I’m a hugger and a very affectionate person and it’s been so hard for me to not feel the human touch . I’ve been quarantining myself for well over a month . And it’s so dang hard not to even touch someone’s hand or brush the hair out of their eyes . Sometimes I will just cuddle with my male or female friends till we drift off to sleep . That’s what this reminds me of . I actually teared up a little . Misty eyed . Thank you so much Tom.
@@DrMoonAtNight I'm officially done with the restrictions, we have a curfew from 21:00 ( 9PM) untill 4.30AM. Only 1 visitor aloud but with irregular shifts etc its hard normally to see people every now and then.. Meanwhile data from people who have been tested has been hi-jacked, we are one of the slowest countries to start vaccination and the list goes on and on
I haven’t touched another person in over two months. I’ve been self quarantining since March 14 and have only been out of my apartment to the grocery store three times since then. Even though these are virtual hugs, I really needed this. I needed it more than I wanted to admit! I almost started crying! I loved your breathing in my ear and found myself matching my breathing to yours. It was very calming. I’m generally an introvert, but even I’m starting to miss human contact. Thank you so much Tom. You made me feel so much better. This was wonderful. You’re wonderful! 💜💜💜
Yesterday I was feeling so deeply sad in my depression, but watching your hugging videos made me feel better. Now I have another one to help me. Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Not to be weird, but I enjoyed the invisible hugs. I love hugs especially from someone that makes you feel safe and secure. This was perfect. Thank you.
Tom: I'm going to give you a hug for 20 seconds. Me: 🗣 Social Distancing 6 feet, the CDC will hear about this🚨 Tom:* *Goes in for hug anyway* * Me: * *cries like a grown man baby* * It's been so long since I've had a hug 😭
Hi, Tom. This is my first reply since joining YT many years ago, but I felt the need to say thank you for everything that you are doing. You really are helping people in ways that you might not even realize. I'm one of those. I just discovered your channel today when it popped up in my list. I've never really known intimacy like the kind you provide. Even back when I was dating, I never had anyone just hug me because he wanted to. It's funny how powerful simple words and sounds can be. I actually cried the first time I heard this video. I was in a bad place emotionally and physically for a long time. Fortunately that's all behind me now, but there's a whole new set of things to be worried about these days. Thanks to you, I actually feel safe and, yes, loved for the first time in a long time. Whoever has you in their lives is luckier than they know. The rest of us are lucky to have you doing these videos for us. It's nice to be able to pretend, if only for a little while, that a guy like me could actually get a hug from a guy like you. Sorry for the wall of text. You really deserve a lot of credit for what you do. If I had any money, I'd be your patron. As soon as I get any, that'll be the first thing I do. Greetings from a fellow musician, and virtual hugs back at you! Chris. PS. Did you ever start doing personal hug videos? I saw a mention in one of your earlier vids. That's definitely something I would like.
I saw in my email that this video was up and I dropped everything to watch it. I cannot get enough of your hugs Tom!! I felt as if I was there with you. You made me feel so relaxed and calm.
Those last 2 hugs were so so good! I actually felt like you were here comforting and taken care of me 😊 The mixture of the breathing and intermittent shushing with the back rubs was perfect. Would be great looped for like 8 hours or so 😳🤞☺️🙏 Stay safe xx
Not too long ago I made a playlist with this mans hug videos to go to sleep. I haven’t been in a relationship since 2016 and boy does it suck lol he made the feeling of loneliness go away and filled my strength up in that department... thank you ❤️
I actually turned my head several times during this, wanting to give you a kiss on the cheek, but there was no one there 😆 Nobody does hugging videos like you ❤️
Hi Tom, this is my first comment to your channel and I want to thank you especially because I'm submitting my thesis next week and your videos have helped me alot! Sending you hugs in return
I come back to this video so often, I struggle so much with physical contact but the concept of it is so comforting. This video is beyond perfect for me :)
I literally had the tingles and this is my first time feeling it. I've been looking for the perfect asmr, these past couple days have been a bit hard on me and I haven't slept properly recently... I thought of looking up soft sounds and asmr but all I get are really loud whispers... glad I found yours, Tom. Thank you so much
I’ve watched ASMR for years & this is the best video I’ve seen, it takes so much skill to make it seem effortless but every trigger is just right (to my ears anyway!)
I love all your hugs videos, but this😵, this is masterpiece. I feel your warm breath! amazing! Thank You for this most of the most calming videos in this strange times. I need the the hugs soooo much. Take care of You.
I will always return to this one. Every now and then the weeks and days get extra rough and more than anything, I physically ache to be held. But with no one here to actually do that, I have to resort to this video…and it does take the edge off. Tom, you’re such a blessing ❤ Thank you.
Such a perfect way to end my 21st birthday. It's definitely been the strangest one yet, and certainly the most lonely. This was the perfect wind-down for the night and I didn't know how much I needed the connection! It's an incredibly tough time mentally but these little things always end up becoming the things I'm most grateful for. 💙
Tommmmmm. This is amazing. Especially right now. This is my favorite trigger/ healing thing in the world and you are the absolute best. Much love brother
As always: to be loved, to share love, to feel comfort; to be in absolute confidence; to be understood; to be in security and safe; to be alone with you and not to be alone with ourself, to experience body contact. In reward for you Tom: you are loved, understood, conforted and you can have a true confidence in your followers (and of course, Patreons also!)
I hope you know how much your videos mean to those of us who only have negative male influences in our lives. You seem like a really good person and I appreciate what you do for all of us. ❤️
I really needed this. I have been self quarantining myself since March and these kind of videos is really needed. Yay to quarantine hugs from Tom!!! 💗🌸
This is marvelous!!! :D It is exactly what I was looking for, and I am relaxed, feeling much better and set for the rest of the week!! Thank you kindly, Mr. Tom, for all of your videos/content- you simply ROCK!!! :D
Hi, Tom. 💜💜 I love your hug videos.💜💜 I always feel protected and enveloped in your voice. I swear I was hugged!🍃🦋🍃 Thank you for the soothing energy.☄️🌌
I always love the videos you put out; especially this variety. They come across as sensual (not sexual), comforting, and validating. Thank you for your content 💝
This was really nice..been lacking in human contact months before all of this quarantine stuff...not gonna lie cried a little on the second strong hug when ya started talking about how it was all gonna be okay and be better soon
I've never felt love and affection like this before. I thank u for that. Imma subscribe, because u made me feel loved and appreciated. Take care y'all 🙏🙏🙏
I was getting ready for bed...and right in time I saw your video,Tom you're something else, I love your tingles and your relaxing voice😴❤...well, Good Night everyone! Take care of yourselves! ❤🦋🙏
I usually don’t like ASMR videos from men because they’re not soft enough but OMG! Your channel is perfect 😍 thank you for helping me out during this pandemic with your videos!
personally, I could do without the counting, but otherwise this video is perfection. I don't experience tingles, and never have, but this was so calming and relaxing and made me feel loved and appreciated, so thank you for this.
I love this video so much!! I just came back to it for the first time in a while bc I miss hugs and this video really reminded me of the night of my first kiss (which happened a week ago after 21 years heck yeah!) but me and my boyfriend spent a lot of time just holding each other and we rarely get to see each other in person because we’re trying to be careful with covid but when I close my eyes while watching this, I’m back in his arms again so thank you for this video!!
Thank you! Newly found your channel and these hugging videos mean more than you can ever know. I was terrified the first time I watched this video from start to finish. By the end, I was sweating and shaking in fear, but that's a good thing, as I actually finished the video. I have a strong aversion to touch, especially from men, I am paralyzed in fear. This video and those on your channel are going to help people like me practice/prepare for the real life relationships we hope to have once our pasts no longer cripple our futures. You do more good than I think you realize. And for that, I am grateful to you sir.
Honestly didn't think this would do much for me, then next thing I know I was waking up and the video was over, must have knocked me out fast 😂 now I watch this video over and over. Love this 💛
Right what I need now...very relaxing...love the soft breathing...the beard scratching...tinglesss the whole video,thankyou Tom,goodnight hug to you and everyone here who needs a hug!💕🙃🤗😴🌠🌙
Thanks for the hugs. First time seeing your video. I feel a lot better now. It felt like you were holding me close and I felt safe with you. Wish I could hug you in real life.
I have a bestfriend at my school before, she always gives me hugs and she is the only person where I can get genuine hugs. And now I transfered to another school for senior year and here I am getting bullied at and missing her so bad 😭
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The most underrated trigger ever
Tyson ASMR you’re also a master for asmr producing. 🤓
When are you two gonna collab again?
mysticmanification yes we filmed one the other day actually 😂
@@TysonASMR aaahh chills!! I'm already moist thinking about it.
@@mysticizzm lmao
One thumbs down? How can anyone thumbs down a guy trying to help people out, I don’t understand? You are great dude
Dislike bots
The dislike guy jealous😏
@Christopher Smith lets cuddle cutie :)
Can we cuddle? I'll make mouth sounds in ya ear.. like with a big Mac or something.
He found out this on his gf's watch history
I’m a hugger and a very affectionate person and it’s been so hard for me to not feel the human touch . I’ve been quarantining myself for well over a month . And it’s so dang hard not to even touch someone’s hand or brush the hair out of their eyes . Sometimes I will just cuddle with my male or female friends till we drift off to sleep . That’s what this reminds me of . I actually teared up a little . Misty eyed . Thank you so much Tom.
Same.. I can not even bear the thought of living like this for another 6 months
OMG YOU ACTUALLY SOUND PRECIOUS YOU ARE WONDERFUL
@@SimoneVPoise well it’s been 8 months
Shit
@@DrMoonAtNight I'm officially done with the restrictions, we have a curfew from 21:00 ( 9PM) untill 4.30AM. Only 1 visitor aloud but with irregular shifts etc its hard normally to see people every now and then.. Meanwhile data from people who have been tested has been hi-jacked, we are one of the slowest countries to start vaccination and the list goes on and on
@@DrMoonAtNight And more and more people in my country are so done with this but allmost nobody protest or stuff
I haven’t touched another person in over two months. I’ve been self quarantining since March 14 and have only been out of my apartment to the grocery store three times since then. Even though these are virtual hugs, I really needed this. I needed it more than I wanted to admit! I almost started crying! I loved your breathing in my ear and found myself matching my breathing to yours. It was very calming. I’m generally an introvert, but even I’m starting to miss human contact. Thank you so much Tom. You made me feel so much better. This was wonderful. You’re wonderful! 💜💜💜
Hugssss
Me too🙋
Sending virtual hugs ❤️
Perfectly stated! Ditto!
Dude u should be grateful lol. I haven’t touched anyone for like 3 years now.
I love the sound of breath in my ear and I love hug’s
It’s currently 3pm but Tom just said it’s time for bed so 🤷♂️
Brent Wolff Wheenever I listening to Tom, it’s a bed time~
I love obeying Tom. 🥱
He’s so gentle. ♥️
Yesterday I was feeling so deeply sad in my depression, but watching your hugging videos made me feel better. Now I have another one to help me. Thank you so much ❤❤❤
I feel you, love. This helps me for my depression as well. You are doing an amazing thing, when you are taking care of yourself. Good job! ♥️
This was soooooo good. I don't remember where exactly I fell asleep but you have the gift, my friend 🙏🏻
It’s crazy how it feels like he is really there and whispering into my ear. It makes me so calm and I immediately pass out.
Not to be weird, but I enjoyed the invisible hugs. I love hugs especially from someone that makes you feel safe and secure. This was perfect. Thank you.
As a closeted gay guy in the middle of this pandemic this video was just what I needed today.
Don't feel ashamed my friend :) be loud and proud I accept you we all do! 💗💗💗
I hope you find a man deserving of you and can one day live free.
well, i guess you arent closeted anymore, tho
Why did u specifided that ur gay?
ILLUMINATI I'm Gay
These are the best kind of ASMR vids, especially with Tom
Tom: I'm going to give you a hug for 20 seconds.
Me: 🗣 Social Distancing 6 feet, the CDC will hear about this🚨
Tom:* *Goes in for hug anyway* *
Me: * *cries like a grown man baby* * It's been so long since I've had a hug 😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂❣❣❣
Aw 😆❤️
Hi, Tom.
This is my first reply since joining YT many years ago, but I felt the need to say thank you for everything that you are doing. You really are helping people in ways that you might not even realize. I'm one of those. I just discovered your channel today when it popped up in my list.
I've never really known intimacy like the kind you provide. Even back when I was dating, I never had anyone just hug me because he wanted to. It's funny how powerful simple words and sounds can be. I actually cried the first time I heard this video.
I was in a bad place emotionally and physically for a long time. Fortunately that's all behind me now, but there's a whole new set of things to be worried about these days. Thanks to you, I actually feel safe and, yes, loved for the first time in a long time.
Whoever has you in their lives is luckier than they know. The rest of us are lucky to have you doing these videos for us. It's nice to be able to pretend, if only for a little while, that a guy like me could actually get a hug from a guy like you.
Sorry for the wall of text. You really deserve a lot of credit for what you do. If I had any money, I'd be your patron. As soon as I get any, that'll be the first thing I do.
Greetings from a fellow musician, and virtual hugs back at you!
Chris.
PS. Did you ever start doing personal hug videos? I saw a mention in one of your earlier vids. That's definitely something I would like.
I saw in my email that this video was up and I dropped everything to watch it. I cannot get enough of your hugs Tom!! I felt as if I was there with you. You made me feel so relaxed and calm.
Yessss thats awesome :)
1:55 Hugs start 😁 I love these videos, Tom. Thank you for another fabulous one!
Those last 2 hugs were so so good! I actually felt like you were here comforting and taken care of me 😊 The mixture of the breathing and intermittent shushing with the back rubs was perfect. Would be great looped for like 8 hours or so 😳🤞☺️🙏 Stay safe xx
Not too long ago I made a playlist with this mans hug videos to go to sleep. I haven’t been in a relationship since 2016 and boy does it suck lol he made the feeling of loneliness go away and filled my strength up in that department... thank you ❤️
Behind the ear whispers is very very underrated, I can't find anyone who does this as good or even at all. Great video!
I actually turned my head several times during this, wanting to give you a kiss on the cheek, but there was no one there 😆 Nobody does hugging videos like you ❤️
Hi Tom, this is my first comment to your channel and I want to thank you especially because I'm submitting my thesis next week and your videos have helped me alot! Sending you hugs in return
Thank you so much. Hugs videos are my favorite, especially after being 2 moths of self isolation ♥️ Love your whispers, breathing, love you.♥️
I come back to this video so often, I struggle so much with physical contact but the concept of it is so comforting. This video is beyond perfect for me :)
All his videos have been a gift needed.
You voice is like a warm blanket. Thank you for the hugs, feeling so much more relaxed and at peace. Much love brotha
I've come back to these hug videos... armed with a back scratcher.
It evokes an entirely different sensation and it's sooooooo nice!
I literally had the tingles and this is my first time feeling it. I've been looking for the perfect asmr, these past couple days have been a bit hard on me and I haven't slept properly recently... I thought of looking up soft sounds and asmr but all I get are really loud whispers... glad I found yours, Tom. Thank you so much
You're keeping us all going through the quarantine
you are the best asmrist i've found on youtube... you create pure relaxation.. thank you!
This was really lovely and I didn't realize I needed it until the 1st hug. Thank you for this, I'll definitely be revisiting it soon. ❤
I’ve watched ASMR for years & this is the best video I’ve seen, it takes so much skill to make it seem effortless but every trigger is just right (to my ears anyway!)
I love all your hugs videos, but this😵, this is masterpiece. I feel your warm breath! amazing! Thank You for this most of the most calming videos in this strange times. I need the the hugs soooo much. Take care of You.
Needed this right now... Crying in my bed at 1:00pm again 🙄 .... This too shall pass 😓
this is my fave asmr video of all time
I will always return to this one. Every now and then the weeks and days get extra rough and more than anything, I physically ache to be held. But with no one here to actually do that, I have to resort to this video…and it does take the edge off. Tom, you’re such a blessing ❤ Thank you.
Such a perfect way to end my 21st birthday. It's definitely been the strangest one yet, and certainly the most lonely. This was the perfect wind-down for the night and I didn't know how much I needed the connection! It's an incredibly tough time mentally but these little things always end up becoming the things I'm most grateful for. 💙
Happy birthday!!
Happy birthday 😘 i turned 18 in march so i get how u feel ...
Jen R. Thank you! 💙
Jacky xo Thank you! Yeah it’s definitely something I’ve never felt before 😅
Happy birthday! I hope that despite it feeling lonely, you managed to fine something to smile about
I haven't had tingles in so long, but I swear this video has cured me. Thank you for this! ❤
Tommmmmm. This is amazing. Especially right now. This is my favorite trigger/ healing thing in the world and you are the absolute best. Much love brother
No, thank YOU! I always love your hugs videos. This one is no different and so relaxing.
Amazing. Love it. Especially needed at 3am before work. Thanks tom. ❤❤
You posted at the right time lol perfect thing to watch before bed :)
As always: to be loved, to share love, to feel comfort; to be in absolute confidence; to be understood; to be in security and safe; to be alone with you and not to be alone with ourself, to experience body contact. In reward for you Tom: you are loved, understood, conforted and you can have a true confidence in your followers (and of course, Patreons also!)
DANG I got the shivers. Recently I was panicking about my national dance competition and this hug makes me so much better ❤️
I hope you know how much your videos mean to those of us who only have negative male influences in our lives. You seem like a really good person and I appreciate what you do for all of us. ❤️
That really means a lot. Thank you❤️
Tom is like that really loving husband/protector that I know I'll probably, more than likely will never have lol 😂 love you Tom! 💖
Tom, you always make me feel comforted and relaxed! Good night!
The creaking sound of a squeeze in the hug is a great trigger. This one was a lot more breathy but still wonderful.
Can I hug you back? I hope you have plenty of hugs in there, Tom.
I can! :)
@@atergonomico oh well that's just great
You can hug me
Dm ig platebeef
I’m pretty sure I’ve watched this video at least 500 times. Definitely the best hug video. Thanks Tom! These videos really help ❤️
Needed this positive energy for sure ! Made my chamomile tea before starting haha
Why haven't I known this channel before ? Your voice is so relaxing and soothing, thank you for this video 🙌 !
I really needed this. I have been self quarantining myself since March and these kind of videos is really needed. Yay to quarantine hugs from Tom!!! 💗🌸
This is marvelous!!! :D It is exactly what I was looking for, and I am relaxed, feeling much better and set for the rest of the week!! Thank you kindly, Mr. Tom, for all of your videos/content- you simply ROCK!!! :D
I loved this video. You made me feel very safe and relaxed.
I swear it’s like you know just what I need.I appreciate you for this.Thank you
this hard year make me watch this video more often than I want but I don’t regret that. Ty Tom
Hi, Tom. 💜💜 I love your hug videos.💜💜 I always feel protected and enveloped in your voice. I swear I was hugged!🍃🦋🍃 Thank you for the soothing energy.☄️🌌
I really needed this. Thank you so much. Seriously, I didn't know just how much I needed a hug.
Thanks for the hugs!
Man was this so relaxing
Thank-you for releasing a new video on my birthday, what a treat!! ❤
I love your videos. Thank you so much for posting them.
"Void you're feeling for the *past couple weeks*"
Wow, that hit like a punch to the gut...
This is what we needed right now
The “Do you like your hair played with?” gave me a rush of shivers in my lower back. Delicious
I always love the videos you put out; especially this variety. They come across as sensual (not sexual), comforting, and validating. Thank you for your content 💝
As soon as you did the first one I just started to cry. I guess I needed this more than I realised. Thank you ❤️
Hi Tom. Thank you again for taking away the sadness and anxiety. Virtuals hugs from 🇵🇭
I was feeling bad, had some not good thoughts and crying. I needed a hug. Now I'm relaxed and calmly happy
This was really nice..been lacking in human contact months before all of this quarantine stuff...not gonna lie cried a little on the second strong hug when ya started talking about how it was all gonna be okay and be better soon
I've never felt love and affection like this before. I thank u for that. Imma subscribe, because u made me feel loved and appreciated. Take care y'all 🙏🙏🙏
When I feel sad alone I come her to hugge him and I sleep so happy with it thanks for making me feel safe and happy ♥️
I was getting ready for bed...and right in time I saw your video,Tom you're something else, I love your tingles and your relaxing voice😴❤...well, Good Night everyone! Take care of yourselves! ❤🦋🙏
Didn't know how much I needed it. Thanks!
Thank you so much for this! It felt amazing. So tingly and relaxing... and loved.
I needed this today
This is quite relaxing! Thank you for the tingles, friend!
I usually don’t like ASMR videos from men because they’re not soft enough but OMG! Your channel is perfect 😍 thank you for helping me out during this pandemic with your videos!
Oh wow, just in time!! Just lay my head down, it's 10:40 pm in germany. ☺️ Can't wait to fall asleep with your smooth voice. 😍
personally, I could do without the counting, but otherwise this video is perfection. I don't experience tingles, and never have, but this was so calming and relaxing and made me feel loved and appreciated, so thank you for this.
Best social distance hug ever👏🏾
Felt like if a really caring big bro was there for me, is truly appreciated
I love this video so much!! I just came back to it for the first time in a while bc I miss hugs and this video really reminded me of the night of my first kiss (which happened a week ago after 21 years heck yeah!) but me and my boyfriend spent a lot of time just holding each other and we rarely get to see each other in person because we’re trying to be careful with covid but when I close my eyes while watching this, I’m back in his arms again so thank you for this video!!
After a long time finding my tingles I finally have found it thank you
thanks for the hugs.it was amazing,it brought me comfort overall watching you being so caring makes me fall for you more.
you just led me to a cute website lol
Thank you! Newly found your channel and these hugging videos mean more than you can ever know. I was terrified the first time I watched this video from start to finish. By the end, I was sweating and shaking in fear, but that's a good thing, as I actually finished the video. I have a strong aversion to touch, especially from men, I am paralyzed in fear. This video and those on your channel are going to help people like me practice/prepare for the real life relationships we hope to have once our pasts no longer cripple our futures. You do more good than I think you realize. And for that, I am grateful to you sir.
That is really great to hear. I’m really glad this helped ☺️
Honestly didn't think this would do much for me, then next thing I know I was waking up and the video was over, must have knocked me out fast 😂 now I watch this video over and over. Love this 💛
HOLY DUCK I DID NOT REALISE HIW MUCH I NEEDED THIS AND NOW I GET WHAT THE ASMR HYPE IS ABOUT MY BODY IS LITERALLY ALL TINGLY
Tom's video = sweet dreams 😴❤️
I've been waiting another video like this one for a long time! 🤭❤️
Right what I need now...very relaxing...love the soft breathing...the beard scratching...tinglesss the whole video,thankyou Tom,goodnight hug to you and everyone here who needs a hug!💕🙃🤗😴🌠🌙
Thanks for the hugs. First time seeing your video. I feel a lot better now. It felt like you were holding me close and I felt safe with you. Wish I could hug you in real life.
Yes it was very needed. Thanks Tom.
Thanks for the hugs!!
Your hugs video are my favorite
Love these videos. Thanks Tom!
Hugs from Tom! Thx for the hugs & tingles
I have a bestfriend at my school before, she always gives me hugs and she is the only person where I can get genuine hugs. And now I transfered to another school for senior year and here I am getting bullied at and missing her so bad 😭
I've been waiiiiiiiting for this. I need to meet you in person, after COVID-19, to get one of these.
I desperately needed a hug 🥰 Thank you, Tom ❤