Well, if you survive the inhuman pressure from your parents. I don't understand how all this praise is happening without mentioning all the students suicide cases in the past and now in India. It's rather like the successful people are the survivors of an inhuman rat race. But it's so typical for westerners to praise everything that serves them without going really into detail.
The thing Indians value the most is education or knowledge. I have seen the poorest people doing whatever they can to ensure their children get a good education.
it was and I still think is the same in Slovakia - although I'm conflicted on this topic as I don't see the value of some education. Like in Slovakia, everyone has a master's degree but you don't have plumbers, or essential works - tradesmen which I don't like. Same in the UK - so what happened as people perceived those jobs as "dirty" - the people that stuck at it - and had a trade make way more money than most people with degrees. There is a book I think it goes along the lines I learnt Everything I needed to Know in kindergarten - I'm still yet to read the book🙈
@@zuzanareacts In India, we are taught that no job is small or dirty. While it's great if you secure a job in an office or a good company, there's no shame in doing other types of work.
But govt school in most rural areas is not good .As Indian our education system also outdated and left oxford cambridge howard dominated in social science .Woke culture mindset increase in urban youth .
3weeks ago I learned from our German newspapers " 14 years old Indian origin American finished his study at the University as an software engineer in California and he was the youngest engineer since 172 years.Now he's been working at SpaceX as an software engineer ".
True! I'm married for 52 years! ( A Sri Lankan Buddhist married to the same tall, beautiful, Indian, Hindu woman from Trinidad and Tobago ) my wife quit her superb, Canadian, federal govt, IT job to take care of the children! We managed on one income for twenty two years! Was not easy! Both my children are Canadian born, and highly educated; extremely hard working; emigrated to Silicon Valley, Alameda County, California. What the gentleman said in that clip is Spot On! Parents have to sacrifice a lot for their children to succeed in life! But then, " Sacrifice" itself is a pleasure!
As an Indian Immigrant to USA, it has been ingrained into me the following, Education, hard work, completion of a Task, honestly and with honor to the best of my ability.
Congratulations to you...but the point is whether the upcoming new generation of those successful Indians are inculcated with the same kind of values those successful Indians themselves had in their upbringing...?
also lisn-hindi * apka akhabar * vijay sardana insight * the alternate media * the jaipur dialogue * def-talks by aadi * rang de basanti-rajiv choudhary * har har shambhu by abhilipsa panda n jeetu sharma * arif aajakia * sayed muzammil * ex-muslim-many chalan thnx....vande mataram
2 days ago I was coming back to the college hostel after Diwali holiday , My mother was rechecking my bag to make sure whether I'm carrying all things or not & she found I wasn't carrying mobile charger 😂 She is an inspection officer.😅
in india poor and middle class parents rather not eat but collect money for childern to good school ,their first first priority is to give best education to students.
I am Civil Engineering graduate but got job offer from Big MNC of India as a software developer. I learnt all essential things related to software development and its not over now i got selected for masters in data and computational science at IIT jodhpur. IIT's are the best institutes from India. Now i do 5 days work in IT and then saturday and sunday full day 12 hours of masters lectures via online. Imagine being a civil engineer and then landed into software and now doing masters in data science is just because of my parents. Because of my parents i did all these things and now i will take care of my parents for my whole life. They dont need my help coz they are givernment employee but its my duty to take care of them. All the best to you
It is our Culture/Hindu Philosophy working in background🙋. If you don't have values and principles, there is no much difference between Human and Animals🙋. We ❤ our Parents😘.
Yeah my father was very judgemental and always adviced me not to drink. Thanks to him I never drank and didn't end up like my drunkard and spoiled friends who became serious alcoholic at small age.
@fusionx9593Alcholic consumption increase in India also tobbacco ( which portugal britisher Dutcc introduced in India ) Urbanisation stress is main reason alcholic drug use increase in Indian youth .
As an Indian Immigrant, discipline, in education was not an option but necessary, an Indian Family is not a practice in a Democratic Household, the rules are strict, Father is the bread earner and is the ultimate arbitrator, Mother is the CEO, and the Oldest Sibling has the next in command depends on his/her capabilities, and this is understood, and not challenged, and the aim is to make the Family proud, by achieving the highest order/ honor.
I’m an immigrant myself, now in Germany. What I have noticed is that we Indians live below our means, save and invest the rest back home. We also (at least Most of us) as parents ensure that our culture and traditions are kept up although we are in different countries. We are also strict disciplinarians who do not tolerate any nonsense from our children. Probably the only thing we do differently is to stick to the basics which help in the long run. No YOLO crap is tolerated. Also, education! Useful education. 😜
@@robertmitchell8630 we are rich in India, we are also rich abroad. Many economies depend on us. Many organizations want us to work for them in different countries. Many countries need immigrants.. looks like someone is unnecessarily jealous 😅
@robertmitchell8630 feel free to say no to Indian "legal" immigrants. India is happy to have them back. I don't know your definition of rich, but don't try to look at it from a foreign currency perspective. What we get for 100 rupees is much more than 100 pounds. Foreigners can't even imagine the kind of medical service, hospitality, and food we get in India for a fraction of price they spend in their own country.
Literally my mother made my career easy , many time I failed to clear exams , I was frustrated, dishearten, but she has always shown faith in me ! Made me realise life is long don't stick to the failure. *Winner are the looser who never give up*
Parents are mind, intellect and IQ of a child, Grandparents are courage, will and EQ of a child. Child raised will blossom fully into excellent human being, even if that child don't have formal education, nothing can stop those children's. They already have all the raw material in them.
He is right boys are comfortable with moms and girls are comfortable with dad.....you can see this thing commonly in india....it doesn't mean mom doesn't love girl or dad doesn't love boys but the thing is boy scared dad and girl scared mom.....
Why Bharat ruled by Mongol Arab Turk Persian Muslim Portugal Dutch Britisher Christian .Casteist mindset Dogma As Bhartiya we leave Arjun Krishna Geeta mindset now we redevelop this question answer based model of Upnishad which help in stem also increase our conciousness like Saint Kabir her Guruji Saibt Ramanand Guru Nanakdevji .
@@ManishKumar-pe3qqIt's ok with Jains & some portions Sikhs but Muslims are not that much of successful & on the name of Buddhist we have just Bhimtas so can't count them as well hope you get your answer
@11:37 The only reason why Hindus can adapt to any society and live peacefully with them and other people mostly find hard to live. (Arab world immigrants in Europe)
yes, Indian parents are strict, they toil day and night to provide the best,education, family value...and we keep an eye in everything that's going on in the children's life.We try,to do our best.
Education is important for us in India you can see a single mothers who sell flowers in front of the temple even though the income is low her son and daughter will be studying in a good school.
Why we Indians do better in USA, (1) America has freedom & liberty. America has built in infrastructure. All we have to do is do our best. (2) We get more money for our work than we would in India. That is major incentive to work hard & honestly. (3) We gave total importance to education. In fact. suicide rate is highest suicide rate among students. Kamla Harris was asked about her Harvard education & she gave credits her Indian mother.
I think they are successful because of the hardwork and problem solving nature. I must tell you parents in INDIA focuses strictly on education of their children the most whether if they are rich or poor, education is the priority.
I don't know why it was very astonishing to you 😂, but i would say the mother-son, father-daughter was the point that i resonated with the most and I think it's the case with almost all kids.
I say that without any judgement or offence meant - it's weird for me and I think for many people in this part of the world - the extent he was explaining it.
@@zuzanareacts In India most of the boys are mother oriented because of father's punishment and when father is in furious mood, mother's shelter like heaven feeling. The daughters are always beloved to father and fathers don't like to punish daughter as son. And due to strictness of father a boy become a stone heart man who can handle any situation easily.
Yes...there is no word for divorce in Sanskrit or Hindi. Ironically didn't know that but after seeing your comment..I enquired and you are absolutely right 👍🏻👍🏻
Education very important .... Family very important not necessary we stay together as adults but always there for each other...... Financial Savings and investments very important .... Each generation adds to family wealth and passes on to next generation ....
It's the basic values like honesty, hard work, dedication , being truthful, high importance to education , tolerant of all religions, faiths etc., are responsible for Indians being successful everywhere . Family values n bonding also help the children stay connected n rooted in our culture n accepting other cultures too .
Well when you come from a competitive environment of 1.45 billion people you just have to make it through no matter what it takes that's what it creates us being us.
I m indian ...i share my secrets with both my mom and dad...they belived in me i.e ...i never fail their belief system...thats why i got a great carrier....
It is amazing that it took so long for someone to create Patrick’s video because the success of Indian immigrants in the US is not new. Until recently, American TV shows and movies portrayed Indians as convenience store workers and cabbies. I met Jay Choudary because of aa business deal in the late 90’s. His networth was I believe $1.6B and he drove an Chrysler minivan with a missing hubcap. Lol.
Yes, most of it are correct, strict difenetly, I have two daughters, both masters in engineering, both speak excellent German and English besides their mother tongue and one or two Indian languages, high on integrity and loyalty to their organization and their superiors, honest and upright...
In our home masters is a mandatory thing if you don’t do masters it’s bad. During my schooling my parents expected me to be first in everything even being second is not acceptable. I think it is because of very high competition among students to get into good university everyone is hustling.😂 Sometimes we find over protectiveness really annoying when we are young but as we grow up we realise everything our parents did was for our good. ❤
FAMILY, FAMILY, FAMILY, Outing,holidays, family get together, together celebrating festivals, birthdays, nurturing and caring for the elders and all the family members, all together, always together
It is only matter of pressure of society to have good values and be successful at last this pressure pays off because we go through ultimate pressure and at last we makes it. When we look back all the good things we can remember.
@PraveenKumar. :"we go through ultimate pressure." Under high pressure carbon turns into a diamond. (Carbon has little or no value. While a diamond is very valuable.)
You were surprised when he read that indian parents are good at identifying and encouraging different skill sets. This is the new dynamics. Earlier it was only education. As a society India was on survival mode. That striving generation is now giving their kids more than just 9 to 3 school. My kids go to one art and one sport classes after their school hours. My wife runs a music school and she has 400 students in 11 months. So , you can understand that i and my kids are not exceptions. When we talk to these 400 parents , they too are keeping their kids occupied with couple of things other than just school. We keep kids more busy than ourselves. 3 idiots movie is true and depcits my generation and prior generations.
this does feel like a story of my childhood. I had to go to all kinds of extra curricular here - to the point that it was unbearable and I had to put my foot down:D 🙈
@zuzanareacts haha. I can understand. We look at this way - empty mind is a devils workshop. So it's better to keep them occupied than fiddle with internet and bad company. Its better to be exhausted and go to bed than get bored and find ways to spoil yourself. Will do this until they keep their foot down one day 😅🤣
You are doing great - I totally get it :D - I'd do the same ! I think a kid should know how to move (so any dance would be a must haha) and then for a girl self-defence class for sure; and ideally a musical instrument (if talented - I was forced to play the piano - still hate it to this day - lol ) and some sports activity - and who knows maybe coding as well :D.
Yes indian parants are very strict but the way they love and sacrifice their life for kids (except exceptions) makes the kid feel that their parents strictness is valid. It matter of trust. You love and sacrifice is so heigh that the strictness becomes very little.
in India we beleive in mutual respect while being control as parents and as children going forward . core values do exist . within this brackets there are variations based on the classes .
Because of the hardships during the foreign rule and also after the independence Indians are chiefly driven by a sence of insecurity especially while living abroad. That's why they stick to subjects with higher income potential and also maintain close family units as a support system. 🙏
Indian family is run by big dedication from the mother from making breakfast for the family to washing clothes,cleaning all the kitchen and all small chores and then go to work.After that she does most of the shopping,comes home prepares dinner for whole family and has a small break until all members in home.They eat together .those who study she will prepare packed food for them and drop them at school and arrange all her duties as a loyal mother and father earns the family for upkeep of expenses such as mortgage,school fees and running expenses of cars and home. So a joint family with a bond where everyone helps in home and business to be lawful and be good parents and in society hold good values.
I am an Indian now settled in US, and Married to an US White woman, and thankfully my Two daughters, have inherited my genes when it comes to family values and importance of Education, so yes, I can understand some of the traits the narrator mentioned, but the best thing is I had no input in shaping their future, they just gravitated towards their goal and made us proud.
In india family structure always comes first(respecting elders, learning from the generational wisdom, questioning them which is the most important part but within the designated respect and learning from their mistakes), because when you have disciplined family structure, which leads to discipline in society, discussing problem in local communities and working toward it, which inturns leads to great results as an individual and as a society. So the learning starts within the family.
We r From oldest civilization.Still we have joint family system.We grown up our child differently.We parents sacrifice our selve for child's future n contribute to become successful in education n job.We always keep watch for childs success.Our values n disciplines for migrated countries.We have no1 diaspora in the world with population of more than 2crores.
In the history of mankind India was the richest country on this planet until India was captured by British 2 centuries ago. Moreover from last 15 years Indians are the winners of spelling bee contest in USA. India reached the mars in the very first attempt, which country did until today.
Mom understands and support son, where dad is also a male so he is very strict with son means whatever you do some fathers will keep an eye on son, and just says no, but moms back them, same with mothers and daughters, because every male knows what males think and like vice versa, not american type of mom son thing 🙂
🔴 In India 🔴 Women are Traditional while being a business lady, in army, in politics, all the sectors which are Integral part of the structure of society, they never changed their nature from Feminine to Masculine. 🔴 Men are Traditional Men in India (Culture, Values, Ethics, Morality, Respect, And Mainly He's "Dharma" in Family or in Society, Providing Protection, Resources, etc.) 🔴 Thankfully Feminism or any foreign Ideology didn't work here.. instead of that.. women equality with understandings of beautiful natural difference between Men and Women, Women Empowerment Efforts, Equal Rights and Opportunities for Women On Ground did work. 🔴 Everything is not perfect, but things are working much better here.
We venture into a lot of extra-curricular activities like various kinds of sports, dance, music, etc. But most parents think of these as hobbies and not career paths
Talent,hard work play a major role.apart from these,US is a land if opportunity.They give credit,to the deserved. I am now in US,daughters house.The amount of exposure for kids to library, and brain stimulating activities are mind boggling. Every Sunday,there will activities like petting zoo,harvest festival,bubble show,keep snakes for kids to touch,fathers day,lantern festival.innumerable .. Kids hand & brain are activated. Indian parents are hungry for such things.so they never miss it.(Asian parents)
India was never unsuccessful. it was portrayed as such in the west & people thought they were poor when India was solely holding more then 55% of the GDP alone but was Looted/dropped down to 27% then 3% in the past 200-500 years. Nalanda & Tashya Shila, Vikramaditya and many more universities were destroyed and they Brought Mclayan Education system to make obedient slaves who followed orders without questioning them. there's a Famous quote " if u want to destroy an entire generation destroy their freedom of Thinking & Learning ". cause Learning is creation not Consumption, Knowledge isn't something a Learner absorbs but a Learner Creates. Batukeshwar Dutt & Bagha Jatin, Mastarda Surya Sen and many more were killed who opposed it. its a long history of war crime & such and i saw one person who came to India talk about it & how they were never tought this part of history. Truth to be Honest Good people are everywhere & loved that people like you are out there who are Conscious & doing whats possible for the betterment of society and spreading Good messages to everyone. one thing is true when ur on the path to become better nothing will stop you and we are with you. love your videos & keep doing what u love
Indians are a family oriented,culture sensitive community.Once married partners hardly cheat each other ,stay faithful to each other for their life.They raise kids &pass them the same cultural values.They teach their kids with whatever they have in their possession & make them qualified to follow their suit so that they can look after them when they become old& retired.This is a continual family culture.The western culture doesn’t respect family values So they suffer the most Sorry for that guys.
Divorce rate is even low in Hindus.. bcoz we believe we marry for 7 lives.. hence we usually marry one & die with one.. excluding exceptions.. and yes we do luv our parents.. and we feel uncomfortable without parents shelter on our head.. all related to KARMA if u do good things.. u get good things in next life or ur soul is absorbed in god : salvation ( no birth again ) whoever do wrong with parents, wife, human beings, life forms are punished, and re birth is based on Karma..
In the West, I feel it almost expected that a family is with kids, and you follow a status quo of not investing in the child for thier own good. It is more that you buy a puppy, and see this as a toy so you fawn over the puppy and buy the best toys, but you are not developing the puppy. Kids are not an extention of ourselves, we can never bring up a kid, as each person is an individual. It is the parent's duty to understand that we have to find the potential of the child and nuture this. We as a culture do not want thanks for this, by means of a special Christmas gift or Diwali gift, we try to enhance the reality of life and encourage self growth of personal potential. Having said this we never abandon them as we are still bonded by a family bond. We will remain their parents and look after the kids when they need to earn money and by living with us we save money and they save money. The Kids then have a respect of elders as well as a second generation knowledge. As with arrangenged marriages, this is a falsehood, we have introductions, these can be agreed upon or even shunned, but when agreed both families are totally binded, and if there are any family problems we come together as a family to try and help. At the end of the day if you instill trust in your elders, who knows you better than your parents. The problem with the west they want to outsouce care, love, and even their kids, so the culture is when you are 18 you are out the house, and now I have my freedom, as a parent that supposidely has done my duty for 18 years it is all on the kid. Maybe that kid will see his parents or Grandparents a Christmas. You isolated them and threw them to the wolves.
Indian parents are not very strict based on dogmatic blind faith religious beliefs but are firm practitioners of firm and uncompromising diacipline to keep the children on the path of right from wrong behaviour and conduct in society
Historically our culture is open to all Ideas, philosophy, in India God is not all you can question God, hence in Hindus there are Atheist, Monotheist, Polytheist, no discrimination, all coexist we say God is within you no need to rely on outside, Our culture teaches First" Maatha, Pitha Guru, Daivam"( Mother, Father, Teacher and then God ). Education and knowledge are given highest value.
I am an Indian, but not an US Migrant, and my wife is Bachelor of Hemeopathic Sciences and completed her Master of Public Health. She has sacrificed her degrees only to raise our two kids to a better level. There was no support from either of us parents as we are staying in Bangladesh for the past 20 years, Believe me, if my wife would hv not sacrificed, i could hv not thought to raise my two sons till now class 12 and class 10 respectively. She is the real Heaven of our family. And we all three just obey her words. I show my gratitude to her for sacrifice always. I Salute her for her deed.
One other important factor is Indian parents take care of their parents as well and live in the same household . The west doesn’t realize that Grandparents love and care from the very childhood has a profound impact on their children’s well-being and they too inform take care of the parents . This concept of living together is laughed at by westerners but that’s the secret . Tye child is under constant scrutiny and also gets love and emotional support . Also you will see Indian Mothers will make their children pray and they also go to temples regularly or weekly once actually so spiritualism and the sense of doing good deed over bad deeds gets instilled like an iron pillar from very childhood so that’s you never see an Indian robbing a gas station .. what I find most problematic in western parents is they do not make them pray regularly at home and also generally not strict in maintaining discipline and gives them an open leash . Children needs to be monitored like a hawk untill they cross their teens until they become responsible adults and Sven after that Indian parents will baby sit their kids , save save save for their kids so that they have a stable life so sacrifice is also important until western parents YOLO concept spend , splurge on vacation , cars etc useless material things and save nothing for kids and tell them to get at out 18 and go make your own living … Save money , live together for life with parents , take care of parents and children and pass your inheritance to your next generation so they already have a head start rather working from ground up .. That is why HUF - Hindu Undivided Famiky has been success for centuries and will continue to be successful . It’s an institution on its own .🙏
well some people build a narrative here that Indians are not punctual and disciplined. But the thing is, here in India they want us to work day and night and in return give peanuts as salary. So why would someone work hard even if he is capable to do so. In pragmatic sense we are very punctual to the work.
You are right mostly Indian parents very strict about family discipline and Daily routine Life ex. Not sleep late night and wake up early morning at 5:30 Am to 6:30 am. I never use abusive words when sitting with family. And
There is one good thing i noticed many Indian Immigrants take their Spiritual Life spiritually and they abstain with unhealthy habits like Meat ; Intoxication; Gambling; Illicit Sexual Relationship"s etc which gives them upper hand then their other counter parts as most of people loose up their savings in such habits. .and Healthy Family Relationships in India can be attributed Sacred text of Ramayana which has perfect example of what is ideal Role model or perfect Relationship whether it is of Husband; wife; Servant; Ruler ; Friends; Brothers; Parents and all other relationships
I hated my parents growing up but now I understand.... And appreciate how much efforts were put in.... One thing I hated most was waking up at 4 am go for a run but now I do this willingly
The 10 points he mentioned makes sense in the more richer and educated households in India, they are also the ones who mostly emigrate, but some of them are not true for normal middle class parents in India especially the talent one😅 Also the father-daughter and son-mother thing is actually very true, I feel very close to my mother and so do most of my friends whereas my sister feels more connected to my father, maybe it's not that u would share everything with them but generally u feel more emotionally connected to them (mother-son and father-daughter), that's what I've experienced too. I also think it comes because for girls it's mostly their mothers who take on the role of instilling values in them and teaching them right and wrong so they are generally more strict with daughters and same is with boys and fathers, so they are generally more comfortable with the less strict parent
9:07 What if there's only one kid 😂 I had strong bonding with my father. We together play and watch cricket whereas my mother things cricket is the worst and last things to watch😂😂 So it vary , personally I equally love my parents and they do same with me and my sister
Dear Man, I made this (membership program community post) comment jokingly, please do not take my comment to heart. If you feel bad because of my comment, I apologize.If you are running a channel with your hard work and starting a membership program, then there is nothing wrong.so sorry My comment is only for England and For Britain. you make very good videos зuch बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद You start a membership program, whoever likes it will join, otherwise there is no problem. Bright your future God bless you
In India, parents look after and take care of their children till their old age... Iam in a society where grand parents care for their grand kids.. At their old age, the children take care of their parents.. It's a natural cycle.. ❤
Everything boils down to the kids. You will probably be surprised that Indian are not even aiming for all the success this video lists about. All they are aiming for is to provide very good to their kids and raise them up with values, empathy and belongingness. The degrees, income, low divorce rates are a result of focusing on kids. Not the other way.
Indian parents- You will hate them growing up.. but be grateful for life for what they did for you.
True 💯
so true. I hated my parents till I reached 20 years old. But, after that I realized that what they were telling me from the beginning was so correct.
Yeah, that's very true.
India means Bharat 🇮🇳
Well, if you survive the inhuman pressure from your parents. I don't understand how all this praise is happening without mentioning all the students suicide cases in the past and now in India. It's rather like the successful people are the survivors of an inhuman rat race. But it's so typical for westerners to praise everything that serves them without going really into detail.
The thing Indians value the most is education or knowledge. I have seen the poorest people doing whatever they can to ensure their children get a good education.
it was and I still think is the same in Slovakia - although I'm conflicted on this topic as I don't see the value of some education. Like in Slovakia, everyone has a master's degree but you don't have plumbers, or essential works - tradesmen which I don't like. Same in the UK - so what happened as people perceived those jobs as "dirty" - the people that stuck at it - and had a trade make way more money than most people with degrees. There is a book I think it goes along the lines I learnt Everything I needed to Know in kindergarten - I'm still yet to read the book🙈
@@zuzanareacts In India, we are taught that no job is small or dirty. While it's great if you secure a job in an office or a good company, there's no shame in doing other types of work.
Btw, have you finished reading Inglorius Empire? @@zuzanareacts
India means Bharat 🇮🇳
But govt school in most rural areas is not good .As Indian our education system also outdated and left oxford cambridge howard dominated in social science .Woke culture mindset increase in urban youth .
3weeks ago I learned from our German newspapers " 14 years old Indian origin American finished his study at the University as an software engineer in California and he was the youngest engineer since 172 years.Now he's been working at SpaceX as an software engineer ".
clearly super talented!!
Ask Elon Musk why his companies are run by Indian Asian Americans!
True! I'm married for 52 years! ( A Sri Lankan Buddhist married to the same tall, beautiful, Indian, Hindu woman from Trinidad and Tobago ) my wife quit her superb, Canadian, federal govt, IT job to take care of the children! We managed on one income for twenty two years! Was not easy!
Both my children are Canadian born, and highly educated; extremely hard working; emigrated to Silicon Valley, Alameda County, California. What the gentleman said in that clip is Spot On!
Parents have to sacrifice a lot for their children to succeed in life! But then, " Sacrifice" itself is a pleasure!
As an Indian Immigrant to USA, it has been ingrained into me the following, Education, hard work, completion of a Task, honestly and with honor to the best of my ability.
Congratulations to you...but the point is whether the upcoming new generation of those successful Indians are inculcated with the same kind of values those successful Indians themselves had in their upbringing...?
You are doing great work bro.Persistence self discipline hardwork smartwork is defeat even any talented guy .
Dhang me kam kario kabhi bejati karaye hmari 😂
@@girijaramarao4252at home yes, in schools no.
Also welcome different beliefs and culture...do not intimidate others
I am an Indian living in Canada. What you say is absolutely true. It is the outcome of our culture.
also lisn-hindi
* apka akhabar
* vijay sardana insight
* the alternate media
* the jaipur dialogue
* def-talks by aadi
* rang de basanti-rajiv choudhary
* har har shambhu by abhilipsa panda n jeetu sharma
* arif aajakia
* sayed muzammil
* ex-muslim-many chalan
thnx....vande mataram
😅😅😅😅😂😂
Yes, parents are very strict this side but very loving and caring also the same time.
2 days ago I was coming back to the college hostel after Diwali holiday ,
My mother was rechecking my bag to make sure whether I'm carrying all things or not & she found I wasn't carrying mobile charger 😂
She is an inspection officer.😅
in india poor and middle class parents rather not eat but collect money for childern to good school ,their first first priority is to give best education to students.
I am Civil Engineering graduate but got job offer from Big MNC of India as a software developer. I learnt all essential things related to software development and its not over now i got selected for masters in data and computational science at IIT jodhpur. IIT's are the best institutes from India. Now i do 5 days work in IT and then saturday and sunday full day 12 hours of masters lectures via online. Imagine being a civil engineer and then landed into software and now doing masters in data science is just because of my parents. Because of my parents i did all these things and now i will take care of my parents for my whole life. They dont need my help coz they are givernment employee but its my duty to take care of them. All the best to you
It is our Culture/Hindu Philosophy working in background🙋.
If you don't have values and principles, there is no much difference between Human and Animals🙋.
We ❤ our Parents😘.
Yeah my father was very judgemental and always adviced me not to drink. Thanks to him I never drank and didn't end up like my drunkard and spoiled friends who became serious alcoholic at small age.
@fusionx9593Alcholic consumption increase in India also tobbacco ( which portugal britisher Dutcc introduced in India ) Urbanisation stress is main reason alcholic drug use increase in Indian youth .
As an Indian Immigrant, discipline, in education was not an option but necessary, an Indian Family is not a practice in a Democratic Household, the rules are strict, Father is the bread earner and is the ultimate arbitrator, Mother is the CEO, and the Oldest Sibling has the next in command depends on his/her capabilities, and this is understood, and not challenged, and the aim is to make the Family proud, by achieving the highest order/ honor.
🙏👍💕🇮🇳yes 😅
I’m an immigrant myself, now in Germany. What I have noticed is that we Indians live below our means, save and invest the rest back home. We also (at least Most of us) as parents ensure that our culture and traditions are kept up although we are in different countries. We are also strict disciplinarians who do not tolerate any nonsense from our children.
Probably the only thing we do differently is to stick to the basics which help in the long run. No YOLO crap is tolerated.
Also, education! Useful education. 😜
I hear you! :D
Why can't Indians be rich in India?
@@robertmitchell8630 we are rich in India, we are also rich abroad. Many economies depend on us. Many organizations want us to work for them in different countries. Many countries need immigrants.. looks like someone is unnecessarily jealous 😅
@robertmitchell8630 feel free to say no to Indian "legal" immigrants. India is happy to have them back. I don't know your definition of rich, but don't try to look at it from a foreign currency perspective. What we get for 100 rupees is much more than 100 pounds. Foreigners can't even imagine the kind of medical service, hospitality, and food we get in India for a fraction of price they spend in their own country.
@@harshau8332 well said!
Literally my mother made my career easy , many time I failed to clear exams , I was frustrated, dishearten, but she has always shown faith in me !
Made me realise life is long don't stick to the failure.
*Winner are the looser who never give up*
Yes Winners are the Losers who never give up. Golden words. Thank you. Hare Krishna.
Parents are mind, intellect and IQ of a child, Grandparents are courage, will and EQ of a child.
Child raised will blossom fully into excellent human being, even if that child don't have formal education, nothing can stop those children's. They already have all the raw material in them.
9:07 this is so true Mother and Son, Father and daughter. 😊 I relate to it like rest of all.
He is right boys are comfortable with moms and girls are comfortable with dad.....you can see this thing commonly in india....it doesn't mean mom doesn't love girl or dad doesn't love boys but the thing is boy scared dad and girl scared mom.....
Indians (hindus) are successful, whereever they are in my personal opinion is, they give importance to family, truth and education of their children.
All'Indians, Jain, budh, Muslim, hindu etc. Why you saying only Hindu
Why Bharat ruled by Mongol Arab Turk Persian Muslim Portugal Dutch Britisher Christian .Casteist mindset Dogma As Bhartiya we leave Arjun Krishna Geeta mindset now we redevelop this question answer based model of Upnishad which help in stem also increase our conciousness like Saint Kabir her Guruji Saibt Ramanand Guru Nanakdevji .
@@ManishKumar-pe3qqIt's ok with Jains & some portions Sikhs but Muslims are not that much of successful & on the name of Buddhist we have just Bhimtas so can't count them as well hope you get your answer
@@aproudjagannathbhaktkaling6054😂
@@aproudjagannathbhaktkaling6054Muslims are successful in Kerala &few other states . With gulp money & all the illegal stuff they do .
@11:37 The only reason why Hindus can adapt to any society and live peacefully with them and other people mostly find hard to live. (Arab world immigrants in Europe)
yes, Indian parents are strict, they toil day and night to provide the best,education, family value...and we keep an eye in everything that's going on in the children's life.We try,to do our best.
Education is important for us in India you can see a single mothers who sell flowers in front of the temple even though the income is low her son and daughter will be studying in a good school.
Why we Indians do better in USA,
(1) America has freedom & liberty. America has built in infrastructure. All we have to do is do our best.
(2) We get more money for our work than we would in India. That is major incentive to work hard & honestly.
(3) We gave total importance to education. In fact. suicide rate is highest suicide rate among students. Kamla Harris was asked about her Harvard education & she gave credits her Indian mother.
I think they are successful because of the hardwork and problem solving nature. I must tell you parents in INDIA focuses strictly on education of their children the most whether if they are rich or poor, education is the priority.
My Parents and every indian's parents can leave eat in a day , but send me School at any cost. Jay Hind.
All the parents in the world should learn Indian parenting system. Proud💪 to be Indian🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳😊😊😊
I don't know why it was very astonishing to you 😂, but i would say the mother-son, father-daughter was the point that i resonated with the most and I think it's the case with almost all kids.
I say that without any judgement or offence meant - it's weird for me and I think for many people in this part of the world - the extent he was explaining it.
@@zuzanareacts In India most of the boys are mother oriented because of father's punishment and when father is in furious mood, mother's shelter like heaven feeling. The daughters are always beloved to father and fathers don't like to punish daughter as son. And due to strictness of father a boy become a stone heart man who can handle any situation easily.
@@animalreaction6100 it's true
@@zuzanareacts yeah i understand where you are coming from
@@zuzanareacts
We know Zuzana
Bharat is very rich in traditional values cultural moral ethics
That r passed by generation to generation
Truly I want to tell you , there is no concept of divorce in Indian civilization, even there is no word in Hindi language like divorce. Jay Hind.
very interesting!!! I appreciate you sharing!
Yes...there is no word for divorce in Sanskrit or Hindi.
Ironically didn't know that but after seeing your comment..I enquired and you are absolutely right 👍🏻👍🏻
Education very important .... Family very important not necessary we stay together as adults but always there for each other...... Financial Savings and investments very important .... Each generation adds to family wealth and passes on to next generation ....
Hindu dharm teaches tolerance n divine love. Seek the Humanity n divinity n divine peace n art of living
It's the basic values like honesty, hard work, dedication , being truthful, high importance to education , tolerant of all religions, faiths etc., are responsible for Indians being successful everywhere . Family values n bonding also help the children stay connected n rooted in our culture n accepting other cultures too .
Well when you come from a competitive environment of 1.45 billion people you just have to make it through no matter what it takes that's what it creates us being us.
I m indian ...i share my secrets with both my mom and dad...they belived in me i.e ...i never fail their belief system...thats why i got a great carrier....
Also as indian parents we stick together.. we dont breakup the family so often and it pays off.
We Indians work hard and we sell our properties to give education for our kids....and we r deeply rooted to our culture...
It is amazing that it took so long for someone to create Patrick’s video because the success of Indian immigrants in the US is not new. Until recently, American TV shows and movies portrayed Indians as convenience store workers and cabbies. I met Jay Choudary because of aa business deal in the late 90’s. His networth was I believe $1.6B and he drove an Chrysler minivan with a missing hubcap. Lol.
Yes, most of it are correct, strict difenetly, I have two daughters, both masters in engineering, both speak excellent German and English besides their mother tongue and one or two Indian languages, high on integrity and loyalty to their organization and their superiors, honest and upright...
wow - very impressive!
In our home masters is a mandatory thing if you don’t do masters it’s bad.
During my schooling my parents expected me to be first in everything even being second is not acceptable. I think it is because of very high competition among students to get into good university everyone is hustling.😂
Sometimes we find over protectiveness really annoying when we are young but as we grow up we realise everything our parents did was for our good. ❤
FAMILY, FAMILY, FAMILY, Outing,holidays, family get together, together celebrating festivals, birthdays, nurturing and caring for the elders and all the family members, all together, always together
It is only matter of pressure of society to have good values and be successful at last this pressure pays off because we go through ultimate pressure and at last we makes it. When we look back all the good things we can remember.
@PraveenKumar. :"we go through ultimate pressure." Under high pressure carbon turns into a diamond. (Carbon has little or no value. While a diamond is very valuable.)
Some time parents are strict but it is compulsory to be strict because children do not know much about world and they have experience of life more .
parents being strict in childhood defintely helped
Indian Hindus see God in their Mother's,Father's,Teachers and Guests,as Mathru Devobhava,Pithro Devobhava,Acharya Devobhava and Athithi Devobhava.
Indian parents 🥰
Main reason for success of Indians is family values, family
You were surprised when he read that indian parents are good at identifying and encouraging different skill sets. This is the new dynamics. Earlier it was only education. As a society India was on survival mode. That striving generation is now giving their kids more than just 9 to 3 school. My kids go to one art and one sport classes after their school hours. My wife runs a music school and she has 400 students in 11 months. So , you can understand that i and my kids are not exceptions. When we talk to these 400 parents , they too are keeping their kids occupied with couple of things other than just school. We keep kids more busy than ourselves. 3 idiots movie is true and depcits my generation and prior generations.
this does feel like a story of my childhood. I had to go to all kinds of extra curricular here - to the point that it was unbearable and I had to put my foot down:D 🙈
@zuzanareacts haha. I can understand. We look at this way - empty mind is a devils workshop. So it's better to keep them occupied than fiddle with internet and bad company. Its better to be exhausted and go to bed than get bored and find ways to spoil yourself. Will do this until they keep their foot down one day 😅🤣
You are doing great - I totally get it :D - I'd do the same ! I think a kid should know how to move (so any dance would be a must haha) and then for a girl self-defence class for sure; and ideally a musical instrument (if talented - I was forced to play the piano - still hate it to this day - lol ) and some sports activity - and who knows maybe coding as well :D.
Yes indian parants are very strict but the way they love and sacrifice their life for kids (except exceptions) makes the kid feel that their parents strictness is valid. It matter of trust.
You love and sacrifice is so heigh that the strictness becomes very little.
in India we beleive in mutual respect while being control as parents and as children going forward . core values do exist . within this brackets there are variations based on the classes .
Believe
18:16 i can proudly say majority of us has no privacy😂
Because of the hardships during the foreign rule and also after the independence Indians are chiefly driven by a sence of insecurity especially while living abroad. That's why they stick to subjects with higher income potential and also maintain close family units as a support system. 🙏
7:21 marriage is sacred in sanatan dharam and works for 7 births
Indian boys always protect👌their sister
I am boy and my mother is everything for me and feel more comfortable talking to my mother
Indian family is run by big dedication from the mother from making breakfast for the family to washing clothes,cleaning all the kitchen and all small chores and then go to work.After that she does most of the shopping,comes home prepares dinner for whole family and has a small break until all members in home.They eat together .those who study she will prepare packed food for them and drop them at school and arrange all her duties as a loyal mother and father earns the family for upkeep of expenses such as mortgage,school fees and running expenses of cars and home. So a joint family with a bond where everyone helps in home and business to be lawful and be good parents and in society hold good values.
I am an Indian now settled in US, and Married to an US White woman, and thankfully my Two daughters, have inherited my genes when it comes to family values and importance of Education, so yes, I can understand some of the traits the narrator mentioned, but the best thing is I had no input in shaping their future, they just gravitated towards their goal and made us proud.
India means Bharat 🇮🇳
In india family structure always comes first(respecting elders, learning from the generational wisdom, questioning them which is the most important part but within the designated respect and learning from their mistakes), because when you have disciplined family structure, which leads to discipline in society, discussing problem in local communities and working toward it, which inturns leads to great results as an individual and as a society.
So the learning starts within the family.
We r From oldest civilization.Still we have joint family system.We grown up our child differently.We parents sacrifice our selve for child's future n contribute to become successful in education n job.We always keep watch for childs success.Our values n disciplines for migrated countries.We have no1 diaspora in the world with population of more than 2crores.
In the history of mankind India was the richest country on this planet until India was captured by British 2 centuries ago.
Moreover from last 15 years Indians are the winners of spelling bee contest in USA.
India reached the mars in the very first attempt, which country did until today.
Mom understands and support son, where dad is also a male so he is very strict with son means whatever you do some fathers will keep an eye on son, and just says no, but moms back them, same with mothers and daughters, because every male knows what males think and like vice versa, not american type of mom son thing 🙂
My parents really did a lot of sacrifice i want to do my best now so i font felt gulty😊
🔴 In India
🔴 Women are Traditional while being a business lady, in army, in politics, all the sectors which are Integral part of the structure of society, they never changed their nature from Feminine to Masculine.
🔴 Men are Traditional Men in India (Culture, Values, Ethics, Morality, Respect, And Mainly He's "Dharma" in Family or in Society, Providing Protection, Resources, etc.)
🔴 Thankfully Feminism or any foreign Ideology didn't work here.. instead of that.. women equality with understandings of beautiful natural difference between Men and Women, Women Empowerment Efforts, Equal Rights and Opportunities for Women On Ground did work.
🔴 Everything is not perfect, but things are working much better here.
It's true my mom knows more about me than my dad.
All credit goes to Indian parents.
They will have meal once in a day and save money to give their child good education.....
O my god .He is 100% true .my age is 25 even now my mother beat me if I not reached home before 9 pm😅😅😅😅😅
I am an immigrant Indian. Liked your video.
I agree with your analysis. Indian parents generally fair and not strict.
One greatest ingredient is LOVE all.SERVE all
Yes even my home has rule not to use phone after 10 pm. Exception for studies it is allowed...
It is all about our culture, family ethics, Nation ethics, religion..... Jay Hind. Jay Bharat. Vande Matram. Proud Nation The Bharat ❤❤🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
We venture into a lot of extra-curricular activities like various kinds of sports, dance, music, etc. But most parents think of these as hobbies and not career paths
Talent,hard work play a major role.apart from these,US is a land if opportunity.They give credit,to the deserved.
I am now in US,daughters house.The amount of exposure for kids to library, and brain stimulating activities
are mind boggling.
Every Sunday,there will activities like petting zoo,harvest festival,bubble show,keep snakes for kids to touch,fathers day,lantern festival.innumerable ..
Kids hand & brain are activated.
Indian parents are hungry for such things.so they never miss it.(Asian parents)
India was never unsuccessful. it was portrayed as such in the west & people thought they were poor when India was solely holding more then 55% of the GDP alone but was Looted/dropped down to 27% then 3% in the past 200-500 years. Nalanda & Tashya Shila, Vikramaditya and many more universities were destroyed and they Brought Mclayan Education system to make obedient slaves who followed orders without questioning them. there's a Famous quote " if u want to destroy an entire generation destroy their freedom of Thinking & Learning ". cause Learning is creation not Consumption, Knowledge isn't something a Learner absorbs but a Learner Creates. Batukeshwar Dutt & Bagha Jatin, Mastarda Surya Sen and many more were killed who opposed it. its a long history of war crime & such and i saw one person who came to India talk about it & how they were never tought this part of history. Truth to be Honest Good people are everywhere & loved that people like you are out there who are Conscious & doing whats possible for the betterment of society and spreading Good messages to everyone. one thing is true when ur on the path to become better nothing will stop you and we are with you. love your videos & keep doing what u love
Well said
They are family oriented and place great importance in their children’s education.
Indians are a family oriented,culture sensitive community.Once married partners hardly cheat each other ,stay faithful to each other for their life.They raise kids &pass them the same cultural values.They teach their kids with whatever they have in their possession & make them qualified to follow their suit so that they can look after them when they become old& retired.This is a continual family culture.The western culture doesn’t respect family values So they suffer the most Sorry for that guys.
Right bro ! Babanyya kai vishesh ! Bara ahes na tu bhava !
Brother, co living with family is not cost cutting, that is what we want at any cost
Divorce rate is even low in Hindus..
bcoz we believe we marry for 7 lives..
hence we usually marry one & die with one..
excluding exceptions..
and yes we do luv our parents..
and we feel uncomfortable without parents shelter on our head..
all related to KARMA
if u do good things..
u get good things in next life
or ur soul is absorbed in god : salvation ( no birth again )
whoever do wrong with parents, wife, human beings, life forms
are punished, and re birth is based on Karma..
In the West, I feel it almost expected that a family is with kids, and you follow a status quo of not investing in the child for thier own good. It is more that you buy a puppy, and see this as a toy so you fawn over the puppy and buy the best toys, but you are not developing the puppy. Kids are not an extention of ourselves, we can never bring up a kid, as each person is an individual. It is the parent's duty to understand that we have to find the potential of the child and nuture this. We as a culture do not want thanks for this, by means of a special Christmas gift or Diwali gift, we try to enhance the reality of life and encourage self growth of personal potential. Having said this we never abandon them as we are still bonded by a family bond. We will remain their parents and look after the kids when they need to earn money and by living with us we save money and they save money. The Kids then have a respect of elders as well as a second generation knowledge. As with arrangenged marriages, this is a falsehood, we have introductions, these can be agreed upon or even shunned, but when agreed both families are totally binded, and if there are any family problems we come together as a family to try and help. At the end of the day if you instill trust in your elders, who knows you better than your parents. The problem with the west they want to outsouce care, love, and even their kids, so the culture is when you are 18 you are out the house, and now I have my freedom, as a parent that supposidely has done my duty for 18 years it is all on the kid. Maybe that kid will see his parents or Grandparents a Christmas. You isolated them and threw them to the wolves.
Indian parents are not very strict based on dogmatic blind faith religious beliefs but are firm practitioners of firm and uncompromising diacipline to keep the children on the path of right from wrong behaviour and conduct in society
Perfect analysis
Family value and believe are most important
I remember when I was a kid....when my father came from the 1st question he asked us is what happened in school....
Historically our culture is open to all Ideas, philosophy, in India God is not all you can question God, hence in Hindus there are Atheist, Monotheist, Polytheist, no discrimination, all coexist we say God is within you no need to rely on outside, Our culture teaches First" Maatha, Pitha Guru, Daivam"( Mother, Father, Teacher and then God ). Education and knowledge are given highest value.
EDUCATION is Strength.... Bottom Line
I am an Indian, but not an US Migrant, and my wife is Bachelor of Hemeopathic Sciences and completed her Master of Public Health. She has sacrificed her degrees only to raise our two kids to a better level. There was no support from either of us parents as we are staying in Bangladesh for the past 20 years, Believe me, if my wife would hv not sacrificed, i could hv not thought to raise my two sons till now class 12 and class 10 respectively. She is the real Heaven of our family. And we all three just obey her words. I show my gratitude to her for sacrifice always. I Salute her for her deed.
One other important factor is Indian parents take care of their parents as well and live in the same household . The west doesn’t realize that Grandparents love and care from the very childhood has a profound impact on their children’s well-being and they too inform take care of the parents . This concept of living together is laughed at by westerners but that’s the secret . Tye child is under constant scrutiny and also gets love and emotional support . Also you will see Indian Mothers will make their children pray and they also go to temples regularly or weekly once actually so spiritualism and the sense of doing good deed over bad deeds gets instilled like an iron pillar from very childhood so that’s you never see an Indian robbing a gas station .. what I find most problematic in western parents is they do not make them pray regularly at home and also generally not strict in maintaining discipline and gives them an open leash . Children needs to be monitored like a hawk untill they cross their teens until they become responsible adults and Sven after that Indian parents will baby sit their kids , save save save for their kids so that they have a stable life so sacrifice is also important until western parents YOLO concept spend , splurge on vacation , cars etc useless material things and save nothing for kids and tell them to get at out 18 and go make your own living … Save money , live together for life with parents , take care of parents and children and pass your inheritance to your next generation so they already have a head start rather working from ground up .. That is why HUF - Hindu Undivided Famiky has been success for centuries and will continue to be successful . It’s an institution on its own .🙏
Our parents are hard on us not because they hate us but because they want us to be successful when we are out of our rebellion age
well some people build a narrative here that Indians are not punctual and disciplined. But the thing is, here in India they want us to work day and night and in return give peanuts as salary. So why would someone work hard even if he is capable to do so. In pragmatic sense we are very punctual to the work.
The great majority of those immigrants are from the upper caste of brahmis and when they immigrate to the West they already come with lots of money...
Where are you getting that data from?
How nice...only if they can do this magic in their home country.
You are right mostly Indian parents very strict about family discipline and Daily routine Life ex. Not sleep late night and wake up early morning at 5:30 Am to 6:30 am.
I never use abusive words when sitting with family. And
There is one good thing i noticed many Indian Immigrants take their Spiritual Life spiritually and they abstain with unhealthy habits like Meat ; Intoxication; Gambling; Illicit Sexual Relationship"s etc which gives them upper hand then their other counter parts as most of people loose up their savings in such habits. .and Healthy Family Relationships in India can be attributed Sacred text of Ramayana which has perfect example of what is ideal Role model or perfect Relationship whether it is of Husband; wife; Servant; Ruler ; Friends; Brothers; Parents and all other relationships
it's not only indians even jews aur parsis are also very successful😅😅
I am hindu , but u r right !
I hated my parents growing up but now I understand.... And appreciate how much efforts were put in.... One thing I hated most was waking up at 4 am go for a run but now I do this willingly
The 10 points he mentioned makes sense in the more richer and educated households in India, they are also the ones who mostly emigrate, but some of them are not true for normal middle class parents in India especially the talent one😅
Also the father-daughter and son-mother thing is actually very true, I feel very close to my mother and so do most of my friends whereas my sister feels more connected to my father, maybe it's not that u would share everything with them but generally u feel more emotionally connected to them (mother-son and father-daughter), that's what I've experienced too. I also think it comes because for girls it's mostly their mothers who take on the role of instilling values in them and teaching them right and wrong so they are generally more strict with daughters and same is with boys and fathers, so they are generally more comfortable with the less strict parent
9:07
What if there's only one kid 😂
I had strong bonding with my father.
We together play and watch cricket whereas my mother things cricket is the worst and last things to watch😂😂
So it vary , personally I equally love my parents and they do same with me and my sister
Dear Man, I made this (membership program community post) comment jokingly, please do not take my comment to heart. If you feel bad because of my comment, I apologize.If you are running a channel with your hard work and starting a membership program, then there is nothing wrong.so sorry My comment is only for England and For Britain. you make very good videos зuch बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद
You start a membership program, whoever likes it will join, otherwise there is no problem. Bright your future God bless you
❤ Love untainted for you Zuzana from India. Give your smiles to us again and again as you are so sweet within and without!
India love ❤ you! 😅
In just two generations we became poor to super rich. It is the story of many families in indians.
In India, parents look after and take care of their children till their old age... Iam in a society where grand parents care for their grand kids.. At their old age, the children take care of their parents.. It's a natural cycle.. ❤
Everything boils down to the kids. You will probably be surprised that Indian are not even aiming for all the success this video lists about. All they are aiming for is to provide very good to their kids and raise them up with values, empathy and belongingness.
The degrees, income, low divorce rates are a result of focusing on kids. Not the other way.