The Fray - How to save a life (lyrics)
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2008
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Mental health is not a joke. Seek help if you or someone you know are struggling.
Lyrics:
Step one, you say we need to talk
He walks you say sit down it's just a talk
He smiles politely back at you
You stare politely right on through
Some sort of window to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS:
Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life
Let him know that you know best
'Cause after all you do know best
Try to slip past his defense
Without granting innocence
Lay down a list of what is wrong
The things you've told him all along
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you
CHORUS
As he begins to raise his voice
You lower yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or break with the ones you've followed
He will do one of two things
He will admit to everything
Or he'll say he's just not the same
And you'll begin to wonder why you came
CHORUS (x2)
How to save a life
How to save a life
CHORUS (x2)
How to save a life
How to save a life 
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If you're still listening to this in 2021 you're a legend
damn right
Damn
Back then I never knew what he said( I am German) and now this just hits different
Hey
🥺
it's a beautiful day to save lives...
help
Mc Dreamy right their
Loved derek
Im in pain dude
Derek is my fave character;-;
If this song has deep meaning for you,
Its not your fault. You did your best.
Why has it deep meaning for you? You seem to be such a humble and caring person! 😟🍀
This is the comment I was looking for 🤝
Thanks Kenneth... beautiful comment
You have no fucking idea how much I needed this...I feel like I really failed my friend, like I abandoned him..I've lost plenty of people, physically, spiritually, name it. And the majority of them within the year. But this one, this death...this one is eating me up inside.
Thank you
2024? Anyone listening?
WHY IS THAT ALL YOU CLOWNS KNOW HOW TO SAY IN EVERY RUclips VIDEO, IT'S ANNOYING AS HELL, QUIT SEEKING ATTENTION 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
I’m here.
Don't listen to this type of music but I like this one right here
"It's a beautiful day to save lives" - Derek Shepherd
Yes
Mcdreamy 😩✨
Rip
Mcdreamy
Sure would be a shame.
This was a lot less dark back when I didn't speak English
same here
Knowledge is a curse
Oh dam this is so true
You're not the only one cursed with knowledge. *holding back tears*
What
I lost my father, cousin, aunt, and uncle in 2020. I lost my best friend in 2021 due to their house burning down. I remember getting the news from the school that she was gone and I broke. All of the deaths caused a huge impact. I didn’t look at myself the same, I hated how I looked and I never had self confidence. I felt horrible, I felt it was my fault for anything that had happened. I would cry silently in my room hoping that one day life would get better. A new beginning. During this I was made fun of, I was fat shamed multiple times as well. Everyday felt never ending, like I was in this hole that I could never get out of. I lost a friend and myself during that time. I hated myself and I hated who I was. The crushing pain of losing everyone I loved overflowed my mind and I had bad anxiety that another family member or friend was going to die. When I was younger I was made fun of for crying and overtime I kind of taught myself to not cry when I was sad, but to hold in my tears. As soon as I heard the words “I’m sorry they’re gone” it made my heart sink. At the end of 2021 I started expressing myself. I started writing books and drawing realism. Writing helped because i could express myself and feel happy. The pain was still there, but I felt happy and I still feel happy. Of course I have my rough moments but I get through it :). I love myself and who I am, I’m confident and I love how I look. I can make others laugh while I’m also having a great time. The days got brighter and I would wake up and do things I love. To be completely honest with myself I’m glad I did things that made me happy, positivity made me happier every day, at first it seemed like a chore but overtime I felt better and I’m still positive. My mother would say “it’s just a big bump in the road” which kept me going. The days felt brighter and I started getting better grades and feeling happy, I can’t imagine not being who I am today. I plan on publishing my book once I’m finished :) hopefully, just hopefully things get even better from here! I lost myself, a friend and many others, but hopefully they aren’t hurting anymore! The one great thing about 2021 though was that my grandpa survived bladder cancer. Being positive helped me a lot and I’m so happy with who I am today :) (sorry if you read all this-)
Edit 2: My Grandma sadly passed yesterday, but it’s just a big bump in the road. The words that made me tear up yesterday from my mother was “I’m tired of having big bumps in the road” I think it’s become a normal thing for me to lose someone to the point I’m numb to the pain of loosing someone. My book is going good but I’m tired of saying “Hopefully 2020, 2021, and 2022 are better years!” Now I tell myself “2023 will be better! You’ve got this!” It’s hard to believe but I know one day I’ll do big things, great things even. If I can make a huge crowd of people cry to a speech I said about my dad maybe I could be an inspirational speaker, but who knows. I hope that life will go good for me soon. Just trying to stay positive :). Date: 3/19/22
Edit 3: Today was an average day I hung out with friends and I feel a lot better. I hope to be something big, something incredible that makes me unique. I finished all sculpting in art class and I finished my test that I was missing. One more missing assignment and I won’t have anymore missing assignments! I’ve become a really good person I feel but I just need to keep my self confidence up, nobody can stop me even if they say rude things. Have a beautiful day :) Date: 3/21/22
Edit 5: Hey, it’s been a while :). Everything has been pretty good! I went rollerblading so that was nice :). Rumors spread like germs of course so that’s not great. Overall though it’s been a nice week. Also I enjoy being tall, I’m 5'6 B). My muscles hurt from rollerblading- but no matter what I’m going to keep positive because I know that everything will be okay! There’s something I hope to do in my life, which is inspire people. One being to love yourself no matter what. I love myself now but I took way too long to love myself and realize I’m okay if I’m different. Do great things in this world! It doesn’t have to be big, like complimenting someones shirt :). Giving someone a compliment makes there day so much better than it was or already was. Do big things even if there’s no reward because at the end of the day your reward is that you made someone smile, you made someone have a good day. Have a fantastic day! :) Date: 4/8/22
Edit 6: Hey, sorry I’ve been gone. I’ve come a long way, I’m proud of myself. :) My sister will probably move out soon (she’s 22). I don’t know if I’m ready for that. When she’s gone it’ll just be me myself and I. I mean hey, at least I have myself. :) I think life is way too short so in my life I’m going to try to do great things. All you can do is try. I’m here and I’m here to stay. Hopefully you’ll learn something from me. :) I feel I have a lot to say. I also would like to say you don’t have to be older to be mentally mature. Heck I know some adults that are more mentally immature than children. Overtime though children become more mentally mature overtime because they’ve experienced more things. That’s just what I think so yeah. I wish that everyone is safe and well, my apologies for not updating anyone- Date: 4/27/22
Edit 7: My mother was gone for 16 hours today, I’m not a big fan of being alone (my sister was on a trip for a few days) It’s lonely :). I have so much to learn but I’ll be alright. At the end of the day it’s okay if It’s just me, myself, and I. I’ll get through the bump in the road no matter what. :) I hope. Date: 5/6/22
Edit 8: Hey! It’s good to see you all again! I’ve been working on my mental health again :). Life sucks but I’m happy I’m here! I have a purpose in this world I think. Thank you all so much for the amazing comments and sharing your story, it’s so appreciated! I’m glad you all are here, I’m proud of you all!
I’m so sorry for everything you’ve been through. Hope you’re getting on ok x
Keep standing strong and tall, I hope things will get better and better for you.
YOU'VE GOT THIS! Your amazing and wonderful. Beautiful and wonderful. They aren't in pain anymore. But they can see you from where they are and I guarantee you they're smiling bc of what kind of person you've become. Make them proud. Keep going and know they aren't gone they just left for a little while. You'll meet up again some day. 💙🦋💜
@@pollyatkinson7884 it’s alright! I’ve been doing alright! I’m glad to be here :) thank you for your kind words :D
@@mariobailey249 Tysm! I’ll keep standing strong and tall :) thanks for your words of kindness!
This comment section is just….. wow. So many sad stories at one place and it’s lovely to see how people are comforting each other. I’m very sorry for al of you who lost a good friend, stay strong! 💪
i love how everyone understands eachother
It's nice to the the evolution of comments sections from a toxic mess to a place where people can receive genuine empathy and support.
10 or 15 years ago that concept would have seemed impossible.
I came here looking for instructions on how to do CPR, but got so busy reading the comments it's too late 😅
@@ghosttwo2 Step one you say you need to talk... No, that doesn't sound right. 🤔
Yeah, I learn alot from their stories.
“Same time tomorrow bro?...”
“Yeah I’ll be on”
Last seen 4 years ago....
🙂
This hurts so much..
This hit me hard.I hope you are doing ok bro.
Maybe he got fed up with you
@@christhecripplercrossfaceb6017 it’s a true story... he passed in his sleep actually bro
Be the friend who saves lifes. Be a friend to yourself too. Save yourself as well
I was searching for some words like this. "be a friend to yourself, save yourself as well" thank you
Thank you
Well, it is not that easy. I feel this pain for so long and somehow I'm still here. I don't know how, I don't know why but I won't go down without fighting as hard as I can
@@saraoverkamping8143 Hi! I may not know you but let me tell you how proud I am of you for coming this far and having this mindset of yours! I really do relate with your words, even though we might have totally different situations. I hope you'll be better and find happiness in your life 🤗 Know that you are loved!
@@iAaaRii It is sad when you hear that from a stranger but never by the ones who should love you unconditionally. The only person who loved me is dead and I want nothing more than be with her. But life is a gift and there are still so many who are not have the luck of living a long and happy life. I may never be lucky again but I never going to care about their words again. I really hope you get better too. When you need to talk to someone I promise I listen
To the friend I almost lost: I'm glad you're still here. I'm so sorry for all they've put you through. I know none of this is easy, but you've almost made it. We all love you so much.
Not knowing one of your friends is under such sorrow until its too late is fucking heartbreaking...
RIP my friend ill never forget the memories we had together.
💔 I'm sorry man... Are you talking to anyone about it? It may help
The story behind this song
The writer met a 17 year old kid at a camp. The kid killed himself, and the singer wished that he could’ve helped this kid
It wasn't his nephew. Get your facts straight.
Herwin Almuallas
It wasn’t his nephew?
I need to call my mom, I’ve been lied to
@@apexyl5135 lol
StrangeTheDreamer was it about his friend? Or who was it about
@@byronaustin8179 about a 17-year-old boy he met at a camp for troubled teenagers. The lead singer claims that the song is about all of the people that tried to reach out to the boy but were unsuccessful.
“Ok lets play again tomorrow bro!”
“Yeah ill be online then”
Last online: 3 years ago
Is this a reference?
This hits hard
Awww.
That was so sad. Maybe he quitted?
Shit, what happened?😶
I........actually saved a life yesterday. My girlfriend had a cord around her throat on video call (her camera was off) while I was gone for a few minutes, and I came back just before she slipped out of consciousness. She stopped once she saw me and somehow, I saved her life from a suicide attempt. I am so happy I got there in time. This is by far the best thing I've ever done in my life.
Good job dude, you did the best thing king. Also you might wanna talk to her bout why she would wanna suicide and do all o'that. Anyways gl on ur journey and keep safe king.
@@Shinjitsu_0 Thank you. Sadly we just broke up, but she's going to therapy and has been much better since then. I did talk to her about why she wanted to do it, and it just had to do with her depression and other personal stuff. I wish the best to her, and hope she gets the help she needs.
@@layne05 well thats sad to hear but atleast shes all good now, focus on urself for now and think about other things once ur health and mind are set.
@@Shinjitsu_0 I will do that. Thanks for the kind words.
This story is the happy ending I wanted to hear after knowing about the song "Baby don't cut"
Remember: anyone struggling with mental health, you’re not a joke, mental health isn’t a joke and you’re not alone, we’re in this together, you’re worth more than you know and you are loved.
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
I’ve been alone since my sister left and I really miss her
I am 😢❤I have anxiety, adhd, and a small disorder- I just get bullied my whole life for being tiny and now I feel so sad when I look at my body. I feel ugly and not good enough 😢
@@Claire_eq311 you arent ugly. remember that. if your mental health is in shambles don't take it as a joke and try and help it before its too late
A lot of the time it feels like I'm not..... that I'm better off dead.
7 year old me: jamming out to this song in the back of the car on the way to school not knowing what it means.
me listening to this song now: 😭
aaaaaaa
me rn
same
Girl sameee. SAMEE LMAO
lol they need to take last name and add a er at the end phonetically of course who taught these people who are making these video's who to spell lmao
let's not lie, you searched for this video
always
🥲🥰
I saw Louis Tomlinson play is on piano
Yes because this song reminds me of my dad and my grandad who died cuz my dad made a pub in my back garden for my dead grandad and my dad allways sings this on the karaoke in the pub
Nah
I remember back in 2010 or so, when I first looked at the comment section for this video. It was often filled with bittersweet stories of lost friends and family, and in general was just a safe place for people to let out how they feel and the troubles they were facing. It's good to see that years later, it's still that safe place I remember, and even nicer to see that despite the years, people are still giving kind words to support those who're brave enough to tell their stories and open themselves up to vulnerability.
Guys the bible tells us more people go too hell than heaven if you live in sin and don't repent you won't be saved and god doesn't send people to hell if they go too hell they go of free choice! Hell was made for the devil and his angels you should watch billy garham give your life to Jesus we are in the last days and Jesus loves you and he shedded blood on that cross without the shedding of blood sin cannot be forgiven and sin is very serious in the eyes of god I was depressed to and sinned for fun I had suicidal thoughts I remember in my room one night I told god that of things don't change I'm gonna kms I was sorry weak and at sometimes so weak I felt like I was dying then I remember a really good day came a day I loved so much and wanted more of so on that same day I remember saying god, I'm just gonna trust you and when you try to do something right the devil attacks you so the next day was horrible I don't wanna say how it was it was just horrible! I stayed strong BC after so long of trying to go to anything else but god they all failed me so I held on to god as the reason let me skip to now and say I started off faithless now I'm so faithful in god I started off worried for my future now I know its something gods gonna handle I'm not feeling depressed anymore the whole year of 2022 was hard but with god I made it threw! Now I learned so much and love my relationship with god I know he loves and cares for me AND HE LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU TOO! I remember I was depressed and believed god didn't love me or care for me but that what the devil telling me lies and I had so many demons but now its 2023 I'm free!💗💕 give god your life today he can do things unimaginable👑😇 please don't waste time we are in the last days the bible never said just be a good person and be nice to people and you will go to heaven No you need to be willing to give up sin anything evil bad is sin even evil thoughts come to Jesus today you never know when its too late💕 and also hell is full of constant suffering and nightmare and you are forever alone Guys the bible tells us more people go too hell than heaven if you live in sin and don't repent you won't be saved and god doesn't send people to hell if they go too hell they go of free choice! Hell was made for the devil and his angels you should watch billy garham give your life to Jesus we are in the last days and Jesus loves you and he shedded blood on that cross without the shedding of blood sin cannot be forgiven and sin is very serious in the eyes of god I was depressed to and sinned for fun I had suicidal thoughts I remember in my room one night I told god that of things don't change I'm gonna kms I was sorry weak and at sometimes so weak I felt like I was dying then I remember a really good day came a day I loved so much and wanted more of so on that same day I remember saying god, I'm just gonna trust you and when you try to do something right the devil attacks you so the next day was horrible I don't wanna say how it was it was just horrible! I stayed strong BC after so long of trying to go to anything else but god they all failed me so I held on to god as the reason let me skip to now and say I started off faithless now I'm so faithful in god I started off worried for my future now I know its something gods gonna handle I'm not feeling depressed anymore the whole year of 2022 was hard but with god I made it threw! Now I learned so much and love my relationship with god I know he loves and cares for me AND HE LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU TOO! I remember I was depressed and believed god didn't love me or care for me but that what the devil telling me lies and I had so many demons but now its 2023 I'm free!💗💕 give god your life today he can do things unimaginable👑😇 please don't waste time we are in the last days the bible never said just be a good person and be nice to people and you will go to heaven No you need to be willing to give up sin anything evil bad is sin even evil thoughts come to Jesus today you never know when its too late💕❤❤❤ deadly sins are lust greed gluttony sloth envy and more but I forgot..........❤❤❤
Least schizophrenic christian@@crummybunny777
I listened to this song years ago, and to this day, this song taught me to always be self-aware of my surroundings, to see if a friend are struggling with depression.
Funnily enough, this song has about 120bpm, making it a possible song to keep pace when performing CPR. It can literally save a life.
Finally, something good from the illuminati
I prefer to use Staying Alive
i wonder if that was intentional
@@youngblocka8128 oWeN HuNt
Another One Bites The Dust
Where did I go wrong, I lost myself 🙂.
me too
It happens. It’s sad but true. Whatever’s happening, you’re not alone and never will be. Just be patient and try to stay hopeful and optimistic and you will find yourself again
I lost my best friend in 2014
I've lost my girlfriend because she falls on my friend instead of hiding it they confronted me i love them both but now they already forgot me
I lost a friend somewhere along in the bitterness
Where did i go wrong😔
My only friend left me...
Where did I go wrong. I lost myself...
They left cause they said I was to anti-social......
I had two amstaff puppies stolen from my yard and when I got in my car to look for them this was the first song that played on the radio, it still brings me to tears every time I hear it.
I’m so sorry!! 💕💕
I just lost one of my best friends today, I have so many things that I wanted to say to him physically. I hope I can see him and hug him one last time.
May they rest in peace, stay strong x
I always thought it was about a man who’s friendship ended, but now I realize it’s about a man’s friend who died.
same
Specifically suicide
Death takes many forms. It's a song about grief, in the end- if someone disappears and never comes back, who's to say your grief is any lesser than if they'd died? Y'all, show your friends love and kindness, and make as many memories as you can. Sometimes mental health issues are simply too strong.
@@YeloughAnixPriest Very well put bud!
@@shivanand8367 Thanks dude! Just trying to spread some love and understanding in the world :)
In this modern days lack of communication can kill someone. Sometimes all We need is someone who's willing to listen to us.
So easy yet so hard for most.
so true
Exactly agree
indeed. use a Replika AI,. it will listen to you and all your problems.
Robin Hage sex
Makes me cry every time , my son (age 2) saved my life , still continues to , wish more people around me listened to this song living with bpd I get judgement instead of understanding but if I lost my fight I bet everyone would cry then 😞
God bless you, I hope you're getting at least some help 🙏🏾
I’m glad your son helps. I had someone close to me who suffered from BPD. Please please! Tell us you’re getting help or at least on meds. You’re worth it and so is your son
I understand you so much. I have depression and anxiety, I feel really really bad all the time. My son also same age, is the one who keeps me alive. I don't want hurt him. I know how it is to be judged all the time, and how difficult is for someone to understand your feelings. I understand you. I don't know if that matters, but I really do. I hope we both get better some day.
I lost a friend. I lost my cat in a very tragic accident, i kinda blame myself.
My cat was a siamese one. It was my very first official cat that i had adopted, so i had to take care of it.
His name was maru. He was the most cheerful cat i had ever met. He was just a kitten. It was fun taking care of him. He would always be beside me, sleeping while i was studying. Playing with me whenever he feels like it. He was just the way he was. He was perfect. He is the perfect companion that i had during my lonely times.
Then suddenly one day, i found out he got hit by a tricycle (a motorcycle) and the driver just got away with it. Not even caring if he hit something. I saw his dead body. I was traumatized. His eyes were open and i started to cry when i realized he wasn’t moving. If only i hadn’t left him outside. I wish I actually got him before i ate dinner.
We gave him a proper burial after that, may you rest in peace maru. ❤
So sorry for the lost
sometimes you don't have a friend who would sing this about you. so you sing it for yourself. how to save a life. how to save your life.
this really hit right now🥺
Saves mine. Thank You Fray!
Hit me hard :'(
How did you know?
Hehe yea that's that's me
i lost my best friend to suicide back in 2016, the worst thing is i found her, it hurts so bad i still have nightmares. This song is really important to me, lately ive been trying to think of good things listening to it and its getting better. Everyone who lost someone important to them hang in there it really does get better.
Yeah a friend of mine was stabbed by her boyfriend and she bleed to death. I was suppose to tell her that my ex manager decided to give her an interview. Instead of going straight to tell her I went home and tell her like an hour later. If I went straight there I would have been there and could have tried to prevent it. It still kills me knowing that I had an opportunity to save her and I missed it because I wanted to shower and eat something.
@@josephcerrera8299 it wasnt your fault stay strong rip🕊💔 im so sorry i couldnt imagine anything happening to my bsf
@@josephcerrera8299 Just Know it wasn't your fault. You had no idea keep pushing through you got this
Oh honey.... I'm so sorry to hear that.
@@josephcerrera8299 I am so sorry to hear that.😥❤️🙏🏻 But you couldn’t have known what was happening and you may have been hurt or killed too in the process. Stay strong and know it’s not your fault. Much love and prayers!❤️❤️
This also reminds me of my Grandma she passed away a few years ago and this song always makes me think about her as I also get goosebumps all over!!😭
I remember as a kid I bought a entire cd just for this one song 😂
Still one of my favorites
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Feel you fam
SUICIDE
@Christopher Hendricks just don't mind that at least you get it.
Right now!
🙋🙋🙋
my best friend I've known for over 7 years is suicidal. She tried to kill herself 4 times. I barely know her anymore, she's changed so much. From this happy girl to a depressed suicidal nothing. I try to visit her as much as I can, I try to support and protect her as much as I can. But how hard I try, she seems to be slipping away more and more each time. I miss her, I lost her somewhere along in the bitterness.
Jackie Jackson You have to insist, don't let her alone... I know it's what she wants, but she's really shouting for help. Sometimes, we just need to know someone cares about us, and we aren't aware that our behaviour pushes them away, and we hurt them. I hope she realizes that she has a good friend who worries for her. =)
Jackie Jackson I'm sad to hear that. I hope you can still try to be there for her, even though I understand it is very hard. Someday she will hopefully overcome her depression and be there for you again, too. I'm sending you my thoughts and prayers, stay strong.
Ok u dont need to fking share that on RUclips
123bertolli123 You need to convince her that there are people who care and that if she killed herself, she would cause grief to others that are close to her.
Jackie Jackson your comment was very moving. Lovely use of the lyric in the last sentence. Depression is a mental disorder and although your friend may be lost she is not gone, and you can get her back. Perhaps you can tell her parents and they seek out the medical attention she needs. Don't give up on her.
I lost my grandpa due to suicide. He killed himself by burning his house down. This song is so important to me because he was my friend and he was always there for me, we did everything together.
It's always tuff when you loose someone so close to your heart my grandfather was a great mentor to me as well as the best possible friend any man could ask for when I seen your comment I thought of him and hope that your grandfather lives on in you everyday
One of the best concerts I've been to, here in North Charleston... It brought back sad memories, but this song taught me to listen and pay attention to my friends... RIP, Carey
“It’s a beautiful day to save lives”-Derek Shepard.
Edit: thank you guys for all the likes can you pls sub to me I would be happy ♥️😆
stop imma cry
I kinda stopped watching after season 13, not the same without Derek, Mark, Lexie.
stoppppp
Aarrgghhh
@@fingerfast4197 you're right.
I miss mark, Lex and Derek
When you plan to be a hero, remember to save yourself as well.
Statement of the century
This comment totally deserves more likes. Even a real life hero, such as “Sully” Sullenberger or a firefighter or a paramedic or a coastguard, would agree with that statement.
I am already saved.
That is a great quote.
Both sides of the friendship, the therapist and the depressed, hurt like hell. Luckily I've only experienced one, and I don't want to ever have to lose him. He's said terrifying things, done terrifying things, showed me terrifying things. I don't know how to help, and with my anxiety I would think it's all my fault if he decides to end his life. I'm so scared. I feel like so many people forget how hard it is to be the friend who knows about the other's depression.
Please, stay here. I appreciate how hard you're trying, and no matter what happens, please remember that even if the grief doesn't get smaller, life gets bigger around it. It may take awhile to grow, but I'll be with you every step of the way. If you cut life off, it'll never grow and the grief will only pile up as the world continues without you.
Hi I kno its late, but if its not to late yet, I have some advices for you to help. Sometimes situations are so hard that you dont know what to say. So you keep quiet and the hurt person will stay numb. If words wont do you have to take action. Sometimes its enough to hug people to let the feel warm again. Depressionen is something that pulls you in the darkness where you cant feel anything but cold. So try to make him feel warm. Show him, that you are there. Not with words, but with actions. Try to hug him, take his hand and ask him what it feels like, pet him,talk with him, show him new things, overall try to make him forget his problems for a moment first. Then for a day and maybe for a week. You have to give him the feeling he can talk to you everytime so when hes alone, he wont think about dangerous stuff. When people feel save they know the can do it because there is at least one person whos always on there side.
It has been a week since my dog passed away and I’m listening to this to tell her that I love her even more 🕊❤️🐶
My dad left me at the age of 1 and got put in jail. He told my mom he belongs in there, it feels like home. I havent seen in 13 years. My mom met my Step Dad when I was only 2. She met him at the club after that night they met up for the first time. At the age of 3 my little brother came. My Step Dad has been here for 12 years hasn't left me. Thank you dad, for giving me the father figure I could've never had. *Thank you for reading this...*
@Shymonkey 2001 same here
Hope you're doing well, man
Lol
@@Antidarkness_577. fuck do you mean "lol"
@@glowinthedarkzombie it stands for love only love duhh
It's sound way different listening with depression
You are worthy ok, have a nice day/night
It hits very different :(
Absolutely agree. He lost a friend in the bitterness and you know that you lost yourself in the darkness. It hurts you even when nothing else can hurt you anymore 😔
Hope things clear up for you, Depression is awful, speaking from experience
Yeah. It's like listening to it for the first time all over again. Super different than when I was like eight and jammed to this song now I cry.
This song will forever resonate with me as the one song I listened to when I was in my darkest moments, and to this day it reminds me of all the awful things I did to myself to try and feel something. I’m still fighting the demons in my head every single day but this song ironically brings me a sense of peace after so many years of pain. If anyone needs this today, you are NOT alone, and you are loved and valued beyond measure ❤
Stay strong & thx ❤
To my parents, the hardest part of losing you is to keep on living without you.
Stay strong everyone
My best friend committed suicide last month.
The last I remember of our conversation was when I was trying to talk him out of suicide on the other side of the bathroom door. The last thing I heard of him was "What's the point of life?" before I heard him collapse to the floor.
The bathroom door was locked so I tried to barge in but couldn't, so I called 911 and waited in fear as the ambulance came 20 minutes later.
Long story short, at his Funeral, I asked if his family members could play this song for his rememberance.
R.I.P, Ryan.
that is sad some girls killed my cat 😿😿😿😿😢😢😢
RIP Ryan
R.I.P Ryan
+MULTIAPPLECATZ RULE wow that is sad.... :.(
R.I.P Ryan
*When you are jamming and crying at the same time*
Papyrus The Skeleton yessssssss
Papyrus The Skeleton meeeeee😂😂
vanessa lepen
pl
accurate
Artist Queen lmao true
This song makes me cry a hell of a lot, it reminds me of my father who committed, after his death it feels like our entire family is falling apart with all my siblings getting into bad relationships and being manipulated into thinking the worse of there own parent. I was only 2 or 3 when my father died so it hurts that i don’t have much memory of him, I’m scared one day I might forget him but I know that I won’t.
This reminds me of this guy i met on xbox when i was 13 maybe 14 i met this guy we became good friends and gave each other are numbers soon after that he told me about his depression i tryed to help him the best i could but my father found out about me talking to him about it and my dad made me cut communication with the dude idk if the guy is still alive or hes dead but i do hope he got help if he did live and yes this is a true story im 16 rn and i still think of that guy i hope hes alive
So, my best friend committed suicide a couple weeks ago... I knew what she was going through. I was always by her side, I was trying to show her the beautiful side of life. I always tried to make her laugh. It wasn't enough. We were together minutes before she take her own life. We had gone to the cinema to watch a film she told me she'd like to watch. After the film, we went at our houses. She called me and we started talking about school and stuff. At some point, she stopped talking. Some minutes of silence later, she told me that she would call me back. I could hear her voice breaking as she was telling me this. She was crying... I tried calling her but she wasn't picking it up. An hour later, my phone rang and it was her brother. I could tell he was holding his tears back. He told me the news and I hang up. I collapsed to the floor crying. I miss her so much.
I'm sorry for this really long paragraph. I just had to tell someone about this. Please, treat people with kindness because your words or actions may cost someone his life. She was being bullied and I couldn't do anything to help her. Now she is gone and I am here blaming myself for everything. Rest In Peace sunshine...
I'm very sorry to hear that. But don't blame yourself, you did everything you could. You showed her that you'd be there for her and I bet she really appriciated it. You are very right. Treat people with respect and kindness. May your friend rest in peace
Kuraiko Okami Thank you. I really hope she knows that I still love her and miss her. And I will always will
@@elikelik.2542 I'm sure she does^^
Oh i am so sry:(
It must have been really hard for you. But please hold on and keep going. Do not blame yourself. She does not want to be a burden. She'll be truly happy if you continue your life without blaming yourself. She loves you. Be strong. For her. For you.
"dude, why your eyes teary"
(try my earphone)
now there two men with teary eyes
2 men 1 device (・-・)
@@ventepiso sounds like porn. i'm in
@@gabe_liu9095 lol tf
Even though I'm normally not emotional this song just makes me think of my ex who committed suicide
@@S1lv3rc0m3t even though I don't have close relatives who commit suicide, but through this song I can feel how sad it was left by someone who committed suicide
😔People Don’t Want to End There Lives They Just Don’t Know How To End The Pain🥺Be There the Best You Can🙏🦋☮️❤️🌟
Here I’m 2023, this song reminds me of my dad. Miss him may he rest easy.🙏🏻😔
"The second you start blaming yourself for people's deaths,theres no coming back"
-JD ( Scrubs)
that fucking scene made me bawl my eyes out
@@dontmindmeimjustsomerandom5261 that scene was so perfect in everyway!
whos jd
@@ilovecandy5448 Jd is a character from the show scrubs xD..
Actually it was cox who said this to JD. JD just reiterated it back to cox
this song hits different when you’re crying and singing along thinking about all you’re insecurities and how people have been mean to you and you’re thinking about everyone you loved who gave up on you
Keep your head up strut through it stay tru to yourself youll be good
Keep your head up! Life gets hard sometimes but you aint alone
Tilen Fon thank you this genuinely made my day 🥺❤️
@@lydiabowles8987 np❤
Why did you remind me :(
My favourite teacher committed scuicide he was such a joy to be around made everyone laugh with his satire humour and absurd random facts was always there for everyone but himself he put on a facade to hide his sadness I just wish that maybe if he could've given us a sign that maybe we could've prevented his death,I miss you thanks for helping me and making my days even better
So sorry for your loss
@Julio-gn8qn Thanks man been doing better now
Guys I love y’all and I’m so proud of you. Whatever you did , whatever you said. Now, it’s just you and me for few seconds. You’ll see in this comments sections ppl sharing their stories, maybe you came share yours too!
I hopt you drink and eat well, I hope you feel pretty because you are, and I hope everything is getting better. There is always someone that loves you, maybe you just don’t know. And if you are sure that nobody does, then I’ll tell you that I do, and God does too (if you believe in God).
I would be happy to tell you a joke but actually I’m not good for these..So I hope you laughed today!
I’ll make a prayer for you : May God guide you and make you live a long and happy life, I know that sometimes life is very hard...But you’ll recover and be stronger than before, May the Lord make it easier for you my dear
one time on club penguin i forgot to feed my puffle and he ran away.
i love jewish orphans 1 I'm sorry I had to laugh at this lol
Lindsey Browniexx same lmao
i love jewish orphans 1 Better love story then twilight.
i love jewish orphans 1 Mine too, GOODBYE FLUFFY
i love jewish orphans 1 lol
Daily reminder: Spend as much time as you can with your favourite person. You never know how long they will be around. Trust me💔
I can only agree my best friend passed away last week
Jesus is my Friend! True and Faithful. :) See
John 15:15-17
15 Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.
16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.
17 These things I command you, that ye love one another.
@@yaboialex8862 I forgive you. Jesus loves you.
What when she left u bc cod this reason saying your to clingy a bff isn’t ment to be like that and she was the clingy one but you didn’t care
Too late
It's 2022, the song still hits the same.
It's 2022,and I still miss you.
Still listening in 2020???
Idol honda!
Meh! D:
Regards Kay moxie idol Honda...hahaha...bbmo
Yes!!😂✌️
Coach!!
Never let TikTok find this beautifull song...
Actually I found this song because of tik tok
Hoomun Thing Yeah same ahaha
@@elliemay7029 Are you guys serious? Is nothing holy or pure anymore?
wow really people find this song from tiktok? ....
@@corporalsilver6981 All the videos that I've seen are innocent. I'm glad I found the the song though it's one of my favorites
This and You Found Me are such beautiful songs from The Fray. The real heroes are the ones who save someone that can't save themselves.
@FuckOuttaHere you got a anime profile too so we're both weebs
Help a friend in need don’t let hate ruin your life gods got you in his hands 🙌
everyones sharing there sad story, so here I go
I lost my yacht in Grand theft auto
+HyperGaming hahahahahhahahahahahahahahhahaaaaaaaaaaaahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahhaha
Stew Pid 😂
Omg, so sad. Rest in pepperoni.
+HyperGaming Rest in Pieces Yacht
+HyperGaming Rest in Pieces Yacht
Omg such essays people are writing down here.
I guess this song is more inspirational than any english teacher
Ok so si
Lol
wHAt DiD yUo dO tHiS sUmMer? (Present to class for grade)
Lmao I didn’t know what you meant until I scrolled down
XD
It's 14 years ago.. if your listening this song your a legend
If your still listening to this and feel the same emotions as the first time... I feel ya, 2022 and I'm the same. Absolutely amazing lyrics 💗
Edit.. lost 2 partners from suicide unfortunately so if u know u know... song hits hard 💗
"One day after my suicide"
The day after my suicide, I loved my mother even more, when I saw her crying on the floor of my room, hugging my clothes with my photos scattered around her, I saw so much love past the tears in her eyes.
The day after my suicide, I felt how much my father loved me, no matter how hard it was, in the midst of so much sadness, he spoke to me with tears in his eyes about how proud he was of me and how much he loved me.
The day after my suicide, I saw Tumble (my furry best friend) was more incredible than I could imagine. Everytime someone came home, he would run to the door excited to see me, and seeing that it was not me, would lay down in front of the door and continue waiting for me.
The day after my suicide, I felt the love of my sister when I saw her sitting in her room with eyes full of tears. She remembered the times we played, talked and argued together in our beautiful childhood. Treasured moments.
The day after my suicide, I felt how important I was to my best friends. They were looking at all our pictures together...remembering the laughs we shared.
The day after my suicide, I felt the sorrow in my teachers. They blamed themselves for not noticing.
At night I went to the morgue to look for myself and said: "So many dreams we had", "So many loved ones", "So many people to meet", "You had so many people that loved you, yet you threw it all away?", "You have to have a lot of courage to take your life. Why didn't you use that courage to win?"
Thank goodness that was just a vision.
Remember: You are still here and can change your life forever. You are better than you think you are. Prettier, smarter and stronger.
Make this yours. Save it to notes and read it later.
Disclaimer: This is not my story I just wanted to spread it because maybe it helps some people :)
Thank you so much. I needed this ❤️
where was that love when op was still alive?
Thank u, good sir
@@333akira doesn’t matter, what matters is that u are here right now
Thank you❤️
Anyone else wish they could just go back in time?😔
Yes
Every single time i look into the mirror after waking up
@@no...one... same man I dont look at myself the same anymore
Yes i wanna go to the old days when your pfp isnt a trend
Somebody call Marty
In 2024 i still listens to this masterpiece
2022 and this songs still gives me goosebumps
Had a friend who's really good at singing and sang this song at every party. Now he's gone, but he'll be forever missed by me and those who were around him.
How To Save A Knife
@@kevinheatcoat2190 that's a really helpful comment,
I lost my best friend covid made her move to online school it’s been 2 years
I think she’s dead
Heheeeee
I feel like RUclips is the only place I can tell my story and people will actually listen. I know it'll sound extreme, but it's 100% true. So here we go... My dad fought in Afghanistan and died when I was only 6, leaving me alone with my mum who suffered from mental issues and was beyond help. She then committed suicide last month and I was the one to find her. The image of her lying on the floor still haunts me, but I feel the need to keep a brave face for the sake of my younger sister... I just wish I could apologise to my mum for everything I've done, and to mainly tell her how much I love her. Maybe then I would've saved a life.
Reece Savin Your dad served for your country, I appreciate his service.
Reece Savin Wow that's really terrible, I really feel for you. It's hard to show through typing, but I really do feel bad for you. I know a comment can only do so much, but I feel like there are a few things I can say that could hopefully help you:
There are enough nice people out there who you can lower your brave face to. If you haven't found them yet, keep looking and try to approach them. At some point you can tell them what's on your mind, I'm sure they won't mind and I can promise you that it will make you feel better.
Even though your story is sad, there are always, at the very least a few, good things that happened, don't forget those. From personal experience I can tell you that it happens easier than is necessary.
And about what you said at the end, as impossible as this sounds I hope that you can try to not think about what 'could have happened'. You already know what you would have done. That's all you're going to get out of it. What you could have done won't change the past, but it can change how you'll handle future situations that are similar, by making people who go through a rough time still feel appreciated. So whenever you feel some form of regret about it, answer that feeling by repeating what you have learned from the experience and think about all the ways you can put that into good use, that's all you can do.
Reece Savin Wow that's really terrible, I really feel for you. It's hard to show through typing, but I really do feel bad for you. I know a comment can only do so much, but I feel like there are a few things I can say that could hopefully help you:
There are enough nice people out there who you can lower your brave face to. If you haven't found them yet, keep looking and try to approach them. At some point you can tell them what's on your mind, I'm sure they won't mind and I can promise you that it will make you feel better.
Even though your story is sad, there are always, at the very least a few, good things that happened, don't forget those. From personal experience I can tell you that it happens easier than is necessary.
And about what you said at the end, as impossible as this sounds I hope that you can try to not think about what 'could have happened'. You already know what you would have done. That's all you're going to get out of it. What you could have done won't change the past, but it can change how you'll handle future situations that are similar, by making people who go through a rough time still feel appreciated. So whenever you feel some form of regret about it, answer that feeling by repeating what you have learned from the experience and think about all the ways you can put that into good use, that's all you can do.
silentstorm That's probably the only advice I've heard/read within the past few weeks that will truly help in the future. Thank you.
Lot of people will read your comment, lot of people will be with you. I'm with you and sorry for my bad English
She was depressed
I was depressed
She was sad
I was sad
She wanted everything to end
I wanted everything to end
She saved me
I couldn’t save her
I'm so sorry..
Sorry man, hope you're doing good. And something for you: Wherever she may be, she is definitely cheering for you. Keep on walking.
That hits hard brother 😪
Love saved me❤️
I'm a 60 year old man. I just exited a 10 year tunnel of depression...there were days when I wasn't sure that I would make it...some days all that kept me here was telling myself that the sun is going to be there in the morning, I should probably be there too...go easy on yourself...swim in a pool of whiskey (like I did) if you have to ( I do not recommend it)...but just be easy with yourself. You are loved!!! The sun came up today and I was happy. Just hang on :-)
Im so happy that u made it out man! we all are
@@jakeraymond1407 Thank you Jake...we all deserve to be able able to get beyond our "shit"!! love back to you!
Congratulations hope you have a good day or night
Its great your still here... I think of depression as a part of life... to me depression is just an obstical in my way... I find depression happy 😁
its good to see you got out of it
😧 fuck... I miss them so much. R. I. P mum and dad 💙😢
rip :(
R.i.p
r.i.p :(
Rip :(
R. I. P.
2022 was the worst year of my life without a doubt. I was tired of not fitting in at school, and I hated my classmates, so I decided to do homeschool. It was horrible. I had almost no social interaction everyday, and it was so hard for me to keep up with my studies. It got to the point where I was failing my classes. I hated myself for being such an idiot, and I was scared I'd never escape this situation. I lost all interest in things I used to be passionate about, and I was crying myself to sleep every night. I never told anyone how I was feeling because I was scared of being a burden. I thought about offing myself a few times. But I just couldn't do it.
Eventually, I was tired of being alone, and I decided to open up to my parents because I was so desperate for help. And I'm glad I did, because my life has gotten much better since then. I started going back to regular school, and I've made new friends and feel much more passionate about life in general. Because of them, I kept going. ❤
this song is so real. I saved my best friends life tonight, if my other friend didn’t tell me abt her, she would be dead
imagine being a priority to someone.. that would be beautiful haha
I seriously think of this all the time 😢
**Laughs in middle child**
You probably are, you just don't know it
You are .... to God :)
@@soniahernandez9867 there is no god
*tries to not make up scenarios with this song*
*fails*
*hurts my own feelings and stats crying*
I thought I'm the only one who does that
KryptonnGaming wait I’m not the only one?
Great minds think alike
KryptonnGaming very true indeed
Same only that inspires me to write stories but im too lazy to do it so, i always imagine stuff with songs
They played this song at my friend's funeral today and now I can't stop crying to it
If it wasn’t for the lyrics I’d have no idea what he was saying, but knowing what he is now makes the song more profound and hits differently
Most of you never felt and experienced what I did. I was supporting my depressed girlfriend during months when she got worse and finally decided to suicide. I was talking with her on cell phone when she stood on the chair ready to jump and hang on hang, negotiating and waiting for police coming to her that was called by my parents. Today she is much better and finally wants to live. I'm happy that she is still alive and got through this shit. I love her very much.
Miscellaneous Richardo Boy my gf is suicidal Since 3 years and i Support her Since 6 Months. She tried to Commit suicide so many times
Sorry dude x
Depression isn't a joke😒 you can't control it and its sad
You're an angel, brother. I admire your dedication.
The song that reminds me of my passed away girlfriend 9 years ago because of Leukemia . R.I.P Anna i will always love you.
Rip Anna 😭
R.I.P Anna😭🙏🏻
😭😭😭
+Humam Eastrawan I am sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace.
sorry for your loss man :(
i lost my dad in 2019 to lung cancer and yesterday went to my friend’s brother’s wake and this song makes me feel a feeling of hope on this crappy world we are currently standing on. For all of you who are depressed and suicidal remember, life will get better soon so dont give up. Persevere and push your way to a good life. Remember im here for you.
2022 , such a timeless song
Yes
Suicide is a real problem...if you see someone who looks lonely or just doesn't fit in...go say hi or even smile at them...a simple act of kindness from a stranger can be the difference between life and death. :)
Aye, suicide is a real problem. The problem isn't however always that they aren't being talked to, in fact some people just quite simply want to be left alone. It's worse when you talk to somebody just because you feel sorry for them, they will know this because they aren't stupid.
I have always been smiled at and said hi to, but whenever somebody does this I feel as if it's just because they either feel sorry for me or are scared of me. And think that if they simply say "Hi" or smile to make me feel better then when the day comes that I snap, or so they think, I will spare them. I'm nothing like this, and knowing that they feel that way about me feels much worse.
I understand that some people just want to be nice too but unless you actually plan on being their friend, unless you actually would want to be their friend, it's best to do nothing at all. And most importantly if they don't want any friends then don't give them one, I for one prefer solitude.
There is a big difference to being suicidal or just wanting to die. As to being an attention seeker, my friend. Remember that.
CheesecaykeStudios Umm the songs about drugs.
I know that.
jake bertram I think it suggests drugs. but anything is interpritated.
Charles Schaming Wrong it's for suicide...all though everyone has their own opinion
it hurts harder when you are the one who was lost, when your life needs to be saved.
We're here for you :)
yeah, but then nobody understand at all, that even you can't understand yourself
and you don't know if you wanna die or if you wanna live
lmao
laugh about it so it doesnt look bad, thats what I do
I know right
A lyric video reaching 100+M views is rare
I’m in 2022 and I’m still listening to this
My sister committed suicide yesterday. This song basically sums me up right. Absolutely broken....
Courtney Stroud ❤️❤️😭😭
Omg!! I hope ur a little better now :)
my cousin passed away the day before yesterday. I feel your pain.
4years later are you ok baby??
Did they know this song would be used in every doctor tv show ever
truth lol
Hey! Your profile pic is a sackperson!
+Shara Kitten yeah I love lbp!! But I can't play rn since my PS3 broke ☹️
SpacedOutAshton Awh that sucks. I love LBP too
Shara Kitten
hopefully im gettin a new one though :0
If your still jamming to this in 2022 your a legend!
🙌🏻🙌🏻
I miss my friend, he died about a year ago and life hasnt been the same after he passed
R.I.P Kirk, hope your doing alright wherever you are now
I lost my best friend back in janurary, this year, to suicide. She was the only one I had. My parents where abusive and never loved me, and it only got worse when I fell into a depression because of her death.
After two months (7th of March) I decided I was gonna follow her steps, and commit as well. I decided on the 10th of March would be the day, because I already live near a train station, and it would be the easiest way.
9th of March I decided to log on discord, and talk to my friends for one last time. On the server we talked on a complete stranger joined us. His name was Tommy and god was he funny. He private called me, so he could get to know me. We listened to this song together and I ended up breaking down. I bawled my eyes out, and when I said I didnt want to talk about it, he understood and helped me cheer up instead. This is now a song we listen to together, because it now reminds me.of something happy instead.
Right now I'm sitting in a chair at the airport, so I can meet Tommy for the first time ever. I'm going to tell him everything, and even confess my feelings for him. He's probably straight but he deserves to know, how much he means to me.
Happy that you made it bro, with the help of tommy!
Will I find a tommy in my life once everything just completely fall apart? I don't know, I hope I do.
@@TitaniumTronic It might take some time, but you will. I think everyone will. It might take a long time, but you kinda just have to hold on and hope they'll make it worth it :>
omg how did it go??
@@freyak3466 We're dating :)
@@professerflorczak989 OMGGGG thats so cool im so happy for u :)))
This song with Callie from Greys killed me.😢
MCDREAMY DEATH BRINGS ME HERE
Oh hey there dead kid
yes it did
Scrubs- My lunch
i’m watching it rn
Lo más hermoso es encontrar canciones que le den sentido al momento que vives,reflejan tus sentimientos por ese amigo que ya no está a nuestro lado