makes it easier to see who is aligned and who is not aligned.
"If people reject God why do we think that we can love them enough for them to accept us" this got me🤨wow
Honestly everything resonated with me. I feel like you're talking to me directly
„Let go of what our relationship COULD BE“ .. it’s all so often the Could be
Key takeaways: Position your heart to be ready for the blessings God have for you 💕,Forgive your ex (most importantly yourself) ,let go of the lies and move on. Don’t have any fear ! Best of luck to anyone experiencing a heartbreak or dealing with frustration or disappointment in having to let go of someone you thought was a good fit for you. God is a redeemer and he has beautiful things in store if we believe and let him do his job. Focus on working within and keep yourself busy and do things that make you happy until the special moment when your king is introduced into your life !
Beautiful takeaways, thanks for tuning in 😊🤍
@@sincerelynellymartin 😄 continue to let God use you !
Amen 🙏🏾
You are a wise young woman!Truly gifted in communicating & bringing clarity to the many curveballs,pitfalls & complications of navigating to our God given destinies@@sincerelynellymartin
Wow lie #1 really hit me! I knew I’ve needed to heal from rejection, it’s been a long journey. I don’t need to prove my worth in a relationship. God already found me worthy enough to die for!
I have been divorced for over 15 years , still waiting for this godly man 😊
Absolutely he claimed to be a god fearing man, but definitely did not treat me as such. This made him disqualified. And in the end I realized I never asked God if he was the one and that was definitely my answer ❤ Amen 🙏🏽
What we need to be mindful of is that the Lord does not give many the full understanding of the prophecy. God gives us part, he speaks in part. Due to this, it is important for us to understand that God is still revealing the story. Indeed the Lord raised up saul, but he proved himself to be unworthy and the Lord tore the Kingdom from him. The Lord knew this would happen and always had David in mind. Do not feel deceived if you went through the journey, God was bringing you through to get you to the end result. Receive your better and receive God's best for your life, and continue on with your destiny in Jesus name
Make a video about this 🎉
Amen.!!!!!❤
THIS. WAS. SO. DEEP.
God is so kind to me to lead me to this video.... tears in my eues out of gratitude to Abba Father right now. Thank u Lord ❤
Ladies…. No God,, No Good,, be it single or married,,, so please know God so that you’ll know Good and Holiness ….The right 1 will pour God’s goodness into you (( from the beginning )) ,,, Always remember--In the Beginning ✝️❤️💐
It's way harder when you are sharing a child with a person God did not intend you to be with. Instead of looking for a husband there is more focus inwards to grow to the woman God wants you to be. ❤
My aunt (who shared a child with the wrong person) is now happily married over 15+years with an incredible Christian man. With God nothing is impossible, and her marriage with my uncle is actually what taught me what a true marriage in Christ looks like in real life, they have pushed eachother to be more like Jesus and it’s such a blessing 😊
Preach Nelly! There is nothing our God can not do!
@@sincerelynellymartinto remarried while the other spouse is still alive is adultery,
Luke 16:18
Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.
@@MosesHillocks this video was created for single people who met someone they thought they would marry but it didn’t work out. Also, married people can divorce in cases of sexual immorality
@@iiixlovexyuhh oh ok, yes married people can divorce in a case of sexual immorality, but they cannot remarry after divorce while there spouse is still alive if so that is adultery just like the scripture said in Luke:16:18 , is either the person remains single or be reconciled to there spouse by praying and forgiveness, and works out there marriage , that’s why is good to marry in the lord it’s good to marry someone who believes and are in the lord , that’s why it’s good to seek God first and his righteousness before going into marriage because our flesh will lead us the wrong way , but if we have the spirit of God he will lead us the right person to marry, God bless
Read "God is a Matchmaker" by Derek Prince
And, this is why I don't believe in wasting time with boyfriends and girlfriends, and God said that's my husband.
Cousin Janice!🙋🏾♀️
This is encouraging, I had a devastating broken engagement last year January 2023 and a lot of what you shared resonates the love bombing , deception and deceit , he was ‘perfect’ everything I thought I wanted .Thank God for deliverance and healing !! Looking back I definitely was idolising marriage and saved from a potential awful marriage. Now I’m just continuing keeping my eyes on Christ , the will of God is the safest place to be ,no more counterfeits or compromise ❤I’m now just surrendering my desire for marriage to God and resting .
I thank God everyday for opening my eyes and setting me free from deception, I also had to destroy desires in my heart that were rooted in idols. I’m grateful for the experience because after my ex, more men similar to him came into my life but I was able to spot it right away due to the growth God took me through. I continued to pray scriptures to keep my faith for the marriage He had for me so I wouldn’t settle. God will finish the work He started in you sis, you made the best decision in keep your eyes on Him 🙏🏽🤍
@@sincerelynellymartin Amen ❤️God bless you & thank you ❤️
Thats what happened to me
@ I'm so sorry to hear this 🤍I pray all is well with you now and that God has restored you x
He disqualified himself. I was so confident that he was the one for me. The continued disobedience was the wrecking ball. Amen sis. Amen. I connect and receive a new kingdom husband in Jesus mighty name hallelujah glory be to God. Thank you Lord thank you Abba Father ☦️🕊🤍
I am going to give a short testimony. From 16 to the age of 20 i was addicted to self harm so much that I ended up in an abusive relationship and marriage when i was 19 and 20 i was blessed with co workers that G-d used to help me break that cycle in my life and realize that I was worth fighting for myself i left my abusive husband that i was only married to for 2 months i am 21 now and divorced not just from my ex husband but also from my cycle of self harm and G-d has been healing me and helping me to forgive myself praise be to G-d from who all blessings flow
Wow, praise God for delivering you! You have so much value and worth and I’m so glad the Lord opened your eyes to see how much He loves you 🤍 that’s why having a good community of friends is so important too! The enemy puts people in our life to destroy us, but God places people in our life to help us, what an amazing testimony thank you for sharing 🫶🏽
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@@Starsunshine777 I'm a Messianic Jew and out of reverence that's how we spell G-d
God will NOT tell you someone is your husband if they are not your husband. The one God truly has for you WILL work out. It’s very likely God removed you from that relationship with his strong hand because he knew more than what you even saw. God knows more than us. And God will not allow his daughter to get into a relationship with someone who will lead her down the wrong path. I was in this same boat where I thought God told me someone was my husband I was so sure. I fasted and prayed and thought I heard yes. If God could say something and then it not be true… then you might as well not trust him. That’s not how God operates. When he says something it is TRUE. And if we THINK he said something and it didn’t happen, then it’s because WE heard wrong. Much love ❤. Btw new subscriber ☺️
Agree true
Wow perfectly said-He shouldnt be a prayer point but a prayer partner or something like that✝️✝️🔥🔥🔥
Sis went off at 27:08! God has used you mightily with this girl! My feelings while watching this 🫢🫣🙄🥺🥹🤣😭♥️!
Your emotional progression cracked me up 🤣🤣💕
Your story is so similar to mine. I’ve been asking God to give me confirmation and this is it. Thanks for sharing your story. I pray that God continues to bless you and your marriage.
"Maybe you needed to break up, to work on yourselves, to come back together again when you're healed"
This is a full sermon. Thank you Jesus for fresh revelation 🙌
You don’t understand how much I needed this.
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Wow!!! This hits it hard and so deeply. I almost feel like something broke off from me on regards to him. My ex-husband. Wow! Lord, forgive me for my past and settling for what is not of You. I surrender and ask You to help me step aside and let You do what only You can do. In Jesus name. Amen
A man’s heart posture is more important that the physical things that he has. That stuck with me deep!! Thanks for sharing your testimony!! 🎉
Thank you, Lord, for putting this timely message in front of me this morning.
I hesitated to watch this video as I truly believed the guy who hurt me just yesterday was my kingdom spouse until he showed his heart. we were about to go on a holiday together and I was just his housekeeper we never dated even though he asked and kept standing me up. I am about to go on the holiday without him today and I have a feeling of relief. I chose him as my husband before I had seen the lack of fruit of the spirit. I don't feel worthy of a good man until I see he is not a good man. Praise the Lord for your obedience so I could receive this message. God bless you and your beautiful marriage sister.
Definitely needed this reminder. We were in a 4 year relationship and it started to fall apart because of growth issues. When these issues presented themselves, I heard a small voice telling me that it was time to let go. I ignored it for months until the truth started to come out even more. There was a huge lack of honesty on his part and a ton of hidden feelings. The contradictions started to pile up and I finally learned that God told me to let it go and the reason why. There are times I think about him and miss him but in reality im just mourning the image / facade he gave me. I feel so conflicted at times because he is not a bad person. He truly did lack growth and awarness. However, I trust god and Im so grateful god is helping me let go and move foward. Im not willing to risk my destiny on potential or what our relationship could have been. Thank you for this reminder.
I am so happy that I have discovered your channel your teaching has really touched me and listening to a Godly woman who has gone through what I have and has faced similar challenges, you are really speaking to my spirit and helping guide me. May God continue to bless you love ❤️
Girl when you were telling your Story, I had the feeling that you were telling my story. Hearing it from you gave me clarity so much more. I m still în denial about this whole experience. I thought he was my husband, I loved him so much. Handosme, my type, well of financiialy, ambitious, telling me I m his soulmate.. And then started withdrawing all that love bombing. And I was so desociated for a year after the breakup. He went back to his ex
I am so grateful for this testimony. I need this in a PDF document. Thank you for including the WORD and not just sharing a cute story. This video is so powerful. You included great scripture. I’m feeling enlightened. I finished reading Matthew Hussey‘s love life book, but I am also Christian. I have been searching through the Word and meditating on scripture to try to renew my mind for a matter similar to the one that you are explaining. It really hurts to have learned so much about someone, but in the end, I could not deny my heart and my emotions and I really need to sever the attachment for someone who was not choosing me from the spirit of God. The power of the testimony is so healing. I normally skip these kinds of videos, but all that you said was so grounded. I’m very appreciative.
Obedience is better then sacrifice
Thank you wow ! That cleared up so much mental confusion!!!! This makes so much more sence to me. Literally this is my story i know i have to now waite on the lord for my "New king" . The last one i truly believe God gave him me and he repeatedly desoyed me out of ignorance, stubbornness, and lack of self control. Praying for him but walking away for better.
Its so beyond confuesing when they seem exactly what you prayed for i was stuck for almost 3 yrs . Ended it after much fast , Praying and seeking God.
The lord told me he was high end counterfeit. The devil is extremely sneaky. Be wise ladies alot of wolfs in sheeps clothing. Just ask the Lord to reveal who they are and when u see it leave dont even question it. I did and it cost me alot
Now living in peace and freedom. Leaning on the Lord. 😊
When she was describing how ‘perfect’ he was when they met, my red flags antennas went off. Men like that are usually the worst.
I’m glad you listened to the Holy Spirit within.
Thank God for sending you the man he destined for you to be with. I pray you have a blessed and wonderful union. Hope nothing but the best for you dear❤stay blessed 🤗 🥰
Yes, I praise God so much for leading me to such a wonderful man 🙏🏽 thank you sis 🤗
It's hard to tell once it's presented. The way the enemy presents it can easily deceive the person in the moment. Once you take a step back and reflect it's like wait .. this is a Counterfeit.
@@je39981 100% I was so deceived and when the truth hit me, it hit HARD
@@sincerelynellymartin same same 😩
Blessings, very intersting. But what a situation where guy is godly man, but poor, not your type, not a lot in common , age gap , not handsome, not tall, but so much equall spirit,heart attraction , and person came sudenly did anyone had experience
Amen, thank you for sharing your testimony! I really needed this encouragement and had a similar experience! May we all heal and grow from dealing with others who have narcissistic behavior (I.e., love bombing and bread crumbing). There is another king who has a heart after God, the fruit of Spirit, and who genuinely loves you, ladies! 🙏🏾💞
Yes! It takes strength to walk away and lean into what God has for us, but it is so worth it ❤️
It’s really hard, going through the same thing! But trusting God that he’s plan, timing and right person is worth me letting go of this counterfeit.
Yes! This is me. I spent 7 years trying to prove my worth to this man. I’m finally on the side of coming to terms with him not being the one. It hurts something awful, but I’m clinging to the promise from God He has someone better suited for me. Thank you 🙏🏼 😊
Thank you so much for this😔💕 I’ve moved on, but I just realized some of my insecurities are showing up heavy now that I like someone new. The enemy has been spewing nonsense ever since I started being fond of this man, and it makes me feel like I haven’t grown and all the lies are true. And it’s frustrating me, because I feel so peaceful when I talk to him, but every other moment outside of that is warfare. It got this bad when I started praying for him…
I am sorry to hear that! When the enemy speaks lies to me, I find scriptures for what GOD said about me and I cast those thoughts down in the name of Jesus and speak what God said to replace them and destroy their power. When the enemy spoke to Jesus in the wilderness Jesus used scripture to battle Him, we must use our swords, God won’t let this trial go to waste let it equip you and prepare you for what is coming
2 Corinthians 10:5 NKJV
casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ
God bless you sis 🙏🏽
Triggers are signs to take to God and intentionally do some innerwork and personal development in those areas.
Dating helps us to see how we have healed or not.
This is another reason abstinence is important
It helps to allow you space for awareness and responding properly.
Dont feel bad.
Know that you are growing and it's beautiful that you are aware of some triggers you didnt know before.
That's growth.
Holy crap! You found me and yes, this is exactly what’s happening. I hear the Holy Spirit, and He made me a promise while I was in mass. He said “I will bring you back to me with your real husband.”
A God fearing man fears God, if he shows no sign of fearing God fear him and run far far away.
I can’t stop crying this video spoke directly to me I thank God that I came across it ❤
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This is so reassuring. I’m literally experiencing it rn. Same exact scenario. Prayed & prayed and was very specific. He was tall handsome and checked off all my boxes and I even had someone read a man coming to me that described him exactly. But he had so many issues and I did make it a prayer point after a while. He became so disrespectful and dismissive and when I told him I prayed for him & us and he told me not to pray for him I knew I made a mistake. I’m patiently waiting and keeping faith while healing and armoring up and protecting my peace from people who are not sent from God while also checking myself as well. Thank you.
This is all so true. Some things and people come into our lives as “lessons” we try so badly to hold on to them and try to make it work, when it was never meant to. God always have a better plan
Girl you made this video for meeeeeeee. Wowwwwwwwww. Our stories are so strikingly similar, it’s uncanny. Wow. I’m shook.
I was wondering why this message came to me once you said Let God be God that hit so hard. He literally said that to me at the beginning of this month ! 🙌🏽🙏🏽
"You are not a trash can!" That!!! 💯 on point. The will of the Lord requires obedience but in the obedience is the miracle and the blessing. Hallelujah!!
God's timing is always perfect. Thank you Lord for speaking directly to me through your daughter. Sis all those lies resonate with me. Thank you so much and thank you Jesus for bringing clarity. 🙏
I once believed all those lies too, praise God for His light bringing truth, God bless you sis 🤍
He is my husband and he’s coming back God already confirm it he told me to wait on him I trust God’s promise’s God don’t change and he’s faithful
God bless you 🫶🏽
How'd God confirm it though? I thought my ex was going to be my husband because I thought God confirmed it as well
But apparently I was wrong
The statement I’m about to make is a door that swings two ways. A lot of times we do things like entering/exiting a relationship and put a God stamp on it when God didn’t approve anything. There are examples where God has destined someone to do a thing and because of their unbelief He has reassigned them or someone else. An example is a Moses. Moses was supposed to take the Children of Israel into the Promised Land but because he didn’t obey God completely, because he valued the approval of those he was chosen to lead over the One Who chose him, he never saw the Promised Land. Then we have David who was appointed to be King and although he committed some deplorable acts like murdering his friend after impregnating his wife, his destiny was fulfilled because of faith which produced a repentant heart and obedience. Restoration is in God’s character just as healing and replacing is. He will do both. Some people believe for restoration when they should believe for healing. Others may believe for healing and replacing when they should believe for restoration and neither sees the promise because they’re contending against the Will of God.
My suggestion : Get out of your feelings. Do not walk by how you feel or what you see but walk according to the Word of the Lord concerning you. If you’re not certain if it, ask Him for clarity. Before you ask for clarity ask Him to destroy any altars, covenants, or idols that you’ve erected and whatever He takes away LET IT GO!
You made an excellent point, in my situation, I was praying for restoration when God was calling me to heal and move on. It is 100% important to seek God, it’s hard to move on from someone once you’ve made being with that person an idol.
Paul literally tells us to stay away from people who claim to be Christian and act sinful, much less marry them and be unequally yoked
2 Timothy 3:2-5 NKJV
For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
@@sincerelynellymartin my ex was a Godly man. God used him to start a new relationship with him(God). It was through him I got to meet some amazing people and know God more. So my ex was Godly. I don't understand what happened or why it did. In the beginning it felt so natural, the second time we broke up I thought God "confirmed" that he was to be my husband.
Rn, I'm torn between missing him and moving on to someone else
It's so painful
This video has me shouting!!! Everything you said was sooo so good. Amazing amazing amazing video. Loved it.
I was targeted by a sweet talking lier. It was difficult to get free for over 10 months. THANK God I am free now and I finally no longer, believe his lies. Excelent testimony, well put with supporting scriptures...❤
Thankyou so much!! But unlike your story, the man I broke up with wasn’t terrible. He didn’t always treat me the best, but the end of our relationship has been my fault too. God wants me to heal and never depend myself physically and emotionally on a boyfriend ever again as I did with my recent ex. We were almost engaged twice, but we should have seen earlier that our relationship only brought us confusion and fear rather than peace and trust.
Taking accountability for your mistakes is a great sign of growth! God will honor you leaning and relying on Him from now on 🤍
I noticed you said,
" he didn't always treat me goodt but he was a good guy"
.paraphrasing.
I'm not saying people should be perfect but sometimes ourself esteem is an area God wants us to work on.
See ourselves from our identity and deservedness in Christ.
I'm glad you came across her video.
I'm sure you received tremendous revelation.
God Bless.
When I heard her say all the things she did for her ex, I heard people pleasing.
As women we often try to make men the man we need.
It's never healthy and rarely works.
God knew she deserved better, which is why it did not work.
Men are supposed to be providers and protectors.
We can easily take on a role of mother not wife without realizing it.
Messages like this and the voice of healed women are helping our community of women.
I love that.💜
Yes definitely!!! I need to work on my self esteem badly. It’s been low for far too long. That was a major reason he was nervous to marry me, because I was constantly feeling bad about myself. I have a lot of work ahead of me.
@@bigmomma3265 I'm sure there are so many amazing things about you. Ask God to show you your greatness.
I was swept off my feet, then 5 yrs later with 3 yrs engaged, I asked him for marriage date , no show , I said I can't keep waiting for this , I'm waiting for this new KING I receive this word ijn
I have been praying for clarity on my situation and I have been blessed by this video as it is absolutely on point for me, literally down to the Bible scripture references! I found myself very confused because I knew for a fact that God spoke to me about that man, and now I understand what was going on. I can now move on knowing that my Father will appoint the right King for me. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤
Thank you so much sharing this video. Earlier this year, I went against the advice of my ENTIRE community and family and started a relationship with a man with two children by two different women. A man who did not know Christ, had nothing and could barely take care of himself. The "saviour complex" and brokenness in me thought if I helped him (lead him to Jesus, allow him to be a part of my world etc.), then he would love me. Needless to say, I eventually learned he was only the desire of my flesh - Saul. The day right after I completed a 21-day prayer and fast, everything blew up and came to an end. I'm grateful but heart broken. This video helps me get the right perspective and start the journey of forgiving myself for accepting less than my value. God bless you Nelly!
Your channel came at thr right time of my life...14+ years of marriage gone just like that but thsnk Gif for my nre King! God bless you❤
That’s crazy ! I lived exactly the same situation some days ago … exactly the same. I feel so ashamed. Your testimony helps a lot, thanks God for this 🙏
I just want to cry. I know this is God. I know he placed this video for me. I have been talking to God. Maybe I’m crazy about wanting things to work out with him. It hurts to let go when you imagined to marry him. Now we have a baby. It hurts to know I didn’t break the cycle that my mom was in. Now I repeated it. I keep doubting God can bring someone better. Three failed relationships. Not sure I have anything else left to give. I’ll keep waiting on God.
You described my now ex husband of 10 years. It’s a demonic spirit - which Saul had. For narcs it’s a Jezebel spirit. I’m am healing from the past and trying to let God lead 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God exposed his wickedness, saved my life & set me free in Jesus Name!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Did your ex husband claim to be a Christian?
@@annaspeaksout2964 yes he did. Got fully baptised and involved in the church. All lies. Fully mocked God - he has no fear of God. God will not be mocked!
@@yvonnelee3712 wow, I'm sorry
This content is very relevant and I had to lean it the hard way. I had pride that blinded me and drove my desire for the “perfect” family.
It took some time to really forgive myself and the relationship. I was determined to get results from two people who did NOT have what it takes to be committed to God’s way of loving and relating. We had and did not cultivate Biblical principles or prayer or purpose discovery into our lives.
Now, one year post the divorce, I sometimes hurt for our kids. I morn the loss of time that can’t be restored. Pray for me that o anchor my hope in God that o will love and be mov
God will
Girl this is such a good word!! Thank you for this 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I literally just went through this, thank you for sharing your story.. it's easy to feel dumb in those situations but they know what they are doing. They will have to answer to God.. I still love him and pray for his salvation and deliverance but I am learning and realizing how much I need to heal.. and I know God has someone better for me. But right now I am just gonna do my best to focus on God and myself.
God is doing this shifting in my life right now. Yall keep praying for me to move forward amen 🙏🏾. Thank you
Nothing is a coincidence. Just like coming across this video. Thank you for your obedience
The lie that i can not do better. This crippled me for too long. And thank you for sharing your story with us. May God bless your union and family.
Girl you are in my business!!!!! Don’t do that! 😂 Thank you so much for being obedient because I was going through it but I’m more confident in my decision. This was further confirmation. Thank you! ❤❤
I like the way you used King Saul's story.Thx!❤
This was so much confirmation for me! This video just popped up after I was talking to God ! Thank you Lord for this video ❤
Praise God 🙌🏽
oh my Lord. This video is a confirmation! Thank you so much for sharing!!!! May God Bless you!❤
You have no idea! EVERYTHING you said even the examples of David and Saul the Lord gave me! Thank you so much for sharing your testimony ❤
I how God speaks to each one of us individually 🤍 He truly cares
This is powerful, this is confirmation to what God has been speaking to me that I let go. Keep ministering God’s word. Blessing!❤
This has confirmed what the Lord has revealed about my situation. I got so much clarity from this. God bless you.
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The man I thought was going to be my husband just kicked me out on the street & doesn’t care if he has a kid on the way. Very God fearing 👍🏽
And although I know I am not innocent either I don’t hide my sins and compromise very obvious biblical truths. Women if you find yourself having to cut your Jesus time to have a middle ground, if you find yourself dealing with an immature man, if you find yourself being rebuked for “overdoing it & being too religious” RUN RUN RUN!
Save yourself the trouble. Pray for them from a distance. God is going to have the man for you show up ready you won’t have to drag him to listen to God and lead you correctly.
This video was definitely answered prayer. Thank you so much for this.
Wow, this is similar to my story. But I will obey God and walk away so that I may walk in the blessings God have for me. I don’t want to perish at the hands of someone that can’t understand true love and respect.
A new and BETTER King! God is truly a rewarder. Never give up ladies, trust the MOST HIGH GOD!!
I’ve had my counterfeit experience and I can say with all honesty that I’ve went through exactly what she explained her down to the small details
Okay y’all 😂 LITERALLY her second relationship was my first “relationship” I had last year and I can’t stop laughing because everything she is saying is almost exactly to a T to what I went through. I’m in my waiting season now and this video is just reassurance to me from God to keep walking in faith in waiting for my husband. Thank you beautiful for your testimony and God bless all future endeavors you and your husband have ❤
Such an amazing testimony! Congratulations and thank you for your transparency!
Ive been with him for 20yrs and it’s hard to let go and our children are hurting too. I gave everything and build him up.
SIS PREACH IM SPEECHLESS. 😮💨
The amount of times my jaw dropped because your words allowed me to have realizations… thank you for sharing your testimony ❤️
I’m so happy this reached you 💕
Thank you for the beautiful message. The lie the enemy had on me is that my situation is unique. Thank you for applying the word for me, truly there is nothing new under the sun, God knows it all.
“I can’t help it”! This video was so helpful and I just felt God so gently correcting my heart through it😢 bless you💜
This woman speaks truth and I’m touched
Thank you Jesus for sending me this message and this channel❤
Girl you just set me straight
This is soooooooo timely! Wow! Guuuurl! The Lord really sent you!
I’m glad my testimony is able to help 🫶🏽
I’m glad my testimony is able to help 🫶🏽
Thank you for your testimony. Healing from a narcissistic relationship.
Just as your username says, I pray God restores your soul from all damage and make you whole 🙏🏽🤍
@@sincerelynellymartin Amen🙏🏾
Needed this 💗💗
This is EXACTLY what I needed right now, thank you for making this video!