1:27 curiosity is key 2:54 an intelligent person speaks about their own opinion 5:31 emotional intelligence 8:42 read more 9:27 self control 9:39 socialize with great minds 10:28 vocabulary 10:52 listen to life
I guess the joke is on me then because I’ve been doing that (without even realizing that it’s equated to “emotional intelligence”) and I have no friends or boys fawning over me (since that’s what was highlighted within the title-beauty-and you know what they say about beauty).
They’re hard to keep up with, that’s why. They also immediately leave if done wrong or call their partners out on their bs, which most people don’t do nowadays..
They have high standards and not easily manipulated. Lots of people like to take advantage of women who are emotionally vulnerable or have low self esteem.
I’ve always been saying this. Whenever social media gets me down, I just think abt the future and why I spend time on the internet instead of getting those grades up!
same tbh i deleted tiktok for a while bc i found that i'm addicted to it and promised myself i'd download it next week to see how much my screentime and overall happiness has improved
You literally have the most beautiful soul ever 😭 you radiate so much happiness and positivity it’s really amazing I’m so glad that I discovered you! 💗 thank you for putting out this content for us I loved this
Totally agree, when people compliment your intelligence you know that they are being genuine, as it isn't a regular (and many times meaningless) compliment generally directed towards women, such as beauty related ones.
As a person who has emotional intelligence, sometimes it is really exhausting to see people's hearts that deeply, but of course, it helps to understand them more. Thanks for this inspirational video❤
1:06 when they say black don’t crack black don’t crack you look so young oh my goodness you look so good I have no idea how old you are. I thought you were in like 11th grade I was like who is this much? You are gorgeous, powerhouse, energy woman. I’m looking at right now. IT’S AN AGELESS GOT IT THAT’S WHY OH MY GOODNESS YOU ARE STUNNING. THANK YOU FOR YOU. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. Ima shut my ass up Ima listen now
@@sz8oe she really looks good for her age and I know she’s young, but I’m just saying like if she ages like that for the rest of her life she is set! I mean, I’m sure she will so like, she is set!! 🤩🤩 👏🏾👏🏾 I hope you’re having a good day, stay well and stay safe! 😁
@@gothkid1011369 Yes she absolutely will. Such a gorgeous girl, and with her beauty and brains she’s bound to reach many people. I hope you’re doing well as-well, and you’re having a great day and night 😊
You're such a kindred spirit! I love your point about the elderly, I've been saying forever that people need to realise that they think very differently from us because they've had a whole life of experience. I wanna be best friends with you so badly, you're so wise, girl!
Вы тот самый тип людей , которых я хочу видеть в своём окружение... вы та самая девушка с которой я хочу дружить , такая милая и искренняя в своих мыслях
2:53 Critical Thinking is decreasing nowadays , this right here is very important to stop acting like an NPC , and start acting like your true self and taking control of your mind. Just discovered this YT channel and I’m already fascinated by the content. Thanks ShaMya!
Might just be me, but creative hobbies make it so much easier to just sit back and observe. I'm an artist, I could be watching a movie and I notice the detail and effort in the backgrounds. Im also a writer, i write poems and I've written a few short stories for school, its easier to notice things. Such as small body language, the way humans tend to kick their legs when on a high chair and how similar people are when they do that. Connected, unapologetically human. How a person can change based on the people they are with. We are influenced easily, we are social creatures. There's such an interesting beauty to that. The beauty of being alive. Maybe im yapping too much idk but I'm passionate about this😭
also I'd like to leave a useful advice for my lovely people! put yourself into uncomfortable situations, get out of your comfort zone! it actually helps me a lot. whenever i feel uncomfortable striking a conversation, i do it right away cuz there's this little voice inside my head that's always pushing me to do things out of my comfort zone cause we live only once. embarrassed? god, it's just an illusion. at least you tried, you inspired someone to be like you and you actually did something for yourself and your future. you tried to learn something new
Thank you so much for this video💖 I feel so encouraged now to stop thinking that embarrassement is a bad thing and I hope I can start viewing it in a more positive way☺️
You are absolutely welcome! We all are humans and everyone is too worried about themselves to be worried about you! I hope you can start viewing it more positively too!🤩
I'm actually thankful for the video. I didn't expect to listen the whole thing but some of the things you sayed really opened my eye. I realised how much im limiting myself and my mindset. It's sometimes so hard to control my emotions because whenever im burst in to emotions my brain looses the controll. I now realise the importance of emotional intaligence. It probably makes the life way way more easier to live. ty ty!!!!
pressed this video and i realised im everything you mentioned in this video, I didn't know i had such intelligence. glad i found this video so i can take advantage of it. love ya girl
thank you for the video!! when I was watching your video I can’t stop thinking and associate you with a «warm, puffy cloud that I can feel» I don’t really know how to describe your personality BUT I THINK YOU’RE SO COOL🥹 wish u all the best
such a gr8t video thank youuuu ! in our society sometimes beauty seems to be such an important value, more important than intelligence... so THANK YOU for making a video about this. I really try to be the best version of me inside and outside out !
Can’t even watch your video rn but decided to watch the beginning just to see and gosh I’m already in love with your energy can’t wait to watch this later 🫶🤭
nobody understands the pain of loving academia aesthetics and behavior as an actually struggling person in school, knowing that my intelligence is already maxxed out and this is as far as i can go with all my efforts. love to see this video though, great message
Sha'Mya!! You're always so articulate and that's one of the qualities that I admire about you the most. Can you make a video about how to be more eloquent and articulate when speaking?
I have this ability in most situations and it scares me more often than not because i know that i can manipulate people into doing the required action i desire good or bad ....
I immediately subscribed to your channel once i finished the whole video,it was absolutely amazing,loved how you explained with steps and all,it was substantial.keep going gorgeous 💗!!
This was a great video.. every point was spot on… and yesss how to win friends and influence book is a great emotional intelligence book teaches you how to deal with people
It’s nice being smart, however it’s more important to be humble imo. From experience, personally I’d rather date an average girl that’s warm with humility, than a smart, pretty girl with an ego. But you seem very sweet so that shouldn’t be a problem for you 👍 When I developed and focused on self-improvement I found it hard not to have ego along with it, and began silently judging people. It took some time and more learning to get out of my own head. Though I am quite clumsy and still don’t know a lot, I found when I was younger I had a more inviting personality. This is because I was naive (ignorance is bliss imo) and focused on good vibes & fun only. I have found being the best, most authentic version of myself, while trying to have a positive effect on others and going where I’m appreciated (not tolerated), are the only 3 things I need to do. ❤
1:27 curiosity is key
2:54 an intelligent person speaks about their own opinion
5:31 emotional intelligence
8:42 read more
9:27 self control
9:39 socialize with great minds
10:28 vocabulary
10:52 listen to life
127???? PUKA PUKA POW
What??@@LayanShouman-vq4ph
127?!?!? STICKER TAGGING TAGGING TAGGING TAGGING
*flute noises* WHAT'S THE FIRST TIMESTAMP???? 🗣️🗣️🗣️
I’ve been trying to just shut up and observe more🖤
SAMEEEEE UGGGGHH 💀♥️
BUT ITS SO HARD TO SHUT UP WHEN YOU’RE A TALKATIVE PERSON 😭
@@_snow_- you don’t have to stop talking overall just stop sharing personal stuff
I guess the joke is on me then because I’ve been doing that (without even realizing that it’s equated to “emotional intelligence”) and I have no friends or boys fawning over me (since that’s what was highlighted within the title-beauty-and you know what they say about beauty).
@@Daeja_ yeahh
"The only true wisdom is in knowing that you know nothing" -Socrates
ABSOLUTELY.
It's weird that women who are very pretty and very smart can have the hardest time finding a partner. They're gems.
I can see beautiful and intelligent woman being intimidating
They’re hard to keep up with, that’s why. They also immediately leave if done wrong or call their partners out on their bs, which most people don’t do nowadays..
It’s becuase also they’re highly selective and don’t settle for anything less than themselves
They have high standards and not easily manipulated. Lots of people like to take advantage of women who are emotionally vulnerable or have low self esteem.
It’s not men just aren’t capable anymore
You’re just 19 and you’re on this path? Well done Girl! Keep it up, you’re on the right path - Remember to always stay yourself
Thank you, so much for your beautiful words! I 100% will 😊💖💌
I was going to comment the same thing. This is key, young lady and NEVER settle when I comes to the partner you deserve.
i've seen a phrase 'no beauty without intelligence' and it's stuck in my mind rn
I absolutely love that.🌸
“Embarrassment isn’t real, eww. what is embarrassment” 😭
i cant get over how insanely gorgeous she is
same ❤❤
That’s what I’m saying
I was thinking the exact same
isn't that the opposite of her point in the video?
@@semmywap2916it's not. it doesn't exclude her being intelligent and beautiful at the same time. her exterior, interior and brain are gorgeous.
I’ve always been saying this. Whenever social media gets me down, I just think abt the future and why I spend time on the internet instead of getting those grades up!
same tbh i deleted tiktok for a while bc i found that i'm addicted to it and promised myself i'd download it next week to see how much my screentime and overall happiness has improved
You literally have the most beautiful soul ever 😭 you radiate so much happiness and positivity it’s really amazing I’m so glad that I discovered you! 💗 thank you for putting out this content for us I loved this
God loves you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! go to Jesus and he can give you mercy joy and peace and so much love!
Thank you, for your beautiful words!!!TRULY🥹 I just know you have a beautiful soul, much love!
FINALLY my girl is getting the views on this channel she deserves
ADOREE YOUU!!🤧🥺🥺🥺
Totally agree, when people compliment your intelligence you know that they are being genuine, as it isn't a regular (and many times meaningless) compliment generally directed towards women, such as beauty related ones.
you're so pretty, smart and charismatic. i've just knew you and i already love you
As a person who has emotional intelligence, sometimes it is really exhausting to see people's hearts that deeply, but of course, it helps to understand them more. Thanks for this inspirational video❤
I really like that message at the end, I be forgetting to just reflect and learn from my own damn life😭😭
1:06 when they say black don’t crack black don’t crack you look so young oh my goodness you look so good I have no idea how old you are. I thought you were in like 11th grade I was like who is this much? You are gorgeous, powerhouse, energy woman. I’m looking at right now.
IT’S AN AGELESS GOT IT THAT’S WHY OH MY GOODNESS
YOU ARE STUNNING. THANK YOU FOR YOU. THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. Ima shut my ass up Ima listen now
She’s 19, but it’s insane how young she looks. I thought she was a freshman in high school. I know how crazy that sounds.
@@sz8oe she really looks good for her age and I know she’s young, but I’m just saying like if she ages like that for the rest of her life she is set! I mean, I’m sure she will so like, she is set!! 🤩🤩 👏🏾👏🏾
I hope you’re having a good day, stay well and stay safe! 😁
@@gothkid1011369 Yes she absolutely will. Such a gorgeous girl, and with her beauty and brains she’s bound to reach many people.
I hope you’re doing well as-well, and you’re having a great day and night 😊
So real for having beth harmon in the thumbnail
CLICKED FOR BETH HARMON
STAYED CAUSE OF YOU
STOP I ADORE YOU!🥹 And I absolutely LOVE Beth Harmon, she’s so powerful.
@@shamyalewis ikr
You're such a kindred spirit! I love your point about the elderly, I've been saying forever that people need to realise that they think very differently from us because they've had a whole life of experience. I wanna be best friends with you so badly, you're so wise, girl!
Very good to hear this from a woman of your tender age. If only all girls of your age were this sharp.
GIRL YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL MIND SOUL AND BODY WOW
AWWW I ADORE YOU, thank youuuu!🥺❤️
I am 36 years old and your video was my something new for today ❤❤
I really loved how you delivered this message as well ❤❤
Thank you ☺️
Вы тот самый тип людей , которых я хочу видеть в своём окружение... вы та самая девушка с которой я хочу дружить , такая милая и искренняя в своих мыслях
2:53 Critical Thinking is decreasing nowadays , this right here is very important to stop acting like an NPC , and start acting like your true self and taking control of your mind.
Just discovered this YT channel and I’m already fascinated by the content. Thanks ShaMya!
Might just be me, but creative hobbies make it so much easier to just sit back and observe. I'm an artist, I could be watching a movie and I notice the detail and effort in the backgrounds. Im also a writer, i write poems and I've written a few short stories for school, its easier to notice things. Such as small body language, the way humans tend to kick their legs when on a high chair and how similar people are when they do that. Connected, unapologetically human. How a person can change based on the people they are with. We are influenced easily, we are social creatures. There's such an interesting beauty to that. The beauty of being alive.
Maybe im yapping too much idk but I'm passionate about this😭
GIRL YOU'RE SO PRETTY!!!!!!!
TYSM LOVELY 🌸🤩
Girl god bless you for the amazing video
also I'd like to leave a useful advice for my lovely people! put yourself into uncomfortable situations, get out of your comfort zone! it actually helps me a lot. whenever i feel uncomfortable striking a conversation, i do it right away cuz there's this little voice inside my head that's always pushing me to do things out of my comfort zone cause we live only once. embarrassed? god, it's just an illusion. at least you tried, you inspired someone to be like you and you actually did something for yourself and your future. you tried to learn something new
girl you’re pretty and smart
Thank you, so much sweetheart 💌
Thank you so much for this video💖 I feel so encouraged now to stop thinking that embarrassement is a bad thing and I hope I can start viewing it in a
more positive way☺️
God loves you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! go to Jesus and he can give you mercy joy and peace and so much love!
You are absolutely welcome! We all are humans and everyone is too worried about themselves to be worried about you! I hope you can start viewing it more positively too!🤩
i love her energy i keep smiling when i watch this video ❤️❤️
Pretty gets you the attention but it's your brain that keeps it. 🥂
This is my first time watching you and for some reason my intuition tells me that you're gonna teach me great things!!
Just subscribed!
YAY! welcomeeee, I absolutely love when people follow their intuition! I’m glad we can grow together 😊
You're my inspiration girl thank you for sharing 🧡
Thank you girl
🥰🥰🥰🥰 absolutely!
Such a sweet soul💛💛 love love love you.
thank you for this video!! also, you've stunning! really you're one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen💞
i love the way you explain things, thank you for creating content
Always think before you speak lol
gurl i loved this video so much, and ur energy it's so beautiful, thanks for this, this video came to me for a big reason, thank u queen
I'm actually thankful for the video. I didn't expect to listen the whole thing but some of the things you sayed really opened my eye. I realised how much im limiting myself and my mindset. It's sometimes so hard to control my emotions because whenever im burst in to emotions my brain looses the controll. I now realise the importance of emotional intaligence. It probably makes the life way way more easier to live. ty ty!!!!
You’re very inspiring, I’m happy i came across your video 🖤
You have a very contagious vibe and you're very attractive
omggggg u are SO cute xxxx i learnt smth from this video !! thank uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu xxx
pressed this video and i realised im everything you mentioned in this video, I didn't know i had such intelligence. glad i found this video so i can take advantage of it. love ya girl
i relate with being interested in humans
Can u make a vid abt confidence and charisma
I feel like there's already many videos on the platform with great advices
Heavy on charisma
Ur so cute and vibrant ❤❤
Thank you, sweeet pea!🌸
Sha'mya is such a pretty name for a pretty lady❤
Self control, clarity mind, positive toughts.
our names are pronounced the same. literally never met anyone with a similar name. but loved the video!
your hair is so pretty 🥺
It is even better when they play themselves.
You reap what you sow.
You’re are very beautiful. And I appreciate this advice. I’m tryna to be more intentional and intelligent in the way I act this year
Yesss! Definitely a 2024 goal! 🧚🏾 and thank you so much!!😊
great video , the best way ive found to improve vocab is through reading books i wouldnt normally read
you are so gorgeous and smart, i wanna become like you! you inspired me so much
I love beautiful and intelligent women🌹🌹❤️
Woah so I’ve been emotionally intelligent all this time ?? am truly impressed !
thank you for the video!! when I was watching your video I can’t stop thinking and associate you with a «warm, puffy cloud that I can feel» I don’t really know how to describe your personality BUT I THINK YOU’RE SO COOL🥹 wish u all the best
girl I love u thank you for this advices! all the girlies here that are watching this remember, you are beautiful!!
Well done
Very much that last part ☝🏽
Thank you so much for this video! 💞💋❤️🔥
love youuuuuu girllll
such a gr8t video thank youuuu ! in our society sometimes beauty seems to be such an important value, more important than intelligence... so THANK YOU for making a video about this. I really try to be the best version of me inside and outside out !
Our curiosity to education should not be limited.Once you learn to readjustment your learning frame. You begin understand a tad bit more.
Thank you for showing up. Know that you are wiser than you think :)
Girl you're so gorgeous. But also i love your energy♡ you really calm & comfort me with your videos
Girl you're hitting 🔥 I want more of this kind of videos, please ❤️
Thank you ! ❤😊
You're so soft spoken omg
I went through something today that really makes me want to change for the better. So this video came at the right time, thank you ❤
Can’t even watch your video rn but decided to watch the beginning just to see and gosh I’m already in love with your energy can’t wait to watch this later 🫶🤭
Glad this came into my algorithm:)))
Your voice is so cuteee🩷
Pls can u talk about how to heal from trauma and what trauma means.thanks for the videos 💕
Honestly, therapy if you can. It helped me so much
I love the fact you're so genuine and intelligent
nobody understands the pain of loving academia aesthetics and behavior as an actually struggling person in school, knowing that my intelligence is already maxxed out and this is as far as i can go with all my efforts. love to see this video though, great message
I think I’ve found my favorite channel
🥺💖💖💖
Sha'Mya!! You're always so articulate and that's one of the qualities that I admire about you the most. Can you make a video about how to be more eloquent and articulate when speaking?
You’re beautiful and have a bright personality!
I love this! love your vibe!
Girl idk wtf I was doing before discovering your chanel. Literally a masterpiece love ya and your vibe is so damn gorgeous!❤
this was so amazing to watch, from the video edit to the wise words you said. everything was great 1000/10 👏🏼👏🏼
I love the idea of expansion of personal interests. Great video
Honestly I needed this and I’m just gonna follow from just this❤
Let's Go 🎉🎉🎉 Love this❤
Very informative! thx!
Thank you so much for this video ❤️
I needed it 🥹
You are a smart and pretty girl 🫶
Just subscribed!
I have this ability in most situations and it scares me more often than not because i know that i can manipulate people into doing the required action i desire good or bad ....
i literally could not focus because you are so pretty 😍
Thanks you I was focused too much on my looks but emotional intelligence matters most
TRUE ❤️
I immediately subscribed to your channel once i finished the whole video,it was absolutely amazing,loved how you explained with steps and all,it was substantial.keep going gorgeous 💗!!
First time watching you yet seeing a queen ❤❤
💜💜💜💜
U're so pretty and soft spoken
❤❤❤❤
This was a great video.. every point was spot on… and yesss how to win friends and influence book is a great emotional intelligence book teaches you how to deal with people
Thank you, I'll keep these in mind
It’s nice being smart, however it’s more important to be humble imo. From experience, personally I’d rather date an average girl that’s warm with humility, than a smart, pretty girl with an ego. But you seem very sweet so that shouldn’t be a problem for you 👍 When I developed and focused on self-improvement I found it hard not to have ego along with it, and began silently judging people. It took some time and more learning to get out of my own head. Though I am quite clumsy and still don’t know a lot, I found when I was younger I had a more inviting personality. This is because I was naive (ignorance is bliss imo) and focused on good vibes & fun only. I have found being the best, most authentic version of myself, while trying to have a positive effect on others and going where I’m appreciated (not tolerated), are the only 3 things I need to do. ❤