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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @SamuelLee-kc3rh
    @SamuelLee-kc3rh 3 дня назад +187

    Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other.

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 3 дня назад +2

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

    • @SamuelLee-kc3rh
      @SamuelLee-kc3rh 3 дня назад +2

      I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 3 дня назад +2

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

    • @SamuelLee-kc3rh
      @SamuelLee-kc3rh 3 дня назад +3

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 3 дня назад +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @beverlykabz5429
    @beverlykabz5429 4 дня назад +17

    When love feels distant, rest assured that is not love. You are busy running after an emotionally unavailable person. Someone who loves you will be PRESENT, you will never have to guess their motives as they will make their intentions plain.

  • @piscesmoon0909
    @piscesmoon0909 8 дней назад +72

    I chased after those who ran or distant themselves. I tried my best to pulled them back. Until I understand that the one who I need to fix, to save is only myself. Not them. If they want to go let them go.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +11

      Good for you. Yeah empaths may attract narcs until we have healed. What’s talked about in the video is mainly done by narcs as a tactic I’ve found. People who DO care a lot generally show it and DONT distance themselves or if they do , they will just explain their reasons after a while and people then part in peace. Stay strong and know your worth and find more peace and self love and healing , and you WILL eventually attract someone healed and an empath like yourself as I did. Stay blessed love and light ❤

    • @piscesmoon0909
      @piscesmoon0909 7 дней назад

      ​@@lisaz4411, I've dealt with one. A person who does never exist or a person with thousand of masks till I don't know who I've been dealing with. But there's always a blessing in everything. The pain they caused has helped me grow.
      Thanks for your kind words, greatly appreciate it. 🙏🏻

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад +4

      Correct, don't run after mad people, run away from them. They hide from you because they love you too much!! This can only happen with a victim of AVOIDANT PERSONALITY DISORDER.(APD). If you can't handle the madness, RUN😅

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 5 дней назад +1

      Yes be aware of dismisive avoidant they need to fix themselves and you need to fix yourself and than you can go on.

    • @JPcommunicates
      @JPcommunicates 4 дня назад +2

      You chase because you've got an anxious attachment style. It's your conditioned behaviour what acts here. You can change that by focusing on yourself, on your needs and desires. Find joy with yourself.

  • @busybeelearning7043
    @busybeelearning7043 7 дней назад +36

    The book “Attached” answers and explains all these questions. That’s not love. It’s toxic. It’s ruminating on the fantasy of what we have made them to be. Those people have deep unresolved childhood trauma. They need counseling. And we also hang unto them bc of the unresolved childhood trauma of rejection and abandonment. We also need counseling :) One needs to move on, to healthier green pastures with someone that would really love us to stay. No more games. No more drama! Yay!!! 🎉😊

    • @michelleemmanuel2272
      @michelleemmanuel2272 7 дней назад +4

      True

    • @JPcommunicates
      @JPcommunicates 4 дня назад +1

      Books can't tell you anything about human behaviour. Humans can by interacting with them, by listening attentively. I seriously wonder how many people are actually able to listen.

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 4 дня назад +1

      Exactly

    • @teresaw4524
      @teresaw4524 11 часов назад

      ​@JPcommunicates but the book was written by a human, about human interactions

  • @michelerigney2323
    @michelerigney2323 11 дней назад +27

    I understand this as I had childhood trauma that needed healing….time and patience is needed to develop emotional intelligence….true love will always prevail….♥️🙏

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +3

      Good for you. Yeah empaths may attract narcs until we have healed. What’s talked about in the video is mainly done by narcs as a tactic I’ve found. People who DO care a lot generally show it and DONT distance themselves or if they do , they will just explain their reasons after a while and people then part in peace. Stay strong and know your worth and find more peace and self love and healing , and you WILL eventually attract someone healed and an empath like yourself as I did. Stay blessed love and light ❤

    • @michelerigney2323
      @michelerigney2323 7 дней назад +1

      @@lisaz4411 Thank you….all the best to you..

  • @annamassek9064
    @annamassek9064 11 дней назад +53

    I trust that when he is ready he will come to me.❤❤❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +5

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @SharieFoster
      @SharieFoster 6 дней назад +4

      ... and if you are still available and interested in a relationship with him, you can have one 🥰💞❤ Wishing you both the gift of LOVE. Meanwhile, don't stop living your best NOW💝💖

    • @SageRomen
      @SageRomen 4 дня назад +2

      FACTZ 🎉

    • @aatkinson1100
      @aatkinson1100 4 дня назад +1

      My experience 4 times giving them space ended in them getting married to someone else but wanting to stay good friends. If they cannot communicate dont waste your time or emotions..they're not....find someone that can.

    • @luanapaula8039
      @luanapaula8039 4 дня назад

      Same here 🙏🏽

  • @matcha-e7b
    @matcha-e7b 7 дней назад +20

    narcs, avoidants & emotionally unavailable ppl do this, they're punishing you for the hatred towards their mothers.

  • @carolf81
    @carolf81 7 дней назад +16

    I believe there are a lot of emotionally immature people out there. It´s so unfair to leave someone out in the cold. Say something, it doesn´t matter. Otherwise it looks more like a mind game of some sort.

  • @teodoraraymundacapili3810
    @teodoraraymundacapili3810 День назад +1

    This message gave me the answer to my questions and Hope. It gave me the courage to face the challenges I am facing at the present time.Thank God I found it. Gpd bless you🙏

  • @michellenichols2600
    @michellenichols2600 12 дней назад +30

    Would be so wonderful if one could communicate with the other!!💘💘💘💘💘💘💘🕊🕊

    • @anndavis2920
      @anndavis2920 10 дней назад

      I dont understand people cant/wont speak up, tell the truth, be genuine, honest - i think they have negative mental issues or No brain at all

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @michellenichols2600
      @michellenichols2600 6 часов назад

      @@lisaz4411 Thank you!!🩵🦋

  • @Nzia-zq2dm
    @Nzia-zq2dm 4 дня назад +3

    The one who ignores you is the one who doesn't love you. As simple as that. Pure reciprocal love is fluid and easy to feel not complicated 🤧

  • @giannulapanayiotou1774
    @giannulapanayiotou1774 6 дней назад +10

    I don't believe all these.When you love someone and the feelings are mutual you don't distance yourself!!

  • @AhmadThabet-qw1kc
    @AhmadThabet-qw1kc 2 дня назад +1

    This video is so deep in analysis of true love and affections, I am currently experiencing this situation and I believe very strongly that when my partner is moving away; she is giving herself time to test my true feelings, evaluate the whole situation and that I have to be ready to get back at any time with more feelings and better achievements of personal growth. I just need more patience and perseverance. She said "I am currently closing my whats App, as I need more time to pursue my current job duties and focus on my university studies". Many Thanks for your positive video.

  • @ArgiroKekou-t8u
    @ArgiroKekou-t8u 8 дней назад +18

    its a matter of character..pesonally,i always attracted narcissists who would give me the cold shoulder now and then,its a tactic they have...and i have been with normal men too,completely different than narcissists,being an empath gets you late in love matters,i never regret my choices though,i needed to make them then and now make better choices and feel confident

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +5

      Good for you. Yeah empaths may attract narcs until we have healed. What’s talked about in the video is mainly done by narcs as a tactic I’ve found. People who DO care a lot generally show it and DONT distance themselves or if they do , they will just explain their reasons after a while and people then part in peace. Stay strong and know your worth and find more peace and self love and healing , and you WILL eventually attract someone healed and an empath like yourself as I did. Stay blessed love and light ❤

    • @amiratilly5900
      @amiratilly5900 7 дней назад

      Wrong upload

  • @bigtatsu
    @bigtatsu 6 дней назад +5

    My sweet baby who’s an Aquarius is doing the pull back for almost 2 weeks now but I love her so much that I’m willing to give her the space she needs.

  • @MerceditaMallari535
    @MerceditaMallari535 6 дней назад +9

    If you really love the person ,distancing ,ignoring nd keeping silent wont help on the other side ,bcoz you make them feel to ask why?the best way is to communicate if you are scared or worrying about yourself ,so sad that some ppl chose to be distant or ignoring the person they love that may feels confusing on the other part nd maybe they're not good enough too ..really so sad nd confusing nd becomes toxic not helpful nd not healthy realationship

    • @DARKMADNESS666
      @DARKMADNESS666 2 дня назад

      So the victim is the person being ignored?? That's shit is a 2 way road. They have as much power to get in contact as anyone

  • @beyourself9162
    @beyourself9162 3 дня назад +2

    Without vulnerability no love. I would never pick a partner who fears to be vulnerable….

  • @rinkeypal5172
    @rinkeypal5172 4 дня назад +2

    I believe if he loves me he will come.. if he loves me he will never leave me
    If he doesn't...I would rather let him go ..

  • @RosannaMagora
    @RosannaMagora 2 дня назад +1

    Yes it's true 100 percent agree ❤

  • @TenCommandments10
    @TenCommandments10 8 дней назад +11

    The wisdom of AI seems like it wants people to stay in silent treatment. Toxic behaviour and lack of communication is something that needs attention. Seek counselling and learn that love is kind.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +3

      Exactly 👍 totally agree that it’s abuse this silent treatment If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @mercywangeci8294
      @mercywangeci8294 7 дней назад

      This is actually how narcissist will behave and expect you to be understanding..​@lisaz4411

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад +1

      True observation from tencommandments. Accurate response from Liz. I dare add, this behaviour described in the narrative, is of a victim of AVOIDANT PERSONALITY DISORDER(APD) which, in some cases, overlaps with Covert narcissism. If you can't handle the madness, RUN 😅😅

  • @emilyndembe6300
    @emilyndembe6300 12 дней назад +26

    While you're ignoring....WE move

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 9 дней назад +1

      Indeed

    • @kshrvpz1587
      @kshrvpz1587 9 дней назад +8

      And that's why depressed people Is scared to get close, IT's not ignoring sometimes, is anxiety, fear AMD more

    • @belgicaconsuegra3721
      @belgicaconsuegra3721 8 дней назад

      I thought this was a cute and funny comment. 😄

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      Good for you always know your worth and move on. If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @cindyrowlands716
      @cindyrowlands716 7 дней назад

      😂😂😂

  • @anastasiamartynova6863
    @anastasiamartynova6863 11 дней назад +26

    So… constantly leaving on read, especially when sensitive topics are brought up or questions are asked, ignoring when you need their insight the most, postponing a talk, and it’s all while entertaining other women and having fun with them… Have some respect for people and for yourself first of all. And we will ignore from now on out of respect for ourselves.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      Exactly good for you. Know your worth and move on. I don’t agree with this video. ❤. If people love you they will show it , and if they are good even Jd unhealed , they will distance but explain that they are not ready for commitment but they will NOT do the awful things you just mentioned. I had someone we did as you said and worse played mind games. He turned out to be a covert narcissist. One needs to know ones worth and move and find more self love and then you will attract someone better worthy of you. Love and light ❤

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад

      😂😂😂forgive the robot, it DID NOT FEEL what it was reading.

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 4 дня назад

      You are so damned right

    • @edgreen8140
      @edgreen8140 3 дня назад +1

      Rule out f60.81 if left on read a ll tge time.

  • @MariaBilly-tj5xs
    @MariaBilly-tj5xs 9 дней назад +4

    Thankyou for sharing the speech I'm blessed 🙏

  • @lisaz4411
    @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +5

    If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @MerceditaMallari535
    @MerceditaMallari535 День назад +1

    Yes im really hurt of sudfenly feeling ignored bcoz i dont if i did smthing wrong ,then the best ever is to communicate always about vulnerabilty or trust ,bcoz i myself feels scared nd worried too but i want to communicate not to hurt the person who trusts nd loves me bcoz i respect you nd trust you thats why i yrust you to say what i feel

  • @lauragiammarino7630
    @lauragiammarino7630 12 дней назад +8

    Thanks a lot ❤❤❤ pretty clear for me ... difficult sometimes , but this feeling worths !

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @DorothyMoore-y6d
    @DorothyMoore-y6d 9 дней назад +3

    Thank you for sharing

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @JavedJacob
    @JavedJacob 11 дней назад +4

    Agree with you Dear Heart ♥ touching wording and thoughts 💭 i love 😍 it ❤😊

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +2

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @stef2432
    @stef2432 5 дней назад +2

    Going through something similar… someone who was a light in my life, after an idyllic summer of reciprocal inspiration, slammed the door in the most unexpected way, choosing to live a public farce instead.
    I don’t understand, and I am confused and full of questions. Time will tell but it’s a bit hard to digest and process.
    I only hope there isn’t a serious health problem behind this.

    • @ioanateodorescu4433
      @ioanateodorescu4433 4 дня назад

      You had reciprocal inspiration and only spent a summer together? Leave. Now. That person has a trauma to resolve and possibly so do you. This was just an alarm bell you both need to address your individual issues. Hopefully, you'll both do the exercise and meet on different grounds. Trust me on this one, it sounds very very similar to something I've experienced years ago and I held on to it. My husband of nearly 30 years is still clinging on to his issues and it is a complete mess for me, for him and for our children. Please do yourself a huge favor and turn your back, focus on yourself.

    • @stef2432
      @stef2432 4 дня назад

      @@ioanateodorescu4433no it’s a different story

  • @annavaleska7979
    @annavaleska7979 7 дней назад +1

    It happened to me many times that a person that truly loves me ignored me for years simply because their ways of living and thinking where the complete opposite of mine.

  • @tracythatcher-kj3dr
    @tracythatcher-kj3dr 12 дней назад +18

    HA🤣🤣🤣 I call BS... Cold hearted COWARD is what he is. He's a grown ass man and after 5 years together, if he can't "figure it out," then he can just be alone and withdrawn and continue to isolate himself from the world. Three months of this bs and I've had ENOUGH

    • @ritapeters1330
      @ritapeters1330 8 дней назад

      I think my ex covert is just what you describe 😢

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      Exactly totally agree with you. It’s a huge red flag done by covert narcs. Beat to know your worth and move on and find better ❤

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 8 дней назад

      5 years? Time to leave and it will hurt.

  • @mahuyachatterjee7059
    @mahuyachatterjee7059 20 часов назад

    Thank you so much🙏❤❤🙏

  • @uwasemercy318
    @uwasemercy318 6 дней назад +2

    Agreed 😢until to understand them ❤

  • @sarahshaw1990
    @sarahshaw1990 8 дней назад +3

    HUGE THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS VIDEO! I NEEDED THIS! 😉😉😉😉👌👌👌👌

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @sarahshaw1990
      @sarahshaw1990 7 дней назад

      @lisaz4411 yeah my husband has narcissistic traits but loves Jesus and works in ministry and everyone loves him. But in our difficulties, when I suffer and it affects him, he acts like a narcissist

    • @SharieFoster
      @SharieFoster 6 дней назад

      @@sarahshaw1990 And when he does that, that's good time to love yourself. Figure out what would make you happy and give that to your precious self. Amen.👼

  • @DimakatsoG
    @DimakatsoG 3 дня назад +1

    Instantly give them space too till they reach out to you. It is only safer for you too since you are human and have emotions too. Never reach out before they do because if you do it might negatively impact on the relationship since you will be perceived as clingy or nagging. Good luck with such a person, and mostly men do act that way just along the way just after the start the start of the relationship may be two to four weeks into the relationship discussions , they would just pull away. Be wise about it, don't follow follow them, just give them space, if they come back to initiate the conversation, fair and good. If the person does not come back , you will have to move on and lick your wounds. Relationships are work. If you decide to engage in them , know that you will need to be patient with the pulling away now and then till the relationship matures into something real and felt by both parties.

  • @jennifermoore2354
    @jennifermoore2354 12 дней назад +17

    Now I understand why my soulmate is so distant 🙏❤️

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 9 дней назад +4

      Me too but he ran away because I overwhelmed him with all my messages. I said too quickly to him I love you. He has true feelings for me but 'm afraid he is afraid of comittment. It's so sad for us both.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +4

      @@MsTachke If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂 believe me, you understand nothing. If you must stay in that relationship, see a therapist. Ever heard of AVOIDANT PERSONALITY DISORDER?

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад

      Tachke, yours is an outright covert narcissist. He has been gaslighting you to the point that you now blame yourself for his inappropriate behaviour. Actually, he has someone else and is just stringing you along on a loose tie: the day he cuts it, he'll blame you for it and you'll believe him. This is when your mental turmoil will start. RUN, while you still can.

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 5 дней назад

      ​@@repharmuyanzi6820he isn't a narcist but a dismisive avoidant. I'm an anxious attached and dismisive avoidant so I have both. We had 6 months ago an unexpected one night stand. I'm still crying for him even after I went unter hypnose. It's really so sad because we both try to come closer but just don't dear. I really see him suffering and I think why on earth are you so sacred of me. He only looks to me we are both autistic and in an autistic group. He tries to get my glance, he looks at me and only at me. He is sad when I 'm friendly to other guys. I'm really somebody very sweet and gentle. How can you be afraid of me.

  • @Supermanhome8
    @Supermanhome8 8 дней назад +3

    I will give him space . ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад +1

      Run, my friend. Don't sit around painting RED FLAGS WHITE the red will always show through the white.

  • @laureyboenig9906
    @laureyboenig9906 8 дней назад +3

    Thank you!

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +2

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph
    @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph 7 дней назад +3

    I think I had enough of this!

  • @vladimirakratochvilova7542
    @vladimirakratochvilova7542 12 дней назад +15

    That is avoiding. Huge Red flag! Run.

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 9 дней назад +1

      It is fear of comittment.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +2

      Yeah a huge red flag done by narcs who fear commitment and rather than be kind and tell you that and part ways in peace , they will allow you to believe what they want and play games with you. Know your worth and move on ❤

    • @julieling1212
      @julieling1212 7 дней назад

      Trying to understand why my ex 😢 boyfriend came back whan hes moved out of the town think he's up to something

  • @johnmcgarvey6172
    @johnmcgarvey6172 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you

  • @anacollado742
    @anacollado742 8 дней назад +4

    ♥️♥️♥️the truth ….Ilove it ….thank you it helps me to understand others and myself too♥️♥️♥️thank you very much♥️👍👍👍👍👍👍Love from Ana

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +2

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @MirleneFevrier
    @MirleneFevrier 8 дней назад +4

    Sometimes, I just want my boyfriend to be more affectionate.😞

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      Leave him and find someone more affectionate. They don’t change. Know your worth and move on ❤

  • @jennifercollado8555
    @jennifercollado8555 8 дней назад +3

    You got it right

  • @joelaino3793
    @joelaino3793 8 дней назад +3

    How about ignoring someone who constantly puts you down with thoughtless comments and constant criticism. That is often why a man who still loves a woman, but choosing to ignore her even though making attempts to give multiple chances to her, but the put downs continue. Men they say the hell with this, even though many of these women still call us-ignoring is the best course of action-saying something could backfire.

  • @debtan6367
    @debtan6367 9 дней назад +5

    That was so nice. I am enlightened 💖💖💖
    At least I have some ideas whenever I found a partner one day 😉

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад +1

      When you find a partner some day, please note that this is not love but madness. A person who loves you will communicate clearly when and why they need space. The person in this narrative is a victim of AVOIDANT PERSONALITY DISORDER. If you can't handle the madness, RUN😅

  • @HybronTonitrum
    @HybronTonitrum 7 часов назад

    I relate mostly to the overthinking part and I've kinda ignored my friend for some hours (it's kinda complicated)

  • @BegumSultana-vg3rr
    @BegumSultana-vg3rr 5 дней назад +1

    এতো মেপে ভালোবাসা হয় না। এটা শুধু মাত্র মনের আঙ্গিনা।

  • @NoiRosales
    @NoiRosales 4 дня назад +1

    Thank😢 you I'm sorry..for all...

  • @Katrina-z1c
    @Katrina-z1c 9 дней назад +3

    Listening and shutting up to understand what you are saying.

  • @angietopaz6099
    @angietopaz6099 8 дней назад +4

    Narcissism and manipulation

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      Exactly 👍 huge red flag done by cover narcs as abuse If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +2

      Exactly. 👍. Let’s called a spade a spade and not be fooled by stuff like in this vid

  • @VernaDiscoverKSA
    @VernaDiscoverKSA 7 дней назад +2

    This is such a dangerous advice!

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад

      I knooooow, right?!!! No wonder it's narrated by a robot😅😅

  • @Archulamz2246
    @Archulamz2246 4 дня назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @she_noob_4_life241
    @she_noob_4_life241 7 дней назад +1

    All this can be coping mechanisms from past relationships (romantic, friends and family). If you want to know people on a deeper level and understanding, be curious. Ask don't blame, be upfront, either way you will know if the other person wants to work on themselves.

  • @sidney.gookhan294
    @sidney.gookhan294 9 дней назад +4

    I thought love was about caring and sharing

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      It is. Don’t be fooled by this well meaning but wrong video. If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      Don’t buy into the BS in this vid and then find out the truth the hard way

  • @naserdeen8210
    @naserdeen8210 6 дней назад +1

    I realized that there are avoidance people in this world in 2024 and it’s such a interesting experience. It can be educational and alienating at the same time.😂😅😢

  • @roseagaatsz8403
    @roseagaatsz8403 День назад +1

    It,s oké….i,am fine…

  • @MIKERATUSHNIAK-t2s
    @MIKERATUSHNIAK-t2s 8 дней назад +1

    The problem with this is you can love that person deeper and try several times and when they don,t responded they will eventually lose out on the prize as there our other women that are after the same state and than the person feels in a crunch to wait or to go after the one hunting you down it’s a very sticky situation.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      Exactly. If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤. Always know your worth and move on and you will attract someone better as I did ❤

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад

      If he runs away, run in the opposite direction, you'll both meet your soul mates on the roundabout. You may be surprised to find he's the one.(IF HE WAS YOURS, HE'LL COME ROUND)

  • @victoriavillanueva7463
    @victoriavillanueva7463 7 дней назад +3

    Yeah but I don't like this ignore I can't handle this

  • @chongneithemkipgen849
    @chongneithemkipgen849 6 дней назад +2

    Let them keep ignoring while we r on our way to mars....toxic cycle with cowardly act

  • @lisabramm2265
    @lisabramm2265 12 дней назад +3

    Ty ❤❤❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @HortenciaSoto-j3j
    @HortenciaSoto-j3j 4 дня назад +1

    I really think SHE is really someone who said Emotionally Unavailable. That's just the plain truth no one can wait for that not fare to ME or HER love the one you're with. Don't leave a secure relationship just to try to be with someone else. That's insanity. I don't trust no one Anymore it's been too long to be ignored at least tell them you're not interested not go silent on them. Put your big girl pants on and tell them the truth people deserve that at least so I can quit being a FOOL 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢

  • @Whatchanneldoyouthink
    @Whatchanneldoyouthink 6 дней назад +2

    To marshall Bruce Mathers Eminem it is me I'm on a taketvi borrowed I love you with all my heart someone put a thing on my phone and it quit working wtf I love you. Please don't stop believing in us .I need you so much right now

  • @victoriavillanueva7463
    @victoriavillanueva7463 7 дней назад +1

    Thanks u soon much

  • @MIKERATUSHNIAK-t2s
    @MIKERATUSHNIAK-t2s 8 дней назад +1

    I can say you can be patient and understanding but when you have beautiful women attracted to you it’s great but now your under the ladder which way to you go up the communication curve is a very juggernaut situation

  • @AugustRush2023
    @AugustRush2023 9 дней назад +2

    It's true😮

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @reneelash1091
    @reneelash1091 9 дней назад +1

    Thank you I love what you do lfaw

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @MariaBilly-tj5xs
    @MariaBilly-tj5xs 9 дней назад +2

    At least the speech helps me

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @JasonHarris-xn7mg
    @JasonHarris-xn7mg 6 дней назад +1

    A God would place judgment A Mom says there all my babies Acording to those Maternal identity infinity rings on our fingers 👉 🌎 Ling unconditional Love without judgment

  • @LoverOfScentsy
    @LoverOfScentsy 11 дней назад +21

    I think this is bullshit. Ignoring ppl that you claim to love is hate. Not love. I never would ignore someone i love unless they dont respond to me. In that case i cant chase them.

    • @meli3789
      @meli3789 9 дней назад +1

      Remember that EVERY individual is unique in their own way love ♾️🕊️

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      Totally agree with you. It’s abuse plain and simple often done by covert narcs as a mind game tactic. If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      @@meli3789Not that unique. Love is empathy and caring. Ignoring someone is abuse plain and simple. It’s a mind game usually done by covert narcs. If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @Dusankk
    @Dusankk День назад

    The video and the psychological text is ok. But the narator bot is not well. It makes unnatural pauses and it's needed to be adjusted in order to sound better.

  • @pamelafortin4053
    @pamelafortin4053 9 дней назад +4

    Screw psychology. And screw whoever loves me cuz I really don't have the time or patience for that BS in my life right now.

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      Good for you know your worth and move on ❤

  • @bonnieleelee9936
    @bonnieleelee9936 13 дней назад +42

    Get a human to talk. Madding

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +7

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤

    • @rebeccajones8628
      @rebeccajones8628 6 дней назад

      I agree. Worse than a second grade ESL student..

    • @sonyavincent7450
      @sonyavincent7450 3 дня назад

      I think the person who said this, means please use a real person in your videos rather than an AI voice. ​@@lisaz4411

    • @audreysmith8509
      @audreysmith8509 7 часов назад +1

      Inwas not questioning anynthing aboit your love
      You told me that you will be moving on we will not be together anymore i did not ask anyone aboit your love because i diont care anymore you are free do whatever you want

    • @audreysmith8509
      @audreysmith8509 7 часов назад

      You all are not with me so i dont expect you yo say anything good about me
      Thanks

  • @KrisMarie222
    @KrisMarie222 8 дней назад +1

    Bruhh. Agreed

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @maverick1223
    @maverick1223 День назад +1

    But in the mean time of being an emotional tampon another guy is swooping in and stealing the girl away.😂

  • @IshaConteh-n4g
    @IshaConteh-n4g 6 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤💯👍

  • @ranithomas5079
    @ranithomas5079 День назад

    It’s my experience

  • @MaritzaMercado-k3w
    @MaritzaMercado-k3w 9 дней назад +2

    That makes since to me... I had an incline about this . Though li also gained some other insight as well.

    • @MaritzaMercado-k3w
      @MaritzaMercado-k3w 9 дней назад +1

      I would like to talk about this though I have a large feeling that these words will be unnecessary for me to say, cos I have trust the last thing you said before thank you. I have trust in my and his feeling and that's all I know . He makes me want to have babies like tomorrow 🥰 though I don't know where's he at today😊🎉. I'm so silly but I think I like it...🙃

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @IM2bfree
    @IM2bfree 7 дней назад +1

    Or… it’s that they just aren’t that into you…?

  • @NV__COSMICKING__
    @NV__COSMICKING__ 4 дня назад +1

    Making your own happiness 😂

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 9 дней назад +1

    Am I good for him?

    • @liliyarias6140
      @liliyarias6140 8 дней назад +2

      No the question should be…is he good for you? Remember to Love you first!

  • @germaineboatwala-sidhva1079
    @germaineboatwala-sidhva1079 18 часов назад

    Why the mechanical voice? It's distracting from the content of the video. With such a serious topic, a human narrator is a must!

  • @AMCHU1
    @AMCHU1 11 дней назад +9

    I strongly disagree with your meaningless caption. / I literally had to pause your video from starting to type my comment. The rule of thumb for true love is. ONE SIMPLY CANNOT IGNORE THE PERSON THAT YOU LOVE! PERIOD! That too, if you can ignore a person in pain or tears, 😳🫢😤🥴🥴🥴👆🫵😷😷😷🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓👆🥴😤THAT MEANS THERE WAS NOT EVEN A TRACE OF REAL LOVE TO BEGIN WITH. NAT VE There was infatuation🥴🤯🤧🤮. If such people still claim that they loveD , the only possibility is that they need Psych medicine 💊💊💊💊💊💊💊💊👆🤪🤷🏻‍♀️🥴👎👆🙃😅😂🤣🤷🏻‍♀️🥴😏🚶🏻‍♀️

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      Totally agree with you. It’s abuse If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @user-tk3nm2ul1e
    @user-tk3nm2ul1e 9 дней назад +2

    Age isn't just A #!!
    It is what it is!!
    The level of the .sdting

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

  • @SachaJohnson-e8g
    @SachaJohnson-e8g 12 дней назад +1

  • @Sherri-w9b
    @Sherri-w9b 16 часов назад

    Running away is just an avoiding thing but they have no problem saying and doing hurtful things so this pulling away and being distant as disclaims is nothing but crap if you ask me

  • @Diya-11-11
    @Diya-11-11 11 дней назад +1

    😊😊itta pyaar ki bar bar bhag jate hn oh god phir kya hoga aage bat kaise hogi....😮😮

    • @edithtieling6984
      @edithtieling6984 11 дней назад +1

      , I'm going to have to be in touch with your holy name on my way home now so I can get the spirit of hope and pray for your blessings on my way to get the power of your trust in Gods plan for me to do the right thing 🙏🙏❤️

  • @lostgurl1379
    @lostgurl1379 8 дней назад +1

    I feel sorry for you people in the comment section. You must be very young and inexperienced. I understood everything he said. He has spoken truth and wisdom

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад +1

      If they loved you , they will explain why they distanced themselves eventually and then you can part ways in peace. If they don’t , it’s often because they are a covert narcissist giving you the cold shoulder and okay mind games on you. Best to know your worth and move on and attract better as I did ❤. That’s why I don’t agree with this video at all. So be careful to not fall into traps with negative low vibe unhealed people as hurt people hurt people and healed people healed people ❤

    • @lisaz4411
      @lisaz4411 8 дней назад

      I’m not young and have had vast experience with the BS. Know your worth and attract better

  • @Areutherehello
    @Areutherehello 6 дней назад +2

    Sorry. But, this is nonsense. I can understand why someone might pull away if they have strong feelings for someone. However, if that's the case, you, as the other person, need to let them go.
    You can't spend time wishing and hoping that they eventually face their feelings, grow a pair, and come to you. If they want you, they'll be there. If they ignore you, then they're not the right person for you.

  • @moqmila5246
    @moqmila5246 13 дней назад +1

    🙏🏼🍀❤️

  • @pauline666
    @pauline666 11 дней назад +2

    I wish i'd been able to read this while my soulmate was alive. He was 'the one' and i knew he loved me deeply but i'd pretty much sussed out that it was his insecurities and his fear at tge depth of his emotions that kept him quiet at times and he always apologised for his silences and we talked about it. Luckily my intuition was good but seeing some info like this would have helped me understand even better
    But why oh why do these thing have an awful computer generated voiceover use a human for heavens sake

  • @MayaMoscoso-ju7uj
    @MayaMoscoso-ju7uj 8 дней назад +1

    I trust you everything,am waiting for you 💋 love you 💋💋💋💋💋💋💋 god bless 💋💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘

    • @repharmuyanzi6820
      @repharmuyanzi6820 7 дней назад

      😂😂😂😂 Maya you're very funny. Goodluck in your endless wait.

  • @biancarosealinaseraphim
    @biancarosealinaseraphim 8 дней назад +2

    People who love ppl c
    Or an't ignore. .. r to -' busy?-' naaah 😂. I've had on n off breadcrumbs from My partner, 4 months.

  • @TienLam-t6b
    @TienLam-t6b 9 дней назад +5

    Nonsense!!!!!

  • @reniyusyuswantini
    @reniyusyuswantini 10 дней назад +1

    May be this kind of relationship ala MILENIA ERA couse many people getting weird act.

  • @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph
    @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph 7 дней назад +1

    I know you ignore me all the time You want to get rid of me but what I know what you are going to say before you speak it!!!

  • @ShonaGoodallLifeCoach
    @ShonaGoodallLifeCoach 11 дней назад +3

    Talk about a video that enables toxic behaviour 🙄🤷

  • @Krishnadasi1719
    @Krishnadasi1719 7 дней назад +1

    Its just narcisstic attitude..

  • @victoriavillanueva7463
    @victoriavillanueva7463 7 дней назад +1

    I love can be hard

  • @starbright8792
    @starbright8792 6 дней назад +1

    Like Jesus forgin Christ