I am a psychologist and I just want to compliment Lindsey for being so open about it, not being ashamed about it and working on it. Honeslty immense respect. It is very hard to deal with and not your fault at all. It stems from trauma and knowing that says it all. Lots of love❤
Yea lets let Neds be what it was for real for real! If you guys just do something awesome and unique and different you will become the next Friend group and what not making awesome movies and more audiences, like Adam sandler, and many other actor/actresses. You have a whole generation who knows who you all are! Go FOR IT!
I'm with you on this!! It's them giving us an adult survival guide and they break down their life's and are so open about what they went through and have experienced!
They are tripping. Ned and Moze definitely ended up together. They dated all throughout high school, broke up on great terms when they started college, explored different relationships and career opportunities in their 20s and now after reconnecting in their 30s are back together, married. At least that all happens in my fanfic universe in my mind. 😂🤣
This is literally my head canon down to a T and I feel like most of us fans have this head canon lol. Hope if they have a reboot, Scott Fellows makes this happen. The trio’s just a bit too realistic and a little jaded 😂
@@e.producer1082 for realll. When they do a reboot (whether it's a show or a movie), Ned and Moze better be together. They don't have to start off together, but they sure as hell better end it together. I'm not playing with them. They better not piss me off by going the "realistic" route in a reboot 🤣 Ned and Moze are together. The end! Stop the madness.
@@giulia_4694 true and this comes with a lot of personal experiences most people wouldn’t truly understand unless they had been through the same thing, which is exactly why lindsey and daniel relate so well to him
I want to hear more about how Rob, Teo, and Devon liking Lindsey caused problems 😂😂😂 and what compelled Lindsey to choose Devon. The tea was very hot today & it’s funny to imagine what could’ve been if Lindsey didn’t pick Devon lmao
Ned and Moze definitely ended up together. They might have broken up to attend different colleges or move away. But they 100% got back together after graduating college. This my headcanon! They would be engaged or married. Maybe even have a kid. But they definitely are together...in my fan mind. 🤞
You guys are practically writing your new show right now between answering comments and giving general advice from the podcast. I can see them being like scrubs or Abbott elementary with just the toxic ex/friends being a really good, real, and positive episode for a lot of people.
I've slowly realized from watching the podcast that what I'd love to see isn't really a Ned's revival starring them as grownups (like I thought I did), but actually a "spiritual sequel" starring Devon, Lindsey, and Daniel, as who they are now, in real life. The anecdotes they've told already would make for such great stories, about how hard and how hilarious it is to be an adult today.
"Three child actors- who saw success in a hit tv show about middle school life, now come together 15 years later to share the different paths life has taken them. From love and heartbreak to butt stuff and yoga and everything in between. Follow them as they reconnect and learn that they're not as different from their characters all these years later!" 😂😂😂
Lindsay and Devon talking about not telling each other how they feel, but rubbing each other until they're tired. The way you say it makes it sound like something is going on behind the scenes 😂
Did I miss something? Provide the time stamp please. The only thing I recall from this ep on them not telling each other how they feel is them referring to things they don’t like about each other that they keep to themselves lol
@@speechnopinions6017 right at the 3:00 mark, it was just a joke about how they decided to phrase it 😅 clip it out of context and it sounds so different
It’s funny, cause I had a crush on Lindsey while watching Neds! Now, while watching this and listening to her talk… it’s like every time she opens her mouth that crush is reaffirmed! She’s so intelligent and thoughtful and when she gets into her comfortable groove, very giddy yet ground and just… ugh, she’s amazing! Thanks to you three, for making what is literally the only podcast that I actually enjoy! ❤
Tbh, I never watched Ned's. I came across this podcast because I know Shaw from PLL, and I am wicked glad I watched it. These are awesome, and the banter and dynamic between you all is great.
These 3 will always be friendship goals. It's pure, unforced, and natural. I hope all 3 get the best of life. Also, any project that these 3 do in the future will be a blessing and I can't wait to see it.
I just finished my own personal rewatch of the show earlier this week and it surprised me how much it held up. I remembered more of the show than I thought I would but so many jokes even the ones I remembered still made me laugh so hard. it was also a welcome surprise to not look back and find anything questionable like you sometimes do when looking back at slightly older media
For real - it’s amazing how it much I remember but at the same time forget. Haven’t watched it in almost 12 years yet still it’s funny af. That and being meta and understanding the show’s place in the 2000’s helps me heal.
Y’all are the best.The pod was awesome to start with, but seeing how comfortable y’all are getting with the format over time is super enjoyable. The Community shot up so fast, hopefully showing how much interest there would be in another Ned’s style project. Thanks for what you’re doing!!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻
20:40 It's actually warm vs cool lighting. Yellow lights are warm so they're easier on your eyes. White lights are cool so they turn your brain on more
14:00-16:25 meant everything. First episode seeing you guys in my feed and I do hoped I’d see Devon make a podcast after he helped me through so much on impaulsive. But Lindsey straight sharing her experience with BPD and how she’s working through it and showing what I’ve learned as a person in the past three years has been a shared experience. It’s very helpful, brought me to tears, and I’m so grateful and ready to dive deeper into this podcast. Much love to you three, thanks for getting me through school. Now to get through adulting
And 32:14 was very needed too. Bc of my BPD I lost a good friend after losing multiple I wanted to lose for some time. It was kind of mutual, if that’s how he would put it too. But at the same time it is very hard for everybody involved. I’ve been alone for three years since then, but hearing this has just driven home, I have necessary, sometimes things like that is in life. I wish them all the best as they did me. Just two different types of people going apart.
Thank you Lindsey for for talking about bpd! You talking about it conversationally with acceptance from Devon and Daniel is so important and it really made me feel less shameful about having such a diagnosis. And I'm similar to Daniel about needing my own space and at the time preferring to live alone. But several years ago me and my boyfriend compromised by having separate bedrooms; and it has changed my life and allowed the relationship to blossom in a way I never thought I could have or deserve. [fun fact: couples in history have spent more time having separate bedrooms than sharing. Sharing bedrooms began during the great depression when people couldn't afford enough beds for the whole family]
For ending friendships, I just make clear that I have expectations and they're not meeting it. Doesn't mean that they're a bad person or I don't wish them well, but we definitely won't be close. If they don't get it after a few back and forths, then I stop responding. I want to ensure clarity.
Ned’s was my SHOW growing up and I look forward to every Wednesday just to hear your advice and hear about the filming the show!! So much love for you all 💗
Just wanted to say a huge thanks to you guys, just moved out of my home house for the first time in a whole different country on my own and the advice in this episode and the last few episodes really hit hard with me.
The universe would not be the same if y’all hadn’t stayed friends 💯no doubt it ain’t easy to stay friends with peeps for years and years but y’all making it happen and we are thankful for this podcast and y’all Continuing to give us great life survival guide tips 👌
It feels so surreal watching these people as an Adult talking about Regular stuff when I used to watch them as a child for celebrities they are really relatable
Especially awesome episode, great questions all the way through! I really resonated with the part about breaking up with a toxic friend. I had to do it with one of my best childhood friends once we were out of high school and we ended up not talking for a few years until re-connecting on social media. It's not the same as it used to be, but I'm glad that we can have light conversation and share memes on occasion. Shoutout to anyone else who's been through a similar situation!
Just finished rewatching the whole series The way I was bawling watching the last episode was indescribable they had a short Montage of all these clips of Moze throughout the seasons and it was like watching my childhood flash before my eyes and then the end credits showed bloopers from all the seasons and I started crying again
I love how honest and real you all are, but a special kudos to Devon for speaking genuinely about the things most of us deal with or think but don’t speak up to address. 🙏🏾
Two things that really connected with me this episode were...one the feeling that you cant shut down and be in your mind peacfully while at home. Two friends who wont change who they are and for you to learn to let go. Keep them coming ❤
Recently I just rewatched the full series, back to those times, the nostalgia is incredible, without a doubt it was the best series, it is wonderful to have you again, you represent my childhood and adolescence, you are the best 😂
I’d love for Reccie Canon to come on the pod (the 3rd bully in Loomer’s crew) and talk about what it was like to be in so much of the show as essentially a secondary character at that point but not be allowed to speak (outside of one episode). I know from Nickelodeon’s side it was so they’d only have to pay him as an extra but I want to know how he felt being the only one of the bullies not really allowed to participate despite being part of a big part of the show
I really look forward to this podcast every week. I always have a smile on my face throughout it. You guys are so funny and have such great chemistry together. Devon's "We are all on the road together, use a blinker" as a tip to wrap up the show was so hilarious. I love how Daniel was trying to interpret what he meant by that but he was just serious about people using blinkers and I totally agree. Blinkers are not for you it's for me and everyone else who's trying to see what your next move is. It's not that hard. Can't wait for next week's episode.
Lindsey - thank you SO MUCH for the BPD advice/talk. As someone who’s struggled with BPD, everything you said hit right at home. I am wondering, what led you into sobriety?
18:55 OH MY LANTA I feel so validated when you're talking about how lighting is everything, how it affects your central nervous system. Soon as I moved into my house, I had it mostly decorated on day 1. 😂 I only have WARM lamps, Himalayan salt lamps, and fairy lights. I rarely use any of my overhead lighting. I also don't use the overhead lights in my office at work, which I'm pretty sure most people think I'm weird for 😂 but I don't care, I'm miserable with fluorescent lighting!!! I'm more neurotic than I wish (most of my family doesn't relate to that), but I do what I can to manage 🛋️☀️
This podcast makes Wednesdays so much better! And the real advice and true stories yall share is major motivation for me and other listeners! I’m ready to go run a couples miles after this one! 💪🏼 keep going guys!!!!!!
Love the pod, love how funny you guys are and give us real nuggets of advice. I feel like I’m hanging out with my besties when I listen. Thanks for being so genuine and honest with your lives and experiences.
Man, this podcast is one of the highlights of my week every week. You guys are so cool, I love hearing your different perspectives, and the genuine chemistry between the three of you is so warm and inviting. I hope to see you guys work together on future projects. Looking forward to the YEARS of content with all the episodes/stories left to discuss. ❤
What’s up Ned-Heads? Great Q&A session today. I love that you guys have a love for the Kenan and Kel era cuz I grew up in the 90’s. I actually met Kel Mitchell this year and he was the nicest guy I’ve met. It was at 90’s Con CT and it’s such a great spot for all 90’s fans. And Lindsey’s story of her BPD really is a heartbreaker but I’m happy for her to find ways to cope it. She’s amazing. Great episode and Happy Nedsday!!
Huge admiration for Lindsey. BPD is a tough one, and the stigma doesn't help. The more people are able to talk about it, the less isolating it will be. There's power in community.
I love listening to your conversations, seeing your dynamic with each other, also the tips and advice you have throughout each podcast---Action, and follow through is the next step to from just listening to a piece of advice, which can be easier said than done. I'm in the middle of working through that particular step.... I also want to say I was 100% with Devon at the end there about drivers using their damn signal---One of my biggest pet peeves, as well. *Communicate with the people who are on the road with you, whether that is other drivers or pedestrians, whomever.* Signal; it is the flick of your pinkie, not that difficult. Love from Canada.
Listening to this specific topic about “why is being an adult hard and boring” has just resonated with me so much, it’s almost therapeutic and I feel like they’re really giving me tips. For me, I’m 28, and I think I’m barely at that point of my adulthood where I’m starting to become an actual adult (more independent, a bit more detached from my family, more financially stable, steady job, my own car) and for me what has been really so hard to handle is that life balance, man. Recently, the harsh realization that there is not enough time to do everything just fucking hit me in the face hard. Like I have to, work 8 hrs. of the day plus (while 8 hours of the day are taken from the day), I’m supposed to find the time in there to be healthy (eat well, work out, stay hydrated, work on my mental health, self-care) and I’m supposed to also keep up with my social life (checking my phone for notifications/friend group chats/family group chats bc if I don’t answer my family in 24hrs that means I don’t care about them ,apparently, or I’m not making time for them) and I’m also supposed to have good hygiene (shower, clean my room, clean my bathroom, wash the dishes, do my laundry, clean my car, clean my pet’s area, check the mail, take the trash out) and I’m also supposed to take care of my personal shit (make dentist appt./ make dr. appt. fix car if it needs fixing, find time to cook my meals) and then I’m also supposed to get enough sleep, another 8 hours of the 24 hour day and do it all again, and I’m supposed to get to work on time while commuting and look relatively decent for it, and be in a good mood and have energy. And this is not even including having a partner which is a whole other aspect of your life you’re supposed to build. There’s not enough time for all of that and I have not been able to find a way to make all of that work and stay happy and not stressed, and I don’t know how ppl who claim “yes there’s a way” have done it bc to me right now it seems almost impossible. But these tips really have been helping me and I’m trying to do better. But it’s definitely hard.
I really enjoyed your responses to the question about going through a friendship break up. I have been going through two long drawn out friendship breakups for the last two years. There has been a lot of grief surrounding those losses. Your discussion around friendship break ups really resonated with me and helped me feel a bit lighter.
Hey I just wanted to let you guys all know you guys are amazing and I genuinely appreciate everything you did for all of us you basically made our childhoods a little bit more enjoyable so thank you so so much and I'm glad you guys all managed to reconnect and Relive the glory days brings the little kids out in all of us
I love your guys's podcast so much it's like therapy to me just hearing you guys conversate and react I'm a very antisocial person and it kind of helps me be more social so thank you you guys keep up the good work
Bro this is one of my favorite pods now. It may not be in a tv show format. But yall are definitely handing out incredible tips for current and future adults 👌🏾
I’ve enjoyed watching all of the episodes of the pod so far, but this one is my favorite for some reason. It felt like I was having a convo with friends. Keep it up you guys ❤️
The roommates I lived with when I moved to Long Island NY they're such a great couple and they always made me feel like a part of their relationship and I love them for it!
Can you guys do an episode that drives more into when you were going through a lot while dealing with roommates? And can you talk more about that concept of not having that home and space to just relax and not be on edge? I’m experiencing a lot to a point where idk if I should stay where I go to school cuz it’s becoming more dangerous every day
Absolutely love Ned’s declassified I probably rewatch some episodes almost every single day! It’s my comfort show and was a huge part of my childhood! We used to ask our lunch lady what she saw in our beans and she rarely had the energy of lunch lady lol, love you guys so much!
Damn, that first question hit the nail right on the head; my best friends are my friend group from elementary... And we didn't see or talk to each other from Junior high until college, after we had out toxic teen phases lol, grew up, and then reexperienced our friendship with out now mature perspectives. I love my friend, and I would die for them.
To go with the end of the video, learning to forgive yourself for letting yourself in toxic situations is a long healing process but once you get through it, the feeling is beautiful and profound in so many ways
I literally *can't* do warm lighting. I have no idea why, but they give me horrible migraines. I spend most of my time in the dark or with natural light, but when I have to switch on a light switch, daylight white it is.
Watched you guys growing up. I'm same age as you guys lol, always had the biggest crush on "MOZE". I was very surprised by this Podcast and how informative it was and fun. It's like a damn blast in the past. Love it keep them coming.
What other questions do you have for the gang?!
Could you bring other cast members on? I’d love to see the other students and staff who were on the show regularly alongside you 3
@@timelessxii 😂
favourite guest performance
What was a tough lesson you guys learned from Ned's?
Who’s the one replying in the comments 👀
We need Gordy on the pod!!!!
best character on the show after Seth
@@natef1212 to me it was 1. Coconut Head 2. Lisa Zemo 3. Gordy. 4. Cookie
@@tenscar6131 nah Lisa lost me in season 3 when she let all her friends simp for her. How can you not put Seth at 1, his one liners were the best
Yes! Gordy is the best character!
Gordy/Mr. Turner...
I wanna see him do Timmy's dad's voice on the pod lol
I am a psychologist and I just want to compliment Lindsey for being so open about it, not being ashamed about it and working on it. Honeslty immense respect. It is very hard to deal with and not your fault at all. It stems from trauma and knowing that says it all. Lots of love❤
We don’t need a Ned’s Reboot.
This podcast IS our Neds Reboot.
Thank you guys. Love you three ❤
Yea lets let Neds be what it was for real for real! If you guys just do something awesome and unique and different you will become the next Friend group and what not making awesome movies and more audiences, like Adam sandler, and many other actor/actresses. You have a whole generation who knows who you all are! Go FOR IT!
To be honest that’s exactly what I was thinking earlier like before people went to guide books now people go to podcasts 😅
I'm with you on this!! It's them giving us an adult survival guide and they break down their life's and are so open about what they went through and have experienced!
They are tripping. Ned and Moze definitely ended up together. They dated all throughout high school, broke up on great terms when they started college, explored different relationships and career opportunities in their 20s and now after reconnecting in their 30s are back together, married. At least that all happens in my fanfic universe in my mind. 😂🤣
I think that's how Scott Fellows (the creator of the show) would have done it too. I feel like it makes sense.
A wholesome fanfic? Well that's just madness!
This is literally my head canon down to a T and I feel like most of us fans have this head canon lol. Hope if they have a reboot, Scott Fellows makes this happen. The trio’s just a bit too realistic and a little jaded 😂
@@e.producer1082 for realll. When they do a reboot (whether it's a show or a movie), Ned and Moze better be together. They don't have to start off together, but they sure as hell better end it together. I'm not playing with them. They better not piss me off by going the "realistic" route in a reboot 🤣 Ned and Moze are together. The end! Stop the madness.
@@AB-fx7tg the seed for making a show is there.
y’all make my Wednesdays so much brighter
You make ours brighter too 🤩
100% ntm how much the show holds up. Hadn't watched since it was on TV. Solid writing
Frrrr like i always wait for this
"You guys are the only ones who gets this part of my life" Devon just described what it's like to grow up with siblings you're close to
Not me being an only child lol
yes but i think it's deeper than that. They grew under some sort of spotlight due to the success of the show.
@@giulia_4694 true and this comes with a lot of personal experiences most people wouldn’t truly understand unless they had been through the same thing, which is exactly why lindsey and daniel relate so well to him
I want to hear more about how Rob, Teo, and Devon liking Lindsey caused problems 😂😂😂 and what compelled Lindsey to choose Devon. The tea was very hot today & it’s funny to imagine what could’ve been if Lindsey didn’t pick Devon lmao
Lindsey's voice is great. She should do some voice acting!
Cowboy Cookie was hilarious, and hearing that song is delightful
🤠🍪
I about died of laughter after hearing cowboy cookie again haha
"You realize if the whole school hears that tune, I can't be your friend anymore."
Ned and Moze definitely ended up together. They might have broken up to attend different colleges or move away. But they 100% got back together after graduating college. This my headcanon! They would be engaged or married. Maybe even have a kid. But they definitely are together...in my fan mind. 🤞
You guys are practically writing your new show right now between answering comments and giving general advice from the podcast. I can see them being like scrubs or Abbott elementary with just the toxic ex/friends being a really good, real, and positive episode for a lot of people.
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My Wednesdays are now associated to this pod and is essential to my survival tysm
Tbh ours too. Thanks for watching 🤓
Same here bro
Same over here!
I've slowly realized from watching the podcast that what I'd love to see isn't really a Ned's revival starring them as grownups (like I thought I did), but actually a "spiritual sequel" starring Devon, Lindsey, and Daniel, as who they are now, in real life. The anecdotes they've told already would make for such great stories, about how hard and how hilarious it is to be an adult today.
So the office
@@parisarnett87 Uhhhh seeing as they don't work in an office for a company... probably not? 😅
I feel like that would be more of a movie but that is a good idea
"Three child actors- who saw success in a hit tv show about middle school life, now come together 15 years later to share the different paths life has taken them. From love and heartbreak to butt stuff and yoga and everything in between. Follow them as they reconnect and learn that they're not as different from their characters all these years later!" 😂😂😂
Perfect 😂😂👍@@mcd08
That Synchronized sigh at 21:04😄👌
Lindsay and Devon talking about not telling each other how they feel, but rubbing each other until they're tired. The way you say it makes it sound like something is going on behind the scenes 😂
We are all shipping them. 😂
Did I miss something? Provide the time stamp please. The only thing I recall from this ep on them not telling each other how they feel is them referring to things they don’t like about each other that they keep to themselves lol
@@speechnopinions6017 right at the 3:00 mark, it was just a joke about how they decided to phrase it 😅 clip it out of context and it sounds so different
It’s funny, cause I had a crush on Lindsey while watching Neds! Now, while watching this and listening to her talk… it’s like every time she opens her mouth that crush is reaffirmed! She’s so intelligent and thoughtful and when she gets into her comfortable groove, very giddy yet ground and just… ugh, she’s amazing! Thanks to you three, for making what is literally the only podcast that I actually enjoy! ❤
Tbh, I never watched Ned's. I came across this podcast because I know Shaw from PLL, and I am wicked glad I watched it. These are awesome, and the banter and dynamic between you all is great.
These 3 will always be friendship goals. It's pure, unforced, and natural. I hope all 3 get the best of life. Also, any project that these 3 do in the future will be a blessing and I can't wait to see it.
We sure hope they didn't 👀
Love this pod cast wizard's
wait if cookie was the first lil nas X does that make him 🏳️🌈 ??
@@stephenasmith4192 only a child would ask a question like this
Love that two of my favorite podcast are watching each other 💯🙏👍
@stephenasmith4192 he literally says later in the pod he's living with his girl now
I just finished my own personal rewatch of the show earlier this week and it surprised me how much it held up. I remembered more of the show than I thought I would but so many jokes even the ones I remembered still made me laugh so hard. it was also a welcome surprise to not look back and find anything questionable like you sometimes do when looking back at slightly older media
For real - it’s amazing how it much I remember but at the same time forget. Haven’t watched it in almost 12 years yet still it’s funny af. That and being meta and understanding the show’s place in the 2000’s helps me heal.
Y’all are the best.The pod was awesome to start with, but seeing how comfortable y’all are getting with the format over time is super enjoyable. The Community shot up so fast, hopefully showing how much interest there would be in another Ned’s style project. Thanks for what you’re doing!!! 🤘🏻🤘🏻
Lindsay is right one of the actors from Boy Meets World (Matthew Lawrence) was on Brotherly Love
20:40 It's actually warm vs cool lighting. Yellow lights are warm so they're easier on your eyes. White lights are cool so they turn your brain on more
14:00-16:25 meant everything. First episode seeing you guys in my feed and I do hoped I’d see Devon make a podcast after he helped me through so much on impaulsive. But Lindsey straight sharing her experience with BPD and how she’s working through it and showing what I’ve learned as a person in the past three years has been a shared experience. It’s very helpful, brought me to tears, and I’m so grateful and ready to dive deeper into this podcast. Much love to you three, thanks for getting me through school. Now to get through adulting
And 32:14 was very needed too. Bc of my BPD I lost a good friend after losing multiple I wanted to lose for some time. It was kind of mutual, if that’s how he would put it too. But at the same time it is very hard for everybody involved. I’ve been alone for three years since then, but hearing this has just driven home, I have necessary, sometimes things like that is in life. I wish them all the best as they did me. Just two different types of people going apart.
Thank you Lindsey for for talking about bpd! You talking about it conversationally with acceptance from Devon and Daniel is so important and it really made me feel less shameful about having such a diagnosis. And I'm similar to Daniel about needing my own space and at the time preferring to live alone. But several years ago me and my boyfriend compromised by having separate bedrooms; and it has changed my life and allowed the relationship to blossom in a way I never thought I could have or deserve.
[fun fact: couples in history have spent more time having separate bedrooms than sharing. Sharing bedrooms began during the great depression when people couldn't afford enough beds for the whole family]
For ending friendships, I just make clear that I have expectations and they're not meeting it. Doesn't mean that they're a bad person or I don't wish them well, but we definitely won't be close. If they don't get it after a few back and forths, then I stop responding. I want to ensure clarity.
Ned’s was my SHOW growing up and I look forward to every Wednesday just to hear your advice and hear about the filming the show!! So much love for you all 💗
The absolute best part of my Wednesday mornings! Grew up watching neds laughing with my dad back in the day
That's great to hear ❤
Hearing cowboy cookie again was much needed. Thank you Daniel 🙏
Just wanted to say a huge thanks to you guys, just moved out of my home house for the first time in a whole different country on my own and the advice in this episode and the last few episodes really hit hard with me.
I love you guys. thanks for bringing y'all personalities back. they shined through even in the og Ned's
The universe would not be the same if y’all hadn’t stayed friends 💯no doubt it ain’t easy to stay friends with peeps for years and years but y’all making it happen and we are thankful for this podcast and y’all Continuing to give us great life survival guide tips 👌
It feels so surreal watching these people as an Adult talking about Regular stuff when I used to watch them as a child for celebrities they are really relatable
i just saw the little picture of Lindsey behind daniel😭😭 she looks so cute 😭❤
Y’all can pull off like a modernized, Always Sunny kinda version of Ned’s except there will be a lesson to learn in the end.
Thank you Lindsay for talking about BPD. I grew up on Ned’s and I have BPD so it’s refreshing to see a childhood favorite who can relate
Especially awesome episode, great questions all the way through! I really resonated with the part about breaking up with a toxic friend. I had to do it with one of my best childhood friends once we were out of high school and we ended up not talking for a few years until re-connecting on social media. It's not the same as it used to be, but I'm glad that we can have light conversation and share memes on occasion. Shoutout to anyone else who's been through a similar situation!
Just finished rewatching the whole series
The way I was bawling watching the last episode was indescribable they had a short Montage of all these clips of Moze throughout the seasons and it was like watching my childhood flash before my eyes and then the end credits showed bloopers from all the seasons and I started crying again
I love how honest and real you all are, but a special kudos to Devon for speaking genuinely about the things most of us deal with or think but don’t speak up to address. 🙏🏾
I’m laughing so hard at Lindsey… “I really just love a warm lamp.” 😂😂😂
so relatable, shes just like me
I laughed so hard at that too 😂
30:13 I'm kind of like this with chores just because I want to figure out how to do them quicker and easier haha
You all have some very wise wisdom and all of us in our early, and mid 20’s appreciate it so much!! I love this podcast sm 😭
Two things that really connected with me this episode were...one the feeling that you cant shut down and be in your mind peacfully while at home. Two friends who wont change who they are and for you to learn to let go. Keep them coming ❤
Recently I just rewatched the full series, back to those times, the nostalgia is incredible, without a doubt it was the best series, it is wonderful to have you again, you represent my childhood and adolescence, you are the best 😂
I’d love for Reccie Canon to come on the pod (the 3rd bully in Loomer’s crew) and talk about what it was like to be in so much of the show as essentially a secondary character at that point but not be allowed to speak (outside of one episode). I know from Nickelodeon’s side it was so they’d only have to pay him as an extra but I want to know how he felt being the only one of the bullies not really allowed to participate despite being part of a big part of the show
Perfect way to lead us over the hump of the week😊
I really look forward to this podcast every week. I always have a smile on my face throughout it. You guys are so funny and have such great chemistry together. Devon's "We are all on the road together, use a blinker" as a tip to wrap up the show was so hilarious. I love how Daniel was trying to interpret what he meant by that but he was just serious about people using blinkers and I totally agree. Blinkers are not for you it's for me and everyone else who's trying to see what your next move is. It's not that hard. Can't wait for next week's episode.
Lindsey - thank you SO MUCH for the BPD advice/talk. As someone who’s struggled with BPD, everything you said hit right at home. I am wondering, what led you into sobriety?
They can't just end their friendship all willy nilly! They're supposed to have each other's backs in order to survive middle school! 🚨
18:55
OH MY LANTA
I feel so validated when you're talking about how lighting is everything, how it affects your central nervous system.
Soon as I moved into my house, I had it mostly decorated on day 1. 😂
I only have WARM lamps, Himalayan salt lamps, and fairy lights. I rarely use any of my overhead lighting.
I also don't use the overhead lights in my office at work, which I'm pretty sure most people think I'm weird for 😂
but I don't care, I'm miserable with fluorescent lighting!!!
I'm more neurotic than I wish (most of my family doesn't relate to that), but I do what I can to manage 🛋️☀️
omg this pod was just like a episode of neds i cant believe how the advice they give is such good advice just like the tips from the show
This podcast makes Wednesdays so much better! And the real advice and true stories yall share is major motivation for me and other listeners! I’m ready to go run a couples miles after this one! 💪🏼 keep going guys!!!!!!
Love the pod, love how funny you guys are and give us real nuggets of advice. I feel like I’m hanging out with my besties when I listen. Thanks for being so genuine and honest with your lives and experiences.
Man, this podcast is one of the highlights of my week every week. You guys are so cool, I love hearing your different perspectives, and the genuine chemistry between the three of you is so warm and inviting. I hope to see you guys work together on future projects. Looking forward to the YEARS of content with all the episodes/stories left to discuss. ❤
What’s up Ned-Heads? Great Q&A session today. I love that you guys have a love for the Kenan and Kel era cuz I grew up in the 90’s. I actually met Kel Mitchell this year and he was the nicest guy I’ve met. It was at 90’s Con CT and it’s such a great spot for all 90’s fans. And Lindsey’s story of her BPD really is a heartbreaker but I’m happy for her to find ways to cope it. She’s amazing. Great episode and Happy Nedsday!!
This podcast is the therapy sessions I didn't know I needed just cleaning last few days and binge listening
Alright @NedsPod I am catching up SUPER fast listening to this during work. Much love to you
Huge admiration for Lindsey. BPD is a tough one, and the stigma doesn't help. The more people are able to talk about it, the less isolating it will be. There's power in community.
Daniel - "she was curvy." 😂😂
The proper response to “what is the way?” Is “This is the way”
Get lights that can sync to the circadian rhythm! It's great for easy setup and can still change the color if I want to!
Crazy hearing about Good Burger at the start, they are filming it like 2 minutes up the street from where I work
this episode has been my favorite. i love the way you care about us!
I love listening to your conversations, seeing your dynamic with each other, also the tips and advice you have throughout each podcast---Action, and follow through is the next step to from just listening to a piece of advice, which can be easier said than done. I'm in the middle of working through that particular step.... I also want to say I was 100% with Devon at the end there about drivers using their damn signal---One of my biggest pet peeves, as well. *Communicate with the people who are on the road with you, whether that is other drivers or pedestrians, whomever.* Signal; it is the flick of your pinkie, not that difficult.
Love from Canada.
Listening to this specific topic about “why is being an adult hard and boring” has just resonated with me so much, it’s almost therapeutic and I feel like they’re really giving me tips. For me, I’m 28, and I think I’m barely at that point of my adulthood where I’m starting to become an actual adult (more independent, a bit more detached from my family, more financially stable, steady job, my own car) and for me what has been really so hard to handle is that life balance, man. Recently, the harsh realization that there is not enough time to do everything just fucking hit me in the face hard. Like I have to, work 8 hrs. of the day plus (while 8 hours of the day are taken from the day), I’m supposed to find the time in there to be healthy (eat well, work out, stay hydrated, work on my mental health, self-care) and I’m supposed to also keep up with my social life (checking my phone for notifications/friend group chats/family group chats bc if I don’t answer my family in 24hrs that means I don’t care about them ,apparently, or I’m not making time for them) and I’m also supposed to have good hygiene (shower, clean my room, clean my bathroom, wash the dishes, do my laundry, clean my car, clean my pet’s area, check the mail, take the trash out) and I’m also supposed to take care of my personal shit (make dentist appt./ make dr. appt. fix car if it needs fixing, find time to cook my meals) and then I’m also supposed to get enough sleep, another 8 hours of the 24 hour day and do it all again, and I’m supposed to get to work on time while commuting and look relatively decent for it, and be in a good mood and have energy. And this is not even including having a partner which is a whole other aspect of your life you’re supposed to build. There’s not enough time for all of that and I have not been able to find a way to make all of that work and stay happy and not stressed, and I don’t know how ppl who claim “yes there’s a way” have done it bc to me right now it seems almost impossible. But these tips really have been helping me and I’m trying to do better. But it’s definitely hard.
I really enjoyed your responses to the question about going through a friendship break up. I have been going through two long drawn out friendship breakups for the last two years. There has been a lot of grief surrounding those losses. Your discussion around friendship break ups really resonated with me and helped me feel a bit lighter.
Hey I just wanted to let you guys all know you guys are amazing and I genuinely appreciate everything you did for all of us you basically made our childhoods a little bit more enjoyable so thank you so so much and I'm glad you guys all managed to reconnect and Relive the glory days brings the little kids out in all of us
The podcast energy really helps in the morning while I’m at work 🔥
17:32 again, an old episode, she right. On of the Lawrence brothers was on BMW. And the Lawrences had a show called Brotherly Love. 😂❤
Lindsey talking about her journey was so beautiful, she's so open and that takes a lot!
I love your guys's podcast so much it's like therapy to me just hearing you guys conversate and react I'm a very antisocial person and it kind of helps me be more social so thank you you guys keep up the good work
Bro this is one of my favorite pods now. It may not be in a tv show format. But yall are definitely handing out incredible tips for current and future adults 👌🏾
Deffo this is the best episode! It made me think a lot about everything, me as a human and an individual into a society!
I’ve enjoyed watching all of the episodes of the pod so far, but this one is my favorite for some reason. It felt like I was having a convo with friends. Keep it up you guys ❤️
Really enjoyed the deep convos. I was having a panic attack, and this pod gave me a chance to calm down. “Maintenance”
This would hurt all our childhoods, also curious does everyone on this podcast burn, yall are too cool man 🤘🏼
I’ve watched every podcast all the way through, one thing Ned’s has over other nick shows is you guys have great energy on the cast
For young people that have a dream to live with they're friends. Know that there's a difference between hanging out and living with each other.
18:58 YES 💯 % lighting is everything
Cookie went from a high tech nerd to a cool skater to CEO
Ned went from a cool nerd to musician to lumberjack
Moze stayed the same
I look forward to this every week! Making the beginning of my work day so enjoyable, no matter how unhinged it is😂
YESSSSS ANOTHER EPISODE
We're back! 😏
Thankful for another Wednesday 😎
Us too 🤓
I felt that blinker rant in the end with my heart and soul!
PLZ NEVER STOP THE POD EVEN AFTER THE REWATCH
The roommates I lived with when I moved to Long Island NY they're such a great couple and they always made me feel like a part of their relationship and I love them for it!
Can you guys do an episode that drives more into when you were going through a lot while dealing with roommates? And can you talk more about that concept of not having that home and space to just relax and not be on edge? I’m experiencing a lot to a point where idk if I should stay where I go to school cuz it’s becoming more dangerous every day
I appreciate this podcast so much. So happy y'all are doing this for the fans
I’m so thankful for this pod and Devon’s. Bless y’all 🙏🏽
Absolutely love Ned’s declassified I probably rewatch some episodes almost every single day! It’s my comfort show and was a huge part of my childhood! We used to ask our lunch lady what she saw in our beans and she rarely had the energy of lunch lady lol, love you guys so much!
Damn, that first question hit the nail right on the head; my best friends are my friend group from elementary... And we didn't see or talk to each other from Junior high until college, after we had out toxic teen phases lol, grew up, and then reexperienced our friendship with out now mature perspectives.
I love my friend, and I would die for them.
Look forward to this every week!
I have spent the las 2 weeks just watching the pod and I AM ADDICTED
This podcast is so wholesome. It’s literally a guide for us 25 to 30s
To go with the end of the video, learning to forgive yourself for letting yourself in toxic situations is a long healing process but once you get through it, the feeling is beautiful and profound in so many ways
I felt Devon’s rant on using blinkers
I literally *can't* do warm lighting. I have no idea why, but they give me horrible migraines. I spend most of my time in the dark or with natural light, but when I have to switch on a light switch, daylight white it is.
Devon's final tip is THE BEST. Completely agree!! Signal lights are meant to be used people, PLEASE. Everyone else on the road will thank you for it
Watched you guys growing up. I'm same age as you guys lol, always had the biggest crush on "MOZE". I was very surprised by this Podcast and how informative it was and fun. It's like a damn blast in the past. Love it keep them coming.