Mum Thinks Dance Ruined My Life || VLOGUMENTARY || Ep. 2 of 3

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  • Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2024

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  • @zahrazuhoor5969
    @zahrazuhoor5969 7 лет назад +30

    I really love the way this focuses less on whether she or her mother are right or wrong, and more so the differences between generations whilst still showing that we can all love and respect each other even if our views differ. great work 💕

  • @queeniss
    @queeniss 7 лет назад +29

    This gave me chills. It makes me think how me myself I struggle too much finding a place in this world while trying to understand who I am and how my culture is part of myself. Great job! And lots of love to Emine, her smile is refreshing and beautiful x

  • @paulaschmitz5631
    @paulaschmitz5631 7 лет назад +34

    Richtig mutig und stark so offen über all das zu sprechen... ich kann mir vorstellen, dass es für dich, emine teilweise sehr verletzend ist, dass deine Mutter nicht sieht, was Tanzen für sie bedeutet! ich kann deine Sicht vollkommen nachvollziehen. Schön, dass du den Kindern eine Zukunft und Perspektive bietest, ihnen zeigst, was Zusammenhakt und Respekt bedeutet und ihnen Träume schenkst. Ich hatte das Glück in einem sehr toleranten, offenen und liebevollen Umfeld aufzuwachsen, wo ein emanzipiertes und selbstbestimmtes Leben selbstverständlich ist und ich mich nicht mit so einem traditionellen Weltbild meiner Eltern auseinandersetzen musste... Deine Mutter wirkt wie eine sehr tolle und liebende Frau, aber schon extrem wie da die Welten aufeinander prallen. Dein Tanzstil is just amazing, du bist so talentiert! Dankeschön für diese Reihe! So respektvoll und auf so hohem Niveau!

  • @TenterasFilms
    @TenterasFilms 7 лет назад +25

    This really touched me bro! When you're full of passion and at the same time ever fearful of doing something wrong. May Allah bless you all and always show us the right way. May He make us find our way without displeasing Him. Thank you for this piece of art Nadir!

  • @haroonamin2482
    @haroonamin2482 7 лет назад +30

    That was "SUPER" amazing...

  • @dzevairejusufi2128
    @dzevairejusufi2128 7 лет назад +18

    I loved this and I cried tears of joy about this project and the idea behind it. love to watch every video but I could relate to Emines story so much. I finished school and university and got an internship and went abroad - all things that were not common in my family. And it still always feels like one's not "enough". this is about being in between worlds but also about understanding love.
    thank you so much Nadir!

  • @sarisari9443
    @sarisari9443 6 лет назад +6

    Emine , es ist wirklich herausragend und mutig , dass deine Familie und du uns mit in dein Zuhause genommen habt! Ich bewundere deinen Mut, deine Offenheit , dein Lachen und natürlich deine Tanzkünste !
    @beni , wieder einmal richtig schönes Video :-) love it.

  • @ibushra9513
    @ibushra9513 7 лет назад +4

    This video gave me chills. The conversation between emine and her mom are exactly like the countless ones my mother and I have had. We live in America and her biggest dream was for me to be a doctor. Instead I am studying mental health because I think immigrants like us need these services the most. It's hard not seeing eye to eye I feel for Emine ❤️

    • @valf156115
      @valf156115 6 лет назад

      alittlebitofpeaceplease I think that’s an amazing and useful field to study God bless you and good continuation

  • @meridym6740
    @meridym6740 7 лет назад +7

    I have so much respect for this series - it's beautifully done, constantly interesting, and a *super* unique concept. Much excitement for upcoming installments!

  • @amirzee93
    @amirzee93 7 лет назад +3

    The interview with her mother is one that is so relatable - i feel I've had a similar talk with my own mother like that a thousand time. you can see how incredibly fierce and independent mine's mother is and was when she would be younger. It would be awesome to see that generations pov - it would be great to see their fears, expectations and their experience of straddling that cultural and ethnic divide - its definitely much more different to our own.

  • @fatima3485
    @fatima3485 7 лет назад +2

    this is amazing. The reasoning of emines mom about her fears is like she used my fathers words. And like you already said Nadir, this internal battle is a real struggle for this generation of ours. Great job with this video and i am so thankful and happy that i found your channel. Keep the great work up. All the best from Germany.

  • @MS-Kiani
    @MS-Kiani 7 лет назад +1

    Wow, this was so relatable.
    Shows the true reality of negotiating two cultures and the expectations we have of ourselves and those people have of us.
    Props to her!

  • @FA-ge5sr
    @FA-ge5sr 7 лет назад +2

    You know we always know that being a 3rd culture kid aint easy. But to see it in perspective, from another person's POV and watch them put together this beautiful story that resonates with you ~ Wallahi this made me emotional. It made me feel "not alone", even though my struggles aren't even as close as Emine's, but I could still relate to it... I spent my life walking on this line that my mum and dad drew out for me, trying to please them and seek their approval for every breath I took. It took me a while to separate my likes and dislikes from theirs. So I look up to Emine (even though she is younger than me). Woman, you are A M A Z I N G!
    and thank you dude, from making these Vlogumentaries! love them!

  • @iammerve
    @iammerve 7 лет назад +8

    First day of Ramadan: watching Emine drink that Cay made me not only thirsty but go home to my parents and drink tons of tea :)

  • @merutography
    @merutography 7 лет назад +10

    It's so interesting watching this, because I'm turkish as well. And the way turkish parents think is (unfortunately) as shown in this video so I can understand Emine. I'm studying Japanese atm and my father isn't too satisfied with it, but I will keep doing what's best for me :)
    Keep this series going! I love it.

  • @s.s.642
    @s.s.642 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing her story! It was very important to hear her story and feel represented.

  • @veronhaki6066
    @veronhaki6066 7 лет назад +1

    Very touching ! Thank you and good luck to you both !

  • @sabahfirdous1742
    @sabahfirdous1742 7 лет назад +32

    why so little views? incredibly inspirational story

  • @BuNeAbiYaa
    @BuNeAbiYaa 7 лет назад +2

    wow wow wow.. I have never seen such an episode.. it's amazing how you get the idea of meeting a second-third-generation turkish family in Germany.. I feel Emine and I am a turkish-german. my dream was to dancing, but in real it has never happened. Good luck Emine! If I will get to Berlin I want to meet you ♡

  • @AozoraM
    @AozoraM 7 лет назад +2

    Alhamdulillah! I absolutely love your content and what you're doing! I'm so glad you're doing this, that someone's actually doing this. You're giving individuals a platform, a chance to show how these different things play a part in their lives and their identities. For a definite there's a lot of people who can relate to this story, myself included. Keep up the amazing work, I pray your project grows and that it plays a positive growing impact on everyone who gets involved iA :)

  • @paulineebenau
    @paulineebenau 7 лет назад +1

    This series and all the people you portray and the messages you deliver are always so touching and beautiful. Thank you.

  • @namia8
    @namia8 7 лет назад +16

    Your content is so, so amazing! I'm blown away with each successive video. You really need more recognition. Even Casey Neistat has nothing on you!

    • @BENIxNadir
      @BENIxNadir  7 лет назад +4

      lol omg!! Thats the best most undeserving comment of all time! Thank you!!

  • @tarannumsayyed1227
    @tarannumsayyed1227 4 года назад

    The way she dances... Amazing! So fluid and beautiful.

  • @AM257.
    @AM257. 4 года назад

    it gets better each time i watch it, and still wonder why this series doesn't have one million viewers

  • @watercongas
    @watercongas 7 лет назад +2

    oh man Nadir, this is such an amazing project you're doing!!!

    • @BENIxNadir
      @BENIxNadir  7 лет назад +1

      Thank you so so so so soooo much

  • @serpildrsn333
    @serpildrsn333 7 лет назад +1

    You have such awesome contents and make good points! I always enjoy watching your videos 'cause in every single of them there is something where I can find myself. Weiter so 👍🏼

  • @nassira0508
    @nassira0508 7 лет назад +5

    I already love this Series SO MUCH

  • @yellowspeaks4980
    @yellowspeaks4980 7 лет назад +3

    Absolutely loved this!!!! Keep up the brilliant work 🌙 (InshaAllah)

  • @hestyhendayana9967
    @hestyhendayana9967 7 лет назад +1

    Love the concept of these series! So brilliant!! 💯💯💯

  • @MrsFlooosh
    @MrsFlooosh 7 лет назад +2

    I am really impressed that you manage to respect and love each other despite your very different points of view. but I can also imagine that one gets angry and annoyed by the whole "as long as you marry one day" and I guess it hurts that your mother does not see the value of your work. Because children want their parents to be proud of them, even if we sometimes say we don't care. you're not just a talented dancer but also a kind of social worker or big sister for the kids. and to the topic of mixed culture relationships: that does not automatically mean that culture and tradition disappear, you can also value both cultures equally.

  • @nana-iv3si
    @nana-iv3si 7 лет назад +1

    Omg I am so happy I discovered your channel!!! You're so amazing and so are the people who's stories you are covering! Keep up the good work!

  • @fraupurzel
    @fraupurzel 7 лет назад +1

    Sehr beeindruckende Frau. Ich bewundere wie sie ihr Ding durchzieht.

  • @sadafa251
    @sadafa251 7 лет назад +1

    Wow. I'm speechless. Your content is so inspiring and really connects with me. I hope you gain more recognition because these videos are phenomenal! Going to share thisss. :)

  • @lilokaffeefleck2377
    @lilokaffeefleck2377 7 лет назад +5

    I was waiting this video. Thank u so much. U r really talented. I love to see the world through ur eyes. Esspecially becuz i live also in 2 worlds.

  • @blueberrycupcakexD
    @blueberrycupcakexD 7 лет назад +1

    thanks for sharing her story!! such a strong woman! i also really like her dancing, is there a way to find more of her dancing videos on youtube? thanks :)

  • @franzymadm999
    @franzymadm999 7 лет назад +1

    Awesome project and wonderful ppl in this video💜

  • @SMaa24683
    @SMaa24683 7 лет назад +1

    Loving this series!

  • @hadijasaf968
    @hadijasaf968 7 лет назад

    Great storyteller and beautiful story

  • @ayseozturk6614
    @ayseozturk6614 7 лет назад +1

    I. LOVED. THIS. !!! ...

  • @ayllinspire
    @ayllinspire 6 лет назад +2

    Yes Eine! Mach weiter! Keep going. Bist eine Riesen Inspo auch als Muslima sein Ding durchzuziehen (auch ohne die Not nach einem Mann)

  • @schirinmu2743
    @schirinmu2743 7 лет назад +2

    Keep it up Beni! This was truly inspiring to watch...Got goosebumps at the end

  • @SayedSaikat
    @SayedSaikat 5 лет назад

    Excellent! Keep up the good work.

  • @xxMrsSparrowxx
    @xxMrsSparrowxx 7 лет назад +4

    Thank you again and again and again!

    • @BENIxNadir
      @BENIxNadir  7 лет назад +2

      Thank YOU again and again and again!

  • @sidrah11
    @sidrah11 7 лет назад +2

    Her mum is very wise I'm not Muslim by birth that's why I understand her but her mum loves her regardless her being slightly rebellious

  • @thereisnostory9508
    @thereisnostory9508 7 лет назад +1

    Just stumbled upon your channel and it is really inspiring. You make me want to create some content too! - What is the French song in the background btw?

  • @nashathfarhana6568
    @nashathfarhana6568 7 лет назад +1

    ahmaaazingg, keep making videos!!

  • @sheenazfazreennuryusof9980
    @sheenazfazreennuryusof9980 7 лет назад +2

    Would love to hear from you emine how you overcome the negative barrier of religion/culture of being a hijabi dancer. I myself love love dancing but ever since i started wearing the hijab, i became more self conscious and stopped dancing other than dancing at home alone.

  • @eda5509
    @eda5509 7 лет назад +1

    Great 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @nmiss1459
    @nmiss1459 7 лет назад +1

    What's the song at 3.38? Love this doc.

  • @fairouzchelaghma4528
    @fairouzchelaghma4528 7 лет назад +3

    wow for a second i thought thats my mom who was talking; why we cant be a successful women without getting married ?!!!!

  • @Sherryno
    @Sherryno 7 лет назад +1

    thank you soooo much!! that content is on point!!! what's the name of the french song?

  • @minhajulmadinah
    @minhajulmadinah 7 лет назад +1

    love this!

  • @ELhunter
    @ELhunter 7 лет назад +1

    Man this was Awesome

  • @shakirah.r
    @shakirah.r 6 лет назад

    Goosebumps and tears ❤

  • @ana2386
    @ana2386 7 лет назад +2

    Again such a good videoo, I really like this vlogumentary concept !
    Anyone knows whats the song called that is played in between and in the end?

  • @anfalnagi8367
    @anfalnagi8367 7 лет назад +1

    YOUR CONTENT IS HANDS DOWN THE BEST ON RUclips!!!

  • @Ali01007
    @Ali01007 7 лет назад +1

    You deserved more likes and subscribers

  • @alsag953
    @alsag953 6 лет назад

    I love her she will change the world, even if it's just for a few people...but she will👍❤

  • @terencetee3880
    @terencetee3880 7 лет назад +1

    Great video, important message to send out :) But. can I know what is the name of the banger being played in the background ahhaa thanks

  • @Yasmin-hq1ud
    @Yasmin-hq1ud 7 лет назад

    Hey, what equipment do you use? Is it a DSLR or a professional film camera? Also had questions about your lens. Everything just looks really smooth, so I was interested in knowing. I'd really appreciate it if you responded, thank you!

  • @nashathfarhana6568
    @nashathfarhana6568 7 лет назад +1

    dope content 🙌🏻

  • @SeventhAngeljackTV
    @SeventhAngeljackTV 6 лет назад

    nice video, I can relate to this video... I admired Muslim lady. I will tell someday my story in due time in shaa lah.

  • @humairaabulbul6413
    @humairaabulbul6413 7 лет назад

    You're doing a great job love your videos 😂

  • @riderbuu1
    @riderbuu1 7 лет назад +1

    Amazing bro nadir

  • @viola9719
    @viola9719 7 лет назад +1

    Amazing

  • @saidaje9414
    @saidaje9414 7 лет назад +4

    Whats the Song in 3:30 ? Thanks :)

  • @thawabs3027
    @thawabs3027 7 лет назад +2

    "Everything is love in dancing" 💕

    • @BENIxNadir
      @BENIxNadir  7 лет назад

      Bet you loved that part DIDN'T YA!!

  • @thewalkinghijab7384
    @thewalkinghijab7384 7 лет назад +1

    Yeeeay new vid 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @empathyamy707
    @empathyamy707 7 лет назад +1

    Incredible

  • @wafat764
    @wafat764 7 лет назад +1

    Which is the song at 3.26

  • @JAZR0
    @JAZR0 5 лет назад +1

    When you speak english, german and turkish and understand everything mixed together. It's fucking weird hahahaah

  • @sidrah11
    @sidrah11 7 лет назад +1

    Don't bite your nails lol otherwise great documentary keep it up

  • @ahmed.daawoood
    @ahmed.daawoood 4 года назад

    i love it

  • @sameehaal-sayed645
    @sameehaal-sayed645 7 лет назад +1

    What's the music?

  • @syedmudasir7907
    @syedmudasir7907 6 лет назад

    What song name played @ 3.28

  • @ishfaqshams
    @ishfaqshams 4 года назад

    💛💛

  • @Lotustreee
    @Lotustreee 5 лет назад

    Super

  • @VEHICLEADDICT
    @VEHICLEADDICT 7 лет назад +2

    1st comment 1st comment. worth the wait.

  • @imaantamimi899
    @imaantamimi899 7 лет назад +1

    O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D.

  • @Arnold_X3
    @Arnold_X3 7 лет назад +3

    Super count: 43

  • @nazneentamboli3900
    @nazneentamboli3900 7 лет назад

    Wow ur doing a good job i want to keep ur channel in my active subscription list

  • @hilalyildirim2433
    @hilalyildirim2433 7 лет назад +2

    Wie meine Mama

  • @themessage4022
    @themessage4022 7 лет назад +2

    en buyuk başarı Allah rizasini kazanmak

  • @butterflyeffct8959
    @butterflyeffct8959 6 лет назад

    She was my trainer for a week

  • @Mariam-xh8rw
    @Mariam-xh8rw 6 лет назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️all moms r the same🙌🙏❤️😂

  • @xrivercrys2289
    @xrivercrys2289 6 лет назад

    I dont understand. I am Turkish, i live in Ankara/Turkey. I am muslim. I dont wear hijab... I can understand everything that her my mother says. Dancing is very normal to me its very normal. Everybody can dance in Turkey. Hijab or not hijab. What happened to these people? Annesi okulunu bitirmemesi konusunda hakli,Turk olunca okul her seyden onemli oluyor. Ilginc bir sey... I can say a lot of things but i cant say here. NE MUTLU TURKUM DIYENE.

  • @chaulongnguyen5271
    @chaulongnguyen5271 6 лет назад +1

    Tien g tho

  • @neslikhan5624
    @neslikhan5624 5 лет назад

    Oklavayi getirin hahahahahha