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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • YPJ's Divorce causing problems now

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  • @lorenzoneal1996
    @lorenzoneal1996 6 месяцев назад +193

    I was a single pastor until I married my wife in 2023. I didn’t have the issues he addressed butI had plenty of mothers, grandmothers, aunts and cousins attempting to fix me up with their relatives. I was able to date my now wife discretely quietly and without church membership interfering. When I did announce our engagement my membership was excited because they knew I had been a disciplined man and pastor.

    • @anthonybarnes1903
      @anthonybarnes1903 6 месяцев назад

      I find myself wondering if I even wanna marry a woman who was raised in church. Not that she shouldn’t be saved now, I’d prefer it if she is saved now, but raised in church as a child? That’s another conversation.

    • @tiwanstrong1413
      @tiwanstrong1413 6 месяцев назад

      So my question is did you fornicate... OR did you find the secret to overcome sexual urges???🤔 If you found the secret and yet you don't share the secret throughout the whole body of Christ then you are doing the body a great disservice....
      Otherwise we're all going to assume that you were a human and fornicating before you got married 😉

    • @Chris.A.H
      @Chris.A.H 6 месяцев назад

      @lorenzoneal1996 then you were an unqualified pastor

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 6 месяцев назад +18

      That's why I avoid Black churches like the plague because as a single man you have these folks all. trying to play matchmaker. My private life is that PRIVATE! I choose my own mate. So many matches we thought made in heaven turned out to be disasters.

    • @86lanzo
      @86lanzo 6 месяцев назад +17

      @@Ma1nguy What's wrong with ppl playing match maker???...read your bible and you'll see its very biblical...its very easy when choosing a spouse to get blinded by things, how they look, how they make you feel, etc.. And ignore clear red flags and signs that person isn't ready for marriage or that person isn't right for you.
      experience
      As a man who was single and a minister in church. And now married for 10 years..theres nothing wrong with church brethren trying to match up ppl..you have the final say, but if you're in a good church there will be ppl around you who see alot more than you .
      I could give you examples of a girl i liked at church ,we started talking and I asked a church mother about her...and the church mother told me plainly NO..don't go their ..shes not for you she's nowhere near being ready for marraige ..she need to learn to control her temper..and other things.. on her words I broke of that relationship..not letting her know anything about what the mother said
      years later she got marrid to someone else and they ended up getting into a physical altercation and she was throwing plates and breaking things in the house because of her temper...these are things i never saw,because she liked me she never exposed me to that side of herself.
      if youre wise you will get as much wise ppl involved in the choice of your mate..

  • @cassieY69
    @cassieY69 6 месяцев назад +114

    Man, please! 😅 Otis, Ain't nobody come to see YOU!

    • @Lux_82
      @Lux_82 6 месяцев назад +10

      This comment reminds me of the Five Heartbeats… “ain’t nobody coming to see you Otis” 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

    • @cassieY69
      @cassieY69 6 месяцев назад +12

      , it's from the movie "The Temptations"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 6 месяцев назад

      There are desperate women in the church looking for a husband and these women don't go to the club but the church

    • @AngelaDavis-yz3xf
      @AngelaDavis-yz3xf 6 месяцев назад +8

      @cassieY69 As soon as I read your comment, my cat Otis walked in 🤣

    • @cassieY69
      @cassieY69 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@AngelaDavis-yz3xf 😂😂

  • @zxy123f
    @zxy123f 6 месяцев назад +106

    He holds himself in pretty high esteem!!

    • @LordCommandor
      @LordCommandor 6 месяцев назад +16

      As well he should as a single black straight man leading God's people. Would you had rather him to make announcement of coming out of the closet like a lot of these so called men of God are doing now? Holiness is still the standard for God's people. I salute the brother and will keep him in prayer.

    • @chrisharris2367
      @chrisharris2367 6 месяцев назад +2

      💯

    • @Page57
      @Page57 6 месяцев назад +3

      I met him before. He is very cocky.

    • @LordCommandor
      @LordCommandor 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@Page57 Matt 11:12 And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it👉 by force.👈
      God don't have any jellybacks in His army and demons don't tremble to compromisers. They tremble at the name of Jesus.

    • @LITTYWorldMusiKENT
      @LITTYWorldMusiKENT 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@Page57you people love
      To trash somebody instead of take my the positives or just keeping your comments to yourself 😈😈😈
      You think you’re getting brownie points for gossiping
      You don’t like this statement do you ?
      Well stop with your own mouth towards others

  • @PillarOfGrace
    @PillarOfGrace 6 месяцев назад +107

    He's pretty hostile towards the person who "thought" she was talking to him. Also, if she's got him mistaken, why is he acting like she's in sin? So many questions.

    • @APTTMHYforever
      @APTTMHYforever 6 месяцев назад +15

      Ikr! Either he had an ig boo/text boo and now it’s jeopardizing his real life gf OR he juggles multiple people from social media and is trying to publicly reject her

    • @kjean1199
      @kjean1199 6 месяцев назад +7

      He is very hostile, there is a way to address something without offending people, I am involved in ministry and being single individual, I am always approached by those who seek a relationship, and I would kindly decline respectfully, with gentleness, the Bible says do everything in love and harsh words one can bring fire to a city but kind words can calm the hearts and smooth the soul, too many times people allow there position to dictate there character to talk down to others as if there more valuable then those they are leading and teaching, while forgetting the same ground there feet is touch is the same as mines, being human is easy until someone feels they are floating above the rest smh, humility over humiliation

    • @AdayaAmore
      @AdayaAmore 6 месяцев назад +3

      Right. She was scammed and now she needs to repent….??

    • @tanderson2too
      @tanderson2too 6 месяцев назад +12

      Did you ever consider that this individual threatened to publicly slander him? There things weren't said that suggests the situation reached a level in which it needed to be addressed publicly.

    • @sunflower381
      @sunflower381 6 месяцев назад +10

      There are people with obsessive behavior towards pastors.

  • @pettypattytheprincess3784
    @pettypattytheprincess3784 6 месяцев назад +22

    He is NOT ATTRACTIVE AT ALL!!!!

  • @Ma1nguy
    @Ma1nguy 6 месяцев назад +24

    God never tells a woman to go seek a husband. The Bible says a man who seeks a wife finds a good thing. Some of us are given the gift of singleness.

    • @suckersandmarks4986
      @suckersandmarks4986 Месяц назад

      the Bible was written a culture strongly dominated by men. Women often had no say in whom they would marry. If a man showed up at her dad's doorstep with dowry price, he could basically buy her hand in marriage whether she liked him or not. I do agree with the second part of what you wrote. Paul looks at singleness as the more favorable option for ministers. The single person cares only for the things of God.

  • @1Vtillman
    @1Vtillman 6 месяцев назад +35

    Ain't nobody checking for him

  • @wifeoftim
    @wifeoftim 6 месяцев назад +33

    I'm always suspicious of pastors who uses the phrase "religious people" when they are wrong.

    • @May-tai
      @May-tai 6 месяцев назад

      Yup..

  • @joycepartee7797
    @joycepartee7797 6 месяцев назад +26

    I had Never wanted to Marry a Pastor! I am called to serve GOD as His Humble servant!

    • @jenniferdupree532
      @jenniferdupree532 5 месяцев назад +4

      Same here. I would never want to be married to a Pastor. The responsibility, for me, would be daunting.

    • @douglastaylor6532
      @douglastaylor6532 5 месяцев назад

      And that’s the conflict. If you get married before he’s called or accepts the call that can create a divide. Happens a lot and happened to me specifically.

    • @ChildofGod2407
      @ChildofGod2407 Месяц назад

      Emphasis on humble.

  • @APTTMHYforever
    @APTTMHYforever 6 месяцев назад +30

    He is somewhat hostile… definitely a petty zesty response from him.
    Is it really that hard out there that women are going after him??? He’s not unattractive per se, but very off putting personality
    At any rate, these pastors have zero grace, zero fruit of the Spirit and zero sense of holiness… and yes Minister Corey, home is your first and most important ministry

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +2

      💯 Tell the truth!! And yes, it's awfully bad in South Bend. Definitely no place for people of value or of God to live, unless you're already married. 😬

  • @kassandracamille2474
    @kassandracamille2474 6 месяцев назад +102

    He aught not think so highly of himself. His words are very condescending towards his female members, Not a good look for a Pastor/Sheppard or a husband 😢

    • @chamuuemura5314
      @chamuuemura5314 6 месяцев назад

      It could be comforting to a codependent woman. That’s the scary truth of how leaders of many stripes sucker in vulnerable members.

    • @1obedience
      @1obedience 6 месяцев назад +4

      Amen

    • @Andrea-dw4uz
      @Andrea-dw4uz 6 месяцев назад +3

      @ Kassandracmille2474...you may not like the words that pastor said..but he doesn't want women lien on him, saying they are in a relationship and it's not true...
      If you or anyone think 😏 they going to get married to him, they should leave his church...do you believe men are the only people who have a relationship with someone who no nothing about..there are people who wii join that church and sit back and look at him and say that is my man...just crazy...
      Women do attend church only to look at the pastor, and then go out and say the pastor is in a relationship with her...some women are sick and hard up

    • @Page57
      @Page57 6 месяцев назад +4

      He's very cocky I met him before.

    • @wulfosaurus1835
      @wulfosaurus1835 6 месяцев назад

      ? But being told that so much as asking a question in church is a disgrace wouldn't? Disgrace. That's the word used. That's being told that anytime you want to contribute to a dialogue, at BEST is merely tolerated.

  • @fritzd2116
    @fritzd2116 6 месяцев назад +17

    I wonder if his problem stems more from arrogance rather than from his marital status??

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад +1

      I urge you to become familiar with his ministry. He’s not arrogant. He’s actually quite humble. He confident and comical, but humble nonetheless. This man gets stalked by desperate women… even to the point of having to have had to take them to court. It’s public info. He has a clean reputation and healthy ministry. Unfortunately, clout-chasers, like the man who did this video, know how popular Pastor YPJ is. They know when people see his face that they’re going to click. He’s a famous pastor. They know it. So, they use crap like this to try to belittle them and get likes.

  • @GloriaJohnson-jo9vs
    @GloriaJohnson-jo9vs 6 месяцев назад +15

    He's not good looking outward, nor inward. Isn't it all about Jesus our Lord ?

  • @joyceevans7734
    @joyceevans7734 6 месяцев назад +92

    He’s not exactly a catch. 😮

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 6 месяцев назад +4

      By whose standards????????????????????????????

    • @kindzozodoinghaus9956
      @kindzozodoinghaus9956 6 месяцев назад

      😹😹😹

    • @keepingitrealandtruthful.5081
      @keepingitrealandtruthful.5081 6 месяцев назад +1

      His ex wife thought he was a catch.

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +15

      He is not! He is very arrogant, narcissist, and loves the attention he receives. Not very manly or pastoral like!

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@keepingitrealandtruthful.5081Until she didn't! Lol

  • @R.t598
    @R.t598 6 месяцев назад +153

    O please nobody is trying to get you 😂

  • @patrickhatcherson3416
    @patrickhatcherson3416 6 месяцев назад +98

    He’s doing rumor management which is dangerous. He’s creating curiosity with people like me who had no clue or no interest. Preach Jesus, not yourself!

    • @Andrea-dw4uz
      @Andrea-dw4uz 6 месяцев назад

      @ Patrickhatcherson3416....are you void of common sense...when a person don't want people calling the church leaving messages and saying they are sent to marrie the pastor..
      The pastor must address it in the public..if it doesn't stop 🛑🛑🛑..the pastor have a right to bring legal process...women run to the police 🚨 all the time saying a man is sexually harassing them, it works both ways..some men don't want a man or a woman, harassing them for marriage..and that pastor have no idea who it is...look the women told another person she was sent there to marrie him...
      Most women go to church just to try and make contact with the pastor..in her head she thinks they like each other... women are mentality sick just like males...
      Women wii find out were you stay, and watch your house..why do I need to tell a grown man this..can you think 🤔 for your self

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад +1

      He wasn’t doing rumor management. He literally had stalkers. Some fell prey to fake pages that were being ran from overseas and refused to accept that they weren’t going to be his wife. Some joined the church and were telling his family and others that they were going to be the First Lady. This family has had to drag women into court to make them stop. Pastor YPJ is a famous pastor well-accomplished musician. Unfortunately, things like this happen with fanatics. Some won’t stop without legal action because of their fixation. Context is key.

    • @hopedesire5936
      @hopedesire5936 4 месяца назад

      @@confidentauthenticmethis must be his burner account, nobody is looking out for you Otis 💀😂😂😂😂

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад

      @@hopedesire5936 My picture is literally on my account, genius. You can go to my page and see my name. You can even Google me. You’re making a fool of yourself. This is no burner account. Even a lazy person can figure that out with a few clicks.

  • @kaylasweet5431
    @kaylasweet5431 6 месяцев назад +44

    I watched a documentary years ago about how women throw themselves at pastors single or married and honestly you wouldn’t believe the how crazy the stories and how these women would go to the extreme to get these pastors. I don’t like that he giving personal examples to his congregation but I know it needs to be addressed

    • @sunflower381
      @sunflower381 6 месяцев назад +7

      Trying to be the so called "first lady".

    • @urbanvoice5323
      @urbanvoice5323 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, ppl dont want to talk about this. Not only pastors, it happens to men too.

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +5

      I agree!! But do not be fooled by his speech. He is full of himself and has always strutted around like he wanted all that attention he got. Seems like he is performing 'damage control.'
      BTW, know his family, they know mine, I know the behavior of many of the men in that church (especially the band- South Bend is small!!), saw him for years being a narcissist, I am speaking from experience, not emotion.

    • @sunflower381
      @sunflower381 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ShaeNik wow 😲😱, shocked!

    • @kaylasweet5431
      @kaylasweet5431 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@ShaeNik understandable!

  • @Lee345Je
    @Lee345Je 6 месяцев назад +32

    How about leave for a year to focus on the wellbeing of your marriage??
    Give that all you can like you gave the people.
    That was likely part of the problem. She wasn’t first and foremost. That is how it is suppose to be for any Christian marriage, whether the husband is a Pastor or not.
    God didn’t say husbands love your church as Christ loves the church.

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад

      His divorce was over a decade ago and that video is old. The man posting these video clips is clout-chasing. Pastor YPJ had a lot reasons to make the statement that he did. His family has had to drag women to court because of their delusions and level of fanaticism. Context is key.

  • @charityford8659
    @charityford8659 6 месяцев назад +20

    Run!!!! Cause he will never be wrong in a relationship.

  • @beverlysheppard3147
    @beverlysheppard3147 6 месяцев назад +81

    Paul was single, some are called to be single some choose to be single

    • @shamsham7193
      @shamsham7193 6 месяцев назад +19

      He’s not Paul! This Pastor was married at some point completely different.

    • @brianlloyd7494
      @brianlloyd7494 6 месяцев назад +27

      You're claiming the Apostle Paul was single but scripture doesn''t tell us that. He was a member of the Sanhedrin Counil and a requirement was that they be married. Whether he left his wife to follow Jesus or his wife died, we're not told. I think we need to be careful not to draw conclusions unless it's clearly stated in scripture.

    • @ChrisC97232
      @ChrisC97232 6 месяцев назад +15

      Paul wasn't a pastor but an evangelist (an apostle). His role wasn't too shepherd a church but to help start churches by preaching, then move on to next town to do the same again

    • @hanadulsayrom3485
      @hanadulsayrom3485 6 месяцев назад +8

      @@brianlloyd7494 1 Corinthians 7:8 ”To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am.“ Paul says he's single right here. Not trying to attack just wanted it known that we're not drawing conclusions. Paul said it himself. God bless!

    • @LBNoah316
      @LBNoah316 6 месяцев назад

      He got Divorced.... He is single by mans law. GOD said to death do us apart.
      He should have stepped down.
      Glad I don't have a Pastor over the Church that I attend that has this pastor's ego. Divorced..... Nope.

  • @HOPE.TheresNoPlaceLikeHomeClub
    @HOPE.TheresNoPlaceLikeHomeClub 6 месяцев назад +18

    I'm so sick of 2024 church snd it's only February.

  • @skimpsteveiam3651
    @skimpsteveiam3651 6 месяцев назад +11

    Question, bruh I've been watching your videos on and off for a few weeks now and it seems to me that your are critical of a whole bunch of pastors, most well deserved. I'm curious as to whom do U think are good pastors since you've taken it upon yourself to judge???

  • @AlexusKuba
    @AlexusKuba 2 месяца назад +4

    Pastor YPJ is a great pastor & very caring and loving towards his members and he keeps it real with us! As a single woman who sits in this church I felt no way when he addressed that situation because it didn’t apply to me because that’s not what I go for, if someone did feel a way then a hit dog will holler. He spoke a great word that day and you’re just going off of a small clip of him addressing something happening in his church body & deflecting from the word he delivered 😢 We stand behind pastor YPJ ❤️

  • @veronicasmith4672
    @veronicasmith4672 6 месяцев назад +12

    Please look at the time stamp on the video regarding his sharing of his divorce, etc. Pastor, YPJ is not a perfect man of God, but neither are those who are ripping this video to shreds. He's an awesome man of God and Prophet of God from what he's displayed in his walk/conduct. He's as humble as they come, and he's sharing his past to help someone else not make the same mistake. Those who are throwing stones are judging him from his past. He's not presently in the situation. I could say so much more, but I don't have the time.

    • @Thedevilisaliar23
      @Thedevilisaliar23 6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m trying to understand the hate for him .. I really am shocked - he speaks Gods truth

    • @100_Percent_Sunshine
      @100_Percent_Sunshine 6 месяцев назад +1

      I totally agree with you!

    • @LisaLisa-qo8gt
      @LisaLisa-qo8gt 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Thedevilisaliar23 Read your bible. He is full of pride, alone. God bless you and him...

  • @Shield60
    @Shield60 6 месяцев назад +36

    Does he understand that certain things disqualify Doctors and Lawyers from practicing as well as their are things that can disqualify men from being a Pastor

  • @subrennaevans6504
    @subrennaevans6504 6 месяцев назад +12

    He used to preach at the youth conferences at the church I used to attend here in Dayton, Ohio. They called him "YPJ" I didn't even know that he was married then. This is disheartening to hear. Much prayer for all involved. 😕

    • @libby568
      @libby568 3 месяца назад

      Was he nice

  • @lorettajeanmasterpiece6446
    @lorettajeanmasterpiece6446 6 месяцев назад +8

    You can only divorce if your spouse commits an affair with another person. That is the only way a person can divorce adultery within a marriage only. If you divorce for any other reason, you must remain single, until your spouse passes away and then you can remarry.

  • @nathanbarnett7652
    @nathanbarnett7652 6 месяцев назад +16

    Pastors can't restore themselves. They need timeout to be restored by godly leaders. No one's spiritual enough to be restored after a fall by being the victim and lawyer, judge himself.

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад

      Amen!! Say that louder so they can hear it lol. 🗣

  • @michellemichelle3011
    @michellemichelle3011 6 месяцев назад +9

    Thank you for staying with the scriptures.

  • @Xavierdredeuce
    @Xavierdredeuce 6 месяцев назад +39

    The problem is that he looks at pastoring a church as a job and not doing the will of God. That’s the BIG PROBLEM 🙏🏾💜✝️

  • @PRAFETIK
    @PRAFETIK 6 месяцев назад +5

    People will criticize anything in this day and age even a Pastor shutting down any unwanted advances

  • @CalledUntoHoliness
    @CalledUntoHoliness 6 месяцев назад +31

    First red flag is the label SINGLE Pastor. A Pastor MUST be the husband of ONE wife and have children - 1 Timothy 3:2 KJV, Titus 1:5-7 KJV. If your pastor is divorced and on a second marriage, run for your life. - Romans 7:2-4 KJV, 1 Corinthians 7:39 KJV.

    • @tiwanstrong1413
      @tiwanstrong1413 6 месяцев назад +11

      Well he doesn't HAVE to be a husband... If he can control his urges then he is very authorized to be a bishop. The emphasis is on him being the husband of ONE wife .. not 2 or 3 etc...

    • @CalledUntoHoliness
      @CalledUntoHoliness 6 месяцев назад

      One cannot be a pastor without having home experience. The Bible says that if a man does not know how to run his house, how can he rule God's house? If he is divorced and remarried and his first wife is yet living that disqualifies him. Nobody can be a pastor with two wives and living in adultery.@@tiwanstrong1413

    • @tanderson2too
      @tanderson2too 6 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@tiwanstrong1413Right. The idea was that 1 wife was the standard as opposed to the pastor having multiple wives. Some of these comments are amazing.

    • @1obedience
      @1obedience 6 месяцев назад +1

      I agree!!

    • @1obedience
      @1obedience 6 месяцев назад

      ​@tiwanstrong1413 Let's be honest! Not that many are able to control their sexual desires! Most of the single pastors are single because they don't have a fear of God.

  • @kristag7208
    @kristag7208 6 месяцев назад +62

    Ridiculous that he would bring this up as an order of business before the church from the pulpit. Good grief does he not have a full 66 book of the bible to preach from? This message certainly was not at any high level 🤨 Pastor with integrity, is that so? He is abnormally full of himself.

    • @user-fl5jh3zi9d
      @user-fl5jh3zi9d 6 месяцев назад +8

      Absolutely - full of himself. Your church does not need to hear all of this.

    • @misterjones842
      @misterjones842 6 месяцев назад +3

      I disagree. He should rebuke ungodly match making in the church. Assert his role as their pastor, not their lover. And no pastor or man should marry the first woman they find just to keep the girls off of him. I disagree with Corey.

    • @tanderson2too
      @tanderson2too 6 месяцев назад +2

      You speak as though you know the man. Did you ever consider watching the entire broadcast to see if this was the only thing that he spoke about. I'm sure there was a sermon that was preached.

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +2

      It is abnormal and an understatement!! I never respected him! My family is from South Bend and I lived there for several years and one of my good friends is his mentee. Oh man, too much to say but trying to be respectful. 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@misterjones842True but the image and narcissism he pushes out likely caused this reaction he speaks against! Play unGodly games, and get stupid prizes!

  • @rickylockhart6585
    @rickylockhart6585 6 месяцев назад +11

    Keep your eyes on the standard JESUS!!!

  • @HARDTALKRADIOLIVEIN4K79
    @HARDTALKRADIOLIVEIN4K79 6 месяцев назад +6

    Single men are not supposed to be pastors smh

  • @simplyrealtywithkimbushyea8428
    @simplyrealtywithkimbushyea8428 5 месяцев назад +5

    🙄🙄 deep sigh...uuhh shouldn't we be some where helping souls get saved for the kingdom as supposed to worrying about some else's life???

  • @yontine
    @yontine 6 месяцев назад +38

    It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it! I do know him as he is from my home state as he preached at my current church before. I do enjoy his ministry, but his tone is condescending in what he addressed.

  • @user-lc3zj9nk7e
    @user-lc3zj9nk7e 6 месяцев назад +28

    Amen. He need to stop being a pastor. Find something else to do. Motivational speaker.

    • @floram3722
      @floram3722 6 месяцев назад

      I bet you don’t run thru the women now, you probably already did.

    • @AML817
      @AML817 6 месяцев назад

      Motivational Speaker is his job, he moonlights as a pastor.

  • @ke6264
    @ke6264 6 месяцев назад +4

    I don't attend churches with single pastors or divorced and remarried pastors.....

  • @sunflower381
    @sunflower381 6 месяцев назад +5

    Brethren, God will hold us accountable for each word we speak or write. Think we need to pray for each other and ourselves so that we do not find ourselves in similar situations.

  • @veronicasmith4672
    @veronicasmith4672 6 месяцев назад +3

    He lends a lot of grace to people, and yes, he's straightforward here and might could have used another tone. However, give him grace. How many of you are perfect in all you say and do. We STRIVE!! Including the presenter of the video. You’ve seen a one-time episode and threw him under the bus.

  • @pastorjermainefulmore
    @pastorjermainefulmore 5 месяцев назад +3

    I agree with Him Because I been in his Shoes If you never been in that Position it’s Hard for youuuuu to See we’re he is Coming From

  • @DGBagby
    @DGBagby 6 месяцев назад +16

    That’s enough. Not only is he “single”, but divorced… no, he can’t pastor me, period!

    • @koreaboo1437
      @koreaboo1437 4 месяца назад

      What if his wife cheated

  • @FlawedmanServingajustGod
    @FlawedmanServingajustGod 6 месяцев назад +8

    What does the Bible say should he not try to reconcile to his wife?

  • @beverlysheppard3147
    @beverlysheppard3147 6 месяцев назад +19

    They normally don’t marry from within the congregation

  • @terrencehall7264
    @terrencehall7264 6 месяцев назад +3

    There is no such thing as a single pastor. A bishop must be the husband of one wife.

  • @chynamcgee12
    @chynamcgee12 5 месяцев назад +2

    Absolute Arrogance, Sir😢
    Every godly woman “ain’t” on the hunt.

    • @TDS621
      @TDS621 Месяц назад

      🎉

  • @Sasha-eo6jz
    @Sasha-eo6jz 6 месяцев назад +6

    These prideful preachers!! 😮

  • @ADadSupreme
    @ADadSupreme 6 месяцев назад +3

    Incorrect: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my MIND right".
    Correct: "I should have stopped and said 'Hey... I'm gonna leave for a year, and I'm gonna get my SOUL right".

  • @cheryldenise70
    @cheryldenise70 6 месяцев назад +11

    Out of order!!! NO LOVE DISPLAYED.

  • @jaenice02
    @jaenice02 6 месяцев назад +8

    He seems very sassy,I pray he removes himself for this place where he finds conflict.The church needs a new head pastor.

  • @sherylbelovedsmith7679
    @sherylbelovedsmith7679 6 месяцев назад +16

    He is NOT THAT and a bag of chips! 😂 Sit yourself down, nobody is trying to be with you. JESUS please come and deliver your church from egotistical " Pastors". Smh!

    • @JereanafolloweroftheWay
      @JereanafolloweroftheWay 6 месяцев назад +7

      Right! Ain’t nobody checkin for this dude🤦🏽‍♀️😅…humility is key!

  • @trevormartinaharris
    @trevormartinaharris 6 месяцев назад +18

    At the very beginning of the clip, when he said “if you came and joined this church, because you think you’re gonna marry me, then you need to leave.” 👀👀That is so arrogant, narcissistic and prideful and everything wrong. Oh my goodness he’s nauseating I could not even tolerate him talking.🙅🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @1obedience
      @1obedience 6 месяцев назад +7

      They should have gotten up and left!! I would have because he was being ungodly. Red flags!!

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 6 месяцев назад +2

      However, he might be right, a single man and pastor might be the motivation why a woman would join the ministry in hopes of getting a husband. I'm not a pastor but I know how women throw themselves at you especially when you're single and have no plans to be married. Singleness is a gift for both men and women. marriage is not for everyone

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад

      He actually needed to do that. There were women stalking his family. Some joined the church and were trying to get close to his family and other leaders, saying that they were going to be the First Lady. Some have had to be dragged into court to make them stop. Context is key! The clout-chaser posted this because he knew it would drive traffic to his page. He’s going to pay for trying to drag a man of God with a clean rep that serves to the kingdom of God well.

  • @LitLifeWithChar
    @LitLifeWithChar 6 месяцев назад +12

    Honestly, this happened to my pastor before he got married AND there are some who still try. I honestly think he’s just tired of it. There are witches in church you know. Ppl Satan sends to tempt single pastors to fall. ALSO, this was a conversation that shouldn’t have been televised. Some stuff should just be in home.

  • @DanielleLawrence-w3i
    @DanielleLawrence-w3i 6 месяцев назад +4

    I like his honesty. I would rather for him to be honest. In the day that we are living in people mental illness is real. People can try to hurt you or even kill you. There are some people who can hunt you down. He is a cool pastor.

  • @glitteringfollies
    @glitteringfollies 6 месяцев назад +21

    A disciple of Bryant and Eddie Long? Say no more.

  • @edourdpeters4352
    @edourdpeters4352 6 месяцев назад +7

    Aaahhh Divorced Pastor, Hmmm. That's rite Corey, his house is out of order.

  • @bahplusten2934
    @bahplusten2934 6 месяцев назад +3

    I couldn’t stand being married to a Pastor 😢
    They’re not good husbands

    • @libby568
      @libby568 3 месяца назад

      Really why

  • @DGBagby
    @DGBagby 6 месяцев назад +9

    So.. he prioritized ministry over family. Sad. Amen Corey. You explain it well.

    • @proph9916
      @proph9916 6 месяцев назад

      How is that sad that he prioritized ministry?

  • @sandyb.3630
    @sandyb.3630 6 месяцев назад +1

    I totally agree with you on your idea of marriage. Thanks for teaching it correctly.

  • @FlyGuyLaFlare
    @FlyGuyLaFlare 6 месяцев назад +12

    He said “wait for it” like it was something amazing and deep he was saying

    • @PD-fe7dz
      @PD-fe7dz 4 месяца назад +1

      They use "watch this watch this watch this" too...I'm looking and nothing happens 🤷😅😅wonk wonk wonk wooonnnkk😁

    • @FlyGuyLaFlare
      @FlyGuyLaFlare 4 месяца назад

      @@PD-fe7dz 😂😂😂

  • @thescatman5029
    @thescatman5029 6 месяцев назад +3

    I find nothing wrong with what the pastor said....!

  • @dr.l.thomas6804
    @dr.l.thomas6804 6 месяцев назад +3

    So the man trying to walk in integrity, not sleep with everyone and he is attacked, ok?

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 5 месяцев назад +3

    I like his message, didnt see nothing wrong with it.

  • @Lux_82
    @Lux_82 6 месяцев назад +10

    The fact he is prophesying to Jamal Bryant and not correcting him speaks volumes. How is it he can hear “dead people’s prayers lingering”…. But is overlooking the fact this “pastor” believes in growing weed on church grounds. He believes in for adultery and committing adultery and looking at the “new pastors” installed at that church… that is not God that man is hearing from… that is a familiar spirit operating on deceit. 🙏🏾

  • @100_Percent_Sunshine
    @100_Percent_Sunshine 6 месяцев назад +2

    5:23 I respectfully disagree with this video. It's a misrepresentation of the person it's about. I’ve seen the 2 videos and understood his reasoning.
    The service about the woman claiming God told them he was their husband. He’s shared multiple times that both he and his brother and even members have been approached with this claim. When it becomes a repeat occurrence it’s wise to make a PSA regarding it. Plus, God is not the author of confusion and this pastor is also a prophet. I’m not putting God in a box but I doubt he’d have a dozen women claiming one man to be their husband. Discernment is vital for single women when navigating singleness.
    About him being a pastor, he has told the story about when he was called. So this isn’t a decision he made, he was called by God to Pastor the church.
    Regarding the video about his divorce, he admitted that he made the decision in his early 20’s to get married and it wasn’t a move ordained by God. So he was out of order and naturally it fell apart. He talks about his healing journey and he admitted that he contributed to the issues within the marriage so jumping into another marriage was not his goal…healing was and he wasn’t in a rush to do it again unless God said so.
    Maybe he’s dating someone who God has revealed is his wife and that’s why he knows those claims were false. I can appreciate a pastor for taking this stance and making the suggestion to repent vs trying to add notches on his belt. Integrity has many forms and this was his.

    • @100_Percent_Sunshine
      @100_Percent_Sunshine 6 месяцев назад +2

      🤨 Also, this video is 10+ years old… this response is delayed and based upon situations that’s been repented for, forgiven and moved forward from.

  • @terrelldavis3864
    @terrelldavis3864 6 месяцев назад +4

    That's why Paul said one of the qualifications for an overseer. Is you must be the husband of one wife. We talk about that being the reason a woman can not be a pastor. It also applies to single men you can not be single. And be an overseer or in church leadership according to 1 Timothy 3 :2-5. Paul was single but he was not a pastor.

  • @Page57
    @Page57 6 месяцев назад +3

    I met him before. (YPJ) He wasn't too nice to me or my toddler son. He treated us very rudely because of where we lived. At the time we stayed across the street from his family's church. I used to go there trying to get a relationship with Jesus and he was always rude and nasty toward me. His parents never were but he was. I remember when I got saved I still was being tormented by demons and could not find deliverance in their Church. Wherever you go make sure they really live for Jesus and not trying to just be seen. People out here are hungry for Jesus not another Motivational speaker. Satan is attacking God's people left and right sending them to hell and it's because they don't know spiritual warfare because we have way too many motivational earth thinking "Christians" and not enough Holy Spirit led ones.

    • @libby568
      @libby568 4 месяца назад

      How long ago was this?

  • @thekaerichtexas
    @thekaerichtexas 5 месяцев назад +2

    I like this pastor 😂😂😂sorry, he keeping it real, and hes trying to be nice. Yes, set the order sir!!!!

  • @hightolerance2500
    @hightolerance2500 6 месяцев назад +2

    First, I can personally relate in being divorced and having your personal life on public display. Second, I saw no wrong whatsoever in his transparency to his congregation. People will have something to say regardless. Had he not shared or disclosed his experience, he’d be seen as being deceitful, disingenuous, etc. Those will always have something to say but no solutions to the problems. A lot of stones thrown and IMO this was a poor take of the situation. Prayers up to YPJ 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @ChildofGod2407
    @ChildofGod2407 Месяц назад +1

    He is VERY arrogant. 🤮

  • @gloweeisme57
    @gloweeisme57 6 месяцев назад +3

    Sir and I ask this with respect. How can he be a pastor if he doesn’t have his own in Oder? I’m confused

    • @confidentauthenticme
      @confidentauthenticme 4 месяца назад

      His house is in order. He’s been divorced over a decade. Information is missing and more is being used out of context. This clout-chaser posted just enough (including old stuff) just to get clicks and likes. Check out Pastor YPJ for yourself. You’ll see why some like to use him for clickbait.

  • @briangreene2865
    @briangreene2865 6 месяцев назад +12

    Dude just conduct yourself as a man of character and move on. Trust me people will “get it”. This makes you sound full of yourself. Plus do you really think your being “single” makes this a unique challenge?

  • @RockyTop85
    @RockyTop85 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yeah, this whole thing stops at him being divorced in a way that Christ did not give “provision” for and is still preaching

  • @Paul-Neil
    @Paul-Neil 6 месяцев назад +6

    He think he is all that,,

  • @100_Percent_Sunshine
    @100_Percent_Sunshine 6 месяцев назад +2

    13:52 what was the point here? He delivered a warning to Jamal Bryant as well… why not play that part? 🤨

  • @keithjackson4985
    @keithjackson4985 16 дней назад +1

    This guy is insane!

  • @wrinthiak3431
    @wrinthiak3431 6 месяцев назад +22

    Bruh-Bruh...stick with teaching the gospel and get up out your flesh.

    • @davesenatus5566
      @davesenatus5566 6 месяцев назад

      ?He does everything.
      If you want to watch the videos he made about your flesh and other such teachings then just go back and watch them. I don’t see the point you’re getting at here.

    • @repentandfollowjesuschrist6170
      @repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 6 месяцев назад +2

      That's what he should do, and you sound stop saying bruh bruh 🤣 sound like a mo ron

    • @wrinthiak3431
      @wrinthiak3431 6 месяцев назад

      @@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 My post doesn't speak, so it doesn't have a "sound."
      Moron🤡

    • @wrinthiak3431
      @wrinthiak3431 6 месяцев назад

      @@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170 And, you should learn that "moron" is one word.
      Moron

    • @cierrahp9702
      @cierrahp9702 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@repentandfollowjesuschrist6170😂😂😂

  • @1coachwill
    @1coachwill 6 месяцев назад +2

    I guess a lot of you Forget that GOD is A Forgiving GOD
    And a GOD of MULTIPLE CHANCES
    GOD is a SOVEREIGN GOD
    GOD is a MERCIFUL GOD
    Who are we to Judge or Speak on a Pastor or Anyone’s Issues
    We Need to Pray and Ask GOD for Guidance before we Speak upon anyone
    Yesterday it’s Him
    Today it’s YOU
    Who’s going to Pray for Him and Over Him That GOD RESTORES Him
    I Will
    FATHER RESTORE HIM 🙏🏾
    FATHER RESTORE ME 🙏🏾
    FATHER RESTORE US 🙏🏾

  • @ChrisC97232
    @ChrisC97232 6 месяцев назад +14

    He has pink shade glasses. Should I say more?
    Might be why he seems hostile to women

    • @APTTMHYforever
      @APTTMHYforever 6 месяцев назад +4

      That part! Seems very zesty

    • @tanderson2too
      @tanderson2too 6 месяцев назад

      Wow

    • @traced5900
      @traced5900 6 месяцев назад +1

      Hmm 🤔

    • @tanderson2too
      @tanderson2too 6 месяцев назад +1

      You do realize the lighting on the stage impacted how the tint of the glasses appear. The original tint is not pink.

    • @ChrisC97232
      @ChrisC97232 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@tanderson2too time will tell.

  • @tiffanyjohnson9127
    @tiffanyjohnson9127 6 месяцев назад +4

    I love YPJ God bless him!

  • @mdooms76
    @mdooms76 6 месяцев назад +1

    Our poupose in life is not to be on a forever search for a spouse. For some it may never happen. For others it may last a while and end. Finding a mate in church only indicates that you share the same beliefs. It does not guarantee that the person is actually living a Godly lifestyle. Many hearers but not enough doers. How many Pastors cheat on their wives and have side babies. If you go to church with a selfish motive, the devil will dust off his best trash and send it to you wrapped like a king! If you seek God sincerely, he will give you what He desires for you to have. No rushing him or manipulation will be considered.

  • @heidigeneration1670
    @heidigeneration1670 6 месяцев назад +19

    Narcissists pastor 🐺🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @karenrollins9578
      @karenrollins9578 6 месяцев назад +3

      Sooo much narcissism

    • @remusrome985
      @remusrome985 6 месяцев назад

      Everybody a narcissist.....women couldnt even speak in the bible without permission......women jacked dat up wen they spoke to satan....and therefoe man ruled over woman.....God said that.

    • @hightolerance2500
      @hightolerance2500 6 месяцев назад

      Negative

    • @TDS621
      @TDS621 Месяц назад

      💯!!!!!!!!!

  • @V_-4-_VENDETTA71
    @V_-4-_VENDETTA71 2 месяца назад

    Plenty of churches in Atlanta where the women come looking for a man, this is nothing new to the older folks

  • @Wisdom2812
    @Wisdom2812 6 месяцев назад +2

    He can say it's a lie because it's an onging saga, they just keep coming. If God told her he'll tell him also. They create imaginary relationships, ask me how I know. Pastor's don't have to be married!....take note: Jesus and Paul were single. Also stop judging this man!....You can't judge a man until you walked in his shoes, every situation is different. It is to God we all stand and fall, he alone is an all knowing judge.

  • @noretteprettyman579
    @noretteprettyman579 Месяц назад

    There is nothing wrong with him addressing it publicly. There are plenty of women who will pursue him to no end !

  • @stephenrobinson3120
    @stephenrobinson3120 6 месяцев назад +16

    Cory @ 15:35 you said they don’t desire to be single so they should hurry up and get married. Honest question doesn’t the scripture teach if you remarry while your spouse is alive you are an adulterer ?

    • @davesenatus5566
      @davesenatus5566 6 месяцев назад +10

      Yes.

    • @chamuuemura5314
      @chamuuemura5314 6 месяцев назад +2

      Under most circumstances, yes.
      That said, according to the culture, having sex was essentially marriage so legally marrying the third person you’ve had sex with akin to divorcing twice and marrying three times.

    • @olympiabee
      @olympiabee 6 месяцев назад +16

      Matthew 5:32 - But I say to you whoever divorces his wife for any reason EXCEPT SEXUAL IMMORALITY causes her to commit adultery (NKJV).

    • @itsintheword230
      @itsintheword230 6 месяцев назад +5

      It sure does....and you can repent for adultery to

    • @stephenrobinson3120
      @stephenrobinson3120 6 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for the comments I really appreciate them. @itsintheword320 if you repent but remain in the marriage isn’t that consider a continuation of sin because doesn’t repent mean to turn away from that sin once again this is not a debate I’m just trying to understand so I’m asking questions

  • @franklinwill22
    @franklinwill22 6 месяцев назад +2

    That man isn't perfect nor are you...he did the right thing wit his announcement to possible scam single women. Stop hating Pastor.

  • @floram3722
    @floram3722 6 месяцев назад +2

    Why is he talking like he’s angry.

  • @oldschool5
    @oldschool5 6 месяцев назад +21

    Must be runnin out of material

    • @sawyermookie4764
      @sawyermookie4764 6 месяцев назад +7

      You must be running put of things to do in your free time because based on your comments from your profile you're an unbeliever, but you've left 100+ comments on this page.

    • @oldschool5
      @oldschool5 6 месяцев назад

      @@sawyermookie4764 You got me on that one. 2Shay I probably should be studying my craft a lil during downtime at work but talkinShit and learning non work related things passes the time much easier. But you got me on that one Good Brotha.

    • @davesenatus5566
      @davesenatus5566 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@oldschool5Touché*

    • @chamuuemura5314
      @chamuuemura5314 6 месяцев назад

      @davesenatus5566 🎯
      Someone’s thinking of Club Shay Shay.

    • @dano8012
      @dano8012 6 месяцев назад

      True

  • @LordCommandor
    @LordCommandor 6 месяцев назад +4

    A single straight black man leading God's people. What seems to be problem people? Would you had rather him to make announcement of coming out of the closet like a lot of these so called men of God are doing now? Holiness is still the standard for God's people and I salute the brother and will keep him in prayer.....salute sir.

  • @yvondabolton2988
    @yvondabolton2988 5 месяцев назад +2

    Why are you so hard pressed to pull this man of God down?

  • @RockyTop85
    @RockyTop85 6 месяцев назад +3

    Prophetical…disqualified

  • @created_by_the_divine_83
    @created_by_the_divine_83 6 месяцев назад +3

    Nobody want that😂

  • @judihaynesworth
    @judihaynesworth Месяц назад

    He should have put all this 'energy ' into his marriage,and not the church! It should be God first,then wife,then the church! I agree that he is not the Rock! 😂Blessings

  • @Brandiisbeloved
    @Brandiisbeloved 6 месяцев назад +1

    the pastor ohurch is single but hes very young. Women in the church have told others memebers God told them he was their husbands abd when they were told to stop and didnt. He rebuked them openly on the pulpit during service. I wonder if that was okay? i have read its okay to do so in scripture

  • @firstempressions3649
    @firstempressions3649 6 месяцев назад +6

    Well said Cory!❤

  • @Andrea-dw4uz
    @Andrea-dw4uz 6 месяцев назад +2

    @lorenzoneal 1996...may i have a few minutes of your time...my first comment was made from your comment...you said, that grandmother and cousin, were trying to get you to date people they knew, this was before you gotten married...
    But you are right when you said it doesn't matter a person Denomination, i forgot that some pastor's such as you, might was in a church that had stubbility...when a pastor is part of a church that have borad members and the parishioners, are doctors, teacher..ect..it makes a difference..hear me out, in those churches those women are married and some are widows...
    But when a pastor is on TV..even if he have 60 members..his platform is now at 15,000...with a platform that large..that pastor is exposed to people of all walks of life..
    Ñote in his church of 60 people..things are going okay... But once you do TV ministry its like hell breaks loses...now that pastor have 200 women saying that Jesus said he is her husband..
    Than he have 500 hundred males saying they had a dream that the pastor is a life partner..
    From what i understood from you..that didn't happen to you, and iam glad that it didn't..but see when the time came you got married ❤..
    If you were exposed to all of that crazy.. something else could have gotten in your way and messed your life up... have a blessed day in Jesus..from sister andrea of Oklahoma

  • @CBrantleylmft
    @CBrantleylmft 6 месяцев назад +5

    Why do y’all create these channels as BELIEVERS to tear down other believers? It’s like y’all never heard about Moses, Miriam and Aaron. On top of that…oh never mind.

  • @sheilamahone6150
    @sheilamahone6150 6 месяцев назад +18

    All the men at my church is to old😂😂😂

    • @ericafair9983
      @ericafair9983 6 месяцев назад +1

      😂😅

    • @kelliecordova4463
      @kelliecordova4463 6 месяцев назад +1

      Same. A 63 y/o brother in the Lord went to our pastor asking to date me. 😬

    • @ericafair9983
      @ericafair9983 6 месяцев назад

      @@kelliecordova4463 😬

    • @bobfisher-zd2lt
      @bobfisher-zd2lt 6 месяцев назад

      Maybe it’s the older gentlemen that’s seeking a 200 plus pounder with cheese 🧀.

    • @ShaeNik
      @ShaeNik 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@kelliecordova4463You're gorgeous!! I'm sure he was excited lol! 🤭