David Crosby Gives Advice on Dating, Prenuptial Agreements, and Impotence | Ask Croz
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- In the most recent installment of Ask Croz, David Crosby doles out relationship advice and responds to a father that doesn’t know how to talk to his son about sex.
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This should be a weekly segment
I so agree
We all have to go, and at 78 I will as well, but it brought a tear when David did, those guys were such a big part of my hippy days.RIP David
How I wish there were a hundred more of these. So many pearls of wisdom. I thank Croz wife Jan, her loving support gave us so many years to enjoy the music, the words, and the life he lived. May his memory be a blessing to her and their son.
That answer about the dogs is spot on. Dogs love you unconditionally and it’s real.
Croz is a national treasure. Someone please start a podcast with this man; I want to hear him sit down and talk about the most mundane things, man. Love hearing wisdom from people like him.
I'll second that!
@@antarcticorb9197 He really seems to like doing these Q&A vids for as well. I am sure if he found a great podcast producer to work with and all that stuff he could share some totally legendary wisdom on music, life, love, and everything between. A podcast with a music legend like him doesn't really even exist right now, and would totally fill a hole that other musicians who idolize these guys never knew they had.They're only getting older; such is life.
It would be indescribably great to be able to preserve and have the conversational thoughts of a legendary musician, many of whom we have only really heard three or four minute interviews for some big publication throughout their entire lives for the most partt, which also limits some of what he can talk about on a platform like Rolling Stone's youtube page. But there is just an aura of mystery surrounding those guys. If the wants to continue having an influence on modern musicians to carry on (lol pun) his legacy; the legacy of numerous rock n rollers, people and young musicians need to hear and soak in the mind of David Crosby in a long form, sit-down conversation with him and his fellow legendary musicians and people like him, if only to keep that area of music alive.
A pod like that could do a ton of good, even outside the realm of music lovers or fans of his. By sharing the wisdom he has gained through years and years of living a wild life, everyone could benefit from that wisdom that only comes with having the experiences he has gone through. We gotta preserve the minds of these guys forever.
What a beautiful thing. The legendary Croz doling out life lessons for us all. Thank you and Rest in Peace.
"It's not disgusting, he's just having dinner." Love it. This was better than I'd anticipated.
Just a few days ago, i was listening to all your great advices, listened to "holding on to nothing" a thousand times... your wonderful music gave so much of us a greater perspective of life, a deeper understanding... with your passing it really feels like, an old spirit is dying out, ... started so many years ago. Rest in Peace Croz, you will always be remembered.
My condolences, thoughts, and prayers for Crosby's family and friends. May he rest in peace.
Love this guy on so many levels. His music has touched my soul since I was a kid. Now this? David crosby you are amazing
David Crosby’s musical talent and honesty is refreshing. A wise soul who has evolved through some of the most challenging life experiences reveals truth to me. His musical excellence in his 70’s is very inspiring. I saw him perform live and witnessed his greatness. Thank you, David Crosby!!😊😍
If you are going into a relationship with a lot and your partner is going in with very little a prenuptial agreement is sensible advice. Don't be fooled by feelings and how they are the right one. Things happen in relationships and then different people come out that you never expected were there. Been there twice and the second time lost my home; yet I was absolutely sure she was the right one and that we were perfect for each other. Don't go by feelings alone as feelings can blind you to reality.
Having said the above. Just make the prenuptial agreement a fair one. Each person retains what they bring into the relationship, but if you end up splitting, just divide what you brought into the relationship together. It protects both parties.
It doesn't say you don't trust them but merely says we are all humans and as such don't always know ourselves especially others. So many people get fooled by feelings and over many years. I was together in my last relationship for ten years. She was like a Jekyll and Hyde.
You’re spot on. People need to keep feelings aside, and think about what can happen. People change.
There are a lot of conmen and conwoman out there too. They know how to work your feelings and then take everything you have.
You say you don’t know why you are asked these questions . I do , you give excellent advice!
So strange to randomly come across this video to hear Croz talk about loving and losing a pet. I just lost mine at 15 (eerily enough as states in the video) exactly one month ago and he's right, it's extremely painful. But I'm so grateful for all the love and memories he gave me and having those memories and knowing the joy he gave me makes the pain worth it.
Get another one. A pup or, if you are old like me, get a used dog.
I'm sorry about your losing your pet. May you be comforted and healed.
RIP David! He was incredibly talented! 😊
You cannot get good advice from a perfect person. Only one who has gone through trouble times can give the insight on how to get through troubled times. The hard way insn't the best way, but it's part of life's reality.
I worked at a veterinary practice for a couple of years. For some reason I was often chosen to assist with euthanasias and I found I was very good with the owners and their beloved pets during this difficult time. Here's the thing. When their time is near, your pet will start having good days and bad days. A bad day is one where your pet is too "lazy" to get up when you call or doesn't have the energy or desire to eat. Maybe you know their in pain because walking is difficult. When the bad days outnumber the good ones, it may be time. Many owners have told me their pet actually looked at them a certain way that let them know it was time. Every pet is different. When people have asked me when they should let their pet go, I say, "You'll just know." Hope this helps someone.
I love these videos so much. Never thought I'd be getting life advice from David Crosby but here we are!
I've been looking for a man like David all of my life
I agree with you about the prenup. Not that we're wealthy but it does in essence say i don't trust you , sign this. Btw we've been married for 42yrs.
He feels like your having a heart to heart conversation with your grandpa
A really cool grandpa.
I'd like to ask him "If you could talk to your younger self from 50 years ago (1971 David), what's the one thing you would say to him?"
Ask him on Twitter he usually replies
Prob gonna be «lay off the hard drugs».
dude that happened, nice
Yea, I saw that with his latest "Ask Croz" video. I wished I added some humor to the question, he seems to like those.
@@winterbird4447 The hard drugs were definitely a regret of his. But this was the 60's and 70's so it was kind of expected and he just fell into the hole like so many other great musicians. Many of them paid with their lives. :-(
Sail on Dave. Good to see you happy! Peace brother.
Love these episodes! He’s great at this!
Such a genius. Rip David Crosby.
"If you really want to be happy, find someone you can make happy". Dang, that sounds like profoundly wise advice. Love first. 🙂
Davis Cosby is wiser than one would think, he does say some pretty profound ideas. He was and is a true artist.
Wise advice. Thank you.
Always gold Croz.
Thanks Croz! Just down to earth advice which seems to be in very short supply today...
All good advice except for the prenup one. Think the guy should have one. Things can get bad and ugly no matter how much two people go into things with great intentions and lots of love.
Yeah, I 100% agree. I think it’s naive and immature to assume that a prenup means the love between a couple is not real. And that is the key word: Being realistic and giving yourself peace of mind. As much as we like to think that love conquers all, financial distress is such a prevalent reason why divorces happen in the first place. The COVID pandemic has demonstrated that. So as much as a solid relationship is about being selfless, you cannot neglect your own peace of mind and financial assets in ANY way.
Love these videos, David gives great advice! Keep em coming. :)
I am loving this David!! You give great advice. Hoping you keep this going for awhile. ✌💖
I love this! Crosby knows!
Great advice, David Crosby!🙏❤️🙏
And we love your answers and advice too, David! Definitely keep 'em coming, and we'll be tuning in!
He's great thanks for this
It's good to see you back, Mr. Crosby. It's been awhile since I've seen one of your videos. I was afraid that you weren't making them anymore and that would be a shame.
Aged wisdom from the Croz
He gives wonderful advice, very thoughtful
In the sixties I would basically listen only the Byrds! Thank you for joy!
He's great thanks for sharing this I hear he's related to the founding fathers good for him
Love you David!
Always great advice!!
Great to know you are having fun with it!!
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I agree it should be a weekly segment
Agree totally on how you know, and prenups
This is really good life lessons.. Thank you
Loved this
This is awesome.
Really great advice, David
Love David Crosby
David, your mom had the best advice.
This is good, sound advice.
I love David so much
Dave, I would love to know more (as I'm sure many viewers would) about your open guitar tuning. Can you bring a guitar and show us some time? Also, I'd love to hear a short commentary on how you arrange your insane and incredible harmonies. Do you chart them, or just jam and try different things? The results on both are extraordinary and have always set your music apart from others...thanks. I'm gonna keep watching and I hope you get to my question!! -Richard
Good, you did good!!!!
Love this guy
Rad dude
When i briefly glanced at the thumbnail ljcture - i thought it was Mark Twain for 2 seconds.
Rest in Peace 🎸🎤🙏🏻😔😪💔
David I trust your opinion
My family and I are following you since the 60s, here in Brazil. We have all the CSN records and some of the solo albums, and we are still followin you all by youtube. Now, during this pandemic, my husband and I, now 70 and 67 years old respectively, and our kids as well, would love to ask you whether it would be possible for you, after the disagreement that happened between you and Nash, to make a song for him to sing, and ask Stills or Young to get Nash composing a song for you to sing. this way, it would be nice to afterwards add both voices to the songs. We still hope to hear both singing together again. Love you all. And now, a question: after having performed in woodstock...what did you all do that night? Was it easy to leave the place? Did you stay long after having performed? Have you enjoyed the show or only performed and left?
Here's a question for you Croz. I completely agree with you on dogs.
Please come back and let us know how wonderful it is to see all your old dogs at the Rainbow Bridge. How crazy do they go?
And are they all back in the prime of their lives, running and playing like crazy? And do they still demand dog biscuits and know how to tell that it is dinner time?
My girlfriends dog/best friend got ran over yesterday :( I’m just trying to find ways to comfort her. “Dogs are experts on love” - David Crosby ❤️
omg, I'm dying at "it leaves a big hole when it goes away"... I have tears of laughter...
Not so funny if you're the poor guy who wants to be able to please his partner & finds he just can't, or at least not that way. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by a hundred different things, & a lot of them creep up on you without you even realising - e.g. via diabetes, heart problems, medications you have to take. I love Croz's advice most of the time, but felt he could have said more on this. E.g. there are treatments that can help some guys - it's worth investigating. And, even if there's an erection problem, a guy can still please his partner in other ways - i would have thought Croz would mention that! But i'm also glad he said (in effect) there's other things in life to do & it's not the end of everything.
Hey i get Croz's reply to the guy who says he can't get it up any more...i'm just gonna say that he should have added that u can still please ur partner, with ur hands, with toys, with ur tongue or whatever. & there are medications that u can try.
Yes, i would have liked him to add that in his reply...i'm sure he would be open to all options!
David crosby I love ya man! I feel like I know you, but I'm sure.. There's millions that say this haha
He is 100% right about the pre-nup.
if you're a dumb idealist then sure. might as well cancel your car, home and health insurance while you're at it too.
Loveit!
Question for him if he reads this or if people pass this on to him. What did you do to process the death of Christina? I know it never truly goes away but what are some ways to try to process a loved one who suddenly passes?
Tabby. Sadly, David did not 'process' the death of Christine. That was the start of his downhill spiral into hard drugs. Please take good care and maybe think about finding someone (professional) to help you. I'm sorry for your loss. A sudden death is devastating.
What do you think about modern music festivals? They just don’t seem to have that open loving spirit that Woodstock had.
For example I went to Bonnaroo and got led out in handcuffs by a security guard just for bringing my dog in.
@@yukonnoka Well for a start the sound systems are all too standardized and sound the same, let alone the cold led lights and screens, its all too flashy with no space for introspective musical connection
Just giant security zones now.
Prenuptial agreements don't say that you don't trust someone, it just says that you are aware that roughly 50% of all marriages end in divorce and that divorce can devastate a person financially and emotionally. Romantic relationships frequently come and go. There's no reason not to be prepared in case they "go" in your life.
Mt question to Crosby would be: Has he read the book "Weird Scenes Inside the Canyon: Laurel Canyon, Covert Ops & the Dark Heart of the Hippie Dream". And if so, what does he think of it's content, particularly the book's claim of CIA involvement in the creation of the "Hippie movement" through the intentional disbursement of LSD via it's positioned agents.
Hey Croz what is Better ? : A politician who says "Let's Unite the Country" or a Businessman Rebel that says : "I don't know what it will be, but it'll be great " ??
RIP David
WWCD ... what would Croz do?
I owned a fair number of dogs in my youth and never had to put one down - they all died prior to having to make that difficult decision. My mom had an unusual propensity to back over them with her Oldsmobile…..😕
I would like if you could unpack your mom’s advice further. By making someone else happy, is that in a practical way? Providing for them? Do they have to be in a less fortunate situation than you? I can see how a great looking girl with a sunny disposition, lots of friends, and decent career is probably not going to search high and low for me. Is that what she meant? Or is it making a choice to always think of the other person first?
It has to feel right. If one has to force it, its not right. Find someone whom you can complete, and completes you. We are all incomplete. Find someone whom you can somehow help make better, and allow yourself to be helped to become better too. Love is about many things, one of which is vulnerability. If you cant show vulnerability, it isnt love. If the other person does not show any point of vulnerability, its not love. They dont necessarily have to be in a "less fortunate situation", for this is so hard to define. What is less fortunate? FInancially? Emotionally? Everybody who looks for love is incomplete. One who thinks they are complete probably does not need love. Keep going soldier.
@@rafasounds-qi5rm Thank you.
Maybe his mom meant like find someone who is willing to be happy with you....not some drama queen who is determined to be miserable no matter what you do to please them? If a person is unhappy with Life Itself they will be unhappy with you too.
Congrats on your long term love affair.
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Happiness is an inside job Bub
Love ya, Dave. BUT...a PRENUP IS A GREAT IDEA. That considering that we've all fallen deeply in love and though a relationship was forever that didn't last. Look what happened to McCartney. He fell in love, married a woman without a pre-nup, and by the end of the relationship she fought for his money and said, "The Beatles was all John." And if you have a pre-nup, you'll know somebody isn't marrying you just for your money. But it's complicated. I fathom that.
I usually agree with David on everything, but I disagree with the prenuptial. I’ve seen a lot of people get burned. To me it’s not saying you don’t trust them. It’s more like you don’t trust their family. 😂. Unfortunately people change. It’s a protection if both of you have kids. Your watching out for your family. Your adult kids can pick the wrong person and get saddled with paying their partner’s college debt if a divorce happens. A prenuptial is unfortunately a necessity.
He doesn't need a pre-nup because he knows and probably she knows he could have her killed and never get caught...... he was that powerful....
song released in 1977 Anything at all
Anything you want to know just ask me
I'm the world's most opinionated man
I'll give you an answer if I can (Answer)
Catch one passing through (Passing through)
That feels right for you
Anything you want to know just ask me
It's worth every cent it costs
And you know it's free for you
Special deal
Ah, ah, oh, oh
De, da ...
Anything you want to know it should be perfectly clear
You see just beneath the surface of the mud
There's more mud here
Surprise
Is there anything you want to know
On any subject at all?
I've go time for one more question here
Before I fall, fall
Is there anything at all
Prenuptial.... ask Paul McCartney, Bill Gates, etc. My advice get one!
Where's Matt?
Huh?
It is no ones job to make someone else happy. You are responsible to make yourself happy. I think it is an incredibly selfish act to blame someone else for not making you happy.
I think the point is that marriage is about giving. You give, the other person gives, you both receive, you both give. If a marriage isnt about giving, it isnt about love, it isnt a marriage; its a casual and selfish union. This is what selfish is - being with someone else just because you want to take from them.
@@rafasounds-qi5rm real true happiness comes from within not externally.
@@tomdemaline5148 you just don’t understand this
What's funny about Rolling Stone using croz for content, they gave the worst reviews of csn and csny albums
Autoreply from askcroz@rollingstone; "The group askcroz only accepts messages from people in its organization or on its allowed senders list, and your email address isn't on the list."
WTF? That's some bullshit!
What! What the hell man, that's not fair
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Luckily I haven't had to do this yet but there is always Viagra
The croz should say there’s viagra
WHY WOULD ANYONE ASK CROZ he's lucky to be alive
Along with Kieth Richards.
I love that David took the time to do these, but what about Graham Nash's determination? He had to create five RUclips accounts so he could keep disliking them.
Why would anyone want his advice on anything?
I find myself mostly agreeing with you. I love Croz as a musician, and he's lived a long, overall successful life.
But, by his own admission, he's made numerous mistakes with drugs and personal & business relationships, and sometimes STILL puts his foot in his mouth.
I def don't agree with his answers on prenups and impotence. Those types of questions should be answered on a case-by-case basis after consulting with, respectively, one's financial adviser and doctor(s).
David Crosby is the last person to give advice.
Jim, find a younger woman.
Absolutely get a prenup. You may trust her now, but you might not trust the person she is years later. If your parents have money, protect their inheritance to you. They didn’t work their whole life to see their money given to a women who is leaving you.
Then let them dump you like a hot potato for making them happy. Not worth it.
David, you have no business being so smart. You're supposed to be an old used-up hippie rock star. How'd you get so wise. It's not just the years. I know plenty of old dumb people. I might even be one myself.