How to make your Marriage stand the test of time! | Understanding the Seasons of Marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Is Marriage really hard, or have we failed to understand the different seasons in marriage? I had a lovely discussion with Jackie Kisembo who is passionate about everything marriage and homemaking. She shared about the dream, drama, discovery stage that brings things into perspective.
    #marriageadvice #marriageworks #lisakusiima

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  • @pumlanabachwa8668
    @pumlanabachwa8668 Год назад +19

    I truly love the way Mukyaala Kisembo (I'm assuming Kisembo is the husband's name...forgive me if otherwise) speaks about marriage. She seems positively and healthily passionate. Marriage is not as difficult as people say it is. Because for shuwa the only thing that makes life hard is the partner we choose to take on this journey. If we're not aligned...HO! Anyway, ffe we ran away early kubanga we were not ready. Sometimes Love just doesn't conquer all 🤷🏾‍♀️. P

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Yes she is Mukyaala Kisembo 🤗🤗🤗
      Thanks Pumla 🌸

    • @nampalamastulah4240
      @nampalamastulah4240 Год назад

      Ooo, my pumla ❤ever speaking uo heart out

  • @berylaluda1790
    @berylaluda1790 Год назад +1

    I know I always come late to watch on the channel but on days like these I’m binge watching 😂 now my husband knows who Lisa is coz I’ve been watching nonstop 😅…I’m enjoying and learning at the same time. Thank you Lisa ❤❤❤ we love you in Paris

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Год назад +2

    Bring Jacky back.❤ I want her insights on conflict styles,love languages and managing conflict in marriege❤. She very eloquent and articulate and precise

  • @agathaturyagyenda7900
    @agathaturyagyenda7900 Год назад +8

    Nice to see Jackie! spitting wisdom as usual!

  • @celinehorus
    @celinehorus Год назад +2

    Thanks RUclips algorithm for getting me here.
    I didn't know about the stages and I've been married for 4years.

  • @rachaelkamugisha
    @rachaelkamugisha Год назад +5

    We need the grace because this Discovery stage is not for the weak hearted.Thank you for sharing,its nice to know that you are never alone in this life journey.

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy Год назад

    I think it’s very eminent that couples especially now dating to discuss your conflict styles, and character Temperaments

  • @bulyaoliveritah5792
    @bulyaoliveritah5792 Год назад +4

    Spitting words of wisdom and Truth . Thank you Lisa and Jackie. But also shake the tables mpola mpola...😂😂😂😅The drinks might pour...Much love❤God bless you

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      Hahaha we are pouring all the drinks 🍹 😂

  • @moureenblessingnaki1097
    @moureenblessingnaki1097 Год назад

    Am in love with the wisdom on this channel

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      I’m glad . Thanks for being here

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +4

    I love you Lisa. Am so passionate about marriage too I love your work for its preparing for marriage as am trusting God

  • @Cate-3ae
    @Cate-3ae 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you Lisa, newly married here 6 months now. Seeing changes😂😂😂am here for a word of wisdom.

  • @lwazidiamond
    @lwazidiamond Год назад +3

    Really appreciate the production value of this...and this topic is so necessary.

  • @komuhendopatricia1719
    @komuhendopatricia1719 Год назад +3

    Wowwww, words of wisdom.Thank you Lisa and Jackie

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +2

    May God bless you more and use you more in our generation

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for inviting this wonderful Lady

  • @ariokotyvette5491
    @ariokotyvette5491 Год назад +3

    I loved this so much thank you for always inspiring me now I know loved when she said let God write your story

  • @priscatukahirwa2930
    @priscatukahirwa2930 Год назад +4

    I don't think men know these things or even want to know. When we ask these questions they just see us as dramatic and too emotional beings

  • @milnanz7580
    @milnanz7580 Год назад +2

    This was such beautiful insight and advice. I'm blessed. God bless you ladies. Great Words of wisdom Jackie👏👏 let God write your story!!!

  • @MrMwesh
    @MrMwesh Год назад +1

    Let God write your story! Hallelujah

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Yaaaassss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @nabukenyadianamasengere391
    @nabukenyadianamasengere391 Год назад +2

    I love this wow

  • @Cate-3ae
    @Cate-3ae 9 месяцев назад

    Wow, l am blessed thank you please

  • @kaddumuhammadi5814
    @kaddumuhammadi5814 Год назад

    Great topic indeed.....message to those hope to settle I future

  • @Talk2Amb.Anita247
    @Talk2Amb.Anita247 Год назад

    Beautiful

  • @stellaonyang7609
    @stellaonyang7609 Год назад +1

    Talk about drama Its real this is where third party come in a lot and make matters worse. For me at that stage we just had to sit down and sort the rice because we got tired of eating rice with stones and so on. Of course l mean maid relatives and friends had to he officially sorted out then we dealt with the real marriage finally the rice is cooking well and sweet.

  • @cadiluxmusic
    @cadiluxmusic Год назад +1

    Wow Wow Wow .... This was so powerful. Thank you so much for this Lisa and Jackie. I have learnt alot. Too much wisdom. God bless you guys❤

  • @evolvemalesafrica256
    @evolvemalesafrica256 Год назад

    WOOWWWWW You touch my marriage and heart with this information. Thank you so so much!! God bless you soo much!!!

  • @Blessed_C
    @Blessed_C Год назад +1

    First time here and I love it, thank you so much ladies for this I’ve learnt a lot

  • @erinakagisha8288
    @erinakagisha8288 Год назад

    Kisembo you are brilliant

  • @sarahwainaina7711
    @sarahwainaina7711 Год назад +1

    Lovely conversation full of wisdom and a lot of awareness.Thanks ladies 😊.I love your channel 😍.

  • @geraldinerwabutuku9655
    @geraldinerwabutuku9655 Год назад

    Wow wow wow this is amazing I would recommend for all married couples wow Jackie

  • @preciousvicky8870
    @preciousvicky8870 Год назад +2

    Thank you for always inspiring us ❤

  • @noreennakazibwe1435
    @noreennakazibwe1435 Год назад

    Seasons or stages in a relationship ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️Noreen set yourself and adapt so that I don't miss

  • @kaddumuhammadi5814
    @kaddumuhammadi5814 Год назад

    Have learnt the how very important..how can I become a better partner...how can I improve our love...

  • @anyangoveronica8804
    @anyangoveronica8804 Год назад

    Hi Lisa it's my first time here n I really love the show , Jackie is a grt women, sincerely I must say am in the dream stage 😂😂😂❤️❤️

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Hahahah enjoy the dream stage. Keep communicating 🌸

  • @angellaayebale
    @angellaayebale Год назад

    Praying for our husbands is very important....

  • @amandaakatukunda
    @amandaakatukunda Год назад

    Saving this video for revision in the future!

  • @daisytuape5328
    @daisytuape5328 Год назад

    This is good ...

  • @AyebareKagina
    @AyebareKagina Год назад

    good stuff Lisa keep it up, i could not agree more

  • @rosakatusabe636
    @rosakatusabe636 Год назад

    Am just dating someone but its good

  • @kangumeshallon2018
    @kangumeshallon2018 Год назад +2

    Am still the bride haha so interesting

  • @kihumuronash951
    @kihumuronash951 Год назад +1

    Marriage is commitment

  • @primahkyambadde6436
    @primahkyambadde6436 Год назад

    Already excited about this:):)

  • @afrisentwithbeatie7791
    @afrisentwithbeatie7791 Год назад

    Do I serve my husband better this is sooo amazing 🥰

  • @dianakatirima1228
    @dianakatirima1228 Год назад +1

    Enjoyed listening to this conversation 😃.
    Where does one find the Toothpaste machine? 😄

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Hahaah some online shops on IG have.

  • @asiimwepatricia1588
    @asiimwepatricia1588 Год назад

    Hi Lisa , do you do podcasts also ???
    These are really nice conversations to put

  • @DignaK
    @DignaK Год назад +1

    I’ve been in dream for 4 years. If it dare ends I’ll be pissed😂😂😂😂 whoa!

  • @joanlugujjo2412
    @joanlugujjo2412 Год назад

    But Lisa, that interlude… shall I be swimming soon?😂

  • @mugowa202
    @mugowa202 Год назад

    This was just directed to me....

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 Год назад +5

    Do men think deeply about marriage and relationships as deeply as we do though🤔 As a woman you may be investing time in understanding the seasons but the other party doesn't see value in all that 😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      You show him the video and do your part🤩

    • @AyebareKagina
      @AyebareKagina Год назад +1

      short answer, yes long answer more than you can imagine...

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      @@AyebareKagina awwwww

    • @jenniferwinners9938
      @jenniferwinners9938 Год назад

      Yes they do, if they really care for your happiness

    • @clarenimusiima187
      @clarenimusiima187 11 месяцев назад

      You share with them the knowledge. #Thx Lisa

  • @niwenshabagloria1055
    @niwenshabagloria1055 Год назад

    Thank u Lisa...bt what am asking...is it only women who have to put in work always??or it's a two way??

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      It takes 2 of course but do your part regardless

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +4

      ✅Keep involving your spouse in everything. Look for ways of connecting in even casual things like hobbies… eventually they will join the serious things like marriage fellowship
      ✅change ur motive. U work on the marriage because God expects u to do so. Not because ur spouse is also working equally.your motive will fuel ur commitment.
      ✅Do not despise humble beginnings and the power of consistency
      ✅Pray for him. The hearts of these men are all in the hands of God. Plus only God can refresh you and pat you on the back for things u do out of love that sometimes go unnoticed 😥
      ✅Pray for your husband to find a forum where he will be edified because as a wife u can only teach him so much
      ✅Men learn better with other like minded men. Who is ur husband listening to🫣

    • @esthermusasizi4472
      @esthermusasizi4472 Год назад

  • @brighttumukunde6631
    @brighttumukunde6631 Год назад

    😊😊😊

  • @editorandposiano1935
    @editorandposiano1935 Год назад

    I swear for me.....this business of dropping socks everywy and clothes.....we always quarrel banange....but most times I give up and move on

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      Don’t get weary. Find solutions. Be a helper where he needs help. When you actually think about it, it’s just socks 🙊

  • @YK-wl1bw
    @YK-wl1bw 8 месяцев назад

    Dream. Drama. Discovery.

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  8 месяцев назад

      Knowing these seasons really helps

  • @moureenblessingnaki1097
    @moureenblessingnaki1097 Год назад

    The drama in our marriage was too much

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      How’s it now🥹

    • @moureenblessingnaki1097
      @moureenblessingnaki1097 Год назад

      We are learning to to bear each other

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад

      @@moureenblessingnaki1097 love it. Thanks for sharing. Bearing with one another is not easy but only God can help us🎉

  • @erinakagisha8288
    @erinakagisha8288 Год назад +1

    Please give me jakie's contact! I promise not to abuse it.

  • @nanyongalucky4153
    @nanyongalucky4153 Год назад

    Lisa I would like to talk you personally dear ,

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      Reach out on Instagram @lisakusiima

  • @violetmssempebwa
    @violetmssempebwa Год назад +2

    Drama stage....😂😂😂

    • @LisaKusiima
      @LisaKusiima  Год назад +1

      The drama in there haha. How are you coping?

  • @karibunisafari9827
    @karibunisafari9827 Год назад

    🤍💜🧡💙