I can't believe how spot on this is. I am on #3 and he came out of nowhere. I wasn't looking. I didn't care if I ever fell in love again. But he walked through the front door back in March and I fell for him immediately.
Wow...tats nice...my 2nd stage is over leaving hesitant towards any future love or marriage....one thing is true...guys don't love truly...they don't wat love means...it's just a word they say to a skinny, fair girl . They don't know d value of feelings
In my 19 years of existence, I still haven’t experienced the 1st one. I have a loooonggg way to go. Though I hope my first would be my last. I hope to experience these three with one person.
I am 19 and am currently with someone who we went through all three of these. We each other's first love and firsts in a lot of things. We struggled with knowing what we wanted and how to compromise but were able to grow and move forward. Now we just talk about marriage all the time and how we first met, neither of us were looking for a relationship until what it described. She was different than a crush, she was a love, and from that became My Love. It's possible kings, stay strong and patient
1st love as described in the video only happens when your in high school. You missed that haha. Your 1st love now is going to be the 2nd love in this vid. Good luck, that pain is going to hurt haha.
This is beyond true. First one was a mess and all other related words. Second one was... harsh. Felt for that man for 7 years, what was once a beautiful relationship (genuinely healthy, and lovely even as I look back on it) grew into poison, and harmed me mentally and other painful things. But this third one. It just- it just happened. I usually look and someone and make a conscious decision I want to pursue them but with him, it was different. The world just stopped moving for what felt like years when I looked into his eyes for the first time while he shook my hand. Something in me said- there he is. What can I say? Not long after, he proposed and we’re getting married and I have never been more at peace and more joyful ❤️ what a wonderful thing a healthy relationship is😭
@@zeno3511 a relationship takes two people to work. Both people have to look at it and decide either or not it’s something worth having, taking care of, and working on each and every day. Love isn’t just an emotion, it’s something you do. It’s dedication, loyalty, support, trust, respect, and other related aspects that make a relationship healthy, such as open and honest communication. Not trying to “win” arguments, because there’s no winner of the other person is hurt emotionally/physically (there’s a big problem there clearly if there’s a physical issue. Even with emotional too but I think you get what I’m trying to say) at the end. If she’s dead set on not wanting a relationship with you, she has the right to make that decision. I don’t think at the end of the day either you’d want someone at your side who would even consider wanting someone else while you’re supposed to be the apple of their eye. It would be so hurtful, and and full of betrayal. Dating someone else to get over another person isn’t a good strategy. You’re just gonna hurt the person your dating by chasing the ghost of your ex in them. It’s not fair to the person in front of you. Everyone you meet has their share of faults, and are not perfect. It’s a matter of being able to look at someone and love them even with the faults. Not despite them, and possibly even finding them endearing! I find most of my husbands faults endearing. One or two are a tad frustrating but that’s where our communication comes in. It’s a job to keep a relationship healthy. It doesn’t mean it’s not enjoyable though. It just takes a lot of effort- and if someone doesn’t feel like it’s worth it, then the relationship “breaks”. Thusly a break up. Sometimes someone just gives up. It hurts being on the end where you still want to love someone but they don’t want to love you anymore. The second relationship i glossed over there was like that. He thought I was ruining his high school experience. Then his college experience after he talked to me again. It was actual cycle or him wanting me when I would walk away from the toxic situation and then not want me when I came back. He would yo-yo 🪀 me for a lack of a better visual reference. It was cruel. He wanted to play the field. Asked be to wait for him for when he was done so he could be with me after he’d had his fill. Clearly whatever feeling I had for him left had broken away after that mess. It was disgusting that he thought so little of me as to even suggest that. I am worth more than that clearly. I now have an amazing husband who loves me very much. Has the road been smooth? No, not at all. But what counts is that we choose each other at the end of the day. We choose each other at the start of every day. We communicate. We respect. We care for. We dote on. We flirt. We are loyal and monogamous. We love one another, and we choose to do so each and every day. Most days it’s an unconscious decision. Other days, rougher days that we have had disagreements or hard talks. We choose to live and respect each other even then. Love isn’t easy, or for the faint of heart. It takes two people willing to be vulnerable all the time- that trust needed to be vulnerable of shattered can hurt so badly, and can be traumatizing. It’s hard to go into another relationship and try again after that kind of trust has been proven to you as capable of shattering. To give yourself the chance at love again, you have to see what they’ve done to you for what it is, understand that you do NOT deserve to be treated that way by someone you want to love on. Especially since you deserve to be loved on just as much as you love, and let them go. Don’t look for their ghost in other people. Other people are whole, and amazing, and are most certainly not your ex. Whatever happened with them I’m sure you don’t want again, don’t look for a copy of something you know isn’t gonna work. Choose a path that is new. Choose someone who chooses you. Choose them every day. Choose someone who chooses you every day. ❤️ I hope that helped! I know that esas long winded but if you need to hear more just let me know! I’m a chatty Kathy if you couldn’t tell lol!
One day, i believe that the last type of love will enter your life for sure. Stop searching for them, just focus on your lives, your love will actually arrive on the right time
This is really heart touching. I am in the 3rd stage of love where it just happened I never I asked for it with a person I never thought of being with. I love all his imperfections, any walls we both put between us both is broken, no matter how far we go from one another we always come back closer and we never detach, I only see marriage and a family together I always thank universe for him Right now we are in seperation in 3d worlds but always connected through soul Though he needs some time to identify the power n love of our togetherness he will soon realise it. It's all magical 😭♥🌌💫✨ Thankyou for this video I relate so much ♥
This video hit hard... I found this as the perfect time in my life being 26 years old.. Every word rings so true, and I can only hope I've interpreted it properly.
So spot on! There’s a lot of work (mentally and emotionally) cleaning up from the #2s…but my #3 is breaking all those walls down without even trying! 🥰🙏🏽
My first love was at age 10. That changed my attitude. Then my second love was at 13 ,he changed my life. It has been five years now and we are together. I love him so much ❤️❤️
I've so far had two, and i think i'm experiencing the third...but he's strait and i'm more masc leaning genderfliud, it just feels right being around him, i find so much comfort talking to and being with him, and he just makes me want to live, i've struggled with depression for a while now, and he makes everyday just a little bit better, but i'm afraid to tell him.
So far it's true for me.. I'm 33. Married my first serious boyfriend young, we split up for stupid reasons looking back, he was a good guy all in all. 2nd almost broke me emotionally, it became toxic, I learned a lot. Right now I'm dating again, fairly new relationship (6months) we just click, the most open and beautiful soul I've come across... I feel so at peace around him, very natural. So fingers crossed hes my one and only until death ❤
I only fell in love once and it was the last one the caring without trying one, but good things don't last... Guess people leave when they're bored...I still cry on this day...
My first love was when I was 13 in school and I still love him . But we've been apart for years now no contact at all but I hope we could meet again 😩. And also he always appear in my dreams even when I'm not thinking about him and while having a crush on someone else he would still come in my dreams since the day I fall for him till now he's still coming in my dreams .
The line ,"you hide nothing from them" one is so hurting for coz I truly love her and wanna hide my past from her coz I don't wanna loose her❤️ if you r reading this m I doing good
No u are not doing good ..u have to tell her becoz if she's luv u ,she never be left u in any situation..but if she pretend to lvvv u she will left u on any silly matter ..so don't fear ...just tell herr
My first love: We saw each other at the club then we both there 17. At 27 our son was born, at 29, daughter arrived. But at 30 cancer knocked at our doors and at 33 we are started a new life with a family of 3. After two years second love arrived. At it was identical to this video 2 step. So after 3 years of waiting i am ready for my real love!
It’s number 3 for me & he happened to be my best friend . Known him most of my life but new 15 yrs ago I fell in love . The journey has been crazy wild but wouldn’t change it . 🦋
Dont let this fool you , when your happy you’ll know it and i hope whoever sees this an is in a position where they think there at the 1st , 2nd etc “love” recognizing that wtv is hurting now is worth fixing theres no need to go through so much pain fix what you have , u made a commitment.
Honestly when I saw this video it shot me. I fell in love for the first time when I was 12 it was horrible 😂 but I learned and was scared to fell again but then. But then I meet my 2nd one and I learned a lot in that relationship. I was in that relationship for 3 years and I learned what I wanted and didn't want. And then I meet him my 3rd one, I fell in love with him so hard 💕 so much that I questioned what i was feeling, I never felt this way before it's stronger then anything I've ever felt. And he did come unexpectedly. To me he was the weird kid I sat next to in catechism when I was 12 😂❤️ I had the little crush on him but never did anything and he would come up here and there in my life but nothing too big, until this year he came in when I was working and he caught my eye and no matter how much I tried to put my walls up so I wouldn't fall I did anyways and I have been the happiest I've ever been❤️❤️
And then there we are..
'The One-Sided' Ones 🙂
Every love start's with one side
@@viswanathanm6928 but some just remain one sided
@@dezeption yep of course, i am also one side love. 8 years love, I love her till my last breath.
@@dezeption yeah it's true
i loved him so much
@@andreasubin2039 Oh..Sad!!
Well good news for me I was having a hard time so I confessed her...And God!!!....Turns out she liked me too! 🤧
My first love at age 13, and now iam 21 still i love her truly.
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Yep sometimes first love is our last love ♥️
Oo are u still together
@@studyclass8334 bcche pdhai kro
@@studyclass8334 yes, I love her till my last breath.
This is soo accurate, its scary
Agreed
Agreed
Agreed
Agreed
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Literally to the 1% who's reading this, God bless you, and may your dreams come true, stay safe and have a wonderful day.
❤️
Thank you❤️
Aww so cute same to you🙃
♥️♥️♥️
💚❤🧡
I can't believe how spot on this is. I am on #3 and he came out of nowhere. I wasn't looking. I didn't care if I ever fell in love again. But he walked through the front door back in March and I fell for him immediately.
God bless you dear friend
Me too #3
Wow...tats nice...my 2nd stage is over leaving hesitant towards any future love or marriage....one thing is true...guys don't love truly...they don't wat love means...it's just a word they say to a skinny, fair girl . They don't know d value of feelings
im still on #1 . i cant move to #2 .cause i couldn't forget . bless the people who got 1 person for #1 to #3
I guess I’m going through my second one atm. Bc this shit hurts so fucking much man. Is been two years and she’s still in my mind every day.
Tell me about .. it’s been 2 years and he’s still on my mind to . It hurts so fucking much it doesn’t get easier either you just get used to the pain
Same!
same
I hope it got better bro
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In my 19 years of existence, I still haven’t experienced the 1st one. I have a loooonggg way to go. Though I hope my first would be my last. I hope to experience these three with one person.
I also want to discover these three people in one person ❤
I relate to this really well I'm also 19. Still I haven't felt this all... let's hope for the good n what Almighty has for us in our destiny
I am 19 and am currently with someone who we went through all three of these. We each other's first love and firsts in a lot of things. We struggled with knowing what we wanted and how to compromise but were able to grow and move forward. Now we just talk about marriage all the time and how we first met, neither of us were looking for a relationship until what it described. She was different than a crush, she was a love, and from that became My Love. It's possible kings, stay strong and patient
1st love as described in the video only happens when your in high school. You missed that haha. Your 1st love now is going to be the 2nd love in this vid. Good luck, that pain is going to hurt haha.
This is beyond true. First one was a mess and all other related words. Second one was... harsh. Felt for that man for 7 years, what was once a beautiful relationship (genuinely healthy, and lovely even as I look back on it) grew into poison, and harmed me mentally and other painful things. But this third one. It just- it just happened. I usually look and someone and make a conscious decision I want to pursue them but with him, it was different. The world just stopped moving for what felt like years when I looked into his eyes for the first time while he shook my hand. Something in me said- there he is. What can I say? Not long after, he proposed and we’re getting married and I have never been more at peace and more joyful ❤️ what a wonderful thing a healthy relationship is😭
@@zeno3511 a relationship takes two people to work. Both people have to look at it and decide either or not it’s something worth having, taking care of, and working on each and every day. Love isn’t just an emotion, it’s something you do. It’s dedication, loyalty, support, trust, respect, and other related aspects that make a relationship healthy, such as open and honest communication. Not trying to “win” arguments, because there’s no winner of the other person is hurt emotionally/physically (there’s a big problem there clearly if there’s a physical issue. Even with emotional too but I think you get what I’m trying to say) at the end. If she’s dead set on not wanting a relationship with you, she has the right to make that decision. I don’t think at the end of the day either you’d want someone at your side who would even consider wanting someone else while you’re supposed to be the apple of their eye. It would be so hurtful, and and full of betrayal. Dating someone else to get over another person isn’t a good strategy. You’re just gonna hurt the person your dating by chasing the ghost of your ex in them. It’s not fair to the person in front of you. Everyone you meet has their share of faults, and are not perfect. It’s a matter of being able to look at someone and love them even with the faults. Not despite them, and possibly even finding them endearing! I find most of my husbands faults endearing. One or two are a tad frustrating but that’s where our communication comes in. It’s a job to keep a relationship healthy. It doesn’t mean it’s not enjoyable though. It just takes a lot of effort- and if someone doesn’t feel like it’s worth it, then the relationship “breaks”. Thusly a break up. Sometimes someone just gives up. It hurts being on the end where you still want to love someone but they don’t want to love you anymore. The second relationship i glossed over there was like that. He thought I was ruining his high school experience. Then his college experience after he talked to me again. It was actual cycle or him wanting me when I would walk away from the toxic situation and then not want me when I came back. He would yo-yo 🪀 me for a lack of a better visual reference. It was cruel. He wanted to play the field. Asked be to wait for him for when he was done so he could be with me after he’d had his fill. Clearly whatever feeling I had for him left had broken away after that mess. It was disgusting that he thought so little of me as to even suggest that. I am worth more than that clearly. I now have an amazing husband who loves me very much. Has the road been smooth? No, not at all. But what counts is that we choose each other at the end of the day. We choose each other at the start of every day. We communicate. We respect. We care for. We dote on. We flirt. We are loyal and monogamous. We love one another, and we choose to do so each and every day. Most days it’s an unconscious decision. Other days, rougher days that we have had disagreements or hard talks. We choose to live and respect each other even then. Love isn’t easy, or for the faint of heart. It takes two people willing to be vulnerable all the time- that trust needed to be vulnerable of shattered can hurt so badly, and can be traumatizing. It’s hard to go into another relationship and try again after that kind of trust has been proven to you as capable of shattering. To give yourself the chance at love again, you have to see what they’ve done to you for what it is, understand that you do NOT deserve to be treated that way by someone you want to love on. Especially since you deserve to be loved on just as much as you love, and let them go. Don’t look for their ghost in other people. Other people are whole, and amazing, and are most certainly not your ex. Whatever happened with them I’m sure you don’t want again, don’t look for a copy of something you know isn’t gonna work. Choose a path that is new. Choose someone who chooses you. Choose them every day. Choose someone who chooses you every day. ❤️ I hope that helped! I know that esas long winded but if you need to hear more just let me know! I’m a chatty Kathy if you couldn’t tell lol!
@@zeno3511 of course! You just lemme know if you need to hear more than! Good luck! 🍀
Wow that's sounds lovely
Congrats on what ever you've got respect it ..and pls also pray for me to bcz l want some one like you've got.......
@@ekamdeep128 congrats
According to me ..you love only once in your life...Only Once ❤️
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Well, the third love in this one is the true one I guess
Yes yes same pinch, even I think love only happens once and rest other is just a illusion
Yes we love only once no again and again.
I've been through the first 2 and its surprisingly accurate. Still hurting over the 2nd, but let's see if the 3rd will be correct as well
It will be trust the process!
Same:but now I have no hopes😂🙂
Yea...my 2nd has left me hopeless abt love marriage n stuff....better to stay single bro...ull love urself
Same here
Waiting for my third one, the one it lasts forever 💜
My first love at age 13, and now I'm 16 i still love him sooo much. I wish to meet him and confess my love for him.
Look only at the dark road and Just hear the words,,,,, goosebumps will creep up on you...... 🖤🖤🖤
One day, i believe that the last type of love will enter your life for sure. Stop searching for them, just focus on your lives, your love will actually arrive on the right time
Well I have gone through all three but yet I still haven't met the one and yes the third one was quite painful
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I been through 1&2…number 3 stay THE FUCK,away from me
Umm, you good?
This is amazing....
This made me happy actually...... I loved this video....
This is really heart touching. I am in the 3rd stage of love where it just happened I never I asked for it with a person I never thought of being with. I love all his imperfections, any walls we both put between us both is broken, no matter how far we go from one another we always come back closer and we never detach, I only see marriage and a family together I always thank universe for him Right now we are in seperation in 3d worlds but always connected through soul Though he needs some time to identify the power n love of our togetherness he will soon realise it. It's all magical 😭♥🌌💫✨ Thankyou for this video I relate so much ♥
So thankful for light of the love in my heart it’s really true on third and last one ✨✨✨🦋♥️🌹🙏🌏
This shit is too accurate that, it’s beyond scary!
This video hit hard... I found this as the perfect time in my life being 26 years old.. Every word rings so true, and I can only hope I've interpreted it properly.
Cool
So spot on! There’s a lot of work (mentally and emotionally) cleaning up from the #2s…but my #3 is breaking all those walls down without even trying! 🥰🙏🏽
♥️
This was really heart warming!!!
But, if you are an ARMY, nothing works.... You fall in love 7 times equally and that's it! That's the logic!! lol!
@Park Crystal I totally agree with you💜💜 ARMY forever!!!
My first love was at age 10. That changed my attitude. Then my second love was at 13 ,he changed my life. It has been five years now and we are together. I love him so much ❤️❤️
Absolutely right ...
The second one hit too hard
My first love at age 7 still loving her,.... And I meet 2nd love at 18 it's hurt, birtay,etc...... But I'm still loving that 1st love❤️
It's so true after watching this video I was like whattt!!
How it could be so accurate now this is my 3rd one
I jus lost in her eyes ❤️
I've so far had two, and i think i'm experiencing the third...but he's strait and i'm more masc leaning genderfliud, it just feels right being around him, i find so much comfort talking to and being with him, and he just makes me want to live, i've struggled with depression for a while now, and he makes everyday just a little bit better, but i'm afraid to tell him.
I'm only eighteen. But I think I'm experiencing 3Rd one. Can it be wrong? I'm scared.
I think we go through all 3 stages in friendship too.
Damn this is so true.. I love it ❤
I've had all three and my words of advice is to enjoy and remember the good times with all of the different types
This one hit me like a bus. Story of my life...
Directioner??
Bruh i had the second one when I was only 13.
I'm on the third one and I'm only a senior in high school.
True!!
I have fallen in love 3 time. Now, my heart is like lava rock, hard and cool from outside but still hot to touch from inside.
Well it's true
I relate to it 💜
That's so damn true...
TRUE!
I'm still confused about my first one that it was love or just an attraction and that's why I never considered it as love.
Yeh exactly..
So far it's true for me.. I'm 33. Married my first serious boyfriend young, we split up for stupid reasons looking back, he was a good guy all in all.
2nd almost broke me emotionally, it became toxic, I learned a lot.
Right now I'm dating again, fairly new relationship (6months) we just click, the most open and beautiful soul I've come across... I feel so at peace around him, very natural.
So fingers crossed hes my one and only until death ❤
"You can put any wall up you want, it'll be broken down"
Me: Ayt bet.
I’ve had the first one and the second one but I haven’t had the third one yet
Yes it's true
Already experienced 1st and 2nd ..... Now lete look forward for the 3rd
The third one slip away from me it hurts but might as well accept it qt this point
I've felt each and every word of this video in my life ❣️✨
The person u should first love is yourself 💜
Shut up ,
I didn't need the second love to teach me what I want from my person and love I know what I want from beginning!
Yap that's true
Love is scary yet beautiful.
Absolutely 💯 right
This reminds me of It Ends With Us
This video is all my life till date
Great thoughts dear👌👌🖤
I' m only 13 and watching this now i have like crush types.. Let' S what happens when I grew up❤️
Ya , I find it to be very true .
I m feeling the second and third one in my first love ..
The most memorable is the first one afterwards if we think it really looks funny but it was the best one
I only fell in love once and it was the last one the caring without trying one, but good things don't last... Guess people leave when they're bored...I still cry on this day...
The third one also left me 😇😇.
I think with whom I fell in love for 2- 3 years was nothing but just an attraction,.....🙂🙂💔🙂🙂
So true💜
I have 1st fallen love in 14 n now I'm 19 but still I'm truly in love with him n will be always
Without even confessing
Damn every single line is relatable
Looks like I've just found my third love♥️
Oo okay
True
That very2 true what u said😌😌😌
My first love was when I was 13 in school and I still love him . But we've been apart for years now no contact at all but I hope we could meet again 😩. And also he always appear in my dreams even when I'm not thinking about him and while having a crush on someone else he would still come in my dreams since the day I fall for him till now he's still coming in my dreams .
i’m almost at my 3rd and i’m lost. my second is dating my bsf… and my first just got a girlfriend.
Very true
🙂 thank you for the inspiration for people..i have watched it before
@Samriti I'm sorry miss but i also don't know..i just know who is the speaker..i followed him on Instagram.
The line ,"you hide nothing from them" one is so hurting for coz I truly love her and wanna hide my past from her coz I don't wanna loose her❤️ if you r reading this m I doing good
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No u are not doing good ..u have to tell her becoz if she's luv u ,she never be left u in any situation..but if she pretend to lvvv u she will left u on any silly matter ..so don't fear ...just tell herr
Why the heck is this so accurate!!!!!
My first love:
We saw each other at the club then we both there 17. At 27 our son was born, at 29, daughter arrived. But at 30 cancer knocked at our doors and at 33 we are started a new life with a family of 3.
After two years second love arrived. At it was identical to this video 2 step.
So after 3 years of waiting i am ready for my real love!
so trueee
Thank you buddy, soo true 😢😭
I care about my 1st love like 3rd
It’s number 3 for me & he happened to be my best friend . Known him most of my life but new 15 yrs ago I fell in love . The journey has been crazy wild but wouldn’t change it . 🦋
Yeah the third one is also true.... But it doesn't mean the other person loves you back as you do.....
My case.. 😑
Yeah it's true 🙂💕
Omg it's TRUE
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My love..💖💙Delliz..
I experienced first two in same person😌
This is so true, i cannot explain how it's true but it is.
All in one ,my first love considers all these bt the fact I lost it so all gone with it
I don't know how it works.But there's this one guy and if he was single .I'd be with him in an instant.
Omg!!!! That's true
This suits me well☺️😳...i was shocked when reading this😱
This is actually true not gonna lie because I have gone/going through this as I am going through 3rd stage of love lol
Ohkk fine guys ..I'm on my third stage of love 🙌😌
Wtf! How can it be such accurate...😢
Waiting for my third one...
Dont let this fool you , when your happy you’ll know it and i hope whoever sees this an is in a position where they think there at the 1st , 2nd etc “love” recognizing that wtv is hurting now is worth fixing theres no need to go through so much pain fix what you have , u made a commitment.
Nice !
i hv just finished my phase 2..
Its true , I didn't get first love but straightly jumped to second love now as you said third love came all of a sudden.
I hope so
Honestly when I saw this video it shot me. I fell in love for the first time when I was 12 it was horrible 😂 but I learned and was scared to fell again but then. But then I meet my 2nd one and I learned a lot in that relationship. I was in that relationship for 3 years and I learned what I wanted and didn't want. And then I meet him my 3rd one, I fell in love with him so hard 💕 so much that I questioned what i was feeling, I never felt this way before it's stronger then anything I've ever felt. And he did come unexpectedly. To me he was the weird kid I sat next to in catechism when I was 12 😂❤️ I had the little crush on him but never did anything and he would come up here and there in my life but nothing too big, until this year he came in when I was working and he caught my eye and no matter how much I tried to put my walls up so I wouldn't fall I did anyways and I have been the happiest I've ever been❤️❤️