0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Mystery Song 🎵 2:10 🎵 Field Coffee, Pt. 6 by Fields of Coffee 🎵 3:57 🎵 Voyage by Chris Westlake 🎵 7:17 🎵 Mystery Song 2 🎵 8:52 🎵 Bossa Lisboa by Sonic Moon 🎵 10:33 🎵 Cuban Cigar (Reduced Mix) by Peter Godfrey 🎵 13:35 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵 16:37 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, It's So Important For Men to Start Strong , Fragrances of the day Le Labo Gaiac 10, Le labo Poivre 23 Nasomatto Pardon 24:38 Levels for men: Esquire, age 18-29, GQ or Bachelor/Playboy 30+ 49:44 1st Caller Austin age 33 1:03:05 2nd Caller Cameron age 22, 3rd Caller Ahmed age 29, 4th Caller Brian age 25, 5th Caller Robert age 22 1:18:08 6th Caller Nick , 7th Caller Abraham age 38 , 8th Caller age 22, 9th Caller age 27, 10th Caller Jeremiah age 29 1:42:19 11th Caller Raheem age 19, 12th Caller Donovan age 19, 13th Caller Craig age 29, 14th Caller Reshaw age 26 2:05:00 15th Caller, 16th Caller Andrew age 34, 17th Caller age 27, 2:13:43 Closing words 2:17:17 Outro
This is the best advice any man in his 20s & early 30s could ever hear. The only thing men should focus on in these ages is getting in great shape, growing in your career & building alliances.
lies and fallacies.they give you this dvice so they can have access to your counterparts. if you want marriage look now young women will use you and they don't want an old man. i cant believe you men cannot see these older men are manipulating you.
@Jet Lifeif women are choosing bad men and choosing to have fun in their 20s and marry later on how many of you old menz are marrying them? Men need to be held accountable the advice should be preparing young men to stop fooling around and marry young so they don’t have to start paying bottom of the barrel young women( look wise cause we all know all the young baddies are dating men closer in age) for companionship. Do you want to be 40 paying for companionship even 30 for the really really deformed men? Find a young woman now trust me we don’t want to wake up to wrinkly men just for money. We prefer men our age get their crap together now.
@Jet Life let’s not forget statistics back up that huge age gap relationships are very very small percentage so we know it’s not happening unless it’s a third world countries where women have no choice because if they have a choice it will always be young men so why don’t you make videos to straighten up these boys.
Fellas I haven’t even watched the show yet but I’m telling you. 1. Get your funds up before taking on women seriously regardless of your age. 2. Get into shape (for yourself not women) 3. Protect your peace. Only keep people around that are positive and on their purpose. 4. Be very direct with women you deal with regardless of how they may take it. 5. Build a great network! I really encourage joining a fraternity or some professional organization. You will need like minded men around you! 6. Be very proficient in whatever field you are in!
Step 5 is murdering me right now. Got everything on wrap with the other steps but what is an organization? Is it something I find outside of work? I socialize with the best of them but it seems to be nothing but coworkers. I'm seriously thinking about scheduling an appointment with KS but never enough time in my schedule to do so, so I'm playing catch up with a handful of his videos and seeing some insight in the comment sections like this one.
I’m 28. I turn 29 this year. Had i dated instead of engaging in relationships. I wouldn’t have dealt with as much emotional trauma as I did. If I had been more direct with my intentions, women wouldn’t have gotten hurt. Traveling and learning a second language is still on the radar. Excellent opening monologue Godfather
Your intentions should be to find a wife, not to date, AKA. sleep around. As soon as you realize a girl is not your wife, instead of sleeping with her, you should move on. That’s the right thing to do. It’s good to get married young. If you don’t, you’ll end up a baby daddy, old, single and bitter like KS. This is what he should be telling you.
Shows like this one illustrates how important it is for older men to impart wisdom for the younger ones. These arent bad young men, they just don't have the proper guidance at an early age
This broadcast proves that there’s a need for fellowship amongst men ONLY! A lot can get done when young lions can learn from seasoned men who have come before them. Well played Mr. Samuels.
Agreed Because the way some of these men were speaking it’s like no confidence or direction I’m glad I have my father and mother because man if I called in question would’ve been a sentence or two and that’s it.
It's a lot of intelligent men in the comments. Proud of you guys for absorbing guidance and dropping gems with each other. There's some high value men and some high value men in the making.
goud_time your lucky that ur older than me i would of went in on you. this man is. whole predator giving these advice to young boys so they can have access to us and youre stupidly keep keeping and agreeing. knowing damn well old men are predators
If your able to get KS advice in your 20 it’s literally treasured gems for fartherless men im 29 and started listening to him at 27 it’s things I disagree here and there but honestly I see this man doing no wrong and he focused like a laser on his culture and helping future generations this man is a gold mine ✨💎🐐💯
@@nathantaylor-saint5931 why figure it out on your own when those with age and knowledge can help you along the way ? I’m 30 but I wish I had some of this advice as a 20 yr old. That being said I turned out alright lol Just don’t knock any of these chicks up and stay outta prison bruh and you’ll be fine
Kevin is right about having a passport. I got mines at 26, and I have visited, Colombia, Germany, Dominican Republic, (not the resorts) and my last place was Vietnam. Brothers get your passports.
@@Oakley63tall I did actually. After all the traveling I knew I wanted a Colombian wife. I talked to my current wife now for over a year and then we married. Been married for almost 3 years
@@thetruthhurts131 Congratulations! That's a blessing bro! Yea, through the Army, I did my fair share of traveling but I never mad it to Colombia. I have a good friend of mine (Marine) who left his job in DC and moved to Medellin. My wife is half Cuban, half Colombian and we've been married for 8yrs now. Not to say that I wanted a Latina specifically. I wanted a woman who was fit, feminine, and friendly. Much like KS talks about.
This has been my greatest and most important asset. You dont know what you have until you go to these countries and realize how fortunate we have it here in the states.
Men's week should be a monthly event. This was truly enlightening. Just off of this show alone I was able to assess where I am and where I need to go. Appreciate you sir. 1 job for finances and the 2nd for investing in my skills.
Bachelor life for me, just turned 30, veteran/college educated and been making six figs for the past couple of years with no plan on stopping.The grind don’t stop, do the work.
Mr. Samuels thank you. I really needed this. I’ve been truck driving for three years now. But it’s not my passion. I was getting twisted by emotions and losing sight of the goal. Hearing you tell another person in the same boat as me that passions aren’t it was exactly what I needed to hear. I’m sorry going to put another couple of years on the books trucking and try to learn how the game is ran from the owner side of the house and try my luck. I’m feeling so motivated to get more active in my life and make proper moves for change. You may never read this but you sincerely just changed my life. Thank you sir.
I definitely need to hear this. I turn 25 this year and even tho I’ve got a lot of things done last year I feel so behind because of where some of my friends/peers are in life. I had to get off social media because of all the comparing I was doing. Just because I don’t have everything now doesn’t mean I’m a failure.
Yes brother I did the same but I am turning 23 this year. It’s okay to compare yourself we are man and want to compete but still be realistic with yourself. Set a short and long term goal to obtain a high income skill. College isn’t even bad if you decide to go back because bro four years will fly by before you even know it. So rather if you go to college or trade school make a plan to finish. It’s all about planning because you don’t want to be in the same position when your 35.
Don’t EVER compare yourself to the next man! Cuz you will never be satisfied with yourself! But instead be motivated, and use that as fuel to grind harder!
Slow and steady wins the race, brother! I stayed in school from my bachelor's to doctorate degrees, and people thought I was crazy. It took years to accomplish but doing so put me ahead of my critics financially in the end. Stick to it and pursue your own personal goals. Don't forget to reward yourself in some way for each milestone you reach.
*KEVIN PREACHING!!!! The young Man I was in my 20's could NEVER compete with what I became in my 30's it's not even close. I'm looking at my 40's coming up in a couple years with a smile. No kids, never Married. Happy with it.*
@@zoerpm6493 *MAN!!* When I discovered Credit, Leverage, deferred comp', Roth, etc... it was off to the races and everything seemed to come together in the span of a year. I could have gave this Game to so many people and saved so much time. But the point is, We got started! Best of Luck and Success to You Brother!
LMAOO you wish!!! no young woman wants a washed up man we want young boys. if young men cant compete with you why do you need to manipulate them with this type of advice so you can sweep in and get young women? even though young women we still dont want you. yeh right SOOO YOUTH, HOTTER BODDIES, BETTER FACES, ABLE TO LAST LONGER IN BED CANT COMPETE WITH SOME WASHED UO GUY? KEEP DREAMING
As a 30 year old, happily married, Latino, I appreciate all of this!! I have a younger brother I share your channel with all the time. I hope he paying attention because this is gold.
If it's one thing I would've done while in college was be apart of a Fraternity. Being from the hood, I was taught it was all about spanking, hazing, and dancing. I had no clue it was about brotherhood, networking, and socializing. When you don't know you don't know. I now tell my younger cousins to join if they can because I know it will help build their future and network. Shoutout to all the Frat guys. If I had a choice, I would've pledged Kappa or Alpha.
Smh..... Im talking to my son right now at 4. He doesn’t understand anything right right now. But every single day I talk to him about things. those conversations gonna come back around. when he gets old enough to understand and if the Fraternity ever comes up it’s a hell no. went to a kappa and Alpha party / event in Atlanta I can’t even say it it was so disgusting. I will never fucking attend anything ever in life that involves a man fraternity. You don’t have to join a fraternity to be successful big homie. prime example: in my early / mid 20s I was a stick up guy in Atlanta and beat a 40 year sentence. Fast forward to 38 now I run my own show and I don’t even network at all. However my network of brains that’s around are beautiful. You know what got me here? Having no regrets, when I say I’m going to doing something do it, spreading love, being shrewd and referrals. every single one of my contracts including government contracts were referrals putting in that work out here. Now I’m reaping the benefits being able to chill a little. tell your cousins to make gain that killer instinct, drive, dedication, motivation, and the willingness to put in work. work 80 hrs a week. I still work 80-90 a week in my business because I’m trying to retire at 43/45. Network is nothing if there’s no drive, dedication, or no motivation.
I'm an old-school Nupe like KS. While fraternity does give you a built-in network, being a quality guy is much more important than the network itself. If you're not a hard-working man with character and integrity, then people can't refer you without taking a hit to their own reputations. So, be a top-notch guy first. Then, building and utilizing a network - whether that includes a fraternity or not - is much easier.
One of the first black-men in the US to become a Billionaire (Reginald F Lewis) was from the so called Hood (Baltimore) my home town. He never joined a Frat, and was just as successful if not more the frats guys. Who depend on government and entertainment industry to make it in this world! The rarely ever create their own! The late Mr. Lewis has written a must read book (Why should White guys have all the fun) for any black man getting into business. He also has a school teaching business to the black community. I don't see Frats doing that. Frats look out for their frats and nobody else black outside of that. That why I could never join a group like that.
Really needed to hear this show as I enter 2022. I'm 22 and moved out last yr in Feb to be independent when the reality was I just wanted to do what I wanted, smoke weed, get drunk, and have sex with girls. But now I'm focusing more on my purpose and what I wanna do in life. Changing jobs so I can focus more on school that I'll be starting in March. Trade school in hvac&r, renewed my gym membership, blocked a couple #'s. I'm ready to do the work. Grind time💯
dont listen to this guy you will end up 40 bitter paying young women to be with you while theyre fantasising bout your 22 year old self probably cheat on you too. grind and find a respectful girl now while your still preferred as a young guy. besides the more successful when your young the more women youll get to choose from who will see you as prise for being that age and thats successful or almost where as when your old your not a prise but. sugar daddy. but kevin wont tell you that though.
@@audreysgrandchild8218 Are you assuming that I'll be fat and not as good looking at 40? Lol bruh older versions look better than younger. Well that's if the guy has been eating healthy, working out and be in shape. But that's not me so.......
@@jariuscollins7340 HAHAHA older versions look better than younger? if thats the case why is age gap relationships such a TINY portion? ill tell you why because women think men that age are CREEPS. no one wants a 40 year old. young men are your biggest competition. ive never ever in my life seen a hot 12-28 year old with a 40 year old man no one wants you. because young boys will always be your biggest competition thats why when your past 30 something the entertainment industry recycles you and finds younger men to be 18-26 yer olds eye candy. you look so much better at 40 YET young women use men your age for money and want young men for relationship and bedroom intimacy cause of the hotter body/youtful face and stamina. delusional creep 😂 im so glad i'm calling out men and their delusional circle jerking each other to put down older women whilst being OLD themselves get out of your purverst fantasies young women are checking for you.
This is real shit. When I look back at my High school days, I was unsuccessful with women until my Senior year. It was because I had more access to money and a car that I didn’t have my previous 3 years. I was always a good looking guy but girls only went with upper class men or other older guys outside of school. It was only because they could do more for them. Now, that I had a job my senior year and a car, I brought more value to myself for them. This is even true in the work place. When you’re a young guy and just starting out, you’re not going to have access to money and materials like a 40+ year old. Kevin is right to just stick to your grind and you’ll eventually get there through time. It’s all in the game and once your get it, stick with it.
I just listened to a video from your archive that came up automatically from RUclips. It was called "Are Modern Women Angry Today" and was published 12-31-2020. I usually never listen to long episodes because I need to be working like you say men should be doing. You taught a lot on that particular show. There were numerous women who called in and were mad that you were dealing with the same problem that Shahrazad Ali has been focusing on since the 1980's. Thank you for speaking up for our demographic within society. Thank you for continuing to work hard and make the truth known despite the fact that there is a large portion of our community that throws you under the bus because they want to continue in this circle of insanity. Too many people in our community have allowed themself to be programmed in a way that will only cause things to get worse instead of better.
The “Voice Box Tone” KS is talking about is usually a tell sign of boys growing up mostly around women with no men in the picture to assimilate on how they should speak. These boys usually adapt to the women around them. Which is why this is extremely vital to boy’s growth and maturity, which mothers can not provide a teenage young man in his adolescent years.
It can be the man who doesn’t want to be in the picture as a father and it can also be the mother who drives the man away from the home. Both scenarios can cause the same problem. My mother was a single mom and my dad was abusive to her. So she was forced to run from him. But my mother knew enough to say that we needed sports in our lives and men mentors to help us along the way. It will behoove the mother to do what it takes in order for the boys to live a life how they are intended to live as strong productive men. I have an older sister with two sons. They are adults now, but for the sake of this discussion. Both parents were in the same home through their upbringing. I noticed that the older boy always wanted to be with his father and the younger one always came up with excuses not to go with them. What happened as a result, he grew up with the tendency of wanting to be around his mother all of time and that meant he was going to the hair salons and hanging around my sister’s girlfriends, which began to be noticeably changing his mannerisms to more feminine. Now, whenever we happened to be at family gatherings, I noticed that his brother and his father don’t appear to be very close to him and distant. So don’t waste the time on pointing your finger, but why not be more mindful of these things.
@@michaelangelo4147 It tends to be the mother also due to the fact that 54% of bm are single and childless. 30% of bm are married. Among the rest is a small percentage of pookies women are picking to sleep with. That's why w have an 80% percentage of out of wedlock birth rate. That abusive scenario is not in mass.
I like that at 1:29:27 KS state's that males with lower speaking Voices tend to have better outcomes with Women AND MEN pretty much shattering that high pitch dude cause he has no audience with either gender.
I recently came across Mr. Samuels content & I'm absolutely greatful I did because he has confirmed a lot of what I already knew about certain topics 💯
The frist 45 mins just felt like a dagger thrusting deep into my soul. At 30 6 figures (Pretoria Rands). lost my network due to covid and working from home haven't helped either. I'm mentality fit and physically unfit. This Men's week is definitely gonna change lives.. The outcome is key. THANKS to the GodFather. I got the Memorandum...
I have a small business that I moonlight on when I'm not doing my day job. My nephew, who's a junior in college, asked me for advice because he wants to own a business too. I explained to him that the first thing he's going to need to do is develop a skill in something. I told him that after he had a skill he could focus on marketing it to the right audience. He understood it when I told it to him, but I think he was looking at the destination without thinking about the journey. Build those skills fellas!
so women 18-25 should get married who will they marry if youre telling men our age to ignore us and focus on work... bunch of paedos trying to get acess to young women
This is one of the best episodes ever. Tons of gems for young men today. Tough love, but honest love from KS. I had to learn all this stuff by living it. I’m sending this to my boys.
Great lessons to learn. So many of us were taught the exact opposite by our single mothers and pastors, which explains why we're still playing catch-up ball in our 40s and beyond...
@@SynterraSteen fathers do stay but only if the mother doesn’t have spite out for the man, because that’s what it is a lot of the time the man simply doesn’t want to be with you and women take that to the heart and take the child away as well… cmon now
Currently making 75,500+ annually, aside, having wedding photography side hustle income & still in college finishing an Economics degree, no debt, & doing BJJ/Krav Maga 2x a week plus the gym religiously. Work is done well when focused on your purpose fellas. I'm 26 and not into video games nor am I into them Netflix binging. I literally have no time. One last step is to find my first house, God willing. I would love to appreciate Mr. Samuels for what he is doing for us millenial men honestly, Because so many things are draining off the traditional mantra. Building a circle of supportive manhood and men of strive and success? It's vital! I'm working on that right now with few men + More to come, that I would like to see myself in thr next 5 years. For the persona type, I feel like I'm a rogue for the moment. Anywho, Stay focused gentlemen!
I'm 48, DINK'S and Kevin is giving a plethora of good advice & gems, much I learned & realized growing up, throughout college years. Have a network, bide your time, stay focused/on your purpose and don't get tied down young. Women come later, a by product of success & being on your purpose. They will come.
Mr. Samuels is very correct about the importance of having a network, connections, and proper communication skills! The Lion's share of the opportunity I have professionally and personally benefitted from has been as a result of my network and my people skills even more so than my resume! Knowing how to network and have positive interactions with people is probably my most beneficial and highest-earning skill! Thank you for this great show! Peace and Love to the Godfather
I personally am in the Construction Industry; specifically a Engineer and Architect. It’s hard sometimes but hearing Kevin say “you can deal with your passion after 45” put me in the gear and check I needed to keep moving.
Hey man! I’m Isaiah from Los Angeles working on my bachelors in Civil engineering, is there anyway we can get in contact !? I’ve been trying to network and talk about the contraction industry
I needed this about 35 years ago. I'm almost 59 and I didn't even know half of this stuff by 35----which put me perpetually behind the curve. I "played" right through the years I had my greatest opportunities to meet the right woman and become high value. Now, I'm disabled (blind, among other challenges), middle income and unattractive to women I once smashed with great regularity. For me, it's too late. Time can run out on you, too, my brothers.
The average guy can’t afford to jetset to find a desirable woman let alone foot the bill to bring her back to the states and support her family in the process (this is common). The males I know who’ve done this are all high earners who had the time & resources. This isn’t everyone’s game so I find it odd its so loosely thrown out there as an automatic fix.
or at 50+. Your upside may be limited when you get older, but fixing your game will still pay off. I wish I knew a lot of this stuff when I was young, instead of listening to a misanthrope telling me I don’t need anybody else.
I know this was for the young men,but I thoroughly enjoyed Kevin's insights and opinions.I think everyone could benefit from listening to this particular topic. Keep inspiring Kevin!
Man, I really appreciate this wisdom. I'm about to turn 25 and have been listening for a year. I can't book a session as I just started working, I'm looking to build a network and finding my wolfpack. The future does look bright indeed. Cheers to the godfather
It’s amazing how in life by the time you learn the way the world works and the skills needed to thrive often you are out of the window of opportunity to use it to your advantage. I’m 25 black man and just keep learning and refining everyday. Thank you for the content.
As long as you're in your twenties you still have plenty of time. I always felt like I was too late to do something but as I've gotten older I learned it's never too late. I didn't get my bachelor's until I was 28, and now about to finish my masters at 30. Took until I was 27 to cut out the weed and drinking and impulsive dating. I remember feeling shame when I was a 21 year old freshman in college (got kicked out a few months later due to the drinking), but didn't think twice about when I had to go back at 27.
@@betenoire2534 for sure bro 💯💯💯. I really don’t think you are middle age till 45. 30’s is like your 20’s especially if you took care of yourself. We all have something to offer be it advice wisdom or mistakes to learn from. Truth be told bro as harsh as it sounds some people’s purpose in life to an extent is to be a cautionary tale of what not to do. I read books workout 5 days a week I focus on short and especially LONG term success and gratification. Delay temporary pleasures in favor of long term success that is more valuable and harder to get. I like short term stuff too and have fun but in limited moderation. I found that when we can’t get what we really want that’s when vices turn to coping mechanisms. If I can’t get a legit decent woman to date I’ll date every single mom that comes my way so I won’t be alone at least for example etc. I’d rather spend that time in the gym or reading or approaching women in real life and screening out who I want vs just allowing anyone in my life. Life is a marathon not a sprint.
@@betenoire2534 you seem very wise and I appreciate your feedback. If you had 5 tips advice and things you wish you knew younger what would they be. I appreciate you bro💯💯💯
This was well Needed and right on Time. I'm a Gonna Take Heed in The Message. We're only as Good as our Connections.. As, it determines our overall Value as Men.
Yup! Life is all about connecting & networking! I got my small little circle & all, but I've always been the loner or lone wolf 🐺 if you will & that was work against, so I decided to become part of the pack!
I was at my brother's soccer practice when his friend said to another player: "The problem with broke people is that they try to do everything by themselves". Dude was probably 18 at the time; I was about 19 or 20. That little sentence that I heard on accident changed _so much_ of my life, I cannot even begin to recount!
This was an amazing broadcast and definitely needed for our younger men in total. Everyone should earmark this one whenever women state that his tone is too strong and he’s not critical of men. How many times in this broadcast did he call bs on men being lazy or not earning. It was a perfect blend of tough love and great advice. Props to Mr Samuels
Not addressing it was the best approach. He doesn't know this young man. Best to stay on topic. Secondly, Kevin has said several times that most people are addicted to something in today's world.Haha
The young man needed to listen before calling in. Some men are just like women. They don't listen, then call in and just ramble on. He said many times, have your question ready. Don't call in and give a monolouge. This is why he cut many of them off in the middle of their long ass speech.
To big up each other is the wolf pack/ network’s ethos, our patience is only Broken by the “ extreme “. RIP KS♥️🇯🇲 Let’s build the NETWORK to keep our brother with us.🙌🏿
Fellas, stop putting all this pressure on yourselves to succeed right away or else you’re a loser, I love how Kevin says that you gotta wait til 40 to critique yourself. I’m a Young Millennial and I’m a Sales Consultant at Office Depot and while I don’t necessarily see it as my “final destination” I enjoy and am Blessed to have my job! I never thought I’d be doing it after my Associates degree at a local Community College called Cedar Valley and in Sports Broadcasting/Communications from Prairie View(love the PV S/O btw) but the environment for Sports Broadcasting television wise ain’t it to me. I do have a Anchor Channel I like and cling to but otherwise nothing else on that front. I said all that to say, I’m not close to 40 but God Willing IF I get there, I’ll be in better shape overall from strictly a financial standpoint particularly to move forward with things that deal with money unfortunately.
@The Esquire of Sports ® Yes Sir, Kevin said that too or some iteration of it and it’s true, I was a FedEx unloader several years ago while doing college, those types of jobs keep you humble and knowing what you want to do or don’t and that’s life too. Thank You for the encouragement and you too bro and I know you said you don’t have the patience for us younger guys but hang in there with us, we need GOOD older and elder leadership too.
After listening to the women who call in over the last couple of months, and listening to the men today, there is a common thread that is most lack basic guidance and structure, which comes from a father.
Man, 40 years and up life's good and at 50 it's great! Real good. Shouldn't have been so hard on myself wanting it all now in my 20's. One of our college roommates pledged Alpha. In fact, he became a rock star on campus and was celebrated after he crossed.
Kevin has mad patience, because some of these early callers are just too wordy for my tolerance level. It's amazing the amount of folks, who don't listen and can't answer direct questions. It's like conversing with children.
If I could do my early years all over again, I would have joined a fraternity. I went through most of my first decade and beyond, after college, going at it alone...and let me tell you that it was HARD. It stunted me socially and trying to make up for that as I have gotten older was difficult. It's not impossible, but you are really making life harder for yourself, when you don't have that circle formed between your freshman year in college and your mid 20's
Young men, quit looking for the quick win. The quick win is something that you do in addition to developing yourself and your career. It's not the primary focus for your income at that age.
fax, had this exact same thought this morning. I'd rather have my foundations laid out for my career than postpone that for a high risk high reward instrument with zero transferrable skills
Very good show. I wish this kinda content was available when I was building. We had to learn from try and error. Basically we kept failing in my day until something stuck and then we pushed it. Very good content here and I hope these young men can use the info to better shape their thinking about the future.
I needed this video. I just moved to Charlotte for work in September & turned 28 on Monday, but I’m so unhappy with my life right now. I have to get my life together
For the truck driver: he's already in. He can apply for a small business loan, start a logistics business and have people contracted to drive for him...he already knows the ins and outs of the business; apply that knowledge and do his own thing...
@@reese85 never said it was easy. I have a good friend in Florida who's doing it and trust and believe it can be chaotic... but knowing that you have people doing it for you and it's your business, I think it's worthwhile. My brother is even thinking about doing it... I'm looking into the home dispatch part for supplementary income...I say go for it big bro. Again it isn't easy but the way things are going now with the supply chain all screwed up, logistics is where the bread is it.
I appreciate that. I’m definitely going to do it this year, I’m just enjoying not having to worry about the important stuff when it comes to owner operator. I’m jumping off the porch this year
It’s Really Simple Put Yourself In A Position Where You’re Financially Free And Grow You Some Balls And Don’t Worry About Women So Much A Lot This Stuff Will Just Come To You Find The Balance ⚖️
Great episode, wish you were around when i was young lol. took me decades to figure this shit out now I'm 52 and still learning. Keep it up for the younger ones Kevin, much love to the show.
dont listen to him. he is very jealous of you. he tells young women to get married fast but tells young men to not focus on women so tell me who will the young women end up with... you guessed it these geriatric old paedophiles like him who want acess to young girls. theyre pervert trying to wipe out the competition and you are his competition because your young youthful basically what young women want. no matter what. he knows yiu being young you wont be seen as a creep and have easier acess to us. where as he has to spend lots of money i pray you find a better mentor please think logically. if this man cred about you he would be telling you to find a woman who is willing to build and get married at a young age
@@audreysgrandchild8218 oh my god would you shut up? Men being attracted to younger women is literally in male nature; if you don't like it take it up with the creator. there is nothing wrong with that. I don't understand why you care. As long as she is legal age it doesn't matter. I could easily counter complain and say "well why do women like men who have money, or who are tall, or who are powerful, or who are famous", but I'm not going to do that because I know why; because it's in women's nature. So just get over it.
This has been the best show "for me" in a very long time! Throughly enjoyed this one and I also noticed that we had no sound issues? Maybe women's shows are plagued by the Big Shirley curse after all. Hopefully there will be more of these together with women's shows. A bit of both I reckon.Variety.
Do you hear the difference in men's week? Do you hear how much more... Respectful the show is? There has been more knowledge and mentorship in this show alone than all last week where all the ladies ask all the same damn question expecting a different answer
I remember when I was at university, I trained with an athletics group for three years, in the group the coach had all sorts of athletes ranging from 17 to 40 years old, during that time I was a sponge absorbing so much wisdom and knowledge imparted to me. I asked so many questions.
28:21 sir yes yes you speak truth I'm 28 an I work in corporate America and is currently being trained to retire my boss out when the time comes. An yes I do desire to be married but right now I'm focused on myself an being the best version of myself.
The more I listen to how these young men are struggling with what I'd call "basics", the more I understand why women have become in terms of wanting men who have it made and just HOW MUCH work young men have to put in.
@Enrique being emotional stable is understandable. But financially is were the rub comes. It’s harder for men to become high earners (not saying it’s not hard for women). That’s why I always say a black women making 10k a month ain’t the same as a black man making 10k🤷🏾.
They want what they lack. It's ALOT MORE WOMEN WHO STRUGGLE MORE WITH MANY THINGS ESPECIALLY ANSWERING YES OR NO BECAUSE MOST ARE DISHONEST UPFRONT. BUT WANT HONESTY AND LOYALTY. MAKE THIS SHIT MAKE SENSE NOW.
At 32 was a M.S, Applied Physicist and Engineer in 1983 made $165K then married had a child with a 24 year old had a son, all the men in my family had male children always had a strong social network from California to New York to Connecticut same friends at 71 that I had since 1977 Kevin Esquire phase is essential and used real estate as a asset not a liability made $$ in music business since 1965 you must always be in motion it is not always about the money
Just graduated with an Applied Physics B.S., can you talk on your career pros and cons? Lately been considering tech sales instead of engineering. What do you think of that?
Imagine if the hate watchers actually listened to Kevin and not the folks who hurt their feelings in the comments. They’d realize hes actually on their side. But instead they hear him says something that applies and dedicate every waking moment to fighting his following. What’s even worse is all this insults tend to be projections. Why fight the truth? Will it make your life better?
hope KS is doing well after his passing. His knowledge will live on forever through today and future modern men! I'm currently 22 and still working towards my degree, going to use this information and hopefully make something of myself! Best of luck CIA and FBI...
To the gentleman who wants to improve his communication skills: Take a Voice and Articulation class during the summer at a community college (low cost classes). I wish you well.
See people want to cry about how Kevin gets on women but NEVER see this side where he grills GROWN men even harder, pushing them to be better, God rest his soul
Time stamps
0:00 Opening Song, 🎵 Mystery Song 🎵
2:10 🎵 Field Coffee, Pt. 6 by Fields of Coffee 🎵
3:57 🎵 Voyage by Chris Westlake 🎵
7:17 🎵 Mystery Song 2 🎵
8:52 🎵 Bossa Lisboa by Sonic Moon 🎵
10:33 🎵 Cuban Cigar (Reduced Mix) by Peter Godfrey 🎵
13:35 🎵 Your good lies by Vividry 🎵
16:37 🎬 Show starts, Monologue, It's So Important For Men to Start Strong , Fragrances of the day Le Labo Gaiac 10, Le labo Poivre 23 Nasomatto Pardon
24:38 Levels for men: Esquire, age 18-29, GQ or Bachelor/Playboy 30+
49:44 1st Caller Austin age 33
1:03:05 2nd Caller Cameron age 22, 3rd Caller Ahmed age 29, 4th Caller Brian age 25, 5th Caller Robert age 22
1:18:08 6th Caller Nick , 7th Caller Abraham age 38 , 8th Caller age 22, 9th Caller age 27, 10th Caller Jeremiah age 29
1:42:19 11th Caller Raheem age 19, 12th Caller Donovan age 19, 13th Caller Craig age 29, 14th Caller Reshaw age 26
2:05:00 15th Caller, 16th Caller Andrew age 34, 17th Caller age 27,
2:13:43 Closing words
2:17:17 Outro
bless you
Brother Deshawn
Shout out to you for real. I see these time stamps consistently
Many thanks
Thank you so much
This is the best advice any man in his 20s & early 30s could ever hear. The only thing men should focus on in these ages is getting in great shape, growing in your career & building alliances.
lies and fallacies.they give you this dvice so they can have access to your counterparts. if you want marriage look now young women will use you and they don't want an old man. i cant believe you men cannot see these older men are manipulating you.
A man should wait until the time he is successful. Full stop. 40s. 50s. Whatever.
@@36handy yeah ugly ones who need to rely on me to pay for women
@Jet Lifeif women are choosing bad men and choosing to have fun in their 20s and marry later on how many of you old menz are marrying them?
Men need to be held accountable the advice should be preparing young men to stop fooling around and marry young so they don’t have to start paying bottom of the barrel young women( look wise cause we all know all the young baddies are dating men closer in age) for companionship.
Do you want to be 40 paying for companionship even 30 for the really really deformed men? Find a young woman now trust me we don’t want to wake up to wrinkly men just for money. We prefer men our age get their crap together now.
@Jet Life let’s not forget statistics back up that huge age gap relationships are very very small percentage so we know it’s not happening unless it’s a third world countries where women have no choice because if they have a choice it will always be young men so why don’t you make videos to straighten up these boys.
Fellas I haven’t even watched the show yet but I’m telling you.
1. Get your funds up before taking on women seriously regardless of your age.
2. Get into shape (for yourself not women)
3. Protect your peace. Only keep people around that are positive and on their purpose.
4. Be very direct with women you deal with regardless of how they may take it.
5. Build a great network! I really encourage joining a fraternity or some professional organization. You will need like minded men around you!
6. Be very proficient in whatever field you are in!
On point
F-A-C-T-S.
In that order
You forgot one thing only bro
7. Learn how to fight, boxing/ju jitsu/kickboxing etc
Step 5 is murdering me right now. Got everything on wrap with the other steps but what is an organization? Is it something I find outside of work? I socialize with the best of them but it seems to be nothing but coworkers. I'm seriously thinking about scheduling an appointment with KS but never enough time in my schedule to do so, so I'm playing catch up with a handful of his videos and seeing some insight in the comment sections like this one.
I’m 28. I turn 29 this year. Had i dated instead of engaging in relationships. I wouldn’t have dealt with as much emotional trauma as I did. If I had been more direct with my intentions, women wouldn’t have gotten hurt. Traveling and learning a second language is still on the radar. Excellent opening monologue Godfather
Not getting into relationships and being transparent with women about what you want would save a lot of guys a ton of headaches in their twenties.
Thanks for sharing your personal experience. It takes courage to hold ourselves accountable after self reflection. I applaud you.
Your intentions should be to find a wife, not to date, AKA. sleep around. As soon as you realize a girl is not your wife, instead of sleeping with her, you should move on. That’s the right thing to do. It’s good to get married young. If you don’t, you’ll end up a baby daddy, old, single and bitter like KS. This is what he should be telling you.
@@melodieshekia who hurt you?
Who hurt you
Shows like this one illustrates how important it is for older men to impart wisdom for the younger ones. These arent bad young men, they just don't have the proper guidance at an early age
That’s exactly right. It’s clear these men came for guidance.
This broadcast proves that there’s a need for fellowship amongst men ONLY! A lot can get done when young lions can learn from seasoned men who have come before them. Well played Mr. Samuels.
Are you trying to kick us off the channel?
Agreed Because the way some of these men were speaking it’s like no confidence or direction I’m glad I have my father and mother because man if I called in question would’ve been a sentence or two and that’s it.
@@melodieshekia how does it prove that elaborate please
Spies "" are amongst US..in this case ...its a jezebel""stay on guard 💂
@@tmcurly what??
Quote in regards to networking: “Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.” - Brene Brown
That was my only problem. I been holding myself back for many years all just because I was afraid of success, but I'm more than ready to succeed now!
@@NITZcsm Me too, not been putting myself out there enough fearing I won't be able to catch up with myself.
@@NITZcsm same! Keep ya head up on your quest to success.
Lemme just say I appreciate you guys 👍🏾
@@phillipwesley8170 Thank you my brother I definitely will & you the same 🙏💯
It's a lot of intelligent men in the comments. Proud of you guys for absorbing guidance and dropping gems with each other. There's some high value men and some high value men in the making.
goud_time your lucky that ur older than me i would of went in on you. this man is. whole predator giving these advice to young boys so they can have access to us and youre stupidly keep keeping and agreeing. knowing damn well old men are predators
You've got to work. WORKout, netWORK, WORK hard, WORK on being your best self. Young men need to fully understand these things.
networking is the hardest
@@nuttyjunior I'm right there with you... but if you just show up, you're doing more than most people
@@RicketyCricket1 yeah but it's hard just knowing where to go and who to speak to lol
Good networking events in your field
If your able to get KS advice in your 20 it’s literally treasured gems for fartherless men im 29 and started listening to him at 27 it’s things I disagree here and there but honestly I see this man doing no wrong and he focused like a laser on his culture and helping future generations this man is a gold mine ✨💎🐐💯
Man, I agree. I am 42 in a few weeks and I'm doing good, but I would've been so much further ahead if Kevin's advice was available when I was 20.
I'm 15 and he is raising me
@@nathantaylor-saint5931 same 😂😂😂
@@nathantaylor-saint5931 why figure it out on your own when those with age and knowledge can help you along the way ? I’m 30 but I wish I had some of this advice as a 20 yr old. That being said I turned out alright lol
Just don’t knock any of these chicks up and stay outta prison bruh and you’ll be fine
Deeper than South African Mines
Kevin is right about having a passport. I got mines at 26, and I have visited, Colombia, Germany, Dominican Republic, (not the resorts) and my last place was Vietnam. Brothers get your passports.
If you visited Colombia, I'm surprised you didn't come back married. lol. Facts on brothers getting their passports.
@@Oakley63tall I did actually. After all the traveling I knew I wanted a Colombian wife. I talked to my current wife now for over a year and then we married. Been married for almost 3 years
@@thetruthhurts131 Congratulations! That's a blessing bro! Yea, through the Army, I did my fair share of traveling but I never mad it to Colombia. I have a good friend of mine (Marine) who left his job in DC and moved to Medellin. My wife is half Cuban, half Colombian and we've been married for 8yrs now. Not to say that I wanted a Latina specifically. I wanted a woman who was fit, feminine, and friendly. Much like KS talks about.
@@Oakley63tall My wife is from Medillin
This has been my greatest and most important asset. You dont know what you have until you go to these countries and realize how fortunate we have it here in the states.
Men's week should be a monthly event. This was truly enlightening. Just off of this show alone I was able to assess where I am and where I need to go. Appreciate you sir. 1 job for finances and the 2nd for investing in my skills.
Bachelor life for me, just turned 30, veteran/college educated and been making six figs for the past couple of years with no plan on stopping.The grind don’t stop, do the work.
I'm older bro, keep looking for that one cause you'll want one. They are out there.
Six figures doing what
@@CorySands firefighter
@@accountabilityupholder3819 I’m 24 didn’t finish college, I make 18 a hour in nyc do you have any advice
It's that simple 👌
Kevin's message was crystal clear from when I saw the clip where he defines a High Value Man!
I always listen to Godfather even now he’s body is not here because he speak the raw reality of we are living. Thank you KS 🙏🏽💯
Mr. Samuels thank you. I really needed this. I’ve been truck driving for three years now. But it’s not my passion. I was getting twisted by emotions and losing sight of the goal. Hearing you tell another person in the same boat as me that passions aren’t it was exactly what I needed to hear. I’m sorry going to put another couple of years on the books trucking and try to learn how the game is ran from the owner side of the house and try my luck. I’m feeling so motivated to get more active in my life and make proper moves for change. You may never read this but you sincerely just changed my life. Thank you sir.
find a wife now so you dont end up aa dirty old man paying for companionship
I definitely need to hear this. I turn 25 this year and even tho I’ve got a lot of things done last year I feel so behind because of where some of my friends/peers are in life. I had to get off social media because of all the comparing I was doing. Just because I don’t have everything now doesn’t mean I’m a failure.
Yes brother I did the same but I am turning 23 this year. It’s okay to compare yourself we are man and want to compete but still be realistic with yourself. Set a short and long term goal to obtain a high income skill. College isn’t even bad if you decide to go back because bro four years will fly by before you even know it. So rather if you go to college or trade school make a plan to finish. It’s all about planning because you don’t want to be in the same position when your 35.
Follow your OWN path, don't worry about anyone else.
Don’t EVER compare yourself to the next man! Cuz you will never be satisfied with yourself! But instead be motivated, and use that as fuel to grind harder!
Slow and steady wins the race, brother! I stayed in school from my bachelor's to doctorate degrees, and people thought I was crazy. It took years to accomplish but doing so put me ahead of my critics financially in the end. Stick to it and pursue your own personal goals. Don't forget to reward yourself in some way for each milestone you reach.
Same bro
Hitting 26 soon
Feeling so behind
The work Kevin put into all his vids is unbelievable. Even his music selections are so beautiful. Rip Kevin
*KEVIN PREACHING!!!! The young Man I was in my 20's could NEVER compete with what I became in my 30's it's not even close. I'm looking at my 40's coming up in a couple years with a smile. No kids, never Married. Happy with it.*
Very true. I wish I was half what I am now from my 20ish.
@@zoerpm6493 *MAN!!* When I discovered Credit, Leverage, deferred comp', Roth, etc... it was off to the races and everything seemed to come together in the span of a year.
I could have gave this Game to so many people and saved so much time. But the point is, We got started! Best of Luck and Success to You Brother!
LMAOO you wish!!! no young woman wants a washed up man we want young boys. if young men cant compete with you why do you need to manipulate them with this type of advice so you can sweep in and get young women? even though young women we still dont want you.
yeh right SOOO
YOUTH,
HOTTER
BODDIES,
BETTER FACES,
ABLE TO LAST LONGER IN BED CANT COMPETE WITH SOME WASHED UO GUY? KEEP DREAMING
@@thetraveler1182 preach
@@thetraveler1182whats deferred comp
As a 30 year old, happily married, Latino, I appreciate all of this!! I have a younger brother I share your channel with all the time. I hope he paying attention because this is gold.
Same here, I share this to my younger cousins
If it's one thing I would've done while in college was be apart of a Fraternity. Being from the hood, I was taught it was all about spanking, hazing, and dancing. I had no clue it was about brotherhood, networking, and socializing. When you don't know you don't know. I now tell my younger cousins to join if they can because I know it will help build their future and network. Shoutout to all the Frat guys. If I had a choice, I would've pledged Kappa or Alpha.
Smh..... Im talking to my son right now at 4. He doesn’t understand anything right right now. But every single day I talk to him about things. those conversations gonna come back around. when he gets old enough to understand and if the Fraternity ever comes up it’s a hell no. went to a kappa and Alpha party / event in Atlanta I can’t even say it it was so disgusting. I will never fucking attend anything ever in life that involves a man fraternity.
You don’t have to join a fraternity to be successful big homie. prime example: in my early / mid 20s I was a stick up guy in Atlanta and beat a 40 year sentence. Fast forward to 38 now I run my own show and I don’t even network at all. However my network of brains that’s around are beautiful. You know what got me here? Having no regrets, when I say I’m going to doing something do it, spreading love, being shrewd and referrals. every single one of my contracts including government contracts were referrals putting in that work out here. Now I’m reaping the benefits being able to chill a little. tell your cousins to make gain that killer instinct, drive, dedication, motivation, and the willingness to put in work. work 80 hrs a week. I still work 80-90 a week in my business because I’m trying to retire at 43/45. Network is nothing if there’s no drive, dedication, or no motivation.
I'm an old-school Nupe like KS. While fraternity does give you a built-in network, being a quality guy is much more important than the network itself. If you're not a hard-working man with character and integrity, then people can't refer you without taking a hit to their own reputations. So, be a top-notch guy first. Then, building and utilizing a network - whether that includes a fraternity or not - is much easier.
@@Michael-ep7lx straight facts
Amen brother. Everything you mentioned, I would have done while in college to the T!!!
One of the first black-men in the US to become a Billionaire (Reginald F Lewis) was from the so called Hood (Baltimore) my home town. He never joined a Frat, and was just as successful if not more the frats guys. Who depend on government and entertainment industry to make it in this world! The rarely ever create their own! The late Mr. Lewis has written a must read book (Why should White guys have all the fun) for any black man getting into business. He also has a school teaching business to the black community. I don't see Frats doing that. Frats look out for their frats and nobody else black outside of that. That why I could never join a group like that.
Really needed to hear this show as I enter 2022. I'm 22 and moved out last yr in Feb to be independent when the reality was I just wanted to do what I wanted, smoke weed, get drunk, and have sex with girls. But now I'm focusing more on my purpose and what I wanna do in life. Changing jobs so I can focus more on school that I'll be starting in March. Trade school in hvac&r, renewed my gym membership, blocked a couple #'s. I'm ready to do the work. Grind time💯
ill be doing the same as soon as i graduate
dont listen to this guy you will end up 40 bitter paying young women to be with you while theyre fantasising bout your 22 year old self probably cheat on you too. grind and find a respectful girl now while your still preferred as a young guy. besides the more successful when your young the more women youll get to choose from who will see you as prise for being that age and thats successful or almost where as when your old your not a prise but. sugar daddy. but kevin wont tell you that though.
@@audreysgrandchild8218 Are you assuming that I'll be fat and not as good looking at 40? Lol bruh older versions look better than younger. Well that's if the guy has been eating healthy, working out and be in shape. But that's not me so.......
@@jariuscollins7340 HAHAHA older versions look better than younger? if thats the case why is age gap relationships such a TINY portion? ill tell you why because women think men that age are CREEPS.
no one wants a 40 year old. young men are your biggest competition. ive never ever in my life seen a hot 12-28 year old with a 40 year old man no one wants you.
because young boys will always be your biggest competition thats why when your past 30 something the entertainment industry recycles you and finds younger men to be 18-26 yer olds eye candy. you look so much better at 40 YET young women use men your age for money and want young men for relationship and bedroom intimacy cause of the hotter body/youtful face and stamina.
delusional creep 😂 im so glad i'm calling out men and their delusional circle jerking each other to put down older women whilst being OLD themselves get out of your purverst fantasies young women are checking for you.
Did you graduate from school?
This is real shit. When I look back at my High school days, I was unsuccessful with women until my Senior year. It was because I had more access to money and a car that I didn’t have my previous 3 years. I was always a good looking guy but girls only went with upper class men or other older guys outside of school. It was only because they could do more for them. Now, that I had a job my senior year and a car, I brought more value to myself for them. This is even true in the work place. When you’re a young guy and just starting out, you’re not going to have access to money and materials like a 40+ year old. Kevin is right to just stick to your grind and you’ll eventually get there through time. It’s all in the game and once your get it, stick with it.
Watching this at 21 while getting into the working market ... this makes a large difference to my life ... thank you 🙏
I absolutely enjoyed this segment. I was thinking of my teenage son. Thank you, Mr. Samuels.
my son is 15 and I have def been applying KS lessons on him.
I'm a truck driver I needed to hear exactly what you told that man in that exact way. Thanks Godfather
That was me bro. We gotta jump off the porch one day 💯
You bros got a live node in the network already 🤗 , that’s just how we keep him here 🙏🏾
Such a necessary episode for men young and older who have or had no positive representation of manhood.🔥🔥🔥
Best live yet! This is not based on Kevin’s opinion he’s just a spokesperson for reality.
I just listened to a video from your archive that came up automatically from RUclips. It was called "Are Modern Women Angry Today" and was published 12-31-2020. I usually never listen to long episodes because I need to be working like you say men should be doing. You taught a lot on that particular show. There were numerous women who called in and were mad that you were dealing with the same problem that Shahrazad Ali has been focusing on since the 1980's.
Thank you for speaking up for our demographic within society. Thank you for continuing to work hard and make the truth known despite the fact that there is a large portion of our community that throws you under the bus because they want to continue in this circle of insanity. Too many people in our community have allowed themself to be programmed in a way that will only cause things to get worse instead of better.
More shows like this for men. This was golden I picked up so much wisdom from this. Especially at this time of my life much needed to hear.
The “Voice Box Tone” KS is talking about is usually a tell sign of boys growing up mostly around women with no men in the picture to assimilate on how they should speak. These boys usually adapt to the women around them. Which is why this is extremely vital to boy’s growth and maturity, which mothers can not provide a teenage young man in his adolescent years.
Who’s fault is that? The mothers?
@@SynterraSteen Most of the time, yes. It is the mothers fault.
It can be the man who doesn’t want to be in the picture as a father and it can also be the mother who drives the man away from the home. Both scenarios can cause the same problem.
My mother was a single mom and my dad was abusive to her. So she was forced to run from him. But my mother knew enough to say that we needed sports in our lives and men mentors to help us along the way.
It will behoove the mother to do what it takes in order for the boys to live a life how they are intended to live as strong productive men.
I have an older sister with two sons. They are adults now, but for the sake of this discussion. Both parents were in the same home through their upbringing. I noticed that the older boy always wanted to be with his father and the younger one always came up with excuses not to go with them. What happened as a result, he grew up with the tendency of wanting to be around his mother all of time and that meant he was going to the hair salons and hanging around my sister’s girlfriends, which began to be noticeably changing his mannerisms to more feminine.
Now, whenever we happened to be at family gatherings, I noticed that his brother and his father don’t appear to be very close to him and distant.
So don’t waste the time on pointing your finger, but why not be more mindful of these things.
@@michaelangelo4147 It tends to be the mother also due to the fact that 54% of bm are single and childless. 30% of bm are married. Among the rest is a small percentage of pookies women are picking to sleep with. That's why w have an 80% percentage of out of wedlock birth rate. That abusive scenario is not in mass.
I like that at 1:29:27 KS state's that males with lower speaking Voices tend to have better outcomes with Women AND MEN pretty much shattering that high pitch dude cause he has no audience with either gender.
I recently came across Mr. Samuels content & I'm absolutely greatful I did because he has confirmed a lot of what I already knew about certain topics 💯
The frist 45 mins just felt like a dagger thrusting deep into my soul. At 30 6 figures (Pretoria Rands). lost my network due to covid and working from home haven't helped either. I'm mentality fit and physically unfit. This Men's week is definitely gonna change lives.. The outcome is key. THANKS to the GodFather. I got the Memorandum...
I have a small business that I moonlight on when I'm not doing my day job. My nephew, who's a junior in college, asked me for advice because he wants to own a business too. I explained to him that the first thing he's going to need to do is develop a skill in something. I told him that after he had a skill he could focus on marketing it to the right audience. He understood it when I told it to him, but I think he was looking at the destination without thinking about the journey. Build those skills fellas!
so women 18-25 should get married who will they marry if youre telling men our age to ignore us and focus on work... bunch of paedos trying to get acess to young women
This is one of the best episodes ever. Tons of gems for young men today. Tough love, but honest love from KS. I had to learn all this stuff by living it. I’m sending this to my boys.
Great lessons to learn. So many of us were taught the exact opposite by our single mothers and pastors, which explains why we're still playing catch-up ball in our 40s and beyond...
If only the fathers would have stayed around.
@@SynterraSteen Who says that they didn't try to? And who picked those guys in the first place?
@@SynterraSteen fathers do stay but only if the mother doesn’t have spite out for the man, because that’s what it is a lot of the time the man simply doesn’t want to be with you and women take that to the heart and take the child away as well… cmon now
Currently making 75,500+ annually, aside, having wedding photography side hustle income & still in college finishing an Economics degree, no debt, & doing BJJ/Krav Maga 2x a week plus the gym religiously.
Work is done well when focused on your purpose fellas.
I'm 26 and not into video games nor am I into them Netflix binging. I literally have no time.
One last step is to find my first house, God willing.
I would love to appreciate Mr. Samuels for what he is doing for us millenial men honestly,
Because so many things are draining off the traditional mantra.
Building a circle of supportive manhood and men of strive and success? It's vital!
I'm working on that right now with few men + More to come, that I would like to see myself in thr next 5 years.
For the persona type,
I feel like I'm a rogue for the moment.
Anywho,
Stay focused gentlemen!
@@abigailamoah27 damn bots 😂😂thanks for that.
I'm 48, DINK'S and Kevin is giving a plethora of good advice & gems, much I learned & realized growing up, throughout college years. Have a network, bide your time, stay focused/on your purpose and don't get tied down young.
Women come later, a by product of success & being on your purpose. They will come.
This has been one of the best show, teaching and equipping us men with knowledge. Thank you kevin Samuel
Double Agent reporting for duty 49:02
I learned so much from this. It is so helpful for ne as a 23 year old to have some context. Time to shift my priorities! Rest in power Godfather 🙏
Mr. Samuels is very correct about the importance of having a network, connections, and proper communication skills! The Lion's share of the opportunity I have professionally and personally benefitted from has been as a result of my network and my people skills even more so than my resume! Knowing how to network and have positive interactions with people is probably my most beneficial and highest-earning skill! Thank you for this great show! Peace and Love to the Godfather
Passion doesn't pay the bills. You work and hustle...do whatever it takes. And once you are cash flowing and banking - you BUY your passion.
37yo here. Young bucks, listen to this man. If only I heard this 17 years ago.
I personally am in the Construction Industry; specifically a Engineer and Architect. It’s hard sometimes but hearing Kevin say “you can deal with your passion after 45” put me in the gear and check I needed to keep moving.
40-45
Hey man! I’m Isaiah from Los Angeles working on my bachelors in Civil engineering, is there anyway we can get in contact !? I’ve been trying to network and talk about the contraction industry
I needed this about 35 years ago. I'm almost 59 and I didn't even know half of this stuff by 35----which put me perpetually behind the curve. I "played" right through the years I had my greatest opportunities to meet the right woman and become high value. Now, I'm disabled (blind, among other challenges), middle income and unattractive to women I once smashed with great regularity. For me, it's too late. Time can run out on you, too, my brothers.
Just go overeseas to what everyone considers a "poor & unfortunate" country and you'll have no problem finding young women
@@shinyamada488 I have bonafide high value friends who keep suggesting that very thing, because they're doing it, lol!
@@blackjaguarlord nothing beats a failure but a try. Go for it! What do you have to lose??
I needed to hear about the lone wolf thing 35 years ago. Socialized more, built better networks. Any networks really.
The average guy can’t afford to jetset to find a desirable woman let alone foot the bill to bring her back to the states and support her family in the process (this is common). The males I know who’ve done this are all high earners who had the time & resources. This isn’t everyone’s game so I find it odd its so loosely thrown out there as an automatic fix.
Solid advice all around. I watched this the day after it came out and am rewatching it and the impact is just as strong. My the Godfather RIP
Really good show, there are a lot of important information here, even as a 35 year old.
or at 50+. Your upside may be limited when you get older, but fixing your game will still pay off. I wish I knew a lot of this stuff when I was young, instead of listening to a misanthrope telling me I don’t need anybody else.
This is real, authentic, Godfather who is killing it in life type of advice.
I know this was for the young men,but I thoroughly enjoyed Kevin's insights and opinions.I think everyone could benefit from listening to this particular topic. Keep inspiring Kevin!
Man, I really appreciate this wisdom. I'm about to turn 25 and have been listening for a year. I can't book a session as I just started working, I'm looking to build a network and finding my wolfpack. The future does look bright indeed.
Cheers to the godfather
This is excellent information. Your commitment to raising young men's consciousness and intentionality is unmatched in this realm.
It’s amazing how in life by the time you learn the way the world works and the skills needed to thrive often you are out of the window of opportunity to use it to your advantage. I’m 25 black man and just keep learning and refining everyday. Thank you for the content.
As long as you're in your twenties you still have plenty of time. I always felt like I was too late to do something but as I've gotten older I learned it's never too late. I didn't get my bachelor's until I was 28, and now about to finish my masters at 30. Took until I was 27 to cut out the weed and drinking and impulsive dating. I remember feeling shame when I was a 21 year old freshman in college (got kicked out a few months later due to the drinking), but didn't think twice about when I had to go back at 27.
@@betenoire2534 for sure bro 💯💯💯. I really don’t think you are middle age till 45. 30’s is like your 20’s especially if you took care of yourself. We all have something to offer be it advice wisdom or mistakes to learn from. Truth be told bro as harsh as it sounds some people’s purpose in life to an extent is to be a cautionary tale of what not to do. I read books workout 5 days a week I focus on short and especially LONG term success and gratification. Delay temporary pleasures in favor of long term success that is more valuable and harder to get. I like short term stuff too and have fun but in limited moderation. I found that when we can’t get what we really want that’s when vices turn to coping mechanisms. If I can’t get a legit decent woman to date I’ll date every single mom that comes my way so I won’t be alone at least for example etc. I’d rather spend that time in the gym or reading or approaching women in real life and screening out who I want vs just allowing anyone in my life. Life is a marathon not a sprint.
@@betenoire2534 you seem very wise and I appreciate your feedback. If you had 5 tips advice and things you wish you knew younger what would they be. I appreciate you bro💯💯💯
Im glad you have mens week it helps hearing what other men my age are going through and the advice you give them.
You doing God’s work teaching a nation of men, and women.. Thank You.. 🙏🏾
This was well Needed and right on Time. I'm a Gonna Take Heed in The Message.
We're only as Good as our Connections..
As, it determines our overall Value as Men.
Yup! Life is all about connecting & networking! I got my small little circle & all, but I've always been the loner or lone wolf 🐺 if you will & that was work against, so I decided to become part of the pack!
I was at my brother's soccer practice when his friend said to another player: "The problem with broke people is that they try to do everything by themselves". Dude was probably 18 at the time; I was about 19 or 20. That little sentence that I heard on accident changed _so much_ of my life, I cannot even begin to recount!
This was an amazing broadcast and definitely needed for our younger men in total. Everyone should earmark this one whenever women state that his tone is too strong and he’s not critical of men. How many times in this broadcast did he call bs on men being lazy or not earning. It was a perfect blend of tough love and great advice. Props to Mr Samuels
Thank the Ancestors for keeping this King, bringing his wisdom to this platform, brothers, men Need to hear this.
KS should’ve congratulated the young brotha for choosing to be clean and kicking his habit. That’s admirable and more people should do so.
He saw through the b.s. Recovering addicts have to take even more massive action than usual because they can sabotage themselves.
Not addressing it was the best approach. He doesn't know this young man. Best to stay on topic. Secondly, Kevin has said several times that most people are addicted to something in today's world.Haha
The young man needed to listen before calling in. Some men are just like women. They don't listen, then call in and just ramble on. He said many times, have your question ready. Don't call in and give a monolouge. This is why he cut many of them off in the middle of their long ass speech.
@@tmcurly For most young men is is mobile games and/or pron. And they are both terribly destructive.
@@H..M.. gaming isn’t destructive if you turn it n2 money
To big up each other is the wolf pack/ network’s ethos, our patience is only Broken by the “ extreme “. RIP KS♥️🇯🇲
Let’s build the NETWORK to keep our brother with us.🙌🏿
Fellas, stop putting all this pressure on yourselves to succeed right away or else you’re a loser, I love how Kevin says that you gotta wait til 40 to critique yourself. I’m a Young Millennial and I’m a Sales Consultant at Office Depot and while I don’t necessarily see it as my “final destination” I enjoy and am Blessed to have my job! I never thought I’d be doing it after my Associates degree at a local Community College called Cedar Valley and in Sports Broadcasting/Communications from Prairie View(love the PV S/O btw) but the environment for Sports Broadcasting television wise ain’t it to me. I do have a Anchor Channel I like and cling to but otherwise nothing else on that front. I said all that to say, I’m not close to 40 but God Willing IF I get there, I’ll be in better shape overall from strictly a financial standpoint particularly to move forward with things that deal with money unfortunately.
Good stuff man! Fellas we got this
Keep Going? 🔝
@@reese85 What’s up Reese, hope you and your family are Blessed and Well 🤜🏾🤛🏾. Yes Sir we got this Men and especially Black Men!
@The Esquire of Sports ® Yes Sir, Kevin said that too or some iteration of it and it’s true, I was a FedEx unloader several years ago while doing college, those types of jobs keep you humble and knowing what you want to do or don’t and that’s life too. Thank You for the encouragement and you too bro and I know you said you don’t have the patience for us younger guys but hang in there with us, we need GOOD older and elder leadership too.
@@FettiMagazine Got to fam 🙏🏾 Thank You for the encouragement! You Too!!
Watching this back after his passing, KS was a legend
After listening to the women who call in over the last couple of months, and listening to the men today, there is a common thread that is most lack basic guidance and structure, which comes from a father.
@black guy And to the women who claim "I can be a mother and a father, so don't need a man" can't make it up.
It’s stupid to bash women! When is men need help just as much
Basic guidance is lacking. Period!
Kevin asked him if it was a girlfriend TWICE! He said relationship. Thats why he wasn't sure 😂 Kevin kept it professional as possible
Yoooo I was in tears when that happened 😂
I was looking for this comment. 😂 He handled that extremely well!
I was questioning myself. And when he said he lived in ATL….👀👀👀
I lost it when KS finally mentioned the intonation 🤣
He flat out lied to Kevin about his orientation im in awe of how wonderful he kept his cool bcuz honey 😂 i would have took it there!!!
Man, 40 years and up life's good and at 50 it's great! Real good. Shouldn't have been so hard on myself wanting it all now in my 20's. One of our college roommates pledged Alpha. In fact, he became a rock star on campus and was celebrated after he crossed.
Kevin has mad patience, because some of these early callers are just too wordy for my tolerance level. It's amazing the amount of folks, who don't listen and can't answer direct questions. It's like conversing with children.
Mad patience, plus they asking loser like questions
Those dudes had diarrhea at the mouth 😂😂😂😂
Still come back to these to keep on the path he helped instill in me
If I could do my early years all over again, I would have joined a fraternity. I went through most of my first decade and beyond, after college, going at it alone...and let me tell you that it was HARD. It stunted me socially and trying to make up for that as I have gotten older was difficult. It's not impossible, but you are really making life harder for yourself, when you don't have that circle formed between your freshman year in college and your mid 20's
This is fire, straight to the point, wish I had someone like this when I was young
Kevin will be a guest on JRE podcast in the near future. I’m calling it now! Game changer!!!
Young men, quit looking for the quick win. The quick win is something that you do in addition to developing yourself and your career. It's not the primary focus for your income at that age.
fax, had this exact same thought this morning. I'd rather have my foundations laid out for my career than postpone that for a high risk high reward instrument with zero transferrable skills
I swear I just come here to watch the intro... that music with his voice in the background will literally never get old.
RIP 🙏🏿
Very good show. I wish this kinda content was available when I was building. We had to learn from try and error. Basically we kept failing in my day until something stuck and then we pushed it. Very good content here and I hope these young men can use the info to better shape their thinking about the future.
I needed this video. I just moved to Charlotte for work in September & turned 28 on Monday, but I’m so unhappy with my life right now. I have to get my life together
For the truck driver: he's already in. He can apply for a small business loan, start a logistics business and have people contracted to drive for him...he already knows the ins and outs of the business; apply that knowledge and do his own thing...
You make it sound so easy lol! I’m looking n2 possibly doin this myself
@@reese85 never said it was easy. I have a good friend in Florida who's doing it and trust and believe it can be chaotic... but knowing that you have people doing it for you and it's your business, I think it's worthwhile. My brother is even thinking about doing it... I'm looking into the home dispatch part for supplementary income...I say go for it big bro. Again it isn't easy but the way things are going now with the supply chain all screwed up, logistics is where the bread is it.
@@jboymontel1 bet! Imma look n2 it, thanks
I appreciate that. I’m definitely going to do it this year, I’m just enjoying not having to worry about the important stuff when it comes to owner operator. I’m jumping off the porch this year
@@godvibesonly7137 best of luck
this mans improving my life more and more each day
And he's no longer with us.. ain't that something 🙏🏾💯
It’s Really Simple Put Yourself In A Position Where You’re Financially Free And Grow You Some Balls And Don’t Worry About Women So Much A Lot This Stuff Will Just Come To You Find The Balance ⚖️
Great episode, wish you were around when i was young lol. took me decades to figure this shit out now I'm 52 and still learning. Keep it up for the younger ones Kevin, much love to the show.
stfu. this man is a predator why re you telling him to keep going
Im 18 and am ready to face the world. Before kevin I was scared now im ready for whats to come
Yo I'm 15 no dad and this man is practically raising me
Take it all in, Young Lion! You are very lucky to come across Kevin at your age. Best of Luck to you!
dont listen to him. he is very jealous of you. he tells young women to get married fast but tells young men to not focus on women so tell me who will the young women end up with... you guessed it these geriatric old paedophiles like him who want acess to young girls. theyre pervert trying to wipe out the competition and you are his competition because your young youthful basically what young women want. no matter what. he knows yiu being young you wont be seen as a creep and have easier acess to us. where as he has to spend lots of money i pray you find a better mentor please think logically. if this man cred about you he would be telling you to find a woman who is willing to build and get married at a young age
@@audreysgrandchild8218 oh my god would you shut up? Men being attracted to younger women is literally in male nature; if you don't like it take it up with the creator. there is nothing wrong with that. I don't understand why you care. As long as she is legal age it doesn't matter. I could easily counter complain and say "well why do women like men who have money, or who are tall, or who are powerful, or who are famous", but I'm not going to do that because I know why; because it's in women's nature. So just get over it.
Living in another country and learning a new language as I’m watching this…. I pray you all get to experience the passport life ✈️
One of my favorite episodes by far! Some insightful game was given💯
Love the men shows. Men need help just as much as these women
I say this all the time!! Dudes in the comments should not be laughing and bashing women! When us men need just as much help
Yup, society is just not as forgiving to men as they are to women.
@@familyman4668 You're right
These male shows are rough. Many of these males have a difficult time even asking a question.
Men and women are different. But mostly the same ultimately.
Legacy cemented…this was a great video for all young men to hear…
Kevin this was highly inspirational. You're going to Heaven! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This has been the best show "for me" in a very long time! Throughly enjoyed this one and I also noticed that we had no sound issues? Maybe women's shows are plagued by the Big Shirley curse after all. Hopefully there will be more of these together with women's shows. A bit of both I reckon.Variety.
Big Shirley heavy out here in these streets.
Literally.
@@torachan23 hahaha! Yup she is !
Do you hear the difference in men's week? Do you hear how much more... Respectful the show is? There has been more knowledge and mentorship in this show alone than all last week where all the ladies ask all the same damn question expecting a different answer
I remember when I was at university, I trained with an athletics group for three years, in the group the coach had all sorts of athletes ranging from 17 to 40 years old, during that time I was a sponge absorbing so much wisdom and knowledge imparted to me. I asked so many questions.
28:21 sir yes yes you speak truth I'm 28 an I work in corporate America and is currently being trained to retire my boss out when the time comes. An yes I do desire to be married but right now I'm focused on myself an being the best version of myself.
This man understood that presentation matters. 💯
The more I listen to how these young men are struggling with what I'd call "basics", the more I understand why women have become in terms of wanting men who have it made and just HOW MUCH work young men have to put in.
Women want men who have at least what they have.
@Enrique being emotional stable is understandable. But financially is were the rub comes. It’s harder for men to become high earners (not saying it’s not hard for women). That’s why I always say a black women making 10k a month ain’t the same as a black man making 10k🤷🏾.
They want what they lack. It's ALOT MORE WOMEN WHO STRUGGLE MORE WITH MANY THINGS ESPECIALLY ANSWERING YES OR NO BECAUSE MOST ARE DISHONEST UPFRONT. BUT WANT HONESTY AND LOYALTY. MAKE THIS SHIT MAKE SENSE NOW.
@@Ruckerpark98 the easiest jobs for a women to make 6 figures or close to it, is in banking
Kevin had so much patience for callers and still spread his wisdom. RIP
At 32 was a M.S, Applied Physicist and Engineer in 1983 made $165K then married had a child with a 24 year old had a son, all the men in my family had male children always had a strong social network from California to New York to Connecticut same friends at 71 that I had since 1977 Kevin Esquire phase is essential and used real estate as a asset not a liability made $$ in music business since 1965 you must always be in motion it is not always about the money
Just graduated with an Applied Physics B.S., can you talk on your career pros and cons? Lately been considering tech sales instead of engineering. What do you think of that?
This is one of the best segments I've seen. Absolutely necessary!
Imagine if the hate watchers actually listened to Kevin and not the folks who hurt their feelings in the comments. They’d realize hes actually on their side. But instead they hear him says something that applies and dedicate every waking moment to fighting his following. What’s even worse is all this insults tend to be projections. Why fight the truth? Will it make your life better?
hope KS is doing well after his passing. His knowledge will live on forever through today and future modern men! I'm currently 22 and still working towards my degree, going to use this information and hopefully make something of myself! Best of luck CIA and FBI...
A lot of these men don't make plans, they invent angles to game the system but serially underform on work.
Now this is content all young men should consume. The clips add a nice balance to the heavier content.
To the gentleman who wants to improve his communication skills:
Take a Voice and Articulation class during the summer at a community college (low cost classes). I wish you well.
See people want to cry about how Kevin gets on women but NEVER see this side where he grills GROWN men even harder, pushing them to be better, God rest his soul
I was taught, “Don’t follow your Passion, Bring it with you”! 😉💪😎
And how do you do that?
@trash 6andit same thing I was thinking
What? Explain
"sir this is unacceptable" what a legend kevin I miss you brother. Great Men learn from a man's failures fellas.