I got one far worse. After the first dance I out on a dance tune and the bride and groom called out the wedding party and they literally ran in terror to dance in public, so they danced with their two kids. Then the best man dumped a bucket of water on the groom and everybody started folding tables. One song after the first dance and it was over. They gave me kind words on line “He gave us everything we asked for” but gave me 4 out of five stars. All the rest of my reviews have been 5. Had another country crowd that did not know how to dance and just wanted slow sad country music. Heaven forbid I play Frank Sinatra’s for the great grandmother and got the ire of the bride “country only”
That's my dream job. I love older crowds and alcohol free events. I just play older music and facilitate the event I have. Sometimes, our job is to simply play enjoyable tunes at a volume that facilitates them catching up and having enjoyable conversation. It's not always to fill a dance floor. Sometimes we're paid more to set our egos aside and simply serve without turning their nice family event into a banger.
I had a homecoming dance on 10/20. I had been looking forward to it. I've done their last 3 homecomings, I know the kids (because I also do quince choreographies) and I know they can get hype. So imagine my grand disappointment when it turned out to be the worst dance ever. I was so bummed. I tried changing genres, I tried hyping them up. I even stopped the music and told them "I see you looking around waiting for someone else to be brave enough to step out on the dance floor. If you're waiting for that, it's not gonna happen." The teachers cheered me on. They were even asking kids what they wanted to hear and nothing. A couple weeks later, I crossed paths with one of the seniors at an unrelated function and she asked me what I thought about the homecoming dance and all I could do was shake my head. She laughed and said "I definitely agree with you." She said it wasn't me. She thinks it's because of the few kids that did go, none of them really knew how to dance. It helped me feel a little better but I'm still bummed about it. I did have a fall festival the week after. It wasn't even a dance, I was just playing music as background and it turned out to be more hype than the hoco dance. My friend was like "see? it's not you. It's just the crowd." Still sucks though.
If no one is dancing I have great luck by asking an outgoing person to please take requests for me. I bring a notebook along for that just in case that happens. Then I follow the lead of the requests. The Era. The genre.. and the artists they like. It dials me right in!! Works every time!
I just subscribed to your channel. I used to live in Cabot back in 95' & 96'. I sure miss that town. Good video bud, sounds like you're doing things right. Looking forward to more insight from ya. I own High Tide Entertainment in St. Petersburg, FL. I'm 45 yrs old and have been a Dj/Kj since I was 16 years old. Keep pushing forward. I thoroughly enjoy what I do. It gets better every day. You are definitely on the right path. Best wishes! Look for Hank Lee & High Tide Entertainment USA on Facebook. Be my friend.
I've been in that situation brother... that is one of the things about mobile DJs that sometimes gets me down. I've been in a rut my last three gigs it's gotten me a bit down on it. Makes me miss the club days. It's tough man. I agree sometimes there is nothing you can do. -PS I'm really excited about your shop tour.
Dj Woo Pig. First of all thank you taking the time to makes this videos. This is a situation of where you can call it No Booze no fun Lol. Only we know all the hard work we go thru before and after the event. Look at this way you did your part but the crown didn't. Is like if the groom didn't show up you where there with your full dj services. So don't fell bad about it. You did your part but can't make others do there's!!! Just keep it going the next one will be better I promise you!!! Ps. Pass by your lovely state over the weekend on the way back to Texas!! One day I'll stop bye to say Hi LOL.
hEY ALL YOU CAN DO IS PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD sometimes its just the times we are living in I dont consider my self a DJ personality wise I just try n play music they wanna hear or any requests. And Ive been in the food business and its the same thing in many regards Just put your best foot forward and hope for the best os all any of us can do really. Just show up and be as professional as possible and be flexible.
Sometimes. There is just nothing you can do. I've had what I call "toe tapper" gigs, it's where no one dances but happily sits and enjoys the music and conversation. They love the music and effort but ya, they just don't dance.
I've done non alcoholic weddings and it's was a bust, people will not dance until they have some spirits in their system. All you can do is flow with it!
Dj'ed in the early 90's...small town in Oklahoma....had a crowd of 200, majority was over the age of 60+...I was under orders ONLY PLAY HEAVY METAL, UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE AM I TO DEVIATE. Serious, the bride and groom's dance was G&R November rain...absolutely horrible
I had the exact same thing happen to me in the 90's up here in Nova Scotia Canada. I was in a small town DJing in the middle of no where and the B and G only wanted heavy metal. The only ones who partied were the bridal party. It sucked but they were happy.
I wouldn't care one bit as long as I got paid. I don't think it's the DJ's job to be the "entertainer" more than just a person who provides music and a sound system. But I do think it's the mobile DJ's job to be somewhat of a music aficionado who can pull out music from any time period to suit the situation throughout all times and genres. Playing EDM at that gig would most definitely not work so I would take a look at the people and try to judge their musical preferences based on age, race, culture, location ect. I think that's the DJ's real job and not trying to force incompatible music for a specific kind of crowd.
It's crazy how all of us think a like! Yeah you can't them all and all that you said is true! I just did a 55 yr old Bday party and it was the same way! Totally feel you pain, but sometimes it's just like that! You know you're still dope though!! Can't wait to see the new shop
I had a gig like this earlier this year. The wedding was cut short, played everything under the sun a nothing grabbed! Maybe a song or two, but I was supposed to play till 12 and was on the road by 10! I felt bad because I charged them full price! So I felt bad afterwards and gave them a pretty wedding gift, which they loved! More less you can't expect everything to be baller, but you gotta make the best of it!
Man I've been there on a few weddings in the past. Setup everything & crowd was a lot older like 60+. But they were chair dancing but they wouldn't dance on the floor. No drinking & they all ended up leaving early too. Happens every once and a while to us all.
In my planning meeting I ask them to describe their families (quiet, reserved, fun outgoing) also ask if they want a club or pub feel/vibe.. If they want a pub feel I try to play more sing a-longs.. Vs the dancing classics
actually John, this was an awesome gig log...you know why?...because it shows the reality of mobile djing...instead of all the gigs being perfect...this prepares peeps for the downfalls, when peeps know...they dont get as discouraged...so i think this was one of your most important gig logs...thanks for being upfront and real, DJ EffenKat
Thats a tough one! We had a gig a couple weeks ago that was similar. It was an early afternoon wedding vow renewal with no alcohol for what appeared to be church folk. They barely danced and it seemed like we were just there to jukebox. They sang along, but didnt really do much dancing either. You're gonna have those kinds of gigs every once in a while, not much you can do about it i think.
John, you will get customer like this. I have been a Club DJ, House DJ and now a Mobile DJ and there is no perfect event from start to finish. You have to make the most of what you have and like you said...ask for feedback. I have done 4-hour gigs and events and the host stiffed me on pay. Should they need my entertainment services again, well I am demanding full pay up front. If most people knew what a Mobile DJ has to do and prepare for an event they would gladly appreciate their services. Cabot is just up the road from me and maybe we can connect sometime. Don't get discouraged...KEEP ON MOVING. I hope this helped.
Hey man great work on your channel! I feel you when it comes to bummer events. I had a few gigs the past month that were slow people just didn't want to dance kinda stinks but hey the bills get paid so it's all good. Anyhow good work brother keep it up!
I've DJ'd many gigs like that, no alcohol and/or older crowd... not all are perfect or even close to it. One thing you can learn from this is please do not post negative posts towards your clients or their receptions/parties on the web, that is not very professional. Can you imagine how they felt when they watched this video.. and saw that their reception was "WASTED".
Damn. That's tough. I'm pretty much a newbie (I'm sitting on like a years worth of video footage I haven't went through). I just started doing a combination of clubs, bars, and mobile and I learned to try and be indifferent about the situations. When I do good and have the floor packed, I try not to get too excited and try to keep the energy going. When it's empty, I try to pull them out but I learned not to panic. When I first started, i used to get a "sinking ship / drowning " feeling when I couldnt get people to dance, I would panic and it would get worse and worse. Now I just try and keep going and it is what it is. Great advice on the reviews, I'm a have to remember that.
Hey buddy! Love your channel! I've been a hobbiest dj for about ten years and have always thought about doing weddings someday but you really show how much crazy hard work goes into being a good wedding dj, its not nearly as easy as ppl think. Btw you are an AMAZING Dj! peace homie!
I know what you mean, you put a lot of time setting up your equipment ND lining up ur Playlist ND the Party turns out to be a DUD.... that really makes ur night rough, so what I would do is have someone else finish it for me or use it to try ND teach the next person who wants to become a dj
The real world of the mobile dj. It's a combination of song selection and the right group of people. I've played similar sets at various events and each one has a different turn out on the dance floor. You did good. I enjoy your vlogs, your working with pro gear and it shows.👌
Also as you mentioned no alcohol, 45 and over was the majority and on a Sunday (you did say Sunday did you?). Recipe for disaster, had a gig last year just like that, same result lol
I had that situation before back in November. The wedding that afternoon. It was a beautiful day and the temperature was just right but a little windy. The reception was that evening on an outside deck with a fire pit. The party was supposed to start after dinner. But after dinner the temperature dropped quickly to around 40 degrees and the wind picked up. People were complaining about the cold and wind so they started to leave. The ones who stayed wanted to see the Alabama football game on the big screen outside. The groom apologize and thanked me then paid me the full amount. I packed up and left. It ended about 3 hours early.
I've done several things in the past. 1. Always look like you're enjoying yourself no matter what (yeah I know, thanks Captain Obvious). 2. I'll go around table to table, introduce myself and ask if there is anything I can play for them. (Great advice from a great friend RIP DJ Big Easy) 3. Start with the kids, if there are any, grab them and teach them a dance or two. 4. Be careful with this one but if you can pull it off its quite fun, cope with sarcasm. For example: "Wow we've got a lively crowd tonight, everyone make some noise!", "I can't hear you!" or put on the YMCA and say "Here's one you can do sitting down in your seats" and go sit at a table with them and do the YMCA. Now none of these may work but people will see you making an effort and that's all that counts. Great videos! Keep them coming, love your energy. -DC
Wow Woo! I've been in this situation before! I had a bride that wanted to do a fake exit and they ended up going downstairs to the lobby and drinking. Well everyone thought it was over so they started leaving! By the time I could announce they will be right back too many people had left and others were following. Not to mention the wedding planner was horrible as well and didnt do her part on keeping the guests there either!
Honestly the only thing you can do in those types of situation is move on to the next gig. It was something out of your control. But you did your part to make it successful. I've been a DJ for over 23 years and I've had plenty of disasters. But one thing i can tell you that it never stop my business from growing. Just focus on what's next and don't worry my brother.
I totally feel you on this. As a mobile DJ or DJ in general we love to see a packed dance floor, but unfortunately that isn't always the case. Early on when I started mobile DJaying and I would come across a lame crowd, I would freak out like "why aren't they dancing?". I've come to learn that contrary to popular belief, it isn't the DJ that makes the party it's the crowd. You can spin the greatest songs ever made but if the crowd is simply a non-dancing crowd then theu just aren't going to budge. Here's a tip, when this happens and you see that it's a 50+ kinda crowd, spin slow songs, hasn't failed me yet and at least you get some people on the dance floor.
Bangers lol! I never heard them referred to as bangers. Mind if I use it? I will start using it with my band. We always say, dancers, rockers and panty droppers!
woo....that crowd is usually the ones that start things off in my culture. Start with ballroom, standards, line dances, and then bring on the younger kids music. I'm in the 40-50 crowd, and we usually get out and dance first. We usually have alcohol, and are a dancing type of family/culture. Tough stuff, man. I don't doubt you did what you needed to do, I'll chalk it up to a the crowd. I've been at some weddings where we saved the DJ's gig and party because we were out to have fun. Too bad there were no party people there.
They paid... it's their world. Dance floor is often up to the bride and groom, the rest of the wedding take their cue from them. At the end of the day if they are happy... that's all that matters.
Sometimes you just have a crowd of lemons and you can't make lemonade. lol. The funny thing is when you have a crowd like the one that you're talking about that just doesn't dance despite the fact that you're doing similar, if not the same thing(s) that you did to much success, rave reviews, and packed dance floors at your previous 10 events! I will disagree with you about 1 thing though. I wouldn't just give up on trying to get people up and dancing when the dance floor isn't jumping. After 20+ years of doing this I've developed any number of "tricks" to accomplish this. Yes, there is that fine line of being entertaining and being cheesy but knowing that line comes with experience. I also have a LONNNG & detailed conversation with my wedding clients prior to the event where I go over some of the things that I do to get people up and dancing if they need that push. Depending on how you word that conversation most B & G's will be happy to go along with you on that. If they are dead set against any crowd interaction, well then you do what you can and if the gig flops you can always justify to yourself that your hands were tied and it's not your fault. I had a groom years ago that was incredibly controlling. So much so that he told me that he didn't want me to say a WORD on the mic other than introductions and necessary announcements. He also gave me a list of songs (which sucked) that covered the entire event that he insisted I not deviate from. Well 1/2 way through the gig and after NOBODY danced to his crappy music he came up to me with his head hung low and said that I should use my discretion to make the dance floor happen. Boom.....the 2nd 1/2 of the wedding was awesome! Good luck & good gigs!!
This is not your fault. Some people just dont want to dance. Imossible is imossible. Someone told me some yours ago "there is no bad music. Only bad audience". Its a joke with some truth to it. Keep it up!
Don't sweat it brother! I had the same scenario this past Friday! Median age was probably 55+ and 130 people. By 10 minutes after dinner there were maybe 40 people left. We finished and hour early. I started a gig log but decided it wasn't worth finishing.
I got one far worse. After the first dance I out on a dance tune and the bride and groom called out the wedding party and they literally ran in terror to dance in public, so they danced with their two kids. Then the best man dumped a bucket of water on the groom and everybody started folding tables. One song after the first dance and it was over. They gave me kind words on line “He gave us everything we asked for” but gave me 4 out of five stars. All the rest of my reviews have been 5. Had another country crowd that did not know how to dance and just wanted slow sad country music. Heaven forbid I play Frank Sinatra’s for the great grandmother and got the ire of the bride “country only”
That's my dream job. I love older crowds and alcohol free events. I just play older music and facilitate the event I have. Sometimes, our job is to simply play enjoyable tunes at a volume that facilitates them catching up and having enjoyable conversation. It's not always to fill a dance floor. Sometimes we're paid more to set our egos aside and simply serve without turning their nice family event into a banger.
I had a homecoming dance on 10/20. I had been looking forward to it. I've done their last 3 homecomings, I know the kids (because I also do quince choreographies) and I know they can get hype. So imagine my grand disappointment when it turned out to be the worst dance ever. I was so bummed. I tried changing genres, I tried hyping them up. I even stopped the music and told them "I see you looking around waiting for someone else to be brave enough to step out on the dance floor. If you're waiting for that, it's not gonna happen." The teachers cheered me on. They were even asking kids what they wanted to hear and nothing. A couple weeks later, I crossed paths with one of the seniors at an unrelated function and she asked me what I thought about the homecoming dance and all I could do was shake my head. She laughed and said "I definitely agree with you." She said it wasn't me. She thinks it's because of the few kids that did go, none of them really knew how to dance. It helped me feel a little better but I'm still bummed about it. I did have a fall festival the week after. It wasn't even a dance, I was just playing music as background and it turned out to be more hype than the hoco dance. My friend was like "see? it's not you. It's just the crowd." Still sucks though.
Great advice.
If no one is dancing I have great luck by asking an outgoing person to please take requests for me. I bring a notebook along for that just in case that happens. Then I follow the lead of the requests. The Era. The genre.. and the artists they like. It dials me right in!! Works every time!
This was soo helpful bruh👍🏾 all of it ...the Good, the bad and the ugly of the mobile dj business and congrats on the storage ...on to the next one
I just subscribed to your channel. I used to live in Cabot back in 95' & 96'. I sure miss that town. Good video bud, sounds like you're doing things right. Looking forward to more insight from ya. I own High Tide Entertainment in St. Petersburg, FL. I'm 45 yrs old and have been a Dj/Kj since I was 16 years old. Keep pushing forward. I thoroughly enjoy what I do. It gets better every day. You are definitely on the right path. Best wishes! Look for Hank Lee & High Tide Entertainment USA on Facebook. Be my friend.
hank shepherd what a small world! Thanks for checking out my channel, I'll find you in Facebook!
"They paid a good chunk of money" Sounds like an okay gig to me.
But I hear you. Sometimes you just can't win. C'est la vie
I've been in that situation brother... that is one of the things about mobile DJs that sometimes gets me down. I've been in a rut my last three gigs it's gotten me a bit down on it. Makes me miss the club days. It's tough man. I agree sometimes there is nothing you can do. -PS I'm really excited about your shop tour.
Bayardo A Rugama yeah man it's the tough part of the job. Filming the shop tour tomorrow!!!!!!!
No drinks! That must suck!!
Renigadecrew indeed!
Dj Woo Pig.
First of all thank you taking the time to makes this videos. This is a situation of where you can call it No Booze no fun Lol.
Only we know all the hard work we go thru before and after the event. Look at this way you did your part but the crown didn't. Is like if the groom didn't show up you where there with your full dj services.
So don't fell bad about it. You did your part but can't make others do there's!!! Just keep it going the next one will be better I promise you!!!
Ps. Pass by your lovely state over the weekend on the way back to Texas!!
One day I'll stop bye to say Hi LOL.
DJ LTMB I love Texas! What part are you from?
John Simmons. North of Dallas. If you ever come over this way let me know. Maybe we can meet up!!
hEY ALL YOU CAN DO IS PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD sometimes its just the times we are living in I dont consider my self a DJ personality wise I just try n play music they wanna hear or any requests. And Ive been in the food business and its the same thing in many regards Just put your best foot forward and hope for the best os all any of us can do really. Just show up and be as professional as possible and be flexible.
T Rex!!! Haha! Sorry it was a disappointment. I have a gig possibly like that coming up.
So Entertainment fight through it!
Sometimes. There is just nothing you can do. I've had what I call "toe tapper" gigs, it's where no one dances but happily sits and enjoys the music and conversation. They love the music and effort but ya, they just don't dance.
I've done non alcoholic weddings and it's was a bust, people will not dance until they have some spirits in their system. All you can do is flow with it!
djaceproductions that's it!
Dj'ed in the early 90's...small town in Oklahoma....had a crowd of 200, majority was over the age of 60+...I was under orders ONLY PLAY HEAVY METAL, UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE AM I TO DEVIATE. Serious, the bride and groom's dance was G&R November rain...absolutely horrible
I had the exact same thing happen to me in the 90's up here in Nova Scotia Canada. I was in a small town DJing in the middle of no where and the B and G only wanted heavy metal. The only ones who partied were the bridal party. It sucked but they were happy.
I wouldn't care one bit as long as I got paid. I don't think it's the DJ's job to be the "entertainer" more than just a person who provides music and a sound system. But I do think it's the mobile DJ's job to be somewhat of a music aficionado who can pull out music from any time period to suit the situation throughout all times and genres. Playing EDM at that gig would most definitely not work so I would take a look at the people and try to judge their musical preferences based on age, race, culture, location ect. I think that's the DJ's real job and not trying to force incompatible music for a specific kind of crowd.
If they are old play some Motown or some jazz. You gotta try to read them, but I know this happens way too often.
Great video and great tips. I agree with you. Do not want that bad review. So question. ... what are your top bangers?
David Vallejo I'll have to do a video on that soon!
Where ever the bride (s) or groom (s) are is where everyone else will be. They did not help you out by leaving so you can't be at fault for that.
It's crazy how all of us think a like! Yeah you can't them all and all that you said is true! I just did a 55 yr old Bday party and it was the same way! Totally feel you pain, but sometimes it's just like that! You know you're still dope though!! Can't wait to see the new shop
I feel your pain. The only thing I can add, is if they ain't dancing to baggers, throw out some slow jams!
I agree,Sometimes it's hard to get a crowd moving even when you playing all the bangers. Stay up and love your content bro.
No drinks!! No dance, bro thats not your fault next gig lol.
djdellon Fitzroy Forrester that's how you gotta look at it. Every gig isn't gonna be a banger!
I had a gig like this earlier this year. The wedding was cut short, played everything under the sun a nothing grabbed! Maybe a song or two, but I was supposed to play till 12 and was on the road by 10! I felt bad because I charged them full price! So I felt bad afterwards and gave them a pretty wedding gift, which they loved! More less you can't expect everything to be baller, but you gotta make the best of it!
Man I've been there on a few weddings in the past. Setup everything & crowd was a lot older like 60+. But they were chair dancing but they wouldn't dance on the floor. No drinking & they all ended up leaving early too. Happens every once and a while to us all.
deejaybustab yessir! Thanks for watching B!
Great vlog and tips,bruh!!!
Maine Source Productions thanks for watching my friend!
Do you ever give a discount? For bad turnout or mic cutting out, speaker failure etc.
In my planning meeting I ask them to describe their families (quiet, reserved, fun outgoing) also ask if they want a club or pub feel/vibe.. If they want a pub feel I try to play more sing a-longs.. Vs the dancing classics
actually John, this was an awesome gig log...you know why?...because it shows the reality of mobile djing...instead of all the gigs being perfect...this prepares peeps for the downfalls, when peeps know...they dont get as discouraged...so i think this was one of your most important gig logs...thanks for being upfront and real, DJ EffenKat
Thats a tough one! We had a gig a couple weeks ago that was similar. It was an early afternoon wedding vow renewal with no alcohol for what appeared to be church folk. They barely danced and it seemed like we were just there to jukebox. They sang along, but didnt really do much dancing either. You're gonna have those kinds of gigs every once in a while, not much you can do about it i think.
Supreme Team I'm with you! Felt like a jukebox gig for sure. I could have done this one on my iPad.
John, you will get customer like this. I have been a Club DJ, House DJ and now a Mobile DJ and there is no perfect event from start to finish. You have to make the most of what you have and like you said...ask for feedback. I have done 4-hour gigs and events and the host stiffed me on pay. Should they need my entertainment services again, well I am demanding full pay up front. If most people knew what a Mobile DJ has to do and prepare for an event they would gladly appreciate their services. Cabot is just up the road from me and maybe we can connect sometime. Don't get discouraged...KEEP ON MOVING. I hope this helped.
Hey man great work on your channel! I feel you when it comes to bummer events. I had a few gigs the past month that were slow people just didn't want to dance kinda stinks but hey the bills get paid so it's all good. Anyhow good work brother keep it up!
I've DJ'd many gigs like that, no alcohol and/or older crowd... not all are perfect or even close to it. One thing you can learn from this is please do not post negative posts towards your clients or their receptions/parties on the web, that is not very professional. Can you imagine how they felt when they watched this video.. and saw that their reception was "WASTED".
I don’t share my RUclips info with clients for a reason. This is for entertainment purposes only.
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You the man bro. Great tips!
spinmoney101 thanks for watching homie!
spinmoney101 thanks for watching homie!
Damn. That's tough. I'm pretty much a newbie (I'm sitting on like a years worth of video footage I haven't went through). I just started doing a combination of clubs, bars, and mobile and I learned to try and be indifferent about the situations. When I do good and have the floor packed, I try not to get too excited and try to keep the energy going. When it's empty, I try to pull them out but I learned not to panic. When I first started, i used to get a "sinking ship / drowning " feeling when I couldnt get people to dance, I would panic and it would get worse and worse. Now I just try and keep going and it is what it is. Great advice on the reviews, I'm a have to remember that.
DJ Gen that's good advice! Thanks for watching!
An hour and a half what a sad ass wedding! Oh well, good vlog Woo Pig!
DJ Dynablend thanks homie!!
Hey buddy! Love your channel! I've been a hobbiest dj for about ten years and have always thought about doing weddings someday but you really show how much crazy hard work goes into being a good wedding dj, its not nearly as easy as ppl think. Btw you are an AMAZING Dj! peace homie!
Dj Knyfestryke thanks for he love my friend!
I know what you mean, you put a lot of time setting up your equipment ND lining up ur Playlist ND the Party turns out to be a DUD.... that really makes ur night rough, so what I would do is have someone else finish it for me or use it to try ND teach the next person who wants to become a dj
The real world of the mobile dj.
It's a combination of song selection and the right group of people. I've played similar sets at various events and each one has a different turn out on the dance floor. You did good. I enjoy your vlogs, your working with pro gear and it shows.👌
Also as you mentioned no alcohol, 45 and over was the majority and on a Sunday (you did say Sunday did you?). Recipe for disaster, had a gig last year just like that, same result lol
DJ Migs of Binghamton yes sir. They aren't fun at all!
I had that situation before back in November. The wedding that afternoon. It was a beautiful day and the temperature was just right but a little windy. The reception was that evening on an outside deck with a fire pit. The party was supposed to start after dinner. But after dinner the temperature dropped quickly to around 40 degrees and the wind picked up. People were complaining about the cold and wind so they started to leave. The ones who stayed wanted to see the Alabama football game on the big screen outside. The groom apologize and thanked me then paid me the full amount. I packed up and left. It ended about 3 hours early.
Jamie Dean events in the fall during SEC football season are always a hit or miss! We live our football!
Perfectly said advice bro.
DJ Jay Mathis thanks for watching jay!
I've done several things in the past. 1. Always look like you're enjoying yourself no matter what (yeah I know, thanks Captain Obvious). 2. I'll go around table to table, introduce myself and ask if there is anything I can play for them. (Great advice from a great friend RIP DJ Big Easy) 3. Start with the kids, if there are any, grab them and teach them a dance or two. 4. Be careful with this one but if you can pull it off its quite fun, cope with sarcasm. For example: "Wow we've got a lively crowd tonight, everyone make some noise!", "I can't hear you!" or put on the YMCA and say "Here's one you can do sitting down in your seats" and go sit at a table with them and do the YMCA. Now none of these may work but people will see you making an effort and that's all that counts. Great videos! Keep them coming, love your energy. -DC
Derrick Castenholz you are right about the look! If it doesn't look like you are having a good time it puts a damper on everyone!
Wow Woo! I've been in this situation before! I had a bride that wanted to do a fake exit and they ended up going downstairs to the lobby and drinking. Well everyone thought it was over so they started leaving! By the time I could announce they will be right back too many people had left and others were following. Not to mention the wedding planner was horrible as well and didnt do her part on keeping the guests there either!
Daniel Salas yeah those fake send offs usually mean game over! It's hard to recover from them.
Honestly the only thing you can do in those types of situation is move on to the next gig. It was something out of your control. But you did your part to make it successful. I've been a DJ for over 23 years and I've had plenty of disasters. But one thing i can tell you that it never stop my business from growing. Just focus on what's next and don't worry my brother.
Ricky Beaumont not worried! On to the next one!
I totally feel you on this. As a mobile DJ or DJ in general we love to see a packed dance floor, but unfortunately that isn't always the case. Early on when I started mobile DJaying and I would come across a lame crowd, I would freak out like "why aren't they dancing?". I've come to learn that contrary to popular belief, it isn't the DJ that makes the party it's the crowd. You can spin the greatest songs ever made but if the crowd is simply a non-dancing crowd then theu just aren't going to budge. Here's a tip, when this happens and you see that it's a 50+ kinda crowd, spin slow songs, hasn't failed me yet and at least you get some people on the dance floor.
DJ Migs of Binghamton that's mostly what I did but I didn't want to show a 10 min video of slow songs lol
I soo feel you man! sometimes it just does not go like it's planed 😣
DJ Brandon yessir 😕
Ice cube
Bangers lol! I never heard them referred to as bangers. Mind if I use it? I will start using it with my band. We always say, dancers, rockers and panty droppers!
woo....that crowd is usually the ones that start things off in my culture. Start with ballroom, standards, line dances, and then bring on the younger kids music. I'm in the 40-50 crowd, and we usually get out and dance first. We usually have alcohol, and are a dancing type of family/culture. Tough stuff, man. I don't doubt you did what you needed to do, I'll chalk it up to a the crowd. I've been at some weddings where we saved the DJ's gig and party because we were out to have fun. Too bad there were no party people there.
can't always please people but give it 💯 every time if there no dancing or drinking ..but you still did good job all madders..bud good job.
mike davis thanks man! Always give it 100!
They paid... it's their world. Dance floor is often up to the bride and groom, the rest of the wedding take their cue from them.
At the end of the day if they are happy... that's all that matters.
you are correct sir!
Been there it sucks
No alcohol that a big problem if drinking the older audience will loosen up dance or at least moving around smiling and talking.
Sometimes you just have a crowd of lemons and you can't make lemonade. lol. The funny thing is when you have a crowd like the one that you're talking about that just doesn't dance despite the fact that you're doing similar, if not the same thing(s) that you did to much success, rave reviews, and packed dance floors at your previous 10 events! I will disagree with you about 1 thing though. I wouldn't just give up on trying to get people up and dancing when the dance floor isn't jumping. After 20+ years of doing this I've developed any number of "tricks" to accomplish this. Yes, there is that fine line of being entertaining and being cheesy but knowing that line comes with experience. I also have a LONNNG & detailed conversation with my wedding clients prior to the event where I go over some of the things that I do to get people up and dancing if they need that push. Depending on how you word that conversation most B & G's will be happy to go along with you on that. If they are dead set against any crowd interaction, well then you do what you can and if the gig flops you can always justify to yourself that your hands were tied and it's not your fault. I had a groom years ago that was incredibly controlling. So much so that he told me that he didn't want me to say a WORD on the mic other than introductions and necessary announcements. He also gave me a list of songs (which sucked) that covered the entire event that he insisted I not deviate from. Well 1/2 way through the gig and after NOBODY danced to his crappy music he came up to me with his head hung low and said that I should use my discretion to make the dance floor happen. Boom.....the 2nd 1/2 of the wedding was awesome! Good luck & good gigs!!
DJ Iceman I agree with you! Communication is key!
You ever get a Dj gig so bad you just quite?
Man this is hilarious
This is not your fault. Some people just dont want to dance. Imossible is imossible. Someone told me some yours ago "there is no bad music. Only bad audience". Its a joke with some truth to it. Keep it up!
Kim Carlsson that's so true! Thanks for watching!
You got paid for your worth and you can't control the other factors like no liquor
NO YOUNG PEOPLE+NO ALCOHOL!! OUCH.
J ortega it was tough for sure!
😂😂😂😂 Know what that's like
Don't sweat it brother! I had the same scenario this past Friday! Median age was probably 55+ and 130 people. By 10 minutes after dinner there were maybe 40 people left. We finished and hour early. I started a gig log but decided it wasn't worth finishing.
TOTAL Entertainment I've had those as well. I almost scraped this one but I wanted to give some tips on the end.