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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

Комментарии • 59

  • @deborahchristian2318
    @deborahchristian2318 Месяц назад +25

    Emmy, I engage with your videos everyday. I’m so grateful for your gentle wisdom, your soothing voice and beautiful smile. I came across your channel a few months ago while in the midst of a serious mental health crisis. It seems like you are speaking right to me quite often. I don’t believe that it was by accident that I found you at this very moment. In addition to the help I am finding through medication, therapy, prayer and journaling, you have been an important part of my healing journey. Thank you for all that you do. Love to you from Maine.❤

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +2

      @@deborahchristian2318 pleased you are healing and my words help.

  • @teddyoggin
    @teddyoggin Месяц назад +4

    You are like a new best friend, gently waking me me from a long slumber. Whenever I listen to you, I feel encouraged and more motivated. Thank you 💕

  • @MaryFitzharris
    @MaryFitzharris Месяц назад +4

    Thank you Emmy. I will cherish the idea that someday the light we share can help others even after we are not here. That is a very powerful concept ❤. Deeply moving coming from a very gentle heart xxxx❤

  • @limppimento55
    @limppimento55 Месяц назад +4

    And hopefully my teacher, your videos will live on after we are all gone to help others on life’s journey.

  • @HavaEliyahou
    @HavaEliyahou 2 дня назад

    I thank you so much. It's like you're speaking directly to me. You help me a lot !
    I would like to ask you to speak about financial struggles and all the worries it brings.
    Thank you ❤

  • @henryclark803
    @henryclark803 19 дней назад +1

    A tip my Dad gave me many years ago was when you are feeling stressed you have to drop your chin/jaw and when you relax that it can help to relax the rest of your body. Thank you for your lovely videos.

  • @violeta-sabinaciobanu559
    @violeta-sabinaciobanu559 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you very much for sharing your experience and thoughts with us Emmy❤ I am learning from you! It helps me be better at being me and be if service to others in my work as a psychotherapist
    I am sending you love and my gratitude

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад

      @@violeta-sabinaciobanu559 Thank you 🙏

  • @PrismaStream101
    @PrismaStream101 Месяц назад +5

    "you dont ever have to, be stronger than you really are, when youre lying in my arms" ~Lana Del Rey

  • @jackiecarter5193
    @jackiecarter5193 Месяц назад +9

    Thank you Emmy. We all certainly have our ups and downs, but I feel that bad memories can pull us into a horrible web of grief, regret and anger.
    How do we overcome this tendency? I know its important to try to stay in the present, but sometimes thats a very difficult thing to do.

  • @goosecreekcommunitylandtru8080
    @goosecreekcommunitylandtru8080 Месяц назад +3

    Ditto Deborahchristian! Thank you Emmy! The sun peaking through the rain clouds to show off the brilliant Colorado fall colors (yes we have great leaf-peaping here too), peppermint tea, yoga and you reestablish my balance today!

  • @Truthtouch-ke4yv
    @Truthtouch-ke4yv Месяц назад +3

    Hm..
    Your Are absolutely Beautiful Soul.
    Thank You for Your wisdom, for Your Love towards People and that You Are aware how important it is to continue the goodness for future generations. Real knowledge is free, it just takes some people to talk to each other, to learn sometimes from others mistakes and to share lessons from our mistakes..
    This comment would be very long, buy I will stop my self here. I am grateful that my path somehow got into point where I could listen to You. It is like a gift, You Are a gift for others..
    Thank You.. 🙂❤️🌷

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +1

      @@Truthtouch-ke4yv your post is a gift too and is much appreciated. 🙏

  • @johna6291
    @johna6291 Месяц назад +4

    First priority. Honest awareness of your life.

  • @marthastettinius1780
    @marthastettinius1780 Месяц назад +5

    I really appreciate you. Speaking of "spreading the light," I find your videos wonderful to listen to closely in the mornings when I come inside after seeing the sunrise and do my red-light therapy.

  • @oLiver-dc4fi
    @oLiver-dc4fi Месяц назад +5

    You’re so pleasant and like the family I wish I had

  • @trishbirchard1270
    @trishbirchard1270 Месяц назад +4

    You look especially adorable today,
    Darling Lady!
    💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @a.mie.533
    @a.mie.533 Месяц назад +1

    =D ...Thank YOU - I just came across your channel and find it very inspiring. Therefore I subscribed and I'm looking forward to hearing more from you!

  • @laurad4243
    @laurad4243 Месяц назад +7

    Good morning Emmy 😍 So grateful for your pearls of wisdom. I hope you saw the Supermoon last night- it was phenomenal and helped the “down” feel “up” for a night. Much love 💕☯️

    • @marylynch951
      @marylynch951 Месяц назад +2

      I forgot about the Supermoon
      It sounded beautiful

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +1

      @@laurad4243 sure did!

  • @ch.t.6311
    @ch.t.6311 Месяц назад +6

    Thanks you Emmy for your knowIedge, I needed to hear this today!Sending you back tons of love ❤

  • @bob_halford
    @bob_halford Месяц назад +4

    I don't doubt you have your flaws... and know them only too well - as we all must do. But know that you are a special person in that you help us all find a perspective on our own goodness & value that we might otherwise not be aware of. That is a gift indeed - I thank you!!! I would love to know you in real life.. and people like you. That would make it all worth while.

  • @evagrosz1621
    @evagrosz1621 Месяц назад +6

    Everything I have learned from you has given me back the joy of life ! Thank You !

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +2

      @@evagrosz1621 brilliant! You often contribute so much to the channel.

  • @traceyannpapworthart
    @traceyannpapworthart Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for creating this community. I was lost and now I am found 😊😊❤

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад

      @@traceyannpapworthart you are so welcome. You could join my Facebook group the Art of Living too!

  • @jennyknewe5952
    @jennyknewe5952 Месяц назад +4

    Hello! I am a new viewer and new subscriber! You always have such insight, and you are soothing to me and seem so genuine.
    The thing that stood out to me the most from this video is when you said, "It is really important to stay grounded in the reality of the difficulty of living." The track my life was on was altered 4 months ago, and since then I have been trying to keep "busy" so that I don't have to deal with the adjustment and why it happened. I know this is not healthy. Thank you for the reminder. My journal entries have been missed for too many days in a row, it is definitely time to get it out and face the shadows. Thank you. I am am happy to have found your channel. You are a lovely soul.

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +3

      @@jennyknewe5952 Yes, face the shadows. Will do a video about that soon.

  • @dannysmith2794
    @dannysmith2794 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you Emmy.

  • @brigidoconnor-gj8dq
    @brigidoconnor-gj8dq Месяц назад +2

    Dear Emmy, thank you once again for your wonderful words of wisdom and kindness! I intend passing on your words and thoughts to some that I know will benefit from your wisdom. Hopefully they will also join your site to get their daily fix of your open minded heart and soul! I feel so blessed to have found you! So clear, so simply put, so healing! Thank you!🙏😇🌹💚

  • @katiemynette4285
    @katiemynette4285 Месяц назад +4

    ❤Good morning EMMY. It's good to see you. I hope you and your husband have a blessed 🙏 day. May SOMETHING happen to give ALL of us a FANTASTIC FRIDAY! Love you, KATIE❣️ KENTUCKY😊!

  • @oanamoanaa
    @oanamoanaa Месяц назад +2

    I am happy to be part of this community 😁

  • @vipadaterraoumvargas
    @vipadaterraoumvargas 26 дней назад

    💜

  • @mattharris3450
    @mattharris3450 Месяц назад +2

    Wonderful wisdom and so helpful, always. Grateful for you sharing your videos and time. Thank you so much. 🙏🏼💚

  • @NotredameSparrow
    @NotredameSparrow Месяц назад +1

    I’m a very well practiced escape artist looking for virtue in staying with and in the present. 🙏

  • @jeraldbaxter3532
    @jeraldbaxter3532 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you!😊

  • @SteveeBarger
    @SteveeBarger Месяц назад +2

    Thank you ❤

  • @crashdummyglory
    @crashdummyglory Месяц назад +2

    it is alright to feel low. You can exhale now....Thank you.

  • @intothemystic3374
    @intothemystic3374 Месяц назад +2

    I love your chats. Your kindness behind the wisdom elevates a new perspective.
    When I'm in an upswing, I like to ride that wave. Enjoy it. I forget about the down's while on that wave. When the wave crashes, I recognize it as just that. I command myself when I'm at a deep low to breathe, be mindful of my movements. To slow down, pay attention, focused self care, and make no big decisions. A morning sun meditation or wind walk soothes my soul.

  • @claradias4779
    @claradias4779 Месяц назад +3

    Thank you i was the lucky one when i found your chanel ... god sand his wisdom thru you because i was in deep sufering and deep need...now i feel much better with myself ❤❤❤

  • @prestonhutchings9857
    @prestonhutchings9857 Месяц назад +1

    I’ve been watching your videos daily to get me pumped up for the day ahead thank you for your wisdom!

  • @marylynch951
    @marylynch951 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Emmy
    God bless you and husband ❤❤

  • @1Strawbz1
    @1Strawbz1 Месяц назад +2

  • @claradias4779
    @claradias4779 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @adude9882
    @adude9882 Месяц назад +1

    I think I will listen to you again. I am facing a big challenge at the moment and in the dark lonely hours last night I found myself reaching out to a potential world I cannot see which in my imagunation is what I like to call the democracy of heaven or the republic of heaven. I am not sure if I imagine the inhabitants to be the wise benevolent enlightened spirits of the dead or something else. I felt I couldn"t focus my 'prayer' as if my mind at that realm were two same ends of a magnet pushing apart. Strangely though, today I made some progress against a very distressing challenge. Maybe I am making up my own religion. :) Or was this THE religion?

  • @focaa2235
    @focaa2235 Месяц назад +2

    All this help is wasted on me.

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +2

      @@focaa2235 you will find something eventually that hooks you into a fresh start. Keep looking.

    • @elizabethbarsanti4297
      @elizabethbarsanti4297 Месяц назад +1

      That’s sad. Sorry to hear it.

  • @ConnieBrown-gu6bb
    @ConnieBrown-gu6bb Месяц назад +2

    It saddens me to see how many of us are struggling every day.🥲🙏🏻

    • @EmmyvanDeurzen
      @EmmyvanDeurzen  Месяц назад +1

      The other side of that coin is that so many of us are living with awareness and are learning so much each day!

    • @dereckwhite5774
      @dereckwhite5774 17 часов назад +1

      Yes I understand, this life is full of struggles and hardships . Some days bring me to a place of hopelessness however, the God of the heavens is available to give strength to those who ask Him . God bless you.