After understanding this I immediately stopped comparing with others

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

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  • @7gsc
    @7gsc Год назад +407

    Life is not race. Its God Grace.

  • @SanjitDas-rr1pe
    @SanjitDas-rr1pe Год назад +121

    Comparison is the biggest problem in today's time ...... but you can't neglect it ....... Instead of comparing with others compare your yesterday with today ....... This is really beneficial for me ...... thanks Neha Di ❤

  • @BhavnaKumariThakur
    @BhavnaKumariThakur Год назад +5

    How sweetly she said "dhyaan rakho apna"🥺

  • @Harshu_57
    @Harshu_57 Год назад +55

    What a beauty inside out dear !! Your perspective is so different and pure ,I used to ignore your content a lot but now whenever I open your videos there’s something to learn something precious and the vibes , great mam ! May God bless you with the best of everything ! Love you sweetheart ❤

    • @CANEHADATTA
      @CANEHADATTA  Год назад +11

      Par aap ignore kyo kr rhe the 🥲🥹😐

    • @Harshu_57
      @Harshu_57 Год назад +10

      To be truly honest ,I thought ke aise hee kuch gisa pita kuch bta denge but if I wouldn’t have started being a part of your virtual family ,I’d have been in a great loss ❤ , you radiate so much of positivity and hope and elegance !!!!!!!

    • @player8473
      @player8473 Год назад

      ​@@CANEHADATTAhamare consent ke bina bhi log uphaas uda sakthe hai iss duniya mei taaqatwar hamesa kamjor ko maarte tang karte rehta hai chahe consent ho yaa naa ho , baap bete par , boss employee par , teacher students par rob dikhate hi hai or sehna wala asahaye hi hota hai . Jab 5-10 aadmi gherkar maarne lag jaaye to saare consent or sakthi bhul jaaye or pitne ke sivaah or koi chara naa rahe . Allow karne wali baat tabhi aati hai jab aise karne wala samarthyavan ho varna gussa bhi hasi udane layak banta hai taaqat ke bina . taaqat ka vaasta maine ya to physical strength , money , authority yaa tej dimaag se kiya hai . Bus iss duniya mei taaqatwar raj karta hai or rules banata hai or kamjor sehta hai , mere hisaab se yahi duniya ka dastur hai

    • @Harshu_57
      @Harshu_57 Год назад +5

      Pta hai di, Abhi just I showed your video to Mumma ,she was like kitni pyaari hai ,kitna pyaara Bol rhin hai ❤😁 i and mumma we both are your fan girls now🔥🌈✨

    • @player8473
      @player8473 Год назад

      ​@@CANEHADATTAkabhi kabhi dusro ki buri aadatein bhi effect kar sakthi hai aapko , agar koi smoker aaspas hai to bahut non-smokers bhi passive smoking se marte hai to ek video nasha bandi par bhi banao to or accha 👍ki kaise smoking band hona chahiye or gym mei heavy weightlifting ke wakt bhi failure hone par injury ka darr rehta hai ki agar itne reps ke pehle naa utha paaye vajan to kya hoga , kab exhaustion aayegi . Mei 600 kg uthana chahta hu par 500 kg uthane mei hi eddie , hafthor jaiso ka blood nikal gaya or ve collapse hogaye to 600 kg uthane ke liye koi motivation de sakthi ho ? Mujhe vah impossible lag raha hai jo insaani shamta ke bilkul bahaar hai

  • @anmolr_03
    @anmolr_03 Год назад +55

    i have been countinously watching your videos since Feb 2023. You know what, it is gradually changing my perception about life and help alot in becoming a new version of myself. THANK YOU MENTOR, wishing you a prosperous life ahead.

  • @kritiagrawal12309
    @kritiagrawal12309 Год назад +38

    You are the MIRROR for everyone's life who is so pure and unfiltered ❤️
    This is my 1st time commenting on RUclips though i watch all your videos also love them.

  • @anushkasharma6929
    @anushkasharma6929 Год назад +20

    ना किसी से प्रतिस्पर्धा
    ना किसी से होड़
    मेरी अपनी मंजिल
    मेरी अपनी दौड़ ❤

  • @sukhmanitoor318
    @sukhmanitoor318 Год назад +6

    I seriously wish I had a sister like you. In this tough phase of my life, your thoughts are like therapy for me.
    I wish you all the good things in life, Neha :)

  • @thissidekhushi7413
    @thissidekhushi7413 Год назад +6

    I really needed to hear this I was crying that other students are doing better than me and they are getting better scores than me but watching this video makes me feel that I am a fish who lives alone in her pond I don't need to compare myself to others because there always be a person in the world who has more than you.

  • @mr.choudhary79
    @mr.choudhary79 Год назад +2

    When You Become Enlightened, Fear, Greed, Ego Nothing Remains. Love Exists Everywhere.❤❤

  • @memehandle726
    @memehandle726 Год назад +10

    Hi mam
    I just did my class 12 , but everything that is on your channel , I sorted all this out when I was in class 9 , I grew phenomenally using these things , setting up boundaries , being away from the TOXIC group . and I would contribute most of these things to my upbringing . I had extreme hardships and that taught me to be flexible , certain betrayal, not serious though but enough to teach me lesson so i would say I feel so connected to you because of one thing , ability to learn from your mistakes and realizing there are no failure , there are successes and lessons .
    thanks for the vedio
    waiting for more to come soon .

  • @SaranshSagar999
    @SaranshSagar999 Год назад +1

    सब दिल से कहा है , सच बिना सोचे बिना समझे बिना नोट्स बनाये , like a philosopher 😊👌👌

  • @NarendraGoswami293
    @NarendraGoswami293 Год назад +2

    Neha ji,
    You have a pure heart.
    You are very humble.
    You have no ego,no jealous.
    God bless you .
    Thank you sharing your life experience.

  • @PrankiMotivational
    @PrankiMotivational Год назад +17

    Neha ji, I am not a chartered accountant but a computer science graduate, still I watch your videos every day. Your thoughts are really commendable.👍

  • @NeuroSwathi
    @NeuroSwathi Год назад +2

    This video popped up at the right time! today itself, i had my practical exams today... i was having the same mindset as you've mentioned in this video, but now, i mean today i got to know about my changed mindset a lot, i didn't compare... but my mindset is to get the BEST of me.

  • @dwellingemotions
    @dwellingemotions 8 месяцев назад

    Few days before only, I was comparing myself with someone.. I don't know how small or big that is, but right now this clicked. You said exactly the right thing that we have to completely finish it. It is the ego only that makes us compares ourself from others.

  • @kajalbhardwaj8213
    @kajalbhardwaj8213 3 месяца назад +1

    Tooo honest Neha Mam❤ Bahut acha laga sun kar

  • @NitinSingh-xr7ft
    @NitinSingh-xr7ft Год назад

    Every time, your video pops up in my feed, it's directly addressing to my mental state at that time which is causing me to suffer. Like every time. Can't be a coincidence

  • @bleedblue45
    @bleedblue45 Год назад +1

    Everytime i watch your video my eyes always filled with tears..... thanks didi to simplify my life

  • @PoojaKumari-rn3pb
    @PoojaKumari-rn3pb Год назад

    2:43 next level...ye maine scch me kavi socha hi nhi...aur kisi se suna v nhi...❤

  • @shivammah
    @shivammah Год назад +4

    7:01 "Jo bhi Race chal rahi Bhag hi nahi rahi usme 😂" Nice.✅

  • @anandthakur6263
    @anandthakur6263 11 месяцев назад

    You are so Practical, Wise, Mature, Beautiful. Your smile tells that you have experienced life in its entirety. Love you so much ❤❤

  • @Discoveringmaths
    @Discoveringmaths Год назад

    Dear you have great reflection ability. God bless you.
    Metta

  • @AFireBirdPhoenix
    @AFireBirdPhoenix Год назад +14

    I recently started watching your contents and l must say l find some peace in me listening to you. But there are still lot of things to be done to be a sane calm being that I have been aspiring to be. Safe and Happy Journey Neha 😊

  • @radhikagupta3024
    @radhikagupta3024 Год назад

    Sch m aesa lgta h jese koi bdi bhn smjha rahi hai mujhe .....you really help me di in my life .......mere depression ka safr aapki ek video tk hi rhta h ...fir sara depression chla jta h .....thank u di ...❤

  • @satyamchauhan9466
    @satyamchauhan9466 Год назад +4

    Thank you for sharing your precious experiences it will help us a lot ☺

  • @RV99972
    @RV99972 Год назад +2

    Hi Neha..I just stumbled on to your channel... Great thoughts and observations shared ....thank you... Your explanation is much better and simpler than many many online baba's... thankyou 😊

  • @savarp
    @savarp Год назад +1

    Yessss life is not a race .. its a beautiful journey and story is your own.

  • @yashodasaini993
    @yashodasaini993 Год назад

    Your maturity and knowledge.....increadible.😊

  • @swetaa3433
    @swetaa3433 Год назад

    Level of understanding ❤️ i have never heared this type of thought🔥

  • @ronwick3824
    @ronwick3824 Год назад +1

    One thing I've learned in this journey of 22 years of life! Be happy with whatever you have😌

  • @xib38krishnapriyabiju72
    @xib38krishnapriyabiju72 Год назад +3

    So nice talks.. ❤I am really thankful that you are giving captions in English... So much love for uu.. ❤❤❤

  • @ajitdivakar3504
    @ajitdivakar3504 9 месяцев назад

    Each one shines during it's time. Can't compare the sun and the moon. Point put forward very well Neha 👏

  • @krj847
    @krj847 Год назад

    When I watched the karma yogi(the conversation between Arjuna and Krishna) video on RUclips all my comparison just melted away .I strongly recommend it whoever going through comparison,self doubt,ego issues.

  • @nairkroft483
    @nairkroft483 Год назад +2

    I don't know how but you put this video in the most needed moment possible, thankyou so much ❤

  • @SunilOla
    @SunilOla Год назад +3

    Video bilkul relatable hote hai... lot of thanks 😍

  • @SaranshSagar999
    @SaranshSagar999 Год назад

    आपकी आवाज बहुत ही मधुर है नेहा ❤❤😮 , माँ सरस्वती की आप पर विशेष कृपा है

  • @prashi_dubey
    @prashi_dubey Год назад

    Aap bohot pyare ho❤...i mean aapke vdos dekh k itna positive feel hota h..I am so grateful that I discovered your channel and listening to you is the best... thankyouuuuu for your guidance, motivation for everything ❤❤

  • @shrisd.1249
    @shrisd.1249 Год назад

    Dee when ever I heard ur voice I feel like shriii Dee is with u at all the time just go ahead & get it what u want she is the one of the best Dee love u Dee

  • @kshiprarungta2244
    @kshiprarungta2244 10 месяцев назад

    Nice words of wisdom Neha. So mature for your age

  • @iamshwetatiwari
    @iamshwetatiwari Год назад +6

    the same neha once said in a video that getting richer and trying to have a luxurious life is not equivalent to being materialistic it's called growth mindset happy to see this transformation very nice explaination very well said even i had started comparing myself with people but now i also understand that life is not a race it is not a destination but a journey of our own celibrations and challenges❤❤

  • @kinjalmakwana05
    @kinjalmakwana05 Год назад +2

    Sahi time pe sahi video milna b ek blessing hai ....❤

  • @jyotiswapnapanda9233
    @jyotiswapnapanda9233 11 месяцев назад

    The best video about comparison on youtube till date❤ god bless you ma'am

  • @anmol23461T
    @anmol23461T Год назад +1

    Ma'am you are so genuine
    Listening to you always calms me down. Wish you the best of everything. Please keep this authenticity always ❤

  • @yashaswiraj8401
    @yashaswiraj8401 Год назад

    How could someone be this calming person for others, when someone is overthinking and comparing themselves ur vedio popup just to say sitback and relax ❤

  • @sejalvaishy4793
    @sejalvaishy4793 Год назад +1

    Mam, genuinely i feel so blessed to have connection with you by the way of your thoughts. Thankyou for always appearing on my screen whenever I need you the most.❤

  • @SecretlyBeautiful
    @SecretlyBeautiful Год назад +1

    My God !!! how do you manage to speak so beautifully and peacefully. Lovely! 👏 I rarely comment but ur every video hits me differently as if it was made for me
    Love you Neha ! God bless you!

  • @_GROWN-UP
    @_GROWN-UP Год назад

    Thanks you sis...i needed this some of my friends are got job and settled i was only one left behind... i was muted their story because i don't wanna see them ....yiur vidio got me at right time ❤❤❤

  • @freenaziz1618
    @freenaziz1618 Год назад

    You are my little Angel... Love unconditional 🌹☘️💫

  • @mandargharpure8867
    @mandargharpure8867 Год назад

    👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👏👏👏👏👏 Best speech
    Apne bahut accha observe kiya hai life ko !!!

  • @regawis07
    @regawis07 Год назад +1

    Undoubtedly, the best video I ever watched for dealing with comparison 💯
    Neha Diii!!! Matlab, kya ho aap? 🥺
    Comparison ko jad se khatam karne ka ye REAL raasta samjhane ke liye dil se shukriya di! ♥️

  • @bhawnatiwari5023
    @bhawnatiwari5023 Год назад

    Na kisi se age
    Na kisi se peeche
    Ki duad me ab na padna h
    Mujhe apni life ki journey me khud se age badna.
    Thank you so much Nehu di ❤i love you a lot❤

  • @NehaYadav-od4pf
    @NehaYadav-od4pf Год назад

    After acharya Prashant she is the second person I found who speaks truth... hats off❤❤❤ love from dewas

  • @sukhwindersidhu660
    @sukhwindersidhu660 Год назад +1

    "Dhyaan rakho apna"❤ ✅️
    Everything is fine
    Do your own work, that's it 🙏

  • @Hayat22849
    @Hayat22849 Год назад +1

    I don't know why but I'm your big fan ❤
    For 5 days ago I started to watch your videos nd now I regularly watch your videos

  • @kazikasif
    @kazikasif Год назад

    I gained some courage to comment for the first time on your video. Thanks for this video which is promoting a better thought❤❤❤❤

  • @PreetiTanwar-xq1cz
    @PreetiTanwar-xq1cz 3 месяца назад

    Superb didi ❤yours words give me peace ..

  • @monishaboruah3902
    @monishaboruah3902 Год назад

    Your words are enough for boost myself 💐

  • @LeaarnEnglishwithme
    @LeaarnEnglishwithme Год назад

    Very nice ma'am. I think God wants me to hear this.. Thank you

  • @Savanpatel149
    @Savanpatel149 Год назад

    Love you didi, mene other youtube channel me only vo paya jo mere kam ka he hi nhi or ek din apka channel mil gya bs ab koi dusre ko sunna psnd hi nhi apke siva, you are inspiration ❤❤

  • @Shravni123
    @Shravni123 10 месяцев назад

    Neha di thank you so much I'm a class 12 student and I've been coming first all my 11th it boosted my ego so much so that ab agar is sal kisi k 1-2% jyada aajate the toh mai khudko compare karke khudko critisism dene lag jati thi but now that I've realised ki mai apni journey me hu mai apna best dungi fir agar vo topper of th school wala tag mere naseeb me hoga toh mil jaega nahi hoga toh nahi milega ❤️❤️❤️

  • @saurabhnair8529
    @saurabhnair8529 Год назад

    Comparison isliye hota hai kyunki hamara intention unko dominate karne ka hota hai na ki uski help karne me ya khud ko defend karne me.......isliye intention pure hona chahiye 🤗

  • @suhanijogi15
    @suhanijogi15 Год назад +2

    Di I'm a student. I scored low marks in my test as I'm preparing for competitive exam . I was feeling so low and stressed. But I'm so greatful to universe that and of course to you . This video has a perfect timming in my life. Thank you thank you thank you soo sooo soooooo much universe ❤

  • @bhavisha5465
    @bhavisha5465 Год назад +2

    ❤🙌🏻clarity beyond the level...

  • @devendrasinha8965
    @devendrasinha8965 11 месяцев назад

    This is the real answer to Stop comparison ownself.

  • @ankitjain4294
    @ankitjain4294 Год назад +1

    Very well said.. humility and being self content is required

  • @Rosi-rk7oh
    @Rosi-rk7oh Год назад

    i like the way of yours to spreading positivity and share your life experience...for motivated us,.i can relate ur each words n lines🙂❤

  • @navoditaupadhyay
    @navoditaupadhyay Год назад +1

    You are very good person inside . You give your raw and honest life experiences without any hesitation of being judged and of course compared. Thank you !!

  • @harshojha7096
    @harshojha7096 Год назад +3

    Didi your videos are like a Life Lessons for everyone ❤
    Thanku Soo Much ❤ Radhe Radhe ❤🙏

  • @tassusharma7030
    @tassusharma7030 Год назад +2

    Thank you di, Got my answer. Everyone is on their own journey.
    Life is a very beautiful journey. No more comparison. ❤😊

  • @snehakumari9442
    @snehakumari9442 Год назад

    U r just amazing Di.ur teaching style is very well.

  • @GAURI5-h6t
    @GAURI5-h6t Год назад

    Didi u r amazing or apki batein to bus kya he kaho yr maze daar or itni knowledgeable❤... Thanks 😊

  • @suvangibhattacharya7440
    @suvangibhattacharya7440 Год назад +1

    I have been doing this for a long time Neha di and was struck in a loophole of sadness. Your video and words caught tears in my eyes. I really felt each and every word you said. I promise today that I will not compare myself with anyone henceforth. Your words are always a bliss in solitude. Love you ,Neha Di🥰🥰❤❤

  • @samriddhianand6189
    @samriddhianand6189 Год назад +1

    Your words soothes my soul ❤❤

  • @jinsflsg
    @jinsflsg Год назад

    Much needed realisation!

  • @anjalinegi9365
    @anjalinegi9365 Год назад +1

    I really needed to hear this ❤️🫠

  • @Navyayayyaya
    @Navyayayyaya Год назад +2

    Sometimes comparison helps a person to grow in good way so its the way you treat comparison for eg i scored 80 but my friend who used to score 50 got a 90 this time it would help with competency and will make you grow one should compare but not hate that person or feel down about it its all about perspective comparing bodies might be wrong but fitness activities isn't you are not wrong but you should have discussed the positive aspect .. comparison is something that pushed me harder changed the perspective and now preparing for something i never thought i will AAG LAGA DUNGI attitude>>>ps i am normal student and kudos to you motivating the ppl who need it maybe it helps people to rethink about life they're living with the jealousy and insecurity !!

    • @Navyayayyaya
      @Navyayayyaya Год назад +1

      Also life mai bhaagna pdta hi h bas chizein personal ni leni chahiye acc to me it helps me to grow so yeah again perspective!!

  • @stains-by-kaushal3725
    @stains-by-kaushal3725 Год назад

    Thank you so much ma'am your words makes me feel happy about me because I used to compare myself with others so much like in many criteria but now I can understand that this is me and the other ones are not me so why would I have to compare them from me thank you so much❤

  • @NS-ho4vm
    @NS-ho4vm Год назад +1

    Hats Off!!!! simply unique natural content. 100 percent peaceful content. #Journey #Experience #Life

  • @seedchavan4345
    @seedchavan4345 Год назад +9

    Thanks mam for sharing this...the way you described distinguishment in comparisons...where at one point you want to run away from it and on other point you want that comparison feeling...that kinda Doglapan...great way of teaching such complicated things in such an easy way 😂❤😊💜💕much love from Kerala... keep making such videos

  • @Gitanshi-r1o
    @Gitanshi-r1o Год назад +1

    This is what I understand that " your maxima is someone's minima"

  • @biophiles
    @biophiles Год назад

    I m a neet aspirant and i m ur subscriber you are not just a ca even beyond ca u r a good human,educator,mentor too.. you tough so many life learing lessons and change our vision of life thank you so much
    Keep doing we need it ❤😊

  • @Kashmiriboyy
    @Kashmiriboyy Год назад

    Beautiful life lesson.
    🎉

  • @luckiest_222
    @luckiest_222 Год назад +2

    Right topic at right time❤

  • @ramabasak9261
    @ramabasak9261 Год назад +1

    True, live is not race.
    Thanku didu ❤️

  • @nayanakh4570
    @nayanakh4570 Год назад

    Hi mam . Watching your videos has made me realise truth and reality.Really TQ so much..Your words has given me motivation to move on in life accepting failure and reality.I will be greatefull for your efforts and enlightened words.

  • @ankitatantuway9733
    @ankitatantuway9733 Год назад

    It's a journey!You are experiencing 💙

  • @shagundar9898
    @shagundar9898 Год назад +1

    Thaaaannk youuuu🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️💕
    I have my exam tomorrow & i was comparing!! You made me realise it & even gave me the solution. Now I feel better & relaxed for it 😀😀
    Lots of love to you💖💖💖

  • @padmagopalakrishnan5416
    @padmagopalakrishnan5416 Год назад +2

    Neha di , u read my mind really 😢❤. Thank you for this video

  • @sushilpathak286
    @sushilpathak286 Год назад

    Derr lagegi magar shi hoga.....tumhe jo chahiye nah wahi hoga...din burey h zindagi nhi....sabar rakho sab sahi hoga........❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ishaaroraangeloffortune
    @Ishaaroraangeloffortune Год назад

    Yes,you are Sharing Great content ❤

  • @sewestianGamer0
    @sewestianGamer0 Год назад +1

    Main kisi se comparison nahin karta jab aapki video dekh leta hu to isliye Don't worry about others comparisons

  • @Sana_hidden
    @Sana_hidden Год назад

    You are so so correct 💯... We can't the best there's will be always someone jo humse thora oupr hai and Jo humse thore niche hain .... to stay happy we should love what we do and what we love doing the way we do it and so on....

  • @anshulverma4744
    @anshulverma4744 Год назад +2

    Hi Neha ...this is my first comment on your video...tbh I was comparing myself and my life with few people (precisely 3) and was ranting all with my friend half an hour ago.
    I am comparing myself from last 3-4 months because I m having tough time nd some difficulties in life these days. And honestly these people don't play much role in my life...and your video made me realised that I am really hurting myself and even those people don't even know.....I m feeling really better after watching your video... everyone has their own journey....we are insulting ourselves while comparing...
    Best thing is ...apni life m hi itne engage rho...doosre ki tension lo hi Mt..

  • @KabitaNeupane_
    @KabitaNeupane_ Год назад

    न सम्मानका मोह न अपमान का भय.... जीवन बस् चल्ता रहे....

  • @animaagrawal2774
    @animaagrawal2774 Год назад

    Thank you Neha ,god bless you my sis

  • @koshalendrasingh2620
    @koshalendrasingh2620 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience it's makes easy to understand and relate and I will so how observing you are it's real knowledge thats can not be learnt from other outside source. So I will give first priority of your video to learn and resolve any dout. So thank you ❤🙏

  • @SwatiSingh-zh8rt
    @SwatiSingh-zh8rt Год назад

    Very nice ...you just gave words to my thoughts ❤

  • @KavyaParvani1176
    @KavyaParvani1176 Год назад +2

    ना सन्मान का मोह, ना अपमान का भय..😇