Tami Roman | Derrick Jaxson - Fraud or Flawed?
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
- Derrick Jaxson done hoodwinked and bamboozled us right along with his wife, but are we forgiving him or nah? Let’s talk about it! DON’T FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE 💛
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My husband cheated on me when I was 5 months pregnant. I knew my worth and packed my bags and I was out of there. Once his new relationship ended he thought he can come back to me and piss her off. I didn't play those games I was comfortable with my decision I made. FYI: He caught her in there bed with a mutual friend of theirs he walked in on them. He didn't know that his brother wife had told me what happened. I was so happy I was so over him. He thought he was going to play me to make her jealous. But he forgot I was the wife and didn't want him. Years go by and I have two more other kids he tried it again to get back with me. I had grown so much that I was a home owner and went to school and became a nurse. I really didn't have no type of feelings for him. We communicated because we shared my oldest child together but that was all. God has been good to me.
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I love this testimony 🙏🏻💪👌👌👌💖💖 way to go mama keep pushing dressing sexy staying beautiful and walk like u have no problems in this world..
Stayed blessed!
Do you sis! He was a seasonal mate not a lifetime partner!!
Awesome👍👍
A woman's intuition is far greater than a man's advice ❤
This deserves more likes
The bomb I’ll fly go ok I’m mom on m yolk
Lies
That part! Even my husband will admit that cus I was always 1 step ahead & he would be shocked! Lmbo!
Amen 🙌🎯
“You cannot be afraid to be in your own company” realest shit in that sentence people... that’s where true happiness resides!
Yes!! THIS is one of the primary reasons most women stay in toxic relationships...If YOU don't like being with yourself, who else will want to enjoy being with you...#lovethyself
Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Amen girl!
I love this. Tammy approached this in the right way. She called on women to rely on their own intuition and values when navigating relationships. She is the only woman on social media who kept it about Derrick and didn't spend the entire video making fun of his wife for wearing a bonnet.
Those last 10min were spiritual
Your steps are ORDERED !!!!!
Do not be afraid to be in your own company
Why would she make fun of the bonnet when she's the OG bonnet
Mm! Tammy is onto somethin...
He was going to get a 6 figure TD JAKES deal. Tasha K has saved millions of Christian women from being duped.
Wow 😦😦😦
Yup
Facts...👏👏👏
So maybe this uncovering was God ordained for real...
I’m worried about how td jakes was about to do that, even before this debacle. Like who the hell is Derrick jaxn??? Lmao
Tami you may not be able to quote the bible, but you my lady are still FULL of wisdom. Speak the truth. 👏
Oh yeah. Social media is a breeding ground for narcissist...
It Is and always will be which is why I hate it. God bless!
This is so true!
And vulnerable, insecure women,
And sociopaths
It Sho is!!!! 😂😂😂 in My shut Avery Color Purple Voice...😜😜
When I first encountered that narcissistic troll, I was 27, my child was 2 and I just found out my child's father was having a baby with another woman. I was crushed and fearful of being a single mother. I was scrolling on FB and I see one of his videos. I'm like "Finally, a black man who uplifts and understands black women!" I bought several books like an idiot. I was trying to just feel good about myself again. This has taught me that I should have sought out therapy. I should have never gone to social media to fill my emptiness. He is a complete psychopath and I wish I could get my money back. I have quit following all the others too that claim to be experts on relationships. I am seeking the help of PROFESSIONALS. Prayer and therapy can get me through. This video was everything!
Amen Sista, Amen! Thank you for your transparency and honesty.
I went to therapy for three months, and to this day, it was the best decision I ever made. Now I still have low points, but as my counselor told me, I would bounce back faster. I am no longer sitting in depression for weeks and months. I put boundaries on everyone and have started listening to God and me. It seems to have given me a 3rd or 4th eye for the foolishness, with a quick withdrawal system.
EVERYTHING!!!!
You're not an idiot, he manipulated u and many others, if you knew you wouldn't support him...pick yourself up beautiful! 😉🥰🙏🏼💜
stay strong sis
4:15 I literally started clapping, YES GIRL!! 🔥🔥🔥
"Ladies, we gotta stop maneuvering through life like we don't see what we see and we don't know what we know and we don't know how to act how we know how to act. Our intuition is the greatest asset that we have." THIS!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Tami needs her own damn show! Tell it Sis!❤
This is it!❤👑
But I feel you!💖❤
Yes!
So true she keep it real.
Preach Tami. As a 48 year old woman I pray for these young ladies to open their eyes and know their worth. See Derrick is a whole fool
I watched one video, and something just felt unauthentic in his delivery. I was questioning why the car, is he in a relationship, who gave him the power to feel like he can speak on behalf of every man, and why was he talking to women instead of men? Just nothing made sense.
@@DrLadyBugM Derrick j is a skit . It's not serious.
“You preaching, think you teaching, and come fucking find out you fucking reaching” 😂🤣😭 bruh the most hilarious shit throughout this video
So if his wife read his books and took his advice, she would leave him.
This is a powerful comment. I hope that sistah sees this.
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That's the real TEA of the situation. Like homeboy, what advice would u give your wife in this situation IF she wasn't your wife?????🤨🤨🙄😌
The reason why most women connected with most of what Derrick had to say was because...it was really coming from his wife...she's the ghostwriter...women were really resonating with another woman...Derrick was just the face, the spokesperson...and apparently also the man he was always speaking about
@@chandishuntley5001 she definitely doesn't come across as bright enough to pull that off, but maybe you're right.
The sad thing is, so many of his "fans" choose to clown his wife now instead of checking/cancelling him. Wtf is wrong with women these days?!
Pick me’s
He's a NARCISSIST! And the move he pulled by bringing his wife on live was to do just what it did.. Take the focus off him and put it on his wife. They are very dangerous people.
Baby you said a mouffull
Desperate!
No, lol, they're ultimately doing both. Everyone is clowning him and her. He's an idiot.
I've recently learned that, yes marriages go through things( lost love ones, financial issues, kids acting crazy, in law issues, all that) , but cheating, disrespect, inconsistency, emotional and or physical abuse are reasons to end that marriage. Sometimes holding on is more damaging than trying to make it work. 💯✔
I agree with EVERYTHING you said. I'll add this... he knows how cruel social media can be. He KNOWS! and the fact that he let his wife sit there next to him (whether she wanted to or not) was selfish and cruel. Using her as a "shield" to right his wrong...simply cruel!
Also, her appearance was purposeful too, to garner sympathy for him. He’s a narcissist!
Allegedly He did it for a book deal that’s on the table with TD Jakes. My heart is broken for this woman and her mental health.
I was disgusted by that, how dare you expose your wife to ridicule and humiliation because you're a cheater. This man cheated and still failing to protect his wife
Not only that he's a narcissist so he wants to get ppl on his side. He wanted people to say "Look at her, I'd cheat on her too." He did that for the side chick he's actually interested in. You are so right, it was cruel and calculated and she needs to get a way from him. She looks like she is capable of cutting him👀 or worse...
@@gracekelly4203 Let's see if TD will associate with him after this.
Tami said a word!!! Black women know your worth!! Real talk.
That's what the issue is women don't no there worth.
Seriously as women we need to uplift his wife. She deserves better. I’ve been here myself and it’s hard. Especially when your only comfort is the very person hurting you. I want us to just show her so much love and support because it can be hard and he only makes it harder for her.
She ain't listening tho...shes reading that bible
I'm good. I can't help her if she doesn't want to be helped.
She's his brand manager
@@dimples53209 your attitude is just ugh. Obviously she’s not asking us for help BUT we can help by NOT making fun of her appearance and calling her stupid. It pushes her further into his arms. Literally said show love and support. If you’re not about uplifting another woman then the energy isn’t welcome anyway. I’m talking about unity. You’re stuck in a different mindset for the conversation I’m trying to have. And that’s ok. Your choice. Just don’t be apart of those women that are talking about how she’s stupid and this or that. That’s not healthy
@@tekenja3 honestly her reading the Bible isn’t a problem. Uplifting her isn’t saying out right to leave him or divorce him. It’s choosing to not make fun of her appearance or her situation because she gave her love and trust to a man. It’s very common for women to have those experiences but he’s capitalized off of hurting her. We don’t have to join him in the disrespect. That’s all I’m saying. Leave a thoughtful comment. Share your personal experience. You never know what people are going through deep down. Your words can help.
His body language said it all. He's not done cheating. Then he went to the car and spoke in 3rd person.
That took me for a ride!!
It was the side chick's house in the background of that video
@@goddessnoir290 He's definitely all audacity... 😩😩
WOW! That was crazy ass hell! Derrick Jaxson speaking in 3rd person!!
He had a 14 year marriage with a 10 year affair. Damn right he ain't going to stop.
You are right Tami. We need to stop turning to men with advice on how to be a woman. We need to go back to the time of women advising and building up women. Old school!
Yup.
🙄 I uu
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Omg so true. Have u this fool KS that a bunch of women turning for advice. Shit is sick.
@@carmelvillard KS is offering real advice. The kind of advice old school women used to give to younger women.
"You preaching, think you teaching, and come find out you fucking reaching." 😂😂😂 lawd Tami done said a word with this right here. Lol 🙌🙌😂😂
You can't be afraid to be in your own company LADIES!
WELL SAID !!! THIS IS VERY TRUE
SAY IT ONE MORE TIME FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love myself!!❤
Next thing u know we all gonna be in our own company 🤣🤣🤣
I know that's right!
Listen to your HEART LADIES ‼️ God Blessed Us With A Woman’s Intuition.. TAP INTO IT.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Bloop in that order!!!
THIS!!!!!!!
Yesssss that intuition is everything definitely a gift 🥰
Amen!
“Intuition something sweet! Let’s you know what you know, who you should let go and who you should let stay” Jill Scott
'You can't be afraid to be in your own company'....I felt that!
"You preaching, thinking you teaching, come to find out you reaching." Damn right Tami. These false prophets will always self destruct. No one can tell you what's right for you, but you.
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Not PREACHING TEACHING an REACHING✌❤✌❤
He made his wife look like a fool! Not only is Derek Jaxon a fraud, he is also a callous, insensitive, selfish womanizer. During the video, his wife seemed drained of emotion, while the master of deception clung to her hand pretending to be a man of integrity. I feel sorry for her.
ruclips.net/video/3tZ61WyJwUk/видео.html
Yezzz!!
I don’t feel she looks like anything but a trusting wife that got got( in Madea voice)
Beautifully worded, sis
Narcissist
This is one of the best reactions videos I’ve seen to Derrick Jaxn. Ladies you don’t need a man to tell you what you already see and know. Your intuition is all you need. Trust it.!
When we know our worth, we stop giving people discounts!
🎤 DROP!!!!
@@sunshineflowers3320 Facts🎯
I love this phrase/saying!
You shole know what to say
Amen....
You are 💯 Tami! A woman's intuition is golden! But too many override it. STOP overriding it, listen and act!
Listen to your mind
I listen to mines and it never failed me.
Facts!!! All you need and it’s never leads me astray.
😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏He will let you know the Brother Aint Right. All you have to do is LISTEN.🙉🙉🙉👂
Yes when you listen to your intuition, it always the best the first time. It avoid problems, and also you will receive blesssings💋
I know a woman who spent 30 years...YES 30 in a relationship with a narcissist like Derrick Jackson. He ended the relationship and she talks about how much she misses him!!! It's so sad!!!!!
They have a way of manipulation and with words that's hard to let go of, it's like getting off drugs. You become highly addicted in that dynamic, I hope she's able to recover in due time.
Trauma bonds
@@norahkalunda1234 Yes it's very sad and wasteful.
Somebody please get to my family member.Jesus. Jesus deliver her lord from the Natcissist destroying this gifted strong cteative intelligent sister..God bring her out of toxic mental emotional abuseive men no more.She is so worthy of better.The man God has for her is out there.Waiting to find her.
@@tanyasmalls2089 Amen!!!
The cheating isn’t the problem. If he wants to cheat on his wife, that’s him and his wife problem. It’s the scamming that’s the issue. He made his money by scamming women
Yesss the scamming was it for me.
Basically, but honestly when I 1st saw his video on RUclips I stated to my sisters he’s full of shit excuse my French but now look like Tammy said our FEMALE INTUITION IS ONE OF OUR GREATEST GIFTS
Honestly I don’t think he scammed anyone because the info he was giving was good advice.. with that being said his wife needs to take his advice that he was giving other women. Fix his ass
@@virgo3687 That would be hilarious
Everyone manipulate black woman and black latinas ok liquor stores chinese food korean beauty supply and now black me pimping and mind. F... us. Black woman need black man to validate them ...you dont need man to tell you crap or psychic reading what is the man doing what has he shown you he's the result????
“You didn’t exist in my world before you hit social media and you’re not gonna exist after I press stop on this video!” 👏👏👏👏
#tamiroman is the sht!!
YESSSSSSSSS, ONE OF THE BEST COMMENTS, MADE!!!!! ♥💯♥
“You preaching,think you teaching but you reaching” 😂
That’s a tshirt better get that trademarked 😂
Loved that part
OUT THE FREAKIN DOOR! I ain’t sticking around for SH*T!!! That’s why I’m single! Dudes really can’t handle a Woman who knows her worth and what she wants in life! They low key scared of it!!!
I concur wholeheartedly.
Because they know they can’t come with the bs!
Speak SIS!!!!!!
Preach!!!
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We don’t need relationship advice as much as we need to trust our intuition!
Stop looking for love outside yourself.
Loving Yourself Is The Greatest Love Of All!
Love! Greatest Love Of All🥰 RIP Mz.W.Houston😇
I am glad that you gave Tasha her credit. A lot of these content creators ran with the story and threw her shade, but she keep breaking stories with receipts. You brought the real.
FACTS
I really enjoy you you spoke BEAUTIFUL LESSON LEARN VERY Well spoken .
She also has out a lot of FALSE stories for clout. So I take her stories with a grain of salt. Derrick is a regular instafamous guy, so it was easy to figure out if he was hoing. He came off arrogant already.
She finally got a true story. Lol she’s another narcissist.
but she's making a profit of it and she's no better
She wants god to fix her relationship and god is trying to tell her to LEAVE, she’s ignoring all the signs he’s sending her😂😂
EXACTLY!!!!
Yep, cheating is biblical grounds for divorce. He already severed the marriage when he had extramarital sex....
Exactly
*God.
@@Face_Reality She’s so brainwashed by him it’s heartbreaking
We as women make men seem like some kind of majestic creatures we have to figure out. When I say I have learned men are so simple it’s ridiculous. Us women are deep and in our feelings, emotions and head a lot. Men they are simple what you see is what you get and what they tell is what they mean, even the lying ones are telling you that they’re lying.We just choose to believe it because we think it’s some deeper meaning behind their actions. It’s nothing more or less. Believe them when they show you. Like Tami said your intuition is so valuable, if it doesn’t feel right it probably isn’t and if it’s too good to be true most of the time it is. You’ll know when it’s right because you will feel it in your soul.
Yaaaaassssss! 🙌🏾
I try and tell my female friends. My momma. My sisters. Yall listen to yall intuitions..stop making excuses for they ass!!! The shit is crazy. I just sit back and watch the shit fall apart!..
Ur intuition ur gut or wateva u call it has NEVA let me down...ladies WE do not need nobody to tell US to use UR very OWN common sense
I literally said the same thing in one of my videos like 8 years ago. A woman's intuition already knows they just refuse to listen to it
@@BigHandsome519 you right, but woman tend to want evidence. When you’re seeing signs, that’s evident he doing something. I hate to see our women go through bs the don’t have to.
Your intuition is always right.
Yup! Like sis, how many signs and gut feelings do you need?!?! The Almighty gave us that for a reason. I don’t know how many times I went against my gut and regretted it. Not anymore!! My gut be like “Sis👀🙅🏽♀️!!” I be like “BET”
If the wife is going by the Bible she has the right to divorce him, and that's in the Bible.
EXACTLY!!!!! God permits devorce under adultery/infidelity related situations
Exactly 🙌🏽Idk what Bible she has or reading from smh 🤦🏽♀️
Preach!
I hear what you're saying but I think she is aware of what the Bible says and knows that she has the option to freely exit the marriage but she has chosen another option offered in the Bible.... Forgiveness and Restoration in Christ (it's a thing..look it up) 😉
@@dshel3200 but once he finds away to leave her without giving her any money..honeyyyy..he is out
Your steps are ordered...do not be afraid to be in YOUR OWN COMPANY
She don’t want to be with him, she’s being manipulated and probably threatened. She’s seems stuck. Narcissist are very hard to get away from. They’re vicious!
That part! Christian women are taught to be "submissive." I guarantee she took it to the max. He stayed gone days...probably weeks at a time, and she never questioned him. And that's when he decided to put 3 babies on her. He knocked her up on purpose. She can't leave. Who's gonna help her out? He's not giving her any money willingly, and court could take probably a year. A real nigga would just leave and give her that house. Help out financially with the kids. BUT NAW, that bitter bi*ch gone keep her there cuz she's his security blanket--that trampoline he gets to jump on to boost his ego. I won't say what I would do in that situation because he wouldn't have chosen me. I'm not his type.
Chile that man looked like Satan himself sitting next to her. I felt was scared for her.
@@yesiamher9034 it was hand holding for me,she look like she was in pain,with all the blood draining from the Kong-fu grip he have her finger in,I was so upset 😡
But accountability needs to be on her part as well. She was eatin the bread that he made from these videos and books knowing he was a fake. I do empathize with her but at the same time people make their own decisions and I don’t know her life for real. She low key could be apart of the whole thing who knows
I was married to a narcissistic sociopath... its such a difficult time and bond to break. They are skillful and dangerous when you're ready to move on.
You’re right about a lot of this, but one thing: staying with that monster is NOT strong. It’s wrong. It’s not only unhealthy and toxic for her, but moreover, her babies. Unacceptable.
It really is I know from experience they will break down your spirit, I hope she leaves but unfortunately it does not sound like it :(
Thank youuuuu!!!! We need ro stop misleasing women... this is not admirable! Leave that crummy ass bum!!!! Even religions try to push that on women and its sooo toxic!!!
Agreed
His wife needs to watch his videos and learn all about her husband and run for the hills!!!!
The reason why most women connected with most of what Derrick had to say was because...it was really coming from his wife...she's the ghostwriter...women were really resonating with another woman...Derrick was just the face, the spokesperson...and apparently also the man he was always speaking about
Lol
Tami is the good one that got away from that Toxic reality TV realm! Tami was always the realist and I'm so proud of her and all the great things she has going on from the TV series to the Bonnet Chronicles! Thank you for your positive content and wisdom! Your Mom is beyond proud......
"You PREACHING, think you TEACHING, come to find out you REACHING 🤣🤣📢📢📢📢📢📢📢📢
Right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
THAT PART!!!! 😂
She got bars
Crazy part is EVERYONE is giving him what he wants. ..
He's a REAL 🐕 IT NEVER MATTERED TO HIM WHO'S HOLDING THE LEASH..🤷🏾♀️
He's the type of man that wouldn't care if it came without pay as long as you see him
This was the realest commentary about this whole situation. 💯
Yes it is👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You said that right. Living that Facebook Instagram life. Perpetrating a fraud.
His wife looked so broken. She looked like she is in a sunken place. To me he did not apologize . Who speaks in the 3rd person? So he forgive himself . To many people was focus on the wife’s clothes . When you are broken you don’t care about anything. I believe he wanted to do the live not her, that’s why he was holding her hand so tightly.
Exactly!!
Derrick Jaxn did just what he was trying to do! He took the focus off himself and put it on his wife. And you are so right his wife is truly broken, I really feel bad for her. I hope she get the strength to leave him, because he is POISON!! A true Narcissist!!!
He didn’t apologize. If you listen carefully he never actually did
@Lakiesha Williams, yes she looked liked she was spaced out, it was truly sad I will be glad when she come out of that depression (my opinion am not a therapist) hopefully sooner than later.
@@sheilaahuggins4220 It's hard when you don't know your worth. When you think that's all you can get in life. She won't leave, " Until she sick and tired of being sick and tired ."
I just pray that when this girl wakes up she doesn't snap
The end was a WHOLE sermon.... stop equating couple with happy and lonely with alone. I will only do healthy coupledom. Period.
Tami just took us to the church of True Bonnet Wisdom. I was in the amen choir during the entire video. I wish she had of kept it going. I didn’t know anything about this man nor this couple before this week, but that’s probably because I don’t need someone to give me what he is selling. Here is what life has taught me: Respect yourself. It’s okay to have standards. All men are not the same and all women aren’t either; therefore, there is no true formula to a healthy relationship. Learn to be at peace not being in a relationship. Have a friendship before you try to enter into a partnership. I have been married to my best friend for 15 years and I tell him what I need and I encourage him to always tell me what he needs from me. My grandma gave me ONE of the most valuable pieces information on dealing with people I have ever learned, “When people show you who they really are, you best believe them and handle them accordingly.” I believe that girl knows who her husband is. If people continue to go to him looking for that feel good information he is selling, then you will get what you are looking for. He has already showed you who he is. Anything after that is your fault not his.
Who better to tell you about a cheater than a cheater. Everything he has been telling us is facts over the years and the way he got his facts were through actually being the very person he told us to avoid.
This is the WHOLE truth. That's why the books, advice etc are on point. Just like the FBI hiring hackers to do the hacking verses college graduates 🎓. Anybody with experience.....lol
I was waiting for this comment, Derrick is the man he’s been talking about. He knew he was, we just didn’t. He speaks like that because he lives it. His wife knows it too. Don’t let them both play you. She 100% knew, they just tried to come up with a way to play it off online.
First off...let me say this... Tami out here looking like a got damn GODDESS!!!😍 Looking good girl I must say. Also, you have made me laugh my ass off and I have been waiting on you to say your piece on this situation.😂😂😂😂
Tammy I want to say thank you as the tears roll down my face, I'm getting out of a toxic abusive relationship,and I needed to hear those words. Keep the podcast coming.
I pray your strength sweetie. You're going to make it. I did. My prayers are with you. 💜
@@godsanointeddaughter8782 thanks so much
You can this.
Hear these things words.
You. Can. Do. This.
Standing in faith with you.
Keep your head up sweetheart. You got this Sis!!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
"You're not offering the respect or security that I need, and so and I can't stay"♥️♥️
Omg Tami... when you mentioned the scripture and then said, "but in the eyes of Tami Roman..." yes baby! That's where I am!
It was “the lean on ya damn self for me” You told no lies🥰
PEOPLE, AS TAMI SAY, "DO NOT BE AFRAID TO BE IN YOUR OWN COMPANY"
When something smells fishy, that woman's intuition is a very effective tool to have. It'll help you to act accordingly.
I can believe he had the audacity to compare himself to pastor John Gray. when pastor Gray little situation came to light he was the first one to jump on social media and talk bad about him.
He sure did!
THIS NUCCA!!
😂😂😂 they both need to talk to the Lord
Little situation..he dud ALOTTTTTTT too mult women came out as well
With him saying, “It was her idea to go live” I felt in my spirit that he was like. “Ok, let’s do it right now! No don’t go getting yourself together. We are doing this right now!” Wanting her to look exactly how she did while having a conversation about it all. Like that would make “Us” feel like his cheating was okay because This is what she looks like for the majority of time. I’ve dated this man before. No, not Derrick but one similar to what has displayed
💯💯I watched all 3 interviews Tasha did with the 3 different women. He made it sound like he cheated years ago. Come to find out he’s been cheating on her since college. This is a great example of a narcissistic type who preys on women and who does not know their own value. He has convinced her that she needs him but in reality, he needs her for the ego boost, the brand, and his own damn insecurities. Smh.
This!!!
She (wifey)put out a post saying she didn't know her Worth, she felt ugly, she wanted to be (THEM).... So she KNEW exactly what type of female (s) he likes to be with because she was trying to look like them and act like them. I felt bad but then I thought to myself if you KNOW your man has cheated for the ENTIRE 12 years you are with him.... Your getting what you wanted. No sympathy not empathy here.
You hit the nail on the head!
She is not in a position. She’s not going anywhere. She’s staying regardless of what he does. It’s not the 1st time. He’s been doing this. Even before he became known. This ain’t nothing new to her.
She don't have to go nowhere. He's going to exit the marriage. He has no use for her to assist his game any longer. Mr "Narcissistic" is completely disconnected.
Unless she enjoys the scheme, and playing her role.🤔
She’s actually in a very good position to leave him successfully IF she wants to. This PUBLIC cheating scandal has set her up to CLEAN HIM OUT AND TAKE HER CHILDREN OUT OF THIS TOXCICITY
He probably told her, ain't nobody gonna want you. Look at you, all plain Jane with that bonnet on. Her self esteem is really low if she stay.
@@nikkiward1715 hallelujah girl🙌🏿
These are the last days living in the book of revelations. Therefore, Jesus is exposing anyone or anything using his name in vain. You on point though
Amen...facts hunny!! Preach!!
The 10 Commandments statement...Are NON-NEGOTIABLE!! THAT WRAPPED IT UP FOR ME!
Tami straight up and no chaser....
That’s why I rock with her
"You praching, think you teaching, come to find out you reaching" lord ha'mercy
He was dressed like she's depressed, and stressed tf out.
Right! And they show the side pieces looking like goddesses
She was still serving beauty naturally . 💖💖💖
@Chy Shootah its sad that BM don't value their women. Pathetic really
@@tammyonniaDillon exactly something they can't do!
@@PTzumba09 Insecure dogs keep the wife looking a certain way bc they don't want anyone else looking!
"Know your Worth & You can't be afraid to be in YOUR OWN COMPANY" did it for me. Because I was raised on that premise!!
When you said "Are they living this movie?" I had to grab my Mahalia Jackson church fan and shout! You are such a boss!!!!
Derrick Jaxn is a Tyler Perry villain and I'm shocked a lot of women didn't notice.
What Tyler Perry do?
@@beauttty072 Create the narrative that dark-skinned men ain't shit
@@salemend6891 wow. Maybe in his point of view the insecure ones aint ish
He understood and explained their angst about men well. He just didn't say he was one of the men he was warning them about
This comment is hilarious and true. I would watch this movie.
Don’t worry Tami. He’s not going to say anything to you. He doesn’t want to pick up what you laying down 😂😂😂😂
"Lean on ya damn self!" 💯 Preach it Tami !!
Cmon Tammi! You better talk! Exactly! It's about a healthy relationship!
Listen to that inner voice!
A woman’s intuition is POWERFUL!!!
Listen to it.... I could have saved myself a lot of heartbreak. Lessons learned 💯
The wife is being narcissistically abused...anyone who’s been in a relationship with a narcissist can see this. Let’s pray the trauma bond gets broken and she finds herself enough to leave and restore who she was. Narcissists will literally suck the life out of you. You will feel trapped although you’re not, you become brainwashed, addicted and so broken down that you can’t leave. Emotional and psychological abuse are the worst!!
This is precisely why I will never take advice from Steve Harvey, Derrick Jaxn, or even a relationship coach. "You can't tell me about me in a relationship, only I can see what I want to see or what I choose to see". Either way, I'll have to deal with the good consequences or bad. But, Either way, I'll have to deal.
Exactly. None of these self proclaimed "relationship experts" that pop out of the great abyss are even experts in their own damn relationships. They are entertaining to watch, but I don't take nothing they say to heart.
So true, they see an opportunity to capitalize on someone's weaknesses . On the other hand their are periods in my life where I've felt I need some direction to help me see a situation clearly but I also rely on my intuition and sometimes what's good for one is not good for another I say all that to say take what others suggest with a grain of salt. I've never been into the if a celebrity says it, it must be true type because there just sharing their story from their perspective and really that's all they can do. The truth hurts, people hurt people and sometimes we have to take on that hurt until it gets better. With age comes wisdom(for most of us anyway) you learn that your opinion is just that. I try to be aware of where I am emotionally before giving advice and truth be told all I can tell you is what I've been through and if you get something take it, if not leave it.
They only person who can give advice is someone who has been married to the same person for over 20yrs or more. No outside kids or sidepieces. Who been there, done that.
Preach!! 👏👏👏👏👏
Steve Harvey a joke.
Didnt he say Trump was going to do this and that for Chicago and Detroit.
Hmmm
"Do not be led by your desires to have a companion" whew chile, a WORD! I wish I could like this video a thousand times. Wisdom at its finest!
I just gained so much from this. Her perspective was one of the best I've seen in regards to this situation.
I knew he was a Jezebel from day one. When I spoke on it they told me about myself. They were angry with me because I wasn't following the crowd. (I'm not built like that) NOW that ish hit the fan there's nothing but crickets. I'm good because I have great decernment from God above. "I'll always choose me first". 💜💜
Girl I paid so less attention to him I didn’t know he was even married. & whenever I saw a video & said something I was a “pick me”. His videos were true but when I realized he never talked about men I was like he’s a fraud just trying to get into some panties.
@@thewritebrittnay Absolutely.. You couldn't tell some ladies nothing. They was sold out for him. Now they have nothing to say.
only gullible women listen to his shit sis 💯 i rolled my eyes every time i saw him sitting in that car ..
@@iamjesse9398 I don't know how they did it. I heard him one time & I couldn't even finish it. The vibe was off. I Can Not. 🤦🏿♀️
Me too
Well said Tami so many women did to hear this all FACTS
Heavy on the “ you know what you see” 🎯
Tami is TEACHING US!!!!!! Yes Sis, we're listening!
He’s definitely a fraud, Cousin!!!!
It's unacceptable
This is why I like Tammy because she keep it 💯
Loving Tammy since MTV days over 25 years or more. She's been gorgeous since day one. Love quinn
Hey, Tami. Jaxn is a Narcarssist, and his wife is delusional. My heart goes out to her, and hope that she wakes up. He is using the Bible to abuse her, and that's why I believe in reading the word for myself. God, doesn't want any of us to be a walking mat. Love your videos, Tami!
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I love transparency and accountability. Tami you are a real one and Derrick is still a fraud !
Gets up from the pew and claps ferociously!!!! Ain't nuthin left to say girl... u done preached the holy gospel and it's time for tea.... well said, amazing..... what u said Tami. ❤️
“You don’t need dat s$!t”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I died 🤣💯
Two things... His wife isn't better, or stronger than you for opting to stay, she's broken. And. Nik knew the whole time, just as culpable.
He’s almost worse than the Kardashians. Capitalize off women’s insecurities and vulnerabilities to build a brand conducive to financial gain while their “fans” struggle with the reality of who they are! Jeesh!!!
Smh. This is not the same as that in anyway.
Well said 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
He actually was living that life and the perfect person to give advice. His advice is still valid. He didn’t lie!
I'm glad someone said this‼️
takes a f*ck boy to know a f*ck boy 🤷🏽♀️ he is a hypocrite but he know exactly what he is talking about
@@Mirakia4 Because you're the one who can't tell this lie and not look silly
I learned yeeeears ago. That takes maturity too. When you can admit your faults without pointing fingers and trying to bring and associate others in. The situation.
🤣🤣🤣 no sin is greater... but he didn't stick that d nowhere. 🤣🤣 You crack me up! 🙌
Tami is on point with saying encourage yourself! We are not defined as women because we got a man! Even I don’t do that and I’ve been married for 48 yrs to the same man. Derrick Jaxn is not and never has been qualified to give advice. Relationships are and should initially be built on love and trust for a commitment to be established.
I agree looking like he's an overgrown teenager.
👑❤1000%
Yes Aunt Tami, tell that truth! With your helmet of salvation.
Derrick Jaxn can't blame nobody but his self with this one. These married men gone learn today. Whatever you do in the dark will come to the light. I guess he will learn to keep his private part private. That money is gone. I know Tasha K. Is laughing at his dumb but right know. When your head get to swollen god will bring it back down. 😂
Amen !