Your a content creator and fortunately that comes along with being a contact creator! I agree with the first comment if you can’t handle it or ignore it then maybe you need to find something else to do because at the end of the day people are going to speak on how they feel you guys put your business out on social media and it’s not fair that you expect for people to be quiet
Laina I mean this sincerely not even on some internet shit. King is a grown man, if that man not addressing HIS problems - you shouldn’t. It will only come back to bite YOU bc you’re the one that says something. Even if it’s women, fuck them! My man goes to bat for me male or female. If King isn’t the same way that’s ok, you just make sure you on that same type of time. I see so much in you and want you to prosper 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@erykahmichellee see this what I was saying don’t beat him to the punch because that’s “your man” if he not arguing that case why take the charge for him…
I couldn't have said it better.As a man he should be on the front lines defending his own name or whatever. If he and Nique aren't addressing anything I'll be darn if I do! At the end of the day it's Nique and Kings situation! That's my opinion.
I don’t agree with the bullying you & King received, however you are sounding like a hypocrite, bcuz King should not be body shaming anyone; is he body shaming you 👀👀🤔🤔. Totally unacceptable; trying going higher when they go lower. There is no excuse for King’s behavior. PERIODT
Its honestly sad to see how evil people are. I feel like if anything we should be lifting each other up. You are an amazing person and amazing mom.much love ❤❤
Girl learn to mind your business, when its about kaiser no need to comment just hushup thats why people keep on bashing you cos you talk to much end of the day its nique and king's son just be in your line and dont comment when it comes to kaiser the more you comment the more people keep on bashing you
You’re doing something right and moving exactly how you need to. Sometimes you gotta show people the ugly if they want to act that way, but I promise eventually you will get to a point where you just won’t address it and move forward for your own sanity. Being the bigger person can only go so far and it is very hard work. I am 30 and still don’t have it down all the way. I just don’t understand the hate when people only see a 10-20 minute video. Keep doing you and keep striving to do and be better. ❤❤❤
The people telling you to stop responding are actually giving you wisdom. I think you’re perceiving it as people trying to silence you but they’re actually advising you to sit in your power. Your need to respond shows that you don’t fully understand the power you possess nor do you accept what is within your control. Controlling the words of spectators will never be within your control so why give effort to something beyond you. The moment people realize that their words can trigger a response from you, they recognize that they have power over your mind, thoughts, emotions. If they can trigger you, they can control you. When you learn to control your reactions - true maturation is reached.
Unfortunately you’re a content creator. People will speak on your life. Based on what’s being shown and how people feel about you. You can’t expect people to mind their business and not say anything. It’s definitely not right! However, if you can’t handle it or ignore it. Find another job that doesn’t require people to dislike you due to your fiancé past. Enjoy watching you. ❤
But just because people dont "like her" doesnt mean that they should speak on her image!! Im with Laina that people need to DO BETTER!! & I dont feel like she is saything that people cant comment about what they are showing. The problem is they are making assumptions about things that are NOT BEING SHOWN half of he time and thats where it would get frustrating. I think for as much as people rant about them, she does a pretty damn good job at ignoring most of it. Like she said, she is human and there is going to be times that she may respond to it and thats okay!
@ kimoran1981. Who cares about If she a content creator! People needs to stop normalizing cyber bullying and entitled people, just because I got a platform doesn't give you the right to make assumptions about me and run with it like it's true and when it is lies and they are heartless evil trolls who got not going for themselves and they better know that karma is real! No body is perfect! We make mistakes and I love people but watch yourself! Because you don't have to worry about me...worry about God!
It really has nothing to do with her boyfriend past its the way she came on being shady instead of just being humble and likable. If you look at Kings videos with other females after he and Nique broke up, most of us gave them a fair chance and accepted they had moved on because they didn't act snobby or better than thou. She created herself to be unlikable. And for the people saying people shouldn't comment on appearances, I see one of them that commented on Niques' chin. Therefore, shut up its social media and no such thing as limits. As you said, if she can't handle the heat, get off. I make really great money without having to open my life to social media. For me its never been about King and Nique breaking up, its about being a lovable person, and she just isn't, and I've tried so many times to like her, but she just keeps being shady. And she did get online and randomly agree with people talking about Nique, so girl bye. You created this by running your mouth.
Fornication is a sin. Just trying to bring attention to the statement about judgement day. I normally don't comment under anything but i felt lead to bring attention to that. Sex is for Marriage. If you're having sex outside of marriage that is also reason to not make it into the kingdom of Heaven. Just spreading the gospel. Galatians chp. 5❤️ I love everyone Jesus Christ loves you more God bless. Jesus Christ is coming back soon be ready!!
Laina I feel like sometimes you should be Beyoncé to the bullshit. Not everything requires a response especially if these people don’t know you in real life. I know you’re new to being a content creator but it’s apart of the job!
Ima hold your hand when I say… everyone has haters everyone has people that doesn’t like them even NORMAL people that you see at the store. It’s all apart of life it’s not JUST on social media.. as long as you stay true to who you are and your morals that’s all that matters . Why would you change being nice just because a couple of comments on a public worldwide videos????????????
I agree with what you’re saying but what’s the end result in it. You guys are on free platforms that allow people to comment whether it’s right or wrong, you can clap back 24hrs a day and they’re still going to do it. You responding is only doing what they want. I think if the comments bother you that bad maybe change to where people can’t comment on videos/social media because unfortunately you don’t own any of the platforms so they are able to comment. You have done how many of these videos now? Either change the situation or idk?
I feel like you should talk to God about the path he intended for you to take. I feel like sometimes we try to force Gods will and sometimes it just not what he had set for us. I feel like our life path has rocky roads because we tried to plan or put things in our path that was never meant to be there. A lot of what we go through in life is really a result of how obedient we were to his word. I feel like a lot of what you feel from social media. Is your lack of knowing who you are in Christ. If you knew how precious you were in his sight the things people say about you and your family wouldn’t bother you. I think a lot of weight would be lifted off your shoulders if you would let God be your defender.
Amen!! We always try to blame the devil or God giving us tough battles when in fact the battles we are facing is really just not having discernment and listening to the voice of God! I agree whole heartedly with this and how you worded it. At some point we have to look at ourselves and realize all the things happening is because of me and my choices I made outside of the will of God.
girl you gotta learn to be quiet , because we might not see the hate until you respond to it ! it’s bigger creators than you .. they go through it wayy more than you and they never respond . You keep digging a whole deeper for yourself
I do be quiet for the most part. But I’m allowed to say how I feel I’m not perfect not gonna act like this social media stuff don’t be draining.. & there’s no hole I’m digging I’m speaking on my life and experiences on these apps.
@NiyahNicolw859. What you getting your information from because Lena is mainly quiet y'all to busy following them tea pages Who is miserable and they thrive on making people look bad while they sit behind a computer making money and not showing themselves and so busy gossiping about someone else life! See me in person! If you can't see me in person keep my name out your mouth!, people are money hungry fools! Who cares about If she a content creator! People needs to stop normalizing cyber bullying and entitled people, just because I got a platform doesn't give you the right to make assumptions about me and run with it like it's true and when it is lies and they are heartless evil trolls who got not going for themselves and they better know that karma is real! No body is perfect! We make mistakes and I love people but watch yourself! Because you don't have to worry about me...worry about God!
Amen God will be back soon one day he is only one that can judge what we all do in this evil and sinful world 🌍 people, so if you're are an person that sits around talking negatively and hateful about other people remember everyone has to answer to God in the end.
You can't expect the world to respect you on a social platform, and you get what you put out. Laina, you seem to focus on the negative side of things what people say, and you allow it to get to you it shows insecurity within yourself .These people dont know you in real life, only what you show them. And everyone is quiet from King, Dwayne, and Nique . You're the only one talking. Sometimes silence is Key. And if King isn't addressing anything, neither should you . Enjoy your life, take a break from the internet world, and you have children to raise and wedding to plan ❤
Laina girl i love your content and i enjoy seeing you❤️ As for the hate i suggest you take yourself of social media when it gets bad or turn off comments ever so often. I understand the need to defend yourself but these people hate you because you’re you that’s it. They have no valid reason! So you’re wasting time and energy “defending” yourself to them. They’ll nit pick whatever you say and make the situation worse. Silence is key baby i promise, just stay prayed up. And remember what the enemy meant for evil God will use for good ❤️
People aren’t going to change unfortunately. You have to master being unbothered…. You change …. You know who you are …. You really don’t have to focus or read negativity…. It’s because you care it is normal to want validation. Validate your self in Who God says you are. No one is perfect but guess what you have a blessed life. See that and not the comments ❤
I am so proud of you Liana , don't lose weight to please other people cause you have something that half of those negative people don't and that's a fiance that loves you all of you and two kids thats really loves you two just continue to love yourself.
The blonde looks so cute on you! 💕 I ignore all the haters who always have something to say about you. Unfortunately, their opinions will always be biased because of the situation at hand… Keep doing you and letting your light shine! I honestly admire how well you handle all of the hate because I wouldn’t be able to lol. Despite all of the negativity, just remember you definitely have some genuine supporters behind you! 💕💕💕💕💕💕
Laina I get people are coming at you for you to respond and say something mean towards them. However you were just in the same boat saying people were bullying you!
People are being very disrespectful I am called all type of name weekly. Like I said I don’t randomly go online bullying people however if you’re being disrespectful towards me or my family & we’ve had enough all bets are off the table.
@@LainaGwhat people don’t understand is…. They can have an opinion but everything that comes to your mind doesn’t have to come out of your mouth smh!! No matter what job you have that doesn’t give people the “go ahead “ to type ignorance!! I love that you still live your life and don’t let the ignorance stop You from being great! I love your content,your relationship and how awesome of a mom you are! #YouRock💞🥺
But at the end of the day, you are a content creator, and people are always going to have an opinion whether it’s good or bad and unfortunately, that’s the world we live in. And at the end of the day, you guys put your business out on social media, so you really give the people stuff to talk about?
@@ashleyjohnson-su1pcWhat you getting your information from because Lena is mainly quiet y'all to busy following them tea pages Who is miserable and they thrive on making people look bad while they sit behind a computer making money and not showing themselves and so busy gossiping about someone else life! See me in person! If you can't see me in person keep my name out your mouth!, people are money hungry fools!
Laina I love your family and the vlogs. You seem to be a great mom, fiancée and woman. When it comes backlash, social media and honestly life in general every response doesn’t require a reply. When you know yourself and know the truth no points have to be proved to anyone. They talked about God so what do you think they’ll do to you. You just have to train yourself to be more emotional sound. What does responding actually accomplish when a person has already made up in their mind their opinion on you and y’all life. I understand that social media is new to you but it happens to the best of them. A lot of influencers and celebrities never reply because they know the truth and they don’t care to try to prove any points to anyone. It’s okay to feel how you feel about it but that’s when you talk to King, a loved one or therapist about it instead of responding on social media. You’re right people should mind their business but unfortunately they aren’t. They know that it bothers you that’s why they keep doing it. They want a reaction out of you. Notice king never responds and many others. Just ignore and keep being the great person, mom and woman you are. Never feel the need to stoop to anyone’s level and remember most of these people are kids or miserable with their own life. Anyone who’s loving would never talk down on someone else. 😘😘
I love how yall came to the comments excusing the disgusting behavior of people on social media. No she shouldn’t have to find another job. How about people should stop being bullies? It’s like telling a kid that’s being bullied to just do homeschooling if they can’t handle being bullied. Yall are just as bad.
It’s not excusing behavior it’s real. You CANT control other people, so how else do you stop it? Stop responding to the hate, and the hate will stop. Or Get another job off the internet bc it’s too much. It’s the internet it has always been this way and isn’t going to change bc she doesn’t like peoples opinion on her. But a mother that sees her child being bullied and there seems to be no other resolution. I sure hope she would homeschool her child, bc it’s clear she can’t control the situation when her child is there. It only makes sense to control what you can. If You can’t control the bullies, what is the thing you can control?
@@bredazzle08when did she stop responding I missed that part? Every month she on the tea pages with laina fed up laina speaks out laina this laina that she ain’t kept her mouth closed since all this drama first started she do need to find another job or hobby maybe she wouldn’t have so much time on her hand to sit and argue on the internet all day it’s giving bored and need something to do
@@Vhmthebrandthe hate won’t stop. They do it still to other RUclipsrs who dated people previously just like they do Laina. It’s disgusting. She can’t help who she loves and who she fell for. When you’re attached to someone, you’re attached to someone sadly and supporters can’t let things go
I know it may be hard to ignore, but sometimes there is peace in being quiet. I see the comments all the time and it’s disrespectful and rude and you can post a simple picture and folks still attack over and over. Side note- not sure what access you have to with things over there but look up the cardi b hair mask and that is actually a good mask to have ❤️ sending you prayers and good energy and vibes. Keep posting and pushing forward ❤️
Im sorry love 😢 i want you to know that regardless of what is said, you are deeply loved. You're worthy and im happy you're here and strong. Some people are projecting because of their own lives being jacked up to be honest.
I think people forget that we are all human no one's perfect they be to involved in people's life on this internet and take it to far and it's not that serious lania keep pushing and keep being you queen ❤❤❤❤
You should look for a curls specialist to help you with the damage. As a curly girl, I would only ever get my hair dyed by my curl specialist. Regular stylists often know NOTHING about how to work with curls…especially in an Asian country where curly hair is even less common.
I think you have a STYE in your eye, use a warm towel to put in your eye , leave it there for 2-3 minutes, then use your eye drops (2 drops), do that every day , morning , afternoon and before you go to bed. ❤ Love you ignore the bad comments , keep doing you boo
My thing is- people are congratulating nique and d🥓 on their growing relationship so it’s just sad they can’t be happy for king moving on with you and yall working towards building a family and marriage. You can’t win for losing- with the kids, with the relationship, with the temporary move to Thailand… people are gone be people laina. Just remember they’re all fans at the end of the day. Keep living your life, being happy, finding peace and joy though God. Don’t let no one make you feel ashamed of yourself, your babies, your body, your man.. ❤stay encouraged. The people that are leaving hate comments will literally never even meet you or probably see you in real life. Us regular people need to see regular people on RUclips, cuz there’s enough faking out there- stay true to you❤
Laina I’m so glad you talked about the internet bullying. It really broke my heart to see you explain what some viewers are saying. I’ve seen a lot of the comments and I just shake my head. A lot of times when people can say ugly things to another human being that they do not personally know is because they hate something about theirselves and project it on to other people. As women we have to do better. Sure we can have our opinions about certain situations but it’s the DELIVERY that matters the most. I’m praying for you❤❤❤ Keep being humble, keep praying (especially for your enemies). People have to know that people’s lives change and we have to accept the change that comes with it or not. Just stop following if not. It takes a lot of hatred to come and antagonize someone on their page about things that will not even benefit you at the end of the day. Im an OG follower of Nique and King and I’ve continued to support them both regardless of the change and how they’ve evolved into different individuals including the people that they’ve brought along into their lives. I genuinely support y’all! Sending L&K fam love and light 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
you are so beautiful i love you laina so much and love watching you keep going it’s not gonna be easy ❤like girl you got ppl out here that real life love you and see the light inside of you haters gon hate !
I love watching you and there aways going to be people to dislike you or talk about u we can’t can’t help them but u your doing great just keep doing u ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great video and explanation. Your demeanor was more receptive, if you respond this way on lives and stuff people will hear and understand you more, instead of being so judgmental because of your delivery. So think about how you react and why you get backlash, but this video was well heard. Blessings.
Hello laina if ppl keep being disrespectful turn off your comments because when I start a RUclips channel that's what I would do turn my comments off because at the end of the day when people make RUclips channels y'all have to understand that's the person who run that page if you don't have nothing nice to say to a person the best thing for the people to do is got to be quiet I was raised if you don't have nothing nice to say you got to be you got to be quiet thanks for coming over here to share your story
Can we get a body update Lois like you’re healing well from a mom who also just a had her 2nd baby (10 months apart!!) I love to see the progress of other moms for motivation and inspiration 🙏🏽
@@LainaG thank you🥰 you are protected by God, all the negative comments are nothing but the devil trying to break you but stand firm on what you believe and keep your joy, because like you said not everyone will like you, I totally understand. Keep doing you, keep taking care of yourself and your family… like I said Jesus got you girl😘🫶🏽
Ignore and keep doing you is the best advice i can give. People will hate, but you also have a positive fan base as well don’t let that negative out way the positive . ❤❤
Lainaa fuck what they talking bout Pop off when you wanna pop tf off lol don’t let nobody Silence you have a right to say what u wanna say when u feel like it!
I agree, especially with the being a woman part. Nobody’s perfect, & it’s actually sick to bully another person who you genuinely don’t know in real life.
The negative & positive comments & commentary is just a part of social media , this is your job. It’s not about you being perfect you just don’t need to shed light on certain aspects of your life. Show & share what you want without it being too personal. Find a balance, sadly you’re gonna have to just stop reading comments and make your money cus if not you’ll just keep on addressing the same shit.
Baby don’t pay these people any attention. The best medicine for this situation is to keep doing you and your family and let the haters fuel y’all. Don’t let them get to you or win that’s their goal. Y’all stick together you all know the real, keep pushing forward and kill the noise with kindness and love 💕
All I can say about this Laina is if the people don't like you and King they don't need to be watching your videos and leaving hateful comments people need to move on and find something to do with their boring ass lives grow up people God is watching all of us here on earth.
The reason you feel bullied is bc people don’t understand why you always defending king like for example king and nique child is their business and their business shouldn’t be spoken out by you if king and niq talk to you privately then it should stay private
Don't worry about the haters if they speaking negativity is because they not happy with themselves , i have a youtube channel and i get negativity on my channel but i don't let it bothered me i just blocked them and thats what you might have to do .
It’s not you, it’s them w/ the bigger issues. Too many evil ppl in the world trying to make it their duty to tear you and your family apart. We don’t know what really happens in y’all lives. Stay in prayer 🙏🏾
I love your real and rawness towards the end !! Your light irritates a lot of peoples demons . People assume and speculate on what they don’t know !! Don’t explain yourself and keep being you and don’t worry about the haters . Baby they hated Jesus , Jehovah , Jah . THE MOST HIGH GOD . THE CREATOR OF ALL THINGS!! They can’t judge what they don’t know because as they judge and point , GOD is judging them !! Love you girlie you’re doing great . Walk in your truth and light ! Let it shine and make em mad !! Tell the truth shame the devil 💯
It's what comes with your lifestyle but i find it so crazy that people be soo INVESTED in other people's life to the point of calling others names that you don't know at all except for what u guys put out on social media‼️💯
Yeah your hair needs an olaplex treatment and quickly , it was damaged before they even bleached it more.. they should've told you the state of your hair smh
Those are the type of ppl that have no lives and aren’t happy within themselves. So for that reason they’ll troll someone with a beautiful soul and life because they don’t have that!!!! You are beautiful mama❤
Laina, i understand why you need to speak for yourself, but these haters are so miserable, and nothing you say will change that. Keep your head high. You are beautiful, and you have a man who adores you, your kids, and your besties 😊. These are things to be grateful for. I know it can be hard, but focus on the positive. Stay strong 💪, keep praying. God gat you. Love you, girl ❤❤
Honestly girl, do whatever you want!! If you feel the need to respond and defend yourself and your family please do because at the end of the day, influencer or not, you are still a human being AND THESE ARE YOUR PLATFORMS AND IT IS YOUR LIFE. I wish some lame on the internet would tell me that I need to be quiet when people are speaking on my life and my family. Trying to destroy my character and tear me down constantly. People need to realize that there are consequences to their actions. You can't expect to come online and say some evil, mean spirited things and then expect the person to not respond. You do have to pick your battles though which I believe you do anyway so don't let these people get into your head and convince you that you're doing anything wrong by speaking up for yourself and your family. I really don't comment on stuff like this but I've been seeing people try to come for y'all every single day all the time and it's really just annoying that people think what they're doing is okay and that you're doing something wrong. Half of these people are either kids or adults whose lives and relationships are in hell anyway. Remember, misery loves company. Keep doing what you're doing Laina. God bless you and your family.
It’s the internet and like you said they don’t know the situations, so the “yall still running with stuff” is crazy. They literally don’t know you… They’re trolls, that’s what comes with the internet. Block em & keep moving.
Just ignore the stupid people because when you say something you give them your tie and attention and that is what they don't need. When you ignore them you can hurt them more than saying something. It is hard to ignore and yest it hurts, but you have to try.
Your a content creator and fortunately that comes along with being a contact creator! I agree with the first comment if you can’t handle it or ignore it then maybe you need to find something else to do because at the end of the day people are going to speak on how they feel you guys put your business out on social media and it’s not fair that you expect for people to be quiet
Yes I think she should finish school, I remember in the beginning she had goals that were very achievable. Social media won’t be forever.
Laina I mean this sincerely not even on some internet shit. King is a grown man, if that man not addressing HIS problems - you shouldn’t. It will only come back to bite YOU bc you’re the one that says something. Even if it’s women, fuck them! My man goes to bat for me male or female. If King isn’t the same way that’s ok, you just make sure you on that same type of time. I see so much in you and want you to prosper 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@erykahmichellee well said 💯
@@erykahmichellee see this what I was saying don’t beat him to the punch because that’s “your man” if he not arguing that case why take the charge for him…
Exactly king addresses nothing it's only her
I think this is the best piece of advice someone can give. If he ain’t saying nothing she should follow his lead and be quiet.
I couldn't have said it better.As a man he should be on the front lines defending his own name or whatever. If he and Nique aren't addressing anything I'll be darn if I do! At the end of the day it's Nique and Kings situation! That's my opinion.
I don’t agree with the bullying you & King received, however you are sounding like a hypocrite, bcuz King should not be body shaming anyone; is he body shaming you 👀👀🤔🤔. Totally unacceptable; trying going higher when they go lower. There is no excuse for King’s behavior. PERIODT
Your hairs fried if you wanna restore it DONT dye no more and DONT straighten girl, it will be a process. Stay strong!
Laina it would be so cool to teach Oseann & Leni Spanish on their channel. You have 2 beautiful & smart children. Keep up the great work.
Silence is the key.
While you could of remain silent and not comment this ask yourself that
The Holy Bible is the only handbook to follow in life 💯
AMEN🔥💯
Its honestly sad to see how evil people are. I feel like if anything we should be lifting each other up. You are an amazing person and amazing mom.much love ❤❤
Girl learn to mind your business, when its about kaiser no need to comment just hushup thats why people keep on bashing you cos you talk to much end of the day its nique and king's son just be in your line and dont comment when it comes to kaiser the more you comment the more people keep on bashing you
You’re doing something right and moving exactly how you need to. Sometimes you gotta show people the ugly if they want to act that way, but I promise eventually you will get to a point where you just won’t address it and move forward for your own sanity. Being the bigger person can only go so far and it is very hard work. I am 30 and still don’t have it down all the way. I just don’t understand the hate when people only see a 10-20 minute video. Keep doing you and keep striving to do and be better. ❤❤❤
The people telling you to stop responding are actually giving you wisdom.
I think you’re perceiving it as people trying to silence you but they’re actually advising you to sit in your power.
Your need to respond shows that you don’t fully understand the power you possess nor do you accept what is within your control. Controlling the words of spectators will never be within your control so why give effort to something beyond you.
The moment people realize that their words can trigger a response from you, they recognize that they have power over your mind, thoughts, emotions. If they can trigger you, they can control you. When you learn to control your reactions - true maturation is reached.
Just be quiet you own every negative comment you sit and allow to bother you
Not being smart but if you said things are old and you moved on why address it when it hits the net. I would ignore it.
Unfortunately you’re a content creator. People will speak on your life. Based on what’s being shown and how people feel about you. You can’t expect people to mind their business and not say anything. It’s definitely not right! However, if you can’t handle it or ignore it. Find another job that doesn’t require people to dislike you due to your fiancé past. Enjoy watching you. ❤
Thank you🥰
But just because people dont "like her" doesnt mean that they should speak on her image!! Im with Laina that people need to DO BETTER!! & I dont feel like she is saything that people cant comment about what they are showing. The problem is they are making assumptions about things that are NOT BEING SHOWN half of he time and thats where it would get frustrating. I think for as much as people rant about them, she does a pretty damn good job at ignoring most of it. Like she said, she is human and there is going to be times that she may respond to it and thats okay!
Love u @LainaG
@ kimoran1981. Who cares about If she a content creator! People needs to stop normalizing cyber bullying and entitled people, just because I got a platform doesn't give you the right to make assumptions about me and run with it like it's true and when it is lies and they are heartless evil trolls who got not going for themselves and they better know that karma is real! No body is perfect! We make mistakes and I love people but watch yourself! Because you don't have to worry about me...worry about God!
It really has nothing to do with her boyfriend past its the way she came on being shady instead of just being humble and likable. If you look at Kings videos with other females after he and Nique broke up, most of us gave them a fair chance and accepted they had moved on because they didn't act snobby or better than thou. She created herself to be unlikable. And for the people saying people shouldn't comment on appearances, I see one of them that commented on Niques' chin. Therefore, shut up its social media and no such thing as limits. As you said, if she can't handle the heat, get off. I make really great money without having to open my life to social media. For me its never been about King and Nique breaking up, its about being a lovable person, and she just isn't, and I've tried so many times to like her, but she just keeps being shady. And she did get online and randomly agree with people talking about Nique, so girl bye. You created this by running your mouth.
Good for your girl to stand up for yourself, you said some powerful truths . God is the only judge
Keep doing you
God will bless you ❤
Fornication is a sin. Just trying to bring attention to the statement about judgement day. I normally don't comment under anything but i felt lead to bring attention to that. Sex is for Marriage. If you're having sex outside of marriage that is also reason to not make it into the kingdom of Heaven. Just spreading the gospel. Galatians chp. 5❤️
I love everyone Jesus Christ loves you more God bless. Jesus Christ is coming back soon be ready!!
make sure you send this to nique too no she didn't bring up judgement day but its warranted
Laina I feel like sometimes you should be Beyoncé to the bullshit. Not everything requires a response especially if these people don’t know you in real life. I know you’re new to being a content creator but it’s apart of the job!
Hey beautiful girl! Your videos are a true breath of fresh air! ❤️
Thank you🥰
Ima hold your hand when I say… everyone has haters everyone has people that doesn’t like them even NORMAL people that you see at the store. It’s all apart of life it’s not JUST on social media.. as long as you stay true to who you are and your morals that’s all that matters . Why would you change being nice just because a couple of comments on a public worldwide videos????????????
I agree with what you’re saying but what’s the end result in it. You guys are on free platforms that allow people to comment whether it’s right or wrong, you can clap back 24hrs a day and they’re still going to do it. You responding is only doing what they want. I think if the comments bother you that bad maybe change to where people can’t comment on videos/social media because unfortunately you don’t own any of the platforms so they are able to comment. You have done how many of these videos now? Either change the situation or idk?
The more you talk the more they will talk it’s no winning with the internet
I feel like you should talk to God about the path he intended for you to take. I feel like sometimes we try to force Gods will and sometimes it just not what he had set for us.
I feel like our life path has rocky roads because we tried to plan or put things in our path that was never meant to be there. A lot of what we go through in life is really a result of how obedient we were to his word.
I feel like a lot of what you feel from social media. Is your lack of knowing who you are in Christ. If you knew how precious you were in his sight the things people say about you and your family wouldn’t bother you. I think a lot of weight would be lifted off your shoulders if you would let God be your defender.
Amen!! We always try to blame the devil or God giving us tough battles when in fact the battles we are facing is really just not having discernment and listening to the voice of God! I agree whole heartedly with this and how you worded it. At some point we have to look at ourselves and realize all the things happening is because of me and my choices I made outside of the will of God.
Forget them keep going yall are great.
To all Scorpios out here Scorpio season is coming near around the corner are you all ready for it 💯 #ScorpioGang
Don’t even pay the haters no mind and they will eventually stop , don’t ever let them get to you or get a reaction out of you.
Your hair is definitely fried. You'd look good with short hair.
girl you gotta learn to be quiet , because we might not see the hate until you respond to it ! it’s bigger creators than you .. they go through it wayy more than you and they never respond . You keep digging a whole deeper for yourself
I do be quiet for the most part. But I’m allowed to say how I feel I’m not perfect not gonna act like this social media stuff don’t be draining.. & there’s no hole I’m digging I’m speaking on my life and experiences on these apps.
@@LainaGas the saying says “ YOUR NOT DOING RIGHT IF YOU DONT GET YOURSELF SOME HATERS” love u girl keep being u! ❤
@@LainaGfind another job
@NiyahNicolw859. What you getting your information from because Lena is mainly quiet y'all to busy following them tea pages Who is miserable and they thrive on making people look bad while they sit behind a computer making money and not showing themselves and so busy gossiping about someone else life! See me in person! If you can't see me in person keep my name out your mouth!, people are money hungry fools! Who cares about If she a content creator! People needs to stop normalizing cyber bullying and entitled people, just because I got a platform doesn't give you the right to make assumptions about me and run with it like it's true and when it is lies and they are heartless evil trolls who got not going for themselves and they better know that karma is real! No body is perfect! We make mistakes and I love people but watch yourself! Because you don't have to worry about me...worry about God!
@@LainaGexactly the same way they express themselves you should be given that same freedom!!!
Amen God will be back soon one day he is only one that can judge what we all do in this evil and sinful world 🌍 people, so if you're are an person that sits around talking negatively and hateful about other people remember everyone has to answer to God in the end.
You can't expect the world to respect you on a social platform, and you get what you put out. Laina, you seem to focus on the negative side of things what people say, and you allow it to get to you it shows insecurity within yourself .These people dont know you in real life, only what you show them. And everyone is quiet from King, Dwayne, and Nique . You're the only one talking. Sometimes silence is Key. And if King isn't addressing anything, neither should you . Enjoy your life, take a break from the internet world, and you have children to raise and wedding to plan ❤
Laina girl i love your content and i enjoy seeing you❤️ As for the hate i suggest you take yourself of social media when it gets bad or turn off comments ever so often. I understand the need to defend yourself but these people hate you because you’re you that’s it. They have no valid reason! So you’re wasting time and energy “defending” yourself to them. They’ll nit pick whatever you say and make the situation worse. Silence is key baby i promise, just stay prayed up. And remember what the enemy meant for evil God will use for good ❤️
People aren’t going to change unfortunately. You have to master being unbothered…. You change …. You know who you are …. You really don’t have to focus or read negativity…. It’s because you care it is normal to want validation. Validate your self in Who God says you are. No one is perfect but guess what you have a blessed life. See that and not the comments ❤
I am so proud of you Liana , don't lose weight to please other people cause you have something that half of those negative people don't and that's a fiance that loves you all of you and two kids thats really loves you two just continue to love yourself.
Unfortunately you’ll have to cut away the damage if you want your curls back.
Hope you are doing well mentally girl .💗🙏
The blonde looks so cute on you! 💕 I ignore all the haters who always have something to say about you. Unfortunately, their opinions will always be biased because of the situation at hand… Keep doing you and letting your light shine! I honestly admire how well you handle all of the hate because I wouldn’t be able to lol. Despite all of the negativity, just remember you definitely have some genuine supporters behind you! 💕💕💕💕💕💕
Laina I get people are coming at you for you to respond and say something mean towards them. However you were just in the same boat saying people were bullying you!
People are being very disrespectful I am called all type of name weekly. Like I said I don’t randomly go online bullying people however if you’re being disrespectful towards me or my family & we’ve had enough all bets are off the table.
@@LainaGwhat people don’t understand is…. They can have an opinion but everything that comes to your mind doesn’t have to come out of your mouth smh!! No matter what job you have that doesn’t give people the “go ahead “ to type ignorance!! I love that you still live your life and don’t let the ignorance stop You from being great! I love your content,your relationship and how awesome of a mom you are! #YouRock💞🥺
Yess agreed & thank you so much🥰
But at the end of the day, you are a content creator, and people are always going to have an opinion whether it’s good or bad and unfortunately, that’s the world we live in. And at the end of the day, you guys put your business out on social media, so you really give the people stuff to talk about?
@@ashleyjohnson-su1pcWhat you getting your information from because Lena is mainly quiet y'all to busy following them tea pages Who is miserable and they thrive on making people look bad while they sit behind a computer making money and not showing themselves and so busy gossiping about someone else life! See me in person! If you can't see me in person keep my name out your mouth!, people are money hungry fools!
Laina I love your family and the vlogs. You seem to be a great mom, fiancée and woman. When it comes backlash, social media and honestly life in general every response doesn’t require a reply. When you know yourself and know the truth no points have to be proved to anyone. They talked about God so what do you think they’ll do to you. You just have to train yourself to be more emotional sound. What does responding actually accomplish when a person has already made up in their mind their opinion on you and y’all life. I understand that social media is new to you but it happens to the best of them. A lot of influencers and celebrities never reply because they know the truth and they don’t care to try to prove any points to anyone. It’s okay to feel how you feel about it but that’s when you talk to King, a loved one or therapist about it instead of responding on social media. You’re right people should mind their business but unfortunately they aren’t. They know that it bothers you that’s why they keep doing it. They want a reaction out of you. Notice king never responds and many others. Just ignore and keep being the great person, mom and woman you are. Never feel the need to stoop to anyone’s level and remember most of these people are kids or miserable with their own life. Anyone who’s loving would never talk down on someone else. 😘😘
I love how yall came to the comments excusing the disgusting behavior of people on social media. No she shouldn’t have to find another job. How about people should stop being bullies? It’s like telling a kid that’s being bullied to just do homeschooling if they can’t handle being bullied. Yall are just as bad.
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It’s not excusing behavior it’s real. You CANT control other people, so how else do you stop it? Stop responding to the hate, and the hate will stop. Or Get another job off the internet bc it’s too much. It’s the internet it has always been this way and isn’t going to change bc she doesn’t like peoples opinion on her. But a mother that sees her child being bullied and there seems to be no other resolution. I sure hope she would homeschool her child, bc it’s clear she can’t control the situation when her child is there. It only makes sense to control what you can. If You can’t control the bullies, what is the thing you can control?
@@Vhmthebrandshe did stop responding for a while, it didn’t stop. But I get where you’re coming from
@@bredazzle08when did she stop responding I missed that part? Every month she on the tea pages with laina fed up laina speaks out laina this laina that she ain’t kept her mouth closed since all this drama first started she do need to find another job or hobby maybe she wouldn’t have so much time on her hand to sit and argue on the internet all day it’s giving bored and need something to do
@@Vhmthebrandthe hate won’t stop. They do it still to other RUclipsrs who dated people previously just like they do Laina. It’s disgusting. She can’t help who she loves and who she fell for. When you’re attached to someone, you’re attached to someone sadly and supporters can’t let things go
If it's not true why give it energy?🔥
I know it may be hard to ignore, but sometimes there is peace in being quiet. I see the comments all the time and it’s disrespectful and rude and you can post a simple picture and folks still attack over and over. Side note- not sure what access you have to with things over there but look up the cardi b hair mask and that is actually a good mask to have ❤️ sending you prayers and good energy and vibes. Keep posting and pushing forward ❤️
You have to have tough skin doing social media. Tough skinned people ignore the hate and focus on the bags.💯🔥
Im sorry love 😢 i want you to know that regardless of what is said, you are deeply loved. You're worthy and im happy you're here and strong. Some people are projecting because of their own lives being jacked up to be honest.
I think people forget that we are all human no one's perfect they be to involved in people's life on this internet and take it to far and it's not that serious lania keep pushing and keep being you queen ❤❤❤❤
hey, laina I hope you're enjoying yourself in Thailand and your family.❤❤❤❤
You should look for a curls specialist to help you with the damage. As a curly girl, I would only ever get my hair dyed by my curl specialist. Regular stylists often know NOTHING about how to work with curls…especially in an Asian country where curly hair is even less common.
I think you have a STYE in your eye, use a warm towel to put in your eye , leave it there for 2-3 minutes, then use your eye drops (2 drops), do that every day , morning , afternoon and before you go to bed. ❤ Love you ignore the bad comments , keep doing you boo
When you let someone bring you out of your character, they are winning
You got the ring yet pressed
Unfortunately it’s the downside of social media
My thing is- people are congratulating nique and d🥓 on their growing relationship so it’s just sad they can’t be happy for king moving on with you and yall working towards building a family and marriage. You can’t win for losing- with the kids, with the relationship, with the temporary move to Thailand… people are gone be people laina. Just remember they’re all fans at the end of the day. Keep living your life, being happy, finding peace and joy though God. Don’t let no one make you feel ashamed of yourself, your babies, your body, your man.. ❤stay encouraged. The people that are leaving hate comments will literally never even meet you or probably see you in real life. Us regular people need to see regular people on RUclips, cuz there’s enough faking out there- stay true to you❤
I bet the people that body shame you are not small either don't even worry about it just love yourself and forget the rest.
Your one of the sweetest people so real and you speak truth
Laina I’m so glad you talked about the internet bullying. It really broke my heart to see you explain what some viewers are saying. I’ve seen a lot of the comments and I just shake my head. A lot of times when people can say ugly things to another human being that they do not personally know is because they hate something about theirselves and project it on to other people. As women we have to do better. Sure we can have our opinions about certain situations but it’s the DELIVERY that matters the most.
I’m praying for you❤❤❤ Keep being humble, keep praying (especially for your enemies).
People have to know that people’s lives change and we have to accept the change that comes with it or not. Just stop following if not. It takes a lot of hatred to come and antagonize someone on their page about things that will not even benefit you at the end of the day.
Im an OG follower of Nique and King and I’ve continued to support them both regardless of the change and how they’ve evolved into different individuals including the people that they’ve brought along into their lives. I genuinely support y’all!
Sending L&K fam love and light 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
you are so beautiful i love you laina so much and love watching you keep going it’s not gonna be easy ❤like girl you got ppl out here that real life love you and see the light inside of you haters gon hate !
I love watching you and there aways going to be people to dislike you or talk about u we can’t can’t help them but u your doing great just keep doing u ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Great video and explanation. Your demeanor was more receptive, if you respond this way on lives and stuff people will hear and understand you more, instead of being so judgmental because of your delivery. So think about how you react and why you get backlash, but this video was well heard. Blessings.
Keep doing you.
Hello laina if ppl keep being disrespectful turn off your comments because when I start a RUclips channel that's what I would do turn my comments off because at the end of the day when people make RUclips channels y'all have to understand that's the person who run that page if you don't have nothing nice to say to a person the best thing for the people to do is got to be quiet I was raised if you don't have nothing nice to say you got to be you got to be quiet thanks for coming over here to share your story
Can we get a body update Lois like you’re healing well from a mom who also just a had her 2nd baby (10 months apart!!) I love to see the progress of other moms for motivation and inspiration 🙏🏽
Hey girl hey🤗
Morning❤️ have a great day
@@LainaG thank you🥰 you are protected by God, all the negative comments are nothing but the devil trying to break you but stand firm on what you believe and keep your joy, because like you said not everyone will like you, I totally understand. Keep doing you, keep taking care of yourself and your family… like I said Jesus got you girl😘🫶🏽
@@TherealRachelRay thank you so much & Amen🥰 The Sun will SHINE soon
@@LainaG it’s Been shining so bright, that’s why everyone’s trying to dim it🤭
I’m happy you finally speaking up for yourself. Enough is enough Damn. Just let her live.
Stop judging people. Damn if you do damn if she don’t.
Ignore and keep doing you is the best advice i can give. People will hate, but you also have a positive fan base as well don’t let that negative out way the positive . ❤❤
Hey Laina you are beautiful and a great mother keep your head up high ❤
Damn if you do damn if you don’t. Influencer or not people are gonna talk until the day you die. Be unapologetically yourself always!
Y’all heard the saying “can’t keep poking the bear” well she tired and she can speak tf up!!!
Lainaa fuck what they talking bout Pop off when you wanna pop tf off lol don’t let nobody Silence you have a right to say what u wanna say when u feel like it!
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I’m glad your in a better mindset 👍
Yall are beautiful!!..
put your hair in flexi rods or any type of curlers to define the curls until you get your curl pattern back ❤️.
Laina we love you it’s only woman who are mad at you pay it no mind
It kinda sad how people are saying your a content creators get use to but to be bully constantly while being pregnant and postpartum is alo
Keep doing you beautiful family ❤
That’s just the bitterhood. They keyboard warriors
So they’re similar to Laina then.
I agree, especially with the being a woman part. Nobody’s perfect, & it’s actually sick to bully another person who you genuinely don’t know in real life.
The negative & positive comments & commentary is just a part of social media , this is your job. It’s not about you being perfect you just don’t need to shed light on certain aspects of your life. Show & share what you want without it being too personal. Find a balance, sadly you’re gonna have to just stop reading comments and make your money cus if not you’ll just keep on addressing the same shit.
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Baby don’t pay these people any attention. The best medicine for this situation is to keep doing you and your family and let the haters fuel y’all. Don’t let them get to you or win that’s their goal. Y’all stick together you all know the real, keep pushing forward and kill the noise with kindness and love 💕
All I can say about this Laina is if the people don't like you and King they don't need to be watching your videos and leaving hateful comments people need to move on and find something to do with their boring ass lives grow up people God is watching all of us here on earth.
The reason you feel bullied is bc people don’t understand why you always defending king like for example king and nique child is their business and their business shouldn’t be spoken out by you if king and niq talk to you privately then it should stay private
Don't worry about the haters if they speaking negativity is because they not happy with themselves , i have a youtube channel and i get negativity on my channel but i don't let it bothered me i just blocked them and thats what you might have to do .
Don’t listen to what they saying about you do better
Hey bestie ❤❤❤❤❤❤
idm they think they can say stuff to other people but when u clap back it’s like omg no way like foh
It’s not you, it’s them w/ the bigger issues. Too many evil ppl in the world trying to make it their duty to tear you and your family apart. We don’t know what really happens in y’all lives. Stay in prayer 🙏🏾
the dye damaged your hair and the braids broke it off you gonna have to do a big chop to get your curls back
I love your real and rawness towards the end !! Your light irritates a lot of peoples demons .
People assume and speculate on what they don’t know !! Don’t explain yourself and keep
being you and don’t worry about the haters . Baby they hated Jesus , Jehovah , Jah . THE MOST HIGH GOD . THE CREATOR OF ALL THINGS!! They can’t judge what they don’t know because as they judge and point , GOD is judging them !! Love you girlie you’re doing great . Walk in your truth and light ! Let it shine and make em mad !! Tell the truth shame the devil 💯
It's what comes with your lifestyle but i find it so crazy that people be soo INVESTED in other people's life to the point of calling others names that you don't know at all except for what u guys put out on social media‼️💯
Yeah your hair needs an olaplex treatment and quickly , it was damaged before they even bleached it more.. they should've told you the state of your hair smh
Hey pretty. Keep doing what you doing .
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Those are the type of ppl that have no lives and aren’t happy within themselves. So for that reason they’ll troll someone with a beautiful soul and life because they don’t have that!!!! You are beautiful mama❤
Laina you are beautiful with a pure soul to match 🤍
Laina, i understand why you need to speak for yourself, but these haters are so miserable, and nothing you say will change that. Keep your head high. You are beautiful, and you have a man who adores you, your kids, and your besties 😊. These are things to be grateful for. I know it can be hard, but focus on the positive. Stay strong 💪, keep praying. God gat you.
Love you, girl ❤❤
Honestly girl, do whatever you want!! If you feel the need to respond and defend yourself and your family please do because at the end of the day, influencer or not, you are still a human being AND THESE ARE YOUR PLATFORMS AND IT IS YOUR LIFE. I wish some lame on the internet would tell me that I need to be quiet when people are speaking on my life and my family. Trying to destroy my character and tear me down constantly. People need to realize that there are consequences to their actions. You can't expect to come online and say some evil, mean spirited things and then expect the person to not respond. You do have to pick your battles though which I believe you do anyway so don't let these people get into your head and convince you that you're doing anything wrong by speaking up for yourself and your family. I really don't comment on stuff like this but I've been seeing people try to come for y'all every single day all the time and it's really just annoying that people think what they're doing is okay and that you're doing something wrong. Half of these people are either kids or adults whose lives and relationships are in hell anyway. Remember, misery loves company. Keep doing what you're doing Laina. God bless you and your family.
It’s the internet and like you said they don’t know the situations, so the “yall still running with stuff” is crazy. They literally don’t know you… They’re trolls, that’s what comes with the internet. Block em & keep moving.
Keep your opinions sacred 💕
Pink eye is contagious. Don't rub it.
Just ignore the stupid people because when you say something you give them your tie and attention and that is what they don't need. When you ignore them you can hurt them more than saying something. It is hard to ignore and yest it hurts, but you have to try.
Misery likes company babe a known fact . May Jesus touch all souls who are watching and listening and cover over you at all times 🥰🙏🏽✨Amen