I dont understand why black women are going to other places of the world EXPECTING people to know how to handle our hair textures. It has to be taught! And then we complaing about price and how it comes out when its not to our liking.....from a stylist that has no idea on how to handle our hair. The blame isnt always on them, we know better too!
Yeah there's a few that go to these Korean Hair Bath Salons.. but we can't even step in the stores they have in our community selling black everything.. no thanks
This was painful to watch. I’m sorry, your hair texture should never be changed without your full consent. Your natural hair is beautiful and I’m sorry the other salons were rejecting you, regardless of where they’re located, I believe all hair stylists should be taught to and should GLADLY service any and all hair types. Its their job! I hope your hair bounces back healthy 💖
How do you expect Chinese stylists to do black hair when there 99% of the people are Chinese 🤔 Whose hair are they supposed to train on when there are no black people to practice on in their hair schools?
@@elenaarman-tang7811 I don't expect or need them to do $hit for me. IM GOOD AND DONT GIVE NOT ONE DAMN. I'm HALF BLACK AND HALF NATIVE AMERICAN,.... SIOUX TRIBE/ LAKOTA NATION... I don't need their hair 🤣 and neither does anybody I grew up with. US 70's BABIES HAS HAIR, WE KNOW HOW TO GROW OUR OWN HAIR .
@@ajayewhite9892Who is referring to you? I'm Puerto Rican, black, a small percentage of Black Foot Indian and Irish. I grew up in the 70s as well. This young lady is in China looking for hair stylists to style her coily hair. China is not a diverse country due to Communism. They are not trained to do different types of hair. Oh and I'm married to a Chinese man. I know what I'm talking about. Have a nice day 😊
Also, how did you not know he was relaxing your hair through the entire process? And then when you realized he was doing the “fixed hair straight potion” you still didn’t say anything. So don’t blame the salon. They did a great job!!!
Thats a Keratin treatment he did... not a relaxer. But either way he should've asked. And you should've asked question also. You shouldn't have sat there and let him do it if that isn't what you wanted. 💙
Someone just told me it's a Keratin Treatment so I looked it up and this is what I got.. "Keratin treatments are not relaxers but a smoothing treatment that infuses a special blend of hydrolyzed keratin deep into the cuticle. The Keratin is then adhered to the cuticle with a flat iron to relax the hair strands at the sub-cuticle layer." Also I saw someone on RUclips say her curls came back 3-4 months later. I guess you have to make sure it's done correct to have any chance of the curls being restored.
Some Keratin treatments have chemical and some don’t. I get them without chemicals and I still have my natural curls. Makes my hair soft and more manageable.
Thank you so much for this blog.....sometimes people have this tendency to think we as a people{BLACK}is constantly and consistently pulling 'THE RACE CARD'!!!It truly made me sad to see just how awfully you were treated....I mean my God!!!He said yes,yet clearly even though he was wearing GLOVES he refrain from touching your scalp.For me,it wasn't about a hairdo....it was about humanity or lack thereof.I'm sorry you had to endure all that for a blog....you deserve much more!!!Just know and believe that you are special and NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO TREAT YOU LESS THAN YOU DESERVE!!!May GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!!Take care.
Wow! First of all I would of stopped him when he was wrapping the flatiron with foil to straighten your wet! hair! 😢 All hairstylist around the world should be required to take a class for all hair textures 😅
Just an FYI. When I was in beauty school in the early 80s, I had to insist that they teach us how to style, relax, cut and blowdry African American hair. They tried to skim over those chapters because the instructors didn't know how to do African American hair. When I finally graduated from cosmetology school and got my first licensed professional hairstylist job, I basically taught myself how to do African American hair. Shockingly, there are too many salons TODAY that don't know anything about doing ethnic hair. It's quite sad. Cosmetology school is not cheap. African American hair is a billion or more business. Quite lucrative. You'd think more licensed cosmetologists would want to jump on this bandwagon.
I would be devastated if my natural hair was relaxed without my permission, if it offers you any condolences your hair was beautiful in its natural state
When he translated "hair starighening lotion" with his phone, she said "ok" (agreed)....so apparently she was ok with it so why do you guys feel bad for her? This is youtube = views = money. Enjoy the show!
I agree janeyjanet1508..But when going to any foreign country..it would be wise to carry your own products and if you go I to a salon and they are not familiar with doing your hair type..don't go there. As a matter fact do your homework to see if any shop in that country/area can infact work with your hair type. It just makes common sense.
Bless your heart. I'm saddened to see all of the racism you endured while just trying to get your hair done. Goodness gracious..they turned you away even before they knew what you needed. You could've just been asking for simple directions. Yet..it seemed that the first look, they immediately said no. My heart truly hurts for you. God bless. Peace and love ✌️ ❤
Why is it racist if the salon says no? She's in China. If they're not familiar with her texture of hair, it's better to refuse doing her hair than to mess it up.
He didn’t have a clue as to how to shampoo your hair. Didn’t even scrub the scalp. Didn’t even complete the full head of hair. You don’t have to settle. All those people made it clear they didn’t want to help you. Don’t beg people to take your money.
MY SISTER, you knew better. It's no way you didn't. Don't ever let a different CULTURE touch your hair. Our hair shows our POWER & STRENGTH 💪🏽✊🏽 it's off limits to other cultures. This is what happens when you don't stay in your lane. I hope you've learned from this.
It's not about racism. I'd expect a ignorant person to respond like this. ITS ABOUT RESPECT. You have to be BLACK or BROWN to understand. NOW ! I'm done talking to you. ✌🏽
I don’t mean to sound insensitive, Sis, but it’s not worth the video views. And then, on top of all of that he did not even properly apply the straightener. SMH I don’t know how you were able to sit there so calmly. Sometimes you have to trust and listen to the universe. Those rejections was a sign. 🤦🏽♀️
I saw another video where a black girl got her hair done by chinese and they relaxed her hair without asking. I wonder do they call relaxer something else??? Is that why when you ask if they are relaxing your hair they say no.
It’s better if you do your own hair specially, if you’re on another city or state that you don’t know, it’s always good to do your own and take it all products so you can your own hair
At least the other place gave you an awesome head massage … this one they barely did anything! Just go to the other one and let them wash it then put your headband on to go home and fix it yourself! I could not do this … you are BRAVE to have them messing in your hair. Also the wrapped tongs … I guess that was a good thing? No direct heat to your hair?
I hate this for you but I don't understand why you sat through that. After the wash wasn't done properly I would have to leave....I hate this for you I just don't understand I'm sorry....you are filming...you are watching this happen....help me understand why you went through this....i am so confused...no this shouldn't have happened to you buttttt
Them doing my hair is a Big No No for me. They would have to consent with me first in reference to any chemical being used and cleaner the scalp and condition.
She should have brought hair oil spray conditioner. She knows our hair needs oil conditioner or cream conditioner. Her hair was dry and frizzy and not styled in any kind of style.. I had my hair styled at a white salon. The owner immediately asked I'd and of her stylists could do black hair. A stylist replied she could and she did me and my friend's hair. It was just as if a black stylists had done it. Mine was ok but my friend said she styled it like her grandma's hair. We stopped going because they were making snide remarks when we went back. A another sista was about to get her hair done and we told her they were making snide remarks. Karma let her see she had lost a lot of money because we get our hair done every two weeks and sometimes more or again for a special occasion.
I think you should also consider when moving from Africa to China its a hole different place . Perhaps the cause of why those salons chased you out when you would stand by the door they may not have products made for African hair not only that they may see it as time consuming although they should have explained it kinder with respect some times it's better for you self to wash your hair your self that way you can produce the result that you want
They should be kinder in how they refuse a customer, but I have friends who are from China and Korea, and they’ve told me this behavior is not unusual whether you are a foreigner or citizen in these places.
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I dont think he fully understand texture. You could have got the same results from flat ironing or a hard pressing. Hope it is not heat damaged. I ve been there not great.
Y'all need to stop this! Do your own hair. If they can't show you wok online for your hair type leave asap. I've seen to many people of color doing this on RUclips and it's looking like a bad idea each time. Before that hair treatment looked better. They didn't trim your ends😢😢😢😢
I was sad when I saw he relaxed your hair :( but u don’t look bad with straight hair. It’s just terrible your natural hair was gone but don’t worry too much because your hair is going to be back to it’s natural way it’s just going to take some time. Definitely ask next time to just wash and style. Don’t b afraid to say no ! Next time just ask more questions like how much ?
But You Watched him Do it to you? I don't understand why you would even put yourself through that - giving people the opportunity to treat you like that when you already know how some of them treat black people is kinda your own fault - then to sit there whilst he alters the texture - to then moan about it wtf🤷🏽♀️
I dont understand why black women are going to other places of the world EXPECTING people to know how to handle our hair textures. It has to be taught! And then we complaing about price and how it comes out when its not to our liking.....from a stylist that has no idea on how to handle our hair. The blame isnt always on them, we know better too!
I agree. They do this just to start drama and to get viral views. It's annoying and immature tbh.
Yeah it's for views. Can't blame the stylists really they're trying thier best and there are major communication and cultural barriers.
Yeah there's a few that go to these Korean Hair Bath Salons.. but we can't even step in the stores they have in our community selling black everything.. no thanks
This was painful to watch. I’m sorry, your hair texture should never be changed without your full consent. Your natural hair is beautiful and I’m sorry the other salons were rejecting you, regardless of where they’re located, I believe all hair stylists should be taught to and should GLADLY service any and all hair types. Its their job! I hope your hair bounces back healthy 💖
Thank you you’re so kind ❤
Exactly 💯
How do you expect Chinese stylists to do black hair when there 99% of the people are Chinese 🤔 Whose hair are they supposed to train on when there are no black people to practice on in their hair schools?
@@elenaarman-tang7811 I don't expect or need them to do $hit for me. IM GOOD AND DONT GIVE NOT ONE DAMN. I'm HALF BLACK AND HALF NATIVE AMERICAN,.... SIOUX TRIBE/ LAKOTA NATION... I don't need their hair 🤣 and neither does anybody I grew up with. US 70's BABIES HAS HAIR, WE KNOW HOW TO GROW OUR OWN HAIR .
@@ajayewhite9892Who is referring to you? I'm Puerto Rican, black, a small percentage of Black Foot Indian and Irish. I grew up in the 70s as well. This young lady is in China looking for hair stylists to style her coily hair. China is not a diverse country due to Communism. They are not trained to do different types of hair. Oh and I'm married to a Chinese man. I know what I'm talking about. Have a nice day 😊
Also, how did you not know he was relaxing your hair through the entire process? And then when you realized he was doing the “fixed hair straight potion” you still didn’t say anything. So don’t blame the salon. They did a great job!!!
Thats a Keratin treatment he did... not a relaxer. But either way he should've asked. And you should've asked question also. You shouldn't have sat there and let him do it if that isn't what you wanted. 💙
Keratins ruin your curl pattern, they may as well be perms
Someone just told me it's a Keratin Treatment so I looked it up and this is what I got..
"Keratin treatments are not relaxers but a smoothing treatment that infuses a special blend of hydrolyzed keratin deep into the cuticle. The Keratin is then adhered to the cuticle with a flat iron to relax the hair strands at the sub-cuticle layer."
Also I saw someone on RUclips say her curls came back 3-4 months later. I guess you have to make sure it's done correct to have any chance of the curls being restored.
The curls often come back heat damaged though and you’ll have to keep doing it or cut off the hair just like with a relaxer
@@nataliaburke2543 Well dang lol. Google really tried to make me think this treatment was perfect
Some Keratin treatments have chemical and some don’t. I get them without chemicals and I still have my natural curls. Makes my hair soft and more manageable.
Thank you so much for this blog.....sometimes people have this tendency to think we as a people{BLACK}is constantly and consistently pulling 'THE RACE CARD'!!!It truly made me sad to see just how awfully you were treated....I mean my God!!!He said yes,yet clearly even though he was wearing GLOVES he refrain from touching your scalp.For me,it wasn't about a hairdo....it was about humanity or lack thereof.I'm sorry you had to endure all that for a blog....you deserve much more!!!Just know and believe that you are special and NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO TREAT YOU LESS THAN YOU DESERVE!!!May GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS!!Take care.
Wow! First of all I would of stopped him when he was wrapping the flatiron with foil to straighten your wet! hair! 😢
All hairstylist around the world should be required to take a class for all hair textures 😅
Just an FYI. When I was in beauty school in the early 80s, I had to insist that they teach us how to style, relax, cut and blowdry African American hair. They tried to skim over those chapters because the instructors didn't know how to do African American hair. When I finally graduated from cosmetology school and got my first licensed professional hairstylist job, I basically taught myself how to do African American hair. Shockingly, there are too many salons TODAY that don't know anything about doing ethnic hair. It's quite sad. Cosmetology school is not cheap. African American hair is a billion or more business. Quite lucrative. You'd think more licensed cosmetologists would want to jump on this bandwagon.
rapping the Flat Iron on the floor pmo
I had to come to the comments chills went through my body when I realized what he was doing that’s crazy
I honestly don’t think it’s a relaxer. Relaxer doesn’t come in a jug plus the way how he applied it seems more like a keratin treatment.
This was so helpful I looked it up seems like it was keratin treatment if that’s the case then it’s a huge relief 😮💨
Girl section your hair in four parts. Wash your own hair and save your money. You can do so many cute styles. Your young and so cute.😇
I would have went home after the first rejection. It’s so embarrassing and inhumane how they did you.
I know right but I was so pressed on making the video that day 😂
Why is it embarrassing and inhumane? Better for them to say no, than mess up her hair.
Girl you didn’t even check him about relaxing your hair without asking and lied about it ! Couldn’t be me
I am really tying to understand what is happening here. A relaxer and a hot iron together?
I would be devastated if my natural hair was relaxed without my permission, if it offers you any condolences your hair was beautiful in its natural state
Thank you 😊 you’re kind
This is not relaxer
When he translated "hair starighening lotion" with his phone, she said "ok" (agreed)....so apparently she was ok with it so why do you guys feel bad for her? This is youtube = views = money. Enjoy the show!
I WOULD WALK WITH MY OWN HAIR PRODUCTS.
I agree janeyjanet1508..But when going to any foreign country..it would be wise to carry your own products and if you go I to a salon and they are not familiar with doing your hair type..don't go there. As a matter fact do your homework to see if any shop in that country/area can infact work with your hair type. It just makes common sense.
Bless your heart. I'm saddened to see all of the racism you endured while just trying to get your hair done. Goodness gracious..they turned you away even before they knew what you needed. You could've just been asking for simple directions. Yet..it seemed that the first look, they immediately said no. My heart truly hurts for you. God bless. Peace and love ✌️ ❤
Why is it racist if the salon says no? She's in China. If they're not familiar with her texture of hair, it's better to refuse doing her hair than to mess it up.
@@elenaarman-tang7811 I don't know it looked like they just shooed her away. It could have been done a bit more politely.
My brazilian hairstylist use to do this to my hair when i got keratin treatments
Watching this made me tear up a little. 🥺
He didn’t have a clue as to how to shampoo your hair. Didn’t even scrub the scalp. Didn’t even complete the full head of hair.
You don’t have to settle. All those people made it clear they didn’t want to help you. Don’t beg people to take your money.
Ok the second shampoo rinse was better.
MY SISTER, you knew better. It's no way you didn't. Don't ever let a different CULTURE touch your hair. Our hair shows our POWER & STRENGTH 💪🏽✊🏽 it's off limits to other cultures. This is what happens when you don't stay in your lane. I hope you've learned from this.
🤮🤮what are you talking about?
What are you talking about... One of the most racist comment
It's not about racism. I'd expect a ignorant person to respond like this. ITS ABOUT RESPECT. You have to be BLACK or BROWN to understand. NOW ! I'm done talking to you. ✌🏽
Yea should have know about that one I’m sorry you in a foreign place n communication Barrier
We are Afro race.
Omg never let anyone play in your hair omg 😮😮😮
Is your curls back? I don’t think that’s a relaxer
I don’t mean to sound insensitive, Sis, but it’s not worth the video views. And then, on top of all of that he did not even properly apply the straightener. SMH I don’t know how you were able to sit there so calmly. Sometimes you have to trust and listen to the universe. Those rejections was a sign. 🤦🏽♀️
It’s hair I can decide to just cut it off and it’ll grow back it’s not that serious 😅
@@riyadiji If you say so. 🤦🏽♀️ If you like it, I love it.
I agree, you might as well ask for soul food restaurants in China too.js
What is he putting in
😇
Very,very well done, the treatment was amazing.
He is good
He destroyed her hair.
I saw another video where a black girl got her hair done by chinese and they relaxed her hair without asking. I wonder do they call relaxer something else??? Is that why when you ask if they are relaxing your hair they say no.
I think it's a keratin treatment, which is also used to make hair straight.
@@kutlwanodikobe1905 Oh! Now i see why he told her no when she asked if it was a relaxer. Makes sense.. thanks
What does you hair look like now
Still looking relaxed it never got back to its original state
Did it ever get back to how it was before
Lord Jesus, there’s more product and washing after blow drying and straightening it?!😮
It’s better if you do your own hair specially, if you’re on another city or state that you don’t know, it’s always good to do your own and take it all products so you can your own hair
I'm so stressed looking at the torture he did to your hair I'm out
What were they saying tho with the giggles?
I think it was a keratin product the reason I say that it’s because he applied heat the second part
He should have been honest like the other and say he don't know how to do black hair
You sit there and let him do this to your hair WHY😢😮
At least the other place gave you an awesome head massage … this one they barely did anything! Just go to the other one and let them wash it then put your headband on to go home and fix it yourself! I could not do this … you are BRAVE to have them messing in your hair. Also the wrapped tongs … I guess that was a good thing? No direct heat to your hair?
I hate this for you but I don't understand why you sat through that. After the wash wasn't done properly I would have to leave....I hate this for you I just don't understand I'm sorry....you are filming...you are watching this happen....help me understand why you went through this....i am so confused...no this shouldn't have happened to you buttttt
i think this is a keratin treatment. i've seen this process and its a keratin treatment and not a relaxer.
Ok that’s a relief 😅
I'm sorry your hair was ruined. Respectfully, what were you expecting???
It looks good though !
You know what he used on your hair??
What was you thinking 😲
What a painful and funny experience 😅
Them doing my hair is a Big No No for me. They would have to consent with me first in reference to any chemical being used and cleaner the scalp and condition.
I like it…looks elegant.
Did you have any breakage?🥺
It’s a keratin treatment
She should have brought hair oil spray conditioner. She knows our hair needs oil conditioner or cream conditioner. Her hair was dry and frizzy and not styled in any kind of style.. I had my hair styled at a white salon. The owner immediately asked I'd and of her stylists could do black hair. A stylist replied she could and she did me and my friend's hair. It was just as if a black stylists had done it. Mine was ok but my friend said she styled it like her grandma's hair. We stopped going because they were making snide remarks when we went back. A another sista was about to get her hair done and we told her they were making snide remarks. Karma let her see she had lost a lot of money because we get our hair done every two weeks and sometimes more or again for a special occasion.
Wow
You shouldn't have paid him nothing he didn't give you what you asked for....
Everything was done wrong with the hair even detangling find a ethnic salon next time. Prying it doesn’t fall out.
If the majority of them won’t even agree to do your hair…that should tell you they don’t know how to do it and you need to just let it go.
Your video popped up on my phone😂😍
You’re a real one I appreciate your love on my videos ❤
Why would you go there!!!!?
Penuh dukungan untuk mu dari penonton Indonesia di sini semoga kamu bisa memaafkan kerasisan mereka🇮🇩❤️❤️🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩🇮🇩❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
And why is it "ghetto?"
OMG I'm hurt for you, you are a beautiful young lady..
😳😳😩😩😩. I pray that was a keratin treatment🤷🏽♀️
Atleast they wear gloves unlike Brazil
😢
Is it just me but I never ever see them wearing gloves or their than when they do their dolls of colours hair😢
Keratin treatment maybe?
I guess so hopefully 🤞
NO DID HE ASKED TOO RELAX YOUR HAIR ??
He could’ve at least put a curl in it like damn. Okay I’m done
I think you should also consider when moving from Africa to China its a hole different place . Perhaps the cause of why those salons chased you out when you would stand by the door they may not have products made for African hair not only that they may see it as time consuming although they should have explained it kinder with respect some times it's better for you self to wash your hair your self that way you can produce the result that you want
They should be kinder in how they refuse a customer, but I have friends who are from China and Korea, and they’ve told me this behavior is not unusual whether you are a foreigner or citizen in these places.
Yah you are right
Your video popped in my phone...Keratin treatment look good on you!!
Thanks hun ❤
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. I dont think he fully understand texture. You could have got the same results from flat ironing or a hard pressing. Hope it is not heat damaged. I ve been there not great.
Y'all need to stop this! Do your own hair. If they can't show you wok online for your hair type leave asap. I've seen to many people of color doing this on RUclips and it's looking like a bad idea each time. Before that hair treatment looked better. They didn't trim your ends😢😢😢😢
Relaxer and foil on a flat iron with cream on your hair😢 whyyyyyyyyyy
OMG!!!!!!!!!!
I was sad when I saw he relaxed your hair :( but u don’t look bad with straight hair. It’s just terrible your natural hair was gone but don’t worry too much because your hair is going to be back to it’s natural way it’s just going to take some time. Definitely ask next time to just wash and style. Don’t b afraid to say no ! Next time just ask more questions like how much ?
This is not relaxer
I thought it looked pretty.
Your hair looks gorgeous 🎉It’s China and he did a beautiful job ❤
He didn't relax your edges.
He was probably afraid of burning her scalp 😕
But You Watched him Do it to you?
I don't understand why you would even put yourself through that - giving people the opportunity to treat you like that when you already know how some of them treat black people is kinda your own fault - then to sit there whilst he alters the texture - to then moan about it wtf🤷🏽♀️
She is brown Afro girl. Not back people
@@princessprincess7708
What?
I think it's look good!
aku tidak percaya dia melakukan ini
wahala for hairstylist😩😩sorry sis
It's ok😊
This is not relaxer.
So sorry
Thanks hun 🥹
Nope don't like it at all.
He did a really good job!