Why Does Allah Hate Me So Much? | Trauma Ep. 5

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024
  • Najwa Awad, LSCW-C discusses the trauma associated with rejection and highlights an activity to understand and dismantle our emotional reasoning.
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  • @Zulekhazubair999
    @Zulekhazubair999 4 года назад +134

    I don't know why Allah is not responsing to my dua.... I'm getting hurt day by day... I say my prayers and also pray tahajud but still plz pray for me.... I'm so depressed
    Update:
    (2022) Alhamdulilah I'm happy now by the grace of Allah ❤️
    It's 2023 and Alhamdulilah I'm happy ❤️

    • @grove6064
      @grove6064 4 года назад +7

      Bc allah might think its bad and it will hurt you

    • @grove6064
      @grove6064 4 года назад +2

      And lord loves you too much and does not want no more pain in life

    • @sultanmufleh2905
      @sultanmufleh2905 3 года назад +9

      Allah won’t answer your prayers if you say “ I callled upon Allah and he did not answer my prayers” Allah will answer your prayers. He just didn’t say when or he found an even better plan for you becaus remember Allah is in charge and so everything that is happening is happening for you that Allah made it happen so you become better it’s alll apart of his plan.

    • @A-Aart
      @A-Aart 3 года назад +1

      @@sultanmufleh2905 that's really true, sometimes what you think is problem is good for u, and u will see after while that was worth. when patient it will one day be over and Go to the ease.

    • @lylecrawford2794
      @lylecrawford2794 3 года назад

      Perhaps because the whole concept of praying was made up by humans and you'd have the same results asking a honeybee to answer your prayers.

  • @naviifra2374
    @naviifra2374 2 года назад +28

    Ive been making dua for 11 years and no change. I don’t understand how God loves me but keeps me in suffering

    • @ashesmir8945
      @ashesmir8945 2 года назад

      Because he doesnt exist.
      He is fake and a joke.

  • @animavista8742
    @animavista8742 5 лет назад +155

    I’ve realised that Allah gives all the good things to the people who do the worst sins. Allah allows for us Muslims to be oppressed and killed meanwhile the other religions are having fun and have money. I’ve Pray to Allah everyday yet I still feel ignored by Allah. I have been depressed multiple times with Allah not helping each time. I always pray but I feel Allah does not like me and i am starting to lose my trust will Allah. I feel that he favours people more than others. I feel betrayed by Allah and hate myself.I have relapses of depression and feel suicidal. I just want Allah to help me.

    • @yaqeeninstituteofficial
      @yaqeeninstituteofficial  5 лет назад +19

      Salam, Anima. We're so sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. Here are a few resources that may help you, inshaAllah:
      - “How Can I Ever Trust Again?” Navigating Betrayal: yaqeeninstitute.org/sarah-sultan/how-can-i-ever-trust-again-navigating-betrayal/#.XbITWJNKhE4
      - Why Do People Suffer? God’s Existence & the Problem of Evil: yaqeeninstitute.org/mohammad-elshinawy/why-do-people-suffer-gods-existence-the-problem-of-evil/#.XbG2nZNKhE4

    • @yash7l48
      @yash7l48 5 лет назад +7

      Fight for your life my friend and be a men you will succeed inchaalah me i was a boxing champion and i got hurt rlly bad in my leg and now im depressed and only play video games and watch jojo but still i didnt lose my hope in Allah fight for your life brother and remember yare yare daze , my passion got removed from me but still i never lost hope it only takes one chance to change someone life just work hard and wait that chance you will succeed inchaalah brother i trust you

    • @ekbutle8013
      @ekbutle8013 5 лет назад +26

      Man me too😥 I can’t handle this anymore and for the first time in my life did I cry so much after reading this

    • @haseebtariq6185
      @haseebtariq6185 4 года назад +7

      You are very right have great experience Allah was not good I agree with u same problem with me I m with u both are same

    • @imranuddin5071
      @imranuddin5071 4 года назад +4

      Very true

  • @bellak2140
    @bellak2140 3 года назад +16

    One of many symptoms of having a narcissistic parent is that you unconsciously start thinking Allah feels the same way about you as the way your failed narcissistic parent makes you feel. Narcissistic parent ruin their kids finances, relationships, physical and mental health and then finally their iman gets harmed. So when are the ulema going to adress the elephant in the room? If one can eat pork in order not to die from hunger, why can't you cut out a toxic parent to save your iman and health? At the very least until one has healed from the cptsd that they caused which is making life miserable and sometimes even causes suicide! And please stop saying "seek help from the elders" because narcissists will have already have slandered their own kids name to those elders and would swear by Allah that what you are saying isen't true and make themselves look like victims. Narcissistic parents share similarities with shaytaan so the usual ways of resolving conflicts do not work with them. Add to that that their victims are drained of energy, life, dignity etc. They desperately need to get away from them and not hear anything from them to even get a chance of calming their nervous system and mind.

  • @moaznajeeb4607
    @moaznajeeb4607 9 месяцев назад +2

    I feel same I am suffering from multiple disorders like dislexia I can't study which I want to, I even saw prophet Muhammad Saw in dream and I was shown vision in which a voice forcefully said to me " accept Muhammad Saw as your prophet" voice was thunderous I saw myself bowing in Islamic prayer...

  • @ASHAH925
    @ASHAH925 2 года назад +13

    Allah blessed me with the worst possible punishment, the punishment of loneliness. I am prisoner of my own mind for the past 5 years. Almost zero social interaction. No dua or action will help this Allah gave me this for a reason. Plz pray for me

    • @Wanderer677
      @Wanderer677 2 года назад +1

      I pray for you

    • @mybuttholestinks9449
      @mybuttholestinks9449 2 года назад +5

      Same thing has happened to me. I cannot take it anymore. I cry to Allah about the same problem again and again and again. Nothing fills this emptiness inside. Allah never answers. All my wishes are being listened to but never this. No matter what. No matter how much I change.

    • @swoop4191
      @swoop4191 Год назад +7

      Literally same. For me it's my 6th year of being in prisoner in my own house, no one to talk to, nowhere to go, nothing good to wake up to, have a brother and a mom they are totally different from me can't even talk to them about anything. No friends, got pets and even they turned into a headache. Been praying for past 6 years and I feel empty af.

    • @illyrian3057
      @illyrian3057 Год назад +2

      Literally same 💔😭😭

    • @ASHAH925
      @ASHAH925 Год назад +3

      I am relieved to see others having this same issue, but hopefully you guys overcome iA

  • @exomystress792
    @exomystress792 3 года назад +7

    Just experienced the worst in my life and came here to find out .....I loved ALLAH and expected so much from him as he say expect from me .....but I was wronge ...

  • @sairarashid4243
    @sairarashid4243 4 года назад +18

    I pray to Allah so I can have one just one good day at night I pray just to get a good day

    • @wellk8403
      @wellk8403 3 года назад

      hope you have it better now❤️

    • @sairarashid4243
      @sairarashid4243 3 года назад

      @@wellk8403 no it didn’t work now don’t believe in him anymore

    • @mxdzx1.010
      @mxdzx1.010 3 года назад

      @@sairarashid4243 what was bothering you?

    • @shorouqtahraoui
      @shorouqtahraoui 3 года назад

      I know this is because of ur parents or partner

    • @vaishaliraut340
      @vaishaliraut340 3 года назад

      In first place if Allah loves u he will not let u cry and not let u think negative. He always helps wrong people and wrong doings.

  • @GhulamMustafa11111
    @GhulamMustafa11111 5 лет назад +31

    My brothers please pray for Kashmir Syria and all other places where muslims are being oppressed. May Allah grant us victory and accept from us ameen

    • @elitemangudai1016
      @elitemangudai1016 5 лет назад

      this is not the video you're looking for. don't deflect from the video.

    • @GhulamMustafa11111
      @GhulamMustafa11111 5 лет назад

      @@elitemangudai1016 please pray for your Muslim brothers and sisters

    • @yash7l48
      @yash7l48 5 лет назад +1

      @@GhulamMustafa11111 i always do my brother the time will come inchaalah when muslim will have peace dont lose hope

    • @muniramohamed2416
      @muniramohamed2416 3 года назад

      Allah loves war..... Get over it.
      He encourages us to hate the Jews and christians , then decides Muslims should also hate eachother like shia and sunni,.....the saudis killing yemmen . Don't stress out about thet let he who is in control take care of them.
      You take care of your little world because...... He will soon remember you and you will be next in his list of war

    • @GhulamMustafa11111
      @GhulamMustafa11111 3 года назад

      @@muniramohamed2416
      1) No. Allah is Just. Sometimes war is the solution, sometimes jihad with the pen, and so on.
      2) Regarding your claims of people of the book, it can be easily disproven. How can we hate someone we are allowed to marry?
      3) Just because you have a Muslim name deceives no one. Change it to Pajeet asap.

  • @shorouqtahraoui
    @shorouqtahraoui 3 года назад +9

    Ya Allah, get toxicity away from me

  • @shaicruz176
    @shaicruz176 4 года назад +12

    Over the past 10 years I have tried many things career/jobs they all lead me to waste and trying Like this isn’t for me nor this...it doesn’t matter how much effort I put in life through hardship I don’t succeed. This has happened over decades of years I do not wish to believe or what to believe than person saying to be patient when I’m suffering huge depression...I have given up the faith it serves me no purpose

    • @eed1948
      @eed1948 3 года назад

      You need to put your faith in Jesus

    • @bellak2140
      @bellak2140 3 года назад

      @@eed1948 no since no prophet in the torah preached that Jesus is God or that God is a trinity. Its a man-made lie. Also, many christians are depressed, homeless, poor, sick, alone etc so your solution does not work.

    • @bellak2140
      @bellak2140 3 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear that. May Allah grant you the solution that will make you happy, amin. Have you explored if previous psychological traumas have caused you to have certain subconscious beliefs that stand in your way and prevent you from getting to know yourself deeply yo know what suits you and what doesn't?

    • @bellak2140
      @bellak2140 2 года назад +2

      @XooX YooT if you don't mind me interfering, i highly suggest you look into shadow work and subconscious limiting beliefs. If you have failed at everything you tried, it could be something in your mindset preventing you from being the best you can be and as such not picking suitable things to try or not having the mindset needed to suceed at it. Not because of your own fault but because of childhood trauma or toxic upbringing such as having a parent put you down or compare you to others, stress you out etc. This is often the reason behind why someone keeps "failing". Have sabr but also try to seek to understand your self. This can be through therapy, books on cptsd/ptsd, subscribing to youtube channels of personal development coaches and therapists. You should also find out if one of your parents is a narcissist and if you were their scaoegoat because that is a common reason why someone fails in life as an adult financially and relationship wise.

    • @bellak2140
      @bellak2140 2 года назад

      @XooX YooT i don't blame you for thinking that since this ignorant ummah has made parents seem infallible through their selective understanding of islam. Most imams don't speak about narcissistic parents and the harm they do to their kids. My mom is a naecissist as well. She raised me with emotional abuse and verbal abuse. I burned out during high school and after that couldn't study, couldn't get married, couldn't work, nothing. The condition we are left with is called CPTSD (complex post traumatic disorder). CPTSD drains you of energy, kills motivation and shuts down important functions of our mind. Narcissistic parents harm the very fitrah that Allah has created us on so anyone who makes you feel that parents are always right in Islam is wrong. You need to start learning about narcissists and CPTSD so you can shake off this belief. Allah is not on the side of abusive parents. It is also not true that we can't disobey them unless they ask us to do haram. First of all their behaviour towards us is opression and is haram and it is not haram to stop it. Secondly, if what they demand from you harms you then disobeying them is not haram. Thirdly, if someone is starving and can't find anything to eat other than haram meat then in Islam, eating that haram is halal. Why? Because extraordinary situations have different verdicts than the ordinary ones. We cant listen to the same fatawa on parents that are made by a scholar who thinks every parent has a normal mind rather than a messed up mind that makes them harm their kids psycologically to feel better about themselves. They do this without feeling guilt and then have the nerve to say "you can't even say uff to me" when you try to defend yourself. This ugly behaviour is not what that prohibited uff is about!!!! A parent has obligations towards you before you had an obligation towards them and narcissistic parents did not give you your rights. A narcissistic parent causes harms to all their kids but especially the scapegoat one and that harm is so intense that it can make a person live in isolation and even start doubting islam. Any scholar or imam who does not know about Narcissistic parents and CPTSD is not qualified to give you advice on your relationship with your parents or any part of your life that was affected by their toxic upbringing. Its time for you to go on a discovery journey to get to know yourself and why you think and act the way you do. Otherwise, your frustration will continue to grow because your life will be "failure after failure" and eventually this will harm your iman because the mind with CPTSD gets overwhelmed very easily because of the narcissists abuse. Nobody can tell you that you have to have a miserable life in order to please your parents. You have a right to have a decent life and if your parents prevent you from that through their abuse then they are the wrongdoers, not you for doing what you can to fix your life. I realize this is a lot but start making dua to Allah to save you from your parents abuse and learn about CPTSD and how narcissists act. After you see through their ugly intentions and how much harm they cause then inshallah you will realize even without a fatwa, that Islam does not ask you to drown yourself to make your parents happy. Put your own healing first so that your iman will flourish. Don't think Allah is punishing you for the failures, rather they are a natural consequence to narcissistic abuse which hijacks your mind. You never got a fair chance to suceed. May Allah give you sucess in dunya and akhirah and give all victims of abuse a victory over their abusers.

  • @hal55984
    @hal55984 5 лет назад +17

    Thank you so much for sharing this 🌼 Alhamdulillah

  • @itsinc4596
    @itsinc4596 Год назад +1

    this made me cry for the first time in 3years

  • @sonofagun00
    @sonofagun00 2 года назад +24

    4:50 here is the problem with comparing yourself to the prophets and their trials. They had the angels and in some cases Allah comforting them. They would see dreams from Allah, or would have Gabriel speak to them and would be comforted. Comparing ourselves to the Prophets, who were absolved of sins and unable to sin, is not a good comparison, nor does it actually help someone who struggles with depression, because an ordinary person is not granted the same privilege granted to the prophets.
    I have to really disagree with that portion of the video. I think we need to understand that the prophets like any other humans went through hardship, but we should never compare ourselves to them, they had Allah’s comfort, the ordinary Joe and Abdullah don’t have that.

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 2 года назад +3

      I think we should be happy we havent been taken for our sins yet. As a nation we have violated far more sins, sins that previous nations were destroyed for.... Allah is far beyond our limited minds...
      The most important part is... we have no other protector or helper but Allah. Even your leg is chopped off, only He in the end, can help, no matter how, where or when he chooses to help. But if we turn away after have been givende faith... then no helpers do we have but our Lord.
      Read surah Kahf... so many lessons...
      I Will pray for you dear. All I know, best advice given to me in hardship. 1) always pray 5 prayers and make up misses ones, 2) repent/istighfar like crazy. 3) durood on prophet 4) charity from pure wealth.
      Trust me all of these has worked for so many people. It Just takes time... the hardest part....

    • @sonofagun00
      @sonofagun00 2 года назад +1

      @@piratkid
      thank you for your note. May Allah bless you. I think you're misunderstanding my point and I am hoping to clarify.
      It's important for us Muslims to end this fantasy thinking we've had for centuries, assuming that Allah is going to answer our prayers or that some miraculous event can happen. This is nothing but conjecture.
      The truth of the matter is if you look at the life of a mushrik or even a disbeliever, or perhaps even our fellow brothers and sisters of the book, many of them do not believe in Allah and yet they're able to accomplish matters of bounty in this life. This is a clear indication that dua is not necessary nor does it help if one looks at it purely from an empirical standpoint. The cow worshipping Hindu will tell you that Genesha or Krishna blessed him. You would argue that Allah blessed him, yet the reality is he does not believe in your Allah nor did he pray to Allah. He prayed to a false diety and assumes his prayer was accepted.
      Likewise in your claim that we have no protector except Allah and if my leg was chopped off, to be frank, Allah would not be able to help me. Allah has created man with intellect and that's the scope of his help. We are required to use our intellect to solve problems and not think that miraculously my leg will grow back, for example. If I told you my leg grew back, you'd instantly call this rubbish.
      Performing salaah, fasting, performing umrah or hajj, giving charity and other good deeds are mere rituals one does to come closer to his/her creator (purely subjective as there is no quantifiable evidence that you are close to Allah as a result). As such we should not make comments to assume that doing such deeds will help our duas. This is false.
      I've provided clear evidence refuting your assumption. If you wish to disagree you're welcome but I would advise you to ask your local Christian whether he believes Jesus is God, and he/she will respons affirmatively and tell you that Jesus gives him/her everything. You see, all of this is subjective and it's important to end this medieval thinking of praying or eating halal will increase chances of duas being accepted. The reality is that this is plain rubbish.

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 2 года назад +2

      Miracles happen dear... you Just really have to pray hard, put your trust in Allah and fear Him alone. Thr Quran is full of examples, the Sahaba are full of examples... I also know several cases real life where the impossible was made possible by Allah.... must follow the call of Allah to get the miracles...

    • @sonofagun00
      @sonofagun00 2 года назад +1

      @@piratkid again, I will respectfully disagree with your perspective. I do not believe in miracles nor do I believe that performing acts of worship will qualify my dua.
      The physical world and the experiences of fellow human beings around you will prove it.
      Every "miracle" you reference occurred centuries and millenia before you were around to witness them. They don't qualify as factual and empirical proof.
      Like I said previously, you can spend your life worshipping a cow and still have bounties, yet you can spend years worshipping Allah and not have a single dua accepted. If that doesn't make you realize what this life really is, I'm not sure how else I can convince you. You can claim you've witnessed miracles, I can guarantee you with actual scientific data and tools that what you witnessed lacks any miraculous feature.

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 2 года назад +4

      So you have left praying? Just remember, we worship Allah because he is worthy of worship and he is your only protector from the punishment of the fire. Prophet Ayob spent 18 years in illness before he was cured and given severe bounty.
      Have a blessed day!

  • @fahmyfarha
    @fahmyfarha 3 года назад +2

    Jazakhallahu Khairan Sister

  • @FaridaDawkinsYY
    @FaridaDawkinsYY 5 лет назад +15

    I really like the incorporation of psychology. Thank you for this.

  • @abdulvahid4203
    @abdulvahid4203 4 года назад +13

    If your pain and happiness takes u away from Allah its a punishment, and if a pain or happiness takes to closer to Allah its a blessing.
    So whatever u r going through right now just repent.

    • @muniramohamed2416
      @muniramohamed2416 3 года назад

      Yesterday I was saying astaghfirullan for almost an hour with all my heart and consentration then when I finished I got a message . As usual any early morning calls are bad news

    • @abdulvahid4203
      @abdulvahid4203 3 года назад

      Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon

  • @abuyusufsherakhmatov
    @abuyusufsherakhmatov 3 года назад +2

    Assalomu alekum! Thank you sister and all who works in Yaqeen! Nowadays, I really need to this lecture! Jazokollohu xoyron!

  • @Avaaaw
    @Avaaaw Год назад +1

    Thank you it was very helpful. I have started to hate Allah because of the pile of hardships I go through. I have a mental illness + no support system because my parents are the one who caused me this mental illness + I’m broke because every time I get a job, I either don’t get paid so I quit or I get fired because of jealousy and racism (I live in France).
    I have asked many times God to come to my rescue but the help is not coming and I am drowning in debts which worsen my symptoms. I don’t feel like praying anymore. What’s the use…? I will try your exercice but the truth is that what I need is MONEY and some rest from the hardships.

  • @alaiaadam5767
    @alaiaadam5767 Год назад +3

    MY DUAS NEVER ACCEPTED
    No one loves me
    I am always alone
    Lonely
    No stability in any area of my life
    Not married
    No best friends no true friends
    Not financially stable
    No one I can say that I am their favourite
    Stuck with a toxic mother sisters family since 32 years with no way OUT !
    I have never experienced an instant fruition of any of duas & prayers.
    Growth speed 5 out of 100
    My Tahajjud is not accepted
    Never got truly loved by a man
    Non of relations ended in marriage
    I got bullied
    Break in work & being fired after 2-3 months
    My sister being my biggest enemy & curse of life.

    • @sarahelsa8124
      @sarahelsa8124 Год назад +1

      Salam sister I’m in a similar situation to you.. I can’t handle it anymore.. my mum keeps on making me a bad person and telling me how I can’t handle my life in a right way.. I’m 25.. will be 26 soon and can’t handle my college exams with all my depression and loneliness.. no one understand me.. I also got bullied at work and kicked out twice.. always got hurt by men.. no one ever loved me or wanted me .. Pls help

    • @alaiaadam5767
      @alaiaadam5767 Год назад +2

      @@sarahelsa8124 idk .. sister.. this life is as such for us probably.. but lose no hope

    • @Rabiadhal
      @Rabiadhal 11 месяцев назад

      Don't worry
      I am the same 😢

    • @chowdhuryrased4770
      @chowdhuryrased4770 3 месяца назад +1

      Sister i have 60 per of your problem and i cant take it.may allah help you before me.
      I am literally suicidal now but still i am way better situation than you.
      May allah guide you sister

    • @alaiaadam5767
      @alaiaadam5767 2 месяца назад

      @@chowdhuryrased4770 Please 🙏🏻 remember me in your prayers pls I beg you .. if only I find a great husband with a great family. Good peaceful loving caring and financially well to do man. 90 % of my issues will be resolved.

  • @tobiastaurus6434
    @tobiastaurus6434 3 года назад +1

    This one of the most smart things have heard in a long time

  • @janemueller653
    @janemueller653 2 года назад +3

    QUESTION: Allah has no limits & can do whatever He wants! So when He&or RasoolAllah via Hadith says, Allah puts you through suffering so you won't have to suffer in the afterlife, my question is He can reward paradise to me without the suffering. Why can't I worship & serve Him without the suffering? And just earn my rewards without the suffering? And I sincerely ask for forgiveness in every prayer. So if I'm forgiven hopefully in this world ...why does suffering have to take place in order to forgive? Why can't it be granted by just asking forgiveness?
    And why does He answer 1 out of 3ways? Why is He limiting me to only 1 way? He has the power to grant all 3! If I'm asking for all 3 sincerely(1currently, 2saving me from something bad and 3 give me good in the afterlife as well! Why the rejection if He has no shortages on giving when sincerely asked? He is the giver & the forgiver & the provider & 96+ other good things

    • @Kopikokoo
      @Kopikokoo Год назад

      Hey Jane, your questions are valid in my honest opinion. I'm struggling with my faith too. Also am hoping someone knowledgeable is able to answer this, in hopes it can strengthen my faith. I hope you're doing good wherever you are. Insha Allah. I pray for Him to bless and protect you always.
      Okay, before that, I also have this type of question and I did a lot of Google. I tried to find people on the same boat with me on internet. As a Muslim myself, I think something that manage to keep me calm is a hadith I guess that said "My mercy (Allah's mercy) is greater than my wrath). Thus, I hope He will have mercy on us in path of finding out the truth. Sadly, I don't know the answers as well. If you happen to bump into some answers, kindly share pleaseee.

  • @zaheedarazak506
    @zaheedarazak506 4 года назад +7

    Allah SWT created us for a purpose.
    Do you think you will go to paradise without being tested in various ways.
    Read the Qur'an with the meaning. Read tafseer. Pray 5 X a day. Be patient for the test you go through. There is great reward waiting for people of patience. Praying gives peace to the heart. Read the life of prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam. In today's modern times so many people are entering into Islam. Study the Qur'an and ask Allah for guidance. Because only Allah guides a persons HEART. May Allah SWT guide everyone of us.

    • @Habibicapetown
      @Habibicapetown 2 года назад +3

      People with money respond like this easily...me to...when I had everything I could easily tell people to make salaah....now I have nothing and ya it's like that....this dunha is cruel to us...

  • @imranhossain3669
    @imranhossain3669 Месяц назад +1

    Allah doesn't respond to my Du'a so far. I've been suffering from 2020 but He (Allah) doesn't care for me.
    Why?

  • @StrongMajor1178
    @StrongMajor1178 3 года назад +4

    Just because Allah doesn't accept your prayers doesn't mean he hates you wth with wrong with people

  • @CLBOO6
    @CLBOO6 5 лет назад +3

    This is the only channel where these types of sensitive topics are discussed and talked about openly, calmly and rationally. Thank you for doing this. Others would’ve just called this off as disobedience or evil thoughts, sinful and told you to repent. Can you guys also talk about the feelings of anger at God?

  • @sydneysquad8492
    @sydneysquad8492 Год назад

    i converted to l'islam many years ago at a very early age,and since then i've been through hell,i had to move to an arabic country so i would get help since i had all sort of magic done to me,possesion ...like even el imam who was helping me was srunted of how horrible my state/situation was,if i tell you everything that happend to me you wouldn't even believe me,like it is a hole serie ,i'm still fighting ,like i feel i'm in a deep dark pit and i just can't find a way out of it ,like you have no idea the terrible horrific things i go through every day, 33 years never had one good moment,yes i'm losing faith,i hate myself,i don't even know if god even sees me or knows i exist ,even when i pray i feel like no one is there to listen,people who are terrible are just living the life and i'm going through hell,everyday is a challenge,from magic to possesion,to cancer to brain tumor,to ....to... to...... it is an endless loop ,i'm so confused ,i really feel done and want out of this world.. 😢

    • @ciudad9268
      @ciudad9268 Год назад +1

      I just want to say. Whatever u do whatever u do don’t lose hope wallahi shaitan will trap u. Ur vulnerable right now. But this life is honestly just a few decades. On the day of judgement imagine the regret u will feel if u look back and realize how close u were to jannah whatever it is here it is not worse than hell. And all those in ease right now by disobedience will a 100% regret whatever they are doing.I don’t know why Allah does what He does But I know that He knows exactly why He’s doing what He’s doing. Cry if u want and be mad and angry but don’t let go of ur faith u have jannah right infront of u don’t walk away

  • @OsaidSasi
    @OsaidSasi 5 лет назад +7

    Thank you sister, I needed to hear this.

  • @AL-sg2jd
    @AL-sg2jd 3 года назад +1

    This lady is amazing.

  • @mrmister1657
    @mrmister1657 2 года назад +2

    Yeah I’m honestly convinced he doesn’t like me

  • @_Bubblefly
    @_Bubblefly 18 дней назад

    I’m trying not end it all

  • @raadshahmatismail3093
    @raadshahmatismail3093 3 года назад +3

    I keep getting hurt each and everyday Allah hurts me what have I done that He hates me what's the solution

    • @fridaybird377
      @fridaybird377 3 года назад +2

      It's not Allah who hurts you. It's the Shaytans. Keep it together and trust Allan. He ll take you out. InshAllah.
      This life is about battle not about happiness and if you are true muslims you ll be the winners. And seek help from Allah true patience and prayer. If you leave them the next level is pure evil. Shaytan wants you to leave the prayer so he can destroy you. So pray.

  • @winterwoods6406
    @winterwoods6406 3 года назад

    Mashaallah, thank you so much ya Allah for this video. Tabarakallah sister. It is true that i feel this because of trauma, and i just realized it.

  • @MohamadMohamad-cd8og
    @MohamadMohamad-cd8og 2 года назад

    93:3
    مَا وَدَّعَكَ رَبُّكَ وَمَا قَلَىٰ ٣
    Your Lord ˹O Prophet˺ has not abandoned you, nor has He become hateful ˹of you˺.
    - Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran
    93:4
    وَلَلْـَٔاخِرَةُ خَيْرٌۭ لَّكَ مِنَ ٱلْأُولَىٰ ٤
    And the next life is certainly far better for you than this one.
    - Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran
    93:5
    وَلَسَوْفَ يُعْطِيكَ رَبُّكَ فَتَرْضَىٰٓ ٥
    And ˹surely˺ your Lord will give so much to you that you will be pleased.
    - Dr. Mustafa Khattab, the Clear Quran

  • @N.A.96
    @N.A.96 3 года назад

    Very helpful video! Thank you!

  • @لمىالشريف-غ8ك
    @لمىالشريف-غ8ك 5 лет назад

    Jazakom Allah Kheir habibti!
    Beautiful presentation
    Very important subject
    Thank you for addressing this

  • @nurulabdullah90
    @nurulabdullah90 3 года назад +1

    God always give anything that I work for, that I prayed for to someone that hurts me..when they said God always helps someone that got hurt by others..but its always the other way around for me..I'm the one that got punished bcause of their sins instead..why? They said God hates someone that doesn't work to achieve something they want..I tried & prayed for this one thing for 5+ yrs after my sister passed away..but none..
    Got mentally abused by my "ex-brother in law" after my sister passed away..he pushed me to marry him every single day to replace my sisters place..that got me stressed till my hair fall off..like someone that got cancer treatment..why didn't I accept? Why should I? I've been spending my teenage life caring for his childrens..dusk to dawn..didnt even ask for paying..up until mid twenties I didnt even live a single time for myself. But when I didnt want to accept him..he tells me I'm not responsible..even didnt have work..just using my parents money..when all I've been doing my whole life was caring for his children's..well said..I never stop caring for them..they moved out to other place. Thats when my sister got sick. But their place so far that we didnt get to see them often. Thats the only time I get to do what I want even for a while. Then my sister passed away. Then he start to push me around. Until he got married 2x..Im still this way..5 yrs later..still having hairfall..got telogen effluvium cause of depression. Stuck in my bedroom cause I was so embarrassed to go out. Didnt do anything I like cause too busy finding something to treat myself..while he got married 2x..enjoying his life..got to go whereever he wants..gotta do whatever he wants..Do God really loves him..but really hates me? I tried everything just to cure my condition..Ive prayed..dua..but God only gives anything to someone He likes? Also got Misophonia..which some doc says hatred so sound..not just "hate sounds"..it got really painful to my ears..that sometimes they got numb..leads to anxiety, panic attack plus that depression..every single day was painful..suicidal..self harm when it gets too bad..but still God didnt wanna hear me..theres people racing near our home..and I just prayed that I just wanna live peacefully with my mum..but He sent these ignorant people here..why? Does he really hates me? He gives all I wanted & prayed to anyone that doesn't even have to work like I do..freely..while He takes back all of that He gives to me One by One..is it so hard for Him to just take my life? Or I have to take it myself? Why do I always remember Him when I think of suicide? He didnt even love me..

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 2 года назад

      Dear Muslim. We are powerless without Allah. Whether we scream, curse, or Just keep praying... the fact it that He decides... and Just remember! If you turn away you Will Have no protectors...

    • @Kopikokoo
      @Kopikokoo Год назад

      @@piratkid and that's not how you should deal with her questions. She's suffered enough to even think Allah has abandoned her. Can't you be kind at least and comfort her with the knowledge that you have when it comes to Allah's mercy? Anyway, to each their own. This is just my humble opinion as I would explode if someone tries to brush off my pain as if it's nothing.

    • @Kopikokoo
      @Kopikokoo Год назад

      I hope you're doing well sister. I may not know your suffering but please know that I hope Allah heals whatever you're experiencing and bless you abundantly. I know it can't be helped to think that Allah really plays favoritism when our life is tested with hardships back to back. But in spite of that, I want you to know that you're not alone. You're valuable and I pray that Allah will accept your prayers soon, and He will give you the ultimate rewards in hereafter for your kindness.

  • @igloobundle4981
    @igloobundle4981 3 года назад

    This is so helpful thanks 💙

  • @ridoanuddin3378
    @ridoanuddin3378 3 года назад +3

    Why do Allah hates me???????????

  • @StRyanRain
    @StRyanRain Год назад

    What about when the outpouring of our love and feelings bend the laws of physics? Why attribute your emotions to faulty reasoning? What if they were right all along?

  • @borz351
    @borz351 4 года назад +3

    And as for man, when his Lord tries him and is generous to him and favors him, he says, "My Lord has honored me".
    But when He tries him and restricts his provision, he says, "My Lord has humiliated me."
    *No!* But you do not honor the orphan.
    *Quran 89:15*

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 2 года назад +1

      Indeed our Lord is the most truthful! We are so bad its depressing...

    • @phase-six
      @phase-six 2 года назад

      Thank you for posting this

  • @__user_78866
    @__user_78866 Год назад +1

    salamu alaykum I don't know if someone will read my comment I'm sick since my 14th year I couldn't finish my school and I've been physically in pain every day for 8 years I got several diseases and the doctors are confused they say that they haven't seen such a case like me even the raqis say this, it seems that my trials are very extraordinary, I have always been a practicing Muslim and I find it difficult to be grateful to Allah during this endless suffering, I had fever for years and severe inflammation nobody can believe my suffering although i live in a country with one of the best health care systems can nobody treath my suffer.i know that suicide is completely haram but this kind of patient is just unbearable i lost also oll of my money like 150.000€ which I think is a lot for 20 year old... but this is only a little problem compared to the physic pain even when I talk with old people who have seen much in their life. they are shocked about my case what should I do?

  • @zaheedarazak506
    @zaheedarazak506 4 года назад +4

    Make a list of all the positive things in yr life and say alhamdulillah. Look at people below you. So many of them are suffering more than you.

  • @user-sm5zz5js2l
    @user-sm5zz5js2l 3 года назад

    Please make dua that Allah stops punishing me

  • @Zilanisokinu
    @Zilanisokinu Год назад

    allah is not trusting me i do namaz and allah still ignores me i jus want a good life i miss my family i just want to see them and allah is not looking at me allah please help me i have been depressed alot of times and you keep ignoring me what did i do wrong i still bielive in allah to support me lease allah help me

  • @fridaybird377
    @fridaybird377 4 года назад +4

    Thank you people for the comments, reading it I realised it's Satan whispers.

  • @Thereciperoom_19
    @Thereciperoom_19 5 месяцев назад

    I feel like I'm done with my life.
    I argued back to my dad, he hates me , Allah hates me too and I think I should die. But Idk how will the society make my parents feel... everything is going not right. I don't know what to do. 😀

  • @vaseemrazamirza8593
    @vaseemrazamirza8593 4 года назад

    It helped me a little bit thank you

  • @Rabiadhal
    @Rabiadhal 11 месяцев назад +1

    Allah has never ever listened to me in my whole life
    I am useless

    • @4qurus
      @4qurus 8 месяцев назад

      Real.

  • @rubyyyy7777
    @rubyyyy7777 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much for this video......

  • @Petuk_Kolkata
    @Petuk_Kolkata 2 месяца назад

    I want allah to help me pls help me to become financial stability plsss😢 jst see me omce

  • @motazfallata
    @motazfallata 5 лет назад

    very helpful, thanks

  • @khadijaabdigani6267
    @khadijaabdigani6267 3 года назад

    Beautiful 🥰 series

  • @loosecIit
    @loosecIit 4 года назад +8

    I swear allah hates me so much i never never but never had luck in my life

    • @grove6064
      @grove6064 4 года назад +1

      Bc allah does not want you to even smell hell but now you have dought on allah the one that created you my sis or bro in Islam stop thinking that

    • @ghulamhassan5763
      @ghulamhassan5763 4 года назад

      @serene serene 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @illyrian3057
      @illyrian3057 Год назад

      ​​@@grove6064stop this BS already. Tell me how lucky ppl that are pious Muslims, they will enter Jannah and get the best of the both world while tortured ppl will have the opportunity only once. This is by no means fair. There is no justice for it.

  • @SSA-hu6lp
    @SSA-hu6lp 4 года назад +2

    whole life life trials may means two things 1) Allah hates me and second I can't pronounce by myself.. 😠

  • @realtalk675
    @realtalk675 2 года назад

    Thank you so much sister im dealing with this

  • @SuperCatwoman09
    @SuperCatwoman09 5 лет назад

    Thank you, these videos are very helpful!!

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien3267 2 года назад

    May Allah bless you ❤️ ✨ 🙏 💖 ♥
    Allah loves so much 💖 💓

  • @sarahg7554
    @sarahg7554 8 месяцев назад

    Ya Allah forgive me pray for me plz I'm going through a lot

  • @fresh-er8427
    @fresh-er8427 3 года назад

    I wanna know more about sunnatullah

  • @Iwasheldatgunpoint
    @Iwasheldatgunpoint Год назад +1

    Nah man Allah just thinks that we are the best way to practice hate with.

  • @robiulaowal9475
    @robiulaowal9475 3 года назад +1

    Alhamdulillah

  • @shaneed369
    @shaneed369 9 месяцев назад

    You're talking psychological things
    I don't feel Allah have mercy for everyone

  • @nickidaisyreddwoodd5837
    @nickidaisyreddwoodd5837 4 года назад +4

    I don't reject Anyone. I try to make people become Aware of how damaging religion is to their mental health. Do Not identify yourself with the religion that had been drilled into your brain from birth or with any ideology. Break free from it and start loving your own precious body. Start saying No to men who want to oppress you.

    • @grove6064
      @grove6064 4 года назад

      Sir stop its not yo choice to decide

  • @HarryAlluring
    @HarryAlluring 4 года назад

    Thnx sister 🌻

  • @youqno218
    @youqno218 2 года назад

    Allah hates me for the past 5 years everyday the whole day. And i’m not asking for anything i just want to live a normal live without al the badluck that allah is giving me

  • @PintoTerracotta
    @PintoTerracotta 3 года назад +1

    For me its kind of opposite. I feel like Allah hates me because he's making it easier for me. I always hear that Allah tests the one he loves the most and I feel like I'm not being tested so he doesn't love me like he does the people he tests more. :(

    • @piratkid
      @piratkid 3 года назад +8

      Trust me do not wish upon yourself calamities... you are blessed! Be extremely grateful

    • @crazychocgingerbread7099
      @crazychocgingerbread7099 2 года назад

      As long as you are using the blessings God has given you in a halal way and are using it to worship him then I think you should feel that Allah SWT loves you. If you have money and you give it to charity Alhamdulilah, God is blessing you through that. If you smile at people and you are someone that other people love to be around Alhamdulilah, God is blessing you through that. If you are kind to your parents, Alhamdulilah God is blessing you through that. There’s two ways to be close to God I think. One when you are suffering, you turn to Him with hope and certainty that He will help you. Two, when life is easy you use the ease to worship Him and help others who are facing hardship.

    • @crazychocgingerbread7099
      @crazychocgingerbread7099 2 года назад

      God will test you when He wants to, don’t pray for or wish for that now because He isn’t testing maybe because you are not strong enough to bear the tests. Strengthen your faith so that when the test hits you, you don’t lose faith.

  • @pradelelien3267
    @pradelelien3267 2 года назад

    How are you sis??

  • @MELANATEDFATHER
    @MELANATEDFATHER 5 лет назад +3

    Mashallah. In regards to the human experience. She has dropped the ball so to speak. Being black in America has a laundry list of issues that me as a Muslim face every day. Yet my people still face the horror of racism and bigotry. So yes I think Allah despises my ppl. Why else would he allow such horrors of murder. Or how the arabs treat me at the Masjid. Won't give me my rights as far as Salaams are concerned or make a face when we line up to pray. Like they're discussted for praying next to them. Yes it sucks. We not even talking about racist white ppl yet. I pray for change yet nothing changes even in Allah's house. I love Allah but I don't think He loves me back or my ppl. I have plenty of facts to go by. Not my emotions. The facts make me emotional. Respectfully you have not covered enough on this subject to make such claims. Asalaamu Alaikum.

    • @rackarol
      @rackarol 3 года назад

      bro this life is meant to be trash, its full of trials and tests and its meant to be like that, look at how the quraysh oppressed the muslims, and no matter how far they went and also killed some of the muslims, they never gave up, guess what happened in the end, their opperession ended and islam won. So please brother dont lose hope as all what your people are facing is a test from allah, if life was easy everybody wouldve went to jannah, this life is unfair to muslims but this life is temporary and the hereafter is forever where muslims will prosper. Wa alaikum as Salam

  • @zehrazahoor7855
    @zehrazahoor7855 3 года назад +2

    Well since Allah loves us 70,000 times as much as our mother. And my mother doesn't love me so Allah doesn't too, right? Even if this reasoning is wrong my mother constantly uses me as a scape goat and take out the anger on me and i can't just endure it silently so i talk back. But Allah don't love people who talk back to their parents infact he doesn't Even accept their prayers and ebadah. So i am doomed bcz i have sick mother who is making me sick too.

    • @rackarol
      @rackarol 3 года назад +5

      brother allah is all about justice, if all what your mother doing is true, allah wont curse you if you talkback to your mother, no matter what allah said in quran about parents family and everything, they need to meet certain conditions for you to get sin from doing things allah has forbidden, allah didnt abandon you dear brother rather hes testing you, look what all your ancestor muslims have done to get where we are, please dont lose hope this life is temporary and the hereafter is forever, you just need to bear with it and the final reward will be tremendous. Jazak Allah brother

    • @nidahassan6525
      @nidahassan6525 2 года назад +1

      I used to think that Allah's love is infinite but i was shocked to see he loves only 70,000 times more than mother

    • @candymi5639
      @candymi5639 2 года назад +1

      @@nidahassan6525 🤣🤣 Astaghfirulah why am I laughing

    • @rosain262
      @rosain262 2 месяца назад

      😂 ​@@candymi5639

    • @rosain262
      @rosain262 2 месяца назад

      ​@candymi5639 😂

  • @Ahmad-ro6od
    @Ahmad-ro6od 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you.
    ------
    Allah speaks about some people
    In the Quran
    That there are some, who have eyes👀 👀👁 but yet can not see,
    They have ears,👂👂 but yet they can't hear
    They have 💚 💚 hearts but yet can't understand,
    It means that, they see👀 everything
    But they can not see the👉 truth
    They hear everything but not the truth
    And
    They understand, they are so smart
    But they don't understand ALLAH
    Those will be in the Hill fire
    In the day after.
    So,
    Do not try to be one of them.

    • @manchesterisred7813
      @manchesterisred7813 4 года назад +1

      If allah exists he is the biggest hypocrite out of them all. Pfft u say i am all of these things where is this allah who can only say and cannot do.

    • @shukuro8621
      @shukuro8621 4 года назад

      @@manchesterisred7813 Keep this energy when you die.

  • @Sweetness3135
    @Sweetness3135 5 лет назад +2

    AsSalaam Alaykum, you said that feelings helps one to gauge whether they have pain etc..yet you also say that feelings aren't fact! If you are in pain..that's a fact. And sometimes something that we might view or analysis doesn't make it a "fact!" You may see someone (a muslim or striving person) go into a liquor store and come out with a bag that has a glass bottle shape, open it and look from side to side, then proceed to drink from the brown bagged bottle. I KNOW muslims who would suspect and say that they saw a muslim drinking liquor.. Claiming FACTS, (SUBJECTIVE REASONING). Facts aren't any more valuable than emotions. They both have value.

  • @grove6064
    @grove6064 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing bit the problem is you gave up on allah when he never gave up on you when you were born did you damend to someone to give you food allah said give my slave food when you think do you think or did allah created it for you to be wise allah gave you mouth did allah said I am going to starve them no he did not he loves us so many sighins but we still said no stop us your head allah does not hate he let us go threw it so we won't even smell hell you gave up stop think twice before allah sayes I really hate you

  • @msb94
    @msb94 2 года назад

    Allah creates both God and bad things

  • @mydology1089
    @mydology1089 4 года назад

    Nice

  • @ksasbr107
    @ksasbr107 5 лет назад +1

    ⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️ شكرا

  •  5 лет назад

    a muzzle woman trying to defend allah by means of studying psychology in the west. don't be this hypocritical. allah doesn't deserve to be defended. the west has to be defended for giving you this education.

    • @catatonic8313
      @catatonic8313 4 года назад +3

      Allah created the west, the east the north and the south so why should she only use the specific knowledge. to help and share with people knowledge is free to anyone who wish to use and learn itt

  • @yummieandsojiro7663
    @yummieandsojiro7663 4 года назад

    idgaf